manifesting a specific person: why 99% of people fail (+ solution)

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  • @upgradetolife
    @upgradetolife  3 роки тому +22

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    • @tryna9867
      @tryna9867 3 роки тому +1

      Hey how to find the right career

    • @realmwatters2977
      @realmwatters2977 3 роки тому +3

      Niclas, Thank you for clearing up the confusion, I was having with manifesting, I stopped sliding down the black hole of manifesting videos.

    • @miroslavavillalobos9817
      @miroslavavillalobos9817 3 роки тому +1

      Agree! A video of how to know what we really want (job,career,opportunities)

  • @cutie511
    @cutie511 2 роки тому +129

    I manifested the same person twice! ^^
    I manifested my ex boyfriend and after 2 weeks he texted me that he wants me back.
    Sadly, I saw his text message after 1 month because I was in the Hospital... So I manifested him again. After a month he told me again that he loves me. ✨

    • @wjmishal3376
      @wjmishal3376 2 роки тому

      Do you mind letting us know how?

    • @yummywatermelon5535
      @yummywatermelon5535 2 роки тому

      How did u do it? I've been trying for 4 months

    • @cutie511
      @cutie511 2 роки тому +31

      @@yummywatermelon5535 i think the reason it worked is because i had a strong feeling it was going to happen.
      a week before we got together, i saw many signs that he will come back.
      I said affirmations a few times during the day and I visualized in the evening. I write a diary every day about my "ideal life". but the most important thing is that you feel like you know it will 100% happen.
      don't obsess over your sp and focus on yourself.
      work on your self concept. Self concept is really important

    • @andreacadena3803
      @andreacadena3803 2 роки тому +2

      it also worked for me too once i moved on

    • @splitzyentertainment7995
      @splitzyentertainment7995 2 роки тому

      @@cutie511 you two together?

  • @mskharrazi3075
    @mskharrazi3075 2 роки тому +127

    I manifested love in less than two months, not an sp because I had none. It was simple and easy. I didn’t stress and it showed up. This video is true 💕

    • @bellaloita
      @bellaloita 2 роки тому +4

      Did you meet naturally? Can I ask what you did?

    • @zen_mindset1
      @zen_mindset1 5 місяців тому

      You can't manifest it was luck

  • @serenamcginnis9320
    @serenamcginnis9320 2 роки тому +187

    My interpretation of what Neville is trying to tell the woman is that she doesn’t really want that man but what she wants is the feeling of being in a loving marriage. Similar to “you don’t really want money you want security/freedom/abundance”. I think this was just a way to communicate that you want to align to the feeling first. Get rid of the desperation to be with this one person and tap into the feeling state of having love. Her self concept was probably in lack so for that specific moment it was better for her to go general.

    • @nataliedenisecoaching3338
      @nataliedenisecoaching3338 2 роки тому +3

      I agree! It's more so about the essence/feeling derived from the manifestation than the specific manifestion itself. But to take it a step further, I think Neville is also bringing this to her attention for the sake of opening herself to more opportunities. Her desire for this specific man is a product of her current state, which is limiting. Who's to say that as she evolves into a different state that she will no longer want that man? She will likely still want to be married - that essence of the desire will have remained. But not necessarily to that specific man. And if in her current state she manifests the relationship with him, then later evolves into a different state, she's kinda shot herself in the foot by having been too specific before. Idk if I'm expressing this clearly 😅

    • @vs_vs16
      @vs_vs16 2 роки тому

      Perfect

    • @Wholisticandy
      @Wholisticandy Рік тому +2

      This is one of the best comments I’ve read

    • @toodles6734
      @toodles6734 Рік тому +3

      @@nataliedenisecoaching3338 Yeah but Neville also manifested his wife. The moment he met her he wanted her, visualized them being married. Neville himself said one thing while manifesting a specific person himself

  • @bgt2848
    @bgt2848 2 роки тому +34

    Ask. Believe. Trust the process. Receive.
    Don’t get in your own way. Don’t think it’s any different than anything else.

    • @texassage5629
      @texassage5629 2 роки тому

      Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love.. I know of a great man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours....
      He brought my ex back to me within 48 hours, his manifestation works perfectly

    • @texassage5629
      @texassage5629 2 роки тому

      WhatsAp him

  • @Shannystrr
    @Shannystrr 3 роки тому +257

    This is true. I went through the SP spiral, but as I started to correct my self concept and switch states instantly- I realized that I no longer desired my “sp”, and would rather us be friends. I saw ahead, and jumped fully to the end (my consciousness was now in a different state)- and my “sp” was not in the vision lol. I feel like sometimes, we only desire someone while being in a certain state. But when we shift states, the desire might go away, and a new one pops up. Anything is possible, but we should ask ourselves- “what overall state am I in now? And do I like it here?”
    Great video as always! ✨

    • @chriswebster1168
      @chriswebster1168 3 роки тому +13

      You're completely right! Our surface desires change constantly.

