Left My Wife & 4 Kids & Headed To Pattaya & Fell In Love With A Soi 6 Bar Girl 😳🇹🇭

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  • Left My Wife & 4 Kids & Headed To Pattaya & Fell In Love With A Soi 6 Bar Girl. Epic True Thailand Story 🙈🇹🇭
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  • @thaitalkwithdan
    @thaitalkwithdan  Рік тому +19

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    • @lonelytravelerproductions
      @lonelytravelerproductions Рік тому

      Not good you not respect for thai people you live in Thailand I think not

    • @mpowers6653
      @mpowers6653 Рік тому +1

      Boyd! Why man can’t be trusted! His wife did everything for her family and renegade Husband. playing, around not faithful indulge his lust his wife still tried to played her role “ Till death do their part”. Not all these women are seriously marriage oriented , but what in his pocket book?

    • @openranks4519
      @openranks4519 29 днів тому

      Typical take of a beta male😂🤡

  • @obinoovey
    @obinoovey Рік тому +156

    this should be compulsory listening for every British, Irish, Scottish, any retiree, veteran, pensioner, married, single man alive, before traveling Thailand.
    Bless u Dan, for the humanitarian service u're doing.

    • @senianns9522
      @senianns9522 Рік тому +10

      'Sin Sod' in Thai means 'dowry ' the Sod refers to Fresh example: Cafe Sod = fresh coffee ! So when the 1 year old baby showed up I guess 'sod' wasn't really an option? The fool. A lifetime of paying for her kid whilst the paternal father 'lurks' in the background'! Popping into to 'take care' of the girl when the Farang is missing???

    • @charlesreid9337
      @charlesreid9337 Рік тому +1

      they travel their as sex tourists. They go to buy young women. most of them deserve far worse than they get

    • @markfromct2
      @markfromct2 Рік тому +2

      This should be compulsory listening to ANY MAN who lets his knob (or heart) do more thinking than his brain

    • @Ybcler
      @Ybcler Рік тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @billymeyer9536
      @billymeyer9536 11 місяців тому +2

      ... and in german language please: for swiss, german, Austria

  • @soup-nazi6824
    @soup-nazi6824 Рік тому +146

    This guy tries to sound innocent but why would a married guy go for a holiday with his mates in the biggest red light district in the world??😅😂

    • @Nothingbutahoundog
      @Nothingbutahoundog Рік тому +12

      Man no way would i ever be able to convince my wife to such a trip man his wife is a saint 😅

    • @alexperkins8433
      @alexperkins8433 11 місяців тому +3

      @@Nothingbutahoundog so naiive.....or mayb she wanted him to split

    • @zeb33369
      @zeb33369 11 місяців тому +1

      Lol, thats what i was wo pndering, she prolly knew what hed do, given half a chance 😂​@alexperkins8433

    • @CryptoKernels
      @CryptoKernels 11 місяців тому

      Maybe he is in a sexless marriage? Many men are.

    • @prestonwheeler959
      @prestonwheeler959 10 місяців тому

      Go and find out

  • @Phucket24
    @Phucket24 Рік тому +208

    Dan after listening to that story I believe some men should never have a passport for their own safety

    • @patrickmunneke8348
      @patrickmunneke8348 Рік тому

      ​@user-vj6pw9my8x Who would want them? They make horrible wives.

    • @reggie3819
      @reggie3819 10 місяців тому

      @user-vj6pw9my8x lol

    • @johntooth9294
      @johntooth9294 10 місяців тому +1

      I can't stop watching this channel...I can't believe the trouble these guys are getting in to..All lead by there Little Head..I have been to Philippines a few times different areas..Had met a couple of girls..Didn't like where it was heading, just walked away ..Married a Lady from another Island ..All good..

    • @Motormikey
      @Motormikey 8 місяців тому

      😂

    • @SamaSama-o2i
      @SamaSama-o2i 2 місяці тому +1

      Facts

  • @ergwer45624
    @ergwer45624 Рік тому +62

    as much as i usually give women sh*t this was not okay, you made an oath you have 4 kids and your wife is cool and understanding... you should absolutely respect her no matter what

    • @ihanakaunotar2741
      @ihanakaunotar2741 10 місяців тому

      I wonder if he would okay if his wife had done the same?

  • @robert5726
    @robert5726 Рік тому +95

    Still married and still ventures to Pattaya, but he won't make promises to a bar girl again, that's his improved moral code?

    • @Joker-2357
      @Joker-2357 Рік тому +9

      Yes , what u were thinking?

    • @rebeccadelbridge2998
      @rebeccadelbridge2998 Рік тому +4

      Right?

    • @russiandrivers9986
      @russiandrivers9986 9 місяців тому

      Well, it's an improvement. At least he's not contemplating ruining his wife and children's lives along with his own

    • @jarrodwilson2382
      @jarrodwilson2382 7 місяців тому +1

      😂he be back Dan will have another story

  • @allangreenley9901
    @allangreenley9901 Рік тому +91

    One of the best true to life stories I've ever heard Dan.. Really everyone should listen to this, thinking about dating a thai girl and getting in too deep.. this is how it goes in real time .

