4 Ways To Approach a Girl You Don't Know [With Examples]
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Today we'll share 4 ways to approach a girl you don't know in any situation. location and time of the day. To start a conversation with a girl you need to learn how to approach girls with confidence and in a way that doesn't make them feel uncomfortable or threatened. Approaching girls in public is probably the hardest and most uncomfortable thing you've ever done so these tips will help you understand exactly how to approach a girl for the first time minus the embarrassment and rejection. Check the entire video and let me know in the comments what you think about these 4 ways, if you've already applied any and how you plan to use them on your next pick up session. Enjoy!
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Knowing that each approach can have a different outcome every time is powerful to keep in mind also. I've approached plain looking women before and got blown out harshly while later in the night I approach a bombshell, she is giving me every green light. It's happened vice versa too. If you can mentally wipe previous rejections, you're more likely to take action. Easier said than done as I'm still working on it.
If i had paid this much of focus in my career i would have been next elon musk
@@calculus9831Physical intimacy is more rewarding 😅
Yep every reject makes my vibe suck so, I completely stopped trying had zero success to in person. And, I tried this stuff I'd look totally stupid and, creepy for a long long time and, have the little I tried.
Coach Kyle definitely the GOAT in terms of teaching this stuff and breaking it down in the most comprehensible way possible
You said this because you didn't see rsd Julien
@@d-evil8075 I looked up the person person you mentioned and you are absolutely 💯 right. Thank you sir.
REALLY. Lol
If you are a 7 or above, these will work. If you are not, hit the gym, make some money, educate your self, build your skills and then roll with these.
Man! Why is being a guy so hard 😩💔
You are such an intelligent teacher... The respect you show to your viewers is honourable!
Big respect for you Kyle, great video as always thx for help
My problem is the vibe 100%. I’m ok at talking and look wise I’m above average everyone says but when I see a women I find very attractive I tend to overthink everything which makes me come across as nervous or weird. My brain literally shuts off😭. Girls that I don’t find AS attractive everything seems to flow and I can just be myself.
Factss😂
Facts bro
practise daily with less attractive women and build up social strength to go for the big kill
''above average'' btw, who is everyone? everyone you know is telling you, you look ''above average''?
you are average at best, if you were above average, you would not even be here watching this kind of video
@@bekogo9059 You sound retarded. You can be very good looking and struggle socializing and maybe be highly introverted. Why does it bother you so much that I said people rate me above average? You sound triggered or someshit it’s weird af
The hard stop is what I have been taught and I do it but it has always felt awkward, like I'm creating kind of a high pressure situation. I'm glad you're breaking down alternatives, Imma have to try these.
i used it not recomment it in more than 100s approaches
it's socially weird and draws to mcuh attention on her even if you don't care anymore if you did thousands of socializations in the street
be mindful of her that will make it or break it
try also library or book shops if you are intellectual guy there are some really high quality women there especially in big cities
or go in coffeeshops and smile to single ladies or in groups of two or three and if she reciprocates with at least a couple of looks go to her table or make a come her sign with your finger index one
it depends on how women are in your country
Yes do the more chill ones. Understand that these approaches are just marketing tools to get you to pay for a product later. Openings don't matter so much. Don't make a big deal out of it.
Yep they say men have the burden of performance, we guys, men, have to talk right and sit right or stand right, have certain conversation ability, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, have certain social behaviors, have a certain lifestyle or attitude, certain social skills, leading ability and leading or taking the lead is something that is social behavior based or skill based, it's everything about what the guy has to know or how to do, game requires much more from men. For the most part of a woman is just pretty or attractive or just average and decent looking, along with a decent personality, then she's pretty much all set, a guy can be that way but if he lacks what I mentioned above he will still struggle to get the girl
fuck this shit on god. I wish society collapses
So true
It's true, but nonetheless life is still fair, because in the other hand a man is way more prepared to live alone than a woman
You don’t need a woman
@@arianamontenegro5528 You have a piece? Or you some dude w a chick’s profile pic?
Very good stuff brother and so clear to follow
Love how detailed this is! good stuff
Bonus tip for #2(hard stop) is make sure your hands are visible. If they think you are reaching for something (a weapon) it is all the more intimidating/jarring for them...
