I am sorry. It is you that does not understand. Focus on yourself. Put your phone away and think. Who am I ? Who do I want to be ? How do i get there ? And do it ! The plan changes as you go along, when you do it right.
That's what I was thinking as well. These signs are way too vague. She is being aloof which means she may be into you. But no she's being aloof because she's not into you. This is why women are single because they don't send a clear signal.
It doesnt matter whether shes hiding attraction for you or not. She either is attracted or she's not. Either ask her out and find out, or forget about it and move on. Sitting around examining her behavior to assume about it is stupid. Go find out. If she is attracted to you and rejects you cause she's trying something. She's not emotionally mature enough for you and its her loss.
"She will do this, and no, it doesn't mean she likes you, but there's a chance she might. And sometimes she will also do the opposite to hide it, or she will try to stay neutral because she don't want to reveal her true feelings. But sometimes, she also does that to tell you that she likes you. But that depends on her."
A big tell for me is when you know a women has some sort of partner already who she freely discusses with others but they never seem to be mentioned by her around you. Some women will go out of their way to never mention their partner in your presence. This is a big tell right here. By the way ladies... Guys do this as well... 😎
Someone said he really likes me when I told him I'm spoken for he told me I'm lying even demanded me send him a picture of my partner. I asked him why would I be lying that I am not single isn't it supposed to be the other way around ? People lie being single?
@johnsampson6387 Float a trial balloon….. When something comes up in the conversation, say something along the lines, “That would be something that you and your boyfriend should do (Some activity, for example).” Then, see how see reacts. She could say nothing, which means she’s hiding it. Or she could say that something negative about the relationship, meaning it is on the wane. Or she could acknowledge it outright, which likely means there’s no path forward. In my case, I still maintain contact, since I think it will go my way eventually. For me, it’s about patience, since it’s worth the shot.
She's doing one of three things. She may be thinking that you are a better option than what she currently has so she wants to trade up. She may be keeping you as an option if things go south with her current boyfriend. She's thinking of cheating on him with you... The only three options really.
As far as nervousness, what if she becomes clumsy around you, but you know she's not normally clumsy? Nobody ever talks about that as a possible sign of attraction while trying to hide her feelings?
So basically … All the signs are the same signs as her being not interested at all and you , as a man ,have to put your ego on the line to ask her and spend hours making life as easy as possible for her.
Basically. Then when you do express your feelings you get to find out why she just isn't that interested and sees you as a "friend" which really means she wants as little to do with you as possible.
@@amiyrbarclift1640 weird, cause most of the times I’ve expressed my feelings that got me a relationship. Even if I said things too soon, they just said something like “Let’s keep dating and see where this goes” and then we got into a relationship. Stop blaming women for you not being attractive or doing the work you need to do.
@@GeoD4444 Bro I’m not blaming women at all it just worked out differently for you then me. At the end of the day I shoot my shot and all they can say is yes or no. Trying to do all the psychoanalysis is just wasted time and energy. I’ve made peace with my station in life. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. Life goes on.
@@amiyrbarclift1640 bro, I’m sorry if what I said came through as rude. I’ve been rejected too and I know the feeling’s awful, but what has worked for me is to find how I can be more attractive and to which women I can be attractive also. I also think we sometimes treat women as this weird monster programmed to make us suffer, when they’re human beings just like you and me. I know you’ll find the right one and from one man to another, I wish you the best while you find her and after that too.
@@GeoD4444 Bro pls tell me what types of girls got into relationship with you when you were direct. I used to be a direct man without any luck. I've met two types of girls in my life one type seemed interested in me and made it easy for me to approach but they all ended up having boyfriends, the other type was shy, nervous, avoiding eye contact, but too hard to even talk with.
4:37 resonates with me the most. Lady I'm currently seeing has built barriers due to an unfortunate previous partner and it's clear she is doing this to protect herself from being hurt again. Taking it really slow and getting to know her more is exactly what I've been doing. Glad you brought this up to affirm my approach. Great presentation 👏
She stopped to yell at me, she'd dumped me three weeks ago and I accepted that. While she was yelling at me I gave her a backhand of dismissal and told her to go away. For a year now she has been trying to get my attention so I ask her if she wants to sit and talk. She says no so I ignore her and tell her that I have no time for her. Then she comes back again. Maybe she's just crazy.
Yep. Crazy or more specific terms would be Irrational and Illogical behavior is the "default" setting for most of the members of the Female gender type.
I have seen all these signs, but when I asked her she told me "I have boyfriend" I left her. Some women, especially at their young age expecting a man to run after them 24/7
Give me a break please.... It doesn't matter what I do, it's always the wrong thing. Right to the point that I've given up on it all and just excepted the fact that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life....
Hey bro. Don't lose hope. Just understand the Game : If u play her game, you'll lose. If you play your game. You'll win... Her game is to you try get her interested, Maintain interest, keep her interested and... Inevitably, this is not sustainable and she will, one day lose interest, cheat or leave you... Your game is this. Don't even try look for or get a woman. Just build yourself as a man, development wise and follow your dreams and hobbies goals and gain value Then the women will Flock to you, and you'll have options and your pick of the best. All bcoz you will come from a position of strength and indifference to women. Not giving g them attention, means they'll try get yours, but shit test you, to see if you can be calm, cool, reaction free, stoic and maintain masculine frame... You can do this much easier if you have built yourself into a state of real genuine confidence and acquired stoic calm and immovability, to her childish mind games and shit tests.... Therefore, when they start trying to get your attention. Don't give it. Be indifferent and ignore it. If they engage. Be polite but non reactionary. A man's Calmness is his strength. Work on that. If a woman tries to get your attention. Feign disinterest and let her do all the work... Thats the key. Let women work for you. You're the Prize. Not her. She's got to earn it. No tolerance to toxic feminist behaviour. Walk away always. If she's different. Decent. Moral. Honest. Intelligent and has integrity. Then you can engage. Meet her friends. If they're good decent ethical moral. Then so she will be... If not. Then run like the cops are chasing you for 10kg of cannabis or a dog's chasing you for sausages out your back pocket. 😂😊.... Lastly. Never change for these women. If she wants you to change, she's the wrong woman. If you must find the woman to marry, she'll find you first. Trust me... One who lives all your peculiarities and foibles as much as you love hers and compatible with in beliefs, outlook, morals, ethics, politics, cultural synchronisation and sense of humour and she's the one... Until then, keep developing yourself in every way. So when women throw themselves at you, you can filter them, and catch the ones worth keeping, and testing girl wife material. Dating for sex is a losing game. Only date for a wife. Women with hi body count are big no no and are part of toxic feminist brainwashing and will make your life hell, later on, after her mask falls off, and the living hell of poison dripping and ruining your life begins, when she dumps her emo baggage on you, blames, accuses, and destroys you, for not Fixing her mental illness and being her fairytale fantasy doormat trophy guy she can brag about to her psycho friends, equally mentally ill from toxic feminist brainwashing... Summary. Don't give up. Just know the right one is out there. When you're ready. She'll find You. All the best buddy.