    • @thaitalkwithdan
      @thaitalkwithdan  Рік тому +11

      That's what I thought Allan, very detailed and very true to life on what goes on here if you get mixed up with a pretty young Thai bar girl

    • @allangreenley9901
      @allangreenley9901 Рік тому +8

      @@thaitalkwithdan Definitely a story of truth.. This story should be taken seriously because it's going to happen to another guy I'm sure.. Dan thanks for posting this story. It's a dire warning to those wanting a relationship with a young Thai bar girl .. Money and money lol 😂

    • @karimfarangfromthejungle6027
      @karimfarangfromthejungle6027 Рік тому +8

      @@allangreenley9901 I’ve got the T shirt 😂😅

    • @allangreenley9901
      @allangreenley9901 Рік тому +7

      @@karimfarangfromthejungle6027 good for you if u got the teeshirt. Nice to hear someone else did lol

    • @smileoften-ft3hq
      @smileoften-ft3hq Рік тому +5

      ​@@thaitalkwithdan i thought more a story of a man whom did not know what he wanted and disrespect for others. Im in no position to judge the bar girl at that specific moment in time.

  • @RayStatham
    @RayStatham Рік тому +129

    Just wow, this should be compulsory viewing on all flights into Thailand.

  • @JeddieT
    @JeddieT Рік тому +50

    _”Blinded by love”_ has never been darker. This dude need not worry… As soon as his money ran out, she would have run out. And believe it or not, he got off cheap compared to some stories I’ve heard.

  • @hanstan4894
    @hanstan4894 Рік тому +74

    In Issan, if you spotted a big house and posh 4X4 car in the village, its 110% sure the family have beautiful daughters working in Bangkok, Pattaya or Phuket where every month dozens of 'funds', 'Pocket Money', 'Monthly Expenses' will be donating from brainless 'Farang Boyfriend/Fiance/Husband' all over the world. Welcome To Thailand...😝

    • @elizabethsamson5591
      @elizabethsamson5591 11 місяців тому +3

      My friend's son is married to a Thai women, she is older than him. She sends money to her family every month. He will never have children and never have enough money to buy a house. It happens in the Uk as well , it is a shame as he is a nce man.

    • @frankosmith6718
      @frankosmith6718 4 місяці тому

      The land of smiles, open legs, and gives yer money you ediot, open hands? 😅

  • @Lic51
    @Lic51 Рік тому +106

    😂 How can a 49 year old man meet a 18 year old and think is "true love" from her end... broooooo

    • @carterbroadway39
      @carterbroadway39 Рік тому +1

      In a sane world, an 18 year old girl CANT fall in love with an 18 year boy who can't support her or pay for a family or child. Love is best with a much older, financially stable man. The whole world knows this obvious truth....except feminists. Feminists don't care about anyone or anything but their own twisted cause.

    • @Joe-og8um
      @Joe-og8um Рік тому +20

      Never underestimate the male ego.

    • @difencrosby
      @difencrosby Рік тому +7

      Happened to me in Laos, but I already know what she was thinking. So I had my fun for a few months then gave her some money ($400) to leave me alone.

    • @jarrodwilson2382
      @jarrodwilson2382 7 місяців тому

      😂give they guy a break 😂

  • @АртурЯкубенко-ъ8е
    @АртурЯкубенко-ъ8е Рік тому +107

    This whole story hurts hearing 😅 Why would someone put himself through all this madness and leave wife and 4 young kids before over a whore 😢

    • @PaulineXCX
      @PaulineXCX Рік тому +22

      Yup quite sick tbh ….. poor kids

    • @naomi5358
      @naomi5358 11 місяців тому +2

      Passport Bros. 🤷‍♀

    • @warrentuckwell2032
      @warrentuckwell2032 11 місяців тому

      Why would a married man be leaving a wife and four kids at home while he holidays in Thailand SCUBBAG

    • @chrisgreen2786
      @chrisgreen2786 9 місяців тому +3

      I tend to think i've had my time in the sun and now I just want to make sure my kids can have a good start in life and i'd never put myself before them, it's wrong on so many levels. I used to see these street kids in the Philippines with European features, like Italian or German. They may have fathers who don't even know they exist which is so sad. Imagine your son or daughter out there in the night all dirty and begging. No way to ever meet papa. It was heartbreaking.

  • @davidcraig4203
    @davidcraig4203 Рік тому +131

    If this was me, I would be too embarrassed to admit what a swine I was

  • @minihane88
    @minihane88 Рік тому +38

    47 year old Irishman in Pattaya. Gets drunk. Marries beautiful 18 year old working girl. Crazy story! Surely this has never happened to anyone else in Thailand 😐

  • @theguynextdoor4978
    @theguynextdoor4978 Рік тому +92

    He hadn't even cleaned up his situation at home before proposing. In this day and age, a woman like her has to EARN the ring. She earns it by being genuine. Also, I would never even go down the path of a legal wedding. Some of these men need to get their heads out of their asses.

    • @thaitalkwithdan
      @thaitalkwithdan  Рік тому +9

      Yeah forget about anything legal here 🙈 you can walk away from a village wedding but try and dodge the sinsod 😅

    • @dmitriikurilov3662
      @dmitriikurilov3662 Рік тому +10

      @@thaitalkwithdan Sin Sod in a traditional Thai culture meant that I basically purchase a wife and she is mine for a life time, the same as a cow or a horse.
      It makes no sense now that a woman is free to leave any moment.
      Just imagine that you buy a car and your dealer has a right to claw it back any moment they want it 😉.
      So, I would be extremely negative towards paying Sin Sod in more then a symbolic amount (like 10 000 baht).
      If they want a big dowry they need to travel back in time into Medieval era when a bride was given to a groom for a life time.

