Marriage & the Meaning of Life | Part 1/2 | Salman Asif Siddiqui
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
- What is the purpose of marriage? What are some of the most important factors that spouses should be careful about? In this detailed talk, Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about the importance of marriage, the order of relationships, and some advice for couples to strengthen their relationship.
00:00:00 Preview
00:00:32 Introduction
00:01:18 Our Preparations for Marriage vs Ideal Preparations for Marriage
00:04:56 The Purpose of Marriage
00:24:50 Marriage - The Need of Individuals
00:35:35 Marriage - The Need of a Human Society
00:50:33 Husband's Responsibilities in Marriage
00:57:23 Wife's Responsibilities in Marriage
01:12:50 Joint Families & Ties With In-Laws
01:24:35 Benchmark of Excellence for the Wife
01:31:09 Benchmark of Excellence for the Husband
01:33:59 The Secret of Happy Marriages
01:34:49 Importance of Order of Relationships
01:41:10 Advice for Mothers
01:42:53 The Principle for Excellence in Relationships
01:51:08 Failing Relationships: Role of Gratitude and Prayers
02:00:28 Failing Relationships: Your Spouse vs your Imaginative Spouse
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This man has sorted everything out in this life. His videos make me wanna cry for how shallow my lofe has been. Be it at individual/ societal or economoc level. Kudos sir to you. Things are hard to change but these talks will work as the required seed hope so.
Assalamu alaikum aap shadi karogi muje se
@@sikandarrinwala3121 Aapko yhi Jagah mila haii reeshta maangne ka...Thora lihaaj krein apna 🙄🙄🙂🙂
@@AnweR-AmmaR lol
A million dollar worth topic. No training at all for couples at the time of marriage or even after. It is clearly an example of "Those who fail to plan are planning to fail".
These sessions need to be held in hundreds...
Exactly 👍
We need A thorough understanding regarding this topic to clear the misconceptions , developed by our elders under the influence of culture of Sub-continent which is totally the opposite of teachings of Islam & other Holy Religions as well, given to other prophets before Muhammad pbuh by Allah SWT.
Sir agar sas susar aur phir husband b ap k maa baap k bare me kuch aur phir jhota b bolen tu phir husband se hi nafrat hone lgti hy....us waqt kya karen
@@MK-gs8jz sabr aur darguzar Karen muaf krden spouse ko iss ka bhtt ajr hay agar nahi kr sakte tou alehda ho jayn
Exactly, a million dollar worth. ♥️
@Muhammad Tayyab are you a professional writer? 🧐
I am so amazed about his well respectful way of speaking. He uses muhazzub urdu and clean example.
Amazing ideas and in depth practical experiences Mashaa'Allah
الحمدللہ چند جوڑوں میں صلح کرانے کی اللہ نے توفیق دی ہے اور آپ کی ویڈیو بھی ان کے آگے پیش کریں گے تو مزید بہتری آئے گی انشاءاللہ
لگتا یہ ڈسلائک روبوٹ نے کیا ہوگا کیوں کہ ایک انسان کی کیا حیوان بھی ایسی حرکت نہیں کرے گا ! سر اللہ آپ کو طویل عمر دے !
Simple and well educated person. Who dedicated so much time to understand Islam and human psychology and the relation between them. I wish I can attend his class personally. Thank you for loading these sessions. We need more counselors like him in every part of the muslim world. May Allah grant him more knowledge, health and blessed life.
love from india
i am going to be a parenting trainer inshallah
every sentence is a treasure.
Masha'Allah !
I'm very amazed to know the real and depth meaning of the marriage in first lecture .
Jazak'Allah ! Salman Asif Saddiqui Sir
May Almighty Allah give us good health, wealth and give me a good life partner !
Ameen!
Behtareen sentence hai" jis ko samjh ziyada aya hai us ki zemadari bhi ziyada hai maaf krne ki bhi maafi mangny ki bhi "meri koshish yehi ho gi k main apni tamam life is principle k teht guzaron insha'Allah & Ameen
THANKX FOR THE ANECDOTE.
