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i'm a man. i get angry now and then, but this is different. this is a very small person letting out some bile that is churning in them. it makes my skin crawl. i completely understand it would be triggering.
He’s not famous lol a small niche of the internet watches him… I thought the “Internet Sensation” merch was a joke… People like him can’t help themselves they’re in so deep they don’t have contact with reality anymore and skew everything to be an attack on them…. They need professional help. He needs therapy. There’s nothing anyone in their life can do.
D'angelo Wallace , Toni Brianne TV, Sami sharma , chad chad. (I know these are all American but thought might also be worth a mention to add to this list of the goats) xx
I had never heard of him before today but gosh... Hearing him speak to his GIRLFRIEND like that gave me actual chills. No one should ever have to hear that but to get that from your actual life partner ?! That is so effed up. He has some major anger issues and that is definitely emotional blackmailing, guiltripping and serious verbal abuse. I would be mortified to ever be affiliated with him. No wonder all his friends have left him.
I am just appalled that there are people who treat their significant others like this. So glad that the women who came forward were able to see they deserved better and get away.
Unfortunately I can't continue watching videos about this situation as it's way too triggering from my own experience with an abusive relationship. Thank you for talking about this though and I'm really glad others ex's have come out to share their stories as that was extremely helpful for me in my own situation.
Same! I just found him a few months ago and only watched his most recent stuff. His elphaba stuff felt really awky at first but i just took it as i didnt like elphaba(context probably still dont 😂) but like this!? Holy hell. And i had the same thing happen with illuminatiiii found her for a few months and then boom
So much of how he treats to his girlfriends reminds me of my ex-dad. The constant, never-ending barrage of verbal abuse to the point you're so overwhelmed you can't even react is waaaaaay too familiar.
@@dissonantdreamslittle nerd moment: in star wars the mandalorians actually have a specific term for when children reject one of their parents. It's dar'buir (dar is a prefix meaning no longer, buir the the word for father/mother). Yes it's the same for both parents, mando'a doesn't have gender specific words, and it carries a ton of wait because it literally makes them legally no longer your parent. So there's another term you might use.
Narcissists actually tend to have very low self-esteem, hence the overcompensation trying to convince everyone else that they're important at all costs so they can feel good about themselves. It's like an addiction to external validation and that self-centeredness can cause that lack of compassion for others that creates situations like this
I feel sick to my stomach because I watched his content and thought he was a nice person. He always seemed fairly reasonable in his videos but it goes to show you really cannot trust people and how they are off the screen. More reasons to never hold anyone up on a pedestal. I hope the women affected by this nasty behavior can heal and find the right people for them. I do want to add: Allegedly he has BPD but please know mental illness does NOT excuse anyone at all to act the way Alex does. That is very unacceptable. At the same token, please do not demonize people with BPD. That is not fair to them at all. This is coming from someone who has been friends with those with BPD.
You know, not to compare one abusive relationship to others but out of all the "youtuber is an abusive partner" scandals we have I can't think of many moments more sickening than Alex threatening to bash his partners head in with a brick or telling her to be a good dog And the way he uses "woman" as a slur with so much hate. Dude seriously has an issue with women
A year ago was an almost identical situation on Polish YT - the guy was a Commentary UA-camr, with a full-on image of moral superiority - it turned out he had an extremely young girlfriend [she was 16 to 18, when they were together, and he is 8 years older] and was abusive towards her. In screenshots, and recordings he acted the same way Alex did. I think it's a specific type of personality, and I wish there were a way to notice it before they hurt anyone...
So glad to see people talking about it. I grew up around DV and had an abusive relationship and can identify with bits. There is a pattern. I think his career is over but with social media i wonder where he could work.
He'll have to get a shlub job like everyone else. Maybe food service, maybe a security guard, maybe an amazon driver. All of these things require no previous skill set.
"After this, they moved in together" at about 11:50 is one of the most surprising and baffling sentences to hear after *all that came before* that point. God, I hope she'll be okay.
i don't think i've ever seen one of these stories where the abuser is so....loud about it? like, the first fucking text conversation we see has slurs and shit. usually that's buried because the abuser knows it's wrong and that can make it easier for fans to make excuses for them but how the fuck do you see someone say even half that shit to *anybody* and continue to like and engage with their output??
My ex, who didn't have a job whatsoever, used to say my job (retail) wasn't a "real" job... I just hope Alice can move on and find someone who loves her for her and is kind, sweet and understanding. Alex is PoS and I hope this ends his career and he has to get an actual job, where no one knows who he is and gets berated the same way he's berated his exes.
I've never used this feature before but your work deserves to be monetised. 💷💷💷💷 Looking forward to your inabber video as I can't make head or tail of it.
I don't say this lightly, mainly because I feel people throw the word around too much without really knowing the gravity of what it means. This is narcissistic behavior, the "your not even trying" over and over without any clear definitions of what means. . They can never meet HIS expectations. That clip of his "self reflection" message to a former partner is the classic narcissist, "you should feel bad for ME, forget what I did to you". . Just god awful 🤦🏽♀️
@@katodd2925BPD and NPD are often comorbid. Alex comes across as pathologically narcissistic in the information on the Google Drive whether or not he has BPD.