    • @RickTheBoss98
      @RickTheBoss98 Рік тому +3

      @@thaitalkwithdan I know a guy that visited his friend in a rural part of Thailand he ended up marrying a local women judging by her pictures age 19 to 21 when he was about 45 after a wedding ceremony and paying her father money and some ceremony where he upset everyone basically he was given some food to eat and then he was supposed to give it back but he have some to the dog instead once he realised what he done I'm not sure if this is premeditated but he basically run away his friend was Furious as he now lived in the local area and was constantly phoning him my friend tried to claim that he did not understand they were getting married which everyone know was a lie but in a legal term he never got bothered by ever again it's not like he comes back to the UK and the woman had in the legal right to his assets but I don't think I'll ever be going back to Thailand again not sure if it was a legally binding marriage there or not

    • @jarrodwilson2382
      @jarrodwilson2382 7 місяців тому

      😂poor guy

  • @jackieanderson4108
    @jackieanderson4108 Рік тому +62

    Hope the wife finds a great new man who can be a real dad...and husband with real love.

    • @ToeKnife166
      @ToeKnife166 10 місяців тому +1

      Taking on four kids is crazy. Best she wait for them to leave home visit.

    • @Jesuslovesus599
      @Jesuslovesus599 7 місяців тому

      a good man could take her on

  • @danieltalbot6827
    @danieltalbot6827 Рік тому +36

    From my past experience in the Philippines when they give you a family interview that is the time to RUN!

    • @trentrizza4572
      @trentrizza4572 9 місяців тому +1

      My wife is from the Philippines. I was young a broke when we met and we are still married after 26 years. The hardest part was living the way they lived for a week or two in poverty without them noticing that you were mortified at how hard it was to survive.

    • @agustorick1
      @agustorick1 8 місяців тому

      @@trentrizza4572are you American? Any tips or advice on finding a good woman over there?

  • @unchicoholandes12
    @unchicoholandes12 Рік тому +70

    I just shaked my head for half an hour. And still laughing out loud.

    • @thaitalkwithdan
      @thaitalkwithdan  Рік тому +8

      Haha I enjoyed watching this one after I recorded it, I laughed myself 😂

    • @pq3586
      @pq3586 Рік тому +1

      I had tears in my eyes.
      With laughter 😅😅😅

  • @davidboston4136
    @davidboston4136 Рік тому +29

    I'm half way through this video and I have to say: this is the slowest car crash I've ever seen. . Okay, finished the video and ended up just as I figured. Thank God he figured it out before he got in any deeper. Thanks so much for the commentary & breakdown at the end. Good stuff !!

  • @badcheetah5927
    @badcheetah5927 Рік тому +262

    I felt so bad for his wife. 😢

    • @andrewmoss1135
      @andrewmoss1135 Рік тому +63

      And the kids

    • @badcheetah5927
      @badcheetah5927 Рік тому +31

      @@andrewmoss1135
      Absolutely!

    • @titi7776
      @titi7776 Рік тому

      Maybe his wife was a nagging b*tch. Who knows.

    • @stevenkanzler2319
      @stevenkanzler2319 Рік тому +68

      They’re probably better off without him

    • @Referee006
      @Referee006 Рік тому +38

      I hope that his wife hires a shark for a lawyer.

  • @jomsdk
    @jomsdk Рік тому +39

    Doing that to his wife and kids is just sad and he keeps doing it, i would not hav told his story he dosnt deserve anything but silence.

    • @thaitalkwithdan
      @thaitalkwithdan  Рік тому +11

      Yes that was very bad and it happens a lot here but I didn't want to personally judge him about this as it took a lot of bawls to email this in and be so open and honest about it, the judgement gets handed over by you guys 👍

    • @dmitriikurilov3662
      @dmitriikurilov3662 Рік тому +13

      Why silence?
      I believe that hearing this story may stop a guy or two from repeating his bad decisions...

    • @muziktrkr
      @muziktrkr Рік тому

      The wife had to be naive he wasn’t going to fly to Thailand, esp. Pattaya- just to vacay. Just typing in Pattaya in Google search auto fills with”sex tourism”.

    • @derekmarsden8934
      @derekmarsden8934 Місяць тому

      You never done anything wrong in your life? There are few things more nauseating than self righteousness.

  • @thethrillofpattaya8404
    @thethrillofpattaya8404 Рік тому +32

    My hats off to Jo's father! Asking for 1000000 thb was the right amount for this little money maker! A girl like this can Destroy 10 men before she is 30! David is Lucky he got out when he did! Most men would have been BURIED by this girl! **Soi 6 is a Breeding ground for Thai Witches!**

    • @austinpowers1999
      @austinpowers1999 7 місяців тому +1

      I’m guessing you mean literal witches that cast spells on unsuspecting men

  • @theGreenleaf84
    @theGreenleaf84 Рік тому +23

    He's lucky. He made it out of the village alive 😅

  • @WendyClarke-u5d
    @WendyClarke-u5d Рік тому +48

    Thanks Dan I'm a 72 year old woman and find it more interesting and honest stories. But didn't think there was so many men out there with all their years of experience were still ruled by their willies 😂😂😂

    • @msandersen
      @msandersen Рік тому +9

      Irrespective of age, men who let their Willies think for them are liable to do very stupid things and get themselves into lots of trouble. And a family man who hits midlife crisis, realising they are in a rut and getting old, are more likely to act out their youthful desires irrespective of the risks to their existing relationship. Some women do this too, not sure what body part rules them, but expect it’s mainly middle-aged men.

