i think emma might have forgotten to put time stamps in the description, so here you go: 💕 1:43 - the cause + love yourself 3:24 - expanding your comfort zone 6:24 - don’t isolate yourself 7:23 - people aren’t judging you 8:34 - stop overthinking 9:46 - starting fresh 11:48 - opposites attract 13:25 - it’s okay to have setbacks xox
Oo yes! I’m quite a quiet person, and it always annoys me when people say “your shy aren’t u” and I know they don’t mean it in a mean way, but it still annoys my anyway, as it’s the thing I hate most of myself, and I’m trying so hard to make myself less shy!, thank you for posting this, I loved hearing your story xo
Emma thank you so much for this. I don't want to make this all about me but I am really shy I can't talk to anyone normally and that has lead to anxiety. I struggle to even get to school anymore and its been pretty bad. But when I started watching you you would make me smile and it helped so much I am now getting the help I need because of you. I am now opening up to family and getting better every day. Just wanted to thank you for that xx
This was definitely for me. Thank you so much. Recently I’ve come to the realization that I’m not myself when I’m around people I don’t know that much (mostly cause I’m not confident and not comfortable showing people who I really am). I’ve always been super shy but I’ve always HATED it. So I’m slowly working towards being myself and letting go. This was so helpful. THANK YOU
Priscilla Owusu Pankyee so true! I still would consider myself a shy person (and don’t think that will ever change), but I’ve just learnt ways to manage it and not let it hinder me when it comes to social situations, friendships and other opportunities 😊
I am introverted, shy and have stress. I want to start a fresh start because I live in our house for 10 year. I want to move, rn I am waiting for the keys and starting over again. You are my favourite UA-camr and you help me a lot, thanks ❤️❤️
This is something that im going then currently. Im a very introverted person and im not very confident in myself. I havent hung out with anyone yet on summer break, just been in my room all day. I just feel so alone and this video helped me realize so many things. Thank you❤️
I relate to this so much! The phone calls and shopping alone. I always have a hard time getting myself to not sprint through the mall when im bymyself shopping because im so nervous about being alone in public i litterally get tired shopping bymyself because im walking so fast breathing heavier panicking (even just at walmart) now i work at walmart and im starting to get used to it 😅
your such an inspiration Emma ✨, coming from a 13 almost 14 year old girl, I'm always super shy around people when I'm in public because I'm so scared of what they think about me or just meeting someone new and trying to start off a conversation is so hard for me because I don't really know what to say. I appreciate all of your advice and I hopefully will start to incorporated it into my everyday life. - thank you, Mia 😊
Loved the vid! Helped me so much! Edit: I just realized that every vid you make actually helps most of us in a way that we can’t imagine 😯. Keep up the great work!
i myself am a very shy person, but i have started going out a lot more and making more eye contact with people, which actually made a huge difference. i am still shy but i feel a lot more confident☺️
Today I was talking with my friends about how I was very open when I was young but growing up I became shy and I start to feel social anexity this helped 😭💕
This was much more helpful than other videos I had watched because it’s intimate and a testimony not a robotic description of the weird brain of a shy person. It’s a great journey and it helped me. I’m 38 and I have accomplished a lot but you gave really information. Thank you for sharing.
Omgggg I SOOOOO love you!! I’ve never watched a video where i can relate SOOO SOO MUCH!! everything that you said as in 100% of what you said in the video is what i experienced, thought, and realized! ohmygod i.love.you.