Way too late,
Would appreciate if you answer my question.
What can I do I've noticed a girl staring at me at a School where I am going to solely give test exams. She is also from another school. I've noticed her staring at me when I'm in the campus group When I look at her she stares at me for a few seconds then she stops it.
Also my hair is partially white due to genetics.
I think I like her and she's really pretty. What can I expect? Is she staring because of my hair or do you think she might be interested?
@@seya_2 only one way to find out...
This guy actually gives some decent advice... and he's the only one who brings the proof
Last Saturday, I have a goal of 5 hard pulls (meaning I got a confirmed IG follow) at 5 different venues.
It actually took me 6 venues and one of the 5 women, I just had a second afternoon date with, then she DMed me at 1250am saying that "she just woke up and is wide awake rn"
In all 6 approaches, the women were with 3 or more friends. I was by myself with no wing.
I got the follow in front of their squad and even had the squad saying good things about me.
My point is - Coach Kyles tips actually work.
If I had a wing, I'd have him record me talking to women so y'all know
Good shit brah nice to hear someone's progress
Mom said to tell you to get off the internet and go to bed, you have school tomorrow.
You just haven’t realized how good looking you are
I had women follow me on IG all the time. Most of the time they never respond back to me and just unfollow me about a week later
@@Truth187X hit the gym then bro. U mad?
@@ProfShibe I been in the gym for years
Doing it with a girl in your presence, boosts confidence in your video
I not good at flirting but I'm learning more thank you 😊
Shoulder tap worked only once for me. He is right side walk is the best but going forward for her to assess your demeanour.
A bunch of men tryna get better🙏🏼 wholesome fellas
Thank you bro
Pretty good stuff!
quality content bruv
The hand hold techniques works best when she is drunk. But definitely you need to establish eye contact. I also do the kiss on the cheek, make eye contact, say hi and smile, she will say hi, kiss her on the cheek like if she was a friend.
A real man doesn’t need headache and tons of problems, she won’t stay anyway.
We go our own way and live a good life.
Sorry women, you’re bringing to much heat.
I'm in complete agreement with you, but unfortunately, we men still have this burning desire for female companionship, which is worsened if you have to go out and work with the public.
Do you have tips what to talk about in a club/nighttime/daytime after you've approached her?
A reminder how I was never a fan of the dating process or the Dynamics of dating and attraction because the way it looks like, guys, men, need to know or learn all of these social skills or social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, have certain social behaviors, have certain talking and communication ability, have a certain lifestyle, because initiating interaction or approaching, getting her attracted to you during the conversation or interaction, flirting, also leading and taking the lead is all social behavior based or social skills based, behavioral aspect based. Along with have a certain lifestyle as well, because men have the burden of building or sparking the attraction, it's like, a woman doesn't need to know how to attract a guy.
For women it seems if they are just pretty or average and decent looking, then they are all set, along with having an average or decent personality, a guy can be average or decent looking but if he lacks what I mentioned above he will still struggle to get a girlfriend but a woman like that will still be able to get a boyfriend easily.
And reminds me of comments like this "Well, everything depends on how you look at things. And you can complain about how the world works, or you can adapt to it and make the most of your situation!"
I get mad and annoyed when people and society think men still have it better than women do in dating
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I feel the same way you do and i've spent years being angry and mad at how reality is ,but comparing yourself to women doesn't really help and it doesn't matter. We're not women they aren't our equals we're men and this is just our responsibility as men. When women think men have it easier they're strictly looking at men at the top the players. Don't spend your time getting mad at the world spend it to improve and get better so that you'll be the one killing it and guys wish they were like you and women wanna be with you.
@@PeterParkerwon yeah man basically need to improve or make more changes to themselves if they want to be able to attract women, either a lot more changes or different types of changes than women need to make if they want to attract men
It's true, but nonetheless life is still fair, because in the other hand a man is way more prepared to live alone than a woman
hi,
mr locario and miles made a video about you yesterday. They expose the gaps in your game. It's interesting. it's called: "Safest Way To Approach Girls At Places You Frequent (Coach Kyle Video Response)"
Peace
Only opened cuz this girl is stunning, damn!
