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  • Vim Man finds an alarming clue which sends him in a frenzy about his beloved E.S in My American Wife has a secret.
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  • @MarMar-pg2ey
    @MarMar-pg2ey Рік тому +11

    Just watching this took me back when several years ago I meant this beautiful African brother. I wasn't looking for anyone, but we both took a liking to each other. I was a bit guarded due to previously being hurt & wanted to take my time. As time went on I wanted to know what direction we were going in, but he would never express himself verbally like that & it felt like he really didn't feel the same way & was stringing me along. If I shared how I felt, he wouldn't say anything back. It was weird, he'd sit in silence. One day he had to go out of town, he wasn't away long, so when he got back he asked me if I missed him. I told him I did, & I asked him the same & he didn't respond. He just looked at me & smiled, so I asked again, & he said nothing. That bust my heart because it was weird. I didn't immediately say much because I was hurt. I felt empty inside & didn't want my time being wasted so I cut him off because I didn't want him playing with my feelings. It just felt like he was never really into me like that & didn't feel the same way. Later I found out he was devastated by my decision & was in love with me. He never told me anything so I didn't know how he felt about me. I didn't realize that he wasn't taught to verbally express love like that. His culture doesn't do all that like we do over here. He was the one that got away 😢

    • @selinaboamah2975
      @selinaboamah2975 Рік тому +2

      Awwww, sorry about that dear

    • @williamgamelisenaya793
      @williamgamelisenaya793 11 місяців тому

      We live & learn

    • @josepennybaabi5532
      @josepennybaabi5532 9 місяців тому

      They don’t say I love you, they just show their love and live it.

    • @josepennybaabi5532
      @josepennybaabi5532 9 місяців тому

      If an indigenous person say that to you, it’s a learned behavior. It sounds fake. In the west they express that all the time yet doing you bad some under the same breath unalife You.

  • @korkoreffon2921
    @korkoreffon2921 Рік тому +35

    Africans always wanted to hide their feelings, and I like the way you have teach my brother to express his love, God will richly bless you 🙏

  • @blackdiamond696
    @blackdiamond696 Рік тому +47

    I have been married to my husband for 40 years here in America, and he don't tell me often that he loves me. He said that he was never told by his parents that they loved him, but he knew they did by the way they provided for him. If he told me every day I love you it would be routine. I like the unexpected times he tells me. He always give me everything I want which tells me he loves me.❤❤

  • @SoulWhisperer
    @SoulWhisperer Рік тому +12

    LOL! I;m cracking up! The look on VM's face when he saw the book! Then, "Are you using Voudou with me?" HILARIOUS!

  • @elizabethsonga7698
    @elizabethsonga7698 Рік тому +7

    This girl is special. I think the ancestors called her back to Ghana

  • @teddydavis2339
    @teddydavis2339 Рік тому +38

    ES, I'm so glad to see how happy you are. You deserve it.
    Your husband is right. Love is shown, not spoken. Anyone can say I love you. Action speak louder than words.

  • @fodaysaccoh3472
    @fodaysaccoh3472 Рік тому +32

    I like the fact that this brother is open, patient and willing to learn, hope it stays that way because God has blessed him with an amazingly great woman

  • @wendy---
    @wendy--- Рік тому +26

    I can see the humbleness in both od you.. learning as well thank u for sharing..THE PART HE FINDS THE BOOK 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @georginaanyinsah
    @georginaanyinsah Рік тому +4

    Ooooo am so happy for you Es❤
    For an African man to say l love you,is something big
    And its true Es ,you are the most beautiful woman in the whole wide world
    My brother Vim man is very luckyto have you
    Am so so happy for both of you

  • @hopefullychosen1
    @hopefullychosen1 Рік тому +32

    Touched my heart to see our people showing and telling each other their love for one another. Seldom seen nowadays, especially in the West. I saw different love expressions, and tho they were different they work. Saying " I Love You " is what we want , but showing it is so much needed. E S and Vinmam thanks for another gold nugget.

    • @Truth-Reality.
      @Truth-Reality. Рік тому +1

      The word love doesn't exist in many African languages. But I "LIKE " is the word we use to express how we feel about somebody we have a romantic relationship with.

  • @dimbwemazala8978
    @dimbwemazala8978 Рік тому +6

    She is really a very beautiful and intelligent woman

  • @SotonyeAfiesimama
    @SotonyeAfiesimama Рік тому +8

    You've got a good man here; and you have a good woman there. Continue appreciating and building each other up. My favourite video so far.