Every single one of your videos are helpful to me, the braces videos (I'm getting braces soon!) This video has kind of told me everything that will solve my issue. Thank you sooo much for making these videos! Never stop, let the haters hate! Love you Emma! ❤❤💖💖💓💓💝💝💞💞🌹🌹💝💝
You're cute, beautiful, charming and so friendly, my soul smiles every time it sees you. Being shy for you should be a crime lol. I'm so happy you exist
I was just binge watching your old videos, and stumbled across this one. I clicked on it immediately because I knew it was for me. I watched the entire video last night and every single thing you just mentioned, made SO much sense. Although I do excellent with class speeches and such, I still am never able to talk to other people besides my immediate family and friends. I've missed out on NUMEROUS, LIFE-CHANGING events and opportunities, due to my shyness.-- I can't tell the waiter my order, without not looking at his eyes and whispering under my breath. I can't go out with my family and another family without them calling me a mouse, or ,"She's so quiet. Is she taking a vow of silence?''. I cant even say, ''Good, and you'' because I feel so intimidated by them. I've told my mum I wanted to pursue acting ( i still do), and she told me, "How can you do acting, when you can't even talk to someone.'' And that really had an effect on my self-esteem. Listening to what i just wrote, makes me think about it more, and realize how silly I was being. I'm only 13...and yes, I know that's kinda small to be feeling ''shy''...but that's just the way it is. But after watching this video, I've come to my senses and realized that people aren't judging me and why should I care if they even are? I've also realized that i only have one shot at doing something, and i will try my very best to not let my shyness overcome me. I will try and gradually push myself up, and be the best me i could possibly be. Emma, if you're reading this...(thank you for making it this far, lol) i just want to say, this video has helped me tremendously. Thank you so so much for sharing this. It made me realize that I'm not alone. This video is so inspirational. You're my new role model ;) THANK U (also, i got braces like a week ago, and you're braces videos also helped me a lot, lol. thank you) Keep well, Lots of love ;)
Wow this is such a great video that will help a lot of people:). A year or so ago I noticed myself beginning to become shy all of the sudden but thankfully dug myself out of it before it got too bad!
You’re so beautiful you should believe in yourself, but also know it’s okay not to be perfect, I adore you and your videos but you spend a lot of your energy making sure you look and sound perfect and you don’t need to! You’re absolutely gorgeous inside and out , just relax and be you , also I’m super happy you’ve found your confidence you deserve every ounce ❤️❤️❤️
You know what? I hate you..I hate that you're right and everything you said hit me hard to the gut. I'm currently dealing with shyness rn and well I'm finding an easy way out and I just stumble in this video. After watching this video I have realized a lot of things in my life. I guess I'll start applying you're suggestions from now on. Thank you sm ❤️ I really learned a lot from you🥰
Oh yes Emma thank you for the amazing video! i can relate to almost everything you did especially eye contact which i still struggle with and overthinking/planning what's going to happen i really needed that because i am so shy especially in school but to let you know you totally helped me and im now going out of my comfort zone and volunteered to run 400m for sports day while the whole of year 8 including the teachers will be watching. i still don't know if im up for this and am sooo nervous but its done so i can't change it. love youxxx
I got over not looking people in the eye by staring intensely into their eyes and being afraid to blink, this only happens when I converse with people. I would remember their eye colors because of this.
I really needed this coz I’m quite shy and everything she said I’ve litterally done like not going to school 😂😂 this has helped me a lot thanks Emma xxx
I don't think I can ever be like you. Man, I found your channel after looking up braces. Even after I'm done with it, moving onto retainers now, I don't think I can do a video documenting my journey with it. Heh, I will probably just say "Just don't keep thinking about how it interferes with your life and just move on." I love your videos and I look forward to the next one :D
You are all amazing and you can overcome everything you want to. Be determined and don't let fear or your thoughts to cloud your judgment, because you can! I belive in you
Oh my gosh thank you for sharing all of this because I literally struggle with everything you mentioned and it's made me realize everything I can do to make things easier
I am so early, but I want to let you know just before I got the notification I did a 30 minute meditation to prepare myself for the day. My family is coming over and I feel much better and I’m no longer nervous. And then I got this video, I know today will be a good day ❤️❤️
Whos here in 2020 i am because this girl inspires me so much thank so much Emma you mean I lot to me i feel like to cry because I see that you want through the same stuff I am going through right now so thank you a million time thank and hope you have a great week byee.😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍👏
Oh my god!!!! I just discovered your channel and I’m already in love with your content your so positive and just have this supportive, inspiring energy around you!!! Ty for this video means a lot since I’m super shy I think I might start taking your advice and tips for a fresh start when I start school (I’m going into year 9 *ahhhh help*)
what a great video you have created this will deffo help people and a lot of what you have said reminded me of myself I've always struggled with being shy but over the last few years I have approved alot .. this really is a great video thank you for sharing Emma :)
I’d have some more confidence if: I didn’t have a tooth gap although it’s so tiny but still! If I had longer nails cuz I’m a nail biter... And hmm if dropped a few kilos (like 4kg I guess). I wasn’t so shy jeez haha I’m not looking for attention here btw, just wanted to write it all down y’know ♥️
Youre probably the only one who actually cares about your gap, a lot of chances are that people don't even notice it. And even if they do, they don't really care and mind it at all. A lot of people have gaps! Its no big deal, appreciate the rest of your appearance, focus and be thankful for the features you love!
