Depression After Loss of Pet

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  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2024

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  • @ASD546
    @ASD546 2 місяці тому +76

    Cookie lives on forever 💙🩵🤍

    • @FinaJ-tg3md
      @FinaJ-tg3md 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes

    • @ellejbird853
      @ellejbird853 2 місяці тому +2

      😢😢😢😢😢 it's EXTREMELY hard I KNOW 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @DanielRamirez-om5pe
      @DanielRamirez-om5pe 2 місяці тому +3

      We love u cookie ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Nik_98Ng
    @Nik_98Ng 2 місяці тому +33

    It is very hard to lose a pet, my weakness is birds in general and parakeets more so, I had 5 parakeets in total, 2 were the parents and 3 were the babies, I lost all 3 very early, I could not enjoy them much, the parents lived 9 years, the pain of seeing them sick is something that is not forgotten, seeing such small creatures suffer and not being able to do anything is horrible, as much as I like parakeets I can't have more because I couldn't bear to see them suffer again, I love that there is someone like you who loves and take care the budgies ❤

    • @shrifashionworld7738
      @shrifashionworld7738 2 місяці тому +3

      I pray to the god for were the soul of ur flock live in heaven will be happy and in a better environment ... 🙏

    • @DogMan2-i9i
      @DogMan2-i9i 2 місяці тому +1

      Sometimes I feel like that to I just don’t want to see it suffer but maybe try getting a different species of bird that lives longer😃

  • @mukundmuraripradhan7744
    @mukundmuraripradhan7744 2 місяці тому +20

    Today, I also lost a budgie. It is very hard to understand. It happened suddenly; I don't know exactly what happened. When I saw him after lunch, he seemed to be feeling sick. So we brought him to the doctor, but after 2-3 hours, he died.
    May God keep his soul in peace 🙏🙏🙏.

    • @therfbirds
      @therfbirds Місяць тому

      Sorry for your lost..2 days ago I lost my beautiful tame budgie..my cat attack the budgie..In few minutes I lost my budgie.he is died..its very painful for me

  • @The-Grateful-Hippie
    @The-Grateful-Hippie 2 місяці тому +8

    Allen, I take your video as a sign from my budgie Angel, who passed in January. I've taken her cage apart but I haven't been able to clean anything yet. I've been asking myself if I'm ready to receive another budgie again. 😢 I think it's time. Time to start preparing.

  • @SoulessStranger
    @SoulessStranger 2 місяці тому +32

    Oh my heart, Cookie our magnificent boy.
    Everytime I welcome any animal into my life and home, we share a journey. I am honored to be able to offer it my care, protection and love and to share in that special bond. I know our life together will not last forever but for as long as we are together I am giving another soul that needed it a life filled with happiness, love and care as much as is in my´power.
    When I lost my budgie boy Bertil to cancer I was devastated for two weeks, especially since he died the same day as I found out about his problem and I wish to this day that his last day could have been better than a vet visit. But my other budgie Rocky was even more sad, he grieved and said his goodbyes to Bertil but it was hard getting him to the cage at night, he just wasn't ready to be alone and so a new budgie boy Benji joined our flock. I think having a newcomer gave us all some peace and purpose.
    Even though Bertil was gone, there was another little fluff that needed a good home and we were ready to provide that.

    • @alenaxp
      @alenaxp  2 місяці тому +5

      Thank you for sharing ❤️ stay strong ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Xilenah
    @Xilenah 2 місяці тому +33

    I lost my budgie yesterday :( cried so much

    • @alenaxp
      @alenaxp  2 місяці тому +8

      stay strong ❤️❤️

    • @The-Grateful-Hippie
      @The-Grateful-Hippie 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm so sorry friend 💔

    • @Xilenah
      @Xilenah 2 місяці тому +1

      @@The-Grateful-Hippie thank you 💚

    • @DogMan2-i9i
      @DogMan2-i9i 2 місяці тому +1

      I’m so sorry I lost a budgie to but remember what Allen said try to open up your heart to a new friend

    • @junwu8436
      @junwu8436 2 місяці тому +2

      Im sorry to hear that...stay strong

  • @JohnCena8351
    @JohnCena8351 2 місяці тому +9

    I can relate to that. Tomorrow it will be exactly 10 months since my female pet budgie died. And even tho I have a new bird that's also super cute (mainly bought her as a companion for my other bird) I still think about her pretty much every day and it still hurts.