    • @kawikoclub4554
      @kawikoclub4554 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @angel101025
      @angel101025 11 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ToeKnife166
      @ToeKnife166 10 місяців тому +1

      Plenty of old women doing the same thing on holidays, buying young husbands and losing everything.

    • @4everu984
      @4everu984 8 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Zen36977
    @Zen36977 Рік тому +15

    Welcome to Thailand brother....what a mess. Listen and learn gents. Thank you for the courage to share your story.

  • @MOVIEHORIZON
    @MOVIEHORIZON 2 місяці тому +2

    When you have a huge “secret engagement party”… YET you’re still MARRIED…

  • @OkiP0wer
    @OkiP0wer Рік тому +38

    The moral of the story is to treat Pattaya like a neko cafe. Come in and play with the kitties for a while, then leave them alone. Rinse and repeat as necessary.😁

    • @tinacollins9213
      @tinacollins9213 Рік тому

      No wonder Pattaya had had 260,00 cases of HIV in 2023 I really wonder why

    • @abusasha478
      @abusasha478 Рік тому

      Unbelievable but true 😂

    • @difencrosby
      @difencrosby Рік тому +1

      I’ve done it 50+ times. Always remember if she went with you so easily she went with others just as easy.

    • @ihanakaunotar2741
      @ihanakaunotar2741 10 місяців тому

      Ewww

  • @gregoryseers1222
    @gregoryseers1222 Рік тому +30

    I was gonna say this story takes the cake, but it doesnt, it takes the whole bloooody bakery!

  • @MrStance88
    @MrStance88 Рік тому +20

    There is NO excuse to betray ones family like that, and after all this being such a moral coward and not at least telling his wife and kids the truth, what an absolute shithead, hope karma strikes him hard! btw love your story telling Dan :D

    • @Rossboe1
      @Rossboe1 Місяць тому

      And he goes back to Pattaya every year since.

  • @RonniesRambles
    @RonniesRambles Рік тому +47

    Glad to see you with the little guy. Brings back great memories, I was a single father, dedicated, and raised mine on my own since pretty much the same age as yours. I doubt anyone minds if he crawls all over you as you get your videos out, he'll be 5 before you know it and spreading his attention to school friends... from there you will blink and he'll be looking for a motorcycle. 😁

    • @thaitalkwithdan
      @thaitalkwithdan  Рік тому +10

      Thanks mate, yeah just got to crack on and I'm enjoying having him for the next 2 weeks, I'm waiting for him to wake up so we can go downstairs for a swim 😁

    • @rickylee6129
      @rickylee6129 Рік тому

      Agreed 👍 😊

  • @ChristopherLightfoot-zu3kb
    @ChristopherLightfoot-zu3kb Рік тому +10

    I have never been to Pattaya and probably never will go but listening to these stories makes me anxious….

  • @mrsweeves7035
    @mrsweeves7035 Рік тому +37

    Marry a chic but you still have to pay the bar fine🤣🤣🤣

  • @Akdon67
    @Akdon67 Рік тому +29

    This story was amazing 🤣🤣

  • @mynameisstilljafo4063
    @mynameisstilljafo4063 Рік тому +96

    So, he bailed out not because he realized what he was doing to his actual family, but because he couldn't afford to support his little fantasy.
    Christ...

    • @franciscoquevedo8240
      @franciscoquevedo8240 Рік тому +1

      The funny thing is that even if he could afford it, after while they wouldn't appreciate too much. They tend to think westerners get free money from trees or something like that. That's why some of them are kick out from the houses they build. They think...he will get over it , he just need to go back to his country and collect some free money from trees or wherever it's gifted over there...

    • @benwah6993
      @benwah6993 Рік тому +20

      I know, right? Never a thought for his own children, only because he couldn't finance it did he give up.

    • @anthonywells6085
      @anthonywells6085 Рік тому

      So true. You hit the nail right on the head mate. Some falang are so stupid, and to lower their I.Q. just add alcohol. ( bingo instant moron ).

    • @mariellanelson3414
      @mariellanelson3414 Рік тому +5

      Very sad for the wife. And the children. But at least he was honest in this video and take responsibility for it, saying that he was wrong. Still, the only reason he went back to Ireland was because he could not afford to be with Joe. Joe and her family where milking him like a cow. Women like this look for a better live. They know exactly how to treat these men to make them fall in love with them. But they have to pay, a lot! Joe and her family must have seen him like a Millionaire 😂 they will cut down on there prices now maybe 😂Joe learned a lesson,she said.

  • @mlmontalvo
    @mlmontalvo Рік тому +31

    Flight cancellations will skyrocket after this video 😂😂😂

    • @ursulasmith6402
      @ursulasmith6402 Рік тому +7

      They should, but this will go on.

    • @louiselanthier5135
      @louiselanthier5135 10 місяців тому

      I just got an advert from an airline company while watching these videos!

  • @chrismiles8297
    @chrismiles8297 Рік тому +29

    Epic story, i was hanging off every word.
    Lucky he came to his senses on the plane home.
    He would have lost everything, including the shirt on his back had gone through with the wedding.

    • @salamhamandy4927
      @salamhamandy4927 Рік тому +13

      He didn't come back to his senses. He just couldn't finance, so he backed out!

    • @codzy3532
      @codzy3532 Рік тому +2

      @@g60force spot on totally agree

    • @peteturner4535
      @peteturner4535 Рік тому

      Thick as a piss pot handle.

