Ultimate Modest Dressing Guide: How to Dress Modest Bohemian Style | Fashion & Makeup Tips
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- 🌸 Dressing Modestly: Bohemian Style & Makeup Tips 🌸
Learn how to create a modest Bohemian look with these style and makeup tips! In this video, I'll share my favorite clothing pieces, layering techniques, and makeup hacks to help you feel fabulous every day.
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Discover the "Dressing Your Truth" method for embracing your true style.
Guidelines for modest dressing: Cover your torso, collarbones, elbows, and knees.
Choose flowing, non-pleated skirts for that Bohemian flair.
Layering adds depth and modesty to your outfits.
Shop smart: Find treasures at thrift stores, Marshalls, Target, and Burlington.
Accessories matter: Opt for chunky belts and colorful shoes.
Makeup tips for a quick and natural look.
Don't forget to match your jewelry to your style!
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I am a type 3 and into the boho flair. I have begun dressing more modestly. I feel like you made this for me! Thank you!
You have an amazing way of expressing modern things with a godly undertone. I love watching your videos!
You continually express from a non-ego place. It is appreciated!
Dear Rivka, I know this is probably weird for you to hear, but I just Loooove you!
you are such a breath of fresh air, your honesty, your joy and your truth shine soooo strongly. You are such an inspiration. I watch ALL of your videos and always glean such pearls of wisdom from them. I too dress Very modest and Very bohemian. I'm a bit older than you, so that BoHo look was actually in style when I was young and it is what I most identify myself with. I love to match my head coverings with my outfits and bring in color, texture, and flow! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all you do...for just being YOU! Shalom :-)
shalomgirl Wo hoo! It sounds like we could look like sisters with that look! It's so interesting how different eras find their expression in fashion. It's great that you kept the look that feels most like you. Thanks for watching !wishing you every blessing!
For those that easily overheat, I recommend sticking with silk next to the skin, layered with open weave linen or thin cotton. Silk adjusts the skin temperature. In cold weather, it will warm and in hot weather, it will cool. There is a company that makes silk thermals it's called Winter Silk. [warning very pricey] Linen and cotton breathe. Synthetics are basically plastic so it traps heat. I live in Florida. I know hot. The best places for silks are thriftstores.
Love your channel! I love the Boho look and Im a thrift store junkie! Thank you for showing women can be beautiful, modest, and stylish!
I love this video! I love love love this! Im 16 and modesty is a big part of my spiritual journey, I myself am pagan, I feel so free and beautiful in modest clothing, I love bohemian clothes and bohemian style but alot of what I find when I search for that style has shown more skin then Id like ( Personally I prefer to have my sleeves reach my wrists or my elbows, I like to have my collar bones covered and floor like skirts are the most physically comfortable ) these tips really help, now I can wear alot of things I couldnt wear before, Over all with makeup I tend to be fairly light on the coverage with foundations and when I feel like makeup I am very bold with the eyes and the lips with dark colors and exaggerated cheeks which is a ton of fun, I feel like putting on makeup is like painting, Anyways I love love love this, sending lots of love and blessings
Rivka, you are so real and amazing. Thank you for encouraging woman to be the best they can be. I also appreciate your spiritual videos, example about coaching and Judaism is not religion but a relationship. Blessings to you.
Christine Flowers Thank you!!! It's great to meet you!
I have to tell you your skin is gorgeous and I love your outfit. Truly beautiful!
Type 3 colors really compliment you! Beautiful dress, too. I love your style 😃
OMG im so happy finding your channel. I dont dont dont like how most girls dress with hijab (yes i know youre not muslim:P), and im so in to the bohemian style. Because you cover very modest im finally able to take someone as an inspiration:D. Love your style!:3
Iam Muslim sister! I feel in love with you!!! Everything in your Channel is so amazing!!
I am a christian male and love that you are promoting dressing modestly. Well done !
I love your style. It is awesome to find someone like me in style who has figured out how to make it look good in every situation. Shoshanah
I'm so grateful to you for sharing about Dressing Your Truth, so grateful!!!! I stumbled on this video last May, several days after a heartfelt prayer about the fact I was so unhappy with my looks lately (menopause not been so kind to me). I can't even tell you how much it's changed my life, taken away my dis-ease, made me overjoyed to be alive and showing up in life. Thank you thank you thank you!
Thank you so much. This is the first video I’ve seen of yours, and to do with modesty , and makeup, and style. It gives me hope to be what I want to be and wear the style that I think is me. Also, you look lovely.
Fantastic video! And I absolutely LOVE your headwrap ;-) Beautiful.