A Crystal clear person.. Very authentic and absolutely beneficial❤
Acha topic hai buhaat kuch seekhney ko mile ga Insha'Allah Thank you ERDC❤
Bhagwaan apko salamat rakhe glad to watch before marriage love from India 🇮🇳
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شادی وہ واحد رشتہ جس سے تمام رشتوں کی ابتدا ہوتی ہے۔
اور شادی ہی وہ واحد رشتہ جسے چننے کے لیے اللہ نے انسان کو بہت حد تک اختیار دیا ہے۔
رشتہِ ازدواج میں منسلک ہونے کے بعد مرد و عورت کو جو اولاد عطا ہوتی ہے۔ وہ خالصتاً اللہ کی مرضی سے ہوتی ہے۔
اسی طرح اولاد بھی اپنے والدین کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہے۔
اور اسی طرح اولاد کو ملنے والے بہن بھائی بھی ایک دوسرے کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہیں۔
الغرض شادی کے علاوہ تمام رشتے اللہ تعالی اپنی مرضی سے بناتے ہیں۔
بس صرف شریک حیات کے انتخاب کے لئے اللہ تعالی نے انسان کو کچھ بہترین اصولوں کے ساتھ اختیار دیا ہے۔
Well said
Exactly
Wah ZABARDAAST SACH BYAAAN KIA HAI APP NE ,LIKE SO MUCH
چھوٹی چوٹی باتوں پہ جن کا دل دکھتا ہے۔وہ زندگی میں بڑےکام کےقابل نہی ہوسکے۔1:23:50
True
Bilkul sahih
Theak
اس موضوع پر مولانا وحید الدین خان نے بھی بہت خوب لکھا ہے
ماشاء اللّٰہ بہت خوب تعلیم دی مضمون کا انتخاب بہت اعلیٰ
جزاک اللہ خیرا۔
اللہ تعالی ہم سب کے دل میں یہ باتیں اتار دیں
Ameen
Wish we would listened it 20 yrs back....Truly depicts the women nature ....wish our sons now grow in your way.
Ameen
Sir I saw your video today and I want to share my personal views that marriage is a basic necessity of life, I think the luckiest persons in this world are who got married and especially who have love marriage life. Who don't I understand them unfortunately they don't deserve it and I will also include married life is a best life ever
شادی کا مقصد ، صاف اور بہتر معاشرہ کی تشکیل اور بے حیائی سے محفوظ رہنے کے لئے۔
ap soch b ni sakte k how much its helpfull to listen to you.. beautifull SIR ❤
Ap soch bhi nahin sakte???
itni detail shayad hi kisi ne bayan ki ho or wo bhi itni khubsurti se... Sir Allah apko kamyab kary
It looks so nice to hold your daughter,MashaAllah Allah always keep your family happy.Ameen.
So loving comments from his Wife! May your family stay blessed.
May Allah SWT reward you @Salman sb n @ERDC for bringing up this much needed topic.
Alhumdulilah Apki qeemti batain hein❤️❤️ bht meaning full talk..
May Allah swt preserve our teacher... Almighty has given him more understanding of our religion Islam than any modern day scholar of Islam... Alhamdulillah for his knowledge...
Was anxiously waiting for this this is the sad reality of our society that both men and women don't know how to treat each other after marriage also third party plays a very crucial role in this relationship if they are too much involved may ALLAH make our spouses a source of happiness ameen
Deep thinking...
ماشاء اللہ میرے استاد محترم نے بہت ہی بہترین انداز میں بات سمجھائی ہے
Just so soothing to hear ke farz ni ha khana bana kr dena phir bi 80 to 90 percent us ne bnaya! How can people not know this..
Thanks for your guidelines for all of us.I am eagerly awaiting for part 2.May Allah bless you
Aap muje se shaadi karlo
Thank you sir your way of speaking is very impressive and no one tell this topic as such polite manners.
Amazing information and knowledge I received!! Alhamdulliah:)
Order of relation is the key parameter. It deservs full lecture with many practical examples where spouses forget to remember order of relation.