i think emma might have forgotten to put time stamps in the description, so here you go: 💕
1:43 - the cause + love yourself
3:24 - expanding your comfort zone
6:24 - don’t isolate yourself
7:23 - people aren’t judging you
8:34 - stop overthinking
9:46 - starting fresh
11:48 - opposites attract
13:25 - it’s okay to have setbacks
xox
Thank you 👏🏽😊
Trinity Alexiaa no worries xx
thank you so much for doing this, I rlly appreciate it!! I got distracted watching Black Mirror and then fell asleep 😂
Emma Louise ILYSM😍❤️
Emma Louise lol, no problem. ilysm! 💕
I always feel like *everyone* is judging me, so thank you so much for this! 💕
Same i have nooo self
Same I thought everyone would judge me.
Hello the best success that I have had was by using the Seans Shy Program (just google it) - without a doubt the most helpful idea i've followed.
Samee i cant wait to get over this
Same, whenever I am texting someone and they take too long to reply I feel like they don’t like me and don’t want to talk 😔
2:25 “u owe urself the love that u freely give to other ppl” that hit me real hard 💔 thank uuu sm!!!! 😭
I went to a concert by MYSELF which is definitely out of my comfort zone. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
"Your comfort zone is the enemy of progress." YES! Nothing exciting ever happens in our comfort zone.
I love the way you presented the video. Like the candle, flowers, all white. It’s really relaxing aha
I know right I love her!
Oo yes! I’m quite a quiet person, and it always annoys me when people say “your shy aren’t u” and I know they don’t mean it in a mean way, but it still annoys my anyway, as it’s the thing I hate most of myself, and I’m trying so hard to make myself less shy!, thank you for posting this, I loved hearing your story xo
Why should we overcome shyness* It is a part of beauty..and honesty showcase of a human...
Emma thank you so much for this. I don't want to make this all about me but I am really shy I can't talk to anyone normally and that has lead to anxiety. I struggle to even get to school anymore and its been pretty bad. But when I started watching you you would make me smile and it helped so much I am now getting the help I need because of you. I am now opening up to family and getting better every day. Just wanted to thank you for that xx
This was definitely for me. Thank you so much. Recently I’ve come to the realization that I’m not myself when I’m around people I don’t know that much (mostly cause I’m not confident and not comfortable showing people who I really am). I’ve always been super shy but I’ve always HATED it. So I’m slowly working towards being myself and letting go. This was so helpful. THANK YOU
How are you going? 😁
Shyness doesn't really go away you can change some things but it still remains.
Priscilla Owusu Pankyee so true! I still would consider myself a shy person (and don’t think that will ever change), but I’ve just learnt ways to manage it and not let it hinder me when it comes to social situations, friendships and other opportunities 😊
@@EmmaLouiseHarvey it's good you've learn't how to do that I'm a shy person too😊
I am introverted, shy and have stress.
