8 Things Women Say & What It ACTUALLY Means…

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  • @Kyle_Froonjian
    @Kyle_Froonjian  5 місяців тому +7

    Work With Me Directly (Link Below)
    bit.ly/4b1OuNg

    • @albertapikewalleye6833
      @albertapikewalleye6833 5 місяців тому

      Your a poser and all your content is lies and bull

    • @Steve24527
      @Steve24527 5 місяців тому

      I don’t want no girls phone number I ask her for coffee ☕️ if it goes well then I meet her again or ask for number then but not before. If she doesn’t turn up for date that is fine it’s saved pointless wasted txts

  • @REAMtheDream
    @REAMtheDream 5 місяців тому +12

    1. He’s so hot or he’s so sexy
    -Girl is intrigued and wants to get to know the guy
    2. I have a boyfriend
    -It’s about what you do before she says that. Be confident, smile, tease.
    3. I don’t give my contact info
    -Wait for the girl to have enough interest before you ask for the contact info.
    4. I’m not that easy
    -Escalation is too obvious and predictable
    5. If she kisses you and then ghosts you
    -You aren’t up to her standards
    6. We are not having sex tonight
    -You need to pull back so girl isn’t controlling the interaction, make her feel comfortable, go slower to get there faster
    7. Good morning :) (girl is texting you a lot to get to know you)
    -You will get predictable, 2 touch points per week. FaceTime instead.
    8. Girl threatens to leave
    -You didn’t see the signs of attraction going down

  • @Fitness_Lorenzo
    @Fitness_Lorenzo 5 місяців тому +17

    I’ve noticed that I’m at the stage of “game” where I try too hard. I come off as trying to be a player.
    I have no problems with approaching, but I do have a problem with spiking too much. Also, Asking questions and then immediately teasing. I definitely need to improve that.

  • @mindsetmotivation9124
    @mindsetmotivation9124 5 місяців тому +17

    Your 2nd point hit home, specifically the larger male notion. As a "6,4 dude unfortunately i can say being tall has its pros and cons

    • @nathanwarman6900
      @nathanwarman6900 5 місяців тому +2

      The vid just came out how do you know this

    • @goodguyfromnyc
      @goodguyfromnyc 5 місяців тому +4

      @@nathanwarman6900 because hes from the future

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  5 місяців тому +5

      he commented 10 min after release.. its valid

    • @Dann-md9eq
      @Dann-md9eq 5 місяців тому

      @@Kyle_Froonjianbro, drop your facial care routine. You have an amazing facial skin and you look young

  • @ExeXenoin
    @ExeXenoin 5 місяців тому +6

    "He's back" really cool to see you post consistently

  • @jan852
    @jan852 5 місяців тому +7

    Man dude really appreciate the quality of your videos. All these sequences very well done man. Visual and content top notch 👍🏼

  • @xtheoz2114
    @xtheoz2114 5 місяців тому +41

    Girl: I have a boyfriend…
    Me: oh don't worry you can bring some female friends so he doesn't feel alone

  • @bansh210
    @bansh210 5 місяців тому +39

    am i the only one who noticed in the beginning he looked very slim, like his face and jawline looked sharp as hell😳🔥

    • @tayhas7237
      @tayhas7237 5 місяців тому +2

      Bros a handsome guy

    • @ex2two
      @ex2two 5 місяців тому

      You prolly gay.

    • @pcreative224
      @pcreative224 5 місяців тому +1

      he got leaner, been on top of his fitness

    • @raulcuriel553
      @raulcuriel553 3 місяці тому

      Yall some fruit cakes😂

  • @S3aCa1mRa1n
    @S3aCa1mRa1n 5 місяців тому +5

    Creating a video on gauging levels of interest could indeed be insightful. Here’s my story: I had a connection with a hired gun who witnessed my interactions with other girls and knew about my attractive, popular male friends (preselection/social proof). However, I didn't see her often, yet we vibed well with witty banter, comfort, and some flirting, prompting her to ask for my IG. I suggested a date at a club she frequented, which she eagerly accepted. However, I may have prematurely asked for her number, and my text game lacked sexual undertones. Days later, when I mentioned the date again, she said she was with her sister. Reflecting on Kyle’s "levels of interest," it seems she was interested enough for texting and exchanging numbers, but I may have escalated in an uncalibrated manner.
    Idk guys what do you think lol 😂