  • @KK_teller
    @KK_teller 2 місяці тому +9

    After losing my dog in... 2022 I think? And then - exactly year and a few days - losing my budgie... it *is still painful,* but the love for the animals is still inside me

    • @lilsangarden
      @lilsangarden 2 місяці тому

      Our love for animal is always there, no need to rush, when the fated one come it will, and then be ready to have splash of color again😊

    • @KK_teller
      @KK_teller 2 місяці тому

      @@lilsangarden I hope so

  • @Rohan48279
    @Rohan48279 2 місяці тому +7

    Thats just sad,i fell your pain too,i losed a dog in 2020 and other in 2022,we are here for you.

  • @gayatriverma731
    @gayatriverma731 2 місяці тому +25

    Fly high cookie 🍪

  • @edmzoneavicii
    @edmzoneavicii 2 місяці тому +4

    🥺Cookie ❤was the best bugie ever😢
    Edit:and also the secret of Alen's Success

  • @abeautifullife5303
    @abeautifullife5303 2 місяці тому +2

    I am glad you did this video, Alen. It can help so many. Thank you! I've lost many, but with time, healing happens.

  • @ayanparkar6915
    @ayanparkar6915 15 днів тому

    I loved my birds they were with me for five beautiful years. I was attached to one of them the most in particular. The day she passed was the single worst day of my life and made me feel like the whole 5 year journey was just not worth this pain and promised to myself that I would never get another pet in my life. But looking back at the fond and beautiful memories I do believe it was worth it and everyone should experience the joy and happiness a pet/companion brings to your home and Life.
    Miss you maccy 🕊️❤❤

  • @yedidsion
    @yedidsion 2 місяці тому +6

    My love was stolen yesterday while she was feeding her one week old chicks.
    Out of 20 Budgies that I have, they stole the one that I loved so much.
    Fortunately her mate is feeding the chicks.

  • @johnotooledoggames2336
    @johnotooledoggames2336 2 місяці тому +5

    🇮🇪 its very sad when you loss you pet I knew I just loss my Dog Sandy 🐕 Sandy she was amazing amazing family dog 🐕, your other Budgies are looking so well they are so beautiful 🐦🐤🐦🐦🐤

  • @srcreeper02550
    @srcreeper02550 2 місяці тому +8

    cookie may have died, but his image is eternal

  • @MatrixRefugee
    @MatrixRefugee 2 місяці тому +1

    I've lost two budgie boys back to back, less than one year apart. The first, Killian, passed away a year ago this month, and we had had him in our family for eight years. We adopted his successor, Fillan, a month later, in September 2023. Sadly, Fillan passed away very suddenly, for unknown reasons, one month ago (July 2023), just a day after his first hatch-day. Losing Fillan in particular has left me devastated, since he had latched onto me from the moment he saw me in the bird breeders' where we adopted him. He was always doing stuff that made me laugh, and he'd get so mad when I'd leave for work (even though my parents would keep him company), but he'd be so happy when I came home. I felt real, unconditional love from this little creature, and now that love is gone (Much as I love my parents, I have some issues with them that I shan't discuss).
    We're adopting a new birb, Gibrian, another budgie, and I'm ready to let another little guy into my life. But the pain of losing two little tweethearts so close together, barely ten months, still lingers. Right when I think I've cried myself out, more tears come. I'm terrified something will happen to this one. I honestly feel cursed. I've had days when I came home from work - grocery retail; it's the worst; every Internet story you've heard of Karens/Darrens in the store? They really happen. Please be kind to your service workers. I mean it - and I'd had a bad day, only for my parents to be snipping at each other. But Killian and later Fillan just being there, just being their cute selves would put things right. One time, when I'd had a particularly bad day at work, I came home and was walking through our dining room, past Killian's coop to hang up my coat, when I heard this little voice ask, clear as a bell, "Are you okay?" I looked over and Killian had gotten up to his topmost perch, sitting there with his head tilted, looking right at me, looking really. I said to him, "Well, since you asked, I feel a little better than I did before I let myself in." He replied, again clear as a bell, "Okay!" and when back to playing with his toys.
    Sorry for the ramble. It kind of all came tumbling out. Your video helped a lot, but I think I still have some ways to go before the pain fades to a manageable level.