    • @juliaeliasson3222
      @juliaeliasson3222 3 роки тому +5

      That is where I am right now. I manifested him for some weeks ago being obsessed in a beginning. I felt like he is my test person I am in love and want him to commit to me. In the process I shifted, stopped to be obsessed, came to fulfillment and was so happy I have him no matter what! Some days after I felt emptiness, apathy. I don't want him anymore. I want happy relationship in general and there are millions of other men, opportunities for me. Today I am sitting sad and crying like I lost someone I had and loved. He will appear in my 3D but today I manifested no one specific. I feel very 😔.

    • @jerrytomas3136
      @jerrytomas3136 2 роки тому +9

      @@juliaeliasson3222 You should manifest emotional stability. Maybe then you can manifest a stable partner ❤️

    • @juliaeliasson3222
      @juliaeliasson3222 2 роки тому +3

      @@jerrytomas3136 Yes, I wish to be emotional stable! I was diagnosed bipolar, my medicine makes stable my depress periods but not hype. I want to shift to mental health state but don't know where to start. I'm really exhausted from my high sensitivity, empathy and feeling other ppl, and my own depending of love feelings. Any suggestions how to formulate my health state?

    • @Shannystrr
      @Shannystrr 2 роки тому

      @@chriswebster1168 Yes they really do. Our deepest desires and dreams are always there I’ve noticed. Some of these specific people may just be a surface level desire due to a wanky state

  • @spiritualt2004
    @spiritualt2004 2 роки тому +37

    BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND WATCH YOUR WORLD CONFORM

  • @combatneenja4528
    @combatneenja4528 2 роки тому +17

    My two cents here, Stop thinking that you need to find a missing piece, you are whole and complete. If you are trying to do anything (manifest, or force a situation) you are focused on a belief of lack.

  • @mokesuvik5980
    @mokesuvik5980 2 роки тому +14

    I am not dependent on any other for my happiness...but I manifest exactly whoever and whatever I want ..even Neville manifested Exactly whom he wanted to get married...

  • @annaoze
    @annaoze 3 роки тому +42

    This is awesome and complete. I manifested an sp who became my husband before knowing about manifestation and Neville. I did it by imagining in a state akin to sleep that we were married. It took a year and I also worked on self concept. We are now divorced. Be careful what you wish for 😆. Now I have a new sp but I’m much wiser and knowledgeable. You create. Stay true to the picture.

    • @upgradetolife
      @upgradetolife  3 роки тому +4

      Thanks for sharing Anna!

    • @Atreyuwu
      @Atreyuwu 2 роки тому +18

      'Be careful what you wish for'.
      If you manifested an SP you should be well aware that you are responsible for what appears in your life.
      That doesn't mean placing blame, in either direction; but rather acceptance of the truth of who you are.
      Remember, *you* are the operant power; nobody else.

    • @mstella9669
      @mstella9669 2 роки тому +2

      @@AtreyuwuWell said

  • @anamacklis2355
    @anamacklis2355 3 роки тому +31

    "We attract what we are," Excellent video Niclas!

  • @lionesssai5957
    @lionesssai5957 3 роки тому +25

    Nicklas you're the best, the way you explain everything step by step is so helpful. I usually don't comment on most of the UA-cam videos but here I had to comment to totally appreciate you. You're a Gem that we have found. I absolutely love the simplified teachings of Neville. 😊🙏

  • @zanekoh3473
    @zanekoh3473 Рік тому +13

    “You can put God to the test”. Overtime, I realised it is actually more loving, fulfilling, fruitful and heartwarming to discover our true power than manifesting the SP.
    The harder it is to manifest something, the greater the belief once it is manifested. Therefore, never be afraid to put manifestation to the test, the desires that we dearly yearned for, for once they are realised in the external, tears of joy would be shed.
    At this juncture, one begins to realise he or she holds true the power within. Gone are the lonely nights, depressing days, miserable times and solemn vibes. Whatever you want changed in your 3D, you’ll have the power to do so, for a success in one almost impossible manifestation would have stirred doubts in your doubts.
    I personally have manifested things which seemed impossible, but they manifested only because I did not put them on a pedestal. (This is really important). You’ll have to be okay without having it, and one way I found to be a useful method is this: -
    Constantly imagine/affirm and draw out those feeling states such that you are ecstatic about them. Ever anticipated how it feels like when you know you’re flying off to a vacation? That feeling of anticipation, that excitement, full knowing that the day is drawing near, and closer, and the night before the trip, you can’t really sleep. Feel it this way.
    And you’ll begin to realise, the more often you do it, that your vibes would start to change. You’ll begin to feel more satisfied, slowly approaching sabbath. And then neutral, or natural.
    True knowing of the sabbath state is when life would hit you with a setback, yet it does not seem to concern you, and you remained in a nonchalant state.
    When you discover you true nature, its really empowering. Much more so than the highly anticipated SP.
    When you’re happy with life, an SP would be the sweet icing on the cake. ❤