I am also a type 3 and I loved this video! Thank you!
I absolutely enjoyed this video!! Your personality shoes and it is AMAZING!!!! You seem like a lot of fun so thanks for sharing!!!
Your inner beauty just shines through. Thank you for introducing me to this amazing concept...just found out I'm a type four.
I want to thank you so much for directing me to Dressing Your Truth! I bought the course, have gone through it, and discovered that I am a Type 2. And, I have started to dress according to my Type. I feel so good, and got a couple of compliments on what I was wearing today at church. Still haven't figured out what my Secondary type is yet.
I absolutely love your videos Rivka x
Thanks so much, dear Rivka, great tips! Love your style and your personality so genuine ! Shalom Aleickem
I loved this on tznuit ❤️ you really suit how you dress Rivka. Thank you for the layering advice
Grat advice Rivka, thank you.
Love your videos. You are such a BLESSING!!!
Thanks! Love these videos!
Rivka. I love your style. I love the head scarves they really work for you
As a point of learning, I'd love to see your gym clothes. These are great and we dress more maddest than most, although not this covered. I seriously think I'd die of heat stroke, but I'm so glad that your doing videos like this and your beautiful!!
Praise HaShem--for a woman who is willing to teach and exemplify modesty. So rare, these days. Shalom.
I absolutely appreciate and enjoy your style.
You are the second Rivka in my life to inspire me. The first is my eldest daughter! Keep doing you, I love your videos. Kol hakavod x
For older women: avoid powders, like the "setting" powder. It settles into fine lines even if you wear primer. Makeup tips for teenagers won't always work for the over-40 age group. Unless you're using Botox. And many drugstore brands don't work for us, either. Sometimes you really get what you pay for. Personally, I wouldn't wax my eyebrows or let someone wax them for anything. But your mileage may differ.... BTW, stores like Target and Walgreens carry low-priced clothing that is cheap because it's made in sweat shops overseas, which abuse their employees while taking jobs out of the U.S. Even some brands like Old Navy and The Gap use sweatshop labor overseas. How can we in good conscience support these anti-Torah, anti-Christian, anti-Islamic, and anti-ethical practices? You can't always avoid it, but it's good to be aware.
Thank you for educating me. What you said makes so much sense.
Love your style❤️
A tutorial on that fabulous headwrap.lovely
I absolutely love your style....
What have you done?! Lol I spent all day researching how to dress my type! I'm so excited. Thank you! I'm excited to see my young sons as they were uniquely and divinely designed. Thanks girly!
I know that I am commenting nearly two years later, but your outfit is fantastic!
I love bohemian style, I dress modest and love eco friendly clothing but I favor earthy tones. You radiate beauty, I see you are beautiful for who you are. Love your videos! Aside from the few independent artists I support thrift stores are the absolute best! ❤️
Great video!
thank you!
...and by the way, you look fantastic!
You are terrific.
Awesome you are.
Love your Sari💛💛💛
interesting and unique in ideas
Could you do a video on picking outfits for different DYT types? I'd love to see how you would style a type 2.
Do part 2!!!!!
Suas vestes são lindas!
I love the dressing, very appropriate for any age.
I love your style, the layers, the modesty....all of it :) I have to say though that you commented about some people getting hot under layers - yup, that surely does happen. As a woman in her 50’s, I have been overheating & sweating profusely for nearly 7 years and it’s so incredibly frustrating. I’m looking forward to coming through this time, that’s for sure.
Love this topic and love your personality! I do have a question... when shopping for clothes do you look for 100% fabric (no mixing) or do you only not mix wool and linen?
Love the video - where did you get the dress you are wearing??
Hi.Rebecca malka. I love your style. Very simple and modesty. Baruj hashem for family
i love Carol she is amazing like you
You look absolutely wonderful! I am so grateful for these tips,and find them most helpful. Additionally, I am excited to explore the Dressing Your Truth program! Would you be kind enough to share with us what you wear to gym? I have been going through trial and error composing a modest exercise outfit (for walking outside) that doesn't need constant adjusting of clothing and head covering! Thank you so much!
UrbanEmpress Hurray! you're going to love it! As for the gym, I wear pants and a gym shirt with loose comfortable mi length skirt on top. I also cover my hair. The easiest way to answer you is to show you is just with a pic. . Ill take a pic next week and post it on my blog
Fantastic! I will watch for it! Thank you so much, Rivka! Have a wonderful day!
I like the tail on your scarf. How do you wrap it like that?
you look adorable, and modest.
I have a similar dress to the one you held up at 6:18 ! Is it from Free People ?