  • @frompowerlinestopowernaps
    @frompowerlinestopowernaps Рік тому +13

    Absolutely stunning story mate. Almost unbelievable ( unless you live here) and we see it every day!!!. He came out of it ok ,compared to many, so it seems like a Happy Ending!!! And we all like one of those 😅😅

  • @jasondamordy6662
    @jasondamordy6662 Рік тому +6

    So Glad .. I came across this man ! I was going the same path.. Not to the extent of meeting the family.. only met the girl and she was wow.. This video opened my eyes .. I am only and only going for fun .. Thank you..

    • @dantoinettetaylor1663
      @dantoinettetaylor1663 11 місяців тому

      You’re a terrible human being. In the end you’ll be cursed with something physically or mentally.

  • @J.mac35
    @J.mac35 Рік тому +14

    Absolutely fantastic to hear she lost face , they have no problem doing it to people so what goes around comes around 😂😂 - glad you got out dave when you did

    • @steringp1434
      @steringp1434 Рік тому +9

      She didn't lose face/. She was just telling him that. I'm sure it's a common occurrence among the bar girls there. How would a bar girl even lose face amoung a bunch of other gold digging bar girls.

    • @clairebeever3038
      @clairebeever3038 Рік тому

      What there all just trying to survive it’s dirty awful men like him allow this to go on he deserves much worse sleeping with young girls paying for sex !

  • @H.1965-s8p
    @H.1965-s8p Рік тому +44

    Damn that Irish guy is a piece of work. I was hoping the wife was going to catch him. The messed up part is he felt guilty about we he did the bar girl but not his wife and family.

    • @codzy3532
      @codzy3532 Рік тому +7

      shows were his heart is at not with family i believe men like this karma comes back on em how u treat your wife gf go chasing thai women they,l screw the men over i heard australian men (as if their great catches....not ) leave their wives gfs go over there to get screwed over by the women there good karma biting them on the ass what goes around dont feel no sympathy for them

    • @passion4life986
      @passion4life986 Рік тому +8

      If my husband did that to me, he would be dead or less a body part.

    • @H.1965-s8p
      @H.1965-s8p Рік тому +2

      @@passion4life986 I can see that kind of thing happening in a situation like that.

    • @davidlindburg1921
      @davidlindburg1921 Рік тому +4

      Yeah it's pretty crook, if he'd passed an STD onto his wife it'd all be over, still he'll always know, forever be on his conscience.

    • @spartanx169x
      @spartanx169x Рік тому +4

      @@passion4life986 Just to let you know., Cheating is never the real problem. It is a symptom of a bigger problem. This is true for men and women. Whatever was going on with this guy was started long before he went to Thailand the first time. It would be more interesting to know how the 5 years before this story had gone. Based on his actions, he was and most likely still is spiritually lost. He is longing for something, anything to fill a huge void in his life and is looking anywhere, everywhere but the right place- God and church.

  • @_Morri_
    @_Morri_ Рік тому +38

    That poor wife of him, and his children as well; not one thought for their feelings. 😒 I hope karma gets him hard and his wife finds someone that actually values her. She seemed nice as well that she cared enough for his wellbeing that she was ok with him going travelling. Total scum. Not for falling in love, but for not even having the decency to end things correctly with her first. I feel sorry for the thai girl as well for being strung along like that and made to look a fool in the eyes of her entire village.

    • @DarnIDidntKnowThat
      @DarnIDidntKnowThat Рік тому +1

      God manages karma. Also that request has to come from his family not 3rd party as karma comes from the heart from the person who has been hurt. Not obververs

    • @sobeliever1638
      @sobeliever1638 Рік тому

      She sounds like a fool ..who does not know about sex tourism by now? If my husband said he wanted to take a trip Asia with his friends sure if you want divorce papers

    • @sobeliever1638
      @sobeliever1638 Рік тому

      She sounds like a fool ..who does not know about sex tourism by now? If my husband said he wanted to take a trip Asia with his friends sure if you want divorce papers

    • @HelenPrimoRoseanneInYourArea
      @HelenPrimoRoseanneInYourArea 9 місяців тому

      Agree 💯 he’s beyond a coward!

  • @SHAFARTE.
    @SHAFARTE. Рік тому +18

    Outstanding story well done keep doing a good job, Dan you'll make it 🙏😇😎

  • @Flipsen07
    @Flipsen07 10 місяців тому +1

    I had such a good laugh during this story!!! holy moly what a trainwreck

  • @tomyum6163
    @tomyum6163 Рік тому +15

    Married 3 times at 25? Dude dodged an expensive bullet.

    • @muziktrkr
      @muziktrkr Рік тому +2

      At least she wasn’t widowed 3 times looking for #4

  • @gregkrauze6470
    @gregkrauze6470 Рік тому +1

    Dan…..your channel is a true therapy and everyone should be listening to all of this for at least half a year before moving there:)

  • @thetravellingsocialworker
    @thetravellingsocialworker Рік тому +24

    You know you can’t blame the guys that fall for these girls. But all we can do is educated them about what is the goal of these bar girls so they know the game and the risks.

    • @morgunz5365
      @morgunz5365 Рік тому +3

      I dno, bro. If you don't go in with the mind set "you can take the girl out of the bar but can't take the bar out of the girl" you are most likely setting your self up to part with a ridiclious amount of cash.