  • @beyond_words_dance
    @beyond_words_dance 3 роки тому +54

    I love the fact that he's encouraging people to cut all the craziness. I've been feeling this recently more and more. This video just confirmed that for me. It came at exactly the right time. ✅

    • @beyond_words_dance
      @beyond_words_dance 2 роки тому +8

      @@markcrawley3964 I think if you can truly trust, and reprogram the subconscious,you can consciously manifest. I've done it and I see it happening all around. But people get so wound up with the SP thing, they lose sight of themselves and any sense of balance. Normally due to a deep limiting belief somewhere. You can create whatever reality you like, but a huge degree of letting go of control and self concept work has to happen. As well as just a genuine connection to trusting your ability to do it in the first place...

    • @lollymadikiza3174
      @lollymadikiza3174 2 роки тому

      @@markcrawley3964 u are right

    • @themindbenderr
      @themindbenderr 2 роки тому +6

      @@markcrawley3964 We can get whatever we want. I saw gay guys who consciously manifested straight guys to fall in love with them, anything is possible... Also, there are people who manifested 3rd parties to leave, it is definitely possible too. The problem is people give up on their lives to manifest the person and they abandon themselves. Their purpose in life is just manifesting the SP cuz they believe that happiness only comes with the person. If they could just understand that everything we want is already within us and we don't need them to manifest in order to feel happy/loved/complete, then they could do the ''impossible'' and bring the SP back. Anything is possible but the thing that gets in the way of miracles is our limiting beliefs.

    • @megannnnnm
      @megannnnnm 2 роки тому

      SAMEEE I WAS TRAPPED IN THE WHOLE

    • @pvz0484
      @pvz0484 2 роки тому

      did it work for you? would love to know!

  • @kroneexe
    @kroneexe 2 роки тому +10

    I changed my self concept, I am more mature, and I realized that she's still my soulmate.

  • @Christina-js6li
    @Christina-js6li 3 роки тому +18

    I like the idea of cutting all the craziness! I’m feeling overwhelmed with all of that right now. Thank you for this clear cut video.

    • @upgradetolife
      @upgradetolife  3 роки тому +6

      You are really welcome. In my opinion the overflow of (in some cases even wrong) informations is the #1 reason a lot of people struggle with the Law. In that case, I recommend you check out my free masterclass, which is straight to the point talking as well :) upgradetolife.com/masterclass

  • @AbbyRuston
    @AbbyRuston 3 роки тому +46

    Such a great video! I love how you took the time and care to go over each aspect to paint the bigger picture of what is happening! Excellent and much needed video to help others understand!!

  • @Veronica-zg7lg
    @Veronica-zg7lg Рік тому +7

    Everything you said resonates with me deeply. Since I've started working on my self I understand that all of my failures in certain areas are because of the way I emotionally grew up as a child and this is true for everyone. If you struggle with money, ask yourself if that was an issue while growing up, if you struggle with relationships ask yourself if that was an issue in the family, or with confidence, were you allowed to speak up? Or with any other issue in your life. You will find yourself looking at those problems actually formed in your childhood and you associating yourself with them. That's why it's always about self concept and nothing else, because if a specific area was not an unhealthy concept early on, it won't be a problem later on. Wealthy people aren't looking for videos on how to manifest money, because money was never an issue growing up, not because they can't lose it. It's all understanding about the self. Do the work and you will see.

  • @xscyxo
    @xscyxo 2 роки тому +25

    This is such a brilliant video. I'm so glad I came across this, because everything you said basically described me. And I felt like i was constantly trying to trick myself this is working but in reality deep down, the doubts etc were still there. Watching your video was like a wake up call. I'm going to totally work on myself first and stop obsessing. I know it's not an easy journey but I'll get there and hope whoever sees this message will get that too!!

  • @camilogodoy3730
    @camilogodoy3730 2 роки тому +19

    Man, I'm so grateful for this video.
    I was missing that level of accuracy and depthness in all the Law of Assumption videos. Thanks for reminding us about the basics and helping us to get out of that spiral about looking for more and more information. Beyond all that attachment and anxiety, living in the end seems more natural and easy to experience.

  • @jessbess1766
    @jessbess1766 2 роки тому +6

    Self concept is so important in this, it took me a while to grasp it. Great video!