I know you said you would post a photo of your gym outfit, but I just want to express my additional interest so that you might be more inclined to share. ;-) I am a very active and in shape person so not going to the gym isn't an option for me, but I still want to make my sessions as modest as possible. Any tips?
It’s kind of funny we are like sisters we by the same company make ups. I really like the clothes you were wearing perfect.
Please share what on earth we can wear to the gym and still be modest! :) :) :)
I realize this is an older comment, but maybe a place like Kosher Casual is where you can find something. I've seen exercise skirts with built-in leggings, long sleeve tops made of wicking fabric.
Online-Shops catering to Muslims such as Shukr have good options, too. You can find good things on etsy as well. It depends on you perception of modesty, I guess.
I'm not a Jew myself but nevertheless I like your chanel very much. As a woman I find it really inspiring
where do you find the shells?
thanks
Rivka could you please tell me where you buy your clothes. My wife wants to dress with modesty but she can't seem to find any clothes where in the stores in our community. Please help us with this. We hope to hear from you.
Rivka you have such a lovely and beautiful energy about you.
Hi, thank you for inspiring me and for giving me all these wonderful ideas. Could you please write down the name of the modest under clothe that you use for me to look it up on line Thank you sooooo much. :-)
Raquel Naranjo here is a good website for layering shells (I’m assuming that’s what you meant): www.shellsheli.com/
Where do you buy the shells that you wear underneath your dresses to make the neckline higher?
hi rivka. i'm from Israel and i'm very interested in the 'Dressing your truth' course. do you know if there is one in hebrew?
i would very much like to join it. i'm a 'haredit' women and i really like the way you dress. the colours are just the colours i love but when i go to Bney Brak i dress more "quiet" beacuse although in harmony to many colours are not acceptable.
i would love to know what type of person am i.
thank you sharona
I know this comment of yours is old but it is lovely and resonates with me.
Which course and which book should I buy. Did you say something about Carol Tayor. How do I find my type and colors? Where do I get the shell. Tank tops? Thank you for your videos. What is good for a woman in her mid fifties? Thank you for your videos. They are amazing.
Carol _Tuttle_, Dressing Your Truth.
There are books (try your library system), and the website. Some classes/videos there are free.
Awesome to know others are trying to dress with a modest bohemian style! I like modest ethic clothes and bohemian styles. Thanks.
BTW I am a believer in Yeshua and I love Jewish people ( Yeshua was one) !!! I have lots of Jewish\Israeli\Messianic friends.
Does one have to be Jewish orthodox (or Muslim) to dress like this ? I just love her sense of style and color. It reminds me of how my mum used to dress in the 70s with kaftans, headscarves and ethnic jewelry.
Hello, by Chance ive found your Video, and i Like IT very much. Youve got such an refreshjng way to Talk and move. Besides all your good advice, i was laughing sind Times ... The color Looks Like a Punch on your eyes and you gave birth with your lipstick 😀 Hope to See More
Rivka, I love your boho style & this video as well as all your others, that I am going through one by one since finding them! I too feel led to cover my hair for modesty & to be set apart to G-d. Problem is once I tried it my entire family made fun of me & would not stop bugging me to take it off so I wouldn't embarrass them. My husband is the ONLY one who just said to do what I want but didn't care either way. I might add I am in my 50's & a mom to daughters in their 30's & a grandmother to teenagers so I know it would be different from how they are used to seeing me but I don't think a person is ever too old to obey G-d's leading. Any advice on how to do this at my age while living in a small town in the South where NO ONE covers their hair? Thank you & Shalom!
Ugh, my family makes fun of me too! (But I'm, like, in my teens…)
I wish I could afford the dressing your truth. I watched the 4 types videos and I am eithera 3 or 4. I'm not sure which
You look beautiful in your headscarf. I thought you were Muslim first. I don't see many Jewish women with headscarves. Wishing you all the best. x
+Farah Sardar WEll are your prejudiced or are you prejudiced then??
I agree! XD
(Well I didn't think she was Muslim ) (And I have seen Jewish women with headscarfs ) 😊😀😉😉😉 ;)
Just wondering... What do you wear when you go to the gym? Do you cover your hair? Thanks, great videos:)
Miriam Benesch I wear pants and a gym shirt with loose comfortable mi length skirt on top. I also cover my hair. The easiest way to answer you is to show you is just with a pic. . Ill take a pic next week and post it on my blog
Thank you:)
Shalom Rivka, in your video you have mentioned you would give the “secret” to keeping your head scarf in place. I have tried everything I know to hold it and not slide back. I have baby fine hair and barrettes and pony tail holders have never stayed in longer than 3 min. I don’t want to use clips near my face. Help!
