5 Steps to Getting Married in Korea as a Foreigner | Italian Korean Wedding Log

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  • Опубліковано 28 чер 2023
  • Korean weddings are complicated: meeting the adults, sending out invitations, finding a venue... It's a lot of hassle for someone from another country to get married in Korea, but it should be a memorable and happy day.
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    KBS is a public broadcasting service in South Korea.
    #marriage #internationalcouple #koreanmarriage
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  • @leliavoinea7253
    @leliavoinea7253 11 місяців тому +156

    The mother in love it's open minded and supported her son happiness over anything else. Honestly in my book this is a good mother. He as a son should treasure such parents!

  • @KateLove21
    @KateLove21 10 місяців тому +79

    It’s really not a good idea to go into a marriage divided on something as important as wanting children or not. In any case I wish them the best and a long and happy marriage!

  • @kkp4297
    @kkp4297 11 місяців тому +77

    hahaha steffi is funny.
    her sense of humor is how she copes with life's annoyances

  • @Mooniestarry
    @Mooniestarry 11 місяців тому +135

    Why don't people discuss if they agree on having children BEFORE getting into a relationship? I totally understand not wanting children. But did he not know that about her beforehand?

    • @MichelleOfoegbu
      @MichelleOfoegbu 11 місяців тому +36

      Likeeee recipe for disaster

    • @sweetTRS
      @sweetTRS 10 місяців тому +6

      Exactly.

    • @lindacantilena9755
      @lindacantilena9755 10 місяців тому +20

      @@MichelleOfoegbu they should absolutely not get married if they cant agree on having children,

    • @elleann1378
      @elleann1378 10 місяців тому +15

      It's going to be a disaster if they don't come to agreement about this.

    • @sarah-jl8cr
      @sarah-jl8cr 9 місяців тому +4

      Especially since there is literally no compromising with this topic.

  • @Melissa-JC
    @Melissa-JC 10 місяців тому +45

    Her mom had me crying when she teared up during the wedding. How sweet. My mother in law is Italian. Her parents settled into West Virginia when they immigrated to the US. My husband said his grandma didn’t speak any English her whole life here. She didn’t learn it. The only thing she would or could say in English is, “You eat”. So the family would speak Italian at home and outside of home, the children (my mother in law & siblings) would speak English.

  • @alex855
    @alex855 11 місяців тому +71

    The inlaws are so nice. Steffi started off ahead in the dating field with that degree in Korean studies!

  • @MichelleOfoegbu
    @MichelleOfoegbu 11 місяців тому +68

    I don’t think steffi and sanghyeon are properly ready to be married it seems like steffi has strong opinions bout things like the patriarchal standards in the household (like when her mil was saying youll have to cook for him later and she said oh he’ll be cooking ) and also it seems she’s not keen on childrearing.idk I think they haven’t discussed the important things and are still in their honeymoon phase of getting to know each other

  • @LoveYoonMin
    @LoveYoonMin 11 місяців тому +243

    The daughter-in-law is trying everything to embrace her in-laws and their culture, but what about the husband? What has he done to appreciate and embrace the Italian culture and his parents-in-law? I feel like this is always one sided.

    • @MichelleOfoegbu
      @MichelleOfoegbu 11 місяців тому +11

      💯💯💯

    • @KaesOner
      @KaesOner 10 місяців тому +46

      This is a Korean show and they live in Korea... they're only going to show the Korean side...a little critical thinking goes a long way.

    • @LoveYoonMin
      @LoveYoonMin 10 місяців тому +14

      @@KaesOner I know that too, but my question surely touched a nerve in you. It isn't for you in the first place, it is for the show and for the couple involved in it.

    • @chriskane1726
      @chriskane1726 10 місяців тому +12

      He probably eats pizza every now and again. That's good enough.