    • @VperVendetta1992
      @VperVendetta1992 5 місяців тому +1

      Maybe you texted too much. Better to just have one message one day after she gave the number and then to confirm the date the day of. I've never seen texts increase attraction.

  • @j-star1
    @j-star1 5 місяців тому +7

    One of your best videos, you covered some of the most common things that happens at different stages. Thanks!

  • @par4ugal
    @par4ugal 5 місяців тому +9

    Hands down the game content creator GOAT!!!

  • @KevJames-sy2ej
    @KevJames-sy2ej 5 місяців тому +3

    Broooo, from minute 8:45 I felt totally identified hahaha as you started describing the different in-detail phases (the girl gives you her IG but doesn't reply, she does reply and she never shows up at the date, and so on), hopefully I already got that expertise so I know what to do so that doesn't happen. Best vibes and good weekend

  • @initiatorhater0688
    @initiatorhater0688 5 місяців тому +4

    I feel this changed my mindset and perspective on talking to or interacting with women, I read it on a forum, I thought the guy hit the nail right on the head.
    It changed my perspective and mindset on talking to women.
    A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice
    "It bothers and annoys, enrages me or pisses me off a lot when people use the word practice, because the way I see it, for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men, because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first"
    I thought to myself, never truer words have been said or spoken.
    I thought that was bang-on right there.
    and i got a response from a dating coach on youtube, which enraged and pissed me off more, while I don't disagree with him, I just don't like how he said the brutal cold harsh fact of how different for men and women when it comes to getting better at talking to and interacting with the opposite sex.
    It makes sense and I like to believe there is far more advice for guys in the world on how to talk to and interact with girls then there is advice for girls on how to talk to and interact with guys.
    He said:
    "Don't worry about what other people don't have to do or why something is easier for them or whatever the comparison may be. Focus on you, where you want to be, what you need to do to get there and then get moving."
    That pissed me off more when I read that.
    Another reason why I don't like it is because it feels or seems like the way a guy talks and interacts with people or a guy's social skills, the way he behaves around others, has a much bigger impact on his attractiveness or ability to get a girlfriend then the other way around. As in, the way a girl talks or a girl's social skills doesn't impact her attractiveness or ability to get a boyfriend as much as it does for a guy to get a girlfriend. Men need to focus more on the behavioral aspect than women do when it comes to attracting someone it seems. The main reason why i hate that, is because guys, men, can unfortuneately be labeled creepy or weird in interactions or social situations with women, accidentally make the woman feel uncomfortable, even if the guy, man, never meant any harm, was never trying to hurt the woman, the guy, man, had good intentions going into the interaction, the reverse isn't true though.
    And due to men always having been expected to walk up to women and open our mouth, it makes more sense for the man to need to practice but not the woman.
    If an interaction or conversation goes poorly or bad between a man and a woman,. It's always the guys fault, it's impossible for a woman to screw up a conversation or interaction with a guy, it seems. Men take 100 percent of the risk and effort when interacting and talking to women.

    • @bitethebee5546
      @bitethebee5546 5 місяців тому +1

      While I agree on most of your thoughts, I would say you should listen to the dating coach because putting your focus on the fact that woman have is easier for social interactions is great initially but you'll lost track of the goal (practicing your social skills) you can end up complaining instead of being productive.
      If your scared of coming across as creepy, don't be. It may seem like a scary experience but it helps if you see them as another human being. Instead going thru the interaction looking to get something from them IE: Contact info. Just talk to them as your equal. From my personal experience If I found a woman attractive I felt I had to impressed her and win her over. That caused unnecessary anxiety. Once I shifted the focus on just talking to them as I would a casual friend the tension was gone.
      I wish you the best friend, it gets easier. I promise.