    • @thetravellingsocialworker
      @thetravellingsocialworker Рік тому

      True me personally I was not going to risk getting tempted by anyone connected with the bar industry or entertainment industry as such so I just found a normal Thai girl with a normal day to day job and been happy ever since. Though even with that I am still considering a prenup before marriage as they are legal here in Thailand, just getting quotes for them now.@@morgunz5365

    • @marhar1172
      @marhar1172 11 місяців тому

      You CAN blame the guys who do this. What guy over the age of 21 falls for this?? An ego fuelled, sad man. I see these men as the men western woman reject, especially the older ones. They deserve everything they get

  • @benwah6993
    @benwah6993 Рік тому +56

    Great story and how you presented it, Dan! I feel bad for the Thai girl as well. He helped create the jaded bar girl she became. It's like a vicious circle. I appreciate the fact that the guy shared his story and I know how being with a beautiful young woman can completely cloud your judgment and thinking. At least the wife and four kids were saved from having their lives turned inside out. That's the only saving grace to this tale.

    • @smileoften-ft3hq
      @smileoften-ft3hq Рік тому

      Yes, immediate reaction to the bar girl story is was the bar girl honest.
      Perhaps Dan is correct saying bar girls have grown into monsters created by lying men like this story.
      Well on it goes seeing the sensational stories pondering did a lying farang contribute to the monster some bar girls may grow to be.

    • @Dutchy695
      @Dutchy695 Рік тому +7

      Never ever tell your wife!

    • @steringp1434
      @steringp1434 Рік тому +12

      Don't you think that she already was a jaded bar girl already? Do you really think that he was the first sucker that she financially drained?

    • @АртурЯкубенко-ъ8е
      @АртурЯкубенко-ъ8е Рік тому +7

      😅😅😅don't feel sorry, she made some good money of off him 😅

    • @justyeeeeeetit
      @justyeeeeeetit Рік тому

      ​@steringp1434 oh right! Men pay top dollar for underage girls.. sadly.. I doubt her family would save her to whore herself out until she was of legal age. Anyone who goes and supports that industry should be ashamed.

  • @davidraj4896
    @davidraj4896 Рік тому +15

    This what happen if a person never been for a holiday in Thailand, at least he reliaze soon, or he should watch Some video about Thailand study it, it happens to me 15yrs ago i am from Malaysia, I always go to Thailand every 3month, the naive that we never understand what we are going to go thru 👍😊

  • @BambinoAmericano
    @BambinoAmericano Рік тому +20

    Absolutely fantastic story, enjoyed every piece of it. Beating the best thriller/drama/comedy I have seen in years. Congrats with your final decision David. Farang 1 - Bargirl 0.

  • @Flipsen07
    @Flipsen07 10 місяців тому +1

    The moment he proposed had me rolling

  • @pattayaexcitingnewsgirlz2720
    @pattayaexcitingnewsgirlz2720 Рік тому +12

    WOW!!
    PURE MADNESS
    good video!

  • @hermanusvanzyl5252
    @hermanusvanzyl5252 Рік тому +13

    Good story, and glad you back mate 👍

  • @peterpearse6913
    @peterpearse6913 Рік тому +5

    That was a brilliant video Dan. What a story! Love your channel. keep em coming.

  • @MOVIEHORIZON
    @MOVIEHORIZON 2 місяці тому +1

    The girl simply moved on… AND earned FOUR dowrys (and expensive rings) in the process… She made out like a queen…

  • @GhettoMonk108
    @GhettoMonk108 Рік тому +19

    A bar girl loses face 😅

  • @bojaiden5175
    @bojaiden5175 Рік тому +3

    Why would you fall in love with a bar girl 🤔. I met a Scottish man at a bar when I was in Aberdeen. He asked if I believed in the potency of Voodoo since I was from Nigeria. Before I could start on my treatise on the nuances of such practices, he told me of his best friend (B) who was about 40yrs old married with two boys. B was a drilling engineer with Mobil and got an offshore gig somewhere in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, Nigeria.
    On their days off, the workers went to a local Bar where B met a 20yr old bar girl who rocked his world and B fell hopelessly in love.
    He came back to Scotland, divorced his wife and sent her and her two kids packing and moved his Nigerian bar girl in.
    Of course B couldn't satisfy her and that's where the neighbors came in, even the neighbors couldn't keep up so she approached B's best friend for more action, he refused and promptly informed B of what transpired as so many other people had in the past.
    However it was too late for B, he was in too deep and was stuck with a complete nympho.

  • @Stacksz745
    @Stacksz745 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m riddled with his guilt listening to his story, what a story but I’m so relieved he got out of it and I hope he’s 100% making up to his poor wife every waking moment

  • @dennisjankowsky6130
    @dennisjankowsky6130 Рік тому +7

    Epic story! It has everything that is discussed within this channel

  • @bighoss9705
    @bighoss9705 Рік тому +18

    This is Thailand guys.

    • @wills9732
      @wills9732 10 місяців тому

      @mclarenF1race Wheel of Misfortune is probably more accurate.

  • @geoffsygroveroofingcontrac4654

    Enjoyed this story wow keep yourself home look after your family pal good luck to you

  • @seamusnaughton8217
    @seamusnaughton8217 Рік тому +2

    Your really good at telling these stroes enjoy listening to them you have gift at telling them all best with your channel seamus

  • @Evvr-gd2xj
    @Evvr-gd2xj Рік тому +4

    No need to appologise for your beautiful son in the background. More of him is better. So sweet ❤️🙏🏼

  • @andrewmoss1135
    @andrewmoss1135 Рік тому +8

    This story should be pinned on the channel
    Best one yet

  • @bbqbod
    @bbqbod Рік тому +3

    That was an excellent story. Well written as well. Thanks for that one.

