We adopted a young dog less than 2 years ago from the shelter. He has destroyed vintage couch cushion ( I was able to get it repaired), regular couch cushion, couch pillows, laptop charger, all 4 kitchen chair cushions, completed cross stitch, several patterns, several hand dyed threads, silks, longaberger basket, all of my winter hats, gloves, my husbands work hats, shoes, and countless other things too numerous to mention. We have tried so hard to keep him from things. But, we love him and are waiting for him to outgrow it. My plants are just hanging ones that he can't reach.
My husband built a six-sided dolly with wheels so we can move our large houseplant/housetree into the laundry room when our kids visit with the cats or dogs...all other plants (which are smaller and are easily lifted...or knocked over) get carried into the laundry room of the master bedroom, and those doors stay closed for the duration of the visit. My daughter used to grow some herbs and peppers on her kitchen windowsills and had to give that up due to destruction from her cat.
My neighbor asked me to feed her cat one weekend. Every time I saw him he was very shy but never aggressive. When it was just me coming around that thing was possessed. The cat had a specific diet with dry food and wet food and measuring spoons were involved so I would take the bowl into the feeder and the cat would follow me in and sit on the counter. Always looking innocent. Whenever I would try reaching for the bowl he would swat hiss and bite. I too love cats. I’ve had mine for almost 14 years. I told my neighbor there wouldn’t be a next time
I totally feel you. I continue to help because I don't know who else she would get, lol. And being experienced with cats I would rather me calmly go in and deal with the aggression than someone else.
You done did good with those glasses. Very 80s and Sophia Loren. We were watching All in the Family on UA-cam yesterday. I noticed that my husband’s new glasses were identical to Archie’s. 😅 My husband and I collaborate pretty well on the decorating after 48 years. We kind of grew up together. I also have my west wing and he has his east wing of our warehouse apartment where we decorate them ourselves. I often ask him his opinion as I’m deciding on colors on a new cross stitch or quilt project. We had a miniature dachshund that chewed the baseboards and doors of our mobile home. She never was housebroken. Our 18 year old dachshund we have now has only chewed the rabbit fur off one slipper. He’s a wonderful little boy. I recently started Eliza Townsend. I’m doing it with brighter colors. I can’t do the faded version. The house reminds me of the ruins of Barnsley Gardens in Adairsville.
My husband doesnt really care about the decor, he complains that i take over rooms with my “craft stuff”…he says ,what room is mine? I say the garage ,the kitchen, the backyard.
My husband’s first wife was an interior designer, so he has OPINIONS on all the decor. I would prefer the “whatever you want” husband. I want new dining room chairs, but know it will turn into a whole thing trying to agree. Love the glasses and the harbor piece. Enjoy your trip to Colour & Cotton. I hope to get there in September.
Oh my. That's sounds terrible. Possibly worse than in the first years of marriage when their response to problems is, "I don't know, let's call my mom and see how she does it." Blarg.
Thank you for a great video! I lucked out with my husband and Home Decor, because he has really good taste 😊He will present me with two or three choices and we talk about it and decide. I'm always really happy with the way things turn out. With Jim you probably have to find a time when he's not hungry or tired or distracted and then give him some choices to make him feel involved. He's such a good guy though you really lucked out too!
We had an orange tabby who turned into an attack cat whenever we left on a trip. We had to leave a water bottle by the door so whomever was feeding him could spray him to get into the door.
You made me laugh so hard with your cat/plant story- thank you so much for that. And yes, my dog decided that my first and best drop-spindle would make a great stick to chew on- he literally dug it out of a bag I had and out of ALL of the toys I've given him- he decided to destroy that.
Those glasses really suit you. I have met a devil cat. My friend and her family went on vacation and I was going over every day to take care of their sweet cat, Ellie, and the stray her son brought home from college, Buddy. Ellie was not a problem. She was in the main part of the house. Buddy was living in the finished basement. I met him before they left and he seemed friendly. I quickly learned to wear long pants when dealing with him. He would purr and act like a nice cat and with no warning go into attacking you. I started bringing a spray bottle with me so I could do what I needed to. Or have my husband come with me to distract Buddy. Sorry about your plants.
Oh wow. That even sounds worse because you're not sure which cat you are getting. At least with the cat I was watching it was pure evil all the time, lol.
Whoa! You touched a nerve in this one! My husband COMPLETELY took over the interior of this house. I’m not exactly sure how it happened, but he’s got crap everywhere. It’s like living in a frat house. As an interior designer, it’s virtually sucking out my soul. I actually think I need therapy over this. 😂🤣
I am so sorry about the plants, such a bummer. I did some damage shopping at Mad for Minders, I found several that I just had to have! LOL. Have fun on your trip.
