Blynda Lane: Finding your Identity In Who God Says You Are (FULL EPISODE) | Better Together TV

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  • Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
  • This week on Better Together, Blynda Lane leads a refreshing conversation about leaning into who God says you are rather than what the world says about you. Join the conversation as Robyn Wilkerson, Lisa Bevere, Beth Redman, and Julia Jeffress Sadler discuss breaking the chains of insecurity and finding freedom to be who God made you to be.
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    0:00 Intro
    0:45 Freedom from insecurity
    4:04 Who am I?
    10:28 The dangers of insecurity
    15:45 The antidote for insecure thoughts
    19:18 Setting boundaries with the world
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  • @countrygospel601
    @countrygospel601 Рік тому +55

    I was a devout Muslim and I was saved by Lord Jesus Christ 9 years ago.. please pray for my dad and the rest of family who haven't accept Jesus as their God and savior 🙌🙌

    • @LiftWithTam
      @LiftWithTam Рік тому +1

      Praying for your family’s salvation 🤍

    • @ruthdamaris555
      @ruthdamaris555 11 місяців тому

      Amen, praying for your family. God is Good, and He will reveal himself ❤❤❤❤!! God Bless You and Yours!!!

  • @lynn3862
    @lynn3862 Рік тому +35

    " Unseen does not mean insignificant"
    Who else needed to hear this today😢

    • @neycielyons
      @neycielyons Рік тому +1

      Me for sure 🥺 I’m praying a blessing over the space it may have created in you like it did for me 🥺🧡🪷🕊 You are definitely enough 🌸🌸🌸 and I see you 🫂

    • @lynn3862
      @lynn3862 Рік тому +1

      @@neycielyons Thank you sis. Covering you in prayer also. So thankful for a community of women who choose to reset each other's crowns.❤

    • @Uservdv2
      @Uservdv2 Рік тому

      That was beautiful ❤

  • @marceneogawa7617
    @marceneogawa7617 2 місяці тому +2

    I appreciate the advice of Blynda Lane: assume that everyone is doing their best, “everyone in the room loves me and I love them.” “Know you’re loved and walk in love,” because that allows us to openly share the love of God operating through us.

  • @ZCOH
    @ZCOH Рік тому +17

    Thank you Lord that my identity and validation comes from you alone! You said I’m a chosen generation a royal priesthood & I believe I am!

  • @cookiemonster7313
    @cookiemonster7313 Рік тому +8

    Remember as long as Peter kept his eyes on Jesus he was able to walk on water 😍💯

  • @lynnefetsko3562
    @lynnefetsko3562 Рік тому +7

    And low self confidence, self esteem..it's all tied in to Identity. Especially being divorced at age 62, starting over in the workplace

  • @Bettyboop991
    @Bettyboop991 Рік тому +4

    Such a fantastic message! I especially love Lisa Bevere’s point that you do NOT have to share everything that God has put in your heart or what you are doing! Protect yourself and don’t over share! Have a couple Godly people you can share with but not everyone and not all of social media!

  • @kemitale2260
    @kemitale2260 Рік тому +5

    Good message, I thank God for who I am . Insecurity has been my killing disease until a friend told me that God loves the way I am. I thank God so much. 🙏 and he will

  • @ashleylovesjesuskitties1906
    @ashleylovesjesuskitties1906 Рік тому +13

    "You know who you are , when you know who's you are" .. That is one of the most encouraging things I have ever heard! Knowing this has absolutely changed and renewed me, I used to have such deep rooted insecurities and they weighed me down so heavily I almost took my own life over them but after giving myself to Jesus and reading God's word and finding out the real TRUTH of who I really was in Him completely changed my life! What an encouraging and powerful message today! Thank you 💌 #BetterTogether

  • @calledtomore
    @calledtomore Рік тому +5

    I am so thankful for this program and these women that constantly point me to Jesus. ❤❤

  • @christathompson3472
    @christathompson3472 Місяць тому

    3:51 YES, @LisaBevere "Just a momma," it's like "All we can do is just pray." Both are POWERFUL!

  • @brittanyb9292
    @brittanyb9292 Рік тому +5

    This well needed message I was forgetting who I was insecurity really been hit me hard this month

  • @cblw14
    @cblw14 Рік тому +3

    On time word. Seriously. Was just thinking about how I've been insecure lately and I thank God for bringing this message to me and reminding that I am His.

