What NOT To Do If Your Child is Struggling with Reading

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 26 січ 2025

КОМЕНТАРІ • 57

  • @CarrieStose
    @CarrieStose Рік тому +2

    My daughter is 7. She came home crying the other day because she said all her friends and classmates can read and she can’t. She’s in tutoring and we read at home. She has strong signs of dyslexia. I am going to download your guide. Thank you for helping parents like me.

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry to hear that, Carrie. I'm sure that's heartbreaking for you both. Please reach out if you have any questions or need additional support. ❤

  • @joyomachonu1052
    @joyomachonu1052 Рік тому +2

    Yes ,14years year 8

  • @JessicaLee.3
    @JessicaLee.3 Рік тому +2

    Yes, my 9yo son has ADHD and severe anxiety and really struggles just to sound out words.

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      Hi, Jessica! I'm sorry you and your son are going through that. ❤If you'd like to email me to chat more about your situation, you can reach me at Alison@learningattheprimarypond.com.

  • @maryklein7131
    @maryklein7131 Рік тому +3

    I am 63yrs old and I am dyslexic. When I was growing up there was no special ed and no one really understood how to help me. My mother had a friend who was a reading specialist who told my parents what was wrong. I was bullied a lot in school not only by other children but also by teacher who could not understand why I wasn't learning. Some teachers would work with me and some made me feel stupid and would embarrass me in front in class. I work well with patterns. I have very poor short term memory but really good long term. Taking notes in class was really hard. I have to see it or hear it but I can't do both at the same time. So I would sit next to a friend and copy their notes (it helps that I am lefty and most are righty). My spelling still sucks. My mother read most of my high school work to me...once I can hear it I can pretty much spit it back. I am now a special education teacher who specializes in reading. Since becoming a teacher my skills have improved because what I do with children I also do with myself. I believe teaching age appropriate material...my problem is that the older a child gets the less material there is to work with. It bothers me to give a 14yr old person The Cat in the Hat.

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +2

      That is so tough - I am SO sorry you had to go through all of that! I love that you were able to overcome so much and ended up helping kids with the same struggles. And yes, it is hard to find age appropriate materials. HI-LO books and Wilson are good resources for this.

    • @maryklein7131
      @maryklein7131 Рік тому

      I didn't over come dyslexia...I learned to live with it. Because it doesn't always involve reading...I have trouble judging distances and it takes me a second or two longer to process information. I also read. There is always a book on my desk and the children see me reading. I still read physical books. I do the crypoquote and the jumble in the morning newspaper. My favorite tool is my Franklin Speller.@@readingsoswithalison

  • @ginahermosillo1158
    @ginahermosillo1158 Рік тому +3

    Yes 2nd grade. She has memory problems. We study the sounds and when I ask her to say the sounds her self she doesn’t remember. The school is already asking to place her in a different school. She does get help at school and also has a tutor, I also help her at home. It really is very frustrating.

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      That IS so frustrating, and I'm sorry you're going through this. If it is a public school in the U.S., I would request (in writing) that she be evaluated for special education services. Feel free to email me at Alison@learningattheprimarypond.com and I can send you some suggestions and resources for things to do at home!

    • @ginahermosillo1158
      @ginahermosillo1158 Рік тому +1

      @@readingsoswithalison yes, I requested an IEP and she is getting help, but it’s really hard for her. I had a meeting this week and they said that they want to place her on a small group but they don’t have that services there so they are moving her to a different school. She does go to a public school and I am in the US. THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING to my message!

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      @@ginahermosillo1158 Of course! Please feel free to keep in touch about her progress! ❤

    • @ginahermosillo1158
      @ginahermosillo1158 Рік тому +1

      @@alabamahomemaker1067thanks😊, she does get enough sleep. She has a curfew. She goes to sleep at 8pm and wakes up at 7am .

  • @bamigbadeemmanuel897
    @bamigbadeemmanuel897 26 днів тому

    My son is eleven but has difficulty in reading and spelling. Thank you

  • @readingsoswithalison
    @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +2

    Let me know in the comments if your child is having a hard time learning to read, and how old they are!

  • @elishamiles7042
    @elishamiles7042 9 місяців тому +1

    Yes my daughter is 12 and is struggling so much

  • @catsnaps2upd8
    @catsnaps2upd8 Рік тому +1

    Yes. My daughter is 7 years old and in first grade. We feel that there's a strong chance that she may have dyslexia. She should be in second grade. She's really struggling with reading, writing, spelling, blending, and understanding context. She has recently been diagnosed as having ADHD and ODD.

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      Hi, Cathy! That sounds so hard for both you and your daughter. Can you please email me at alison@learningattheprimarypond.com? I would love to send you a free assessment to get her started. ❤️

  • @THomasJPeel
    @THomasJPeel Рік тому +1

    Excellent video.

  • @laurarubin4234
    @laurarubin4234 2 місяці тому

    My son is 9 and is behind at school with reading. He has auditory processing disorder and dyslexia.