So... I'm 🤔 for your 🐱 goals, sage, holy water & palo santo are in order along with an exorcism😂 💪...I love your floss conversion for the last sampler (Hannah ?). I vote you start that and as far as Buster is concerned...I'm out!!😂 Happy stitching!
I hope some of the comments have made you laugh…they have made me laugh! The glasses are great btw. I gave up on building a house because my DH would not help with decisions….kept saying “I dont mind” “ whatever you think” so eventually over the round or square drain pipes I quit…told him my ❤wasnt in it…They really are from a different planet…..kudos to Buster for being able to work out his rage 😂😂😂he obviously missed you alot…dont go away for too long!
I have a husband/cat conflict going on right now. Sidney (the cat) is so sweet, and so mentally messed up - he was returned to the pound FIVE times before we got him, and all of his former homes just tortured him and broke his brain. None of this is his fault, but he’s having litter box issues that I can’t fix. (The vet assured us it’s not physical.) Hubby understandably doesn’t want to be in a house that smells like cat pee, and is losing patience. I’ve tried literally every piece of advice online and from the vet. The cat has ALL the most luxurious litter boxes and comfort places… I’m trying Dr. Elsey’s litter now, which appears to be working (fingers crossed!) I really miss having a cat I can actually cuddle and pet. UGH! My duck derby box came early (THANK YOU!) but I have family visiting and I can’t look at it yet…. I visit it and poke at it frequently when no one’s looking. LOL I snuck in one flosstube video in the middle of the night before I have to get up and be entertaining again. Ha, ha! Have a great June!
Yes! I remember yours being one of the first ones that went out. So glad it arrived safely and I hope you enjoy its contents. Litter box issues are the worst. I currently have one kitty who isn't wanting to bury things...which can add to the smell. I hope the Dr. Elsey's litter continues to work and the cat has found a safe long term home. Good luck and best wishes for sure.
I'm thankful my husband lets me do the decorating. He had this horrible southwestern style print in a mauve frame when we moved in together and I hated that thing. Thankfully when we bought our first house I was able to hide it away in the loft. As for animals destroying things, when our dog was a puppy she destroyed all but one pot of my succulents outside to teethe on the pots, among other things she destroyed.
When I first moved in with Jim I moved into his place. He had HUGE superhero posters basically butted up against each other lining the walls in his living room. It was too much of a good thing. I slowly made the home my own and now we are in a different home we bought together. So I get the mauve frame, lol.
I had two dogs with anxiety issues who made it their mission to destroy things. Two pairs of very nice dress shoes, 2 very expensive bras, and 2 bathroom doors 🙄
Your new glasses look great on you! Cats are funny creatures. I don’t think the devil cat hates you, I think the cat smells your kitty and is protecting its domain. I have a young cat who picks on one plant of mine. She is always digging out the dirt in the pot. It makes a mess.
Emily can't help with the decor .But I have had to move my kitchen cabinets around where my food was kept. I have lost 4 loaves of bread. I have it in a cabinet that I have to get on a stool to get too now! I feel for you. Enjoy your trips! I don't have a local needlework shop either.
WHAT???? I was just in St Louis - I didnt know Color and Cotton has a shop there. Ugh!!! I was also in Springfield MO so I drove to the Silver Needle in Tulsa - totally worth it (even though I had also been there in January)
I had an English Setter when I was in high school. She was the most spiteful dog I've ever lived with. If someone upset her (like didn't pay her enough attention), she would find something that she knew belonged to them and chew on it. She was especially fond of ruining books. Our 3yo Australian Shepherd will take my husband's hats if he's upset with him. So far, he hasn't done anything like that to me, just my husband.
Oh my…after more than 20 years of marriage….I have stories. Weeks of looking for furniture only to end up with a house full that fits his 6’4” frame and leaves me dangling my feet like I am five years old. We have spent months discussing paint colors…he pretty much likes anything that could be in a baby’s dirty diaper. We finally realized that we don’t perceive colors the same way and he mostly lets me choose (finally until I screw up) except during our recent bathroom remodels. We couldn’t agree on wall tile grout colors; our contractor pulled him aside and told him I was correct which my husband confirmed by watching decorator youtube videos…my color it was. After it was done, he actually stood admiring the tile grout and proclaimed it was his idea. The man doesn’t know how close he has come to being suffocated in his sleep…but I’d miss him too much. 😂 Thanks for the video including the venting…it makes me feel more sane. Love the new Amy glasses!
