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How To Be More Attractive: Female VS Male Gaze
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It’s insane, I just got into fragrances and read “don’t buy dior savage everyone has it” yet i get compliments everyday when I wear it
heavily depends on area
Dior sausage the bot fragrance
gourmant fragrances >
People like to be contrarians. If you buy a ferrari it doesn't matter if 1000 other people have a ferrari, you still have a goddamn ferrari. If you smell nice, it doesn't matter if other people smell nice as well. It's such a silly thing to worry about.
Man people over exaggerate how many people wear it. I can’t even remember the last time I smelled a dude wearing any cologne at all let alone a certain fragrance
same here, never smelled it before, bought one and notoced NO ONE at work wears it (nor had i smelled it before on someone else)
Can I honestly just thank you?
Because it is thanks to you I got back at my ex girlfriend who cheated on me. I was out of shape and insecure i felt down because I knew it was gonna be hard for me to just get a new girlfriend. Then I followed your advise on aesthetics, within a year I put on some decent amount of muscle mass, got down to 8% body fat, my confidence went thru the roof! And I was not ready for the onslaught of female attention i started getting.. I was posting crazy photos on IG and my ex saw and the best part is she tried to text me and said she misses me, I left her ass on read lol.
Kudos on growth but move past. You're a man. Leave childish petty shit behind
at least you didnt take her back. the temptation to do so can be strong when ur down bad
@@chuck2703Bro shut up
Tell me how
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This applies to personality/lifestyle as well. I see both sexes doing the mistake thinking that what they find attractive in opposite sex is what the opposite sex finds attractive as well. So if we dont count looks most guys prefer girls who are nice and sweet personality wise and thats what they do themselves by being the sweet nice guys who end up friendzoned. Women on the other hand prefer men who are successful,driven,have high social status etc. and they think that if theyre career oriented/"successful" themselves that they will be more attractive to guys when in reality most guys dont give a F about that.
Very well said. This is an interesting topic I should pay more attention to
Thats a good observation
Wow , this should be talked about more.
Yes and no. Most of the financial successful guys I have met/known, we're physically unattractive or average looking at best. Certainly not the guys women get wet for. However, they're usually seen as beta male provider/husband material.
@@brocklanders3616 I said if we dont count looks. Yes if she doesnt find you physically attractive nothing else will matter. Things I said are when everything else being equal or when looks are on point.
What I noticed is dark colored shirts with a chain and earrings make me look better; this is based off who i attract out at the clubs and bars. I attract more women when im wearing dark colored shirts vs colored shirts. I look more aggressive and manly in black/dark shirts. Also noticed I get more eyes when I have a fresh fade vs growing my hair out or a Caesar cut.
U white or black ?
@@teekandyprobably white
just be confident bro 😂
A subfive with fragrance and tattoos will get nothing. When a 5'4 balding mastercurry can slay chicks, then I will believe him!
@@ibracadabra180 I heard that pigs will fly soon and they've discovered unicorns. 😂
@@ibracadabra180 have money and anyone could slay chicks
@@oghenetegaumukoro113 The best chicks (8+) only want the Atractive Rich Guys they don't need the Ugly Rich Guy, including ugly females can get sperm donors if they want a child, if It's for sex they have Tinder where can find Rich Chads and Poor Chads or Chadlites; if they want money that have Instagram, Onlyfans, and Patreon where they get It with nudes. And Chads, Chadlites and some High Tier Normies will go for multiple sexual partners. They don't need the Ugly Rich Guy anymore.
@wat khalar ez eor bugga E what color us your buggati?
W video bro. I know some of these probably don’t make sense to average guys. But ever since i started wearing more jewellery,i’ve been getting much more female attention, also im getting tattoos as well this month😌so excited
So you are wearing jewellery and getting tattoos because you want female attention. Smh
@@traphall tatoos are permanent n look hella weird when you are older but he seems like he only lives on the present.
@@wxntta why would you give a f**k when you’re older LMAO
@@TheFitTechGuy ikr, you're old and wrinkled anyway.