    • @JuniorS-rc6rx
      @JuniorS-rc6rx 9 місяців тому +3

      @@chriskane1726😂😂😂😂

  • @SEVASTIPODIAS-qi5cy
    @SEVASTIPODIAS-qi5cy 11 місяців тому +23

    Steffi and mother in law the look like strong women similar vibes they’re going to be great support for the families wishing love happiness and health to the newlyweds

  • @elinasvideodiary
    @elinasvideodiary 11 місяців тому +12

    Her Korean is actually really good

  • @JL_hahaha0303
    @JL_hahaha0303 11 місяців тому +25

    wow husband cleans the bathroom so well and throughout this is unheard of, he's a keeper

    • @ericsohn5084
      @ericsohn5084 11 місяців тому +1

      what if a dude hires a maid to clean the bathroom?

    • @JL_hahaha0303
      @JL_hahaha0303 11 місяців тому +3

      @@ericsohn5084 it’s not the same, anyone can hire someone to clean whatever they want, it’s about actually putting the time and effort to get sth done, and way too many men simply leave the bathroom super dirty and stinky. It’s more like a sense of responsibility and hygiene, so instead of leaving the mess for someone else, he takes the responsibility and does a good job

    • @ericsohn5084
      @ericsohn5084 11 місяців тому

      @@JL_hahaha0303 So which do you prefer, a man cleaning his bathroom or a man hiring a professional cleaner?

    • @JL_hahaha0303
      @JL_hahaha0303 11 місяців тому

      @@ericsohn5084 ofcoz both, only little kids need to choose 😆

    • @KateLove21
      @KateLove21 10 місяців тому +1

      My husband is the same haha. His cleaning standards are really high. Remember Korean men go to the military so lots are really disciplined.

  • @gacha_cookie1178
    @gacha_cookie1178 5 місяців тому +4

    This show is called my neighbor Charles for anyone who’s wondering!! I was looking for it too and saw that they had mentioned it in this vid

  • @kkp4297
    @kkp4297 11 місяців тому +15

    steffi has amazing sense of humor and personality

  • @Aknman010
    @Aknman010 11 місяців тому +20

    I was married to a Korean while in Korea. We had both a Westerner and Korean style wedding. My mom ,Aunt,and a cousin were able to attend thanks to my Wife’s Family. They made it easy for me.

    • @alifc1082
      @alifc1082 9 місяців тому

      What is westerner wedding?

    • @Aknman010
      @Aknman010 8 місяців тому

      @@alifc1082 sorry an American style wedding.

  • @2live4football
    @2live4football 7 місяців тому +5

    I just did this as the groom, and it was a lot of fun. The 5 hr photo session beforehand and the makeup appointment were a lot, but I would do it all again for her.
    They definitely don't give robes that fit my chest over there. Haha!😂
    We did a wedding in the US and another one a week later in Gangnam. Then off to Jeju for the honeymoon!

  • @AbdulAli-ku9he
    @AbdulAli-ku9he 11 місяців тому +7

    Congratulations wishing you love and happy life.

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 11 місяців тому +7

    Wow! your Korean is so good..where did you learn?

  • @lovevillaflores6125
    @lovevillaflores6125 6 місяців тому +7

    Steffi’s attitude is very superior (i dont think this couple will last )

    • @d.c.2991
      @d.c.2991 14 днів тому

      No, just standard Italian woman, strongly opinionated and unlikely to be bossed around.
      Don't mistake superiority with having boundaries and self respect.

  • @sdxftehjyk
    @sdxftehjyk 5 місяців тому +6

    Parents being pressuring them to have many kids since SK has low birth rate 😅 Now I know why some of them avoid to being married and stay single. SK man has that “pride” of marrying a foreign woman in their life. The parents (older gen) are not that keen when their children choose to marry a foreigner. It’s all shown in this clip😂😂 And to foreign woman, please take note that the man in kdrama is totally different with real life. Maybe not all, but mostly that’s the case. 😊

  • @luna-ri9te
    @luna-ri9te 9 днів тому

    The grandmother was so cute 😂

  • @Serwaadwomor-sg2kc
    @Serwaadwomor-sg2kc 11 місяців тому +3

    Sooo cute❤

  • @user-iq3qf6le5m
    @user-iq3qf6le5m 10 місяців тому +2

    결혼하시는구나. 축하해요.