  • @KeishannaMichele
    @KeishannaMichele 2 роки тому +5

    Wow I searched UA-cam about becoming your own best friend and this video came up and I am so glad it did! Really REALLY great points in this! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾thank you so much for this!

  • @ruthlanders319
    @ruthlanders319 3 роки тому +7

    a great and much needed video. I Like how you explain things. it's hard to find someone who interprets neville teachings in a simple and direct way. Thank you 🙂

  • @amyb2803
    @amyb2803 2 роки тому +4

    As I'm about to listen to a self-concept video (I do this a few times a day until it becomes hammered into me), I see your video. Excellent video! You are right; many often over-complicate this process when it's simple and easy.

  • @sayanguha
    @sayanguha 3 роки тому +27

    You deserve 1 million subscribers at the very least. I keep on looking at your number of subscribers everyday and when I see it growing I feel so happy , you deserve every bit of it

    • @SootSootSooty
      @SootSootSooty 3 роки тому +3

      That’s a really lovely comment.

  • @amazingproducts3261
    @amazingproducts3261 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for being open minded and share your valuable knowledge man ❤️

  • @asmasultan4851
    @asmasultan4851 3 роки тому +20

    You are such an honest guy Niclas and such a good teacher and that too, at such a young age ! This is a great video and it truly saves one (if followed properly) from all confusion, effort and disappoinment 👍 Thanks for sharing this excellent stuff 💜

  • @seemathakur61205
    @seemathakur61205 3 роки тому +8

    Thanks a lot Niclas. ❤...Thus video literally pulled me out of the black hole u were discussing in the video 🙏

  • @megannnnnm
    @megannnnnm 2 роки тому +13

    I’m just so glad i came across this!!! I also got into the black hole for almost 2 weeks but this has been really helpful and the other vids you have and I now understand why arent there any movements!!!
    Since watching this, I have been trying to focus on myself, and living in the end. I still do try to manifest an sp though !!!
    I also would like to share what transpired today as I was manifesting this SP. I was trying to manifest him to work w me virtually today but at some point i was having doubts if he’ll blow me off. But whenever the negative thoughts creep in, what I did was to take a pause, took deep breaths and affirmed what I wanted to happen (+affirmations abt why I deserve this) while listening to a very powerful music (i am having a hard time visualizing), i even scripted about it afterwards and then I just said after these that “fck it, i can work without him anyways” and went on with what I was doing. Few minutes after, he called!!!! I’m legit shocked and amazed how these works!!!! Its not that big but when you indeed live in the end, your 3D will just conform to it! So really just have faith and trust the process. Your actions will just conform as you live in the end.
    I’ve blabbered much but yeah this is really helpful! Thank you very much!!!! ☺️

    • @upgradetolife
      @upgradetolife  2 роки тому +2

      Happy it helped 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼

  • @bee5997
    @bee5997 2 роки тому +9

    This video pretty much saved me! I was stuck in a rut and try to manifesting texts (texts that weren’t what I wanted to hear) thank you so much for simplifying it!

  • @ludovica6455
    @ludovica6455 2 роки тому +6

    I just deleted tik tok because I realized I was looking for constant confirmations. I don't need to do this to get what I want. Now I was looking for serious videos about manifesting and I'm glad I found yours.

  • @sabrinaelisabethj.7905
    @sabrinaelisabethj.7905 3 роки тому +5

    Great as usual...on the point! Thx Niclas😊

  • @consei6834
    @consei6834 2 роки тому +5

    I skipped the success stories because I wanna see my experience in this and not trust someone else's words. I'll try my best, knowing that this one specific person is someone I want to spend the rest of my life with.

  • @SoulfulDMD
    @SoulfulDMD 3 роки тому +5

    I literally subscribed yesterday and liked your approach … was wondering about your thoughts on SP’s and 24 hours later 💥

  • @DanielKI
    @DanielKI 2 місяці тому +1

    Discovered you today and I‘m impressed by how well you explain all this. It finally makes sense to me.
    Also, last week I tried and tested the law of assumption for fun (visualized a scene) and few days later it played out almost exactly like how I envisioned it.
    This convinced me that this stuff is real and that it works.

  • @karolinawilk7178
    @karolinawilk7178 3 роки тому +362

    I don't think 99% fail. I mean there are so many successful stories lol

    • @upgradetolife
      @upgradetolife  3 роки тому +65

      In that case, I needed to use this so that this important message get's attention! :)

    • @bodnarova05
      @bodnarova05 3 роки тому +48

      He’s right, most fail ( get a text or sex) or drop the sp as their self concept changes.