  • @lordvale123
    @lordvale123 2 місяці тому +1

    I truly understand you! My lovebird died last week after 16 years old since I was taken him and I was destroyed 😭😭😭

  • @shrifashionworld7738
    @shrifashionworld7738 2 місяці тому +4

    Cookie will also be in our heart ❤️

  • @Its_Yumeko
    @Its_Yumeko 2 місяці тому +1

    I lost my Parrot 3 days ago..She was my first bird and the one that I had for the longest, I cried so much after that..Whenever I felt sad I just looked at her and my sorrows would go away. She was my only true best friend. She was ill so I knew I would lose her, but I didn't expect to lose her so soon. I had her since I was 8..Even before my best friend in school.. I love her and she will forever live in our hearts..♥️ R.I.P Mango the Parrot..

  • @anitaoconnell2799
    @anitaoconnell2799 2 місяці тому +4

    Beautiful work and message, Alen ❤

  • @birdsmariaandsunshinetv9899
    @birdsmariaandsunshinetv9899 2 місяці тому

    Awww Cookie is a sweet boy. He still lives forever in your hearts 💞

  • @daniyalrizvi7865
    @daniyalrizvi7865 2 місяці тому +7

    Cookie looks so cute

  • @aashutoshjadhav2203
    @aashutoshjadhav2203 2 місяці тому +8

    I can understand the pain

  • @petrakulschbach6998
    @petrakulschbach6998 2 місяці тому +2

    Meine leben in meinen Träumen. Da sind sie wieder gesund und fliegen zu mir. ❤❤❤

  • @freeflow8702
    @freeflow8702 2 місяці тому

    Rest In Peace Other Side Of The World❤❤❤ God Bless You❤❤❤

  • @j.jeff7538
    @j.jeff7538 2 місяці тому +1

    Yesterday, I lost my 4yrs cocktail bird😫..... I loved him so much as I took care of him like my own child, now he is not here with me... He always stays at my sholder, she welcomes me when I enter into home.... He sings.... Now I miss everything 😞😖😭😭🥺I don't know, how will I survey on this upcoming days.... Pray for my mental health recovery and his soul should reach our Lord 🙏🏻😞😞😖😖😭🥺😭😫😫😫😫😞😞😞

  • @cocolinasicoco7244
    @cocolinasicoco7244 2 місяці тому +1

    Budgies are the best! 🦜❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤍💘💝💖💗💓💞💕💟❣🥺😁🙂😇🥰😍😘🤗👍🏼

  • @amethystinie
    @amethystinie 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for a such comforting video💜

  • @Rebecca-vd3zf
    @Rebecca-vd3zf 2 місяці тому +6

    Amen Alen!