    • @initiatorhater0688
      @initiatorhater0688 5 місяців тому

      @@bitethebee5546 thats another thing that angers and pisses me off, people and society expect us guys, men, to have common sense, they expect us to just naturally "get it" for knowing what is creepy and what is not when approaching, interacting with women, they expect us guys to just instinctively or innately be born with the social knowledge on how to avoid being creepy or avoid making a woman uncomfortable, however, i hear conflicting advice, people say "you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years".
      "It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS."
      So is making mistakes in which the guy gets labeled creepy or makes the woman uncomfortable when approaching, is that part of the process of getting better?

    • @initiatorhater0688
      @initiatorhater0688 4 місяці тому

      @@bitethebee5546 "if your scared of coming across as creepy, don't be", another reminder that, are men supposed to have common sense, are men supposed to just naturally get it for knowing how to behave the right way when speaking women? are men supposed to just naturally just get it for knowing what is creepy behavior and what is not?

    • @davesqueakywheelz
      @davesqueakywheelz Місяць тому

      ​@@bitethebee5546I 2nd this point homie, I was born with a rare physical disability. Was alone, bitter and in a negative mindset or getting friendzoned most of my adolescence and parts of my 20s. I'll come back and respond to more later but 1st step is abandoning this mindset.
      Life ain't always fair and most women and ppl in general are not that self-aware. Work internally 1st, look at what truly interests and inspires you and no so obsessed on the inequalities of life or what other women and dudes are doing. I'm new to this Coach Kyle and community but I like what I've seen so far.

  • @maxdzhumyha6878
    @maxdzhumyha6878 3 місяці тому

    The last part about too much attraction is my treat. Would like to hear more about this. Also I recommend for everyone the book “No more Mr. Nice guy”

  • @intelligenceparadigm4931
    @intelligenceparadigm4931 4 місяці тому

    So I thought my girlfriend was just depressed, and I started catering to her a bit too much and this video helped me realize I pushed her away. Compromised myself.
    She didn't formally break up but she might have just ghosted, it's been a couple weeks since I heard from her. I'm not sure what to do. I can't believe I made this mistake, I was a successful stud until this happened.

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 5 місяців тому +5

    One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
    He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way.
    Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
    He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
    Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
    Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel.
    Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male.
    Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning.
    So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men
    But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating.
    I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s.
    Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described.
    It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day.
    Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal.
    I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen.
    Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not.
    It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing.

    • @trainee5560
      @trainee5560 5 місяців тому +3

      Tbh, even though many ppl think its fucked up to have anger bcs of these, I think it is at least our right to be angry, speaking as a guy who can still get girls sometimes but that does not mean its easy for me. Men and women loneliness is not the same. A woman is alone because its what she chose, she pushed or didnt like the people around her, waiting for better options 99% of the time, so its more of a fake loneliness, she will always have someone that messages her, talk to her. While man is alone bcs he really has no one to talk to around him.
      It is very unfortunate that evolution process gave the female a very upper hand by making them the decision maker of who to accept in their lives. They think emotionally, you might be talking to a girl just last night everything goes too well and even she is the one to give her number or social media without you asking btw they don't have to be drunk or at a club at all the next morning they decide not to reply anymore bcs their emotions changed now, not actual reason behind it most of the times (happened to me a lot of times). Human female would have been long eliminated with all these complexity of their thoughts, not knowing what they actually want and not thinking logically but emotionally if they weren't the ones giving birth.

