Victim Finds Out Future Husband Is A Romance Scammer!
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A plastic surgeon who works for the UN, earns 8 million dollars, gets escorted by helicopter and jets but who is virtually broke and relies on gift cards. Yup, sounds legit.
They believe what they want to believe despite any evidence put in front of their eyes. It must be terrible to have somebody like that in your family.
I saw in this channel a woman who gave to the scammer her mother's retirement money. She was her main caregiver, so she had access to her money. She had no other job.
The investigators gave her all the evidence, she understood it was a scam. A few days later: she followed her routine: every Wednesday she sent money to the scammer. The investigators asked: why? You know it is a scammer!. She: IDK! It is just what I do every Wednesday! I have being doing it for years!
Another scammed man I saw: the day after they showed him the evidences of the scam, he went back to interact with the scammer as if nothing happened. That man had said to his wife he was leaving her for the "other woman". The wife knew he was being scammed, so she called these UA-cam investigators.
It looks like a very strong addiction, similar to gambling addiction: they know they are losing all their money there, yet they cannot stop doing it.
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Same story every time! But you know, everyone here have high standard, no one will date anyone less than millionaires. No one use logic anymore. Make it even worse when she ask why. Well, he want your money lady
And he needs help with his phone bill.
🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yea, you got to be new level crazy to belive in that 💩.
Five failed marriages then you’re wanting to marry someone after a couple months? Stop and focus on your kids.
Not even a person -- a few digital images and some text bubbles.
I was married 11yrs ago, I did the formal divorce 7yrs ago, and I have been single since,i have been working on me and what issues I had to make sure when I decide or if I date I do not repeat my mistakes from the past, I cant even wrap my head around how many times this lady married. That is a strong Nigerian accent how could anyone not hear that wow. I spent Time seeking the Lord,she should do the same, I have a teen son, she could have focused on the Lord, focused on herself and just been a mum, the right man would have come along. Edit,I'm not casting stones at her as some think, I find it totally sad,one divorce broke me, my ex cheated and abandoned me and our 2yr old to pursue his gf, I didnt want to carry this trauma into any other relationship and I also didnt want to make mistakes dating, this lady needs to love herself more, marriage isnt a Mickey mouse show,it should be taken seriously.
@@DL-ep5ukHaving tics and twitches is nothing like the other things in that list. The others are things people can control. Shove your ableism.
First two words pot of his mouth: Nigerian.
I’m married to a doctor. Trust me, it’s not just true if us, but if all our physician friends, make and female: Doctors marry well educated people. Always.
They’re not going to troll some below-average anonymous person.
This lady needs a hobby-a new hobby, that is.
Another hopeless one. Sure hope at least some of her kids have higher intelligence and better sense.
@@lee-lee6835 You are someone with a decent head on your shoulders and I wish you much happiness in your life. I've noticed in my own family those like my mother or the 90 yr old widow across the road and even my own late grandmother, once they were left alone due to their husbands passing away they all stayed alone and the reason why is they didn't have picture perfect marriages they had the ones filled with abuses of different kinds. It's always those that have had cakewalks and are the type to just leave over little things that get up to 5 marriages and divorces and still keeps looking, ready to jump into a marriage again after 2 months without even meeting. This woman is mentally ill in this video and she needs to work on herself, her relationship with God and her children. Because if you cannot be happy by yourself with yourself then you will never find happiness with another person.
I wish you luck iin your life Lee Lee, God bless!
The real victims are her 7 children, having a delusional mother like this.
Her poor child, at 5/6, had to save himself by going to his teacher after his mother chose to ignore the abuse. That speaks volumes about her character. It’s one thing to believe your religion and try to work things out, but the second someone hurts your child that is where your allegiance to any church or spouse should end. She “feels like she’s a good person” but gives money for some D- and not for her kids. That gold coin and all those gift cards she gave away to some rando was money I’m sure her children needed…
I have a sister going through this. We are sending her these videos and hoping for a miracle
@@BoredchinchillaI was thinking about that, too. And I also thought how I imagine she was mad at her son for that- the way she spoke about it came across to me as if she was upset about losing that relationship rather than upset at the abuse the son/kids were suffering from the man. I’ve seen way too much of this sort of thing in different cases. I hope the kids have grown up and had good lives regardless of everything.
@@BoredchinchillaIt also goes to show the problems within those that are super religious, too. Not saying that all religious people ignore abuse, but I do tend to notice that many ultra religious people that are fundies often tend to ignore child abuse- even going so far as to normalize it and say that it's just a parent disciplining their child.
Guess what? Being married is NOT mandatory.
😂😂ain't that the truth!!
But it actually is in the Mormon faith. You have to be married to reach the highest degree of heaven, that’s why she’s so desperate.
How a person can calmly say “you are sealed with your spouse forever” when they have been divorced five times is beyond me.
My husband and I were married 36 years. Wow we did have some MAJOR ups and downs. We took marital vows. We figured it and out and stayed together.
She would have stayed in the first marriage if her hubs hadn’t been physically abusive to her and her kids. Especially since her mom gave her that horrible mandate to work it out. ‘’Trying harder” with abusive partners just won’t work. They need boundaries to stop the escalating abuse. She was lucky to get out safely.
Cult, not a church.
She's desperate, jumps from man to man, have horrific judgment and is emotionally immature. Even at her advanced age, she still is not emotionally ready for any adult relationship. Unfortunately that is the example she set for 7 children who had new dads like a revolving door.
@@debmccafferty1007that’s great that you guys did but people who are incredibly unhappy in a marriage even after trying to work things out shouldn’t feel that they NEED to stay in the marriage. That’ll just make them more miserable
She married in Temple to a man who abused her and her children, and twice more to men in her church, but says marriage outside the church doesn’t work for her. I think she is very delusional.
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Yeah, 3 out of 3 divorces within the church and 2 out of 2 divorces outside the church both come out to 100%. I'd think at #5 you'd wonder "maybe its me...".
