Ram Dass - Here and Now - Ep. 78 - Awakening and Relationships

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    When you begin to awaken, you are not coming from such a needy place when you enter into a relationship, not looking to “lock in” so quickly. Your need is still there as a human incarnation - but you are not so identified with that need and because you are already resting in a place of love, and you can experience the sharing of love and oneness without fear.
    You don’t need a person to get into that space, you are already in it.
    “People look for another kind of relationship. They look for a relationship in which they can experience their soul. Where they can experience even beyond that, where they can experience what they call love.”
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 93

  • @davebarner4498
    @davebarner4498 3 роки тому +182

    Ram starts at 11:50

  • @kirilstepanenko2423
    @kirilstepanenko2423 3 роки тому +104

    Listening to this 10th time, still learned something new ☺️

    • @graciousrecovery
      @graciousrecovery 3 роки тому +3

      Wow me too it’s in my repeat list.

    • @stephenburdess2914
      @stephenburdess2914 2 роки тому

      Thats how it seems to be with all these.
      Do you also listen to the allan watts chillstep? Or the philosophers mixtapes?

    • @JenniferJohnson-jt8eb
      @JenniferJohnson-jt8eb 2 роки тому

      I love it when that happens👍🥰

    • @xavier.2002
      @xavier.2002 Рік тому

      Haha. Thats how it goes

    • @Infinite-YT
      @Infinite-YT Рік тому

      Swear that’s how it be yo

  • @Bellitab
    @Bellitab Рік тому +4

    I have this picture framed above my bed... That's it for my husband for Christmas. Feel like it means I meant to listen to this...

  • @dnbjedi
    @dnbjedi 3 роки тому +87

    Relationship yoga is the only way for me. Empathy is my vehicle.
    Loving her was part of loving every thing. And I refused to let our incompatibilities ruin the empathy we showed each other in a time of loneliness in our younger selves. ... I don’t know if that is relationship yoga, but I’m trying to get us both there-- I’m just trying to get us all there really. To a place of unconditional love.

    • @GiantTRS
      @GiantTRS 3 роки тому +5

      I'm in the same situation as you, and I must admit that I wouldn't be the same person today if I hadn't tried to help him throughout the years. It's been hard, it still is, but I don't regret a thing

    • @paulademichele1313
      @paulademichele1313 3 роки тому +19

      I just came upon this post on New Year's Day. Two thoughts occurred to me. First, that what you are describing is compassion. I learned from the Dalai Lama's thinking that empathy and compassion are two different things. Empathy leads us to "vibrate" with another being's feelings. It does not automatically lead to action. Compassion must lead to action. Empathy may be an aspect of the path to compassionate action. Or not, since it can keep a person trapped in "feeling" energies that are stuck in enabling futile behavior. It takes constant emotional and spiritual discernment to keep the difference clear.
      Second, the relationship you're describing depends on both people being willing to stay - to work at giving up the power struggle, even if on differing levels of awareness. It's possible - even likely - that the other will not stay, will simply run away to avoid this work, to avoid the inevitable pain of unfreezing one's ego. This has been the case in my experience. When this happens, we must let that person go on into whatever his/her life path is and get on with our own.
      Love may have been "awakened through love itself" in the other - but that other has the freedom to flee true love, whether from another human being or from God. In my view, we live in a culture that flees both, one that prefers to live in control.

    • @moonpainter
      @moonpainter 3 роки тому +2

      Bless you for staying in it. Not everyone does.

    • @909mix
      @909mix 2 роки тому +3

      @@paulademichele1313 That is beautiful. Thank you Paula.

    • @GoharTahir
      @GoharTahir 2 роки тому

      thank

  • @DylanHousego
    @DylanHousego Рік тому +1

    Happy Valentine’s Day Ram Das. ❤

  • @voidmoon.
    @voidmoon. 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you so much Ram Das.. I love you so much..You are always in my heart.. forever... Ram Ram 🙏

    • @graciousrecovery
      @graciousrecovery 3 роки тому +3

      Me too I love him so much. I trust his Soul can rejoice in our Love ❤️ and Feel it now 🥰

    • @chriswalth
      @chriswalth Рік тому

      Reading your comment in the moment he says, “when love comes out of love, whole different ball game“ ;)

  • @micahbintz2796
    @micahbintz2796 2 роки тому +15

    Dass starts at 11:50

  • @donaldreid4193
    @donaldreid4193 Рік тому +3

    Glad your opening up from this but don’t let it become an attachment or it will have the opposite effect

  • @Virgolove
    @Virgolove Рік тому +2

    I think they are easy with the right people. I think when we force something to work for selfish reasons, ego...is when it causes chaos

  • @karentonks7581
    @karentonks7581 3 роки тому +13

    Love listening to Ram dass

    • @diamonddave16
      @diamonddave16 Рік тому

      Definitely. Provides some clarity

    • @diamonddave16
      @diamonddave16 Рік тому +1

      “True love is irresistible & unconquerable…” 😊

  • @racheller8753
    @racheller8753 3 роки тому +9

    Love him💫🧘‍♀️✌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏽✨💜

  • @Dr.Jekyll_
    @Dr.Jekyll_ 2 роки тому +8

    this is the 5th time i listen to this and I finally understand what he's teaching with that boat story. WOW 💖

  • @amandathompson7597
    @amandathompson7597 3 роки тому +5

    Yes baba 💕keep working on the self.practise.love you💕🙏

  • @inspiringmedia3716
    @inspiringmedia3716 2 роки тому +3

    Relationships are the hardest part I think.

