Don't Marry Revert? Japanese Muslim Explains his reasons

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  • @hysteri
    @hysteri 25 днів тому +584

    He’s not saying not to marry reverts, his wife literally married one lol. Just that he didn’t and why he didn’t 😊❤

    • @tigertot4935
      @tigertot4935 18 днів тому +18

      You don't get the poin, he doesn't make 'fatwa' revert can't marry another revertee...he just explain why he choose not to marry another revertee especially Japanese...I assume because Japanese have strong tradition of drink (sake)...might before he'd revert, as many Japanese he also had that habit...then if he marry another revertee Japan Woman, whose big possibility had same haram habit who would hold when one moreover both had strong desire to continue that haram habit

    • @certifiedcib7958
      @certifiedcib7958 15 днів тому +2

      It’s sad that you have to explain it like this because everyone takes everything so damn personal

    • @koaaala
      @koaaala 14 днів тому +1

      ​@@tigertot4935it's literally what the og comment say brother/sis

    • @fuzzyfuzz781
      @fuzzyfuzz781 10 днів тому

      It's a good job you pinned this cos I was about to lecture you on what he meant 😅

    • @mk1maad
      @mk1maad 9 днів тому

      Controversial title = views

  • @fadhlialamsyah7214
    @fadhlialamsyah7214 8 днів тому +170

    I am muslim since i born. But yeah my muslim wife, is more religious than me. Its really help me to be more religious and become a strong imam. She support me. I am so thankfull to Allah for this. 7 years and still happy life, i hope we Will be always happy until Jannah.

  • @whozhio7878
    @whozhio7878 9 днів тому +124

    As a revert some of my Muslim friends say im more muslim than them, i think its because i actually had to find islam on my own

    • @mars1pluto
      @mars1pluto 5 днів тому +5

      Oh yes I've met someone like you. 👍

    • @subtoeveryonesubtorage9746
      @subtoeveryonesubtorage9746 5 днів тому

      AGREE TO THAT because thats what I really observe😪😪🙏🙏

    • @Amish07
      @Amish07 5 днів тому +2

      true as a born Muslim I've learned to be a hijabie from reverts

    • @catqueen99
      @catqueen99 5 днів тому +2

      yes as a born-Muslim I’ve had this experience with reverts in general as well :)

    • @yaminakoubai7892
      @yaminakoubai7892 5 днів тому +1

      That's true as a Muslim i got my religion from my family unlike you
      You did your job you did your research so for sure your faith is stronger I salute you brother ❤

  • @stalkerentertainment3671
    @stalkerentertainment3671 18 днів тому +48

    Allahuma barik, greetings from Turkey! 🇹🇷❤️🇯🇵

  • @fuzzyfuzz781
    @fuzzyfuzz781 10 днів тому +63

    My mother in law is a new Muslim and she tries to incorporate yoga into her version of Islam. Its absolutely crucial for new muslims to have aomeone grounded in the religion. Or they can end up creating their own sect. Its scary.
    Do yoga all you like but dont try to make it a part of Islam. Simple.

    • @fandangofanful
      @fandangofanful 4 дні тому +3

      That’s so sad. May Allah guide your mother in law to the straight path and make her steadfast and firm upon it. Make dua for her as much as you can in sha Allah.

    • @faebalina7786
      @faebalina7786 2 дні тому +3

      I’m glad you acknowledge this has no place in Islam as it’s originated from a mushrik faith and is inherently designed to be spiritual

    • @equityjustice2695
      @equityjustice2695 2 дні тому +1

      😟😩 Yoga come from Hindu worship. So a Muslim should not do it even for recreational or health reasons. Just stay away from it all together

    • @ServantOfAllah-007
      @ServantOfAllah-007 18 годин тому +1

      She's new so be patient with her. Pray to Allah for her. 😊

    • @kkonejogee9891
      @kkonejogee9891 11 годин тому

      When you say "incorporate yoga into Islam" do you mean during Salah? Or while reciting Qur'an outside of Salah?

  • @AsifAnsari-nn8kk
    @AsifAnsari-nn8kk 8 днів тому +35

    We need each other to motivate and boost our imaan.