This lecture is exceptional and very intellectual... experience and wisdom both are so evident Masha Allah
U are doing great service to this Ummah by telling them what is expected of them...the heart bleeds to think what we have become...we dont know what we are...May Allah guide
Our societies fail because we dont teach them what is needed before they start their Life long Journey of relationships.
In yesteryears a family would be blessed if our nanni granny grandpa or uncle would teach day to day with such examples.
That is where a family bond is created and Legacy of a Happy relationship is passed on.
Thank you for such a wonderful presentation.
This is really informative and argumentative sir. ALLAH bless you.
SubhanAllah MashaAllah,bht si chezain jo lailmi main ghalat hogaen Allah mujhey muaf krday,temprament pr kaam krna hoga,jo hay wo wohi behtreen hay accept krna hoga.p
بہت عمدہ ما شاء اللہ۔۔۔ جزاکم اللہ خیرا
Superb and very useful talk!
May Allah bless you!
This is one of the best lectures I have ever listened...so logical. So funny, cus it's tooo relatable 😂❤ May Allah bless Sir Salman Asif and his family..aameen. JazakAllahu khair
MashaAllah sheer khwar bachay bhi sun rahe hain Salman asif saab ko JzakAllah
Bht din se is topic per aap ke khyalat janna chahti thi...kai baar search bhi kiya....jazak allah
"Badkar Aurtein"
"Badkar Mardon" k Liye Hain......
"Badkar Mard"
"Badkar Aurton" k
Liye Hain......
"Pak Aurtein"
"Pak Mardon" k
Liye Hain.......
"Pak Mard"
"Pak Aurton" k
Liye Hain......
(Surah-e-Noor, Aayat#26)
Sir jis ne shadi ki phir apny bivi aur bachon ki iss tarah se zindagi ko khoobsurt aur aasan banaya tu uss ne bila shak iss zindagi aur next life mein success hasil kerny mein koi b rukawat nhi as sakti wo bila shak kamyab ho ga
I love to listen to you sir.
Love from kashmir
#MuneerSpeaks
Masha'Allah sir
You are my murabbi..May Allah paak bless you with Afiyat prosperity Jannat goodness Peace
Sir Allah Bless you in this world and hereafter, it makes me cry.
Ab waqt aa gaya hai k hum ye batain gharon main shuru karain warna jis barbadi ki taraf hum jaaa rahay hain wahan se wapsi 400 saal main bhi mushkil hai
Allah sari umat e muslima ko Amal ki tofique ata farmaiy.
Ameen.
Sir, Giving us a deep discussion for married and unmarried(those who nearer to perform Nikah)--
these points absolutely helpful--💐
Jazak'Allah Khair😊
An excellent presentation. A very long time is required to absorb the main points of this talk.
Creating awareness about this precious knowledge of order of relationship.Your contribution is the essence of perfection and excellence.I would love to be an active part of your organisation.
True hero of our society..
Words of Wisdom.
Ma shaa ALLAH
Masha Allah Cover the topic beautifully💞
Very nice, there are many assumptions at the end of your conversation but mostly very informative and useful. Thank you for your efforts.
Assalamu alaikum muje se shaadi karlo
Thank you brother ji for your teaching
God Bless you
What a beautiful and authentic analysis. ♥️♥️
There is hope until there are people like him exist.
Shopping 😄😄😄Exactly, that’s all ......getting married about, unfortunately.
God bless you with reward for your contribution 🤲🏻
Jazak Allah kahir Salman Sahib
Aap ki zabardast analysis hai aurtoan ki security ke baare me. I have always thought about it and found exactly the same.Masha Allah Aap bahot khoob bayaan karte hain.Maza aa jata hai.I want to follow your order of relationships.
Jazak Allah for all these tips.
Sir JazakAllah you are such a good teacher in my life ..
Excellent lecture thanks
May Allah reward you for your work
MashaAllah..you r right mentor in this society...these days..Allah apko lambi omer d
Jazakallahu khairan kaseera brother 🤲💐👍
کمال کا بیان ہے اور بہت واضح وضاحت کے ساتھ ۔۔۔
پہلے پانچ سال تو اچھے گزر جاتے ہیں. پھر ماں بچوں سے محبت کرتی ہے اور باپ کو ٹف ٹائم ملتا ہے.