@Teresa Blair you might want to go to the online store Wrapunzel (Rivka Malka used to be with them). They have velvet headbands and velvet lined volumizers. The nape of the velvet is supposed to grab your hair. My own hair is slippery, and my head seems to be somewhat flat in the back, but these do help. I understand Rivka Malka is using those. The material of your scarves matters, too. Silk slips right off!
No Wire Hangers, Invest in nice thick full plastic hangers. just saying. Love You Love Your Attitude and Love, Aloha
the Swedish designer Gudron Schroden has great clothes that can be modest yet bohemian
hudsonsailor54 her name is Gudrun Sjöden. But I totally agree with you, I love her clothes. They are very comfortable, colorful and high in quality.
Are we allowed to wax/ shave our peyot?
Rivka Malka-
One thing I must share with you before I tell you how much I loved your video is this. Knowing what I know about baby oil, I would encourage you and your daughter to do some research on the mineral oil it is made from. "Baby oil is made of mineral oil. Mineral oil is something completely foreign to the human body. It is a synthetic oil which is a byproduct of the distillation of gasoline from crude oil." Stated in this very informative article from hollistic mama.
theholisticmama.com/why-you-should-never-use-baby-oil/
It's hard to deny the harmful effects of this oil on the skin and luckily there are some much healthier options like olive oil, coconut oil, shea butter etc.
Have a look and see for yourself. May this information benefit you.
Thank you so much for sharing. I absolutely love your style and methodology to it all. Modest yet expressive. Bold yet graceful. Beautiful all around, rooted from within! I am certainly inspired and look forward to playing more with my style and the idea of dressing my true self each day.
In joy and gratititude
Patti Kelly Great information! Thank yo ufor taking the time to share it - I will def tell my daughter!
What was the name of the program you did?
Rose Burke Dressing Your Truth
Thank You
I hope if wear that turban thing on my head, it will change my life.
Very important question please: I don't want to stop covering my hair during the Summer months. It gets so hot. What can I do to make it more tolerable so that I can fully cover all of my hair? Thank you.
Thank you I'll try it!
+KazeSuenos Here´s a free advise for you: Wear silk scarves! Wayy better in my experience!
I was wondering if you could do a little mix and match video or series of photos for a minimalist wardrobe or those of us who are on a budget. Like a "X items, X outfits" sort of post. :)
Do you wear leggings? Leggings are a great layering pieces, and good for dresses that are a little too short. Just curious if it would meet your modesty guidelines.
Colleen McDermott not if the skirt is above the knee. The laws of tznius mean that anything that must be covered (such as knees) can't be covered with tight fabric. All skirts must extend at least a few inches below the knee :)
I understand how important it is to dress modest. The Bible also talks about not being to caught up on the outside. My concern for you is the Egyptian look you are taking on. Some of the pictographs have the long length of the back of the head. Just saying. I do appreciate your desire to cover your body to keep that special for your husband only, so rare to find these days.
Darlene DeSilva Yeah, its a balance, for sure. The idea is to elevate the physical - to give it respect for how it can serve the spiritual.
+Rivka Malka Perlman Thank you for this totally AMAZING video! I watched and enjoy every second of it. A real breath of fresh air! I am so priviledged to know you in real life. You rock! תבורכי מן השמיים
Beautiful . That's what how a woman looks like. Sadly this era has eliminated women.
I saw these boots and thought of you!
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why a woman cannot be modest in trousers?is something I never really get complitely....
Worldwide African Shop I think trousers can be modest certainly, but we Jews have specific laws about wearing men's clothing as well. So for Jewish people, our modestly laws (tznius), include wearing trousers so we can't be confused for men! But I tend to think that some very feminine looking trousers that are loose and baggy can be okay. Hope that helps!
that sounds very similar to modern hijabis
It's really the complete opposite of that! Women are holy so we cover to protect our dignity. In this modern world where women are given more value to men if they uncover and flaunt their bodies, covering is the opposite of shame. Covering is pride and self-respect from a Jewish perspective.
+Rivka Malka Perlman I know, I am a Muslim and I believe in the same thing, the problem in our society is that they don't get the point that covering the body is not in any way making women inferior to men but actually protecting them from being seen as Just a body. And women's body itself is something that should be respected, not exposed everywhere as if it is an object.