@@Daniel1132Micah5 Wtf? That how incel thinks. OMG the youtube must have brainwashed you hard. A real man talks or flirt with women. Enjoying the feminine of each women he meet. He knows a manipulator and genuine behaviour. Testing each women he met. Interest, Friend or Relationship, one night stand etc. At the same time the important of socializing, finance and skills. A real man is full of ambition and also enjoy the presence of every feminine he meets. A manipulator are annoying girls and cant find a man to stay. A genuine is rare but they are real but mostly taken. A real man will enjoy both of them but also knows how to play the game. You only have 60 year or 80 years. That how short our life span is. Yet you acting some john wick, james bond, Other mainly scripted movie full of crap. No one cares if you have six pack, 1 million dollar or can shoot like John wick. You life, Your game. And you time span is only 60 to 80 years. And you acting like some kind of diamond who doenst give a crap of girls because you think most of them are hoe. Grow up jeezz
@@Daniel1132Micah5 Thanks for all the advice man, I really appreciate it bro. But that's basically what I've been doing for the last 22 years, (51 now) just living for myself and doing the things that make me happy/keep me sane. I mean ya gotta do something in life that you enjoy or life just isn't even be worth living.... Well, I gotta mention something. Throughout my years in school they gave me IQ tests on 4 different occasions. And on every one of them I scored right around a 176, + or - a point or two. And the last time I looked it up that was a rarity of 1 in 982,001. The school social worker who first gave me the test sorta like, fell in love with me, lol. I did have a girlfriend once for a year and 2 months, from age 27 till my 29th birthday. And looking back I'm glad that that happened because, if it hadn't, I probably would have gone crazy trying to, "do all the correct things". But I completely fell apart when she finally told me to get the hell out and not come back. So bad that I honestly don't think I would be able to handle something like that again, ever.... IDK, do ya see what I'm saying when I say that I "have" to give it up? Because I'd seen enough by my 29th birthday to know that it was not going to happen, as heart breaking as it was. And it really don't matter if I try, if don't try, weather I want it to happen, don't want it to happen, it just doesn't happen, period.... So I'll just enjoy my hobbies, and my freedom. But I will say this, the very, very, corner of my eye, just might, "still" be open... So who knows,,, even at my age.
Very interesting, about 2 thirds of what you said applies to someone I had strong feelings for and it doesn't help that her accent is so much like yours. Trying to forget her, but it is not easy. Noel LaChance
*When a woman is fighting her feelings of attraction, you might notice her being playful yet distant or giving mixed signals - she might engage in conversation but quickly pull away or act aloof. The key is to be patient and give her space to process her emotions. If she’s truly interested, she’ll gradually open up as she feels more comfortable.*
I know these signs to well about teasing, true feelings are clear . As I know that this person has good feelings for me but is scared of what other people will think about them.. I really appreciate this video thank you. Thank you Joyanima!
Same for me, but the crazy thing is that I can actually sense and feel her energetic/vibrat energy healing me! She even admitted to me she is actually a psychic who can sense/feel the chakras and feelings of other people! I was once at some other woman who has the same abilities and does healing therapies to help others, but the difference compared to that woman is astounding! I haven't felt anything special but with this girl. It is just off the chart. Just being near her I felt at ease, my entire body is tingling, feeling like I am being invigorated, fog in my mind just fell off, my mood skyrocket. This effect is even more pronounced when she is in a good mood and we are look at each other eyes. The sense that I know her from beyond time and space and feeling like being at home when I am near her. It is extremely hard to describe it, ... It feels like magic! And her smile is truly like magic! Yet, she seem distanced and extremely reserved, probably because I acted like an "ashole" 3 times because I was engulfed in her energy which has so potent effect on me that overwhelmed me!
This is very good! I have a situation with a very nice and very pretty girl who I know has fallen for me but has never had a relationship with a quality guy. So she is testing me and frankly herself now. Fortunately, I don't break. And this relationship will be great for her so I just hang in make incremental but lasting progress. I'll prevail.
Same boat. Not sure if she’s fallen yet but has opened up to me more and comfortable around me, likes being around me. She’s went quiet last few weeks. I don’t break either. Dudes saying just treat her like shit, she’ll want to fix you! No I’m a quality guy, I don’t treat women like trash or an object. She’s even asked me before “ Why are you so good to me “ she’s never had someone be genuinely good to her. Tupac even said “ We as men need to do better for our women “
I recently asked someone out in my workplace but sadly they are in a relationship. She has stopped looking at me and I have seriously reduced mine. Today she was close and she made every effort to avoid looking at me, but she did adjust her hair. So I think she maybe hiding her feelings as she doesn’t want to encourage me due to her current relationship. I won’t be chasing her, especially as she is in a relationship, but this video has given me some hope. Though I won’t be waiting for relationship to end and move on and focus on me. This video has definitely helped, thank you joyanima
Sorry but she's not interested in you. This is something big that videos like this don't cover. This woman just wants you to give her attention. This type of selfish person uses all the actions and signs of someone that is actually interested but they're really not. I get this constantly. All the women acting "interested" have boyfriends or are married and yet they never mention it until I ask them out. Trust me I've being thru this a hundred times. Even after it's out in the open, like with you, they will still try to encourage your attention like she did by moving close. They don't care about you, they'e addicted to the attention.