  • @NobodyUK
    @NobodyUK 13 днів тому +24

    I love this brother and his thinking for the sake of Allah Swt ❤

  • @akanksha461
    @akanksha461 5 днів тому +7

    the reason why some reverts have stronger imaan is because we had to find Islam. we weren't gifted with it from birth but our life literally took us there Alhamdulillah

    • @luluwachedjari3299
      @luluwachedjari3299 2 години тому

      Please pray for my soulmate to revert to Islam ❤

  • @MrLegit.
    @MrLegit. 20 днів тому +121

    Did anybody realise? He looks exactly like Elon Musk but richer than Elon in the heart with Iman. ❤

    • @DSRTX
      @DSRTX 13 днів тому +5

      That’s the real richness

    • @r.j804
      @r.j804 12 днів тому +4

      😂😂😂 beggars can't be choosers.lot of families fed by Elon Musk and by his money but here a man just say allah hu Akbar is real rich🤔.it's easy drug to sell the weak people who don't do extraordinary in this life 😂

    • @MrLegit.
      @MrLegit. 12 днів тому +6

      @@r.j804 I said rich with Iman. Not money. Learn the full definition of Iman and you will realise, Elon doesnt have it. Im not degrading him. Im just saying a believers heart is always at peace. But Elon has to hit night clubs and get hammered sometimes to repel depression.

    • @MrLegit.
      @MrLegit. 12 днів тому +1

      @@DSRTX Apparently for some weirdo, richness means having wads of cash and be able to spend it to fill necessity. But hearts too need provisions. They are not content by wordly things.

    • @r.j804
      @r.j804 12 днів тому

      @@MrLegit. Maybe u can't go place like he goes and ur jealous so now u will say no I don't want to go there bcoz allah forbade us🤣

  • @zailanineamath2383
    @zailanineamath2383 15 днів тому +12

    Very reasonable and impressive so true eeman is very important in Islam

  • @dustspark_
    @dustspark_ 7 днів тому +19

    When Islam began, all of the first Sahabah RA were reverts. Do not let one man's opinion mislead you from marrying reverts. Some reverts have way more iman compared to born muslims.

    • @fizu9403
      @fizu9403 7 днів тому +9

      He is not wrong
      And u are not wrong
      He: marry someone with stronger iman
      U: marry someone with stronger iman
      Both are correct
      May Allah bless u guys
      May Allah bless us all

    • @lamiaperveen4066
      @lamiaperveen4066 День тому

      Absolutely 💯

    • @mohammedalsmadi680
      @mohammedalsmadi680 День тому +1

      Nah I’m good. He knows what hes talking about b

    • @dustspark_
      @dustspark_ День тому +1

      @@mohammedalsmadi680 i doubt you know what you're on about though.

    • @Fulaan7
      @Fulaan7 День тому +1

      No not all akhi. Many Sahaba were born into Islam because they are the children of other sahaabas. Take ‘Aisha رضي الله عنها for example. She was born after the prophet ‎ﷺ attained prophethood, and she was born when both her parents had already accepted islam.

  • @usmanmt33
    @usmanmt33 8 днів тому +6

    He's clearly talking about himself and his reasons, you're most likely doing this to get engagement , welldone, hope youre happy now.

  • @MadiFiras2005
    @MadiFiras2005 19 днів тому +17

    Saying hello to all of my other brothers and sisters from the other side of the planet I love u all and I hope you go to paradise

  • @Retrotoys80
    @Retrotoys80 4 дні тому +5

    I was a Christian now Im been a revert for 2 years ,at the beginning everybody call me invite me to jumah and invite me to a lot of events,but now everybody forget about me,nobody call me no more ,and the only muslim friend that i have, its going back to Bangladesh hes a mufti and he is the only one who cares about me,make dua for me im losing my iman,pliz make dua for me,im from New York City and i try to contact a lot of muslim people and a lot of websites but nobody help me..thats my story

    • @digitalngo9152
      @digitalngo9152 День тому +1

      It's ok people leave you at some point in your life. Remember that Allah is with you. Even born Muslims have weak iman. Listen to Muslim scholars; I recommend Nauman Ali Khan.

    • @lamiaperveen4066
      @lamiaperveen4066 День тому

      Bangladeshi here ! Welcome to Islam and prayers to both you and your friend

    • @1chibanKasuga
      @1chibanKasuga 4 години тому +1

      Inchallah you will get trough this difficult time

  • @gavinminty4974
    @gavinminty4974 17 днів тому +9

    Disagree. A new revert has such Iman they took the first step.
    Two reverts can uplift and make change and support eachother.
    I do understand the point he is making however.

