Loneliness and How to Uplift Yourself

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  • @stargirl369
    @stargirl369 6 років тому +68

    Omg the last part of this was so powerful! Realize you are whole and that everything and everyone else is a gift/bonus. I have to integrate this into my subconscious. Thank you!

  • @mrssathya5411
    @mrssathya5411 3 роки тому +9

    My husband passed away due to covid on 1/5/21. He was a great companion and his loss has left me devastated and I find no purpose for my life. After seeing this post I realise I was leaning on him 100%. We used to discuss lots of religious texts on eternal truth during the lockdown. He used to say that the Supreme decides the time place and person to impart wisdom. Absolutely true. Though this is available from 2014 I am seeing this today only. Better late than never. I am 49 left with a long way to go. Thank God. Thank you.

  • @waldek32
    @waldek32 6 років тому +259

    You are a gift from universe . Thank You

  • @GilAnspacher
    @GilAnspacher 10 років тому +132

    This is beautiful! Thank you for the simple insight. I love the vision of standing on your own spine.

    • @ortadop
      @ortadop 10 років тому +1

      Gil
      Thank you for sharing this,it is awesome
      Peter

  • @martinnhantran
    @martinnhantran 4 роки тому +11

    - Uplift someone else
    - Put your happiness on yourself, everyone else is a bonus

  • @Mayank_2K24
    @Mayank_2K24 4 роки тому +12

    "You are a complete and whole as a person as it is, and everyone and everything else is a bonus in your life."
    Thanks Dandapani.

  • @alissaralfadel6531
    @alissaralfadel6531 5 років тому +20

    "Lean on your own spine".

  • @HumanbeingonfloatingEarth
    @HumanbeingonfloatingEarth 6 років тому +46

    Many many times ive been driving to work and in tears thinking about how things happened in my life and then i get to work where vulnerable and sick and elderly people are , they know me ,and they know I care for them and I serve them... and it gives my heart such sweet joy ...theres always somthing to be grateful for and someone who is worse off who you can give love to.

  • @आजकाेविश्व
    @आजकाेविश्व 4 роки тому +10

    when i remember your face, my mind automatically turns into peace.

  • @Dhakir2304
    @Dhakir2304 4 роки тому +8

    When you feel lonely, Remember Batman worked Alone 😎

  • @rajinees2122
    @rajinees2122 4 роки тому +5

    Happiness is not something that lies outside. It is within. Our attitude creates happiness or sorrow says the 'Eashavasya upanishad'. I'm an animal lover & I feed stray cats & dogs every day. They give a lot of happiness. Thank you master for this video.

  • @AgnesVivarelli
    @AgnesVivarelli 5 років тому +7

    I love your calmness and your simple and doable advice - thank you Dandapani

  • @Szaroptka
    @Szaroptka 6 років тому +19

    Well, yes I agree with that, however it is not that quite easy to do. Understanding concepts and managing emotions are two different things. Our minds through life acquired very often programs which keep us stuck in certain behaviours.

  • @Yogi_Ram
    @Yogi_Ram 6 років тому +17

    Beautifully explained.. pranamam Swamiji 😍🙏

  • @jeea3364
    @jeea3364 6 років тому +6

    This makes lot of sense...I even realize where am I failing...thank you for your humble speech...keep supporting people like us...

  • @David-xb5vb
    @David-xb5vb 4 роки тому +1

    Everything you need is within you

  • @jenj775
    @jenj775 5 років тому +1

    Very beautiful insights. Thank you🙏🕉

  • @sapnagupta5814
    @sapnagupta5814 6 років тому +11

    Help others, consider others as gifts in your life.
    Very simple and convincing.

  • @Assam-bt1dl
    @Assam-bt1dl 5 років тому +3

    What to do when your loved one leaves for someone else, whom you thought would never leave you

  • @anjanier1734
    @anjanier1734 6 років тому +4

    Namaste🇹🇹 Thank YOU🤝 So Much for the Lovely Message. I have Been Doing what YOU're Saying & it really is the Truth & It Works to What YOU're Saying. GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY!!!