When something doesn't seem possible to me I literally tell myself, "It's not all about you, Rebecca" and rethink through the situation outside of myself. That cat doesn't dislike you, he dislikes what you smell like....other cats...competition in the wild. And cats hold grudges as you know, so you will always be that lady with cat smells even if you put on new laundry before entering. Also, as a former interior designer, your husbands asking for help, to put it simply. Help him reframe his comic books, he doesn't know how to go about it just like I don't know how jet propulsion engines work. You know how sometimes you can't remember the last few turns you made when driving? He may have always just been a "go with the flow" in the home decor because he didn't care at the time, and now he's just woken up and realized he's surrounded in decisions he didn't make. And because you did all the work and tried to get him to participate, you might feel insulted? But, there's no fault to be tossed around. He probably just came to the realization that he didn't remember making the last few turns and that's a little freaky. Does that make sense? Just means it's a time for some changes or additions. And he doesn't know how. You're so good at it, help him out. Good luck! and remember, some people just don't have that type of creative gene in their body so they REALLY don't know where to start. Thanks for the content.
All excellent points. I've just never encountered a cat who would actively attack me as soon as I'm walking through the door. Lol. And you're absolutely right about the interior design. I've already earmarked some floating frames online that will display them better and I'll be patient with him. It's just so frustrating when he flip flops. Thanks for the thoughtful comment.
We were babysitting my son and dil's cat. He decided we were not upholding his standards and chewed up my spider plant. I moved it when he came the next time and thought it was safe. Put stuff around it... Nope chewed it again. Butt head.
I've heard that once a cat experiences a spider plant they will continue to seek it out just based on its effects. Apparently spider plants are mildly hallucinogenic to cats the way a little marijuana is to humans. Most cats really like it. Like catnip. Haha
Funny (not funny at the time) asshole cat story. Gets a bit long so I apologize ahead of time. My husband and I both came into our marriage with cats of our own. My husbands cat was a very large male orange tabby named Felix. Yes I know strange he wasn't a tuxedo cat but named Felix. He did several horribly destructive things to my possessions throughout his life (we unfortunately lost him to bladder cancer 3 years ago) but this one stands out in my mind. I was putting on my socks one morning getting ready to leave for work and he came up beside me all casual like backed up and started peeing on my leg and the wood floor. I told the cat he was dead to me at the time I was so mad😂😂. I did love him despite it but it took a while for me to warm up to him again. He was pretty naughty though and made me fear getting another male cat. It wasn't just me either, all of my husbands friends nicknamed him "the Dick". Have a great month of traveling!
Love your progress on your wips. Happy stitching!
Great to see you - love everything you’re working on! Thanks for sharing - I really appreciate that about you. Also, I love your new glasses.
We adopted a young dog less than 2 years ago from the shelter. He has destroyed vintage couch cushion ( I was able to get it repaired), regular couch cushion, couch pillows, laptop charger, all 4 kitchen chair cushions, completed cross stitch, several patterns, several hand dyed threads, silks, longaberger basket, all of my winter hats, gloves, my husbands work hats, shoes, and countless other things too numerous to mention. We have tried so hard to keep him from things. But, we love him and are waiting for him to outgrow it. My plants are just hanging ones that he can't reach.
Oh my gosh...lol. Thankfully you love him. 🥰
Love the new glasses. You will find they stay on your nose better with nose pieces. Cool.
Hi good morning happy Tuesday morning I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
The glasses look nice on you.
Great future projects, I hope you find some cool fabrics.
Poor Buster, he missed you. Don't be too hard on him.
Marilyn
Glasses are perfect! I love the diagonal corner, just too cute, and certainly super nice on you. Your stitching is lovely to see.
Aww thank you. ❤️
Welcome to St Louis, Colour and Cotton is awesome!
Loving the new eyeglasses, great color, fit and style on you!
Thank you! 💕
Love your videos. We all need some time and a place to vent. Enjoy your travels.
My husband built a six-sided dolly with wheels so we can move our large houseplant/housetree into the laundry room when our kids visit with the cats or dogs...all other plants (which are smaller and are easily lifted...or knocked over) get carried into the laundry room of the master bedroom, and those doors stay closed for the duration of the visit. My daughter used to grow some herbs and peppers on her kitchen windowsills and had to give that up due to destruction from her cat.