    • @davesqueakywheelz
      @davesqueakywheelz Місяць тому

      Listen man I get the bitterness and things seemingly been tilted towards women etc.
      You or whoever you've been talking with have to ditch this mindset. It will do you no good in the long run, life is not fair and you're dealt the cards that you have.
      Focus on improving the social skills and not taking yourself too seriously because that is unattractive to women and having friendships as well because you're always coming from a place of desperation & need. You want a woman to add yo your life not be your sole purpose of validation. Watch the vid again, coach made some excellent points about the biological differences between the sexes to.
      The channel "playing with fire" has excellent breakdowns of interactions brother. Tell these other dudes and yourself to stop complaining and go deep and internally and fix your mindset in this regard, CHEERS!

    • @nobodysperfect06
      @nobodysperfect06 Місяць тому

      @@davesqueakywheelz yeah and it sounds like you have the mindset that it's better to be a man or that if you had to start your life all over again you would still choose to be a man again at the end of the day

  • @bansh210
    @bansh210 5 місяців тому +3

    thanks for the video big bro, ur really doing a lot for 16 year olds like me teaching stuff about the world🙏

  • @berry889
    @berry889 5 місяців тому +2

    Bro when you went on the levels. I started laughing. Because legitimately it is like that. 😂

  • @scnager1
    @scnager1 5 місяців тому

    I sometimes get the third one, but rarely. Some girls have had bad experiences with being stalked, etc. I never go on dates with people who are in the same profession with me because it's a small field. It's nothing the girl did, but it's my hard rule

  • @aliyousafi2871
    @aliyousafi2871 5 місяців тому +4

    Hey Coach,
    Great video, great info, and great editing.
    Audio sounds a little weird though.

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  5 місяців тому +2

      audio meaning.. my voice ? or the edit overall?.. lmk cause Im working with a new editor and want to get this optimized

    • @Zwitterion17
      @Zwitterion17 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Kyle_Froonjian overall

    • @IKhanicCollector
      @IKhanicCollector 5 місяців тому

      sounds fine to me

  • @SterlingCooper21
    @SterlingCooper21 5 місяців тому +1

    Another one I would add is if when you ask her out, she says “maybe” even if she claims to not have plans for the weekend

  • @hamusondebrowline
    @hamusondebrowline 2 місяці тому

    This is intriguing. ..... Thanks a million Kyle

  • @titos6799
    @titos6799 5 місяців тому +8

    I have no issue cold approaching girls and getting their numbers but half the time they don’t text back when I reach out. What am I doing wrong? How can I prevent this? It’s really frustrating

    • @Luuizz1
      @Luuizz1 5 місяців тому +1

      Same bro

    • @TheNicke01
      @TheNicke01 5 місяців тому

      Learn game. There isnt another answer than learn game. Vibe with her on voice mail and then like set up a date, if she openely expressed attraction

    • @bloodynachos
      @bloodynachos 5 місяців тому

      How often do you approach? Also if half of the numbers you get don't respond, then that's not too bad statistically.

    • @aufspider4136
      @aufspider4136 5 місяців тому +1

      Just coming at you straight either they arnt attracted to you or you had a “boring convo” happens to us all.

    • @titos6799
      @titos6799 5 місяців тому

      @@bloodynachosI approach at least once each day Usually during the weekday. So about 5-7 approaches a week.

  • @tayhas7237
    @tayhas7237 5 місяців тому +2

    So much Value in his videos 💪🏻

  • @davidgoliat2119
    @davidgoliat2119 5 місяців тому +1

    Nice editing of the video! Congratulations

  • @Karbofitchef
    @Karbofitchef 5 місяців тому

    Your vids just stepped up a notch, all the visual and valuable info, well done mate!

  • @getzbeamed5795
    @getzbeamed5795 5 місяців тому +1

    Coach Kyle stays undefeated

  • @Mathew_22
    @Mathew_22 5 місяців тому +2

    dawg ts so confusing, I litrally spent 2 years improving t be the best version of my self. and now mf saying looks don't matter

  • @spitroastingdragons
    @spitroastingdragons 5 місяців тому +1

    Great content, appreciate it Kyle 🤝

  • @Zwolf36
    @Zwolf36 5 місяців тому +3

    drake or Leonardo di caprio. this guy definitely watches AMS lol

  • @ExeXenoin
    @ExeXenoin 5 місяців тому +3

    Ayo who let bro cook❤

  • @willyvasquez2431
    @willyvasquez2431 28 днів тому

    broooo this guy !!!