    • @Katsuki1031
      @Katsuki1031 10 днів тому +2

      He’s saying the reason he didn’t marry a revert was for his own faith to stay strong! He knows himself! I believe that’s what he’s saying 😊

    • @NoMan-pp1jq
      @NoMan-pp1jq 10 днів тому

      That can be true and I know a few friends at our mosque who both them and their spouses are reverts but I encourage reverts to marry into born Muslim families as it gives access to some certain cultural access that is usually done without knowing why. It also opens the door to a Muslim family who you can trust to keep your kids with them if you vacation etc. This is one of those things though that the person pursuing marriage knows best who they should be with. My own brother married a Christian woman (didn’t convert) and they are quite happy so this is a personal matter which I believe whoever makes the decision knows best

  • @msmmasood2520
    @msmmasood2520 7 днів тому +5

    Ma Shaa Allah
    Nice wise decision
    May Allah Ta'ala give Barakat to your family

  • @Qawi33_aisha
    @Qawi33_aisha 12 днів тому +5

    The brother is not saying anything wrong but I think it would be a beautiful thing for two new reverts to whole heartedly build knowledge & strong faith together with love & jannah on their MINDS

  • @GoldenHordeofBerke
    @GoldenHordeofBerke 12 днів тому +4

    Alhamdulilah well done 👍

  • @AdelAri-zx1vl
    @AdelAri-zx1vl 3 дні тому +1

    Barokallahu lakuma

  • @Man_With_Brain.
    @Man_With_Brain. 2 години тому

    That's good. Very true.❤

  • @o0emin0o
    @o0emin0o 10 днів тому +3

    بارك الله فيكما

  • @kesfoul29
    @kesfoul29 2 дні тому

    May Allah swt grant you Jannat Firdaus brother❤

  • @user-oj1sb3hl8x
    @user-oj1sb3hl8x 5 годин тому +1

    Alhumdulillah

  • @selcuk32adana
    @selcuk32adana 7 днів тому +9

    very smart

    • @ramsism8652
      @ramsism8652 4 дні тому

      Very dumb

    • @Animation-51
      @Animation-51 4 дні тому

      ​@@ramsism8652like you lmao

    • @mohammedsharf8459
      @mohammedsharf8459 14 годин тому

      The only dumb thing is you who don't read the Quran and make assumptions

  • @hainieh.8414
    @hainieh.8414 3 дні тому

    Mashallah! This is so right!!

  • @ibrahimn.606
    @ibrahimn.606 6 днів тому

    Good advise. Be smart who you choose.

  • @zedjam3709
    @zedjam3709 12 днів тому +2

    Good advice

  • @busyshah
    @busyshah 2 дні тому +1

    Beg to differ.
    Imaan is the strongest of reverts

  • @mohammedyasin2675
    @mohammedyasin2675 2 дні тому

    Masha'Allah!

  • @MensurDarasa
    @MensurDarasa 7 днів тому +5

    I really want to marry a revert, or Inshaa'Allah I'll be the reason for the reverting of my future wife. Surprisingly, new muslims tend to have strong faith later in their lives, SubhanAllah

    • @travelwithtj9455
      @travelwithtj9455 7 днів тому

      Same here brother. That's why I'm here, I literally searched "How can I marry Japanese revert" 😅

    • @1chibanKasuga
      @1chibanKasuga 4 години тому

      ​@@travelwithtj9455bro...

  • @sebadereja2454
    @sebadereja2454 9 годин тому

    Absolutely right

  • @user_nnnmmm
    @user_nnnmmm 3 дні тому

    Masha Allah❤ he is right.

  • @Ruby-vm2ce
    @Ruby-vm2ce 2 дні тому

    So sweet mashaAllah..

  • @mohammedyasin2675
    @mohammedyasin2675 2 дні тому

    Excellent Logic!

  • @abdiazizhamza5866
    @abdiazizhamza5866 3 дні тому

    Mashallah very wise man

  • @SalehUllah4
    @SalehUllah4 25 днів тому +12

    Allahumma Barik

  • @larisalarisa4984
    @larisalarisa4984 4 дні тому +1

    People who revert to Islam, don’t feel like you guys are not liked by us, we love people who revert, and we are gonna be with you, plus there are so many people like me who want to marry a revert

  • @zeinaakkouche7661
    @zeinaakkouche7661 19 годин тому

    Love ❤️ peace ✌🏼 and blessings ✨to you dear brother and your lovely family 🥰🥰🇦🇺

  • @danielahmed8162
    @danielahmed8162 5 днів тому

    Al hamdulillah 🥹

  • @user-oe7is8xf2j
    @user-oe7is8xf2j 8 днів тому +3

    Alhamdulillah ❤

  • @ahmedabubakar7138
    @ahmedabubakar7138 5 днів тому

    Mashaa Allah ❤❤❤❤

  • @zulkiflimohdisa5422
    @zulkiflimohdisa5422 5 днів тому +1

    Good strategy. Nonetheless, if already fated that both are new reverts, InsyaAllah there will be help.