@@RightURKen7 I have actually gone through that experience in the past, and it wasted my time, it was horrible. A co-worker who knew I was interested in her spoke to her before I could tell them I approached her. They told me that if she wasn’t in a relationship, I would have got a date with her. So I will just casually flirt with her, and not chase her. I will certainly be looking elsewhere as I know others have shown interest. But my main priority is improving myself, mind, body, fashion and fragrances.
When she's hot and cold. She might be involved with someone from our work. When he's not there she's really friendly and sweet and flirty. But most of the time she's not fighting at all. I think we both secretly wish we could sleep together.
I missed an opportunity with a woman when she just didn't tell me what she wanted ,she played the sign treatment ,and because my mother had just passed away I was totally engulfed in a business project and was engaging with solicitors, suppliers, painting ,electricians etc, and didn't know what she wanted I thought she was just being friendly, so consequently she hooked up with her ex and now she's happy,leaving me scratching my head as to wtf just happened,if she'd only pulled me aside and told me what she wanted she would have gotten exactly what she wanted !! 1:04
This is all about chance lmao as soon as the woman plays games I’m gone. I’ll always prioritize peace of mind. Going off mixed signals, hot and cold?? Fellas! For your own sake, pls! Just do you 👑
Forget if she is attracted to you and hiding her feelings because in the end that can turn into a trip to the friend zone. Ask her out if you want to. She will say yes or no. From there you get to take the next steps. That or continue to not get caught up in the world of chaos and confusion that we all have created.
No. You have to control the situation! Walk in front of women and wear a lovely perfume. Most men dont know about casual talk. That why marriage are fail.
Be and always act cold toward her. Show no emotion and let her see you taking charge on others getting things done. In other words, focus on yourself and pursing your own goals reaching them. Don’t forget to let her see you making other girls laugh when she’s around. You put her in the friend zone first and tell her she’s like your sister. Don’t forget giving her a pet name so she knows only you knows that.
If she feels this way then she can say something, why must men always be the one to make the first move? Gentlemen focus on yourself and the girl will come on the most unexpected ways...
Men, if the women you're interested in is like a rubiks cube don't walk, run away! Don't make the mistake of trying to figure her out, they don't need a boyfriend they need a therapist because they're insane! Not all women are this bi-polar, there are women who are emotionally and mentally stable, and won't play all these childish games. Who has time to deal with all this bullcrap!
Well the therapist is just a tool in there toolbox, I don't think they get them neither, but they just cash 💰 in! Imagine if you could charge $100 for every session of complaint and caos.
No. In Islam, men have to walk in front of women Dont walk behind women. Women are like a child. Dont take them seriously. Women love to hide their feelings. Wear a lovely perfume for attraction.
the only nervousness women show when I am around is them waiting impatiently for me to leave even though I never try to do anything, I am not threatening in any way and I keep to myself and try not to bother people, especially women, with my presence. You know, I am ugly enough and very poor so I know that I don't even stand a chance with women and I know my place. Your advice just works for handsome and rich guys, all of us poor and ugly guys, need to go home, stop dreaming and kill all hope because it only brings heartache
I don't know why I keep looking at this type of stuff. All of this just seems like "chasing the dragon", you know? Saw a comment on here..."focus on yourself"...it makes the most sense out of any of this. "Focus on yourself"
"She teases you" My crush: that music video looks like an lsd trip Me: how would you know? *a few minutes later* Me: yea it kinda does look like a drug trip My crush: well how would you know?
I've subscribed! (... a long time ago.....) Great food for thought, and things to analyze while interacting with a possible partner/friend. While not all concrete examples of things I've seen in one or more persons, these behaviors are on the watchlist during interactions. The scenarios are obtuse, or vague enough, to apply to certain type of day to day interactions without being too specific. Wonderful and thoughtful content, thank you! (Glad you got rid of the captions, very distracting.) 😀🙃😉
Thank you for subscribing for so long! Glad you've been enjoying the majority of the content. The subtitles are an on-going test to see how they perform, they take a lot of time so they'll only be kept on in one form or another if overall people are positive towards them. (You won't like today's latest video though, sorry)
@@Joyanima all good! I'll always tune in when you pop into my feed, the positive vibes in your content help me wind down when coming home from work! Much luv from Texas!✌
This video reminded me of those medicine commercials we have here in the States, where they tell you the benefits for the first 10 seconds and than go on to talk about the side effects for the next 2 minutes and why you shouldn’t take it 😂
Now that I think about it. I know quite a few women who have used some of these tactics in this video on me. Too bad they were unattractive and undesirable for me to pursue.
i am 32years old. never had a relationship. that is because believe it or not, never was aware of my attractiveness. Ive met a lot on women who laugh at my humor and i always have been looking women in the eyes. never knew this was a sign that i am attractive and a sign of me being confident. I was never busy with this. until last year. now i am aware of it. But, i also have my life in order. with this i mean, my finances, have a house which is clean and tidy, room for a family. i can cook, wash, iron, all the chores people do. groceries i do too. maintain my car, do garden work. i am self sufficient. But also i am happy alone. i live now 10 years alone and i really love it. which means, I am not desperate for an relationship. So its not on number one on the list. So i don't react on the signs. i am maybe a rare one but i am not an hunter, i am the catch so to speak. I do things different, so a women must do the 1st step. i am not doing that. because i don't see why a man always have to do it first. an i can do that because i am not in a hurry in getting in a relationship because i am happy alone. subscribed btw.