  • @anuradhapatil228
    @anuradhapatil228 3 роки тому +1

    Wonderful insights 😊 Thank you 🙏Most needed thing right now 👍 please talk on Self Love ❤️

  • @padmabaitj7691
    @padmabaitj7691 5 років тому +4

    Thankyou sir. Whenever I'm feeling bad, your advice gives me a confidence

  • @shre9
    @shre9 6 років тому +11

    I really needed this today. Thank you so much.

  • @salterinopapalino8552
    @salterinopapalino8552 6 років тому +7

    such a subtle humor i love it :)
    thanks for everything much love

  • @principessaprincipessa3208
    @principessaprincipessa3208 6 років тому +6

    I needed to hear this today. Thank you ✌

  • @avinashsahadeo7302
    @avinashsahadeo7302 6 років тому +6

    can I meet you? I also live in NYC and passionate about spirituality. I am now 24 turning 25 in march have been studying philosophy for 9 years now. I would love to meet you and learn please if you need an assistant for a few months I would love to shadow you.

  • @jaredtansley3236
    @jaredtansley3236 7 років тому +28

    Hello Dandapani
    I love your videos
    I'm an entrepreneur starting my own company.
    This question is about,
    How can I manifest Capital?
    I've been reading books, UA-cam, The net, but I can't seem to do the correct technique.
    Energy /Frequency /Vibration
    My other question is
    how do know I've connected to the correct frequency and vibration?
    if you could shed some light on this question that would be amazing thank you 😊

  • @growwithn
    @growwithn 6 років тому +3

    Such a great advice!! Loved getting solutions for realistic solutions. How to practice being contented or lean on my spine all the time though engaging in the outside world?

  • @TheJaninev
    @TheJaninev 6 років тому +4

    You such an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your divine wisdom

  • @DJ-ix1si
    @DJ-ix1si 2 роки тому +1

    can some one tell me the backround music beat which plays at the start & end of the video so pleasing, is that music is monk dhandapani's music or some other album.

  • @bethbartlett5692
    @bethbartlett5692 6 років тому +17

    ... I see Jesus - setting back in his chair - to ENJOY the presentations of this man.
    [Truly smiling and saying - finally - there's a "bridge with balance, witt, intelligence, consciousness, empathy, an energy attracting many, to meet in a place of share goodness with their varied beliefs, and Raise the Vibration...
    *And he is as hip as Trevor Noah!*
    Oh - this is good ...
    They are feeling the Peace and Happiness Energies - and moving forward ❤]
    I really like my thoughts here - (this is me talking now - no longer narrating)
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    • @HERVOICE75
      @HERVOICE75 6 років тому +1

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  • @Vanessa-ts2xh
    @Vanessa-ts2xh 6 років тому +3

    Sir ,
    how can I stay focused to my goal & work each day towards it to harness it?
    If I am keeping my own happiness on myself ,I stop mixing with people in fear that I will depend on them how to overcome it
    You give a very clear simple concepts of life ,which is easily usuable...it will be my pleasure if you reply to my Questions...it's my first email to you...if something is wrong then I will ask your forgiveness

    • @ashokchowdhary9897
      @ashokchowdhary9897 6 років тому +1

      Life is just to enjoy the every moment coming to you, fell it and be passed it on its way don't get to attached

  • @govindbisen388
    @govindbisen388 5 років тому +2

    My question is who to fight Adharma....
    Please answer..

  • @nature3116
    @nature3116 6 років тому +2

    Beautiful useful message...lean on yourself and everyone else is bonus...wow

  • @CharukesiArunraj
    @CharukesiArunraj 6 років тому +1

    Hi sir .. ur videos are awesome . I need a clarification.
    What is the difference between joy and happiness?
    If joy comes out of peace of mind... And if it is internal.. is happiness depending upon external happenings? Or things?

  • @LaVidaRubiaTheBlondesLife
    @LaVidaRubiaTheBlondesLife 6 років тому +4

    Thank you for sharing the wisdom and the advice Dandapandi 🙏🏼😇

  • @ztir6924
    @ztir6924 6 років тому +2

    Thank you Dandapani for your wonderful message. It lifted my spirit. Blessings be to you.