I said the something she married in and out of the temple and it didn’t work. The only common factor here is you. Obviously you are choosing wrong and not giving yourself time to heal
She believes the age old lie that there is a god so that is the start to her delusion
@@charmainewalker8627she's not "choosing wrong" at this point. It's pretty unlikely that 5 separate men are all horrible assholes, it's more likely she's the problem. Nobody chooses wrong 5 times in a row.
61, with 7 kids and married 5 times??? BINGO shes a prime target for scammers
She won't find a partner easily unfortunately. She seems nice and is cute but 6 children and 4 marriages is a lot! I was married once for 27 years. Divorced for 7. He divorced me and our 5 children were adults when we divorced (FYI I'm 54 now) most men using online dating sites to meet women want a partner 10 to 20 years younger (I'm lucky because I like older men) and they don't want minor children. Idk her children's ages. I'm still watching.
She has probably only had sex with those 5 men. For that she has to be married. My mom was the same. She was married 5 times as well...because she adhered to those religious standards. She is therefore not a tramp like others. Most people have sex with everyone they date and the relationships play out.
I think she's LDS so that's not unusual.
Those things don't make her a perfect target... her lack of common sense does.
@@susanlett9632cute? She talks like a 10 year old and keeps introducing random men to her kids to the point one ab used them.
Desperate , childish, gullible. No idea how this woman has got through life
you forgot to mention, stupid
Yeah, I was just talking to Johnny Depp about this very thing the other day. He said he couldn't believe how gullible anyone could be and as soon as his manager could arrange it, we would have a private chat about it in person.
I'll be sending him $5000 to fix the landing gear on his private jet so he can pick me up at LAX. I'm sure he'll be there!
And why are you speaking to MY boyfriend?
@Vonononie I think you must be mistaken. Johnny loves me! ❤
@@sunnyscott4876I am more than sure that he loves ME
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😂that’s hilarious
She’s part of a church that says she must be sealed to her spouse forever yet she’s divorced five times, oh the irony. Do these people hear themselves…
Lol the entire Mormon religion was started by a sexual predator unhappy to be stuck with one wife….and lived during a time where divorce was a big no-no and adultery was illegal. So what did Joseph Smith do to solve his dilemma? Why, he started a religion! Lol.
And she says she can't marry someone outside her church because she tried that before and it didn't work, but three of the five former spouses were from her church, so...
Welcome to the Mormon cult.
@@Joel-z9qthat's exactly what I replied on another comment.
How does it make sense in her mind? She's had more failed marriages outside her faith.
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A plastic surgeon who can’t afford to pay for his phone 🤔
Should have said he accidentally left it inside someone's tummy tuck.
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Dearie, he doesn't have "that kind of money"!!! 8 million doesn't exist!! Stop drooling over fake b.s.!!
@@dennisd9554 you beat me to it lol
@@dennisd9554the crazy thing....these women would believe it!
She’s not playing with a full deck. And these scammers are hell bound
That's a most unkind remark.
Yeah…. the delusion is deep. She said she always want to help someone so she cashed a gold bar! NO, send a user to jail - do not pass go!! Oh and she couldn’t tell an African accent from an European accent???
I think she was just so desperate for love.
@thefuzzfactor2989I hope you’re joking. It’s not unkind if it’s true. She’s clearly intellectually impaired and has the emotional maturity of a preteen
She has a very childlike behavior to her. It’s very sad because she acts like a 13 year old instead of a 60 year old, you can tell the abuse and trauma she’s suffered stunted her emotional development and growth
i agree and her voice literally sounds like a 13 year old, its strange : (
@@sunbeam3658and keeps asking like a broken hearted teenager WHY why did you that to me why? Duh ! The obvious is not computing in her child brain .
OR she's just stupid.
Yes very immature and naive, plus lack of self esteem.
Low intelligence.
My kids roll their eyes when I buy yarn. They need to watch these - they’ll be much less worried about yarn purchases after seeing these!! 😂
Yes! That is funny.
Lool they should be glad mom buying yarn for crafts...waaay way more productive than dating online
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My son said the other day: mom, do you never feel lonely?
I was surprised. ‘What do you meen?’
Don’t you want a man in your life?
Evil me: o I have nice conversations with a man who works on an oil rig.
You should have seen his face! 😂😂
@@StrawberryHills211 that's hilarious
When asked why she sent him money she just answered "I feel like I'm a good person...." Honey. You can be a GOOD person without being a STUPID person. Refusing to send money to a guy online you've never met wouldn't make you a bad person! You don't have to believe everyone just to be "good" or whatever!
lmao it's so easy to fool women
@@lzbhcvm6747have you seen the en on this show? 😂😂😂
@@lzbhcvm6747pretty sure more men get scammed by fake OF models and promises of nonexistent puss than could EVER be documented on this show LMFAO 💀💀💀💀 ever noticed all the ads on PH are for "girls in your area" and penis pills? lololol
@@lzbhcvm6747men get scammed too they’re just less likely to report it. The men on here be getting scammed by other men.
What is “en?”
I’m so glad she contacted Catfished 2 months in instead of 2 years in!
Doesn't matter she'll get scammed over and over she's not intelligent at all
Talking about “the temple” is all I needed to know about this person. She is a prime candidate for scammers because she’s clearly gullible.
Gullible is not what I would use to describe her. She's more crazy and self- centered than anything else.
In many cases religion = gullible. Not necessarily because of what they believe but because of how they believe. I’ve met plenty of religious people who are absolutely terrible. If all someone has to say for you to trust them is that they’re -insert religion here- you’re a fool. Religion means nothing. It is not a depiction of someone’s character or how trust worthy they are.
