Exploring the Demiflux Label | Identity Talk
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- Hello! Let's talk about a new label I've been looking at called "demiflux". Does it even fit me? We'll find out after some introspection.
Question: Does any part of your gender fluctuate? Tell me what that's like!
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You are speaking from my heart. I feel the same and it's so confusing and I just want to be happy with myself and not always feel so uncomfortable with my expression and gender.
And you deserve to have that! I hope you find it someday.
@@StormyTalks thank you 🌸
Any time at all!
Idk if I’m demifluid or demiflux now!
Like my static gender is male and is like 80% male and like 20% genderfaunet or boyflux but idk
It can be a real pain trying to pin down a label that fits for sure!
@@StormyTalks true but thanks ur vids always help
I'm glad!
Easiest way to describe demiflux is that it’s like margarine. Like it’s technically a liquid, but it’s very solid.
I believe glass is the better way. Margerine when cooled is always solid. Glass when cooled will act like a liquid on a very tiny scale.
@@StormyTalks yeah but you can’t make a meme saying “I can’t believe it’s not gender” if you use glass
So true!
.O. first and good content and good to see your back
Thank you! I should be back on track for the next couple of months now!
I feel that I mostly identifiy as female when it comes to my static and "main" gender if you will but I'm not sure if thats just because that's how I feel/want/like it to be or if its because I'm constrained and stuck in my birth sex and/or gender I was asigned at birth. I often feel less feminine than some of my queer peers who identify as female I don't want to be/present more feminine than I am majoirty of the time but I often drift towards a more adrogonous or masculine presintation/adittude. I don't nessasarily like the idea of being male physicaly or pronoun wise per say but it's hard to explore/experiment physically because of my envirorment and situation which doesn't allow me to express myself in the way I would like when it comes to presenting/dressing more male or adrogonous, pronoun wise I have never felt super happy or comfortable with he/him pronouns, but I do like masculine terms like handsome, sir, ect. I also had and still do have alot of body issues expecally growing up surronding both not being pretty, feminine, skinny, "thicc" (aka haveing a good sized butt/thighs/breasts), or haveing nice/pretty hair (I'm Afro/Caribbean and White mixed but I lived in a majority White town/school so my hair wasn't normal and I couldn't do what the other girls could nor had I figured out how to do my hair in a way that worked for me), ect. so for a very long time I struggled and worked to "fix" those things and closer fit into societal beauty standards which 1 was super toxic and took me a long time to get over and undo the damage 2 really has made it hard for me to try and experiment with being/presenting non-feminine. None the less I do feel genderless(agender), adrogonous, non-bianary, gender noncomforming, masculine at times to varying degree so I'm sure that I'm not just female. I'm not sure exsactly what I am but I have been going with eaither demi-gender as an umbrella term or demi-flux as a specific term, and defineing it as haveing one "main" or static gender and one or more other genders who's "percentage" of how much I am or am presenting fluxuates and doesn't have a set amount or a schedule
I really like this! Thank you for sharing so much of your story. Gender can be pretty complex for us.
welcome back
Thanks so much! I'm happy to be uploading again. 😊
Maybe check out Demiboyflux
or Huliboyflux, from what I can tell they might be contenders for that label
I'll be sure to check that out, thank you!
I think in demiflux!
Oh cool! I thought I might be demiflux myself, but it turns out that I'm actually bigender. Congrats on finding a label that fits you though!
@@StormyTalks Same, I’ve been researching and I’m Bigender too!
Nice!