    • @bobbieschroder6231
      @bobbieschroder6231 3 роки тому +17

      The video title doesn't accurately reflect what he really meant.
      At 6:13, he clarifies this by stating (and I'm paraphrasing) that this issue doesn't apply to all [or even most] of the people. But SOME of the people are failing at this. And most [i.e., 99%] of those who ARE failing, are doing so because of these specific mistakes. 🙂

    • @iLuvTheMostHigh
      @iLuvTheMostHigh 3 роки тому +5

      @@bodnarova05 I don’t get what you just said. Get the sex or text? Or drop the sp? Where is the sp? Or did you mean sp a - spa? Because a is after your (sp)

    • @bodnarova05
      @bodnarova05 3 роки тому +37

      @@iLuvTheMostHigh I said most people manifest a text from their ex or invite to have sex from the “success stories “ I’ve seen and heard . Getting a text isn’t a success story in my view

  • @youaretheoperantpower5435
    @youaretheoperantpower5435 3 роки тому +21

    Re: Neville's comment about marriage. He always said the power is in the implication. So my understanding of his comment in light of what is implied is the power, marriage implies a committed relationship. There is nothing to say it couldn't be with a specific person, but the specific person being your end, does not imply a committed relationship. Your end implication is never the "thing" you desire, it is what scene implies you have the "thing" you desire.

  • @GR-dl3eq
    @GR-dl3eq 3 роки тому +2

    Absolutely fantastic.
    Loved this, thank you!
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @papersparrow
    @papersparrow 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you, this is pure gold. You clarified so much for me! 💖

  • @C3rd0
    @C3rd0 3 роки тому +15

    Thank you Niclas! I manifested you making a video about this whole topic😬 greetings from Hamburg☺️

  • @kiranbokhari5508
    @kiranbokhari5508 Рік тому +3

    Rediscover your own worthiness, wholeness and completeness! STOP the Obsession!!! WOW..that finally clicked! Thank you

  • @Ghoulx13
    @Ghoulx13 2 роки тому +1

    Dude you’re so underrated. Amazing video content! Just subbed!

  • @spiritualt2004
    @spiritualt2004 2 роки тому +17

    The reason people can’t manifest an SP is because people don’t 1. Love themselves. 2. Don’t believe. And 3. Don’t persist in the new story. If this was easy then everyone will be millionaires.

    • @tinalove7860
      @tinalove7860 2 роки тому +3

      I would say belive takes the biggest part 😌 don't have contradicting thoughts about desired state

    • @collinlasky9062
      @collinlasky9062 2 роки тому +3

      @@tinalove7860 it’s hard to control thoughts

  • @rick.8589
    @rick.8589 3 роки тому +1

    yesss... an sp vid from Nicklas 😍😍😍😍🔥😍😍🔥 keep em coming ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aalandon2011
    @aalandon2011 3 роки тому +69

    This video is great!
    I fell into the SP trap and caught in the black hole. It’s stressful and a thief of joy. Thankfully I started reading Neville and other lecturers/authors’ work and it changed my perspective on everything.
    No more intense mental diets. Just defining the I AM.

    • @exposed1442
      @exposed1442 2 роки тому

      What do you do to manifest? Also, have u manifested ur sp?

    • @aalandon2011
      @aalandon2011 2 роки тому +1

      @@exposed1442 I manifest better financial situations, jobs, grad school acceptance, GPA. And yes. I have. I am with him now. I thought it was my ex, but it’s definitely my current boyfriend.

    • @exposed1442
      @exposed1442 2 роки тому

      @@aalandon2011 ahhh I’m so happy for u :) could u tell me what u did? I think I’m stuck in the hole rn 🥲

    • @aalandon2011
      @aalandon2011 2 роки тому +1

      @@exposed1442 I honestly just imagined what I wanted to feel in a relationship/job OR thought about me writing emails declaring some good news/telling someone the good news. I envisioned what I would be doing when I’m in the feeling or place that I want to be.

    • @aalandon2011
      @aalandon2011 2 роки тому +1

      @@exposed1442 if you can see yourself in that position or know for a fact it will happen, it will.

  • @triciad9947
    @triciad9947 2 роки тому +3

    Thankyou you make me enlighten more to have a trust, faith and believe in my own power and beliefs ❤😊

  • @amitaphadtare1845
    @amitaphadtare1845 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you niclas ☺️ very meaningful video 👍🏻

  • @rare-jem
    @rare-jem 11 місяців тому +1

    SO GOOD!! Thank you for this GOLD!

  • @beyond_words_dance
    @beyond_words_dance 3 роки тому +5

    Yeah absolutely this is what I've been feeling for a while. All those videos he mentions just wind me up. 'Should i this, should I that?'...it just takes you off the path.

  • @krishnakantsharma8021
    @krishnakantsharma8021 2 роки тому +1

    Didn't finish the video yet but I can say you are next level man ❤️

  • @ivanildabarbosa6605
    @ivanildabarbosa6605 2 роки тому +1

    This was all great information, thank you!