I'm not sure trying to fight the battle of, she loves me, she loves me not can be won with even more speculation. Show up as the real you if you want someone to show up as the real them. If it works, great, if it doesn't, thrn rejection was your protection.
Baby tell you the very truth you need to understand iam fighting for my self but the feeling I have for you is blowing me a way because Avery single day that passes bye you or on my mind
The advice here is as useful as someone telling you that if you feel a number is lucky, go play the lottery with those numbers. In the end, you are just playing guessing games and hoping for the best. May as well forget everything you just heard and ask her out if you are feeling lucky, and hope for the best, but expect the worst 😂
Hi Anna what if a shy girl talked with you normally but after she show some sings and I approach her now she become nervous around me and she just looked at me and when I knew that she was looking at me and looked at her she just turned her head and pretended to not looking at me at all. and what if she acts weird and distant for 2 weeks and never made an eye contact in those 2 weeks ( and I knew it and give her space) but now she is become friendly but still nervous around me and when she passes me she always put her head down and look into the ground and also at the same time she just looks at me a lot in the classroom when I am not looking at her( my friend told me that she is looking at you a lot) can I know your idea about this? Your video make me worried that she maybe nervous around all the guys not me and she may not like me that much because she is not asking me personal questions and other stuff and so many people told me that if you are talking with a most introverted girl in the world she should ask you questions about yourself by now but at the same time she help me with lessons when I am not asking her and so many confusing things.
Whelp, i dunno. But, when a 20+ year old looks at a mature man that's in better shape then he was in his teens,20's & 30's, is a fine fine thing indeed. There is nothing wrong with alil _Eyecandy_ and friendly banter
Great information but unfortunately It’s to complicated for me now. Maybe some guys will put in the effort but it’s not for me. I always say if it doesn’t come somewhat easy let it go. I’m 50 years old now and have had many relationships in the past. I’m over all these complications at this point. Good luck gentlemen.
I hear you. I’m 39 and started realizing when I turned 34-35 I started to feel so tired of the entire dating/relationship game. I can attract women fairly easily but it’s all just such a headache . The reward just isn’t there
The woman is so enamored of him that the intensity of her desire is palpable and she yearns to be with him/ Now they are together/ It did take a while to realize that convenience relationships are escapism for her and self-deception for me/
Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
Thanks! 😊
I love your videos. It helps us guys as a confidence boost...
Your videos usually brightened up my day if I have time to watch.
hope you are too i love your breasts in your thumbnail bri'shh pretty
Thanks, Anna! You too!
Maybe this and maybe that ... fellow men , please focus on yourselves
I am sorry. It is you that does not understand.
Focus on yourself. Put your phone away and think.
Who am I ?
Who do I want to be ?
How do i get there ?
And do it ! The plan changes as you go along, when you do it right.
This and only this.
@@oscarvanwalstijn6902 you may have missed the joke 😜
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 well said man
Amen
When she’s into you, she does this …unless she isn’t into you
And when she’s into you, she does that …unless she isn’t.
Women ☕️
That's what I was thinking as well. These signs are way too vague. She is being aloof which means she may be into you. But no she's being aloof because she's not into you. This is why women are single because they don't send a clear signal.
😆😆 Women don't know what the hell they want.
All women are into you. Whether they know it yet or not
9 minutes of a highly educated flake building a permission structure for her fellow flakes.
It doesnt matter whether shes hiding attraction for you or not. She either is attracted or she's not. Either ask her out and find out, or forget about it and move on.
Sitting around examining her behavior to assume about it is stupid. Go find out.
If she is attracted to you and rejects you cause she's trying something. She's not emotionally mature enough for you and its her loss.
Telling her your feelings usually lands you in the friendzone.
let her take her own trash out
If you do it too soon and first yes… 🤣
@@tonyromano8337 if you do it at all. Guys hold it together for 5+ years and have one mishap and she is gone
It never fails. That's essentially a one way ticket to the friendzone.
@@Bennysol You could do it too soon or wait too long. Essentially you have to have some mind reading ability to know when it's just the right moment.
"She will do this, and no, it doesn't mean she likes you, but there's a chance she might. And sometimes she will also do the opposite to hide it, or she will try to stay neutral because she don't want to reveal her true feelings. But sometimes, she also does that to tell you that she likes you. But that depends on her."
It’s all a mystery… 😂
I'm gonna go read a quantum physics book. Much easier to understand.
A big tell for me is when you know a women has some sort of partner already who she freely discusses with others but they never seem to be mentioned by her around you. Some women will go out of their way to never mention their partner in your presence. This is a big tell right here. By the way ladies... Guys do this as well... 😎
Someone said he really likes me when I told him I'm spoken for he told me I'm lying even demanded me send him a picture of my partner. I asked him why would I be lying that I am not single isn't it supposed to be the other way around ? People lie being single?
This definitely happened to me during this last year. It's awkward at one level, but it does tell you everything you need to know.
@johnsampson6387 Float a trial balloon….. When something comes up in the conversation, say something along the lines, “That would be something that you and your boyfriend should do (Some activity, for example).” Then, see how see reacts. She could say nothing, which means she’s hiding it. Or she could say that something negative about the relationship, meaning it is on the wane. Or she could acknowledge it outright, which likely means there’s no path forward.
In my case, I still maintain contact, since I think it will go my way eventually. For me, it’s about patience, since it’s worth the shot.
She's doing one of three things. She may be thinking that you are a better option than what she currently has so she wants to trade up. She may be keeping you as an option if things go south with her current boyfriend. She's thinking of cheating on him with you... The only three options really.
If a woman is nervous around me it's probably because I said or did something weird again.
you going to jail
As far as nervousness, what if she becomes clumsy around you, but you know she's not normally clumsy? Nobody ever talks about that as a possible sign of attraction while trying to hide her feelings?
If she's "fighting" feelings of attraction for me. I hope she wins. I'm not interested in someone who is not sure about me.