  • @militaryxpolitics7690
    @militaryxpolitics7690 5 років тому +1

    Thanks dandapani I am way of chankya and your please bless me

  • @OpenPlotSale
    @OpenPlotSale 5 років тому +2

    Namaste Guruji, I need your blessings...

  • @Tambu171
    @Tambu171 6 років тому +2

    Thank You Dandapani. I love your Advice.

  • @robmadera9757
    @robmadera9757 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the message God bless you and your family 💖💙🙏

  • @kashyapraval7072
    @kashyapraval7072 5 років тому +2

    How to be consistent in Life.

  • @ashusharma8515
    @ashusharma8515 6 років тому +1

    Loved Ur answers... I wish I could achieve Ur level of thinking ...LV from India..

  • @mdhankoti6198
    @mdhankoti6198 6 років тому +1

    Hello sir, I like you to be seen in India. I want to know the plug to connect with the Indian tradition with the modern science. Where 80% of diseases are going to be cured only by changing the behaviour and routein. Thanking u .
    Dhankoti

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 4 роки тому +1

    All joy in this world comes from wanting others to be happy.All suffering in this world comes from wanting only one's self to be happy.
    ‐Shantideva.

  • @jayaaby4392
    @jayaaby4392 6 років тому +1

    Your each and every word is bringing a new life your really a book of knowledge thank you so much god bless you

  • @santoshipriya8734
    @santoshipriya8734 6 років тому +2

    Great respect to your guru and you!

  • @kahvitahbeegun2776
    @kahvitahbeegun2776 4 роки тому +1

    Oh High Soul,truly said👍

  • @mritunjaykumarmisra2360
    @mritunjaykumarmisra2360 2 роки тому +1

    I am unable to purchase it, help me!

  • @livieira7907
    @livieira7907 5 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for this channel! Thank you for being! I love you!

  • @mouneshkodagali2045
    @mouneshkodagali2045 6 років тому +1

    Guruji my salutes to you..... U healed me .......thank you

  • @tejastp6696
    @tejastp6696 5 років тому +1

    Thanku a lot it really helped

  • @9941234912
    @9941234912 5 років тому +2

    Nice sir, I am implementing the techniques taught by u & feeling good,getting better out from depression without medication, I stoped medications.

    • @sidharthbhagat1114
      @sidharthbhagat1114 4 роки тому

      Mein jb tk mobile ya TV dekhti hu theek lgta hai jb kaam krna shuru krti hu bahut sari baatein dimag me chlti rehti hein meri saas kaise mere husband ke samne meri bezti ki thi or unhone mujhe kuchh kehne nhi diya hmesha chup rehne ko kha or hmesha smile ke meri bezti krna apna haq samajne lgi mein kuchh scene soch kr rone lg jaati hu phir sone ka man krta hai husband se bhi yhi complaint krti rehti hu roz sochti hu husband nhi lrugi hum alag rehte hein pr phir mein vo baatein nhi bhulti kya mein dipression mein hu

    • @el_benny_
      @el_benny_ 4 роки тому

      @@sidharthbhagat1114 no you are not.

  • @savaramanusha8876
    @savaramanusha8876 3 роки тому +1

    Your voice itself is soothing

  • @princeagrawal7307
    @princeagrawal7307 6 років тому +1

    I really love the logical reasons which i learn from you thanks a lot

  • @kushalshrestha5437
    @kushalshrestha5437 5 років тому +1

    very beautiful inspiring video.. it was a learning experience

  • @valneidebatista3886
    @valneidebatista3886 4 роки тому

    Hi..you are amazing.. Make me better person..
    Now I'm practice my positive energy.. God bless you...💞💞💞🌩🌪😌

  • @sandraloysoonleng4944
    @sandraloysoonleng4944 6 років тому +3

    Word of wisdom ♥️👍🏼

  • @simplyurs2427
    @simplyurs2427 3 роки тому

    Dandapaani Sir
    I am from India...
    I came across ur videos just few days back n watched 2-3 videos.
    Honestly I liked ur advice and ur points including Monk with a Mac, obviously they can use it.
    Then just few things came to my mind.
    If monks can use Mac, then whats the point with
    1. Shaving of head removing all hair, as hair also has its role that nature has given to all including humans (also mentioned its role in our spiritual and culture)
    2. What's with wearing only loins and wrapping single clothing
    3. What's with only eating boiled food and stuff.
    If technology can be used elsewhere then why not for these as long we have clean and honest intentions in life.
    It's just an honest thought that came up..

