If I'm tired my husband is exhausted, if I have a headache he's got a migraine, if I had a bad day he's had a bad week..GOD FORBID I GET SICK.. he will be dying
My husband likes to joke. He also doesn't know how to compliment. He's on the shy side with low self-esteem, so making people laugh is his security blanket. Thing is, one can't be funny all the time, specially when they don't know how to nurture the other side. No compliments and too much joking is a bad mix. Yes! I've been hard on him setting boundaries and he feels attacked. Oh well. Suck it up. I'm not giving up on us, nor on mysel. ❤
Okay, am I crazy in thinking that a lot of this is the spouse's problem? I could be totally wrong, but I also feel like a lot of this is born out of sin on the spouse's side.
Certainly choosing to share with someone else is a poor choice. The hope was these 4 possibilities could start a discussion that would help a couple move towards reconnexting
How to do that he makes $ through his disability he is in back pain a lot but he spends whatever on whatever he does pay the truck payment and got groceries last week
In a Christian marriage, you have to check out on God, first, before you check out on your spouse. Or, is a marriage committment like a revolving door, checked in for the honeymoon, checked out for the rest...? Marriage is a vow to keep our promises to God first, to persevere even through the hard times without compromise. Except in the case of infidelity, God expects us to stay checked in.
God expects us to serve Him. That may not be within a physically or mentally abusive and damaging marriage. My husband wanted me DEAD. Guess where I'd most likely be if I had stayed. God saved my life from removing me from what was going to kill me, quite literally. Your opine is only that.
Yeah the sarcasm and questions + rocky finances + ADHD 😮. I do feel I could fix the first 2 😊
Most women opt to cheat first. It’s exciting to them. But they’ll definitely confide in their dear hubby when they need money or something fixed
Your spouse should be able to ask anything and not be responsible for your response.
If I'm tired my husband is exhausted, if I have a headache he's got a migraine, if I had a bad day he's had a bad week..GOD FORBID I GET SICK.. he will be dying
My husband likes to joke. He also doesn't know how to compliment. He's on the shy side with low self-esteem, so making people laugh is his security blanket. Thing is, one can't be funny all the time, specially when they don't know how to nurture the other side. No compliments and too much joking is a bad mix. Yes! I've been hard on him setting boundaries and he feels attacked.
Oh well. Suck it up. I'm not giving up on us, nor on mysel. ❤
Okay, am I crazy in thinking that a lot of this is the spouse's problem? I could be totally wrong, but I also feel like a lot of this is born out of sin on the spouse's side.
Certainly choosing to share with someone else is a poor choice. The hope was these 4 possibilities could start a discussion that would help a couple move towards reconnexting
A great video, personally doing inventory I wonder if it’s possible to check multiple boxes?
It’s always possible to check multiple boxes on any list of behaviors we exhibit
The use of ssris for anxiety and depression can contribute.
True, mental health struggles can always play a part
It's the loss of libido and feeling of love from emotional numbness caused by using ssris that can create a problem in even the longest relationships.
How to do that he makes $ through his disability he is in back pain a lot but he spends whatever on whatever he does pay the truck payment and got groceries last week
In a Christian marriage, you have to check out on God, first, before you check out on your spouse. Or, is a marriage committment like a revolving door, checked in for the honeymoon, checked out for the rest...?
Marriage is a vow to keep our promises to God first, to persevere even through the hard times without compromise.
Except in the case of infidelity, God expects us to stay checked in.
why is there exception with infidelity?
Religion destroyed my marriage.
God expects us to serve Him. That may not be within a physically or mentally abusive and damaging marriage. My husband wanted me DEAD. Guess where I'd most likely be if I had stayed. God saved my life from removing me from what was going to kill me, quite literally. Your opine is only that.
You ain't got noooooooo money . . . .