@@___Lyric___she literally believes the garden of eden was in Jackson County, Missouri.
it‘s a sect, please these former white puritans are mentally distorted, maybe it‘s passed on genetically over generations but there‘s something off with religious christian believers, scammers can take over in a heartbeat
@@FuzzyWalrus123oh heck..it isn't? 😂
The fact that she’s already in a cult let’s us all know her mental state. She was and probably still is, a prime target. I hope she gets out of her cult and finds true happiness with a real person.
Excellent point.
Brain washed and brain dead ☠️
My thoughts exactly.
Good point
And she desperately needs therapy.
Love how being with someone outside of her religion "just wouldn't work"...yes, because the other 3 marriages to pple from your church clearly worked out great. Let me limit my options even more.
i assumed its LDS i didnt know they flippantly allowed multiple marriages. granted she might have the worse luck ever but maybe she is the problem
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Mormon Church, no matter what branch is a cult... Period
Yeah, the mental gymnastics here are astounding...
Yeah, but if you grow up in a heavily religious family….you get used to mental gymnastics….thinking God protects them, yet bad things still happen, thinking that prayers are answered, yet having many go unanswered, thinking marriages are forever, yet realizing that shouldn’t always be, etc.
A doctor!!!!!!! What wrong with your mind???? Think about he is a doctor and he is asking you for money !! Wake up lady!
That’s exactly why they give them money…bc a doctor will definitely pay you back. They are just borrowing from you. 😂
She asks him “Why are you doing that to me?“.
People need to understand that they are just marks; they are not someone the scammer cares about. These victims are simply commodities to the scammers, and they need to understand that someone that considers them to be a means to an end doesn’t care that they lied: doesn’t care what someone else is going through. It’s all about how much they can extort from the victim until that source runs dry.
Exactly!!👍
Yes from her perspective it’s betraying someone you love but to the scammers it’s just another day at work and all part of the plan.
“why are you doing that to me?” - she didn’t understand that been a scammer it’s his job. Nothing personal against her. Just having a business with her. He sells her a beautiful virtual story and she’s paying for it.
People who don't think like this don't understand this. She is so lucky to have lived this long ad have never ran across scum bags like this. I certainly have .
100% I wish people realised they are not special to these scammers, You are a target with a dollar sign on your head and will never be anything more
😂😂😂Homie sounded str8 nigerian over the phone.. poor woman
Yep-even from the first time she heard his voice. Nigerian accent.
Yeah you can hear immediately it’s Nigerian. But can’t these people hear the accent and go well obviously the accent doesn’t match the person in the photo 😂
Yeah, I almost fainted when she talked about his "European" accent !
Nah, she’s an idiot. Zero sympathy
She thought he might be Russian? Clearly Nigerian!
Who laughed out loud at the part where she was supposed to pay for four soldiers to escort him to a helicopter?😂😂😂
Absolutely ridiculous
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Thats only fair...no soldiers should work for free.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Every time I watch one of these I'm more convinced these people just shouldn't be in charge of money. It's mind blowing levels of gullible.
They also shouldn't be able to vote.
She had to pay for four soldiers to escort him 😂🤣. She shouldn’t be allowed out on her own.
Yeah sounds legit doesn’t it ? 😂
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The most absurd thing to me was the UN asking her for money 😂
Or handel any money
the most absurd thing was her believing the UN would be using a gmail account but she says she's smart....SMH@@Oliviaandtrina
It never ceases to amaze me how people do not know how even simple things in this world work. No one pays their phone bill with gift cards. No one pays their internet provider with gift cards. No one buys plane tickets with gift cards. The UN isn't going to ask you for money. A physician who is going to be (supposedly) paid $8 million doesn't need gift cards - they have credit cards with high limits.
Nailed it!!!
And they say they are millionaires on top of it lol
Also, someone working for the UN would not have a gmail email address. It’s like these “victims” have been living under a rock their whole lives!
With much older people they know technology is changing and the world they know is changing so they don't know simple things like that.
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That she’s 61 years old, has been married 5 times, has 7 kids, is looking for relationship number 6 and believes the ridiculous fantastical stories from an online person she’s never met that she believes has 8 million dollars but he needs her to him money simply confirms that has the emotional and mental maturity of a 5 year old.
No, this woman is traumatized. extremely traumatized. She makes dumb decisions to not have to deal with the fact that her church is abusing her and gave her husband to abuse her and her boys. It’s disgusting.
Being so focussed on marriage and believing ridiculous fantastical stories sounds like a typical LDS-member.
She's already been brainwashed to believe fantastical stories in the bible..
What I just wrote too. I said above that she is talking like a 5 year old. 👊
@@susannehuber3996you both are right. Someone abused would possibly have arrested development and have maturity of a 5 year old
The fact a scammer would rob a woman running a non-profit working with abused children shows you how vile and evil these people are.
I wouldn’t be surprised if a scientific journal released a report that these people don’t have souls. Not at all. Foul creatures.
''Part of my religion is that you get sealed with your spouse forever"
-Working on husband #6 lady.
Yeah, gonna be a crowded house in the afterlife!🤪
I found that odd that she didn’t see the irony in that …..
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This is someone of limited intelligence and with very little ability for analytical thinking.
Irony comes with both those traits.
Yeah it's why I refuse to follow any religion. All hypocrites.
I’m still trying to work out the logistics of being married four times in 10 years. You’re basically dating, setting up a wedding, living together and then waiting for a divorce to be finalized in the span of about 2.5 years each. That story sounds more interesting than her scam one.
I think some people love the honeymoon stages of dating . When the reality kicks in , they get BORED and move on. The pattern never ends.
@@PettyIsMyMiddleNameI worked with a lady who had been divorced 5 times and was on the prowl for wealthy husband #6. Another old coworker used to brag that her mom had been married and divorced 8 times!
The things you hear and see working in call centers 😂😂😂😂
You misunderstood, she's 62 & was a young bride.
She's Mormon. No ownership sex. Sadly it's fairly common.