  • @blackknight3496
    @blackknight3496 Рік тому +20

    I dont feel sorry for anyone who has a wife and plays up in thailand. If your life in the west or anywhere is so bad then have the common decency to be truthful with the person you're with before you go sowing wild oats! The other person deserves it no matter how bad the relationship is...NOBODY DESERVES TWO TIMING

  • @gordon3063
    @gordon3063 Рік тому +7

    hilarious, story. I just subscribed, I too have /had a Thai wife and lived in Thailand, but now back in Australia but have not seen her for 4 years , I still go to Thailand but no where that she is and I stopped using fb and instagram so she could not track me

  • @vtntanvt4389
    @vtntanvt4389 Рік тому +15

    I am sure his wife checked his passport and noticed that the country stamps do not match what he told her....bs story imo...55555

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 Рік тому +5

      She didn't have to check his passport. She knew exactly what was going on. She was just happy he decided to come back so her kids could have a father.

    • @Joker-2357
      @Joker-2357 Рік тому +4

      If she was a women of my country, use it get life time spousal support, and may be the husband can go to jail for cheating , atlest in a very bad position in court

  • @adamhend3211
    @adamhend3211 Рік тому +7

    Far out, I was in shock listening to this story. No wonder very average girls are asking so much now.

    • @spartanx169x
      @spartanx169x Рік тому +2

      Given what is going on in the world, They will be asking for 1/3 as much as they are now within the next two years. Things are getting worse and continue to get a LOT worse.

  • @kimirio66
    @kimirio66 Рік тому +1

    Gosh I LOVE listening to these stories...Hooked as soon as I stumbled on to your channel...But this guy...Your expressions say it all...LOVE IT!

  • @chrisdavisunofficial
    @chrisdavisunofficial Рік тому +6

    I'm laughing out loud listening to this story in a beautiful condo in Pattaya. Thanks for the laughs.

  • @blackknight3496
    @blackknight3496 Рік тому +10

    I really think Dan that 69% of your stories originate out of soi 6...is there a more exceptionally fantastic and dangerous road anywhere in the world?
    SOI SIX BARGIRLS EITHER NIRVANA OR DESTRUCTION ALL IN HALF A KILOMETRE OF PURE HEAVEN❤

  • @BrianK49
    @BrianK49 Рік тому

    David - after hearing your story from Dan, for one of the very few times in my life I'm practically speechless - good luck moving forward

  • @ubiquitousdiabolus
    @ubiquitousdiabolus Рік тому +11

    Sinsod (dowry) is normal in Thailand, but the parents should accept what the wife and husband think is reasonable. If not, that is a big red flag of what is to come.

  • @derekthompson9317
    @derekthompson9317 Рік тому +5

    what makes this worse that if wife was thinking his was depressed and wanted him to go away to sort himself how understanding is that and that he only felt bad in he end how he treated his bar GF not his understanding wife and kids

  • @clintonharpur7509
    @clintonharpur7509 8 місяців тому

    😂😂😂I rode that wave right along with you Dave! Imagining as though I were you and having to think about how I was going to get out of that situation. Thankfully, despite my abnormally elevated heart rate, your big brain managed to reign supreme, and you came to your senses, just in time! 😂

  • @MrRed-bk9xn
    @MrRed-bk9xn Рік тому +2

    I’m am an American and it makes no sense to me why a man would pay for a wife like that. Why??? There is no guarantee that she will be a good wife to you. There is no guarantee that she won’t cheat and leave you? There is no guarantee of anything except you will be the one providing for her and her family. I don’t see any benefit to the man at all. Can anyone break it down to me please. What am I missing?

  • @lcmr123
    @lcmr123 Рік тому +10

    He made a crucial mistake. He forgot to lose his passport (Thai custom stamp) when he got back to Island. If his Irish wife found that passport....it would of been "KUPUT" for him, :).

  • @eunicef1
    @eunicef1 Рік тому +3

    Great story. He could have negotiated, but probably did the best thing even though unfortunately I doubt he's happily married.

  • @mjl8197
    @mjl8197 10 місяців тому +3

    What a delusional moron that guy was, to think that he owed any sympathy or consideration to the Thai girl, . So clueless to even when realizing what a ridiculously impossible scenario he had walked himself into, but could STILL not realize that she had NO real interest in him and it was all a scam. Had he he somehow managed to even follow through on the ridiculous commitments he was making, she and the family would just drain him of all of his finances, while simultaneously finding ways to cheat on him, and eventually dumping him. Surely he also didn't consider that he would likely owe some form of Child Support to his wife that would accelerate his financial destruction and her dumping him. He would just be financially drained husband number whatever. Instead he still contacts her to see "how she's doing"

  • @lesbianalien3435
    @lesbianalien3435 Рік тому +6

    At least the guy is honest about his mistakes. But on the other hand. How many women do the same when they go to place's like turkey Jamaica and Gambia

  • @rickylee6129
    @rickylee6129 Рік тому +4

    Great store Dan 😊. Very proud of you having your son by your side.
    As far as the video, WTF was this guy thinking 🤔 😳 ❓️. Must have been thinking with his little head for sure. UNBELIEVABLE. Best story by far.
    PS. Love the side clips. 😅😅😅
    Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏

  • @GeorgeJung-o6n
    @GeorgeJung-o6n Рік тому +3

    Congrats on the heavy dans and growing channel✌️ nice to see you back flying

  • @allenbarnard2859
    @allenbarnard2859 Місяць тому

    I love how he actually believed she was in the village after he returned to Ireland… that girl was back in the bar very moment he boarded the flight!