You can't trust content creators anymore it feels like. I'm not saying that we shouldn't find any trust nor comfort in a creator's content, but so many of them do so much foul shit without people knowing. I wish these people never had the chance to gain a platform
Isn't that the case for anyone that's a celebrity / public personality? You only see what they want you to see and there could be a whole bunch of things happening behind the scenes you don't know about.
Ooft literally flashbacks to when i hung up on my ex because he was yelling at me because i sounded sad on the phone (i was anxious that hed start yelling) and literally the same as alice i was like "youve gotta understand i hung up because you were being nasty" but it was always my fault, my problem, my fck up And the way at 8:52 that he rants and raves but cant even say what shes done wrong just that shes an idiot amd shes fucked up is so telling. Hes really just doing the most.
Thanks for covering such a hard topic. Going to put my armour on to get through this one this morning. Goodness the venom behind his words is terrifying. Too close to home.
@meowtherainbowx4163 I’m not a hardcore watcher but, I feel like his body language and tone has become a bit more abrasive and angry compared to his older videos.
literally, i hadnt watched him for YEARS and then like a day before this all broke out, i watched a video of his and he was making jokes whilst staring into the camera that he was gonna cause harm, it was so strange and unhinged out of nowhere, like he was getting joy out of saying these things. so weird
The eBoys actually used to live in my area (Will and George may still do). It's utterly horrifying seeing and hearing all this stuff about Alex. Alex should probably be in prison, if I'm being honest. His behaviour is terrifying, and he is an actual danger to everyone.
I am glad to see that Memeulous and WillNE have spoken out against him. Unfortunately (and potentially unfairly), I do associafe both of them with Alex and have already unfollowed that whole group, including James Marriott. I honestly cant be convinced that George, who lived with him for YEARS, didnt see any indication of this behavior.
I'd feel that way more strongly if it seemed like any of them were still friends with Alex, but it seems like they all cut ties (at least in their work life) ages ago. I also think it's important to say that ab*sers are very good at hiding their behavior publicly and it's quite possible they didn't know for the duration (my friend group didn't know and we were all quite close when it was happening to me). It's definitely possible they knew and turned a blind eye. However I don't think that's inherently the case, especially since the behavior seems to have gotten more extreme and difficult to hide in this relationship (when they'd already mostly stopped seeing him) versus the previous ones.
@@natatatmexactly. It's hard to imaginable that level of manipulation without experiencing it. But yes, they'll often have whole families or multiple coworkers weaponized against each other without a clue what's happening.
The whole group cut ties so abrupty back then, i was a will fan and i enjoyed james too, but memelous and alex.. uh. I did enjoy the whole gang vibes, but yeah, the way everything suddenly just ended was very sus
I can't quite believe how many content creators l watch have turned out to be abusive trash! Thanks for saying you were embarrassed that you ever watched him, because...same! This comment is for your algorithm!
Sadly a family member of mine married someone like him. And currently my oldest is with someone who talks to them like this. I really can’t do much be there because my oldest is an adult and I don’t really want to chase them away by insulting their partner. I did tell my oldest that their partner is lucky their personality isn’t like the one I had at there age, but I would have left. I know I would have because I’d done it before. DV doesn’t always have to be physical. I think people who are mentally, emotionally, verbally and financially abusive are far more insidious than people who hit. Both are equally dangerous and difficult to escape.
@@cailinanne if only it were that simple. I’ve sent my kiddo videos about narcissists before and they were never watched. My hope is that my kiddo’s therapist can help them see the light. They’ve only had one session with a second on the calendar. My own therapist is helping me keep sane and step back.
@@tracyhue23 Their therapist probably doesn’t know. Your child is probably not admitting what’s happening. We tend to hide it, because we know others will get mad about partner and we don’t want to hear it, so it’s just easier to keep it to yourself. You keep thinking you love them so much and they say they love you back so you think they will change, but why would your crying work the next time when it never has before? Hopefully it won’t have to escalate before they realise they don’t deserve to be treated like that by anyone, never mind your partner. Look after yourself too and just let your child know you’ll always be ready to go help them when the time comes, that if it’s 4am you’ll still, go to them. Take care 💜
This guy LOVES the sound of his own voice. particularly loves to hear the sound of his voice degrading people he claims to love. Like you can tell how he speaks, the way he repeats himself, the words he repeats…this guy actually gets off on the sound of his own abuse. I just…that is so…….
What is insane about this situation is that this guy talks about how horrible others are - but then behind the scenes hes like this. Did he not think hed get called out? That eventually how he is would get exposed? He turned on his HD webcam just to scream and threaten his girlfriend, he had to have known this would bite him in the ass???
SAME. The only times i ever heard him even briefly is through some of the Bowblax videos. and hes only a one off that you could blink and miss it. Hes THAT IRRELEVANT
I only heard of him recently because I occasionally watch iNabber and they had a podcast together. After that some of his videos showed up in my recommended if it was a topic I was following. Must say that he had zero background knowledge for the videos of his I watched so made big assumptions about things (I watched the Dance Moms and JoJo Siwa vids)
Alex is exactly like my ex in the worst ways possible. The love bombing, name calling, “breaking up”, followed by more love bombing, is a viscous cycle and it slowly breaks you as a person.