@@Syndilouwho100% - it’s def part of being LDS. not only do they have to marry just to make it past first base, but their followers are like the least skeptical people around. between catfishing/ romance scams, to MLM and financial ‘get rich quick’ schemes, they’re some of the easiest targets for grifters you can find.
I haven't got through the whole story yet, but I think it's fantastic that the U.N. is making an effort to provide face lifts for the needy on a global scale. They are truly doing the Lord's work. Who wants to see the ugly face of poverty, anywhere?
LOL! Plastics is actually a very much needed field in 3rd world countries (cleft palates, etc.).
But your comment reminds me of the Seinfeld episode with the dermatologist! 😂😂😂
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@@skontheroad yes.
This comment made my morning😂
I mean, there are plastic surgeons and other medical professionals that travel to 3rd world countries to provide services to those who don't have access to them. This includes plastic surgeons who travel to fix deformities and injuries in 3rd world countries, it's not a face lift but it's still plastic surgery. Rand Paul is one of the most famous modern examples of doctors providing care this way, though he is not a plastic surgeon.
She’s not happy to be alone. She’s obviously searching for love, instead of giving love to her children, which would actually love her unconditionally as well.
Unfortunately she will be alone the rest of her life. She is too old for men these days to be interested. People are horrible now. Youth obsessed.
"I can't marry somebody that's out of my faith ... that doesn't work for me." Yet three of her marriages were with church members.
To me it seems like marriage in general doesn’t work for her😂
But a marriage in the church means that they are sealed together FOREVER! 🤪
@@veerahmbles Ok so, so far she's sealed to 3 different men for all eternity lol!!!!
There is going to be a Jerry Springer style brawl between all those men when Kim dies.
@@amberweidenhamer5056 😂🤣
He tells her he’s got 8 million dollars but needs $1300. It’s pathetic
What is really pathetic is that she actually believes this crap .
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Idk how she can walk down the aisle that many times without questioning what she might be doing wrong. 5 marriages, wow
She's addicted to wedding cake? 😊
Absolutely.
"I just pick bad men"
No, Sweetie, it appears you might be a c**t.
She is a member of the LDS (mormon) church and in that faith being married is extremely important. Not just in this life but for 'time and all eternity'. As a woman you need a husband to get into the next life. She probably feels like she's forever doomed when she's not married, so every time a marriage fails she feels the need to get married again asap, without really considering whether there is a good match. Then the marriage fails and the cycle repeats.
EDIT: I know the LDS-church modernised a lot in the past few decades, but this is an older lady. She probably has internalised the old believes that she grew up with. She might not even be aware of them. She probably just feels like she needs to be married, no matter what.
Yup and don't forget all those wedding gifts too. hehe 😉@@lynneedwards4538
I have a cousin who has been married 7 times. I have no idea why he has married so many times.
“F U” giftcards 😂😂😂😂I love that name!! So perfectly ironic.
That is perfect lol
“He said I was beautiful. I was smart.”
From her track record, that’s about all this woman needs to hear in order to start a new relationship. I’m sure the scammer was thinking “this is too easy”
scammer : yo! i found another ATM! no password needed
He needs glasses.
@@elipotter369correction. Most of the people on this show have a great support system who is usually responsible for them contacting social catfish.
What they don’t hear is those words from attractive people with six figure salaries which is how the scammer portray themselves.
@@jamesnewberry1191 Just because you're an ephebophile doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. She IS objectively beautiful. She has aged so gracefully.
She is like the prime target all men say they want. Compliant, non-retaliant, plesant, blonde straight hair, fair skin, neonateous features (women don't objectify men, but men certainly objectify women), doesn't ask for anything (aka not a "golddigger").
Easy prey for your lot. That is what men like you do. You prey.
@@jamesnewberry1191 dollar signs😍
So I have a flirty coworker. He wants to know if I have saved enough for retirement and if I own my home. He was all excited that I can become an EU citizen and started joking that he wanted to marry me because he wants to be an EU citizen. Remember, there are scammers, moochers and users everywhere!
Yes, I got sucked in by one, lost everything. Our child and I lost our benefits because the scammer keeps claiming that he gives us $2000 a month child support. He hasn't paid child support ever. 3yrs now, but somehow they believe him, with no evidence. The courts themselves took away his parenting rights due to the years of abuse the child was born into and then groomed to participate in. He was ordered to pay $3000 a month, since I paid to put him through schooling, supported him financially, put a roof over his head for free for 9yrs. He crushed 2 vertebrae in my neck, never charged. He put me in the hospital for 6weeks from poisoning, causing multi-organ failure, not charged because of 'plausible deniability'. I'll never be able to work again and am 55yrs old with absolutely nothing to show for it. When we escaped the police wouldn't allow us to take anything out of the home. By the time I was able to get the property issue into court, he claimed that he had already disposed of everything.
We'll be homeless by Christmas and the abuser will be happy that the child will be taken into government care. It's a win for him.
These these things are demons, and the system doesn't recognize them.
I ran into 2 dating in person. FB Dating. Met them. Saw them a few times. Then they started asking for money and for me to pay for lunch. I said its been nice knowing you and blocked them.
I had a guy on a new job who was supposed to be training me (keep in mind I’m semi retired and just there to get out of the house) start asking me how I liked the job, telling me about the benefits and how he’s a financial advisor outside of work who does a lot of our coworkers financial planning, insurance etc.
I already didn’t care or say much because my husband and I have done extremely well for ourselves.
Drumroll please………he then says he’s with Primerica!!!! I didn’t even react or acknowledge that I knew what Primerica was lol 😂
Nope! Homeboy was not recruiting me into his MLM.
He did have one of the most slick and stealthy approaches I’ve ever heard though lol 😂
@@theartistcherrypi6454 😲
Lol.. I have similar story, I met a man 16 years ago who hoped to marry me so he can also become an EU citizen. He didn't even hide his reason well...