Talking about other man is a huge red flag, she likes that other dude!!!
Even if she's talking shit about him?
@@ehudzechariahschmidt7036 "yes, nothing good comes out of hearing about another man, he's closer than you think"
😂 tell her your feelings? Tell her how you feel?.... That will almost guarantee rejection.
Don't forget to ask her how she feels about you, to be sure to make things especially awkward and make sure you chase her right off! Lol
@@skyranger187 Then buy her a gift and see how that goes for you.
@@weshouser821 🤣🎁😂
@@DLewisADVentures lol might as well buy her a card that says "Ghost me."
🤦🏼
So basically you're saying all women play games, and can't be direct and blunt about what they want/ their intentions? Lol😂
Great analogy, of facts I already was aware of, but thanks for solidifying that for me from a woman's standpoint. 😊
So basically …
All the signs are the same signs as her being not interested at all and you , as a man ,have to put your ego on the line to ask her and spend hours making life as easy as possible for her.
Basically. Then when you do express your feelings you get to find out why she just isn't that interested and sees you as a "friend" which really means she wants as little to do with you as possible.
@@amiyrbarclift1640 weird, cause most of the times I’ve expressed my feelings that got me a relationship. Even if I said things too soon, they just said something like “Let’s keep dating and see where this goes” and then we got into a relationship.
Stop blaming women for you not being attractive or doing the work you need to do.
@@GeoD4444 Bro I’m not blaming women at all it just worked out differently for you then me. At the end of the day I shoot my shot and all they can say is yes or no. Trying to do all the psychoanalysis is just wasted time and energy. I’ve made peace with my station in life. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. Life goes on.
@@amiyrbarclift1640 bro, I’m sorry if what I said came through as rude. I’ve been rejected too and I know the feeling’s awful, but what has worked for me is to find how I can be more attractive and to which women I can be attractive also.
I also think we sometimes treat women as this weird monster programmed to make us suffer, when they’re human beings just like you and me.
I know you’ll find the right one and from one man to another, I wish you the best while you find her and after that too.
@@GeoD4444 Bro pls tell me what types of girls got into relationship with you when you were direct. I used to be a direct man without any luck. I've met two types of girls in my life one type seemed interested in me and made it easy for me to approach but they all ended up having boyfriends, the other type was shy, nervous, avoiding eye contact, but too hard to even talk with.
“Girls are like a box of chocolates, you never know who you’re going to get.” - Player Gump
😂😂 still true lol
4:37 resonates with me the most. Lady I'm currently seeing has built barriers due to an unfortunate previous partner and it's clear she is doing this to protect herself from being hurt again. Taking it really slow and getting to know her more is exactly what I've been doing. Glad you brought this up to affirm my approach. Great presentation 👏
Been subscribed for a few days now after discovering your channel. I love these, I'm obsessed with learning about how we all operate, men and women!
.... Great video Anna! Very thorough.
She stopped to yell at me, she'd dumped me three weeks ago and I accepted that. While she was yelling at me I gave her a backhand of dismissal and told her to go away. For a year now she has been trying to get my attention so I ask her if she wants to sit and talk. She says no so I ignore her and tell her that I have no time for her. Then she comes back again. Maybe she's just crazy.
Yep. Crazy or more specific terms would be Irrational and Illogical behavior is the "default" setting for most of the members of the Female gender type.
Don't talk to her..
This is my baby mother bro , best to just not have any communication with her at all. Good luck 🤞🏼
100% batshit. A familiar story.
She's BIPOLAR - AVOID AT ALL COSTS
I have seen all these signs, but when I asked her she told me "I have boyfriend" I left her. Some women, especially at their young age expecting a man to run after them 24/7
You will be labeled a simp if you chase and then you have no chance .
@@richnoggin7524 Usually when you approach them whether they like you or not the will put you in the friend zone.
@@amiyrbarclift1640 yes that's why you keep it movin like you could care less. You on your mission anyway Kings ✊
I appreciate high quality of audio and content.
Give it time,there's no rush,and either way you'll have a friend or a girlfriend
Give me a break please.... It doesn't matter what I do, it's always the wrong thing. Right to the point that I've given up on it all and just excepted the fact that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life....
Hey bro. Don't lose hope.
Just understand the Game :
If u play her game, you'll lose.
If you play your game. You'll win...
Her game is to you try get her interested, Maintain interest, keep her interested and...
Inevitably, this is not sustainable and she will, one day lose interest, cheat or leave you...
Your game is this.
Don't even try look for or get a woman. Just build yourself as a man, development wise and follow your dreams and hobbies goals and gain value
Then the women will Flock to you, and you'll have options and your pick of the best. All bcoz you will come from a position of strength and indifference to women.
Not giving g them attention, means they'll try get yours, but shit test you, to see if you can be calm, cool, reaction free, stoic and maintain masculine frame...
You can do this much easier if you have built yourself into a state of real genuine confidence and acquired stoic calm and immovability, to her childish mind games and shit tests....
Therefore, when they start trying to get your attention. Don't give it.
Be indifferent and ignore it.
If they engage. Be polite but non reactionary. A man's Calmness is his strength. Work on that. If a woman tries to get your attention. Feign disinterest and let her do all the work...
Thats the key.
Let women work for you.
You're the Prize. Not her.
She's got to earn it.
No tolerance to toxic feminist behaviour. Walk away always.
If she's different. Decent. Moral. Honest. Intelligent and has integrity. Then you can engage. Meet her friends. If they're good decent ethical moral. Then so she will be...
If not. Then run like the cops are chasing you for 10kg of cannabis or a dog's chasing you for sausages out your back pocket. 😂😊....
Lastly.
Never change for these women. If she wants you to change, she's the wrong woman. If you must find the woman to marry, she'll find you first. Trust me...
One who lives all your peculiarities and foibles as much as you love hers and compatible with in beliefs, outlook, morals, ethics, politics, cultural synchronisation and sense of humour and she's the one...