  • @williamgamelisenaya793
    @williamgamelisenaya793 11 місяців тому +1

    Vin man, you're da man.
    Indigenous man will never say "i love you"if i like you i like you.
    Wow, you're getting into another dimension.
    Love the vibe ❤
    Love is sweet like sobolo.

  • @lhoward9597
    @lhoward9597 Рік тому +26

    NYC is loving this episode.
    Couples should see how & learn to respect and grow
    from their differences as you two have.

  • @jaeworld3596
    @jaeworld3596 Рік тому +43

    I hope that you guys are ready for explosive growth on your channel. I watched this on the big screen, and the quality of the screen is definitely on point, as well as the dialog between you two. Being yourselves is very engaging because it's effortless being yourself. DIY House & Farm is very inspiring. You guys are so funny, without trying. I love it. Girlfriend, listening to those guineas is just😂😅🤣😆😄too funny.

  • @saundraking7168
    @saundraking7168 Рік тому +6

    Omg! Vim mans face when he saw the book! I am roflmao!!!!😂😂😂😂

  • @pitime4764
    @pitime4764 Рік тому +7

    OMG! I read that book also and found it on my mother's shelf...😂😂😂😂

  • @monicaborde5602
    @monicaborde5602 Рік тому +44

    Love the message...this is becoming my favorite show! Big ups to you both.
    Sending you Love from Detroit 😊

  • @adakuugwumba3249
    @adakuugwumba3249 Рік тому +12

    I appreciate every part of what you are doing. Your husband is a true African native but humble and full of wisdom. In the other part, your as American is full of wisdom, passionnate, integrity and humility. Both of you are doing great to learn between two different culture and heritage. Sincerely, I only have admiration for you. You are wonderful people. Wishing you the best in life and God bless. ❤❤

  • @korkoreffon2921
    @korkoreffon2921 Рік тому +12

    Sister, I am very proud of you and your husband, I like the way you guys has learned about each others culture ❤❤

  • @emmanuelotchere1863
    @emmanuelotchere1863 Рік тому +5

    I knew from the initial stage my brother loved you but he was trying to know who you are. And you have proved to him. With your patience, intelligence and good hearted you have shown to him he finally voice it out l ❤ you. It is not easy for them to talk like that. Anyway I wish you guys long life in your marriage and a strong relationship. Peace and God richly bless you all amen.

  • @smileylady485
    @smileylady485 Рік тому +5

    Bonsoir! watching from the uk. it is good to see his soft side. Telling you, you are beautiful etc

  • @syn-thee-yah9503
    @syn-thee-yah9503 Рік тому +4

    This is so sweet. As a married woman who loves having fun with her hubby, he is worth every effort to please him. The blessings and benefits along with lots of love are rewarding. Love your videos. Take care and Yah bless 🙏🏽💕

  • @cyndyogwo
    @cyndyogwo Рік тому +3

    😂😂😂😂😂Lol… sista you also better have ur seatbelt secure I seen that big SMILE on Vman face♥️🤣🥰

  • @donnymbowane2321
    @donnymbowane2321 Рік тому +8

    I'm watching from South Africa, loving every moment of it.

  • @nyakanga
    @nyakanga Рік тому +10

    This is so adorable. The things you do for each other are just priceless and say a whole lot. This has radiated to the animals on your farm. The happy sounds are lovely to listen to. Keep it up.

  • @lalamadison7227
    @lalamadison7227 Рік тому +3

    You and Vim Man make the most beautiful music together. I am elated that he was blessed to find you wifey.

  • @misslarry8505
    @misslarry8505 Рік тому +5

    You made me laugh. I love your surprised story, lovely seeing the way you reasoning and supporting each other. Yes my dear it is good knowing. Does not hurt one bit when you know what you have to do to get the job done. 😂😂

  • @e.k.o4844
    @e.k.o4844 Рік тому +5

    He’s spitting the truth. My parents never said ‘ I love you’ to each other and us. They show it by actions. Our culture is not that way but the infiltration of western cultures thru movies has gradually changed some things culturally.

  • @azurisora9836
    @azurisora9836 Рік тому +5

    The playfulness, was sweet, but the energy and feeling was straight from the heart❤

  • @denzelmondy3488
    @denzelmondy3488 Рік тому +3

    Laughing so hard at VM when he found the book!!! Yall are so funny and cute togethr!!! Love it!!!

  • @sampsonboachie3407
    @sampsonboachie3407 Рік тому +5

    Watching live from London, UK

  • @venusmusic1
    @venusmusic1 Рік тому +5

    I LOVE THE REAL TRUE BEHAVIOR YOU GUYS ARE SHARING.