@@TheFitTechGuy exactly my thoughts brother. I thought im already 23, I’ve probably 6-7 years left before i marry, why not enjoy the attention and attraction before that. We’re all gunna get old one day anyway. These guys are so anti woman, cuz they don’t get none anyway. So they cope with “ i do it for myself not woman”. At the end of the day. Biologically, every man’s first priority is to reproduce
I forget the term but there is something to the effect of being highly attractive to a small subset of people, versus being mildly attractive to most people. An example is bodybuilders... repulsive to most women , but highly, HIGHLY attractive to maybe 10% of women. Its like shooting fish in a barrel for them once surrounded with those females. So its about finding your own niche. A funny thing I've noticed...certain male hobbies have a significant enough female following. Almost like groupies: soccer clubs, karaoke, drag racing hell even drone racing. You don't have to be the very best at any these SOCIAL/GROUP hobbies, just better than gen pop and certain women will notice or at least find interesting
Choosing the right frag is actually very EASY!
A frag rule #1 is to contrast / compliment your type: If you're dark type (italian, latino arab, black) you wear a light (citrusy, fruity, aquatic) frag say ARMANI AQUA DI GIO and as a nordic type you choose a more dark (woody, spicy) frag i.e. ARMANI CODE
If you go the classic complementary route - you do them frags the other way around: blond nordic type = AQUA DI GiO (aquatic citrusy) and as a darker type you go for the ARMANI CODE (spice,, woody) That's all!
Wow interesting! Why is this? I'm a lady with black hair and eyes and pale skin, I've been told I give off a cool/elegant aura, what should I choose? A sweet inviting fragrance?
As a female, I like beards. When I was in my teens & early 20's, not so much; however, when my husband decided to grow a beard when I was in my mid 20's, I was very much thrilled. Thought it elevated his attractiveness even more; however, perhaps it was b/c I was becoming older too? I LOVE HIS BEARD. We've been married nearly 19 years & I even love the salt & pepper of it now. He keeps it nicely trimmed.
I like the look of nicely trimmed beards in general. Definitely not the Duck Dynasty beards. However, perhaps by the time I reach Ms.K's age (the patriarchal head's wife of Duck Dynasty), I may find the Duck Dynasty beard attractive?😊
What a very well researched and useful video. Combining the besr aspects of red and black pill. I love it!
This is actually a very good video that literally no other UA-camr has talked about. And the part about the cars is spot on. Women can't tell the difference between a Hellcat vs a SXT. That was a dam good point. So fellas when looking to get a car to impress women, like he said, get something that merely resembles a super car vs a Charger, Mustang, etc. Even a Toyota Supra would attract more women than a Charger.
Just get the basic camaro , challenger for like 17k or 18k, like a camaro LT, its all the same
@@kokidchaz4790 the point is, those cars don't attract as many women as say a Toyota Supra, a Z06, an Audi R8, etc. Everybody and their mom has a camero, charger, etc.
Please don’t generalize all women like that. There are plenty of car girls out there and plenty of males that don’t know anything about cars.
But how bout trucks ? Women go crazy over trucks which is a macho looking vehicle and also appeals to the male gaze
@@anythingchannel9326 true iv got many compliments from women on my challenger but however he does have a point though
Austin is not a funny dude but when he said not the homosexual gays I bust out laughing 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
“Is not a funny dude”😂
That Dior Sauvage is by far my favorite. Works like a charm 😎
Fr bro. Probably the most complimented fragrance I've ever owned... I'll always love it
@@trxndesign3331 Acqua di Giò is another one that’s 🔥🔥🔥.
@@solodolo_mma3971 Yes especially Profumo🔥
For me it’s club de nuit 💯💯💯
@@jonathancontreras633 Ima check that one out. 👍🏼
Hey Austin what about behavioral changes in the male vs female gaze? Do you think female gaze supports more gentle caring or other feminine traits? Could you do a video on that aswell?
They like masculine aggressive dudes. That's easy bro.
@@POPJack1717 False you will scare a lot of them off. Instead, be strong enough to be gentle
Be strong enough to be gentle.
The female gaze is all about implications
She wants a man who is strong enough to be dangerous, but soft enough for her to be comfortable around.
@@onapig6449true
as a girl, I'd give anything to have a gentle guy.
about the fragrance, I had a nice cologne that all my homies liked too...and of course, it recommended by a man. When i asked some girls if they liked it, they said "no - it smells like my dad" or something along those lines. So from there on out, I just stopped wearing any scents that arent "neutral"
I agree with the tattoo thing. Like Brad Pitts tattoos in snatch look more edgy than a sleeve of complex art work
Brad Pitt had zero tattoos in fightclub
@@ck3125 you are right I meant snatch lol thanks for correcting me
very interesting video; and great points made. some things can perceived by men to be slightly feminine, but they appreciated by women. dudes often think being as masculine as possible is gonna make her go crazy
step 1: dont be sub-6 facially
you're like the only cool calm and collected red pill guy on UA-cam.
