Trick is, don't leave a relationship or marriage unless you are done done. I can not do nothing with my ex. There's nothing my ex can do or give me and i wish to go back honestly because before i exit i make sure i have given you all the chances, i have been patient, understanding, forgiving etc etc.
Breakups hurt, the fact that this person you so much loved each other won't choose you anymore, and furthermore choose someone else. Its only human to want be chosen always, to always be referred to the best. But, if you are able to face the true fact that there is always going to be someone better than you, face the fact that people can choose not to choose you. You get to heal completely, and know that you can also always get better or not. But rather find peace. This heals and give a peace of mind and moving on completely, where by you can still be friends with your ex if their character adds anything to your life, and if they don't add anything, you will be okay with them just being humans you won't detest them or feel a certain way when you meet them... So, being friends or not with with exes all depends on how you dealt with you two breaking up. And how you've moved on. Remember this is just a person you cared for, loved, so it doesn't stop when they become exes. What changes is that it's not in your obligations anymore. So, how about drawing lines and boundaries to only friendship. Love and care for each other with boundaries. That's if they aren't toxic... A person who knew you that much becoming a stranger always feels surreal. As in did you really love each other?? But also if your friend list is full, part ways. All I'm saying, is it shouldn't be that hard. No math...
I had downloaded the video ad usual for later in free time. Actually I listen during work but came in this section just to say I admired the energy Prim had today . Going to reconstruction after this. How can one have such. Such a nice feeling I can imagine
My flowers to people who attend functions of their exes. Kale I can't even contribute, I would rather use that money to buy shoes, bags, gnuts and bananas 😂😅
I wouldn’t call them “friends “ but rather people I know of, I treat them with respect, kindness and politeness just like any other human being 😊. On that note, I don’t expect us to be in each other’s business
Ladies as always, you glow. We don't need light ❤. Thank you for the insightful information. All childhood friends. No exes. But am loving Prim darling.
Wow it really feels so light and youthful and easeful and fun. It’s so fun when our energy aligns when the miracles we have been praying for show up. 🎉
To piggy bank on what Prim said about keeping in touch with ex's to show them what they missed. When facebook became popular in 2006, people were adding their ex's in the name of i need them to see how i am doing well in life. I do not want an ex to even know what i am doing in life.
Personally I believe exes are in the past for a reason and I can’t mix my past with my present. There’s no being friends with exes. I’m friends with ONLY one ex and that friendship is wishing each other happy birthday and merry Christmas 😂
I am cordial with all my exes and we are in touch hwre and there. But these are people I had a thing with in my early 20s because I was already married at 25 so I dont think they even count. That being said i think the nature of your relationship after also depends on the breakup circumstances. Some people are evil and you want nothing to do with them, some breakups still have unresolved feelings that is safer to stay away. Even if I am not good at it, they say the healthier way is always to cut ties completely unless there are kids involved.
😂😂😂😂 reminds me of someone I know who was being asked why she had to break up with such a nice guy. her response : gwe genda yyo olabe. 😅 I laughed and almost fell off my chair.
Some exes will try to get back at you. I hear teaching you hard life lessons. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Some are really good people, for example one typically calls for professionals gigs.
Thank you ladies for always sharing your thoughts and experiences allowing us to learn through you🙏🏽 Claire, I think when it comes to staying friends with the family of the “ex” ( it’s a tricky dance ) owing to the fact that it depends on how genuine & mature the family of the “ex” is. Saying you can’t be friends with a sister/brother of the “ ex”with whom you have cultivated a substantial friendship over time simply because you want to be loyal to your sibling can cost you a good friendship especially if your sibling is the villain in the story (i.e the reason as to why the break up happened in the first place) so indeed with some situations, there are exceptions. When it comes to the question of loyalty… do I want to be loyal to my sibling even when I know they are the problem? -No! I would think it’s important to choose to be loyal to what is right, what is JUST as opposed to blind loyalty simply because a human being is my sibling🤔 I think it’s an unfair way to look at things because if that person wasn’t your sibling, then your view might be different. As Fiona said, to every rule, there is an exception.
U don’t have to be always so close to your exes all the memories will get back and h end up compromising again dats y u find women have children again from their exes I even ask how did it happen I thought u guys had broken up well as the proverb goes one shouldn’t put fat oils near the fire it will smelt 😂😂😂 so if u have separated stay in ur line gal do not go back mbu let mi make him feel bad it will backfire 😅😅😅😅
once i am done, i am done. I can say hi when we meet but that is it. So far that is my experience. My POV could change in future though. Also just learnt that SOS is Surprise on surprise.
I'm cordial but I don't go looking for them or phone them to chat. If we bump into each other then hi, nice to see you and wish you all the best. But, like Claire, childhood boyfriends are child's play. I'm now 40+ and co-parenting with my ex. That's an inescapable relationship. So it's very important for co-parenting exes that it's healthy with clear boundaries for the sake of the children.