  • @InventionSchool
    @InventionSchool Рік тому +4

    I can see that you both are taking your YT posts to another level of fun and entertainment approaching a soap opera format with engaging storytelling, all based upon real life adventures. Kudos to both of you! And the cinematography is great as a bonus. One small tweak would be the sound resulting from rooms with hard flat walls.

    • @DIYHOUSEANDFARM
      @DIYHOUSEANDFARM  Рік тому

      Thank you very much. We have professional mics but are waiting for an adapter from the US to arrive to use them with another device we have. Thanks for watching!!

  • @marthaingram4621
    @marthaingram4621 10 місяців тому +2

    See ? How our peoples make each other happy 👑🙌! That’s how the, Most High Planed it 👑🙌. Us with each other. Because only us understand each other. Order is the way it’s supposed to be . HalleluYAH 👑🙌. Love seeing our black peoples together. 👑🙌

  • @MoiCK
    @MoiCK Рік тому +2

    It's always good to HEAR IT! I'm glad he said it on air! Yayyyy!

  • @roxannbyrd-db8vv
    @roxannbyrd-db8vv Рік тому +3

    🤣👍voodoo really at least he ask like that to get clarification proud that you guys keep the lines of communication open.

  • @asantewaa391
    @asantewaa391 Рік тому +2

    Vimman is hilarious! I really love your love for each other..

  • @albertaadu2641
    @albertaadu2641 Рік тому +9

    Hi beautiful couple 😍 new subscriber here. I just came across your channel few day ago and I must say I have bing watch a lot of your videos. The two of you are funny 😄and inspiring. Love everything about your farm and house. I’m in the USA and currently building in Sunyani B/A. Would appreciate it if I can get information about where you got your kitchen backsplash from. Love it as I’m in the market for something just like what you have. Thank you and God bless 🙏

  • @lackerman3975
    @lackerman3975 3 місяці тому

    That was beautiful. He seemed so happy to be able to express his love❤ for you verbally. Words are powerful too.

  • @pachinoize
    @pachinoize Рік тому +4

    I'm rolling laughing over here 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dennisclarke2883
    @dennisclarke2883 Рік тому +3

    My brother, she is truly very beautiful and very charismatic and playful. Stay blessed my family.

  • @lelanymarenga6511
    @lelanymarenga6511 Рік тому +7

    Love ❤️ from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @juanitawatson297
    @juanitawatson297 Рік тому +2

    Watching from Denver Colorado USA 🇺🇸

  • @haddijatouceesay5290
    @haddijatouceesay5290 Рік тому +4

    Salam from Ohio USA Another amazing video ❤❤

  • @nobelaharris7737
    @nobelaharris7737 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤😊😊😊 your love is real and your husband is really trying to show you his love even on camera and everything he said about African culture is very true you are both great in your honesty your truth love grows through hard love but true love is king ❤❤👍🏾

  • @ec2s3
    @ec2s3 Рік тому +2

    With that book,no doubt you want more, but your man is so busy right now!Love your channel

  • @ladylynn08901
    @ladylynn08901 Рік тому +14

    You both give me hope. I just absolutely love the journey/path you both have taken. I have been following you ES for a while. I love your growth and I am not surprised that God thought so much of you to connect you with your life partner. I wish you both Peace, Love and Good Health. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @cinnamonoppong
    @cinnamonoppong Рік тому +3

    Him standing there with the book in his waste😂😂😂

    • @cinnamonoppong
      @cinnamonoppong Рік тому +1

      The filming is so professional!!! I truly enjoy watching and learning from this channel.

  • @Joy2day4eva
    @Joy2day4eva Рік тому +8

    Ya'll are so cute!😆😆😆😆

  • @esthersarpong6367
    @esthersarpong6367 Рік тому +1

    Growing in ❤is so beautiful this is my favourite episode well done to both 4 tolerance patients and consistency. May the love within keep blossoming as the years unfold. My dad is from Tamale and can’t wait to visit when I come home. Regards from 🇬🇧✊🏾

  • @charmainemorgan4709
    @charmainemorgan4709 Рік тому +1

    Secret lady brother Vin-man u are so funny. Your expression when u found the book😂

  • @QueenMother9312
    @QueenMother9312 Рік тому +6

    It’s the same in Jamaica 🇯🇲 we don’t really say “I Love U”…this is great to show ❤

  • @aspmedia8311
    @aspmedia8311 Рік тому +5

    Nice one wish you guys all the best May almighty Allah be with you guys 🥰🥰🥰

  • @blessedchild2182
    @blessedchild2182 Рік тому +2

    😊 I Love to see couple's happy and full of joy. 🇺🇸

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc9843 Рік тому +1

    New here, just subscribed! Watching from England .., I like your channel and you both ❤