I want to start a fresh start because I live in our house for 10 year. I want to move, rn I am waiting for the keys and starting over again. You are my favourite UA-camr and you help me a lot, thanks ❤️❤️
I hope you got that fresh start
I am 21 and am still finding it so hard to overcome my shyness. Thank you so much for your advice Emma! I’ve written everything down xx
This is something that im going then currently. Im a very introverted person and im not very confident in myself. I havent hung out with anyone yet on summer break, just been in my room all day. I just feel so alone and this video helped me realize so many things. Thank you❤️
I relate to this so much! The phone calls and shopping alone. I always have a hard time getting myself to not sprint through the mall when im bymyself shopping because im so nervous about being alone in public i litterally get tired shopping bymyself because im walking so fast breathing heavier panicking (even just at walmart) now i work at walmart and im starting to get used to it 😅
Thank you.... I rlly needed this
your such an inspiration Emma ✨, coming from a 13 almost 14 year old girl, I'm always super shy around people when I'm in public because I'm so scared of what they think about me or just meeting someone new and trying to start off a conversation is so hard for me because I don't really know what to say. I appreciate all of your advice and I hopefully will start to incorporated it into my everyday life. - thank you, Mia 😊
From being shy to now...wow!❤️
I'm gonna cryyyyy.. this is so me.. this motivates me alot! WE LOVE YOU EMMA
Loved the vid! Helped me so much!
Edit: I just realized that every vid you make actually helps most of us in a way that we can’t imagine 😯. Keep up the great work!
i myself am a very shy person, but i have started going out a lot more and making more eye contact with people, which actually made a huge difference. i am still shy but i feel a lot more confident☺️
Today I was talking with my friends about how I was very open when I was young but growing up I became shy and I start to feel social anexity this helped 😭💕
This was much more helpful than other videos I had watched because it’s intimate and a testimony not a robotic description of the weird brain of a shy person. It’s a great journey and it helped me. I’m 38 and I have accomplished a lot but you gave really information. Thank you for sharing.
I love you Emma! At first I was confused cause I saw the title was confidence...but you changed it. #notisquad!🥰
Omgggg I SOOOOO love you!! I’ve never watched a video where i can relate SOOO SOO MUCH!! everything that you said as in 100% of what you said in the video is what i experienced, thought, and realized! ohmygod i.love.you.
Every single one of your videos are helpful to me, the braces videos (I'm getting braces soon!) This video has kind of told me everything that will solve my issue. Thank you sooo much for making these videos! Never stop, let the haters hate! Love you Emma! ❤❤💖💖💓💓💝💝💞💞🌹🌹💝💝
You're cute, beautiful, charming and so friendly, my soul smiles every time it sees you. Being shy for you should be a crime lol. I'm so happy you exist
I was just binge watching your old videos, and stumbled across this one. I clicked on it immediately because I knew it was for me. I watched the entire video last night and every single thing you just mentioned, made SO much sense. Although I do excellent with class speeches and such, I still am never able to talk to other people besides my immediate family and friends. I've missed out on NUMEROUS, LIFE-CHANGING events and opportunities, due to my shyness.-- I can't tell the waiter my order, without not looking at his eyes and whispering under my breath. I can't go out with my family and another family without them calling me a mouse, or ,"She's so quiet. Is she taking a vow of silence?''. I cant even say, ''Good, and you'' because I feel so intimidated by them. I've told my mum I wanted to pursue acting ( i still do), and she told me, "How can you do acting, when you can't even talk to someone.'' And that really had an effect on my self-esteem.
Listening to what i just wrote, makes me think about it more, and realize how silly I was being. I'm only 13...and yes, I know that's kinda small to be feeling ''shy''...but that's just the way it is. But after watching this video, I've come to my senses and realized that people aren't judging me and why should I care if they even are? I've also realized that i only have one shot at doing something, and i will try my very best to not let my shyness overcome me. I will try and gradually push myself up, and be the best me i could possibly be.