Until then, keep developing yourself in every way. So when women throw themselves at you, you can filter them, and catch the ones worth keeping, and testing girl wife material.
Dating for sex is a losing game. Only date for a wife.
Women with hi body count are big no no and are part of toxic feminist brainwashing and will make your life hell, later on, after her mask falls off, and the living hell of poison dripping and ruining your life begins, when she dumps her emo baggage on you, blames, accuses, and destroys you, for not
Fixing her mental illness and being her fairytale fantasy doormat trophy guy she can brag about to her psycho friends, equally mentally ill from toxic feminist brainwashing...
Summary.
Don't give up.
Just know the right one is out there. When you're ready. She'll find You.
All the best buddy.
You will never lose chasing money .
@@Daniel1132Micah5 Wtf? That how incel thinks. OMG the youtube must have brainwashed you hard.
A real man talks or flirt with women. Enjoying the feminine of each women he meet.
He knows a manipulator and genuine behaviour. Testing each women he met. Interest, Friend or Relationship, one night stand etc.
At the same time the important of socializing, finance and skills.
A real man is full of ambition and also enjoy the presence of every feminine he meets.
A manipulator are annoying girls and cant find a man to stay.
A genuine is rare but they are real but mostly taken.
A real man will enjoy both of them but also knows how to play the game.
You only have 60 year or 80 years. That how short our life span is. Yet you acting some john wick, james bond, Other mainly scripted movie full of crap.
No one cares if you have six pack, 1 million dollar or can shoot like John wick.
You life, Your game. And you time span is only 60 to 80 years. And you acting like some kind of diamond who doenst give a crap of girls because you think most of them are hoe.
Grow up jeezz
Be like me, have many girlfriends everywhere.
@@Daniel1132Micah5 Thanks for all the advice man, I really appreciate it bro.
But that's basically what I've been doing for the last 22 years, (51 now) just living for myself and doing the things that make me happy/keep me sane. I mean ya gotta do something in life that you enjoy or life just isn't even be worth living....
Well, I gotta mention something.
Throughout my years in school they gave me IQ tests on 4 different occasions. And on every one of them I scored right around a 176, + or - a point or two. And the last time I looked it up that was a rarity of 1 in 982,001.
The school social worker who first gave me the test sorta like, fell in love with me, lol.
I did have a girlfriend once for a year and 2 months, from age 27 till my 29th birthday. And looking back I'm glad that that happened because, if it hadn't, I probably would have gone crazy trying to, "do all the correct things".
But I completely fell apart when she finally told me to get the hell out and not come back. So bad that I honestly don't think I would be able to handle something like that again, ever....
IDK, do ya see what I'm saying when I say that I "have" to give it up? Because I'd seen enough by my 29th birthday to know that it was not going to happen, as heart breaking as it was.
And it really don't matter if I try, if don't try, weather I want it to happen, don't want it to happen, it just doesn't happen, period....
So I'll just enjoy my hobbies, and my freedom.
But I will say this, the very, very, corner of my eye, just might, "still" be open...
So who knows,,, even at my age.
Very interesting, about 2 thirds of what you said applies to someone I had strong feelings for and it doesn't help that her accent is so much like yours. Trying to forget her, but it is not easy. Noel LaChance
*When a woman is fighting her feelings of attraction, you might notice her being playful yet distant or giving mixed signals - she might engage in conversation but quickly pull away or act aloof. The key is to be patient and give her space to process her emotions. If she’s truly interested, she’ll gradually open up as she feels more comfortable.*
I know these signs to well about teasing, true feelings are clear . As I know that this person has good feelings for me but is scared of what other people will think about them.. I really appreciate this video thank you. Thank you Joyanima!
You're very welcome Bryan. Hope you can work your situation out
Same for me, but the crazy thing is that I can actually sense and feel her energetic/vibrat energy healing me! She even admitted to me she is actually a psychic who can sense/feel the chakras and feelings of other people!
I was once at some other woman who has the same abilities and does healing therapies to help others, but the difference compared to that woman is astounding! I haven't felt anything special but with this girl. It is just off the chart. Just being near her I felt at ease, my entire body is tingling, feeling like I am being invigorated, fog in my mind just fell off, my mood skyrocket. This effect is even more pronounced when she is in a good mood and we are look at each other eyes. The sense that I know her from beyond time and space and feeling like being at home when I am near her. It is extremely hard to describe it, ... It feels like magic! And her smile is truly like magic!
Yet, she seem distanced and extremely reserved, probably because I acted like an "ashole" 3 times because I was engulfed in her energy which has so potent effect on me that overwhelmed me!
@@XPuntaryou are in love❤
@@andrescorcoba6916 love is real. This psychic vibe energy woowoo nonsense is delusion.
Another woman once told me to press the red button. As a man, I couldn't find it............
You're not the only one my mate, you're not the only one!🤔
This was very helpful or my current situation! Thanks! 😎👌
This is very good! I have a situation with a very nice and very pretty girl who I know has fallen for me but has never had a relationship with a quality guy. So she is testing me and frankly herself now. Fortunately, I don't break. And this relationship will be great for her so I just hang in make incremental but lasting progress. I'll prevail.
I'm at work now tomorrow morning do not forget about it oyiloveyou
Same boat. Not sure if she’s fallen yet but has opened up to me more and comfortable around me, likes being around me. She’s went quiet last few weeks. I don’t break either. Dudes saying just treat her like shit, she’ll want to fix you! No I’m a quality guy, I don’t treat women like trash or an object. She’s even asked me before “ Why are you so good to me “ she’s never had someone be genuinely good to her. Tupac even said “ We as men need to do better for our women “
Nailed. It. The difference in men and boys is how they treat their women. Do. Not. BREAK!@@joshuastevens5910
Very insightful Joyanima thank you for all your inspiring guidance.