  • @28116
    @28116 Рік тому +1

    I pray God continue Blessings upon your life. I pray all the younger ones that watches your videos in times to come know that it is a Blessing, Love and Happiness starting from the ground up in AFRICA can work. Look how you cook on fire wood, developing the property. Movie production lol. ❤ coming from Trinidad

  • @patriciajones9747
    @patriciajones9747 Рік тому +2

    Your husband has a beautiful smile and he’s also handsome

  • @JoseRios-to5lu
    @JoseRios-to5lu Рік тому +2

    Nice couple, learning to be together and developing love among yourselves. Congratulations

  • @michaelyamwe613
    @michaelyamwe613 Рік тому +1

    How i wish i discovered this channel way back. The ending the chilled vibe. Black self dependent. Producing own food. Love it.

  • @mpoliwamwampashi3387
    @mpoliwamwampashi3387 Рік тому +1

    He is a gentleman. He is loving his wife 💓🤩

  • @louised5945
    @louised5945 Рік тому +1

    So cute. Yes he is on the receiving end of your book.

  • @gremgreene2725
    @gremgreene2725 Рік тому +1

    I have to give it to you two. You are great content creators.

  • @veronicagoodridge4625
    @veronicagoodridge4625 Рік тому +2

    Love watching your vlogs. You had me laughing.😢😂😅

  • @kellicodoms6549
    @kellicodoms6549 Рік тому +2

    Haha Vinman Vinman😂😂. Too funny.

  • @yvonnemukase8019
    @yvonnemukase8019 Рік тому +2

    The best love show episode- Thank you!

  • @deanhamilton9280
    @deanhamilton9280 Рік тому +3

    I just love to watch you guy, it seems like a short play, the scenes and the editing is awesome.

  • @miriamjones8804
    @miriamjones8804 Рік тому +1

    The yard is so beautiful

  • @nestorouedraogo4979
    @nestorouedraogo4979 Рік тому

    Good job my brother. I was waiting for affection side of both of you.
    You have a Queen and she have a King.
    God bless you

  • @bonniec.ddisashi6686
    @bonniec.ddisashi6686 Рік тому +13

    My parents have been married for 35 years and iv never heard any of them saying "I love you" to each other. 🤣🤣Our African love
    IV been married for 10yrs and said "I love you" probably like x50k times by now 😅 🇨🇩🇿🇦

    • @Football-cl2hj
      @Football-cl2hj Рік тому +2

      Or kiss 😂

    • @mattethan2681
      @mattethan2681 Рік тому +2

      In my entire life I didn't hear my daddy say to my mom i love you.

  • @blaqLion
    @blaqLion Рік тому +2

    This series can change the game. never stop sharing this interesting videos

  • @misslarry8505
    @misslarry8505 Рік тому +3

    Culture ( one's culture is everything )

  • @maureenaugustus2069
    @maureenaugustus2069 Рік тому +1

    He is correct because growing up in Grenada back then in the seventies and eighties, our parents or family never said those words. We only know that our mom or dad provide food and shelter. That was their love for their kids. Moving to America in the early eighties, I was shocked to hear my stepfather (who 🎉 American) said to me, “I love you.” I was shocked. West Indians are derived from slaves from Ghana, Nigeria, etc., and that was/is West Indian culture. I tell my kids I love them every time because I had to break that cycle and coming to America as a young adult gave me the opportunity to break that cycle.

    • @frankbekoe3109
      @frankbekoe3109 Рік тому

      The I love you thing speeds up divorce. Africans don’t do it😀😀😀

  • @darlenecard8522
    @darlenecard8522 Рік тому +3

    Prayers for you E.S. And Vim Man for a Happy Blessed Continued Marriage 🙏🏾 ❤❤

  • @gaylamarie9045
    @gaylamarie9045 Рік тому +1

    I love the effort that he's making to learn your love language and you his. I think that it's sweet. Vin Man better put that seat belt on and hold on for dear life; 'cause she's about to show you why that book was a number 1 seller! 😜🤣😂

  • @kylegronski6139
    @kylegronski6139 Рік тому +1

    I love ❤️ you guys complicity in Ghana , you are very accomplice in many ways that keep the growing, thanks to show us those kinds of videos

  • @dawnecamacho2601
    @dawnecamacho2601 Рік тому +1

    I had a good laugh at VM and the book. ❤❤❤❤

  • @zuriabuchi5233
    @zuriabuchi5233 Рік тому +3

    Assalamualakium thank you for the mini episode.