Seriously, I approach all the time. In fact, I’m no longer scared of approaching. I just never get any results. They are always nice to me and turn me down. Btw, I’m not creepy, I’m pretty confident in general. I keep things chill. But I still don’t get results.
What would you consider yourself on a scale of 1-10?
Because you aren’t good looking to women bro
You lack structure bro try ultimate man project
@@josheves9022 Thanks.
Start getting at the ugly girls
high five is gold for sure.
Bro , you look super handsome always ❤️. Wish i too was good looking like you 😊
The great wisdom here is emotions... If you can't use them properly, you're likely gonna fall in all these.
40 years old, never had a relationship. Very confident an d secure in myself but never has happened and am kind of freaking out
am way too shy for this 😅😅😅😅💀💀💯💯😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂 i seee bunch in the big ass mall in my area still i can’t get close to one ☝🏾 i need to work on that asap 😩😩😩
I like the presentation you used many pics
Rodrigo do this😊
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Se seus videos tivesse legenda em português ficaria sensacional !
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fica mais fácil ele entender se vc comentar isso em inglês e não em português kkkkkkk
@@lczago verdade ! Mas se eu entedesse ingles nao presisaria de legenda em português. Kkk
holly shit ..we guys really have it tough ngl.
You sjould make a video explaining what to say when you get they're attention.
Good advice! You’re girlfriend seems lovely btw. (In a non creepy way) 😜
Bro that’s creepy.
The most important and probbably difficult thing it's to calibrate. If you do it well it shouldn't be many missunderstendings.
What would you say while doing these interactions?
Oh man, I might be a play boy after this fellas😅
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support@coachkyledating.com .. ill see if i can manually add you in
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@@Kyle_Froonjian thank you!
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I'm in thank you :)
Coloca legendada em português seus vídeo e topp
Aprende inglês
My greatest concern about approaching a girl that I don't know is that I am pretty intimidating to most girls that don't know me, even when I'm at work and not wearing my street clothes. I'm a metalhead, and I really look the part of a dude, who plays in a black or death metal band. I also find it very difficult to leave my comfort zone, and start smiling, being talkative, and generally nonthreatening.
So approach girls who are into your genre and subculture, environment is key. Hobbies in common will make everything easier.
@@FactStorm They're not a common sight. I've been with girls who are not into my kind of music, but they got to know me first.
You're lucky this is something you can change if you want to.
@@K9Zangetsu Changing yourself for a girl is simp bullshit. Besides the girl I had in might shut me down pretty hard after I tried to talk to her. It is what it is, as they say. If anything, she showed me that it is still much more desirable to remain single. She was very unpleasant.
I WAS IN A hardware store there was this girl handing out flyers to people that passed by.
I walked up to her I said hi, i've got to go but i just wanted to know what your name is. She did not say anything I told her it's ok, you can make up a name. She said her name I said it's nice to meet you i repeated her name and I walked away. I picked up stuff that I needed to buy in the store I saw her at the exit I passed by her I said Hi i repeated her name hows your day going, she said ok, anything interesting happen today. She said no, i said just keep smiling. She smiled I walked away. Was that good way to flirt with her without letting her know that i liked her? Did she feel spark? If I see her again should I talk to her more?
Am not a expert but from my understanding. You did your thing without a dependent outcome from the lady but later you want something. You seemed confident in your interaction, which is vital but flirting you gave the nice guy ideas to be only friends. Next time let the female nature interact with your masculinity. Rejection is key part of seduction let your intentions be true. Example if you think the female is attractive and polite. Test her, compliment her, then ask for number. Call it and do your side quest and find the holy grail.
On good number of days, I feel if I did so much work as is needed here, I would have scaled the mount Everest atleast 3 times that too with 100% success rates.