Mr Brown Eye Dragon
I recently asked someone out in my workplace but sadly they are in a relationship. She has stopped looking at me and I have seriously reduced mine. Today she was close and she made every effort to avoid looking at me, but she did adjust her hair. So I think she maybe hiding her feelings as she doesn’t want to encourage me due to her current relationship. I won’t be chasing her, especially as she is in a relationship, but this video has given me some hope. Though I won’t be waiting for relationship to end and move on and focus on me. This video has definitely helped, thank you joyanima
Sorry but she's not interested in you. This is something big that videos like this don't cover. This woman just wants you to give her attention. This type of selfish person uses all the actions and signs of someone that is actually interested but they're really not. I get this constantly. All the women acting "interested" have boyfriends or are married and yet they never mention it until I ask them out. Trust me I've being thru this a hundred times. Even after it's out in the open, like with you, they will still try to encourage your attention like she did by moving close. They don't care about you, they'e addicted to the attention.
@@RightURKen7 I have actually gone through that experience in the past, and it wasted my time, it was horrible. A co-worker who knew I was interested in her spoke to her before I could tell them I approached her. They told me that if she wasn’t in a relationship, I would have got a date with her. So I will just casually flirt with her, and not chase her. I will certainly be looking elsewhere as I know others have shown interest. But my main priority is improving myself, mind, body, fashion and fragrances.
@@RightURKen7 Just about all women love attention.
@@morbid1 some crave/need it more than others. This is definitely one thing I learned the hard way.
@@DJSyanide Very true
Best advice I’ve ever heard. Well thought out and accurate. Thank you.
Well, that is all clear as mud. I’ll continue to assume she isn’t attracted to me unless it is unmistakably obvious.
This explained more my behaviour than anything ...
When she's hot and cold. She might be involved with someone from our work. When he's not there she's really friendly and sweet and flirty. But most of the time she's not fighting at all. I think we both secretly wish we could sleep together.
Lots of what ifs and maybes. Always a sign you might be reading too much into it.
I missed an opportunity with a woman when she just didn't tell me what she wanted ,she played the sign treatment ,and because my mother had just passed away I was totally engulfed in a business project and was engaging with solicitors, suppliers, painting ,electricians etc, and didn't know what she wanted I thought she was just being friendly, so consequently she hooked up with her ex and now she's happy,leaving me scratching my head as to wtf just happened,if she'd only pulled me aside and told me what she wanted she would have gotten exactly what she wanted !! 1:04
Anna how do you know so much about women? Are all your videos from personal experience?
That can of bear spray totally indicates her feelings
This is all about chance lmao as soon as the woman plays games I’m gone. I’ll always prioritize peace of mind. Going off mixed signals, hot and cold?? Fellas! For your own sake, pls! Just do you 👑
Yup, all the above. So that's what's going on. Wow. Thanks.
And if she likes you more and more but she is fighting her feelings because she wouldn't like to commit to you for rational or family reasons?
Yes
Always a possibility
Thanks. J Love the words of advice
Fellow men first do something with your life that is where true happiness lies
True that bro! Peace and Love ❤
i don't have enough money to be able to live the life i want
All of these are red flags tbh except the nervousness one.
Thanks Anna I got alot out of this vid! Your so intuitive....😊
Glad you found it useful! 😁
Forget if she is attracted to you and hiding her feelings because in the end that can turn into a trip to the friend zone. Ask her out if you want to. She will say yes or no. From there you get to take the next steps. That or continue to not get caught up in the world of chaos and confusion that we all have created.
No. You have to control the situation! Walk in front of women and wear a lovely perfume. Most men dont know about casual talk. That why marriage are fail.
Be and always act cold toward her. Show no emotion and let her see you taking charge on others getting things done. In other words, focus on yourself and pursing your own goals reaching them. Don’t forget to let her see you making other girls laugh when she’s around. You put her in the friend zone first and tell her she’s like your sister. Don’t forget giving her a pet name so she knows only you knows that.
If she feels this way then she can say something, why must men always be the one to make the first move? Gentlemen focus on yourself and the girl will come on the most unexpected ways...
Men, if the women you're interested in is like a rubiks cube don't walk, run away! Don't make the mistake of trying to figure her out, they don't need a boyfriend they need a therapist because they're insane! Not all women are this bi-polar, there are women who are emotionally and mentally stable, and won't play all these childish games. Who has time to deal with all this bullcrap!
Well the therapist is just a tool in there toolbox, I don't think they get them neither, but they just cash 💰 in! Imagine if you could charge $100 for every session of complaint and caos.
No. In Islam, men have to walk in front of women Dont walk behind women. Women are like a child. Dont take them seriously. Women love to hide their feelings. Wear a lovely perfume for attraction.
Women can look at this and think it makes sense. Keep that in mind guys. 😂
I've subscribed, thanks for all of your work and advice 🙏🏽😘
You're so welcome! Thanks for watching and commenting 😀 helps a lot!
the only nervousness women show when I am around is them waiting impatiently for me to leave even though I never try to do anything, I am not threatening in any way and I keep to myself and try not to bother people, especially women, with my presence.
You know, I am ugly enough and very poor so I know that I don't even stand a chance with women and I know my place.
Your advice just works for handsome and rich guys, all of us poor and ugly guys, need to go home, stop dreaming and kill all hope because it only brings heartache
Speaking as a man, I appreciate the practical advice
Just treat a woman like one of your buddies that you happen to want to have sex with.
Tried that and nothing happens
Everything she says is true. But it's only the case if she likes you
Goeie Video!
😶🌫️you remind me of a friend I use to know back in Topock. But I did notice lol
Thanks for sharing
The “other guys” thing is very true. This happens with both sexes when both the man and woman are… already “taken.”
That was was a great video
I don't know why I keep looking at this type of stuff. All of this just seems like "chasing the dragon", you know? Saw a comment on here..."focus on yourself"...it makes the most sense out of any of this. "Focus on yourself"
I subscribed, a long time ago, lol
Thank you! 😊
Thank you
You're absolutely welcome! Thank you for commenting
"She teases you"
My crush: that music video looks like an lsd trip
Me: how would you know?