I’d been kind of keeping a distance from this particular scandal, cuz I only saw a few clips of how he spoke to her, and realized that for any abuse victim this dude was hitting every red button. I really do appreciate the commentary channels that can water it down into a more digestible and less triggering format just to understand what’s going on without us normies having to comb through our own trauma just to get a grasp on the situation. That being said, if you are affected, don’t pause to read the text exchanges, if you’ve been through that kind of thing you already know what it says in so many different words, knowing the exact words said and possibly messing your own day up is unnecessary.
Glad she got out after being hit cause that could have easily escalated further, alex needs either jail or extensive therapy, I never watched him but I picked up on his character pretty early on
my GAWD does he love to hear himself yell!! in the recordings... did she even SPEAK?? only one thing to do.. everytime this situation arises... run.. don't look back. trust me...
Loves the sound of his own voice. Like shut tf up guy. Never heard of this “Internet sensation” until this video. I hope he gets humbled real quick and his ego is put in check. Overly inflated. What a pr!ck. Those girls were out of his league and instead of being decent, he was abusive and negging.
Had an experience similar to this with one of my ex's (though less extrene). It's absolutely horrible to be with someone like this and it messes up later relationships because you're scared to bring up issues in case they get mad at you. I am still shocked when my current boyfriend is supportive when I bring up issues, instead of instantly making it about him. Hope Alice can feel some peace now that Alex has been exposed for who he is.
I haven't heard much about this guy in several years, but this comes as no surprise. I remember him building up a reputation for starting/joining numerous podcasts just to fall out with all his cohosts. He liked spreading gossip about others whenever it was popular to hate on them. He seemed to have trouble keeping friends around, and now it's obvious why.
It's so scary to see someone acting like this. I already struggle with some basic stuff, I can't imagine how to deal with someone like that, especially this someone being the closest person, with whom you spend the most time and who you should be able to trust I'm sorry they went through this with that guy
I hope Alice is ok and on her way to better things. It was really brave of her to speak out; partners like Alex can really tear you down and make you feel like you don’t matter.
i dont even have personal experiences like this but videos about the situation with clips have been impossible for me to watch...its just very disturbing and horrific. i am thinking of the survivors and anyone else who has gone through this and thank you for spreading awareness because he seriously needs to be deplatformed
I found his Alex Elmslie channel earlier this year and I enjoyed his videos up until this point. I didn't know anything about his past behavior until this came out. Unsubscribed
I hate that there are so many toxic people who have influence on people. Like, people like him make it seem it is ok to be abusive like this for those who are young and don't know better.
I’m not great at getting the ick over the internet. However, I always felt he had some anger problems but assumed it was played up for the videos but hey guess not.
" I despise myself enough that my ego stays in check" girrrl that's classic can I use it? lol.... great vid as always. This guy is a total piece of garbage!!.... allegedly.
I had only seen a handful of his videos over the past year, I had no idea this was going on. Thank you for making this video so I can make sure I never watch another one. Also, it's pretty mental for a drama commentator to be so ready to text such horrible stuff. Like did he not think they'd be screen shotted???? What a clown
Laying crumbs for the algorithm. 😉 Great video on an very tough topic. It stinks that important conversations like this are financially discouraged in favor of happy light topics because *aDvErTiSeRs*.
I’m so sorry for the victims of him. Maybe on discussing topics such as domestic violence in the future could be helpful to link sources we can donate or information about how victims can report this behavior
My ex fiance was exactly like this, apart from he was a benefit scrounger and i worked full time. He threw a glass ash tray at my head, pushed me to the floor. His (ex) Best friend saved me, gave me the confidence and security to leave. And then we fell deeply in love, and have been together 17 years, married for 7 and 2 kids!
Vangelina, as a victim of multiple types of abuse, and a previous fan of his channel, i am also disgusted by this. I am embarrassed and ashamed that i EVER controbuted to his income. IF YOU HAVE EVER BEEN A VICTIM OF ABUSE AND HAVE HAD THE COURAGE TO COME FORWARD, AND YOU TRANSITIONED FROM VICTIM TO SURVIVOR... I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
It’s hard not to laugh at him when he gets rude and mean and calls someone a dog because he’s a weasel. A baby weasel and I laugh because it stops me from raging.
It’s the lisp. Idk how he can sit there and say these revolting things while lisping his way through it all 🤡 speech therapy is hard to come by, but not hard for someone with 2mill subs.
I watched one or two of his videos a long time back and I always felt something was off (autistic pattern recognition let’s go /s) so I purposely avoided any of his videos. Now I know that the icky feeling wasn’t unfounded :(
This platform’s a breeding ground for these types of people these days.. I think the ones who turn out to be terrible come into the game as narcs in their regular lives, it’s just the resulting clout and money that takes it to a larger scale to where they believe they are above reproach without consequences coming to them eventually. It’s interesting to see the frequency that these stories arise.