Sadly some people don't understand that, not only people who are against the idea of modest dressing but also those who practice it. I mean some cultures (like in some gulf countries) women are obliged to cover their bodies because it's only perceived as something sexual, they use religion as a pretext while it has nothing to do with religion it is just a corrupt interpretation of religion based on a perverted social background. which gives a bad image about both religions and people who choose to dress that way, as some people think they were obliged to do it while it is actually a choice.
Sorry for my bad English , and I love you videos :)
Mary Abc yeah can u make Dua for our girls at our masjid they wear so many tight fitting abayas even though we are salafi they still wear them it is actually sad. I wear a umbrella abaya so yeah my Hubby explained what hijab means it means to cover our bodies and in my case I cover my face out side my home it makes me want to cry when I see girls wearing super tight clothing men have eyes that go straight to the woman's boobs and buttox my husband has told me that and wow it's sad if a man would say that about we sisters.
+Fatimah if they want to wear whatever they want it must be out of faith not because of society. If men are perverts women have nothing to do with that, Even talking from the islamic perspective God told men to not look at women that way. And with all my respect salafi movement is more influenced by the closed minded middle eastern/ Arab mindset than by islam itself. some ''rules'' are purely cultural and have nothing to do with religion (and even ruined the image of our religion) . for instance nothing at all is mentioned of niqab in the Qur'an, and there is a Hadith that clearly state that women must not cover their face and hands.
Anyways, we all ask God to guide everyone to the straight path :)
Mary Abc yeah but also the Quran says to cover our bodies and also the Hadith you are talking about is for prayer because it also says to cover our beauty and unfortunately what attracts men to we women is our faces and how we present ourselves if we present ourselves like sluts that is how we are looked at but if we present ourselves as modest women and bring our garments to be loose fitting and actually when niqab was brought up prophet Muhammad PBUH said to cover our faces clearly and being salafi doesn't mean to be closed minded it means to be the best Muslim and also to follow Sunnah according to the prophet and his companions so if their women covered their face we do the same because Allah told us to do so not we make up our own rules. if we did that then yeah we would wear short shorts and crop tops but God said to cover our beauty and that means cove our faces and also our hands because unfortunately before I met my husband I had a lot of marriage proposals and they told me the reason they asked and I am sad to say it was just my face they had to look at.
Hi Mrs. Perlman, I appreciate your video about modesty and your role in kiruv. Halachos of Tznius is more than just collarbone. It also includes covering the shoulder and the back cervical bone. Wearing chunky necklaces to cover the exposed area of the shoulder does not work so well.
I understand your Bohemian tastes, however to others the striking prints and colors of a Bohemian style is too loud and attracting. Perhaps a more subdued range of colors may work better.
I appreciate your honesty.
Israel was delivered from egypt, at least until it walked with its gods again.
how is it no female understands true modesty?
no make up, no jewelery, no bling of any kind. it is all vain and all a total waste of attention to false things of the heart and it is misguiding of your true self.
it will not bring peace and it will not fulfill covenants. it breeds sin and makes the weak, weaker.
not Kosher on any level.
the relationship is in every area of your life and the truth is being rejected.
Ericachild
no, Jesus is modest (meaning you act like him, not like you). not like those of soft clothing. as always, lost to what is not in Heaven, only in your vain gentile imaginations.
we adorn ourselves in truth, you look on the outside and are dead in your works to know the will of G_D.
fuck your idolitries and pagan pride, forever!!
as pagans the only inheritance you bring to this Earth of your Fathers are made of shiny materials.
you are not of Abraham and cannot be from Jesus.
our ways are not your ways and we have testified this too you since the beginning and you have not piped to repent of the practices of the whoredoms of your broken world!!
"Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouth..." I don't believe that was an appropriate reply, though I do mostly agree with what you're saying, Judah
Candace Kline
you don't want to be a reasonable people. you want to make up sugar coated realities. your world is covered in the devils of men and they do not play nice.
+laceylilymeadows thank you! I did grow up in a very modest, conservative area. For the most part, the women wear no makeup, no jewelry (not even wedding bands), and very modest clothing. I appreciate what you wrote. My dad was very affirming when it came to going without makeup, telling me that I was much more beautiful without it. If it wasn't for that, and now my husband saying the same, I imagine it would be a bit more of a struggle for me. It's SO important for men to affirm their daughter's/sister's/wife's modest choices, not put them down for trying to obey the Father :)
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alot isn't needed, and yet it still does not exist. don't worry about my language. worry about actions. Jesus is not G_D. there comes a time for war and Jesus was not a warrior and did not teach it. had this been Heaven you would have known a warrior, not a pacifist. what is behind my language is far more important.
You would look much better if you would stop covering yourself so much
I think you might be missing the point