*a few minutes later*
Me: yea it kinda does look like a drug trip
My crush: well how would you know?
I learn English and it's so interesting to do it with your videos)) Big thanks
That's so awesome, thank you for watching!
@@Joyanima I will keep doing)
I've subscribed! (... a long time ago.....) Great food for thought, and things to analyze while interacting with a possible partner/friend. While not all concrete examples of things I've seen in one or more persons, these behaviors are on the watchlist during interactions. The scenarios are obtuse, or vague enough, to apply to certain type of day to day interactions without being too specific. Wonderful and thoughtful content, thank you! (Glad you got rid of the captions, very distracting.)
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Thank you for subscribing for so long! Glad you've been enjoying the majority of the content. The subtitles are an on-going test to see how they perform, they take a lot of time so they'll only be kept on in one form or another if overall people are positive towards them. (You won't like today's latest video though, sorry)
@@Joyanima all good! I'll always tune in when you pop into my feed, the positive vibes in your content help me wind down when coming home from work! Much luv from Texas!✌
@@luckyddevil1975you are enjoying my way with you answer
I want you to have enough to satisfying you to the full of it in side of you okay answer me right now
Communication is a two way street.
Very true!
These videos are the reason I’m still single! 🤣😂🤣😂 women play more games than EA sports!
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Thank you so much! Enjoy today's video! 😀
good stuff
This video reminded me of those medicine commercials we have here in the States, where they tell you the benefits for the first 10 seconds and than go on to talk about the side effects for the next 2 minutes and why you shouldn’t take it 😂
Now that I think about it. I know quite a few women who have used some of these tactics in this video on me. Too bad they were unattractive and undesirable for me to pursue.
i am 32years old. never had a relationship. that is because believe it or not, never was aware of my attractiveness. Ive met a lot on women who laugh at my humor and i always have been looking women in the eyes. never knew this was a sign that i am attractive and a sign of me being confident. I was never busy with this. until last year. now i am aware of it. But, i also have my life in order. with this i mean, my finances, have a house which is clean and tidy, room for a family. i can cook, wash, iron, all the chores people do. groceries i do too. maintain my car, do garden work. i am self sufficient. But also i am happy alone. i live now 10 years alone and i really love it. which means, I am not desperate for an relationship. So its not on number one on the list. So i don't react on the signs. i am maybe a rare one but i am not an hunter, i am the catch so to speak. I do things different, so a women must do the 1st step. i am not doing that. because i don't see why a man always have to do it first. an i can do that because i am not in a hurry in getting in a relationship because i am happy alone.
subscribed btw.
This advice is useful if you are a teenager.... Not an adult.
Thanks a lot 🥰
Man this girl is pretty!
8:47 Wonderful video, Joyanima. Thank you!
Thank you for your kind words!
I'm not sure trying to fight the battle of, she loves me, she loves me not can be won with even more speculation.
Show up as the real you if you want someone to show up as the real them.
If it works, great, if it doesn't, thrn rejection was your protection.
I subscribed
Why can't women just tell men they like them and stop playing these games?
That would be logical which they are not wired to be.
In public unknown girl if she like you we try to giggle loudly with her friends to get attention from you ,just ignore them like no one is there
The mental gymnastics definitely aren't worth it guys
I subscribed♥️
Thank you so much 😀
Hi your welcome honey🥰
The teasing: Yes [that is a sign]
You in red = ❤
You described her .. aff
Baby tell you the very truth you need to understand iam fighting for my self but the feeling I have for you is blowing me a way because Avery single day that passes bye you or on my mind
I ve subscribed
The advice here is as useful as someone telling you that if you feel a number is lucky, go play the lottery with those numbers. In the end, you are just playing guessing games and hoping for the best. May as well forget everything you just heard and ask her out if you are feeling lucky, and hope for the best, but expect the worst 😂
Hi Anna what if a shy girl talked with you normally but after she show some sings and I approach her now she become nervous around me and she just looked at me and when I knew that she was looking at me and looked at her she just turned her head and pretended to not looking at me at all. and what if she acts weird and distant for 2 weeks and never made an eye contact in those 2 weeks ( and I knew it and give her space) but now she is become friendly but still nervous around me and when she passes me she always put her head down and look into the ground and also at the same time she just looks at me a lot in the classroom when I am not looking at her( my friend told me that she is looking at you a lot) can I know your idea about this? Your video make me worried that she maybe nervous around all the guys not me and she may not like me that much because she is not asking me personal questions and other stuff and so many people told me that if you are talking with a most introverted girl in the world she should ask you questions about yourself by now but at the same time she help me with lessons when I am not asking her and so many confusing things.
What do you do when they look at you act nervous but avoid talking
Whelp, i dunno. But, when a 20+ year old looks at a mature man that's in better shape then he was in his teens,20's & 30's, is a fine fine thing indeed. There is nothing wrong with alil _Eyecandy_ and friendly banter
Great information but unfortunately It’s to complicated for me now. Maybe some guys will put in the effort but it’s not for me. I always say if it doesn’t come somewhat easy let it go. I’m 50 years old now and have had many relationships in the past. I’m over all these complications at this point. Good luck gentlemen.
I hear you. I’m 39 and started realizing when I turned 34-35 I started to feel so tired of the entire dating/relationship game. I can attract women fairly easily but it’s all just such a headache . The reward just isn’t there
They can't fight the friction❤
If your advances aren't welcome you'll be labelled "a creep". Even if a woman knew herself she'd still be in two minds.
suggest me some books to read about that topics
Considering women find 80% of men unattractive, most guys don't have to worry about this "problem".
The woman is so enamored of him that the intensity of her desire is palpable and she yearns to be with him/ Now they are together/ It did take a while to realize that convenience relationships are escapism for her and self-deception for me/
Your amazing ❤