  • @arianahaart5457
    @arianahaart5457 10 місяців тому +6

    What I felt until the end of this video is that Korean mother in law looks very not kind.. I was feeling sad imagining that Italian girl's parents

  • @Hooniverse._.
    @Hooniverse._. 11 місяців тому +8

    Congratulations ❤
    Wishing you a lovely and happy life with each other

  • @christiagoles307
    @christiagoles307 11 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @rosallypaliling9476
    @rosallypaliling9476 4 місяці тому

    6:30 I love how the mom looks not like simp or lovely dovey to her daughter like any typocal mother in law that i'm seeing in tv show, instead she's just rlly like asian typical mom that just brag about her daughter in law behind her😂❤

  • @AikoOriginal
    @AikoOriginal 2 місяці тому

    I saw it only for few minutes but my impression from this couple is they won't last long. I do not feel the spark between them.

  • @lindacantilena9755
    @lindacantilena9755 10 місяців тому +14

    If she doesnt want children and he does why are they getting married?

  • @gacha_cookie1178
    @gacha_cookie1178 5 місяців тому

    What is the show called??

  • @hyorin4557
    @hyorin4557 4 місяці тому

    he must've love her so much that he wants 3 versions of her 😄

  • @atukdiki5950
    @atukdiki5950 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤ cute

  • @user-uf3ej9ik2h
    @user-uf3ej9ik2h 9 місяців тому +2

    자녀는 부부가 힙의 절대존중♡♡♡

  • @robl496
    @robl496 23 години тому

    I mean I am Italian too and I have to say it’s impressive how she speaks Korean… I know she went to school and all of that but it’s a totally different language with a different alphabet and what not.

  • @marygee3981
    @marygee3981 5 місяців тому

    ❤I would hold the service. Cook a little and order the rest if the food. 😅

  • @user-pp1on3gl9p
    @user-pp1on3gl9p 8 місяців тому +1

    22:42 Oh Shit 할때 ㅈㄴ 웃기네ㅋㅋㅋ

  • @syrinepiekarski9454
    @syrinepiekarski9454 11 місяців тому

    does someone know which TV show it is ? thanks

    • @szewei85
      @szewei85 11 місяців тому

      Operation Marriage. This was aired 2022. Haha.

    • @emilybell5462
      @emilybell5462 Місяць тому

      It’s called my neighbour Charles. It’s not operation marriage lol 😂

  • @marelkeroux8066
    @marelkeroux8066 Місяць тому +2

    She is very critical of him it is weird

  • @janetlamb6812
    @janetlamb6812 День тому

    Yep, the reality created by media, and the actual reality are two different things, majority of the world is conservative when it comes to getting married, or living with someone.

  • @stellahaynesworth5833
    @stellahaynesworth5833 5 місяців тому +1

    She should do her culture and her husband do his culture when it gomes to ceremony for ancestors. I think she will regret marrying him and he's short

  • @ireneleong6801
    @ireneleong6801 11 місяців тому +1

    good man who can a houseman,

  • @lizawald1571
    @lizawald1571 9 місяців тому +2

    It looks like she does not want to have a kid in the future..

  • @Lonesome__Dove
    @Lonesome__Dove 11 місяців тому +20

    I wish she would be a bit more.....understanding and accepting of the memorial services.

    • @ranniesd
      @ranniesd 11 місяців тому +31

      I think it’s the husband’s ancestors, so if they want memorial services, the burden should be on him. She should help but the responsibility should not fall on her. I’m from a culture that does memorial services, but we don’t take it that seriously (my parents don’t expect me to do it)

    • @arianahaart5457
      @arianahaart5457 10 місяців тому

      Why does he have to understand something ridiculous culture which makes even Korean women not want to get married. Bad culture should be finished. that's why many Korean women don't want to get married.