A doctor who need’s money for his cellphone bill? 😂😂😂
And a plastic surgeon too. As though he wouldn't have the latest iPhone and an unlimited plan. And almost unlimited funds.
Yes, very legit😂😂😂
Just stop 😂😂😂😂
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And he also runs out of the allotted minutes before the end of the month and has to wait for the next month to be able to use his phone. How are people this gullible?
" I'm confused" says it all !!
She still believes in “forever” after being married 5 times? Come on my princess
I shouldn’t have laughed that hard…
“Come on my princess…” 😂
Tbh I'm happy she keeps trying instead of trying to make the first POS be her "forever".
its Queen 😂😂
The average marriage in America lasts 7 years so you if you married in your 20's, good luck. This actually make sense in her case. She looks to be in her late 60's. She obviously isn't a 20-year girlfriend type. She requires marriage. Nothing wrong with it. At least she is not working for girlfriend pay giving wife benefits,
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Why is she pushing him to tell her why he lied to her??? Lady he’s a scammer they dont care about you lol
Almost like wanting to drive to the North Pole to tell Santa Claus off because you once believed he was real.
Absolutely! he lied because he wanted her money and got it! Plain and simple.
"Part of my religion is you're sealed to your spouse forever." Also "I've been married five times, three of them to members of my religion."
Hmmmmm…are you familiar with Joseph Smith? This woman has been indoctrinated and scammed since birth!!!
Cognitive dissonance at its best.
Let’s talk “ Cult”.
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Very sad when someone has to pay for compliments.
Sad, indeed😎!
I’m 53 years old and I get these scammer messages constantly. I just automatically delete them. So many of these ‘victims’ say they are smart, but if they even respond back one time they’re asking for trouble. How can they even think any of these con artists are real?
Smart people rarely think they're smart; fools often think they're smart, which is why they do stupid things
These people prove that every time 😅
@PotatoPirate123 and smelly stinky people rarely know they smell hahah
@@liliacastellanos921 excessive amount of marriages are always a sign of emotional red flags. Usually it's about validation and attention - you need validation in the form of the wedding, and feeling like you're important. You need a formal declaration that you're special. Once the wedding is over you just lose interest because the eyes are no longer on you. So you fall out, break up and start the cycle again
I'm 54. I get them too.
With 5 marriages under her belt, she's either addicted to wedding cake or has zero judgement skills.
Well, Mormons aren't exactly great at critical thinking. They base their decisions on "feeling the spirit" instead of logic.
Brainwashing cult
Probably both.🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Addicted...bad as drugs or gambling.
First BIG clue to determine if they’re a scammer is when they start calling you right off the bat “queen” and “my love.” 🤮
And Babe....ugh!!
As an adult survivor, I am grateful to this woman for the work she’s done to prevent child abuse.
married 5 times? sounds like a personal problem
And seven kids 😩
*Common denominator? Her.*
I'd be willing to bet she was abused as a child. She needs serious therapy, NOT looking for a mate right now!!!! Until she can get some self-esteem, she will never find a decent guy who really loves her!!! She is codependent and codependents inevitably attract NARCISSISTS!
She seems like a sweet lady with not much common sense. And her own mother encouraged her to stay with her abusive husband.@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529
She’s a really bad chooser.
My father always told me, never give money you’re not prepared to never see again. Thank god he did.
My dad always said a very similar thing; "never lend more than you're willing to lose".
That's stuck in my head my entire adult life. I first heard him say that as a small child. I'm now 42 and he's been gone from this world for the last five. Dad's wisdom lives on!
@@supposedhumanmars Good fathers put out some bangers. I think he first told me that when I was like 11 and it even hit the first time. He also said (and thankfully continues to say), “You don’t have to show up to every battle you’re invited to.” That one also hit and really helped me in my daily life because I was always ready to fight anyone about anything at any time if I felt they were wrong. I let a lot more go now.
Our parents told us dont waste money on outrageous priced goods. Buy what is affordable. Save and invest for your future. Don't live beyond your means. Don't buy if you can't pay for it. If you use credit card, pay off when bill comes. Don't spend what you don't have. Stay out of debt.
same i had to learn the hard way tho i co signed a loan for a friend and well he went to jail (he had no record prior) and got stuck w the entire loan. after that NO ONE gets my money
It makes me sad that she’s been married five times and the scammer is the first man to make her feel like she’s special to him.
We only getting one side of the story here
@@camw9133Y’all always do this with women. Question what she says, but when a man says the same thing, y’all immediately rush to his defense.
when he marriage went sour she forgot the good times.
The stuff people are willing to believe is beyond me.
She's a Mormon, and in mormonism, brown skinned people are considered worse than Satans followers in the rebellion in heaven due to them not taking a side in that war and being cursed with dark skinned when incarnated as a human. And the good soldiers of christ in heaven became "white and delightsome"
It must have been so scary to the kids having so many strangers/new step dads come into their lives and feel like they have no control. Especially after abuse.
She said they weren't particularly loving to her, so imagine what they they were like to her kids!?
Yes as step parent, I really was anxious about that. 5 times is quite alot. I've been in my step sons life since age 2, he just turned 14 last month. Yesterday was my 10th wedding anniversary, we've been together 12 years total. I never think of the what ifs but I just would never put our kids through another set of step parents.
@@hotlatte3230 happy 10 year anniversary!! ♥️ your son must be so happy to have you in his life!
Absolutely. My mother was a single mom and she never made me have a stepfather growing up, she started dating when I was 18 and never moved in or brought her partner home. I thought that was something most parents do.
It just goes to show how selfish this woman is, thinking of herself before her own children.
Oh my God…how many more women can fall for this “I’m a contractor for the U.N.” nonsense? It’s extremely hard to feel sorry for these people when a 1st grader knows to never send money to anyone from online. It’s just like all common sense goes out the window with these people.