  • @virginiablackie4161
    @virginiablackie4161 Рік тому +1

    "JESUS,, WHEN I STRAY FROM YOUR ARMS AND YOUR FELLOWSHIP,, SUMMON ME HOME BY NAME. 🌹 I'M SO GREATFUL TO BE YOURS."" 🌹❤️🌹❤️

    • @virginiablackie4161
      @virginiablackie4161 Рік тому +2

      "DO NOT FEAR,, FOR I HAVE REDEEMED YOU,, I HAVE SUMMONED YOU BY NAME,, YOU ARE MINE". {ISAIAH 43:1} 🌹❤️🌹❤️

  • @Jenxdavis
    @Jenxdavis Рік тому

    20:41 This has been SO True for me! I had the orphan spirit, but not anymore! I may still struggle, but what you said is my “back to basics” in certain situations. 🙌🏻

  • @taneshastern7881
    @taneshastern7881 Рік тому +2

    I love watching this, so helpful with
    walking in Christ

  • @Gracewalk49
    @Gracewalk49 5 місяців тому

    This is so timely for me especially the part where that person was a Christian but had not truly accepted Jesus as her lord and savior - bc she still had fear and pointed to you at that table. That is me. I want to be free

  • @PleaseViewMyChannel
    @PleaseViewMyChannel Рік тому +3

    _Hi brothers and sisters! Before the year ends, if its not too much to ask, can you include me and my family in your prayers? Im not asking for anything but prayers. Because only a miracle from Above can get us out of our situation. Please pray that me and my family's relationship with each other become better and healthier. 🙏 Please pray that I can finally have a stable source of income, so that I can finally take my family out of the dungeon where we are stuck. Please pray for us. GOD knows the rest of it. 🙏 Way too many times Ive thought of giving up to escape all these struggles but I just cant do it without hurting my family. So here I am, choosing to keep fighting. May GOD finally intervene and send us our breakthroughs. Thank you. GOD bless you and your 2023._ 🙏❤️

    • @unicornisabelle8871
      @unicornisabelle8871 Рік тому +1

      Certainly. I will be praying. God will provide. Cling on to Him, don't give up. :)

  • @Time4Stories1967
    @Time4Stories1967 Рік тому

    i went through 2 bad marriages, and 2 years ago, i got grossly scammed by a man in nigeria, that is where a lot of my insecurity comes from, im so shy i can hardly open my mouth around people even my 2 best friends in the church, love connie

  • @angelalister6617
    @angelalister6617 Місяць тому +1

    Wow, this is good! Thank you, ladies, for this.

  • @lawandalyles6559
    @lawandalyles6559 Рік тому +2

    I just got through watching the show wow it was amazing. ALL groly be to God 💪🏾♥️🙏🏾

  • @lindohlily
    @lindohlily Рік тому

    ,You have the right to be private! Amen

  • @Beeshades-01
    @Beeshades-01 Рік тому

    Thank you so much it has set me free please don't stop this is changing my life God bless you and love you 💕.

  • @annamakoto1201
    @annamakoto1201 Рік тому +3

    I needed this! Thank you Lord 🙏🏽❤️

  • @julieailey9498
    @julieailey9498 Рік тому +4

    My insecurity comes from my passion to help others and when they let me know they need more then I can give in whatever area. The guilt and shame take over. Because this is God call for my life. Of course, I need to add that I have been I'll and in bed in a dark room for nine months. Brain swelling cause my to have full brain migraines and I have a birth defect that allows to much light into my eye anyway. So I try to be who He called me too. But physically am not able too. No I don't have Christian to help me. I have a abusive handicapped roommate. I live on SSI so I don't have the money to move. God has to do miracles for that to happen.

    • @hemapatel2694
      @hemapatel2694 Рік тому +1

      Me too. I like helping other people but when I cannot, I feel guilt. I also worry about what people think about me. Help me LORD 🙌

    • @julieailey9498
      @julieailey9498 Рік тому +1

      @@hemapatel2694 I know what it is like to worry what people think, but these last nine months of only doing what has to be done if I could,and the condemnation that came from it, I now am at a place that I love people but what they think doesn't matter very much. As long as I know I am doing God's will to the best of my ability that is all that matters. It still hard since I have no one that can help as I need it, but I know God will bring the right people into my life at the right time. It is as hard being were I am as it was wanting to please others. Life is hard no matter what, especially in the times we are living in

    • @marlecalane8681
      @marlecalane8681 Рік тому +1

      Julie, I think God would love to bless you with a community of people that can help you along the way. Do you have a church you are attending?

    • @julieailey9498
      @julieailey9498 Рік тому +1

      @@marlecalane8681 no my church rejected me early on is this illness. They would tell me I needed to be more independent. I couldn't even breathe. I was gasping for every breath and the meds didn't work. But God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit talk to me in prayer. I know that my life is about to change for the better. It will be nice to have true followers of Christ. I know that will be a big part of the change. He has given me a special calling and the time is fast approaching for me to step into it.

    • @nompumelelomavuso4600
      @nompumelelomavuso4600 2 дні тому

      Hi Julie hope the Lord came through for you ❤

  • @thatgirlreeree
    @thatgirlreeree Рік тому +3

    That was so good 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @marclegrand4121
    @marclegrand4121 Рік тому

    I thank God for your faith sister Blynda the Lord Jesus tells me that you are a faithful servant of Him the Lord Jesus will meet you very shortly now when you hear about something wonderful happening in Belgium come without hesitation
    God bless you and your family

  • @shermellosborne
    @shermellosborne Рік тому +1

    Love this! Great reminder for the New Year ☺️

  • @tootsieroll101pops5
    @tootsieroll101pops5 Рік тому

    I too was navigatibg who I was like the Headbands game. Terrific analogy!!!!