I just subscribed to you, and almost tried to sub again when I heard your rant at the end about Alex using editing headphones to listen to UA-cam videos! I’ve never understood why creators do this, it always bugs me, so thank you for pointing this out and making me feel normal 😂
Wow! I have watched Alex give his commentary on Elphaba, CLA etc. and I of course had no clue about his behaviour in his personal life. What little I have just heard about how he speaks to his girlfriend which sounds very abusive. It sounds like he has lots to learn about humility and seeing himself in a clearer more balanced way.
I gotta say, as an autistic person. I LOVE using my audio mixing headphones for watching vidoes and listening to music. Its the only true sound blocking thing
Hello lovelies. Yet another of my videos has been demonetised. Not only does this mean I won't make any income (this is my full time job) but it also means that this video will be supressed; so please watch and engage with this video so it isn't screwed by the algorithm. Thank you x
It's not just you everyone who is talking about it has videos demonitized
That’s such BS from UA-cam.
Real question - can you share why these videos are being demonetized? I don’t understand.
Sorry that's happening although maybe not surprising with the topic. Let's drive up engagement everyone!
Yea, unfortunately, this topic is a demonitization nightmare.
the way he speaks is beyond triggering to anyone who knows what it's like.
i'm a man. i get angry now and then, but this is different. this is a very small person letting out some bile that is churning in them.
it makes my skin crawl. i completely understand it would be triggering.
Yep. Yep yep. Yeeeeeep.
I felt it
The rage is insanity
yep, just recently got out of a dv relationship that lasted almost 3 years and seeing the texts and videos it makes me sick to my stomach
It's so weird seeing him being abusive at his youtube set up bro, especially after he was like 'your boyfriend is a famous internet celebrity'
It's actually so unnerving
There's something so surreal about it, right?? He destroyed any remaining doubt it was real by turning on his camera.
It's ALWAYS his type of person who are the loudest trying to bury others being SJW purity testers that have the most skeletons.
He’s not famous lol a small niche of the internet watches him… I thought the “Internet Sensation” merch was a joke… People like him can’t help themselves they’re in so deep they don’t have contact with reality anymore and skew everything to be an attack on them…. They need professional help. He needs therapy. There’s nothing anyone in their life can do.
UK commentary to watch instead of Alex: MARKIE, iNabber, Angelika Oles, Ammy Robinson, Allize.
D'angelo Wallace , Toni Brianne TV, Sami sharma , chad chad. (I know these are all American but thought might also be worth a mention to add to this list of the goats) xx
What a great comment!! 🩷🩷🩷
also ItzKeisha
MARKIE is my go to
iNabber is absolutely class. Super respectful but doesn't mince his words. Love the guy.
I had never heard of him before today but gosh... Hearing him speak to his GIRLFRIEND like that gave me actual chills. No one should ever have to hear that but to get that from your actual life partner ?! That is so effed up. He has some major anger issues and that is definitely emotional blackmailing, guiltripping and serious verbal abuse. I would be mortified to ever be affiliated with him. No wonder all his friends have left him.
Agree. I just couldn't believe what I was hearing.
Same. Like holy fucking shit dude. Get some help.
Same here. I never heard of the guy until I saw iNabber posting about the whole thing.
I am just appalled that there are people who treat their significant others like this. So glad that the women who came forward were able to see they deserved better and get away.
It happens so often. It sucks so much😟
I need "It can be alleged and I can hope he rots" on a shirt😂. Love your content ❤
Omg new merch
@@VangelinaSkovI’d buy that T-Shirt!
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same!
He's relentless while shes PACKING. I feel so bad for her. Im glad she got this evidence.
Bro went from roasted to cooked, to burnt REAL quick. Insane
He's Anakin now after the fight with Obi Wan
Surprised that he still has a platform after what he did to Slazo. Then doubled down on it.
What did he do? What happened?
Yes I’d like to know too
@@lxlx7941 he was alleging that slazo did the same things he's being exposed for right now
Unfortunately I can't continue watching videos about this situation as it's way too triggering from my own experience with an abusive relationship. Thank you for talking about this though and I'm really glad others ex's have come out to share their stories as that was extremely helpful for me in my own situation.
Very understandable and please take care of yourself. Love and respect for your strength and hoping for your continued recovery.
I tried listening to TeMimi's video about it. Actually got a tight chest and started sweating.
You take care of your wellbeing, love. 💜
It’s truly difficult to take in.
How he even continued to have a platform after what he did to Slazo is insane. This BETTER be the final nail in the coffin.
What he do?
@@777jimothyi think he falsely accused him of sexually assaulting a woman
What a disturbing human. Can't believe I used to watch him if even for only a couple of videos
Same! I just found him a few months ago and only watched his most recent stuff. His elphaba stuff felt really awky at first but i just took it as i didnt like elphaba(context probably still dont 😂) but like this!? Holy hell. And i had the same thing happen with illuminatiiii found her for a few months and then boom
Same.