And AMS
Mj get right, Myron, Tate
@@billbelicheat4499 these guy are way too extreme. They seem to have hanger issues.
MJ is pretty cool too.
@@Indicesproptrader hanger issues?🤣
Fragrance is key. Looking good and feeling good
Curly fragrance on UA-cam is my go to for a good female POV on cologne
Yh same
Sometimes you have to take some of these Fragtuber opinions with grain of 🧂 because they have business relationships with fragrance retailers/houses
Dior Sauvage is all you need if you choose to wear cologne. Ashley Weston ,celebrity stylist , is the woman i rather take advice from. Search her name up on UA-cam
Bruv lol do your eye brow video next ! It looks tatted 👀… I hope all y’all watching this level up financially physically and mentally! Let’s get to work !
💯
black castor oil
Micro blading
Nobody tryna give up the eyebrow secrets bro I’ve been trying to figure out for a year now ..
It’s on his patreon
Frankly female gaze standard is a lot easier to hit, looking like Cbum is impossible, but a K pop star physique is easily attainable. I guess wearing jewellery appeals, I still say hard no to tattoos. With how prevalent tattoos are, you stand out more by not having them. I still maintain being clean shaven is best, to be honest these minor stylistic choices matter a lot less than having a good slim physique and dressing well and dancing, If you have money to clinch the deal even better.
So true. What would you say is the best way to learn dancing? I took a dancing class back in college and the professor was some dude prancing around doing ballet. I dropped that class after I found out all the girls thought he was gay or something. Most dancing schools seem to cater to teenage girls. No one is trying to teach adult men how to dance.
@@tastybrownie7448 Just dance, there are an amazing amount of adult dance classes.
Tango, salsa, etc etc.
@@datoolz0But who is going to teach me though? And where do I do this dancing?
Yeah! I hate tattoos!
@@SrtaLJCarneiro I would love to see a study done on this. What do 20 young women pick, tattoo vs non tattoo? I'd bet its 50:50 either way.
really like your content man! very objective POV. keep it up Austin!
Education with an open mind is how you can come to conclusions about what works in your personal life. Dope video.
The tattoo one is debatable
Very.
You should have touched on K-pop stars from the female lens. Great Vid!!
A few yrs ago I pulled up on a girl in a red Toyota and she thought it was an older Audi A4 😭😭😭 they definitely don’t know the difference lol
And as far as attraction 🧲 goes when wearing Jewel etc. It also depends on the age demographic you are catering too. Younger women might like jewelry, whereas older more seasoned women wouldn't care too much about it 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
True
Actually older women think wearing rings and shit is super gey
Race has a big influence too
I mean Black girls like jewelery a lot thanks to Hip Hop
Its like: Black girls like more "michael b jordans" or "chris browns" while White girls like more "justin biebers" or "zayns"
@@joaopedrobaldo3316 Absolutely correct 💯 depending on age demographic.
Thank u bro, creed aventus smells like every male cologne ive ever smelled. I like the "sexier" smells. The girls love it too
Yo austin your a real one for helping me
Bros looking majestic
Level up is the motto
Austin, I feel you on the body type part. Which is why calisthenics is perfect t for creating that ideal body chicks like because you can only get so big with that. But with weight lifting you can always get bigger and bigger because of progression overload. So how would a person workout without getting too big while being a weight lifter? @Austin Dunham
you will not get too big accidentally i promise
Most lifters will never reach a stage where they are too big, naturally speaking.
@@aadypillai5808 1st off thank you for your response bro. I have to disagree. That’s why I asked the question. If you progressive overload on squats for example, your legs can get big asf to the point you won’t be able to fit in jeans vs not weight lifting in progressive overload and doing mostly calisthenics that guy won’t have that problem. This is why some muscle bound guy that join the navy are too heavy just like Austin was talking about
@@abdulwahaab9026 like I said to the other guy that isn’t a fact. I’ve seen men who squat 315-600 pounds and can’t fit in jeans. While a guy who doesn’t lift weights can fit in jeans. So all the 6 nemrods who liked your comment and all 4 who liked the other guy comment are a bunch of low life followers who can’t think for themselves. My point is valid and true and I’m asking for someone who knows what they talking about who can provide value. Seems you two guys can’t relate or know and that’s fine
From what I've seen, the main situation where guys get too big is with steroid use. With natural weightlifting, it would take many years and be very difficult and rare for a person with normal genetics to get to a point that most women would consider too muscular, especially if you are keeping your body-fat semi-lean along the way. Anyway, I do think calisthenics are great. My workouts this year have been 90% calisthenics. But I do think some calisthenics guys end up staying smaller than they might want, to where they just look skinny in clothes.