  • @johnnytesla6406
    @johnnytesla6406 2 роки тому +5

    It’s very possible to get back your SP. it’s not hard. The SP spiral reminds me of the twin flame spiral lmao

  • @BGivka
    @BGivka 2 роки тому +2

    OMG
    Thank you. I just said I am totally overwhelmed and lost in all this. Not enjoying it anymore. Was about to give up.

  • @konradmoien4734
    @konradmoien4734 2 роки тому +4

    In the topic of “manifest a specific person” I literally manifested you. What I ordered to manifest is “someone talking about ‘manifest sp whiteout making the ps obsessed with me’” and it took one or two weeks. Actually although manifest a specific relationship hasn’t been easy for me ( which means no “successful story” yet) but manifesting people provide specific things to me is easy and simple to me, although I always manifest things I “haven’t know where to find”. Like I said, I manifested UA-camrs with specific conditions, such as talking about specific topic, 0 dislike and so on before I really saw anyone or few ones talking about *that* topics or has 0 dislike. This is just possible, although I still haven’t manifested some of my specific people.
    I want to say that, although after a journey of “balancing ‘low self-esteem’” which means I value myself meanwhile I value others, I still encounter people or things that either value “self” than “others” or vise versa. I don’t know, maybe it’s my push out and I will go a little further on this journey.
    Besides, although I said it’s “easy” for me to manifest a UA-camr with specific features, I always feel uncertain when I do it again. Like “oh, I start to want another way of thinking. I know I can manifest it... 😐” I know I want this and I can wait forever but it’s something other than desperately wait forever (don’t know how to explain) just really want to be more relaxed when doing this!
    Also I guess you answered one of me question: why I don’t feel like wanting my sp anymore sometimes. But it wasn’t a comfortable feeling, I felt guilty for being not 100% want them but I still want. It seemed like I asked myself to be “want to put all my time to them otherwise I don’t want and thus I have no right to want” and this led to breaking up.
    Or let me say this way: I am extremely good at “manifesting an ending of an unhealthy relationship” yet definitely not a master of “manifesting the unhealthy relationship to be healthy”, yet.
    Edit: you’ve gone further and talk about the exact thing I just wondering if I would write it down (in my native language) days before: there is no “practice” of manifesting, there is just ☝️ decide what you want ✌️think it would happen & done. Nothing else. There are reasons why you don’t believe in manifesting/transforming or whatever name it is, but there is few reasons why you can’t manifest, because you can. If any discussion is needed, it would be “how to be chill and trusting” not “how to manifest quicker”.
    Now I have found another one taking it, let me just rest and chill.

  • @scarlettlav
    @scarlettlav Рік тому +1

    I think your video came at the right time, I think it's because I'm just a person who doesn't like to make a person obsessed with me even though it's the person love. My desire is just want a complete trusting partnership union with my specific person. I've been using other people's affirmations and it confuses who I am. It needs to be natural to my personality. Using many methods confused me after awhile. I used law of assumption for many other aspects of my life but I have a hard time with SP. Back to basics!

  • @pemjoy5586
    @pemjoy5586 3 роки тому +8

    This helped.... My problem is the obsession part.... I will start working on it.... I have other goals I can focus on...... Thank you ❤️

  • @enidwed
    @enidwed 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much!!❤❤❤ you are amazing

  • @bellaanthony464
    @bellaanthony464 Рік тому +1

    I was in the hole in the beginning for sure. I was successful and learned I am whole and complete, my Sp is a bonus to my already abundant life and we have met in the middle
    Im giving thumbs up! Yes, other LOA coaches prob would say you’re giving us info from lack or limited beliefs. In the end, it’s all about how we truly feel and know, how we can embody the states and moods we would prefer and become it.

  • @kanikapandit9576
    @kanikapandit9576 2 роки тому +3

    We're just playing with our thoughts so it's talking time...we all know that if I'm manifesting that thing is only mine that's it..dude don't stuck with one thing make some fun like manifest other things..this video is really great 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @wrodon3169
    @wrodon3169 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you niclas i have manifested the love of my life and we are happy together

  • @aborgene
    @aborgene 3 роки тому +5

    thank you for this vedio , and if only i had an awsome guide like this , i could have safe myself from one year of torture mentally.. and to all new seeker of manifesting sp,trust what he is saying , i learned it the hard way after getting really trapped in all the mess as he had mentioned in this video for a year..
    get your foundations strong first...

  • @AlphaRed28
    @AlphaRed28 3 роки тому +1

    Great video of the fundamentals. Whats your take on multiple scenes for a specific desire? A marriage/relationship would include all sorts of experiences, and to get into the feeling of it, that will make most sense to me.