  • @kevinmai2947
    @kevinmai2947 Рік тому +1

    27:00 relationship
    29:54 Union
    31:50 doesn’t matter the form
    32:40 awake in relationship
    37:35 loving unconditionally if vulnerable. One loving itself
    38:45 bigger than the roles, games of love reproduction
    42:50 fear in love cuz forms change
    44:10 love when needless
    46:00 sweet love, the possession game, love without need so hard
    49:04 actions from ego vs resting in being
    Relationship of yoga is so hard
    50:18 relationship of 2 wholeness

  • @nln7ylm663
    @nln7ylm663 Рік тому

    Lovely talk/listening❤️ kindly share more talk on Love, relationship, compassion. thank you🙏🌹

  • @taniaargiri5578
    @taniaargiri5578 Рік тому

    Thank you🙏

  • @cmgordon12345
    @cmgordon12345 2 роки тому +1

    The boat hit hard today. I guess some days you are ready to hear something.

  • @coachmystik
    @coachmystik 2 роки тому +4

    Just listened to this and it's so relevant it about brought me to tears. I love you all

  • @eyeseewho77
    @eyeseewho77 Рік тому

    This is so good

  • @jondoe4898
    @jondoe4898 3 роки тому +8

    The Karma has to be balanced leaving the subtle body to account for action/karma. You shall not get out until the last cent is paid. Take a path that burns the seeds of Samskara yet to materialize. After all we are gods experiencing the self individually from one.

  • @marcosluna7792
    @marcosluna7792 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you Raghu 🙏

  • @protodhamma
    @protodhamma 2 роки тому +2

    40:48 hooked on the method

  • @billbrown748
    @billbrown748 2 роки тому

    🙏

  • @infinitedivine8268
    @infinitedivine8268 3 роки тому +1

    💎💎💎

  • @boiledham
    @boiledham 2 роки тому +3

    11:42 Introduction

  • @joycerampersad8349
    @joycerampersad8349 3 роки тому

    I can,t wait

  • @samirjhaveri3719
    @samirjhaveri3719 3 роки тому

    Super

  • @jordany3083
    @jordany3083 2 роки тому +6

    I feel like this wasn't the complete conversation, he just begins to talk about monogamy and the video ends. Does anyone know if there is more to this conversation?

  • @guyrelax
    @guyrelax 3 місяці тому

    Please give credit to Alex Grey for the painting

  • @Kh3rtis
    @Kh3rtis 2 роки тому +1

    How do we bring together separation of the self and of the material, and unconditional love?

  • @baptm727
    @baptm727 3 роки тому +5

    I just found it! Ah nevermind it's gone.

  • @LexiGurl111
    @LexiGurl111 Рік тому

    Is there a transcript for this?

  • @chrisinderkum9475
    @chrisinderkum9475 Рік тому

    @25:57 Ram says the Buddha described his last 32 thoughts before he went into the space between two thoughts. Does anyone know where to find this?

  • @chloeforfitt6408
    @chloeforfitt6408 3 роки тому +4

    Could anyone tell me the name of the Alex Gray painting above?

    • @jgmpapa
      @jgmpapa 3 роки тому +5

      Ocean of Love Bliss

  • @macandrewes
    @macandrewes 7 місяців тому +1

    Relationship yoga can be hell on earth. I know. Believe me I know. Never gotten it right and I have paid and paid and paid for almost 40 years. Now I'm worn out, exhausted. Now all I wanna do is be alone with my dog forever.

    • @Huxtee7
      @Huxtee7 Місяць тому

      1 is unity 2 is always a problem.

  • @bradleyerlandson9332
    @bradleyerlandson9332 3 роки тому +1

    Ram dass passed away

    • @terrycurtis9757
      @terrycurtis9757 3 роки тому +10

      Yep. In his physical body but for sure-- he is so available on the more liminal realm!! Oh boy-- he is still here! Very close in meditation

  • @danalexander186
    @danalexander186 9 місяців тому

    So, if one is fully awake, when do you get people to pay attention so we can fix the planetary issues? If I could speak to someone for your network, a lot of people would be helped. I offer freely from my heart as a messenger of God.
    Blessings. 🙏

  • @kimsylvia5341
    @kimsylvia5341 2 роки тому +1

    i dont want that! a fine line between love n hate! Id rather not a have a partner then

    • @abel7741
      @abel7741 2 роки тому

      One is needed for the other. So they are they same, and these two energies/forces make up your being and all beings. So get with it baby or fight it. You’re still enacting them both out until u get the balance on that fine line just right.

    • @rahmasamir909
      @rahmasamir909 2 роки тому

      Better not relations Spécialy romantic ones is only ego

  • @conormacginnis9031
    @conormacginnis9031 3 роки тому

    34:25

  • @KA-cz1ni
    @KA-cz1ni 2 роки тому +1

    Your opinion is too long

  • @johnterry6541
    @johnterry6541 2 роки тому +1

    May be I am missing the point but I wish he would stay in one place and not talk about 50 different things. Makes it very hard to understand his message.

    • @Itspupiris
      @Itspupiris 2 роки тому +5

      He’s conveying the same message in many different ways.

  • @rahmasamir909
    @rahmasamir909 2 роки тому +1

    I decide to stay far away from romantic relationships its just pure ego

    • @christinaforras
      @christinaforras 9 місяців тому

      One could say that so is the relationship with spirituality

  • @G4H75
    @G4H75 8 місяців тому

    I am free come an join me