MA SHA ALLAH SALMAN Sahib,,salamat Rahiey
It’s very amazing topic
That's a wonderful tpix
zabardast... JazakAllah
Plz make your podcast too.Love to hear you again n again.
Alhamdulillaah....this is the need of hour to understand these issues a little deeper. i have some points "As you have said that - Marriage is not Farz but according to Classical scholars, it is a matter which becomes FArz (about those who may have higher chances to act adultery), Sunnah (for common muslism) and Mustahab and recommended for others as well." and many scholar Imam like - IBNeTaymiyyah didn'nt marry.
Questions n sessions are logical m though provoking❤️
Bht bht shukria Sir❤️❤️❤️📿🎈🎈
MashaAllah.subhanAllah v beautiful conversation
Well chosen words , catered wd awl d ethics n a very imp topic , very well explained . nvr thought of awl ds interlinked behaviours wd ds topic 👍
Mere se shaadi karlo
Jazakallah khair💐
In today era or journey a basic problem had distract the relationship of both .ln behind the scenes there is demotivate of people. There is a great need of motivation .sir you are great
Well elaborated n explained too....
1.Afzaishe insaniyat 2.Social life formation. 3. Good , noble concepts and aamaale saleh forwarding to coming generations.
Keep up the god work of providing and transferring ur wit
Sir you have explained it in excellent shape
Ye mauzu ka mai bade shiddat se intezar kar raha tha
MashAllah sir🙌
Apke har jumle our alfaz me badi ilmi taufeeq hai....
Allah taala apki umar me barkat ataa farmaye...
Ameen
Nice guidance Sir...
Its a suggesstion plz make short clips that can be shared on whataap etc. It will be more easy to share.
Ap bare batreen insan hain MashaAllah bhuat Achi batain kahin ap ne Allah Salamat rakhay
May Allah swt bless this man.
Great teacher sir Salman
Masha allah bht accha...
Jazaak Allah alkhair.
Such an education should be a must for the marrying people, before their marriage. And should be attached with the marriage registrar. Marriage registry will be done only when this education is taken.
Simply great !
Best lecture ever👍
It's realization of responsibilities of ours beloved
So True.Its all beyond rules and regulations.Beyond......
Salam Sir. If you do read comments please answer this for me. Is respecting and taking care of Saas Susar (who are like our parents and I totally agree with that) only for females? Are husbands never accountable or even told that his saas susar are like his parents too? Why do we only expect females to treat her saas susar like her parents and this is not expected of or even repeatedly told to the husbands?
محترمہ میں اپ سے متفق نہیں۔ بہت سے شوہر سمجھدار اور خدا خوفی کے تحت بالکل اسی طرح اس کے بھی چار ماں باپ ہیں جیسے بیوی کے چار ماں باپ
بیوی کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم شوہر کرے گا
شوہر کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم بیوی کرے گی
Maliha our society is dominated by Hindu culture. These traditions have no value in our religion. It’s hard to feel love for a person who doesn’t treat your parents with at least respect ( if not love). It goes both ways
Saas, sasur are responsibilities of saala. Respect and love are always there but in the name of love and respect responsibilities are thrusts on.
@@zakirhusaindema2244 and if there is no sala, what then? Shouldn’t son in law at least visit his sas susr now and then? And encourage his wife to look after them
@@misbahhabib8866 of course son in law should take place of the son in fact it’s a very good opportunity for son in law to gain sawab by doing so. By the way if you really love a person you would love all connected lives and things. For instance majnoon used to kiss a dog belong to Laila’s maholla. Hope you got my point🌹🌷💐 love for all.
The best thing is to educate continuously with holding baby .
ALLAH bless you Sir
بہترین بات۔۔۔
اج کے دور میں شادی کے ادارے کو تباہ کیا جا رہا ھے تاکہ مذہب کو ختم کیا جا سکے!
دیر سے شادی سے بڑا عذاب کوئی نہی ھے۔۔۔جلدی شادی سے زیادہ بابرکت چیز کوئی نہی 😔