Emma, if you're reading this...(thank you for making it this far, lol) i just want to say, this video has helped me tremendously. Thank you so so much for sharing this. It made me realize that I'm not alone. This video is so inspirational. You're my new role model ;) THANK U
(also, i got braces like a week ago, and you're braces videos also helped me a lot, lol. thank you)
Keep well,
Lots of love ;)
This is exactly what I need, I’m always shy and I always wanted find tips on how to change and I feel like this will help me ❤️❤️❤️
Just needed this! Thank you Emma💖😍
Wow this is such a great video that will help a lot of people:). A year or so ago I noticed myself beginning to become shy all of the sudden but thankfully dug myself out of it before it got too bad!
You’re so beautiful you should believe in yourself, but also know it’s okay not to be perfect, I adore you and your videos but you spend a lot of your energy making sure you look and sound perfect and you don’t need to! You’re absolutely gorgeous inside and out , just relax and be you , also I’m super happy you’ve found your confidence you deserve every ounce ❤️❤️❤️
I'm even shy to comment on UA-cam vids sometimes 😂
You know what? I hate you..I hate that you're right and everything you said hit me hard to the gut. I'm currently dealing with shyness rn and well I'm finding an easy way out and I just stumble in this video. After watching this video I have realized a lot of things in my life. I guess I'll start applying you're suggestions from now on. Thank you sm ❤️ I really learned a lot from you🥰
I really enjoyed this video🙂I related to everything that was said. Thank you for the advice💓
I love you so much❤️You are so good,funny,talented and sweet❤️Just keep smiling❤️
hi pls remember that i love you and theres a loy of people that appreciate you💜 lots of love!
Oh yes Emma thank you for the amazing video! i can relate to almost everything you did especially eye contact which i still struggle with and overthinking/planning what's going to happen i really needed that because i am so shy especially in school but to let you know you totally helped me and im now going out of my comfort zone and volunteered to run 400m for sports day while the whole of year 8 including the teachers will be watching. i still don't know if im up for this and am sooo nervous but its done so i can't change it. love youxxx
This is such a heart warming video I love your confidence 💕💕💕 xxx
why am i watching this. i’m pretty sure i’m like the loudest person in my class but cute video! i needed the self love stuff 😂😂
Omg I love you so so so so sooo much so excited for this new video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
this helped me soo much, thankyou 🖤x
you have no idea how helpful and encouraging this video was emma!! i needed to hear these things so much.💓
I got over not looking people in the eye by staring intensely into their eyes and being afraid to blink, this only happens when I converse with people. I would remember their eye colors because of this.
I really needed this coz I’m quite shy and everything she said I’ve litterally done like not going to school 😂😂 this has helped me a lot thanks Emma xxx
Thank you! That was so helpful because I have always been so shy and I've missed so many chances in life because of it.
I don't think I can ever be like you. Man, I found your channel after looking up braces. Even after I'm done with it, moving onto retainers now, I don't think I can do a video documenting my journey with it.
Heh, I will probably just say "Just don't keep thinking about how it interferes with your life and just move on."
I love your videos and I look forward to the next one :D
OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH EMMA! I rlly needed this! Thank you thank you thank you
Video suggestion: you could do one of these videos in ASMR, your voice would be perfect for it!! Xx💞💞💞
Love you Emma, Thankyou! Xxxxxx
amazing, really needed this Thankyou Emma xx
You are all amazing and you can overcome everything you want to. Be determined and don't let fear or your thoughts to cloud your judgment, because you can! I belive in you
Your so pretty and your such a good youtuber! xx
I know its been two years but I really love this video thank you girl makes me feel less lonely 🦋
You're AMAZIINGGG!!