I want to know what this means, *4 months ago I helped my friend's friend in her career to push her limits to another level for a month, after helping her then 15 days passed she calls up frequently to get some my opinion* on is she doing a particular thing right or not and sometimes she wants my suggestion on how to achieve a task but what I definitely know *for sure she can work on her own now, but she always calls me at any time and then I helped her just for a while then she continue her talk on other topics* , as I am 25 at 5'2" height I feel I am not worthy because of my financial and physical appearance and I never had interacted with any female in my life for that long I always ended up in interactions between 3 to 4 weeks but as I interacted her I liked interacting her, and she is 27 & 5'2 height and she is single too. *I HAVE HELPED HER ONLY ON PHONE NOT EVEN MET EVEN A SINGLE TIME. Is she likes me or just being nice to me? Actually I started liking her*
Sounds like you need to move to Thailand my guy
Or Mexico. 🇲🇽
Sorry dude. You're officially stuck in the friend zone and an emotional tampon. She doesn't find you attractive if she saw you or care enough to meet you in person. Cut you're losses. Since you're 5'2" height. You have to overwhelmingly, severely work on yourself in other areas so you're height get overlook. It's because women in general love tall men. I can guaranteed she isn't single at all. She is talking to someone and is being talk too by other guys.
What necklace do you have? I would like to purchase a similar one
it’s called a tennis chain
Where to meet 20s women other than bars and clubs?
I want to know how to approach a girl sitting one a table in a cafe with her friend. It's not like I can have a conversation with her. I'd have to do it quick, but there's no bonding connection like that
But what do I say in each situation ?
need infield brother infield plzz
what about in the gym?
so i am an average asian with a baby face and pulled a british girl , she was with her friends at the supermarket and i overheard her accent and went up to her and asked if she was british . she not that pretty but got them digits .
..and?
Why would you talk about your gf so disrespectfully?
3:11 nice thumbnail
100%
I usually do the B.B. stop.
Baseball Bat, 100% success.
lol
I dont want tattos right now and dont want to drink alcohol and girls say thats not cool have can ı turn this positive for my self.
So coach are you saying I can get a nice girl like yours.😮😂
Cadê as legendas em português? Kk
I'm not a fan of the first 2 approaches. Touching girls on the approach can be creepy and I wouldn't advise this especially if you do this in your home city. If you're not confident and you just try it out for the first time you will freak girls out and this is not what you want.
The 'Hard Stop' or the Yad/Front stop just looks weird and desperate especially if you're running around in the same area. If you do this in the same area for a long period of time you will get unwanted attention. This is not what you want and I couldn;'t give a shit if any one say "you need to just not care" or "own it" NO! IN the UK where I live the government has just brought in new strict street harrassment laws and following and blocking a girl's path is a big NO NO.
That said if you open from the side, you need to have a good positive vibe and as Coach Kyle said, slightly be ahead of her. But I noticed these examples were in quiet areas. In London there are streets which get really busy so you need to find ways to open girls.
Also there are other places to approach women other than outisde on the street, like in shops, department stores and museums.
champppppp
Bro said it’s less creepy to tap a woman’s shoulder at night than day
Cade a legenda
this is great and all but it assumes I know what to say to her when i get her attention
Mr Locario made a reaction video about you
I think that ink,has reached your brain 😊
I'm not a fan from the open from the side, because she might keep walking and seems that you are begging for attention, but if I have to use it, I try to make eye contact first.
What to say and what to do when a friend introduce you a girl?
You’re already set up. Practice talking to people in general.
Read: how to make friends an influence people.
learn NEURO Linguistic programming by Dr. RIchard Bandler and jOhn grinder and thank me later it;s a vast field of neuropsychological technologies of personal change but it's worth it believe me
The girl is gorgeous
not really unless you live in a country where women are below average and of course for you this one will lok gorgeous
she's average
The stop is your sexual market value full stop if you are straight up sexy you’ve got her attention
What i personally like to do is just being observant. I'll give you an example:
You notice a girl reading a book you like, or wearing a shirt of a band you like, or whatever. Just say something like "hi, nice shirt, which is your favorite album?" and the conversation just naturally flows from there, you don't even have to try. Then you can ask her if she want to go to [something related to the topic] with you (this is important, not if you can go with her, but if she want to go with you. YOU are leading HER, remember that). Then give her YOUR number/fb/whatever.