But anyway to answer your actual question, your body transforms slowly, so you will always have time to adjust and stay in the range of size you want. If your legs are actually starting to get too big from barbell squats, then just switch back to doing calisthenics for your legs. Or decrease the volume of your training, train legs less often or do fewer sets. One of my other favorite fitness channels is Kinobody. He doesn't do heavy back squats or deadlifting much. Instead, he does stuff like Bulgarian split squats and pistol squats for legs. Some commenters tease him for having smaller legs than other lifters, but he considers it more aesthetic. I would agree that his legs look great. So you could follow a Kinobody program-I've done a few and gotten good results with them.
But yeah I think for 99% of natural lifters, the struggle will be to get as big as you want, not accidentally getting/staying too big. Those guys you referred to who can't fit into jeans anymore, it's not like they are powerless to change it haha. They did a lot of work to get to that point. They must enjoy heavy squatting and/or leg hypertrophy. Good for them. But if they wanted to fit back in jeans again, they could just switch up their training (and potentially diet, if they're not already lean), and they could fit in jeans again soon enough.
Thanks for the advice man!
Facts all the way. Austin's channel is underrated. Wish every black men would come here and get inspired. As a 30 year old black man myself I would say this is an amazing channel for us. I've been on this self improvement journey for more than a 8 years now and I used to watch other UA-camrs but some information was catering more to Caucasian male and other non black races. Until I stumbled upon Austin's & FitX. Much love brothers from Carlos Ndawi based in Zimbabwe.
Informative✨ and you have a good voice.
This is true. My ex asked me what I was wearing everytime I had on Dior Sauvage, and I still don't think its my best fragrance
interestion question, how much more muscle you think you need to go from brad pitt to austin dunham?
You’d be surprised about how many girls know about cars in the the Northern Va area 😂
This is actually 100% true
Are you "Daddys home" 😂😂?
Austin Gang💪💪
NOTIFICATION GANG!🔥
I didn't even notice you weren't wearing earrings or rings 😂
*Making money is an action. Keeping money is a behavior, but "Growing money is wisdom" I heard that from someone 💦🎀*
Bro you finna have me get my ears peirced! 🤣
What gender u trying to attract? Many things he does and says you shouldn’t do if u want to attract females
very interesting video Austin!
This is really good! E.g. GIGACHAD model is the ideal by male gaze not female gaze😅
Just get the basic camaro or challenger for like $17k, 2016, women don't know bro forreal,
I agree with him in the jewelry/tattoo part when he said there are some items that are traditionally feminine, but when a man wears them, he suddenly becomes very attractive.
Imo the same could be said for women.
I’d like a cute, feminine woman, but there are some items or clothing that, even though they are associated with ruggedness or masculinity, a woman who wears these items is EXTREMELY attractive.
Take leather jackets for example. In the past, only men used to wear them because it symbolizes confidence and toughness.
Later on, leather jackets became fashionable for both genders, and believe me when I say this.
Even an average-looking woman in a nice black leather jacket suddenly becomes smoking sexy and hot.
Don’t believe me? Buy one for your woman, if you have the money (they are quite expensive), and let her wear one. You will notice the difference.
Swop out pictures of cars with pictures of you cooking. You’re welcome.
Austin I think you would look more attractive with thin chin length dreads. Female gaze likes longer hair. Not super long, but medium length and clean cut
My favorite you tuber.. level up..
Facts Facts Facts 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Be yourself and you gonna attract the most number of girls
Only if youre not ugly
Where did you get that Eye of Horus necklace? Looks sick!
This was broken down well. Nice topic.
0:17 not the homosexual gays 😂
This is a weird thing. You wanna balance both of these gazes. I am a dude and I wanna look how I wanna look like. I wanna be Awesome McCoolGuy. I wanna wear techwear ninja clothes and have biceps bigger than my head but on the other hand, I gotta balance that out with having to look a certain way to maximize my work and leisure while also looking attractive to the kind of gal I'd like to end up with.
Everything's a compromise.