Ladies thanks for the lovely shows. Can you please discuss with all honesty about this squinting thing. I personally think it is urine🫣. Some ladies have reaffirmed my suspicions. I stand to be corrected because I have scientifically failed to prove it otherwise.
Do you guys think we need a new song? 🤔
Not at all! I love the current song.
The current audio intro is perfect, we have grown found of it.
But the current one sounds so good!! Plus it sums up everything you guys talk about in a catchy fun way.
Absolutely not!!! The intro is perfect
I love the current one
All guys that I've been in relationships with before I've made 25yrs, they aren't my exes, they're all my childhood friends 😂
😂😂😂 💯
Nange😂
Thanks for releasing us😂
Thanks for releasing us😂
its childhood friends for us😂🤣
Trick is, don't leave a relationship or marriage unless you are done done. I can not do nothing with my ex. There's nothing my ex can do or give me and i wish to go back honestly because before i exit i make sure i have given you all the chances, i have been patient, understanding, forgiving etc etc.
It's an ❌ for a reason wama
Breakups hurt, the fact that this person you so much loved each other won't choose you anymore, and furthermore choose someone else. Its only human to want be chosen always, to always be referred to the best. But, if you are able to face the true fact that there is always going to be someone better than you, face the fact that people can choose not to choose you. You get to heal completely, and know that you can also always get better or not. But rather find peace. This heals and give a peace of mind and moving on completely, where by you can still be friends with your ex if their character adds anything to your life, and if they don't add anything, you will be okay with them just being humans you won't detest them or feel a certain way when you meet them... So, being friends or not with with exes all depends on how you dealt with you two breaking up. And how you've moved on. Remember this is just a person you cared for, loved, so it doesn't stop when they become exes. What changes is that it's not in your obligations anymore. So, how about drawing lines and boundaries to only friendship. Love and care for each other with boundaries. That's if they aren't toxic... A person who knew you that much becoming a stranger always feels surreal. As in did you really love each other?? But also if your friend list is full, part ways. All I'm saying, is it shouldn't be that hard. No math...
You see how you commented? Very detailed, very insightful, very demure 🙃
I had downloaded the video ad usual for later in free time. Actually I listen during work but came in this section just to say I admired the energy Prim had today . Going to reconstruction after this. How can one have such. Such a nice feeling I can imagine
Thank you for taking us with you everywhere and letting us keep you company
My flowers to people who attend functions of their exes. Kale I can't even contribute, I would rather use that money to buy shoes, bags, gnuts and bananas 😂😅
They are confused.
🤣🤣but in all seriousness, are they humans or aliens?
Prim went from being the biggest in the group and now is almost the same size as Fiona! Wow Prim, you've really put in the work
I've been wondering if they changed the hosts. 😅I've not watched in a minute.
Thank you for faithfully watching bambi
@@hinesightmind still just the three of us 🎶😉
I came from an episode from 2yrs but couldn’t believe😢so I came to confirm😅
I wouldn’t call them “friends “ but rather people I know of, I treat them with respect, kindness and politeness just like any other human being 😊.
On that note, I don’t expect us to be in each other’s business
I think it's time we formed a support group, very many similar thought processes here
Ladies as always, you glow. We don't need light ❤. Thank you for the insightful information. All childhood friends. No exes. But am loving Prim darling.
thank you for watching🥰
Wow it really feels so light and youthful and easeful and fun. It’s so fun when our energy aligns when the miracles we have been praying for show up. 🎉
thank you for this lovely compliment. We love this energy for us as well.
My day has been made😂😂😂..you girls are hilarious yet somehow huge points are still being made..thank you so much for sharing❤️❤️
Thank you for always watching 🩷
Y'all ladies looking goooooood😊
Thak you ❤❤❤
Definitely feeling the renewed energy ❤❤looking good ladies ❤
Thank you love ❤
Prim's story 22:10, reminds me of the movie “it ends with us", its an amazing
Thanks for watching
Very soon prim and bubu might get back together. 😂
Did they break up ?😢
Yes@@crinahnasasira7128
I'm also kinda sure these guys can't be apart
They had major investments together and such a lovely love story
Ka love kakyaliyo in Jesus name🙈
Hey beautiful people. Sometimes people separate, they go through hard times. They sometimes make it, other times they don’t. It’s okay either way .
Yah, i had also noticed that the energy in the group was "funny". So glad you've had some conversations
Oh such is life sis. Thank you for this feedback
Primmmmmm surely my spirit animal!!!!!
To piggy bank on what Prim said about keeping in touch with ex's to show them what they missed. When facebook became popular in 2006, people were adding their ex's in the name of i need them to see how i am doing well in life. I do not want an ex to even know what i am doing in life.
Nange. The moment we part ways that means our business in each other’s lives is done ✅. Until we meet in the next life if there is 😊
@@BirungiZura-kq2nm Absolutely!