    • @Yeju20
      @Yeju20 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@ranniesdexactly.
      My husband's family do memorial service while mine don't (different religion).
      We have never talked about it before marriage (simply because i'm unaware of the practice) so when his mum sprung it on us, i let him handle it. If he wants to do it, it'll be his responsibility, i'd probably help, but he's the one who has to take charge if he wants it to happen.
      Since he's too lazy to arrange one, it simply never happened 😂😂
      And thankfully my husband is wise enough to said to his family that he's the one who doesn't want to do it (so the in laws never has problems with me).

  • @destefi
    @destefi 10 місяців тому +2

    Ela não quer filhos, ele quer filhos… 😬

  • @user-jq7bl2er4n
    @user-jq7bl2er4n 4 місяці тому +1

    개신교 집안이나 가톨릭 집안에 시집을 갔으면 제사 안해도 돼는데…

  • @GodsJoseph13
    @GodsJoseph13 11 місяців тому

    B

  • @oishee_jg
    @oishee_jg 11 місяців тому +5

    Both the boy and girl are thousands time more handsome and prettier than SJK and his wife 😅

  • @selamuyhabena7038
    @selamuyhabena7038 9 місяців тому

    She might say no for kids, but I am sure she will change her mind soon 😊❤

  • @alipexx
    @alipexx 9 місяців тому

    Anyone has her instagram?

  • @dadeki1389
    @dadeki1389 11 місяців тому +28

    I think she should respect the Korean culture….
    And pay respect to their ancestors

    • @tobyk8125
      @tobyk8125 11 місяців тому +29

      I think she does a lot to respect Korean culture. Besides, it's much more rare to see respect for the foreign culture in these scenarios.

    • @Romina2711
      @Romina2711 11 місяців тому +17

      If I were in her place, I wouldn’t do it either not because it’s a lot to prepare but because it conflicts with my faith (Christianity) maybe it’s the same for her

    • @jeddymoon3803
      @jeddymoon3803 11 місяців тому +11

      My husband still pays respect to his ancestors..am a Christian I don't believe in this..We make it simple we buy side dishes and fruits then make one soup..Thats it.
      She should discuss with her husband and find a way out

    • @Feathertail2205
      @Feathertail2205 11 місяців тому +4

      @@jeddymoon3803 I grew up in a culture that worships ancestors, but I don't routinely practice the rituals. However, I see it as a way to memorialize the things your ancestors have gone through and did to bring their descendants to where they are now. Like recognizing the work they did to ensure the family lineage persists in a hard world. I'll occasionally pray to my ancestors and "ask" them to give me strength to go through life in the same way that they were able to persevere and make it. Even if I don't know them myself, they were once important people to others in the family line and helped shape values that were passed down through generations. (Though I understand customs are just different and we should be free to practice our own beliefs!)

    • @Moon.J.I
      @Moon.J.I 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@Romina2711Respecting parents & ancestors is a basic human virtue, and it is greater than religion. 😅

  • @UmmPoopie
    @UmmPoopie 11 місяців тому +11

    Funny how in Korea any (non fat) white woman is considered pretty.

    • @jasmeetsandhu229
      @jasmeetsandhu229 10 місяців тому +6

      The European beauty standard is popular in not just south korea but also in japan and China I've noticed from videos I watched even if the person is average looking they get treated as if they look like angelina jolie or megan fox they also really like pale skin skin bleaching products are a billion dollar industry in asia they make fun of people with tans it's......interesting

    • @D.J.M.S.
      @D.J.M.S. 7 місяців тому

      Yeah, she's not pretty at all.

  • @troigcyusa
    @troigcyusa 11 місяців тому +1

    #AMWF

  • @rowenadinsmore1
    @rowenadinsmore1 11 місяців тому +4

    She sounds so Korean. No accent at all.