It’s just as bad as the old men that fall in love with 24 year old models from Ukraine that need money because of the war
Maybe 1st graders do know not to send money to people on the Internet, but old people don't know it, not all anyway. And most of these videos are about old people.
It's also bizarre that they accept that someone is officially working for the UN - and then Also accept that the UN just leaves them utterly stranded and abandoned in some country, to the extent that they need lots of money to get home from the My Love, My Queen who they just happen to have met a month or few ago, when emails to their UN Line Manager, regional UN office and/or UN HR Department would see the UN pay for their travel home, and all related costs.
Instead, these idiots - nice as they may be, they're idiots, too - just look at these letters and emails littered with spelling mistakes and grammar errors, and accept that Yup Seems Legit.
At some point, being stupid, or spectacularly naïve and unworldly, doesn't excuse the gigantic, costly errors they make, as they ignore more red flags than a national holiday celebration in Beijing.
@@calliew311 Many of these victims are in their 40s and 50s - I'm almost 52, and not exactly 'old', and even if you're in your 60s or 70s now (again, not old), you were in your 20s or 30s - young, alert adults - back in the 1980s and 90s when tech, mobile phones and the internet all began to jump into public consciousness and become normalised part of everyday life.
I don't understand how people living with tech and exposure to the internet for decades at this stage aren't a hell of a lot more savvy about these kinds of things - simply saying "They're old" fails to explain away their distinct lack of awareness of basic scams, online bustles, etc etc.
I mean, I'm from a small, remote Irish town, and even my elderly parents there show a sharper grasp of online hustles and scam artists than the people on these shows do. I don't want to be mean about these victims - and they Are victims - but it's frustrating, too, to hear 'they're old' (they're not) used as an excuse for their giant, expensive blunders...
My son heard that and said "Mum I think he's lying" and he's 8
A few things:
1. I'll give this woman credit that she didn't think that some super young, super ripped, super hot guy was interested in her. In reality, they physically look like a plausible couple
Now the rest:
2. Understand that a Dr is very unlikely to be roaming the internet looking for a date
3. No job is going to tell you to pay to leave the job. Where TF do they get this
4. How does a Dr have only one source of finances, most people don't. There's almost always a credit card somewhere even if they rarely use it. If every bank they have blocks them, that's highly suspicious and you should run
5. Sorry for your trauma but seek therapy not someone to fix you and make you feel better.
6. Bitcoin and gift cards are not a reliable source of payment for pretty much anything. Most companies are not going to say 'we accept bitcoin' for payment
7. If someone is always making excuses to not meet you or there's always something happening but they're asking for money, 🗣 THEY'RE NOT INTO YOU, ITS A SCAM
8. Americans by goodness, educate yourselves, like the fact that she didn't hear that W. African accent is insane. Like they really sayin "it sounds European" 🤦🏿♀️
His accent doesn't matter. The minute he asked for a dime was the problem...
#8: There are so many Americans where the closest they've gotten (or *wanted* to get) to Europe is Epcot.
1 nah they don’t, a wealthy plastic surgeon will be dating 25 year olds not 5 times divorced 60 year olds
Lots of Americans are lucky if they can recognize a French or German accent and that’s about it - from watching old movies and TV shows. They simply don’t know what an African accent sounds like.
not really
What is amazing is that when they find out about being scammed they really think that the person scamming them will feel bad when found out. They want to meet them "face to face". Can nobody tell them this is a business for them where hundreds of people sit and their work is to scame as many as possible? They really think that the person that triced them wold feel bad meeting them.
Right even when you confront a scammer about using fake photos the scammer just keeps lying lol they don’t care lies are their business
This guy could not possibly have sounded more Nigerian. When she said $8 million I literally screamed.
I doubt he has even 8 million Nigerian cents let alone 8 million US Dollars 😂😂😂
It’s just so crazy to me that these victims can so easily fall in love with some stranger based on the most superficial and bare-bones conversations. It’s not like the scammers even have to be good at seducing or endearing them to the victims. All they need to do is call them beautiful or handsome a few different ways and it’s in the bag.
Studies have shown what happens is Our brains often “ fill in the blanks” so it feels like a whole relationship, and these people who are so trusting and honest just assume everyone thinks like they do- the scammer she’s confronting about lying has no moral qualms- I doubt she can fathom their value system, being brainwashed in a church can create dangerous blindspots and assumptions.
@icu3869 Great point. 👍
Just call them babe, and my Queen and they follow with puppy eyes 🤦🏻♀️
@@icu3869sounds like hogwash. She's been married to at least 1 abuser so she knows bad folks are out here. She's lonely and doesn't like being alone so having someone to talk to who compliments her is why she's ignoring the red flags. She hops from relationship to relationship because the problem is within her. Most of these people on this site are generally narcissistic, full of themselves, delusional, lonely, etc, and not because they don't think folks with nefarious leanings aren't out there.
@@icu3869these people are all the same, looking for a world of love and roses, it’s so impractical, as 5 marriages show.
You’re not financially unstable because of him, you are because of yourself! No accountability ugh 😢
She has been abused. The fact her Mother didn't keep her safe nor encourage her to get out of a violent marriage tells me no one made her feel loved ever. She is not stupid but a victim of violence. She needs counselling.
LDS mentality is highly patriarchical and misogynistic, so no surprises there.
She’s being abused by the lies of the LDS cult as well.
Yes indeed.
Yeah sounds like an endless cycle of being a victim in which she just ends up in more abusive scenarios. Hopefully she can get some support for her and she can work with her kids since they all probably need it
Yes, this is what I just commented above. She obviously was abused as a child and is codependent. Very, very low self-esteem. Codependents inevitably attract NARCISSISTS!!! Until she heals from this, she will not be able to attract a decent guy who really loves her. Very sad. I sure hope she gets counseling.