Of course it's not working every time, but i find it much easier, natural, and rewarding (as you already have something in common) instead of that typical cringey "hey, you're cute blablabla". Bro, she hear that sh1t everyday, everywhere. Stand out a little
I agree with this except the last part
she doesn't hear that every day. Maybe in her Instagram Dms, but very few men if even any have directly approached her in a respectful way during the day and had the balls to tell her that. Only weirdos who stay from a far distance and do creepy catcalls, which obviously are not approaches. Women are rarely approached by attractive socially calibrated men in a direct way. Ask any female friend you have and see what they tell you.
it's basically what ROSS JEFFRIES or The Natural Lifestyle teach the same thing
if you are observant that;s a big plus for you in the eyes of beautiful women most buff guys are stupid as fuck when it comes to social inteligence knowing how to behave in society
pls dont be a bull or elephant in a china shop have grace and be attention when it comes to social cues and social moves
Anybody know if the patreon still works?
it works
@@Kyle_Froonjian thank you
Cool video but I'll never approach a woman... I am not gay, but I like Men
I beg your pardon
Wtf
Now try it to a random girl 🙂
Don't chase women don't be that thirsty guy! Chase excellence!!! They will come without any of these techniques.
You can be rich and they want nothing to do with you
@@Truth187X true but if u are in shape and with $ u won't have problems. If u don't have $ at least stay in shape.
@@imdannymartins I’m both in shape and have $ and women still don’t attract to me
@@Truth187X 🤔wow
@@Truth187X You putting yourself out there or you just see the gym and office? You gotta make them see your money.
Girls getting freaked out from high fives due to Covid 😮
Now. It's time to know what to say and keep the conversation going.. 💀
How did it go?
Just be a chad with sleeve tattoos bro it's not hard.
This dudebro with the 2011 sleeve tats has an L.A. 2.5 chick in his videos and thinks he can teach people how to pick up. Let me upload a video and show how to pick up fat chicks. Anyone can do that, just put out a sugar bag.
Have you looks maxed ?
I mean yeah that’s gonna help, you know it helps, so start hitting the gym, no excuses
@@sharkwang1542 is about personality to get girls not looks
@@1178570 It’s both silly
You make a video on how to approach women you don’t know whilst approaching a woman you know extremely well how oxymoronic 😂
you should all skip that and proceed to next video : 'why all girls reject me' :p
Approaching a girl you do not know , and she does not know you
Is going to put you in a Ted Bundy zone
incel
😂
Guess looks don't matter than I know random
John Anthony doesn't agree
Never approach woman. Let them approach them you show them masculinity (chase) afterwards.
You will literally never get approached then unless u go to a city with prostitutes
@@PeterParkerwon how incorrect you are
Have to do it if your a man that likes to take risks lol
@@dattepo7534 nah. Woman want to be equal to men. They can take on the roll.
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What ethnicity is your girl?
Hey, are you trying to attract or win back your ex, specific person (SP), restore a broken relationship/marriage or banish a third party from your relationship
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What’s that girls name
Bro he makes me question my sexuality....Tf ??
As a blind man, all of this stuff feels useless to me. Same as most of this stuff that I watch. I guess I need to create my own game.
Coach wanna get me arrested........ 😭
How would you get arrested?
Most of the techniques given... you could be held for harassment.
@@aylorzola9566 nah lmaoo, what country you live in? Getting someone’s attention isn’t illegal 😂
With all these #metoo and fake allegations going on?..... one gat to be careful
@@aylorzola9566 What does "metoo" mean?
This is bad advice.
You have to stop her.
If you walk with her you lose all tension. Super platonic. Goes nowhere.
This dude would be opening from across the street thinking it's "safe distance".
Simping here but she's fine.
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She is so smoking 🥵
whos the chick? if youre confident post the insta haha
Video after video do this do that and then just start talking to her. Want to know what the hell do you talk about. You can not just start talking about anything to a women. Women are ver word and gesture conscious. Talk about the weather and she will run away. talk about cars or anything a man does and she is bored.
Nah you got it all wrong homie, it really doesn’t matter. Dudes are analytical about the information of the conversation, girls are just gonna feed off your vibe. That’s why Himbos w/ confidence crush
Can you stop talking to much and starting examples
try The Natural Lifestyles or Ross Jeffries thank me later