An angel❤❤
Oh my gosh thank you for sharing all of this because I literally struggle with everything you mentioned and it's made me realize everything I can do to make things easier
Girl you have the sweetest most gentle personality 💚
I am so early, but I want to let you know just before I got the notification I did a 30 minute meditation to prepare myself for the day. My family is coming over and I feel much better and I’m no longer nervous. And then I got this video, I know today will be a good day ❤️❤️
that's so amazing to hear ❤️
You don’t know how much I relate to this video, I really appreciate it thank you 🙏 ♥️
Whos here in 2020 i am because this girl inspires me so much thank so much Emma you mean I lot to me i feel like to cry because I see that you want through the same stuff I am going through right now so thank you a million time thank and hope you have a great week byee.😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍👏
Oh my god!!!! I just discovered your channel and I’m already in love with your content your so positive and just have this supportive, inspiring energy around you!!! Ty for this video means a lot since I’m super shy I think I might start taking your advice and tips for a fresh start when I start school (I’m going into year 9 *ahhhh help*)
You are such an amazing UA-camr. You deserve more subscribers
Thank you so much for making all your braces videos! They’ve helped me SO much! You are so sweet!
First like! Ilyyyyy x ur so prettyyyy🥰
Thank you for making this video and for all the encouragements!☺️💛 happy to see you come so far!
This was a great video and that is coming from someone who struggles with social anxiety and shyness.
ur amazing 💗 keep on being yourself and continue to inspire!!
This video was really helpful. I literally overthink EVERYTHING. I'm in highschool and I already worry about my first job interview 😂
Shyness is inherited.
Thank you so much Emma 💖 I really needed this xxx
Hey sweetie.. I haven't watched yet.. But gonna like.. Love ya.. ❤️❤️
So happy to see you back!🥰
thank you so much for this video i can get really nervous to speak infront of people so i will try these tips and hopefully it will work
idk if you’ve done like a high school experience or storytimes about highschool or year 10 but that would be interesting :)
Thank you so much for doing this video, it's really inspired me, I hope I can start to be more confident now ily xxx🥰💓
Thank you so much for helping me ❤️❤️
You are amazing💕 Beautiful video, loved the journal thing
Inspirational 🥰
I feel so much better after watching this video ❤️ Love you. ❤️❤️❤️
what a great video you have created this will deffo help people and a lot of what you have said reminded me of myself I've always struggled with being shy but over the last few years I have approved alot .. this really is a great video thank you for sharing Emma :)
This is so important. Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips. You are beautiful on the inside & out! xo :)
Thank you so much! You have really helped me.
this is exactly what I needed thank you Emma!!
I’d have some more confidence if:
I didn’t have a tooth gap although it’s so tiny but still!
If I had longer nails cuz I’m a nail biter...
And hmm if dropped a few kilos (like 4kg I guess).
I wasn’t so shy jeez haha
I’m not looking for attention here btw, just wanted to write it all down y’know ♥️
Youre probably the only one who actually cares about your gap, a lot of chances are that people don't even notice it. And even if they do, they don't really care and mind it at all. A lot of people have gaps! Its no big deal, appreciate the rest of your appearance, focus and be thankful for the features you love!
beach ? Omg thank u!! Ilysm♥️♥️♥️ god bless xoxo
I’m actually tearing up, aw ur so sweet
@@muffinmonster2634 love you too! you are beautiful ❤
same feel u bro
thank u so much for this, everything i’ve needed to hear xx
Shyness,social anxiety, embarrassment and blushing seem to be a revolving cycle for me and I have so much trouble dealing with it all,
We support! Youuuuu
You are so amazing Emma 💕 this was very helpful THANK YOU 🙏🏼 ❤️
Thank you for doing this
Great ☺️☺️ feel the need to change
Thank you for this video Emma 💕💕💕 very helpful x👍🏻
This was very helpful and inspiring tysm Emma, love you💕
i love u emma!!!! thank u for this video!!!
Love your channel
Really needed this , thank you 💕
I feel so related to this video.
I loved this. You’re so gorgeous and have a lovely personality and are loved by many ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙂🙂🙂 learned a lot from you
I love your hair💝
Love it❤Im shy so i love watching this
First ILYSM
crafty unicorns *9th
Thank you so much🙏💕