  • @alipalestine3493
    @alipalestine3493 6 днів тому

    May Allah be pleased with you brother ❤

  • @faheemmusthafa7750
    @faheemmusthafa7750 12 днів тому +3

    but mostly reverts became better than many born as they reverted after reading quran and understood quran
    which many born Muslim doesn't

    • @lamiaperveen4066
      @lamiaperveen4066 День тому

      The main reason is the so called sects that have been used since ages, we by born Muslims unfortunately grew up in such an atmosphere where we had to relearn about our own religion when we realized that the teachings of our society sects are wrong on most basis

  • @ashemijiddausman
    @ashemijiddausman 3 дні тому

    Masha allah

  • @Plantium700
    @Plantium700 3 дні тому

    Allaahoema baariek!

  • @emdadyy
    @emdadyy 5 днів тому

    Valid point.

  • @Viralshow567
    @Viralshow567 4 години тому

    SubhanAllah

  • @Abdullah-tu9mo
    @Abdullah-tu9mo 24 дні тому +4

    May Allah protect you brother thats wery smart

  • @sudhinalavil
    @sudhinalavil 5 днів тому +1

    He is saying that brain washing has to be long and strong!!😂

  • @faebalina7786
    @faebalina7786 2 дні тому

    He considered his iman first and foremost and wanted to protect it
    Subhaana’Allah

  • @goodfellas1xx776
    @goodfellas1xx776 День тому

    Alhamdulillah...allahuakhbar 😢

  • @yttav5328
    @yttav5328 21 день тому +6

    Bro, I love japanese so much that I asked Allah for Japanese Hoor😅

    • @chowdhurysaadbinfaruk3589
      @chowdhurysaadbinfaruk3589 19 днів тому +6

      Too much anime man 💀

    • @yttav5328
      @yttav5328 19 днів тому

      @@chowdhurysaadbinfaruk3589
      😒 Bro, why anime comes to your mind? Japanese women are special, I love their ethics and culture. Not those American "White Trash"(don't search it on corn sites 😂).

    • @Merguez40006
      @Merguez40006 16 днів тому +1

      @@chowdhurysaadbinfaruk3589lol that’s not cool 😂

    • @redunbiased8417
      @redunbiased8417 14 днів тому +1

      That is cute.. Tabarakallah! May anything you desired fulfil in there

    • @redunbiased8417
      @redunbiased8417 13 днів тому

      @@sachinnair91 intead.. you will get Korean troll in Jahanam

  • @x7ameedo700
    @x7ameedo700 16 днів тому +2

    Mashallah what a great thinking.
    Now im intrested in Japanese muslim women ❤

  • @fatimarashid4380
    @fatimarashid4380 15 годин тому

    Very true

  • @user-ws9qm8kk3q
    @user-ws9qm8kk3q 5 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ i love u sir alot.

  • @user-bd7hn3dd3v
    @user-bd7hn3dd3v 15 днів тому +2

    Allah bless you and your family brother
    May allah spread islam all across japan

  • @mahmoudsir319
    @mahmoudsir319 7 днів тому +2

    So wise

  • @md.ahamadrazasheikho6691
    @md.ahamadrazasheikho6691 3 дні тому

    Absolutely 💯

  • @MrDjebrane
    @MrDjebrane 13 днів тому +1

    I like his vision, there nothing wrog with that may allah bles him

  • @lepashmiah521
    @lepashmiah521 2 дні тому

    TRUE❤

  • @wassilaouni2524
    @wassilaouni2524 5 днів тому

    Very smart 👌

  • @adinssolace8348
    @adinssolace8348 День тому

    Subhan Allah bless you with good health and prosperity aamin 😢❤

  • @karmamsia
    @karmamsia 16 годин тому

    Alhamdulillah

  • @Hvacr123
    @Hvacr123 8 днів тому +1

    He got point

  • @Only-Hitotsu
    @Only-Hitotsu 13 годин тому

    This is a Muslim who keeps his faith to priority. Alhamdulillah

  • @DslaX01
    @DslaX01 Годину тому

    It's good.
    But what about every convert?
    I think it is wise to have some that's strong supporting you.
    But it's even better if you reach for Allah together.
    From the maybe same height of iman.
    It's the quality that matters not quantity.
    Taking your time is important.
    And I also hear many say people like me who converted are stronger as them.
    It's not my word.
    It really got me tbh.
    I didn't think about it bcs Islam is Islam.
    But yea I get it now.
    So what I learned is helping each other is important.
    Not being higher than the other person.
    But also before I forget it.
    Masha Allah and Allahuma barik brother that got married.
    May Allah grant you everything and especially jannatul firdaus.
    Ameen.