So much of how he treats to his girlfriends reminds me of my ex-dad. The constant, never-ending barrage of verbal abuse to the point you're so overwhelmed you can't even react is waaaaaay too familiar.
Yep, same here. Huge red flags. I like the term “ex-dad” btw, I tend to call mine “the sperm donor” but yours has a nicer ring to it lol
@@dissonantdreamslittle nerd moment: in star wars the mandalorians actually have a specific term for when children reject one of their parents. It's dar'buir (dar is a prefix meaning no longer, buir the the word for father/mother). Yes it's the same for both parents, mando'a doesn't have gender specific words, and it carries a ton of wait because it literally makes them legally no longer your parent. So there's another term you might use.
“I despise myself enough that my ego is in check.” Big goddamn same. Good thing too, or I’d be unstoppable 🙃
Not me claiming im just two trash pandas fighting over a pizza crust in a trash bin, just to keep me in check. 😅
Narcissists actually tend to have very low self-esteem, hence the overcompensation trying to convince everyone else that they're important at all costs so they can feel good about themselves. It's like an addiction to external validation and that self-centeredness can cause that lack of compassion for others that creates situations like this
@@kiarranarisse yep! narcissism is entirely based in shame and self-loathing. its about having an ego that is fragile, not necessarily inflated.
He's an internet "celebrity" and yet i am chronically online have NEVER heard of him 😂😂😂
"May his career end. Amen" I love it when we bust out the manifesting
I feel sick to my stomach because I watched his content and thought he was a nice person. He always seemed fairly reasonable in his videos but it goes to show you really cannot trust people and how they are off the screen. More reasons to never hold anyone up on a pedestal. I hope the women affected by this nasty behavior can heal and find the right people for them.
I do want to add: Allegedly he has BPD but please know mental illness does NOT excuse anyone at all to act the way Alex does. That is very unacceptable. At the same token, please do not demonize people with BPD. That is not fair to them at all. This is coming from someone who has been friends with those with BPD.
You know, not to compare one abusive relationship to others but out of all the "youtuber is an abusive partner" scandals we have I can't think of many moments more sickening than Alex threatening to bash his partners head in with a brick or telling her to be a good dog
And the way he uses "woman" as a slur with so much hate. Dude seriously has an issue with women
Last UA-camr to make me feel this sick to my stomach was onision with poor Shiloh. That video he took of her after he had shaved her head
A year ago was an almost identical situation on Polish YT - the guy was a Commentary UA-camr, with a full-on image of moral superiority - it turned out he had an extremely young girlfriend [she was 16 to 18, when they were together, and he is 8 years older] and was abusive towards her. In screenshots, and recordings he acted the same way Alex did.
I think it's a specific type of personality, and I wish there were a way to notice it before they hurt anyone...
wait, you mean Gargamel? i kinda remember the situation lol
So glad to see people talking about it. I grew up around DV and had an abusive relationship and can identify with bits. There is a pattern. I think his career is over but with social media i wonder where he could work.
He'll have to get a shlub job like everyone else. Maybe food service, maybe a security guard, maybe an amazon driver. All of these things require no previous skill set.
Agree. Everyone is covering it. And it's deserved especially since in the past he accused an innocent man of DV and destroyed his career
"After this, they moved in together" at about 11:50 is one of the most surprising and baffling sentences to hear after *all that came before* that point. God, I hope she'll be okay.
i don't think i've ever seen one of these stories where the abuser is so....loud about it? like, the first fucking text conversation we see has slurs and shit. usually that's buried because the abuser knows it's wrong and that can make it easier for fans to make excuses for them but how the fuck do you see someone say even half that shit to *anybody* and continue to like and engage with their output??
Probably been going on for so long that he got comfortable saying stuff like that.
As an Alex, we do not approve of this Alex 🙅♀️
Ditto. This Alex also doesn't approve either. Yikes! 👀
It's sad that this girl went through this... Thanks for the video~
My ex, who didn't have a job whatsoever, used to say my job (retail) wasn't a "real" job...
I just hope Alice can move on and find someone who loves her for her and is kind, sweet and understanding. Alex is PoS and I hope this ends his career and he has to get an actual job, where no one knows who he is and gets berated the same way he's berated his exes.
I've never used this feature before but your work deserves to be monetised. 💷💷💷💷
Looking forward to your inabber video as I can't make head or tail of it.
Appreciate this thank you 💖
I don't say this lightly, mainly because I feel people throw the word around too much without really knowing the gravity of what it means. This is narcissistic behavior, the "your not even trying" over and over without any clear definitions of what means. . They can never meet HIS expectations. That clip of his "self reflection" message to a former partner is the classic narcissist, "you should feel bad for ME, forget what I did to you". . Just god awful 🤦🏽♀️
Yes, yes it is.
No, this is the result of not taking medication on BPD
@@katodd2925 I've been hand fed the script by a parent, but personal experience aside, you can be both narcissistic and have BPD 🤷🏽♀️
@@katodd2925BPD and NPD are often comorbid. Alex comes across as pathologically narcissistic in the information on the Google Drive whether or not he has BPD.