  • @link616
    @link616 3 роки тому +5

    Nicklas thank you for everything. Your master classes are changing my life in every possible spheres. Highly recommended. Aguinaldo

  • @MerridethHawk
    @MerridethHawk 3 роки тому +5

    WOW!!! ....the black hole🤯
    Altho that's how I found this amazing video, so some good came from it! ;)

  • @zeljkovlahovic5582
    @zeljkovlahovic5582 2 роки тому +1

    You are very intelligent!
    No show, no sensation, just clear and direct explanations. Bravo 🔥🔥🔥
    Ps. Bist Du aus Deutschland?

    • @upgradetolife
      @upgradetolife  2 роки тому +1

      Yes 🙏🏼

    • @zeljkovlahovic5582
      @zeljkovlahovic5582 2 роки тому

      @@upgradetolife du bist so jung und hast schon diese wichtigen Kenntnisse. Ich habe auch in deinem Alter nach Antworten gesucht, aber damals gab es kein Internet, nur Buecher von verschiedenen Autoren/oder so gen.Gurus🤣🤣🤣.......dann kam diese Tante - Abraham Hicks🤣 ....und DAS ALLES hat mir keine Antworten gegeben ....nur Verwirrung. ...
      Und dann am Ende kam Neville- der Genie..
      WUensche Dir alles Gute!

  • @blackguy3798
    @blackguy3798 3 роки тому +2

    Great Video 👍🏽, Thank you.

  • @jessicabarrera365
    @jessicabarrera365 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! I finally get it after listening to this.

  • @seanvictorianheathbernard1319
    @seanvictorianheathbernard1319 2 роки тому +2

    Hey, really interesting video, I suscribed. Although, I usually sometimes look at 2 channels about LOA that talk mostly the same way you did here. I don't know which videos you're talking about but I think some channels are quite on point. But really it's all about how people react to the videos (like you said, dopamine rush, etc), not that it is necessary BS.

  • @fuckcommiechinee
    @fuckcommiechinee 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you!You saved my life!

  • @e11zabeth714
    @e11zabeth714 3 роки тому +4

    Niklas this is spot on!! Great video!! Thank you 🙏🏻💕

  • @mo8160
    @mo8160 11 місяців тому +2

    In my opinion, depending where you’re at subconsciously is why sometimes we need different techniques. We all have different past experiences that sometimes does not make us feel worthy of having a specific person do too I’m not feeling worthy or enough I believe working on yourself first, and realizing that you are worthy of having anything because I’m living proof, I had amazing relationship that I manifested but then I destroyed it with my negative thoughts😅

  • @pranavrawal9033
    @pranavrawal9033 3 роки тому +6

    Amazing man great video.

  • @freisein6554
    @freisein6554 2 роки тому +3

    Stop seeking and apply the principles instead, relax , have fun, keep it cool and playful.

  • @OO-ct4hq
    @OO-ct4hq 3 роки тому +3

    This video SLAPPED me hard.

  • @misamisa2677
    @misamisa2677 3 роки тому +1

    Loving unconditionally is loving for real so releasing is not easier but you do it because their happiness is important to you
    When its real you know it you cannot be same but those who truly unconditionally love anything is to let go if the other feels same eventually will return

  • @sam_so_nice
    @sam_so_nice 5 місяців тому

    thats so true. happened to me too. but after a while i felt so overwhelmed by all i found and i naturally stopped and focused on myself again. i believe that what i want will come naturally but not by forcing it.

  • @user-jn8kl4qy6n
    @user-jn8kl4qy6n 3 роки тому +9

    Thanks a lot ❤🌹🙏
    Ur literally helping and guiding us to awaken to our power 💪😌😌😌😌😌
    Thanks for the work , we
    Respect you , ❤Love you and wish a lot of blessing to you 😇😊💖

  • @beckinbinderin
    @beckinbinderin Рік тому

    Excellent video. I did find it a 'little' odd when watching a few videos about attracting an SP back. I most certainly do not want anyone obsessed with me, as that's dangerous. I quickly/eventually realised, as you mentioned, that I HAVE to make order of my own internal stability/thinking/safety/health. Without those, an ex SP should stay FAR away, until we're calm and open. Thank you for such a realistic video.
    P.s. Tarot cards... simply not the best idea. I went through that phase as well.

  • @livinginthenowwithranda213
    @livinginthenowwithranda213 3 роки тому +4

    Thank You Niclas this really helps I feel happiness within me now more and more that I am whole and complete that I am that which I seek the way you said it about seeing yourself well in my case happily married with a specific person I can feel the joy and the ease something about the way you spoke helped me feel more clear that I truely am my imagination it's like I've given myself permission or something? Does that make sense

  • @bodnarova05
    @bodnarova05 3 роки тому +20

    Those videos such as “ make them obsess and conform, leave third party etc” are cringey, not to mention harmful . those youtubers don’t care about people’s mental or physical health, plain and simple .