Some cats are really bad about it. I should be thankful that Buster will only rarely target a particular plant.
My neighbor asked me to feed her cat one weekend. Every time I saw him he was very shy but never aggressive. When it was just me coming around that thing was possessed. The cat had a specific diet with dry food and wet food and measuring spoons were involved so I would take the bowl into the feeder and the cat would follow me in and sit on the counter. Always looking innocent. Whenever I would try reaching for the bowl he would swat hiss and bite. I too love cats. I’ve had mine for almost 14 years. I told my neighbor there wouldn’t be a next time
I totally feel you. I continue to help because I don't know who else she would get, lol. And being experienced with cats I would rather me calmly go in and deal with the aggression than someone else.
You done did good with those glasses. Very 80s and Sophia Loren.
We were watching All in the Family on UA-cam yesterday. I noticed that my husband’s new glasses were identical to Archie’s. 😅
My husband and I collaborate pretty well on the decorating after 48 years. We kind of grew up together. I also have my west wing and he has his east wing of our warehouse apartment where we decorate them ourselves. I often ask him his opinion as I’m deciding on colors on a new cross stitch or quilt project.
We had a miniature dachshund that chewed the baseboards and doors of our mobile home. She never was housebroken. Our 18 year old dachshund we have now has only chewed the rabbit fur off one slipper. He’s a wonderful little boy.
I recently started Eliza Townsend. I’m doing it with brighter colors. I can’t do the faded version. The house reminds me of the ruins of Barnsley Gardens in Adairsville.
You know now that you say that it does remind me of Barnsley Gardens ruins.
Thanks for the long and thoughtful comment. 💕
My husband doesnt really care about the decor, he complains that i take over rooms with my “craft stuff”…he says ,what room is mine? I say the garage ,the kitchen, the backyard.
My husband’s first wife was an interior designer, so he has OPINIONS on all the decor. I would prefer the “whatever you want” husband. I want new dining room chairs, but know it will turn into a whole thing trying to agree. Love the glasses and the harbor piece. Enjoy your trip to Colour & Cotton. I hope to get there in September.
Oh my. That's sounds terrible. Possibly worse than in the first years of marriage when their response to problems is, "I don't know, let's call my mom and see how she does it." Blarg.
Thank you for a great video!
I lucked out with my husband and Home Decor, because he has really good taste 😊He will present me with two or three choices and we talk about it and decide. I'm always really happy with the way things turn out. With Jim you probably have to find a time when he's not hungry or tired or distracted and then give him some choices to make him feel involved. He's such a good guy though you really lucked out too!
Definitely lucked out. He is amazing. I'm thankful every day.
Thank you for sharing new glasses! This frame is quite trendy now💥💥❤❤😎😎
We had an orange tabby who turned into an attack cat whenever we left on a trip. We had to leave a water bottle by the door so whomever was feeding him could spray him to get into the door.
Lol sounds like the cat I was feeding!
You made me laugh so hard with your cat/plant story- thank you so much for that. And yes, my dog decided that my first and best drop-spindle would make a great stick to chew on- he literally dug it out of a bag I had and out of ALL of the toys I've given him- he decided to destroy that.
Those glasses really suit you. I have met a devil cat. My friend and her family went on vacation and I was going over every day to take care of their sweet cat, Ellie, and the stray her son brought home from college, Buddy. Ellie was not a problem. She was in the main part of the house. Buddy was living in the finished basement. I met him before they left and he seemed friendly. I quickly learned to wear long pants when dealing with him. He would purr and act like a nice cat and with no warning go into attacking you. I started bringing a spray bottle with me so I could do what I needed to. Or have my husband come with me to distract Buddy. Sorry about your plants.
Oh wow. That even sounds worse because you're not sure which cat you are getting. At least with the cat I was watching it was pure evil all the time, lol.
@@emilyc325 I learned quickly not to trust that cat. He would go from nice to mean in a second.
I LOVE those new glasses 🥰
Thank you!
Whoa! You touched a nerve in this one! My husband COMPLETELY took over the interior of this house. I’m not exactly sure how it happened, but he’s got crap everywhere. It’s like living in a frat house. As an interior designer, it’s virtually sucking out my soul. I actually think I need therapy over this. 😂🤣
Lol...sorry! 💕
I am so sorry about the plants, such a bummer. I did some damage shopping at Mad for Minders, I found several that I just had to have! LOL. Have fun on your trip.
They have soooo many good ones.