I have absolutely no sympathy for her in any way, shape or form. The real victim are her children and those are the ones that I feel sorry for having a mother like her and the chaos she’s obviously brought into their lives with five marriages and then talking to a romance scammer, and giving away their money
Absolutely
This is a bit harsh. Her intentions were always good but she’s clearly not the brightest bulb, not to mention she’s been indoctrinated to radical silly beliefs from childhood.
She has a severe naïveté that comes from living a sheltered fundamental religious life.
@@JudasMaccabeus1good intentions something something pave the way to Hell something something
@@JudasMaccabeus1 I partially agree but low intelligence is by far the biggest factor. Most people are indoctrinated into a religion from birth, but only the half witted reach adulthood without having abandoned those bronze age based beliefs.
All mothers bring chaos and death to their child victims by bringing their meat sacks into this vile hell hole.
So sad. Anyone that does not have control of their finances and needs gift cards is not someone that you want to have a relationship with.
Didn't he say he's a plastic surgeon 🤔
He’s allegedly a plastic surgeon, the highest paid speciality you can do in medicine and he apparently can’t pay his phone bill…….
@@desdicadoriche can’t afford an unlimited phone plan. Like T-Mobile is only $60
Well…the scammers often dress it up as a short-term emergency that happened TO them and wasn’t their fault….they are sick, or can’t access their funds while traveling, or kidnapped, or wrongly incarcerated, or a work or car accident.
They usually play the “I am a rich guy with brief cash flow issues and who will pay you back with interest” role, not the “I am an adult who can’t manage even my phone bill” role.
@@Itried20takennamesoh that’s ok then🙄
She is old enough to know better than to fall for these scammers.
The scammer can barely even put 2 words together without making sense when he speaks. Its amazing how some of these victims spend most of their time just chatting through texts with their scammers without ever forming a real connection through voice/video chat.
Plus they have this beautiful connection. Baby send me a steam card. By the way I have 8 million dollars. I just need your help my bank account is frozen.
If she can buy into a 200-year-old scam perpetuated by a long line of charismatic conmen, she can fall for a romance scam.
Right? Gullibility comes with the territory of being religious.
Exactly.
TRUE THAT
200 year old scam? The scam has been going on for 2000 years. The LDS religion isn't any more ridiculous than any other religion.
I just saw a quote on Face Book, of all places: "Red flags never turn green".... So true.
I saw a quote, more red flags than the Chinese army.
If anyone you don't know IN PERSON asks for money....RUN!
Even if you know someone in person asks for money RUN!!!
This might be an unpopular opinion but here goes.
I always find that both people are scammers. The “victim” seems to always expect a payout/millionaire life etc. There’s always a promise of crazy money for the “victim” so it’s hard to have sympathy honestly. Both are scammers imo
Except the victim isn’t lying to the scammer or trying to emotionally manipulate them. At worst I’d call them gold diggers not scammers.
Driven by lust and greed! [:]~))
@@arnoldbliss6238 Loneliness plays a part as well
Not that unpopular of an opinion and has already been explored. Yes, sometimes the "victim" can lie to make themselves more presentable. However, it really doesn't matter since they are the product of a scam to the perpetrators. It's all just a scam anyway.
Fear or greed. Get them one way or the other
People always seem to think that confronting these scammers is going to somehow make a difference. Just learn from it, block them and move on from this expensive debilitating lesson.
Exactly- it's not like they can recoup the money.
Exactly, he called her negative and kicked her in the teeth when she challenged him , it really doesn't matter to him as I guess he has a long list of gullible victims to exploit.
I am so impressed by the kindness of the people at social catfish. You are never judgemental or belittling. You truly care about these people and it shows
For real. And sometimes they get stern and assertive without getting abusive and condescending. I commend them.
They are making money from this channel. Why would they be mean to the golden goose?
@@PaisleyMarie80they go harder on the men
@@nly4607 As they should! Men should be tough enough to take it. Men don't get it when you're nice to them!
@@akitalady Ask Simon Cowell and Chef Ramsay. Works for them!
The more I watch these Catfish scams, the more I want to be a scammer 😂😂
It was the 8 Million that drew her in. People are greedy.
The early 1900s con artist Yellow Kid Weil said "every one of my victims had larceny in his heart."
I do not condone scammers at all but there is certainly a common thread of "i am going to be so rich!!"
@@ChristinaFromUA-camdang never heard of that scammer but where is the lie? Greed always somebody's downfall
@@akosua8779Exactly. She wouldn't have been interested if he was average looking and a janitor
Bumped into an oil rig scammer. Showed me a phony bank account with $6M in it. LOL. He failed to convince me to "loan" him money to fly off the rig when his bank account got frozen. Joker.
They all are
I started talking to a guy once, and after abt a week he called me his "queen", i blocked him immediately.
Total creep lol
Married 5 times, so now let's send money to a complete stranger.
It's sad when the scammer tries to hustle you off the phone.
She's one of the most honest ones in the show. She wasn't scammed for long and admits she was "addicted" to having his attention (who doesn't need a bit of that?) She's not delusional and understands something is wrong, despite the fact her environment might have led her to be a bit too trusting and too romantic. Hope she finds the companionship and happiness she's looking for, this time for real.
She is delusional she just doesn't want to spend the money. The reason she's not too suckered in is her devotion to her "church" and needing to be with someone who is part of it.
5 divorces-the sport of marriage is not for you
“She’s not delusional?” Then how did this happen? 😂
She’s not delusional but thinks she’s gonna marry a man she’s never met in person 😂
Sounds like she has already found companionship FIVE TIMES. Is it more likely that 5 separate men are all horrible or that she's the terrible one? Cause the common denominator is her.
The money she threw away could have helped one of her kids or grandchildren with college costs. She's truly delusional and I feel sorry for her kids
Could of given her a face lift and fix those gnarly teeth.
Poor kids!😅
A plastic surgeon doesn't need your money in cash or in gift cards.
This is so sad honestly, loneliness is a heck of a thing.