  • @siteridioimusu
    @siteridioimusu 13 днів тому

    Yes 9 years old

  • @HeatherOellermann-p2j
    @HeatherOellermann-p2j Рік тому +1

    Yes, 6

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing that! If you want to talk about your situation, please feel free to email me at alison@learningattheprimarypond.com ❤

  • @CALIFORNIALOV
    @CALIFORNIALOV Рік тому +1

    Yes,7 second grade

  • @sameerapamukuntla1645
    @sameerapamukuntla1645 28 днів тому

    Yes my son is 7yrs old

  • @SandraObi-ui3zk
    @SandraObi-ui3zk 3 місяці тому

    Yes, 7 years

  • @lasandrasmith55
    @lasandrasmith55 4 місяці тому

    Yes. 10 years old and 7years old

  • @daniellejeffery1528
    @daniellejeffery1528 2 місяці тому

    My daughter just turned 7. She hates reading and struggles to read and write. I am making her read 20 min every day starting yesterday, but I am still worried...

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  2 місяці тому

      I know that must be so difficult, Danielle! Please reach out if you'd like to chat more about your situation. alison@learningattheprimarypond.com

  • @mommadramapreps8668
    @mommadramapreps8668 19 годин тому

    Yes. Age 8. He will incorrectly read simple words, often getting" of" and" for" confused. He will also leave out or add plural pronunciations. These issues are very simple mistakes but he's making them repeatedly after being prompted the incorrections and review of the short words on their own outside of a sentence, he will still struggle. Help.

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  6 годин тому

      That is tough!! I have two recommendations - one, go through my free mini course: www.risingreadersparentacademy.com/mini-course-how-to-get-your-child-to-practice-reading and two, based on the signs you're mentioning, I would highly recommend requesting an evaluation from your son's school. If you're in the U.S., you have the right to request that he be evaluated so he can get the help he needs!

  • @LivhuwaniMudimeli-wn3rd
    @LivhuwaniMudimeli-wn3rd 7 місяців тому

    Yes my sister is 20

  • @christir5357
    @christir5357 2 місяці тому

    Yes She is 6.

  • @bosanaisana2888
    @bosanaisana2888 6 місяців тому

    yes , 8 years old

  • @amandanguyen827
    @amandanguyen827 3 місяці тому

    Yes 6yrs old was told she is a yr behind

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  3 місяці тому

      It's great you're being proactive while your child is young, Amanda! Please reach out if you have any questions (alison@learningattheprimarypond.com).

  • @graysenpie178
    @graysenpie178 Рік тому +1

    Yes 9

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      I'm sure you're anxious to catch them up! If you want to talk about your situation, please feel free to email me at alison@learningattheprimarypond.com ❤

  • @mariemccartney297
    @mariemccartney297 4 місяці тому

    Yes she is 7 years old

  • @rockanne1202
    @rockanne1202 Рік тому +1

    Yes 7

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      It's so hard seeing them struggle! If you want to talk about your situation, please feel free to email me at alison@learningattheprimarypond.com ❤

  • @lseiger07ify
    @lseiger07ify 4 місяці тому

    Yes 6

  • @reginaburns9231
    @reginaburns9231 8 місяців тому

    Yes

    • @reginaburns9231
      @reginaburns9231 8 місяців тому

      I need some help for my daughter that’s 9 years old

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  8 місяців тому

      Hi, Regina! I'm happy to help. Can you please email Alison@LearningAtThePrimaryPond.com? I will ask you some questions and provide some recommendations. :)

  • @graczkowskifamily
    @graczkowskifamily 8 місяців тому

    My 8 year old in 2nd grade.

  • @zamasithole-uk1gj
    @zamasithole-uk1gj 11 місяців тому +1

    She's 12 years old, she can't read and write 😢

  • @evelynraditau5346
    @evelynraditau5346 Рік тому

    My child is in grade 4 and struggling to read n she is 8yers pls helo

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому

      Hi, Evelyn! I'd be happy to help. Please email me - alison@learningattheprimarypond.com. I look forward to chatting with you.

  • @BarrabasBarnes-ek4ux
    @BarrabasBarnes-ek4ux Місяць тому

    Yes 12 justice

  • @kathrynbiglin3124
    @kathrynbiglin3124 Рік тому +1

    I'm not even sure where to put my daughter in terms of reading. We just started homeschooling kindergarten (she's almost 6) and while there are some concepts she picks up easily she gets frustrated really fast and I'm not sure where exactly the problem is. So we're in this limbo of her almost being ready to read in some ways, and not in others. Since I'm homeschooling, I'm trying to make sure I educate myself as much as possible so I can provide the flexibility and support she needs. I honestly don't know what that looks like, though. 🫤

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +2

      Hey, Kathryn! I totally understand your concerns. If you'd like to email me at alison@learningattheprimarypond.com, I'd love to make some recommendations to get you starting strong this school year. ❤

    • @kathrynbiglin3124
      @kathrynbiglin3124 Рік тому +1

      @@readingsoswithalison that is so kind, thank you! I'll send you an email for sure, I'd appreciate any insights or suggestions you have!

  • @yaldakhaliq1452
    @yaldakhaliq1452 Рік тому +1

    Yes 8

    • @readingsoswithalison
      @readingsoswithalison  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing that! If you want to talk about your situation, please feel free to email me at alison@learningattheprimarypond.com ❤

  • @JeanJoseph-u9r
    @JeanJoseph-u9r Рік тому

    Yes 8