  • @MelanieTremblay-jm9xz
    @MelanieTremblay-jm9xz 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for the info bro !

  • @JayTeeAyy
    @JayTeeAyy 5 місяців тому +5

    My guy Coach Kyle on a cut?? 🤔

    • @Cc-sr1zr
      @Cc-sr1zr 5 місяців тому

      Summer time bro 💪🏼

  • @ericmorb
    @ericmorb 5 місяців тому +2

    great video

  • @5starr.mikiii
    @5starr.mikiii 5 місяців тому +1

    my friend once got up to a girl and wanted to ask for her number, and when he asked she literally told him that she had a nokia phone and that she was 11. (she was 16

  •  5 місяців тому

    Instructive video.

  • @Prezervor
    @Prezervor 12 днів тому

    Struggling the whole thing 😂😂

  • @davidstein9129
    @davidstein9129 5 місяців тому

    Great fuckin vid Kyle.
    Thanks for telling it like it is. Your vids are a refreshing brand of truth.
    I appreciate your dating tips and guidance.
    Keep up the good work.
    D-

  • @United_Wings
    @United_Wings 5 місяців тому +4

    Nice

  • @NevilleEkka
    @NevilleEkka 5 місяців тому

    "Lemme get back from the washroom"... and then they leave the earth (never to find em again)

  • @albertozenemij9490
    @albertozenemij9490 5 місяців тому

    I always manage to get girls to approach and even kiss me on the first interaction, and they even offer their numbers to me, but always play hard to get afterward smh

  • @mindsetmotivation9124
    @mindsetmotivation9124 5 місяців тому +1

    Hey Kyle, hows it going?

  • @Waltaere
    @Waltaere 5 місяців тому +1

    Kyleee 😃

  • @AndreAyresMartinez
    @AndreAyresMartinez 5 місяців тому

    Last 6

  • @destinyvoisine3050
    @destinyvoisine3050 2 місяці тому

    Do you help gay woman get girls too?

  • @markbalki
    @markbalki 5 місяців тому

    Theirs levels to this. 😂

  • @pj_co.lym.bri.9267
    @pj_co.lym.bri.9267 5 місяців тому +2

    first date to dcu...

  • @bilalawan1708
    @bilalawan1708 3 місяці тому

    sounds he like he is follower of Coach Corey Wayne

  • @MaccusFNS
    @MaccusFNS 5 місяців тому +1

    the I'm not that easy might be not about you doing anything wrong. Just try a bunch of times.

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  5 місяців тому +1

      i agree that you can try something different and still get success but i also disagree in a sense that if she said that, you over escalated to some extent

  • @Voiceunplug
    @Voiceunplug 5 місяців тому

    Awsome

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS 5 місяців тому +1

    💪🏼😎

  • @A.sou1201
    @A.sou1201 5 місяців тому

    🍷

  • @keensey5370
    @keensey5370 4 місяці тому

    15.20 😅

  • @mykimikimiky
    @mykimikimiky 5 місяців тому +1

    blah blah.... how to see?
    useless promotional video

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 5 місяців тому

    I don’t want no girls phone number I ask her for coffee ☕️ if it goes well then I meet her again or ask for number then but not before. If she doesn’t turn up for date that is fine it’s saved pointless wasted txts

  • @SantosYadav-y9x
    @SantosYadav-y9x 5 місяців тому +2

    make a video you and doha escalating fully clothes on

  • @StEvUgnIn
    @StEvUgnIn 5 місяців тому

    8:05 You went really too far

  • @sobrouesselogin
    @sobrouesselogin 5 місяців тому +1

    It's hard to agree with 1. Maybe it depends on your social circle. Here girls fuck on first date (meaning it's mostly because looks and not shared values) if you are 7+