She asked him ''why ''?...Girl, this is his full time job
Exactly! Seriously, lady, the $$$ is why🙄🙄
Why?? Because he can!!
She has only been messaging this guy for 2,5 months and she is in love with him?!?!?!?!
Wtf is wrong with people,how do you fall in love with someone you’ve never seen or spent time with in only 2,5 months?! It shouldn’t be possible!!!
Anyway,it’s another win for Nigeria👍😂
2.5 months is a million years in scammer time.
She just wants that ring on her finger to feel validated as a woman. It doesn't matter who put it there. This woman doesn't know a thing about what love is, any dude will do.
@@Sashazur Yea,you’re right about that!
They happily part with their money way before 2,5 months have passed😂
@@happyhermit3141 She probably think love is the same as having a ring to show others and to have a marriage licence🤷🏻♀️
It's somewhat normal in the LDS faith to be engaged even after just a month of dating. My daughter has LDS friends who met and married their spouses within 6 months. Nobody blinks an eye about it. They are very young and it is so sad.
I'm sorry for the trauma this woman had went through with her children and her past marriages. I'm really glad she made the right decision to stop online dating.
I'm sure she caused some trauma of her own to her ex husbands.
@@DPhasely maybe. we can never know what's actually going on in these people's lives. it's horrible what she went through with the child abuser though and I can see how that trauma might have made her more susceptible to manipulation 😞
@@DPhaselywhen lightning strikes you five times, it's surely forgivable to wonder if it's you that's the problem for at least a large part of it
Finally, someone with empathy.
@@DL-ep5uk because people want attention and for people to stare at them and tell them how beautiful they are. People treat marriages like a new bathroom suite. Once the novelty has worn off they want to chuck all the time and effort in the bin and get a new one.
Did she really just say " You get married in my church, it's forever?" 5 times? Wow 😮 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Adults stop sharing too much information to strangers.
She doesn’t fully grasp that he’s a professional scammer and thief or she wouldn’t be asking him why. She still sees him as someone who romanced her but just lied to her instead of the probable hundred of other victims. That romancing her was never his intention. She was a means to money and nothing more. It’s sad to know that after 5 marriages she’s not more aware than this. I have a feeling she will let this happen again.
Oh god, she wants an explanation from the scammer? What world do you live in? For a moment I thought she was going to apologize to him...
It's like asking a thief why he stole your car. Because it's a thief!
She is low intelligence.
Not being English speaking but the Nigerian accent was strikingly evident, how can these women be so gullible?
An hour ago I saw an older woman looking for Steam gift cards in a supermarket...maybe I should have said something to her.
Yeah, I have seen where younger cashiers are savvy to this kind of stuff and will say something to elderly folk when they try to buy gift cards, etc. like, “Are you sure you want to buy these? “
She would still do it.
Speak up
Why does she have to pay for his “Helicopter” and 4 “Soldiers”, Fool’s Day just arrived, only 5 months earlier 🙄🙄🙄
All she had to do was send a little more to buy a jar of grease to lubricate the propeller. Then the helicopter would've been able to make the trip, & they'd live happily ever after!
I can't believe she was so gullible. What a shame!
The solution is really quite simple. Do not send money to ANYONE you have never met and you won't have to stay up late at night wondering if he's REAL. I actually can't figure out why she would send him money even if he was real. If some loser walked up to her in the street and told her he needed four hundred dollars for something, would she just hand it over?
Ikr wth man
Could have used the money for dental work
She'd hand it over if they called her 'queen' or said other endearing statements 😕
I had one failed marriage , i love concentrating on my grand babies. No way in heck was i going to drag in a bunch of men in and out of my kids and grandkids lives im 60 and am still happy being on my own!!!
You are better off… look at this mess 😢
@@devadii24at the end of the day the only person you can trust/rely on is yourself. After 5 failed marriages some of them abusive I'm shocked she would trust anyone ever again
I’ll never understand these people falling in love with strangers that ask them for money.. It’s crazy. The single life is where it’s at. Drama free.
Preach!
Seems like a bit of a red flag when the so-called plastic surgeon starts begging for phone money.
Please check in with your loved ones, especially those who were widowed, live alone or divorced. The scammers are good at targeting lonely people & they use that to manipulate them. Make sure your loved ones have contacts they can trust outside of social media
I think they should screen these Catfished episodes at every senior center in America.
Everyone is a potential victim, not just older people. The difference is young people get scammed with looks and small ticket items only because the average twenty year old doesn't have the money a person fifty and up may have.
@@dennisd9554I'm a home health aide and most of the elderly women I have as clients have seem these stories on Dr phil
But hobby exists going out volunteering something
@@dennisd9554 Sorry Dennis but I take your comment as a little condescending. Young people pick up and believe most of the stuff on TikTok half the time. I'm in my 70s and I'm on here and aware of situations that make no sense. And even without this resource to educate people, I would never send money to a stranger. Most seniors are just as aware of things happening "out there" as anyone younger.
The un always keeps a staff of plastic surgeons under contract. They also never pay them...🤦♂️
That’s what I was thinking. Not a big deal for cosmetic surgeons working in the UN. Maybe changing the looks of someone working in the espionage department.
Good for her for founding those centers! That’s seriously impressive, and I’m sure they’ve helped a lot of women and children. She should focus on her activism and her children (and grandchildren, I assume).
You found something nice to say, I couldn't comment because I couldn't come up with one. That's very nice.
who wants to bet that anybody who has to go to those shelters gets thoroughly proselytized about the wonderful temple/church?
Maybe she does focus on those things? That doesn't mean that she won't get lonely. Older women are human and have needs too.
What is wrong with these people if a scammer asks for money or gift cards, tell them no and hang up and block him you’re being scammed. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that one out.
“You get sealed to your spouse forever…”
As she works on her sixth marriage.
He is a doctor in the Army stationed on a oil rig overseas.....seems legit
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