Yea techwear ninja outfits aint it 😂
Lol. McCool guy. I feel ya bro. I'm the same. Gangster/ninja sometimes
G wagon I’m coming for you
Eau Sauvage is the most overhyped most boring halfassed frag ever. It wants to be everybody darling, everything in one - so it's a no spine frag.
A frag rule #1 is to contrast / compliment your type: If you're dark type (italian, latino arab, black) you wear a light (citrusy, fruity, aquatic) frag say ARMANI AQUA DI GIO and as a nordic type you choose a more dark (woody, spicy) frag i.e. ARMANI CODE
If you go the classic complementary route - you do them frags the other way around: blond nordic type = AQUA DI GiO (aquatic citrusy) and as a darker type you go for the ARMANI CODE (spice,, woody) That's all!
So think like they think. 💪🏿
VERY INFORMATIVE AND INTERESTING VIDEO SUBJECT AUSTIN!
This reminds me of how my nephew and his friends be thinking they’re “the man” with girls because they’ve got every pair of Jordans. I tell him women don’t care about your shoes for real like that. He doesn’t believe me. I buy him a bottle of Versace Eros and he comes back telling me how the girls go crazy for it lmao
Shoes is the most important part of the outfit. Not the brand but the shape of it
Everything’s important tbh to a certain degree those shoes matter bro wouldn’t be getting any attention in crocs
@@Xerolyst yeah the shoes matter. But I’d say a lot of women kinda look at a man with a side eye if he has a hundred pairs of Jordan’s. At least that’s what women have told me.
Brilliant video
Wear ur creeds when the Bros link up
Your friend fitx has the huge bodybuilder look but he still pulls lol. So most women don't find his body attractive but choose him for other reasons.
He is talking about huge bodybuilders
what u mean by homosexual gaze ?
he meant 'gaze' , not to be misinterpreted as 'gays' which is homosexual
Best cologne : Tom ford fuckin fabulous and there cherry
i wish you added clothing/style
In terms of perfumes, wear what you like. I personally, don't like Dior Sauvage, I use Bleu De Chanel instead.
I get a tonne of compliments from girls and dudes on my Bleu De Chanel but I wear coz I like it. I would still wear it with no compliments. I also wear it with confidence.
Same here I did bleu de Chanel parfum instead of Dior sauvage
Early !!
Anyone see the rubix cube in the back?
Steph is cold about to be pissed bc they can't tell a difference between hell cat and challenger jk
LOOOOOL
Imagine spending your life based on what women want instead of what you as a man want to be like.
Imagine only other men finding you awsome 😂
Never take advice from these shitheads with no history
Even though Challenger is bad ass masculine car, every guy in the right mind should pick Corvette C8, it's just sexy hot car..
What brand is your t shirt ? It fits nice
I just got me a new Chevy Malibu...chicks love my car here in the Midwest
Do more on this subject
Imma have to disagree with the tattoo take. I think women still enjoy tattoo sleeves
I never said they didnt enjoy tat sleeves man. I have those also.
Thanks bro for your teaching us to become I called "Alpha male"
By the way bruh I'm from Philippines 💯🔥
What about trucks?
Do a video on how to get more social status
just look at mens physique division in ifbb if you want muscle without over doing it!
So basically be rich and be able to afford a G-Wagon or new Corvette. Come on my guy, 98% of the dudes viewing this will NEVER be able to afford either one of those.
sounds simpy to me lol. i prefer doing it for myself indeed haha
Try these: One milion Royal and Jean Paul Gaultier le perfume
The only thing I disagree with is creed vs dior. Ive gotten way more compliments on Creed but that may just be my experience.
In my experience, this is actually right. I'm a ripped but relatively small guy for a gym goer and girls generally prefer my build to my friends who weigh 200+ lbs (91+ kg) but I thought these guys looked more impressive than me. What's more is that these guys all wear chains but I've always preferred earrings (I still like chains though) and when I talked to my female friends about it, they liked the idea of me getting earrings and thought they'd look good on me.
Stop lying
Lclip m9aweeeeed 🔥🔥
Okay fragrance doesn’t really matter, just smell nice.
Joop is a men's colonge I had girls wear it themselves after I showed it to them.
It’s a corvette but thank you 😂
Bro, am I tripping or you redefining the word gaze? I’m here thinking you talking about eye gaze and you speaking bout hellcats and beards.
A black pickup truck is what women find the most attractive.
Skincare
Wait, Chris Bumpsted is not natty? He's on roids? He says he's 100% NATTY! Body builders don't lie right? 😂
What is natty
step one: become rich