    • @eternalabundance39
      @eternalabundance39 2 роки тому

      Can you explain why you think if affects mental and even physical health? Just trying to learn.

    • @bodnarova05
      @bodnarova05 2 роки тому

      @@eternalabundance39 yes. Because these people are promising them results and for $, so a lot of people will not change themselves or do inner work. The UA-camrs know most people want instant gratification, they tell them what they want to hear, not what they need to hear. For example, I see many people “manifesting “ someone who’s married or someone who doesn’t want them at all. This leads to a lot of wasted time, unhappiness and even stalking and mental hospital visits. Women especially, they are feeling taken advantage of by the advice “ ignore your 3D, you can do what you want “. I’ve seen it all.

    • @tomgecko7727
      @tomgecko7727 5 місяців тому

      ​@@bodnarova05 is eypo real?circumstanced dont matter?because i see ypu are so good here

  • @santana9434
    @santana9434 2 роки тому +1

    This is probably the best video on manifesting on yt

  • @kathrynmarie1232
    @kathrynmarie1232 3 роки тому +17

    So true about manifesting a specific person or anything really. Neville was big on mental diets and the importance of thinking thoughts that only align with your desire. Being persistent is essential too which can be challenging for some. I think watching various videos is ok as long as it's helpful and not being used as an excuse for not doing the work of imagining. Thank you Niclas!

  • @MarianR1111
    @MarianR1111 Рік тому

    I think your main point is spot on.

  • @mr.languages9084
    @mr.languages9084 3 роки тому +5

    Great value thank you a lot))))))

  • @dominikaradosna7535
    @dominikaradosna7535 11 місяців тому +1

    Welcome. I have been applying Neville's teachings for many years while I have known Niclas' channel for a short time and try to follow his advice. I imagined the final scene with my SP as we walk side by side and hold hands (although I don't know if that's an ideal final scene) with such a sense that we are together. I imagined the scene from a first-person position and this happened 3 times in a month. Today, completely "accidentally" my son and I went for a walk together (we are divorced) and my son grabbed my hand and at one point tells him to grab my hand. And now my question: niclas says not to pay attention to the signs but my question: i wonder myself if something went wrong ;) or not at all.

  • @girlfromthespace5169
    @girlfromthespace5169 3 роки тому +2

    Absolutely fantastic

  • @dipikamondal6840
    @dipikamondal6840 3 роки тому +3

    Oh my god thanks for making this

  • @Alia_1111
    @Alia_1111 2 роки тому +6

    Such an incredible vid because I've lived this. But when you completely surrender to people/things, you find peace and then you don't care if what you desire comes or not lol

  • @baojn6473
    @baojn6473 3 роки тому +4

    Niclas can you please do a video about changing appearance?
    Also how to deal with insecurity with that and how to ignore the 3D if we see it daily ?

    • @upgradetolife
      @upgradetolife  3 роки тому +3

      Check out this video I did and stop ignoring: ua-cam.com/video/dail3H6IuRw/v-deo.html

  • @sinentokozosibeko3675
    @sinentokozosibeko3675 Рік тому

    👌👌👌... & yet seemingly the desperation was as if part of the process

  • @bellaanthony464
    @bellaanthony464 Рік тому

    Some coaches will use the title of Get Them Obsessed, just to catch the audiences eyes! Then when you get in and watch, they’re very practical and are using good info such as yourself. Others are just nutty!

  • @user-ty5zr2jn6v
    @user-ty5zr2jn6v Рік тому +1

    U and your teachings are awesome ❤

  • @blondie0075
    @blondie0075 2 роки тому +2

    Neville manifested a SP; he also told the story of Mrs. JE, I think those were the initials.

  • @MrsMelMel1977
    @MrsMelMel1977 2 роки тому +1

    This video is awesome 😎😊

  • @qingmaio7962
    @qingmaio7962 3 роки тому +3

    love your voice calm me down

  • @daffuduck
    @daffuduck 3 роки тому +3

    Very good!

  • @susanwolfla6125
    @susanwolfla6125 2 роки тому +2

    Great video. I think i will listen to it again.

    • @texassage5629
      @texassage5629 2 роки тому

      Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love.. I know of a great man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours....
      He brought my ex back to me within 48 hours, his manifestation works perfectly

    • @texassage5629
      @texassage5629 2 роки тому

      WhatsAp him

  • @zaprojektujswojezycieswiad1765
    @zaprojektujswojezycieswiad1765 3 роки тому +1

    wow, thank you😍

  • @Dhanyaaas
    @Dhanyaaas 2 роки тому +1

    Wonderful and very clearly explained. Much much appreciation and Gratitude. 💕♥️✨

  • @luksay1767
    @luksay1767 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you!