  • @abrahamsasa3439
    @abrahamsasa3439 6 днів тому +5

    May Allah grant you steadfastness Ameen

  • @haseebahmad5586
    @haseebahmad5586 9 днів тому +1

    MashAllah

  • @Puresoul200
    @Puresoul200 День тому

    As a reverted Muslimah it really hurts me to hear but
    I have some Muslim friends they i acciquire imaan more than them they u are better than us !

  • @SajSajidmk
    @SajSajidmk 3 дні тому

    Mashallah 💕💖💕💖💞💖

  • @enra7990
    @enra7990 День тому

    His way of thinking, is.. I'm speechless. I. Should do everything for Allah. Every muslims have to.

  • @kellycraytor
    @kellycraytor 3 дні тому

    As a revert muslima I feel the same. How can I carry on the religion with 2 half knowledge people of Islam

  • @joerizal1080
    @joerizal1080 7 годин тому

    Revert usually have stronger faith bcoz they searched and understood the truth

  • @user-mk2rt5ym4k
    @user-mk2rt5ym4k День тому

    I saw that of the time, reverts know the religion more than those born into it. But I understand his point.

  • @harf-pc1ye
    @harf-pc1ye День тому

    Listen, reverts. Even I as a moslem born would sometimes be fascinated by the faith of the reverts, that it took a lot of efforts to be a Moslem for reverts, and pressure from family and relatives. They understand that the meaning of 5 time prayer is not just ritual. Yes, moslem born like me learn Arabic earlier to be used to reciting quran, but that doesn't guarantee that I will go to the jannah earlier.

  • @samsosa3639
    @samsosa3639 19 днів тому +2

    Facts

  • @ChiraqMuslim073
    @ChiraqMuslim073 6 днів тому

    My wife is born and raised in a Muslim family and I still was more versed in Islam than she was. I Actually made her imaan strong

  • @muhammadabirhossain7216
    @muhammadabirhossain7216 День тому

    They understand Islam so profoundly

  • @Ultixa
    @Ultixa 21 годину тому

    That's actually smart

  • @lightz7194
    @lightz7194 11 днів тому +2

    He is just presenting his thoughts that both parteners should not be revert cause their iman would be weak. But their is not rule and Allah controls everything. The case can be opposite also

  • @sharifahhawaalrifaei1397
    @sharifahhawaalrifaei1397 20 днів тому +1

    mashaAllaah 💚

  • @SandiegoRockstar
    @SandiegoRockstar 5 годин тому

    That makes a lot of sense. Ideally, the strongest Muslims should marry reverts.

  • @hopeali
    @hopeali День тому

    That's his preference and is okay.

  • @sabrnshakr3781
    @sabrnshakr3781 9 годин тому

    Well I'm making dua for an Asian Muslim who likes African Caribbean

  • @LiveRight84
    @LiveRight84 2 дні тому

    It’s makes sense

  • @baimanotsamamaphilips3713
    @baimanotsamamaphilips3713 6 днів тому +1

    MaashaaALLAH. Maambrook

  • @m33ro.
    @m33ro. 21 годину тому

    He makes sense unlike the title

  • @atilla4352
    @atilla4352 День тому

    He has a mission, which is not about him but Islam

  • @normasulisiawati2556
    @normasulisiawati2556 8 днів тому

    Alhamdulillaah❤

  • @JuanCarlosLawalata
    @JuanCarlosLawalata 4 дні тому

    As an Indonesian, hopefully I'll find strong Japanese (or any other country) to be my wife

  • @communistkugamercat
    @communistkugamercat 6 днів тому +1

    Save japan

  • @greentooth3097
    @greentooth3097 2 дні тому

    He's a revert who didn't want to marry another revert. It's fine. To each their own

  • @TyphoonS.S.
    @TyphoonS.S. 8 днів тому

    Subhan Allah .

  • @halimaissack4719
    @halimaissack4719 2 дні тому

    May Allah bless his marriage

  • @wisemeoww
    @wisemeoww 7 годин тому

    This is your opinion. Remember mostly all the sahaba are also converts. But they are better than anyone of us.

  • @kapawtaw
    @kapawtaw 4 дні тому +1

    This cult will go down the drain one day .

  • @antidavictory2135
    @antidavictory2135 4 дні тому

  • @user-ln2cj1ig5h
    @user-ln2cj1ig5h 6 днів тому

    Wow ❤

  • @safisyed736
    @safisyed736 День тому

    To me a new revert Muslim's faith is stronger as they are fascinated and eager with the teachings of Islam. Sometimes fellow born Muslims and like me do not appreciate and take our religion seriously.