  • @rahimogamestoenjoy
    @rahimogamestoenjoy 2 місяці тому +2

    Rip cookie😢😢😢

  • @Darshbudgies
    @Darshbudgies 2 місяці тому

    My budgies will live forever

  • @leonvalesickraljic9310
    @leonvalesickraljic9310 2 місяці тому +5

    Is it the cookie you have since 2011? I remmember that one if Im wrong sorry. I knkw a pain of losing parrakeet 🙃😖

    • @alenaxp
      @alenaxp  2 місяці тому +2

      I had him for 10 years :)

  • @TruthWins-s4o
    @TruthWins-s4o 2 місяці тому

    Rest in peace

  • @Fivrthe5th
    @Fivrthe5th 2 місяці тому +2

    me getting reminded of cookie*
    *7 seconds later*
    *C O O K I E*

  • @adamsamah2883
    @adamsamah2883 2 місяці тому +1

    Go to heaven to rest cookie

  • @salpaca53
    @salpaca53 2 місяці тому +2

    I lost my budgie in 2022. I had him since 2014 and he died of natural causes due to age.

  • @DogMan2-i9i
    @DogMan2-i9i 2 місяці тому

    Like I always say instead of moaning about your loss put a smile on your face cause you gave your little friend the best like he can have🦜🕊❤️!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @misbaharshad4802
    @misbaharshad4802 7 днів тому

    cookieee!!!!!!! i miss him sooo much you still remain in our hearts cookie

  • @StyxvilleInhabitants
    @StyxvilleInhabitants Місяць тому +1

    My girlfriend's baby girl died today, a green lovebird with cute red feathers on the head, a sweet reddish beak and small tail. She was a mix between Agapornis Roseicollis and Agapornis Fisher.
    Her previous owner clipped her wings and clipped them too much too. Of course no animal should suffer modifications to their bodies, to their fur, to their feathers and such but this is the world we live in. I am totally against those practices towards all animals and of course I am against birds having their wings clipped.
    Her clipped wing feathers started to fall and new ones grew in their place but the process was slow and it was still some time before she could fly again... but there was hope...
    Bubu was left outside and since she couldn't fly she wanted to get up where her mate Poli, a cute male Agapornis Roseicollis who always flies up on the curtain rod... She went up there how she always did by climbing on the curtain and this time she got entangled on the frayed rope from the curtain... She suffocated and barely breathed and despite that she was released from the entanglement and got outside to fresh air she still passed away...
    This cute baby girl is now flying in Heaven with all the other lovelies and just like hordygurdy's Kira she will never stop flying.
    Me and my girlfriend call all birds, all parakeets and all animals actually lovelies.
    RIP to all lovelies who passed away and I hope they all fly free and happy in Heaven where there is no danger to any animals.
    I hope in the future Animal Police will be much more powerful and all animals bought by owners will somehow be monitored so that guys who clip the wings to a parakeet or any other bird will get their animals taken away and get banned from purchasing any other lovelies.

    • @dia._.dia.x
      @dia._.dia.x Місяць тому

      Always in my heart ❤🧡

    • @Ash-x9m
      @Ash-x9m 17 днів тому

      She should lived with me

  • @Maanyata-8970
    @Maanyata-8970 2 місяці тому +1

    I lost the only childhood bird died at age of ten........😢😢😢😢....... Rip sunflower 2014 to 2024 agust 11 death.born on nov 9 my. Bday

  • @anitacarstensen5704
    @anitacarstensen5704 2 місяці тому

    It was a very cute bugie

  • @naazneenabdussamad2875
    @naazneenabdussamad2875 Місяць тому

    Wow. Exactly what I needed to hear.

  • @YoyoRobinson-q4r
    @YoyoRobinson-q4r 2 місяці тому

    I haven't lost any of my budgies and i hope I won't but i lost a baby dove i was super attached to in 2021 and i can't stop thinking about him. Its been 3 years since he died now😢

  • @mikeb.7589
    @mikeb.7589 2 місяці тому +4

    As usual, excellent advice, Alen. I'm in my 60's and have had several budgies, a couple of dogs and fish as well. Taking the dogs down to get euthanized when they got old and had cancer was the worst. We recently lost our entire pond of 20 year old goldfish due to a mistake. My wife was adding water with the garden hose, got distracted and forgot. The chlorine poisoned them. She cried for hours. After several days, I bought 10 new fish. She feeds them now, and is enjoying them. We currently have 3 budgies. There are 3 swing/perches in the window overlooking the garden. I can't imagine those perches empty, but it is inevitable. Having a pet that you love brings so much joy. That's why it's so painful when they go. It's also a reminder of our own mortality.