So... I'm 🤔 for your 🐱 goals, sage, holy water & palo santo are in order along with an exorcism😂 💪...I love your floss conversion for the last sampler (Hannah ?). I vote you start that and as far as Buster is concerned...I'm out!!😂 Happy stitching!
I hope some of the comments have made you laugh…they have made me laugh! The glasses are great btw. I gave up on building a house because my DH would not help with decisions….kept saying “I dont mind” “ whatever you think” so eventually over the round or square drain pipes I quit…told him my ❤wasnt in it…They really are from a different planet…..kudos to Buster for being able to work out his rage 😂😂😂he obviously missed you alot…dont go away for too long!
I have a husband/cat conflict going on right now. Sidney (the cat) is so sweet, and so mentally messed up - he was returned to the pound FIVE times before we got him, and all of his former homes just tortured him and broke his brain. None of this is his fault, but he’s having litter box issues that I can’t fix. (The vet assured us it’s not physical.) Hubby understandably doesn’t want to be in a house that smells like cat pee, and is losing patience. I’ve tried literally every piece of advice online and from the vet. The cat has ALL the most luxurious litter boxes and comfort places… I’m trying Dr. Elsey’s litter now, which appears to be working (fingers crossed!) I really miss having a cat I can actually cuddle and pet. UGH!
My duck derby box came early (THANK YOU!) but I have family visiting and I can’t look at it yet…. I visit it and poke at it frequently when no one’s looking. LOL I snuck in one flosstube video in the middle of the night before I have to get up and be entertaining again. Ha, ha! Have a great June!
Yes! I remember yours being one of the first ones that went out. So glad it arrived safely and I hope you enjoy its contents.
Litter box issues are the worst. I currently have one kitty who isn't wanting to bury things...which can add to the smell. I hope the Dr. Elsey's litter continues to work and the cat has found a safe long term home. Good luck and best wishes for sure.
Those glasses are fabulous.
"Because they DESERVE nicer frames, honey"!
Good taste! This nes pair of glasses super fit for your face shape
Thanks!
I'm thankful my husband lets me do the decorating. He had this horrible southwestern style print in a mauve frame when we moved in together and I hated that thing. Thankfully when we bought our first house I was able to hide it away in the loft. As for animals destroying things, when our dog was a puppy she destroyed all but one pot of my succulents outside to teethe on the pots, among other things she destroyed.
When I first moved in with Jim I moved into his place. He had HUGE superhero posters basically butted up against each other lining the walls in his living room. It was too much of a good thing. I slowly made the home my own and now we are in a different home we bought together. So I get the mauve frame, lol.
I had two dogs with anxiety issues who made it their mission to destroy things. Two pairs of very nice dress shoes, 2 very expensive bras, and 2 bathroom doors 🙄
Sounds like my sister's dogs. They have gotten accidentally locked in her bathroom and eaten part of the door. 😳
Your new glasses look great on you! Cats are funny creatures. I don’t think the devil cat hates you, I think the cat smells your kitty and is protecting its domain. I have a young cat who picks on one plant of mine. She is always digging out the dirt in the pot. It makes a mess.
I think you are correct about smelling my cats. I've just never experienced a cat who was so aggressive.
Emily can't help with the decor .But I have had to move my kitchen cabinets around where my food was kept. I have lost 4 loaves of bread. I have it in a cabinet that I have to get on a stool to get too now! I feel for you. Enjoy your trips! I don't have a local needlework shop either.
Oh my...lol. At least he doesn't go after my bread....yet.
You're giving me 70s vibes with your new glasses and long hair. The band sampler is spectacular. T-shirt... "I sprayed that bitch down!"
70s vibes is how I want to live my life. Best compliment ever.
@@emilyc325 And then we will go to dinner and the creeps will talk to us / me.
WHAT???? I was just in St Louis - I didnt know Color and Cotton has a shop there. Ugh!!! I was also in Springfield MO so I drove to the Silver Needle in Tulsa - totally worth it (even though I had also been there in January)
They JUST opened within the past week or two so maybe they weren't open yet when you were there? 😬
@@emilyc325 oh good - I was there a few weeks ago!!
I had an English Setter when I was in high school. She was the most spiteful dog I've ever lived with. If someone upset her (like didn't pay her enough attention), she would find something that she knew belonged to them and chew on it. She was especially fond of ruining books. Our 3yo Australian Shepherd will take my husband's hats if he's upset with him. So far, he hasn't done anything like that to me, just my husband.