@@katodd2925 We don't become abusive just because we're unmedicated. Why demonise BPD further..
I always thought he was making fun of the people who let fame get to their heads with his merch... turns out he believed it
You can't trust content creators anymore it feels like. I'm not saying that we shouldn't find any trust nor comfort in a creator's content, but so many of them do so much foul shit without people knowing. I wish these people never had the chance to gain a platform
Isn't that the case for anyone that's a celebrity / public personality? You only see what they want you to see and there could be a whole bunch of things happening behind the scenes you don't know about.
content creators aren't our friends. people need to stop idolising them or this will continue to happen unfortunately.
Ooft literally flashbacks to when i hung up on my ex because he was yelling at me because i sounded sad on the phone (i was anxious that hed start yelling) and literally the same as alice i was like "youve gotta understand i hung up because you were being nasty" but it was always my fault, my problem, my fck up
And the way at 8:52 that he rants and raves but cant even say what shes done wrong just that shes an idiot amd shes fucked up is so telling. Hes really just doing the most.
Bahahaha the little chimes ringing every time he swears… it’s like a fairy dropping dead each time he’s psychotically abusive
Thanks for covering such a hard topic. Going to put my armour on to get through this one this morning. Goodness the venom behind his words is terrifying. Too close to home.
I don't usually comment but I appreciated this video and equally am irritated by demonitization. You go girl!
Narcissistic behaviour and coercive control.
It's absolutely baffling to find out this info about him, geez. I feel like he's been getting more and more unhinged in his videos.
How is it showing in his videos? I don't watch his stuff.
@meowtherainbowx4163 I’m not a hardcore watcher but, I feel like his body language and tone has become a bit more abrasive and angry compared to his older videos.
literally, i hadnt watched him for YEARS and then like a day before this all broke out, i watched a video of his and he was making jokes whilst staring into the camera that he was gonna cause harm, it was so strange and unhinged out of nowhere, like he was getting joy out of saying these things. so weird
Engagement for the algorithm bc i can't think of anything clever to say
same
Same 2: Electric Bogaloo
Same x3
witty response
Ditto
The eBoys actually used to live in my area (Will and George may still do). It's utterly horrifying seeing and hearing all this stuff about Alex. Alex should probably be in prison, if I'm being honest. His behaviour is terrifying, and he is an actual danger to everyone.
what the actual fuck, praying for the victims🤍
I am glad to see that Memeulous and WillNE have spoken out against him. Unfortunately (and potentially unfairly), I do associafe both of them with Alex and have already unfollowed that whole group, including James Marriott. I honestly cant be convinced that George, who lived with him for YEARS, didnt see any indication of this behavior.
I'd feel that way more strongly if it seemed like any of them were still friends with Alex, but it seems like they all cut ties (at least in their work life) ages ago. I also think it's important to say that ab*sers are very good at hiding their behavior publicly and it's quite possible they didn't know for the duration (my friend group didn't know and we were all quite close when it was happening to me). It's definitely possible they knew and turned a blind eye. However I don't think that's inherently the case, especially since the behavior seems to have gotten more extreme and difficult to hide in this relationship (when they'd already mostly stopped seeing him) versus the previous ones.
@@natatatmexactly. It's hard to imaginable that level of manipulation without experiencing it. But yes, they'll often have whole families or multiple coworkers weaponized against each other without a clue what's happening.
The whole group cut ties so abrupty back then, i was a will fan and i enjoyed james too, but memelous and alex.. uh. I did enjoy the whole gang vibes, but yeah, the way everything suddenly just ended was very sus
I can't quite believe how many content creators l watch have turned out to be abusive trash! Thanks for saying you were embarrassed that you ever watched him, because...same! This comment is for your algorithm!
As a woman who has been in an abusive relationship, I hate that I ever watched his channel
Same.xx
Love your commentary! This is insane, and so is he.
Sadly a family member of mine married someone like him. And currently my oldest is with someone who talks to them like this.
I really can’t do much be there because my oldest is an adult and I don’t really want to chase them away by insulting their partner.
I did tell my oldest that their partner is lucky their personality isn’t like the one I had at there age, but I would have left. I know I would have because I’d done it before.
DV doesn’t always have to be physical. I think people who are mentally, emotionally, verbally and financially abusive are far more insidious than people who hit. Both are equally dangerous and difficult to escape.
Send them this video
@@cailinanne if only it were that simple. I’ve sent my kiddo videos about narcissists before and they were never watched. My hope is that my kiddo’s therapist can help them see the light. They’ve only had one session with a second on the calendar. My own therapist is helping me keep sane and step back.
@@tracyhue23 Their therapist probably doesn’t know. Your child is probably not admitting what’s happening. We tend to hide it, because we know others will get mad about partner and we don’t want to hear it, so it’s just easier to keep it to yourself. You keep thinking you love them so much and they say they love you back so you think they will change, but why would your crying work the next time when it never has before?
Hopefully it won’t have to escalate before they realise they don’t deserve to be treated like that by anyone, never mind your partner.