  • @neelubird
    @neelubird 2 місяці тому

    Love dear Cookie and miss him
    Like your new budgies- I've not seen the grey one before
    Only just found out about Stubbie- sorry for your loss, he was a sweet little darling

  • @0eagle4200
    @0eagle4200 2 місяці тому

    I lost my Vicky (blue in pic) last July, i miss her deeply but now i have Bibi and Reggie both are males i love them so much ...

  • @chillinreptilian6751
    @chillinreptilian6751 2 місяці тому +7

    Every time I lose one I go crazy with grief, I have trouble sleeping and eating, just like when I lost my dad! These little critters are family members to me so when one dies, it’s literally the same pain as losing a human. Perhaps it’s because I live alone that I grow so attached to my bird…so I hate it when someone tells me: “Get over it! It’s just a friggin’ bird!”. Emmm…no, it’s NOT just a “friggin’ bird”!

  • @Hau88256
    @Hau88256 2 місяці тому

    I have a dying budgie but when she's out of her cage she's completely normal

  • @Thomasstudios-ix5rc
    @Thomasstudios-ix5rc 2 місяці тому +3

    We are here

  • @munteanurodica2252
    @munteanurodica2252 2 місяці тому

    It still hurts me. Almost 3 months ago my budgie passed away. I am in pain. I am not sure if it will ever pass.

  • @2.0parrotsworldofficial
    @2.0parrotsworldofficial 2 місяці тому +1

    Ohh cookie 😢

  • @Thomasstudios-ix5rc
    @Thomasstudios-ix5rc 2 місяці тому

    Awwww poor guy

  • @ClearlyClarence
    @ClearlyClarence 18 днів тому

    I really needed to hear this❤🦜thank you

  • @wildguy4773
    @wildguy4773 2 місяці тому

    The worst part of keeping pets, animals in general is when some of them pass away, the depression i had when i lost my bunny miki its so hearthbreaking, we had more bunnies Yea but he was more of an introvert like your cookie for example and just comes with me and i take him, we play, walk and Yea, but he became old and nature did the best, its so hearthbreaking and sad when you lose someone special, especially when its a furry friend, we also had a dog sarplaninac who was our first dog in the bunch, but she also passed away not beacuse of age but beacuse of the leg disability and we had to put her down, but losing my beloved miki is so sad, yes we have rabbits with two being play ful but nothing changes miki

  • @zunairbirds3984
    @zunairbirds3984 2 місяці тому

    It happened sometime

  • @aayushsuwal2526
    @aayushsuwal2526 2 місяці тому

    Budgies Parrot is my Best Favourite Pet Bird. 👌👌❤

  • @PeterCAUSE
    @PeterCAUSE 2 місяці тому

    My mom and I miss Cookie and Biscuit

  • @DevilNEDVED
    @DevilNEDVED 2 місяці тому

    Mine 6yo already.

  • @allenkakazu123
    @allenkakazu123 Місяць тому

    I just lost my budgie little one jr end of last month and it still hearts me wen me and my other half wolk up from a nap jr was gone I was broken cause 💔 he was the whole world to me

  • @floofypanda
    @floofypanda 2 місяці тому

    kiwi, my bird, he is so ill.. We dont understand whats going on with them.. but i always pray for him :( we keep trying to fix him we try to give him food but its just a little to hard for him to feel like eating or drinking, worse, we cant even take him to the vet as its so expensive ... so if you have any solutions alen. reply its urgent!! :(

  • @RylanWeston
    @RylanWeston 2 місяці тому

    Along time ago I had a fish it died then happened Everytime I got a fish either it lived on for almost forever or died the next day I got one lived on for 2 years then one day I found it dead

  • @natureandwildlife1987
    @natureandwildlife1987 2 місяці тому

    Dear brother ,hope u r fine....brother my male budgie hy one long feather in his tale the second long feather is not growing...will he be able to cross..