Oh my…after more than 20 years of marriage….I have stories. Weeks of looking for furniture only to end up with a house full that fits his 6’4” frame and leaves me dangling my feet like I am five years old. We have spent months discussing paint colors…he pretty much likes anything that could be in a baby’s dirty diaper. We finally realized that we don’t perceive colors the same way and he mostly lets me choose (finally until I screw up) except during our recent bathroom remodels. We couldn’t agree on wall tile grout colors; our contractor pulled him aside and told him I was correct which my husband confirmed by watching decorator youtube videos…my color it was. After it was done, he actually stood admiring the tile grout and proclaimed it was his idea. The man doesn’t know how close he has come to being suffocated in his sleep…but I’d miss him too much. 😂 Thanks for the video including the venting…it makes me feel more sane. Love the new Amy glasses!
Lol I might have lost it when he said it was his idea. Or at least gotten really twitchy...
My dog destroyed my downstairs carpet and ate a 100+ year old Louisa May Alcott volume. Still love her. I think.
Ohhhh nooooo..... 😳
@@emilyc325 we have books all over the house and she lived to the ripe old age of 16 as a lab mix, and she only ever ate one book! Wtf?
When something doesn't seem possible to me I literally tell myself, "It's not all about you, Rebecca" and rethink through the situation outside of myself. That cat doesn't dislike you, he dislikes what you smell like....other cats...competition in the wild. And cats hold grudges as you know, so you will always be that lady with cat smells even if you put on new laundry before entering. Also, as a former interior designer, your husbands asking for help, to put it simply. Help him reframe his comic books, he doesn't know how to go about it just like I don't know how jet propulsion engines work. You know how sometimes you can't remember the last few turns you made when driving? He may have always just been a "go with the flow" in the home decor because he didn't care at the time, and now he's just woken up and realized he's surrounded in decisions he didn't make. And because you did all the work and tried to get him to participate, you might feel insulted? But, there's no fault to be tossed around. He probably just came to the realization that he didn't remember making the last few turns and that's a little freaky. Does that make sense? Just means it's a time for some changes or additions. And he doesn't know how. You're so good at it, help him out. Good luck! and remember, some people just don't have that type of creative gene in their body so they REALLY don't know where to start. Thanks for the content.
All excellent points. I've just never encountered a cat who would actively attack me as soon as I'm walking through the door. Lol. And you're absolutely right about the interior design. I've already earmarked some floating frames online that will display them better and I'll be patient with him. It's just so frustrating when he flip flops. Thanks for the thoughtful comment.
He sounds just like my husband!! 🤣
Are those Jan’s glasses from the Brady Bunch? I love those frames btw. Also, L7 was a punk band back in the day.
Right?? I love the retro shape of them.
What painting is on the right of you. It looks like German or a Swiss old building?
It's a needlepoint that I bought vintage and framed.
Where did you find the EF Sampler?
It's in a magazine from Sampler and Antique Needlework Quarterly. You can buy every one in a DVD set from Amazon and lots of other places.
@@emilyc325 Got it!!! Thank you!
We were babysitting my son and dil's cat. He decided we were not upholding his standards and chewed up my spider plant. I moved it when he came the next time and thought it was safe. Put stuff around it... Nope chewed it again. Butt head.
I've heard that once a cat experiences a spider plant they will continue to seek it out just based on its effects. Apparently spider plants are mildly hallucinogenic to cats the way a little marijuana is to humans. Most cats really like it. Like catnip. Haha
Funny (not funny at the time) asshole cat story. Gets a bit long so I apologize ahead of time. My husband and I both came into our marriage with cats of our own. My husbands cat was a very large male orange tabby named Felix. Yes I know strange he wasn't a tuxedo cat but named Felix. He did several horribly destructive things to my possessions throughout his life (we unfortunately lost him to bladder cancer 3 years ago) but this one stands out in my mind. I was putting on my socks one morning getting ready to leave for work and he came up beside me all casual like backed up and started peeing on my leg and the wood floor. I told the cat he was dead to me at the time I was so mad😂😂. I did love him despite it but it took a while for me to warm up to him again. He was pretty naughty though and made me fear getting another male cat. It wasn't just me either, all of my husbands friends nicknamed him "the Dick". Have a great month of traveling!
Oh my gosh...lol. Cats that you have prior to relationships can be so territorial. My cat I had before Jim and I got together wasn't a fan of him.
My cat jumped in my bird of paradise until it broke all the stems & leaves & it died.
Oh my...
They truly are assholes!
That Devil Cat may be smelling your cat on you and perhaps that why she hates you -
That's possible for sure. But dang...she's aggressive about it.
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