Why are either of these groups friends with each other if they don’t like each other? And that has nothing to do with having different interests. Sounds like there’s nothing to lose on either end
If it's that big of a deal, invite them, but make your plans very clear. If they are on board with that they'll come. If not, they wont, but they will have been invited so they can't get offended. You're all grown. They can also come and separate from the group to go to museums while you guys are doing your thing. But I wouldnt freak out about it. I get invited to things people think i'll enjoy, and hear about things after the fact that people didn't think I'd be into. There is no reason to be offended by any of it. Nobody is owed an invite.
Honestly as I’ve gotten older, this is why I’ve stopped posting what I’m doing on social media. It is like showing off and can incite jealousy. It’s not necessary. What I do is just send pics over what’s app to specific people.
Abby, tbh I would list all the trips they went on without you and ask "Where was OUR invites for alllll of these trips? It goes both ways." And if they say something like we just wanted to spend time together, say "Great, now apply that notion to our situation and there's your answer".
Invite all. Do what you like. Agree to have dinner together, make reservations. It's crazy to think you all should do everything together the entire trip. You sound like a mean girl. If some choose not to bar hop, fine. Jeeze
I heard and understood when Abby said her other group of friends go out and do things without her but the other group of friends tell Abby and her group of friends when they're going to be going out or is it something they find out social media?
I guess these girls are all young. Abby needs to realise that she is not responsible for other people's feelings. Asking if you are the ahole. Not totally. But keeping it a secret is a little ahole move. Not telling them and saying it is because of wanting to avoid their guilt trip ways is a high school move. Stop supporting that. You want to go away for an out there weekend you don't need to invite them or hide it. Time to clear the air and find out if you are all really friends.
This is probably the most ridiculous segment I have ever seen.... who really cares about Abby's 26-year-old angst? And here's Kristen trying to make it like a serious thing, lmfao!
YTA, why the need to post. Let me explain, no one cares that you had a great time but you. They may say they are happy for you but really could care less. They are just being polite.
Open invite to everyone be the bigger person. Your not joined at hip just say arrangements night before then split group some go shopping drinking some do museums etc. Did this in dublin with 30 plus people it worked great. Some people drank all day some shopped and did tourist tours you just say meal tonight at where ever or anybody wants an early night thats fine as well. Somebody doesnt want to come fine but dont exlude
I'm trying to not be judgmental because I am a cranky old lady, but it does seem like subtly (not so subtly?), she doesn't really like most of her friends. I'm probably reading her wrong but to me it kind of seems like she tolerates them for stories to tell on her podcast/radio segments
I would like to hear the friends side of it lol
Why are either of these groups friends with each other if they don’t like each other? And that has nothing to do with having different interests. Sounds like there’s nothing to lose on either end
Yeah, they sound more like "Frienemies"
If it's that big of a deal, invite them, but make your plans very clear. If they are on board with that they'll come. If not, they wont, but they will have been invited so they can't get offended. You're all grown. They can also come and separate from the group to go to museums while you guys are doing your thing.
But I wouldnt freak out about it. I get invited to things people think i'll enjoy, and hear about things after the fact that people didn't think I'd be into. There is no reason to be offended by any of it. Nobody is owed an invite.
Honestly as I’ve gotten older, this is why I’ve stopped posting what I’m doing on social media. It is like showing off and can incite jealousy. It’s not necessary. What I do is just send pics over what’s app to specific people.
Abby....YOU mentioned your trip prior to this ON THE RADIO 😆
Abby, tbh I would list all the trips they went on without you and ask "Where was OUR invites for alllll of these trips? It goes both ways." And if they say something like we just wanted to spend time together, say "Great, now apply that notion to our situation and there's your answer".
That's exhausting. Pass on those friends
Am I mistaken or is this Abby second time doing something like this? Wasn't the last time them not inviting a specific person because she's not fun?
Abby didn't want to invite that person because she isn't a drinker.
This is why our group of 14 has been wheedled down to just 5 over the years.
Invite all. Do what you like. Agree to have dinner together, make reservations. It's crazy to think you all should do everything together the entire trip. You sound like a mean girl. If some choose not to bar hop, fine. Jeeze
I heard and understood when Abby said her other group of friends go out and do things without her but the other group of friends tell Abby and her group of friends when they're going to be going out or is it something they find out social media?
Sound like they aren't your real friends
I guess these girls are all young.
Abby needs to realise that she is not responsible for other people's feelings.
Asking if you are the ahole. Not totally.
But keeping it a secret is a little ahole move.
Not telling them and saying it is because of wanting to avoid their guilt trip ways is a high school move.
Stop supporting that.
You want to go away for an out there weekend you don't need to invite them or hide it.
Time to clear the air and find out if you are all really friends.
This is probably the most ridiculous segment I have ever seen.... who really cares about Abby's 26-year-old angst? And here's Kristen trying to make it like a serious thing, lmfao!
YTA, why the need to post. Let me explain, no one cares that you had a great time but you. They may say they are happy for you but really could care less. They are just being polite.
Open invite to everyone be the bigger person. Your not joined at hip just say arrangements night before then split group some go shopping drinking some do museums etc. Did this in dublin with 30 plus people it worked great. Some people drank all day some shopped and did tourist tours you just say meal tonight at where ever or anybody wants an early night thats fine as well. Somebody doesnt want to come fine but dont exlude
It has been proven that Abby is a mean, selfish person
I'm trying to not be judgmental because I am a cranky old lady, but it does seem like subtly (not so subtly?), she doesn't really like most of her friends. I'm probably reading her wrong but to me it kind of seems like she tolerates them for stories to tell on her podcast/radio segments
Yea Abby is always the AHOLE