    • @binimbap
      @binimbap 11 місяців тому +1

      nah, she clearly has an accent and makes a few mistakes. but yea her korean is much better than most foreigners', it *is* impressive

  • @user-uc7gw5gv7m
    @user-uc7gw5gv7m 9 місяців тому

    아이고야 이 결혼 많이 피곤하겠는데 ...
    근데 kbs이 인간들은
    영어방송을 송출하면서
    내용물은 1988 올림픽시절
    이야기를 하고 있네
    답답하다

  • @user-yh4vr9wq1s
    @user-yh4vr9wq1s Місяць тому

    Слкушайти народ зачем богатсва если у мират на том свете богатства не нужна тол ко за любимых нужна вы ходить иженщинам имужчинам на том свете бденги не понадобяться потом далеть будите что не сделали не партесь что родители говарят по любви маладеш

  • @KOREAN.21C
    @KOREAN.21C 9 місяців тому +3

    한국 결혼 문화 문제 많다.
    없어져야 할 문화중에 하나라고 생각함.

  • @chonryong
    @chonryong 9 місяців тому +2

    이 커플은 결혼 안하는게 지구 건강에 좋습니다. 하면 더 지옥이 될 예정

  • @punithanthevar5669
    @punithanthevar5669 10 місяців тому

    i wish she will give birth to quadruplets twice within 3 years

  • @evilydal
    @evilydal 10 місяців тому +12

    This marriage is gonna be a DISASTER.

  • @heineken4799
    @heineken4799 11 місяців тому +19

    I think they will not last forever. The way the girl talks to her bf, is giving the vibes of being manipulative and she has a bad attitude. And also the girl doesnt want to agree with her bf of having babies. Of course, she is in Korea, she should learn and respect the culture. She should leave Korea if she don't want some of their culture.

  • @ash-dl8ff
    @ash-dl8ff 11 місяців тому +23

    Ngl, she looks more like she could be his step mom than his wife.

    • @Romina2711
      @Romina2711 11 місяців тому +16

      They are both in their thirties so 🤷‍♀️ Asian usually look younger than their age

    • @jeddymoon3803
      @jeddymoon3803 11 місяців тому +16

      this comment should be brought down ASAP ..I think u wrote it while drunk

    • @b.a3595
      @b.a3595 11 місяців тому +5

      @@jeddymoon3803You might not like it-but they’re right. She does look a little older than him.

    • @jeddymoon3803
      @jeddymoon3803 11 місяців тому +2

      @@b.a3595 But there are polite ways to put out a comment..For example "the guy looks young for his age"

    • @rachelseo319
      @rachelseo319 11 місяців тому +1

      Have you looked at yourself in the mirror lately?

  • @lizfdez193
    @lizfdez193 9 місяців тому +1

    Serving death people 😮. Worship them 😮. Gladly isn't my culture. I served Jesus

  • @rosariolarion9319
    @rosariolarion9319 11 місяців тому +8

    Hope that Steph is not serious in saying that she doesn’t want any children. It is pointless having a partner OF NOT HAVING ANY CHILDREN. GOD BLESS BOTH OF THEM, AS THEY SEEM a very good couple. The in laws or the parent of the would be husband is such a charming and generous in laws and the grandmother is very loving and caring, too. thank you for sharing.

    • @hayleybarbara1589
      @hayleybarbara1589 11 місяців тому +42

      Plenty of couples choose not to have children and are perfectly content and happy. Having kids isnt the sole reason or even a reason at all for some to get married.

  • @lelapindunet
    @lelapindunet 9 місяців тому

  • @Th3Ladi
    @Th3Ladi 9 місяців тому

    What is this show called?

    • @gacha_cookie1178
      @gacha_cookie1178 5 місяців тому

      My neighbor Charles! I was looking for it and saw that they just mentioned it in this vid!