Look after yourself too and just let your child know you’ll always be ready to go help them when the time comes, that if it’s 4am you’ll still, go to them. Take care 💜
This guy LOVES the sound of his own voice. particularly loves to hear the sound of his voice degrading people he claims to love. Like you can tell how he speaks, the way he repeats himself, the words he repeats…this guy actually gets off on the sound of his own abuse.
I just…that is so…….
What is insane about this situation is that this guy talks about how horrible others are - but then behind the scenes hes like this. Did he not think hed get called out? That eventually how he is would get exposed? He turned on his HD webcam just to scream and threaten his girlfriend, he had to have known this would bite him in the ass???
nah, he's just an idiot moron ...which need a lil' jail or prison time
Ego....he believes he is above consequences.
It’s diabolical how when she packs he just keep yapping and insulting her. Just this extract alone shows how delusional he is 🤢
Hilarious, being that I am quite sure I have never heard of ImAllexx until this whole drama blew up that he thinks he is an internet celebrity.
SAME. The only times i ever heard him even briefly is through some of the Bowblax videos. and hes only a one off that you could blink and miss it. Hes THAT IRRELEVANT
Same.
I only heard of him when he and other creators were harassing Slazo over false allegations
lol right? My intro to this was iNabber's google doc yesterday, I had to piece together the overarching situation until I watched this video lol
I only heard of him recently because I occasionally watch iNabber and they had a podcast together. After that some of his videos showed up in my recommended if it was a topic I was following.
Must say that he had zero background knowledge for the videos of his I watched so made big assumptions about things (I watched the Dance Moms and JoJo Siwa vids)
this behavior is terrifying. With all the death threats, i fear he may end up actually hurting someone
Always appreciate your content
Appreciate your comment!
I've only watched a few of his videos because it made me uncomfortable just how obsessive and emotional he got over elpheba
Omg I’ve never watched those cause I avoided him since slazo. How was his tone when talking about Elphaba?
Yup
I used to watch him a lot when I was younger too, definitely looked up to him a lot which is crazy to think about now. All my support to Alice.
Alex is exactly like my ex in the worst ways possible. The love bombing, name calling, “breaking up”, followed by more love bombing, is a viscous cycle and it slowly breaks you as a person.
He won't stop talking crap, what in the hell he thinks he is?
Poor girl! I'm my dv situation I was smashed in the face with a weapon until my nose broke and blood spattered everywhere to "shut me up".
I’d been kind of keeping a distance from this particular scandal, cuz I only saw a few clips of how he spoke to her, and realized that for any abuse victim this dude was hitting every red button. I really do appreciate the commentary channels that can water it down into a more digestible and less triggering format just to understand what’s going on without us normies having to comb through our own trauma just to get a grasp on the situation.
That being said, if you are affected, don’t pause to read the text exchanges, if you’ve been through that kind of thing you already know what it says in so many different words, knowing the exact words said and possibly messing your own day up is unnecessary.
Commenting for the algorithm to keep this video going. Liked, and now it's time to sit back and watch.
Glad she got out after being hit cause that could have easily escalated further, alex needs either jail or extensive therapy, I never watched him but I picked up on his character pretty early on
I eventually got tired of him describing someone as "Mental" for the strangest reasons. You just don't do that to anyone
That 24min voice memo is enough to not have to say "allegedly" about anything. He admits it all in his own words.
my GAWD does he love to hear himself yell!! in the recordings... did she even SPEAK?? only one thing to do.. everytime this situation arises... run.. don't look back. trust me...
Loves the sound of his own voice. Like shut tf up guy. Never heard of this “Internet sensation” until this video. I hope he gets humbled real quick and his ego is put in check. Overly inflated. What a pr!ck.
Those girls were out of his league and instead of being decent, he was abusive and negging.
How does this man even get girlfriends ?
Genuinely also wondering.
His personality is even less charming than his looks.
confidence, I have no confidence so basically never talk to girls when out but people like him with massive egos will talk to anyone
Had an experience similar to this with one of my ex's (though less extrene). It's absolutely horrible to be with someone like this and it messes up later relationships because you're scared to bring up issues in case they get mad at you. I am still shocked when my current boyfriend is supportive when I bring up issues, instead of instantly making it about him. Hope Alice can feel some peace now that Alex has been exposed for who he is.
Does the UK have small-claims court for the damaged computer?
We do, not sure exactly how it works though
Or a small clams court! 🤣
@tarasalad I saw a serious video about court claims and I read it as court clams. 😂 forever ruined
Does he think he's educated because he got internet famous young?. So gross. ! He doesn't know shit! The way he speaks to her is so upsetting
I haven't heard much about this guy in several years, but this comes as no surprise. I remember him building up a reputation for starting/joining numerous podcasts just to fall out with all his cohosts. He liked spreading gossip about others whenever it was popular to hate on them. He seemed to have trouble keeping friends around, and now it's obvious why.
It's so scary to see someone acting like this. I already struggle with some basic stuff, I can't imagine how to deal with someone like that, especially this someone being the closest person, with whom you spend the most time and who you should be able to trust
I'm sorry they went through this with that guy
I hope Alice is ok and on her way to better things. It was really brave of her to speak out; partners like Alex can really tear you down and make you feel like you don’t matter.