  • @ShakiraYah
    @ShakiraYah Рік тому +1

    In the beginning words were spoken 🙌🏾.
    Words are powerful ❤. I think you two are communicating the way married folks should desipe obvious culture differences. Yah bless you both Shalawam ❤❤❤❤

  • @mememoni8558
    @mememoni8558 Рік тому

    I really enjoyed this video Vin man & E.S
    Vin is smuvvvvvv with the lovely words

  • @saundraking7168
    @saundraking7168 Рік тому +1

    Oooh expressions of love! Didnt just bring you a fish!

  • @LifestyleGardener
    @LifestyleGardener Рік тому +3

    In the culture I grown up, I never heard my mother, father, or family saying to or each other that they love each other. In my husband culture was the opposite! So when my husband keeps telling me every day that he loves me, I was not use to it! In fact I was uncomfortable! 14 years later I got more comfortable about, hearing it often, and I started saying it back to him, more often which; I was not taught how to say it. It amazes how much things you can learn from somebody, that is from a different culture, from you! 🇯🇲 🇨🇦 In my family we can tell if someone loves you, just by the words they say to you and the way they treat you! In my husband family, they need to be hearing it, in order to feel reassured, maybe because of the reasons you said to, your husband!

  • @vinnette4583
    @vinnette4583 Рік тому +1

    Hi one of my beautiful couple over there i can see you both love each other what Vinmam says is true back in the good old day in my time you hardly here that word o i live you it is use by action not words i love this video god bless you both viewing from the Caribbean

  • @MarianAkiti
    @MarianAkiti Рік тому +1

    Vin man is ready for same more treats. LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @annaledoux7441
    @annaledoux7441 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing the love today. I was here yesterday for the premier. Knowledge is power. ☀✨🌕

  • @nuraal-shammari7530
    @nuraal-shammari7530 Рік тому +1

    And i love the 2 of you together. Inshallah you will grow together forever 💕💕

  • @mort3939
    @mort3939 Рік тому +1

    The Bro is on point. We grew up not being told by our parents they love us. But deep inside there's that Magnificent thing called Love. Because we sees it Everyday and feels it every Time. I can see it's a common Thing in Africa.

  • @atikalove9
    @atikalove9 Рік тому +1

    I love this guy.. He is so good.

  • @fieldsserrie
    @fieldsserrie 9 днів тому

    Not in your family my Sister but my Mom never said she loved us but she showed it!
    She began to say it in her 60’s.
    I also prefer someone show me instead of telling me. Because they tell others and they lie… show me.
    I Love you both??? We just met

  • @juliatripp2010
    @juliatripp2010 Рік тому

    I LOVE YOU BOTH! Im new to your channel and love watching your life. Thank you. You two are too cute ❤

  • @VivianneCarney-xh2zz
    @VivianneCarney-xh2zz Рік тому

    Not long ago I just came across your channel and have been enjoying your entire journey; "I absolutely love it". Keep up the great work you definitely have my support in the US.

  • @AJENKINS1920
    @AJENKINS1920 Рік тому +1

    ♥️♥️♥️watching from New Jersey

  • @hikimaadjei8779
    @hikimaadjei8779 Рік тому +1

    I always enjoy your videos 😅😅😅

  • @cherylwin9364
    @cherylwin9364 Рік тому +1

    OUTSTANDING VIDEO. YOU GUYS REMIND ME OF THE SONG CALLED EVERYTHING BY TOBYMAC ❤😊❤

  • @bm4341
    @bm4341 4 місяці тому

    Too cute. Love this episode. You two are amazing!!

  • @Cadniy1108
    @Cadniy1108 Рік тому +1

    This is such a sweet episode. I love the love between you both. It can be felt through the screen. The frequency is definitely powerful.
    I tend to watch your channel as I’m winding down at night. My husband noticed & said I see that you’re watching your favorite couple. Lol I thought that was cute. Lol keep on expressing love. My husband and I tell each other that we love one another at least 100 times throughout the day via text messages & verbally. It’s comes natural especially when you truly love someone.

  • @FearlessFlightJourney
    @FearlessFlightJourney Рік тому

    Thanks a Million to you both. Please, Kindly make videos on your UA-cam gears. Editing software and youtube setups.
    Your videos are awesome. Please keep it up.

  • @ednahchirchir1924
    @ednahchirchir1924 Рік тому +1

    You both blend well. The indigenous African man and babyish romantic American girl

  • @funkwiccas7860
    @funkwiccas7860 Рік тому +1

    Ok ok .. you guys are so adorable 🥰 I found your channel today and I’m hooked. Wish you all the love & prosperity in future. You guys are living the life!!! How blessed 😇 love from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @sandra-zh5so
    @sandra-zh5so Рік тому +1

    I’m so happy for you ES!