  • @DevotedLady53
    @DevotedLady53 Рік тому +1

    Amen ❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @MakininaOnopey
    @MakininaOnopey 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Williamb612
    @Williamb612 Рік тому +1

    actually it is completely the opposite…it is through insecurity that we can find freedom…trust in the Lord with all your heart…

  • @jacqulynvincent
    @jacqulynvincent 6 місяців тому

    So that’s my problem I don’t know my purpose or calling 😩😩

    • @nonophat
      @nonophat 24 дні тому

      Hi sis. After going through my teens and twenties feeling like I don't know my purpose or calling, God finally revealed to me, now in my mid 30ties, that my calling is to be me! Our unique personalities are God-given, and you, just being you, blessess so many. I know it's cliche, but as you just continue to embrace who you are and give of yourself to your family, friends, work/community, you will see that you are actually fulfilling a purpose that only you can. Be encouraged ❤

  • @julieailey9498
    @julieailey9498 Рік тому

    What do you do when you have a roommate who will not respect your boundaries no matter what and you don't have the money to move out because I'm on SSI and I only have a lift chair so I don't have the furniture and I don't have the deposits and all that stuff and I'd have to get on a change my subsidized housing and all that stuff

    • @Bettyboop991
      @Bettyboop991 Рік тому

      I think if you cannot move out and your roommate is abusive you need to shed light on that. Can you talk to your landlord? Can you talk to family? Furniture can come later and can often be obtained for free. Is there a department for disability you can call? Have you tried talking to your roommate? Telling him/her what they are doing that is upsetting you? Saying a prayer for you now

    • @julieailey9498
      @julieailey9498 Рік тому +1

      @@Bettyboop991 I have figured out some of what is wrong, but though I have tried talking to her it has not helped. I talked to my landlord and she told me to just go in my room and close the door. She will not even stop her from cleaning her room at 12-1 in the morning. I can try the disability people, but the biggest problem is that she will not tell me what is wrong. Her has verbally attacked me three times still 4-5 am Christmas morning. I have talked to her sister but she has no more ideas then I do. I am going to try and talk to a nurse and the psychiatrist office we both go too. If that doesn't work I will have no choice but to talk with the disability people. She is going 4-6 days a week and today she came home looking like she was about to pass out and could hardly walk. I not complaining, I worried. With all the other things I am dealing with my stress level is causing problems with my health problems that have kept me in bed most of the time for nine and a half months. Though I have many related problems the Chronic Fatigue Syndrome that is the root problem is made much worse by stress. I am praying for her and am doing what I can but she needs to talk and the only person I know that could most of the time do that died in beyond her sister and brother in a year and a half ending last July. That is part of the problem. She need to talk about her grief and have someone help her through it. I also have a suspicion that she thinks I am going to die too. That is not going to happen but how can I stop her from worrying because she will admit to some problems but even them she refuses to deal with. She takes the attitude that she is what she is.

    • @Bettyboop991
      @Bettyboop991 Рік тому

      @@julieailey9498 I am so sorry. 😞 that is really hard. Sounds like she needs grief counseling. Does she go to church? My church has a grief share class (like a Biblestudy but for those who have lost someone) as well as counseling. So she wakes u up by cleaning in the middle of the night? Can you wear earplugs? I would also think some of what she’s doing is spiritual. Please pray over your house and get some olive oil and pray over it and anoint your home. The enemy may be using her especially since she’s full of grief. Is she a believer? I will say a prayer for you

    • @julieailey9498
      @julieailey9498 Рік тому +1

      @@Bettyboop991 She a Christian, but not a strong one. She would go to church every week if she has a ride. But during the week Bible study is hit and miss yes she needs help dealing with her grief but to say that she is not wrong for not getting help would be an understatement. I know of no Christian basic help around here that she would be able to get to. Neither of us can drive even if we had a car. She couldn't pass a driving test do to her disabilities and mine makes it unsafe since my feet disorder have been know to cause paralysis. I have heard of it happening when someone tried to get out of the car. We also found out two days ago that she have a bad potassium deficiency. I had the problem that took me years to find to so I can say that all the issues I have dealt with her is a big part all cause by that. I effects everything in your mind and causes major problems else where. There are a lot of hide problems that could with this and I believe that is because the drug companies don't want you to know. My potassium problems are because of my thyroid replacement hormone meds. I was left like that for many years before I was told by a patient that that was the cause of the problem. It not the only hide side effect of meds and so are even worse then that. I stop no one need to hear my frustrations on this topic. I am trying to help her as I can with Bible trusts but now that we know I was right three years ago about something being wrong veith her brain, now we have to find out why. Praying God will give answers soon.

    • @Bettyboop991
      @Bettyboop991 Рік тому

      @@julieailey9498 praying 🙏🏼