Personally I believe exes are in the past for a reason and I can’t mix my past with my present. There’s no being friends with exes. I’m friends with ONLY one ex and that friendship is wishing each other happy birthday and merry Christmas 😂
nga the SOPs of this friendship are easy to adhere to 😆
I am cordial with all my exes and we are in touch hwre and there. But these are people I had a thing with in my early 20s because I was already married at 25 so I dont think they even count. That being said i think the nature of your relationship after also depends on the breakup circumstances. Some people are evil and you want nothing to do with them, some breakups still have unresolved feelings that is safer to stay away. Even if I am not good at it, they say the healthier way is always to cut ties completely unless there are kids involved.
very well said. Thank you for sharing
17:09 is where prim lost me, what do you mean you are okay to be the specimen!!!! Good for him but can never be me😂👐🏽
But in all honesty, have you been the perfect one in all your relationships?
Reminded me of Prims talk I watched last year….Where do our exs a go😊♥️
Most people are good when you're not with them, just give them a chance and see!
In the words of the legendary Burna Boy, "na everybody must chop breakfast"
😂😂😂😂 reminds me of someone I know who was being asked why she had to break up with such a nice guy. her response : gwe genda yyo olabe. 😅 I laughed and almost fell off my chair.
Once we are done I don’t know you 😂😂😂
Thanks, that was fun to watch 😊
Thanks for watching
Your podcast is my weekly motivation.
Awwwww....thank you so much for affirming us like that 🥰
Naye Prim car story 😂😂😂😂
Girls you are shaking tables, my drink, please.😂
Stay Hydrated with Rwenzori Water 💧
Some exes will try to get back at you. I hear teaching you hard life lessons. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Some are really good people, for example one typically calls for professionals gigs.
Bano ba ex, where can we find them?
😂😂😂😂Prolly only good when it comes to work related issues naye nga relationships its a dead end.
Hi Ladies, yr episodes are always the reality of life 🎉
How about exes who are always trying to reach out ??? Most annoying situation !
Is there a chance that they feel like there’s an open line of communication?
@ their feelings , their business . But most of us don't appreciate it
I used to keep them friends but I was taught a tough lesson😢😢😂😂😂
Thank you ladies for always sharing your thoughts and experiences allowing us to learn through you🙏🏽
Claire, I think when it comes to staying friends with the family of the “ex” ( it’s a tricky dance ) owing to the fact that it depends on how genuine & mature the family of the “ex” is.
Saying you can’t be friends with a sister/brother of the “ ex”with whom you have cultivated a substantial friendship over time simply because you want to be loyal to your sibling can cost you a good friendship especially if your sibling is the villain in the story (i.e the reason as to why the break up happened in the first place) so indeed with some situations, there are exceptions.
When it comes to the question of loyalty… do I want to be loyal to my sibling even when I know they are the problem? -No! I would think it’s important to choose to be loyal to what is right, what is JUST as opposed to blind loyalty simply because a human being is my sibling🤔 I think it’s an unfair way to look at things because if that person wasn’t your sibling, then your view might be different. As Fiona said, to every rule, there is an exception.
🎵 🎶 🎵 waddawa exe waddawa🎶 🎵 🎶 😂😂😂
🎉
Personal l don't even have the time to jazz with my exs.
Prim 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Her energy ✨️ 😂
Fiona looking beautiful
Thank you for this compliment
🎉 congratulations
Hello ladies
The honesty with Clare's submission, remembering your ex for the good things and forgetting all the bad he did
in good times, we forget bad things quite easily
It goes to show that she is a stable and mature person. Also, content in her current relationship. ❤
U don’t have to be always so close to your exes all the memories will get back and h end up compromising again dats y u find women have children again from their exes I even ask how did it happen I thought u guys had broken up well as the proverb goes one shouldn’t put fat oils near the fire it will smelt 😂😂😂 so if u have separated stay in ur line gal do not go back mbu let mi make him feel bad it will backfire 😅😅😅😅
once i am done, i am done. I can say hi when we meet but that is it. So far that is my experience. My POV could change in future though. Also just learnt that SOS is Surprise on surprise.
❤❤❤❤🎉
Thank you for being here
☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️
You have no bussiness with your ex ,cut off ties.
Fiona is that our beautiful natural hair? I love it
I'm cordial but I don't go looking for them or phone them to chat. If we bump into each other then hi, nice to see you and wish you all the best.
But, like Claire, childhood boyfriends are child's play. I'm now 40+ and co-parenting with my ex. That's an inescapable relationship. So it's very important for co-parenting exes that it's healthy with clear boundaries for the sake of the children.
Claire 🥺♥️♥️♥️♥️
Ladies thanks for the lovely shows.
Can you please discuss with all honesty about this squinting thing. I personally think it is urine🫣. Some ladies have reaffirmed my suspicions. I stand to be corrected because I have scientifically failed to prove it otherwise.
❤❤🎉
Naye Prim car story 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