It is CRAZY that this guy actually set up Slazo to be cancelled but then turned out to be much much worse than slazo ever was.
“You’re not trying to solve any of these problems.” Bro, you kicked her in the back, you’re done. SHE IS DONE.
i dont even have personal experiences like this but videos about the situation with clips have been impossible for me to watch...its just very disturbing and horrific. i am thinking of the survivors and anyone else who has gone through this and thank you for spreading awareness because he seriously needs to be deplatformed
Wild that the same guy who kept doubling down and sitting on Slazo, even after the allegations were proven false, was himself an abusive pos
I found his Alex Elmslie channel earlier this year and I enjoyed his videos up until this point. I didn't know anything about his past behavior until this came out. Unsubscribed
Same situation here, I hate that I watched him
I hate that there are so many toxic people who have influence on people. Like, people like him make it seem it is ok to be abusive like this for those who are young and don't know better.
I used to love this guy. But I stopped watching him a long time ago because something about how he was attacking a victim.
Same thing with me.
Also I wasn’t a fan how he interacted with Ani in videos - he just seemed off.
I’m not great at getting the ick over the internet. However, I always felt he had some anger problems but assumed it was played up for the videos but hey guess not.
" I despise myself enough that my ego stays in check" girrrl that's classic can I use it? lol.... great vid as always. This guy is a total piece of garbage!!.... allegedly.
You can absolutely use it lmao. And thank you for the super thanks 💕
I had only seen a handful of his videos over the past year, I had no idea this was going on. Thank you for making this video so I can make sure I never watch another one. Also, it's pretty mental for a drama commentator to be so ready to text such horrible stuff. Like did he not think they'd be screen shotted???? What a clown
Laying crumbs for the algorithm. 😉
Great video on an very tough topic. It stinks that important conversations like this are financially discouraged in favor of happy light topics because *aDvErTiSeRs*.
"That's a bit embarrassing for his soul" 😂😂😂
I’m so sorry for the victims of him. Maybe on discussing topics such as domestic violence in the future could be helpful to link sources we can donate or information about how victims can report this behavior
At 09:47 ish where he flips about bashing her head in with a brick. You can see the unhinged switch flick on.
My ex fiance was exactly like this, apart from he was a benefit scrounger and i worked full time. He threw a glass ash tray at my head, pushed me to the floor. His (ex) Best friend saved me, gave me the confidence and security to leave. And then we fell deeply in love, and have been together 17 years, married for 7 and 2 kids!
It’s funny because my intro to this guy was him absing his gf. Hopefully everyone can move on and heal (except Alex)
Same here.
Vangelina, as a victim of multiple types of abuse, and a previous fan of his channel, i am also disgusted by this. I am embarrassed and ashamed that i EVER controbuted to his income.
IF YOU HAVE EVER BEEN A VICTIM OF ABUSE AND HAVE HAD THE COURAGE TO COME FORWARD, AND YOU TRANSITIONED FROM VICTIM TO SURVIVOR... I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
What an overgrown toddler. I hope she finds peace...
It’s hard not to laugh at him when he gets rude and mean and calls someone a dog because he’s a weasel. A baby weasel and I laugh because it stops me from raging.
It’s the lisp. Idk how he can sit there and say these revolting things while lisping his way through it all 🤡 speech therapy is hard to come by, but not hard for someone with 2mill subs.
I never suspected this. Alex is deranged.
Commenting for algorithm. I'm so sorry these women went through this and i hope they can someday heal.
I watched one or two of his videos a long time back and I always felt something was off (autistic pattern recognition let’s go /s) so I purposely avoided any of his videos. Now I know that the icky feeling wasn’t unfounded :(
I always got bad vibes from him and stopped watching him years ago because of it
This platform’s a breeding ground for these types of people these days.. I think the ones who turn out to be terrible come into the game as narcs in their regular lives, it’s just the resulting clout and money that takes it to a larger scale to where they believe they are above reproach without consequences coming to them eventually. It’s interesting to see the frequency that these stories arise.
Men like him absolutely horrify me
UA-cam gave me the TLC - No Scrub advert mid him screaming as she is leaving 😂
I just subscribed to you, and almost tried to sub again when I heard your rant at the end about Alex using editing headphones to listen to UA-cam videos! I’ve never understood why creators do this, it always bugs me, so thank you for pointing this out and making me feel normal 😂
The humble Vangelina as always a great video!
Fight the algorithm, engage!!
YES! Fight that program!
this is war. lol
Wow! I have watched Alex give his commentary on Elphaba, CLA etc. and I of course had no clue about his behaviour in his personal life. What little I have just heard about how he speaks to his girlfriend which sounds very abusive. It sounds like he has lots to learn about humility and seeing himself in a clearer more balanced way.
I gotta say, as an autistic person. I LOVE using my audio mixing headphones for watching vidoes and listening to music. Its the only true sound blocking thing
wait wait wait I need to know more about this - what are audio mixing headphones?
Thanks for covering this topic