  • @mavisjorginapotente
    @mavisjorginapotente 2 місяці тому

    I Lost My Four Budgie😢😢

  • @Jen-ge6rl
    @Jen-ge6rl 2 місяці тому

    What if you never get a bird after the loss. You didn't mentioned that. 💙

  • @galaxyqueen5621
    @galaxyqueen5621 2 місяці тому

    I have a 8 years old budgie . He became a little weak. Should i feed him more veggies

  • @TaliaSukhu
    @TaliaSukhu 2 місяці тому

    😢

  • @DeborahForsyth
    @DeborahForsyth 2 місяці тому

    Sad

  • @JM43438
    @JM43438 2 місяці тому

    hello Alen AxP,
    i am a bird owner from germany and i was considering to move to montenegro in the near future. i wasnt able to find any avian vet in the entire country however. and even in any neighbouring country in the balkans. are avian vets actually that rare in the balkans? could you maybe help me out understanding the situation or maybe even help me find an avian vet anywhere near montenegro? i'd be very glad.

  • @wilmal4087
    @wilmal4087 2 місяці тому

    ❤😢😢😢🐦

  • @oyunbozuk
    @oyunbozuk 16 днів тому

    kardeşim ben bebe asprini kullanıyorum her hastalandıklarında iyileştiler. toz yapıp sularına karıştırıyorum benim çocuklar 12-11 ve 8 yaşındalar

  • @natureandwildlife1987
    @natureandwildlife1987 2 місяці тому

    😢😢😢😢

  • @TarunSharma-iw9ry
    @TarunSharma-iw9ry 2 місяці тому

    I lost my Honey (budgie) yesterday 😢 so i am deciding to give her partner to someone becuse i am very emotional i am very sad 😢😭🥺😭

  • @LunaRuschmareco
    @LunaRuschmareco 2 місяці тому

    💙🩵🤍

  • @somuappu1754
    @somuappu1754 2 місяці тому

    😢😢😢

  • @sarkpop84
    @sarkpop84 2 місяці тому

    😭

  • @rebeccaweigel725
    @rebeccaweigel725 2 місяці тому

    ive lost 2 in the last month one was 10 and other 8

  • @CuteparrotsRU
    @CuteparrotsRU 2 місяці тому

    😍

  • @Gamingworld-kf7fp
    @Gamingworld-kf7fp 2 місяці тому

    Cookie :)

  • @anupmaojha9119
    @anupmaojha9119 2 місяці тому

    😧😧

  • @rachelsvideochannel
    @rachelsvideochannel 2 місяці тому

    When I lost my Popcorn, I cried for days!🥹
    I had Popcorn cremated and have her right here by me and her sister Angel.🥰🕊️🕊️🪽

  • @Cameron8813
    @Cameron8813 Місяць тому

    I'm 746 sub

  • @carlapedro4406
    @carlapedro4406 2 місяці тому

    Birds are our own children not a pet .

  • @FabianWolter-kh1mt
    @FabianWolter-kh1mt 2 місяці тому +2

    Cookie lives on forever 💙🩵🤍

  • @yedidsion
    @yedidsion 2 місяці тому +1

    My love was stolen yesterday while she was feeding her one week old chicks.
    Out of 20 Budgies that I have, they stole the one that I loved so much.
    Fortunately her mate is feeding the chicks.

  • @Frisko-j2e
    @Frisko-j2e 2 місяці тому

    😢

  • @shanusharma8287
    @shanusharma8287 2 місяці тому

    😢😢😢😢