  • @ilhacopa6575
    @ilhacopa6575 Рік тому +12

    Poor wife and kids. These bargirls are capable of destroying everything, even marriages.

    • @spartanx169x
      @spartanx169x Рік тому

      Its not the bargirls fault. Its very much the men's fault. Most of these men have personal lives that are a crash waiting to happen long before they ever get to Thailand. Most if not all are in short broken, regardless if by their choices or someone else's (spouses). Most didn't and have not dated a lot, got married early, can't/don't want to make the best of the marriage, then go looking for something to fill that void. I personally know several men that are married have one of the following- the women are #1 never satisfied no matter what you do for them. #2 the woman is verbally abusive, #3 the men are trapped for fear of paying child support. #4, the men themselves have had unrealistic expectations of marriage and their wife I could go on and on. They are all spiritually lost looking to fill that void that makes them fill empty and hollow. Some turn to alcohol, others drugs, for some men- its women.

    • @SirStamford27
      @SirStamford27 Рік тому +7

      It's not the bar girls fault.

    • @prestonwheeler959
      @prestonwheeler959 10 місяців тому

      Don't blame the girl blame the idiot chasing her.

    • @HelenPrimoRoseanneInYourArea
      @HelenPrimoRoseanneInYourArea 9 місяців тому +1

      Only one at fault is the guy, he only has himself to blame, nobody else!

    • @jarrodwilson2382
      @jarrodwilson2382 7 місяців тому

      😂he should of sold his house he could of married her😂

  • @alexandrasmith7682
    @alexandrasmith7682 Рік тому +1

    Worked a 12 month contract at a clinic in the Philippines. While I was there, it came to light that two of the nurses were working a scam with half a dozen Filipina. The girls would turn up at the Clinic for their "treatment" and an invoice would be issued. Needless to say, the Western males would pay the bills. Interestingly, the $6 vitamin shot turned into a $300 invoice. Now each girl would come in with six to eight Western guys over a few weeks. They didn't see a problem with this ..... The reply was "They f**k, they pay".
    Yep, definitely risk your marriage, children, and money for the sake of getting your end away.

  • @MOVIEHORIZON
    @MOVIEHORIZON 2 місяці тому +1

    That’s right… Go to Pattaya when you need to “clear your head” to straighten out your marriage…

  • @legoheady
    @legoheady Рік тому +5

    I chuckled more times than i should have done during this video :D

  • @44Todder
    @44Todder Рік тому +1

    I just discovered your channel. Great content and stories. Been binge listening ever since. Good job!

  • @joelG1272
    @joelG1272 Рік тому +6

    I was on the edge of my seat the whole time, waiting to hear the next line. The total cost makes a western slapper seem cheap now doesn't it .

  • @howwwwwyyyyy
    @howwwwwyyyyy 11 місяців тому +1

    Hey, I met a lovely woman working as a maid in khosan rd she was Burmese,she was the only thing that impressed me about the place 18 years later she's been my wife for 12,she works even though she didn't have to and is the best I've met,so its not all bad, just avoid bargirls

  • @archie5692
    @archie5692 Рік тому

    Amazing story, especially the way you tell this with positive energy

  • @VPS582
    @VPS582 Рік тому +5

    Siren's songs were such that they drove listeners mad and that madness screwed them, welcome to Pattaya.

  • @MOVIEHORIZON
    @MOVIEHORIZON 2 місяці тому +1

    Ring… engagement party… dowry… land purchase…salary replacement… It’s all a very well engineered Thai grift…

  • @travelnutlivelife5797
    @travelnutlivelife5797 Рік тому +3

    Yeah mate I just have to second what you had already said and thank the emailer for sharing that epic story, but yeah I can see it happening especially for a first timer. Just hope more take heed so it doesn’t happen to them. But from what I witnessed my last trip out in December. The problem seemed to be getting worse IMO and not better..

  • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
    @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому +1

    Malee I think is blown away by my kindness I promised her other ladies on her site gonna bring nice gifts from Ohio for them show my love for them as Thailand citizens from lower class .like I started my life.
    Lower class now bit wealthier being us navy man.
    Who visited her nation many times in navy

  • @youthought3161
    @youthought3161 Рік тому +6

    Think we all know this Dan and many are doing it and it never stop ✋

  • @shareman99
    @shareman99 Рік тому +4

    Around the eleven minute mark I thought you were going to laugh your head off and you converted very well back to the story :)

  • @stevenworld3364
    @stevenworld3364 Рік тому +7

    Glad to see your doing well, good story, I really enjoyed the Lion laughing.

  • @Marek_Cali
    @Marek_Cali Рік тому +3

    he got lucky. he was about to end up without wife, kids, money and ...in near future without young thai wife too. many were not so lucky. they've lost everything.

  • @daveyork0
    @daveyork0 Рік тому +9

    Not confiding to the wife what's running through his head is a fatal error

    • @bighoss9705
      @bighoss9705 Рік тому

      I'm sure she knows something is up and I see a divorce in the near future. Threw his life away on a scheming Thai prostitute. What a fool.

    • @ilovelalakers
      @ilovelalakers 8 місяців тому

      Dunno, confiding seems to be a fatal error.