  • @spiritualawakening4444
    @spiritualawakening4444 3 роки тому

    Sir I've a question.. Why we can't live peacefully life

  • @jasonmatthews7098
    @jasonmatthews7098 6 років тому +1

    The second question in this struck a huge chord in my life currently. Lean on your own spine. Lean on your own spine.
    Is there a way to implement this via positive affirmations?

    • @adityayadav7434
      @adityayadav7434 5 років тому

      don't know if its my place to say but i have been a lone wolf for a long time so if u r asking how i fill the idol time then i rely on music coz i know my mood would be great after listening to my fav's secondly you would fear it but after some time u would adore it u would be emotionally strong u r good listener so u would have a ton load of people interested in u and not sure if they would love u but sure will respect u ....this was my way of getting with thing From dandapani explaination what i understood was dont rely on other people for ur happiness adore nature help everyone and love urself the most .....in case none of this helps out have a pet they are the best

  • @garylake1497
    @garylake1497 Місяць тому

    With respect , loneliness is much more serious than this man implies. When you are truly alone in the world (not just ‘missing someone’) it is actually a very deep and primal fear of separation anxiety. In our evolutionary past , being alone meant death. It meant that you were unable to defend yourself from predators and that was serious! The same process of fear and anxiety occurs in our brain today, we are social beings and to genuinely be all alone in the world is terrifying and unhealthy. You must try to form bonds and friendships with others.

  • @AndyAtar
    @AndyAtar 4 роки тому

    If I am a person I compare myself to other persons (e.g. Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and can not feel always content compared to everyone else because all personalities are different and there is always someone better. Isn't it the reason Hindu and Buddhist philosophy introduces meditation, self-inquiry and other tools to help us to identify with awareness/spirit/emptiness instead of our personhood? Awareness or holy spirit is Universal and the same for everyone, thus not suffer from our comparison to others.

  • @diah7980
    @diah7980 4 роки тому

    Isn't the advice reg. uplifting others contrary to the advice in the video on energy vampires ??Doesn't it lead to a vicious cycle b/w Empaths n Energy vampires??How to know where to stop or where to draw the line ?

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 4 роки тому

    Craving leads to suffering.The only way to be liberated from suffering is to be liberated from craving.The only way to be liberated from Craving is to train the mind to experience reality just as it is.

  • @katiresanarumugam4260
    @katiresanarumugam4260 4 роки тому

    A living Truth won't even murmur; with His Name incessantly on its lips, without any external fixed appearance, invites Him to enter it's Heart & manifest in all cells of His Being..

  • @RahulRana-mf5je
    @RahulRana-mf5je 2 роки тому

    I uplifted my friend and did everything for her emotionally, financially and in her carrier progression but she betrayed me... is still humanity alive? God knows 🙏

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    I know you probably use to me telling you that I miss you but when I tell you that it doesn't do me any good. I continuously miss you and it is not like I can't live without you just trying to kill a friend I have things in common not trying to get attached to become Fatal Attraction I know you probably never experienced a relationship like that probably most of the women you experienced always ran behind you first I bet and if that's true nothing but it is may not be with you but men like that don't even know how to even approach a real woman because they're so used to the lower grade

  • @rosaliamedina7024
    @rosaliamedina7024 5 років тому +1

    Thank you it will help my life since most of the time I feel lonely

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    But I'm fine by myself I do not think I will ever become Fatal Attraction to someone especially when you've experienced true love before love I experienced it in my last lifetime you see when you know insperience Divine love before you know exactly how to handle it

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    That's very but I'm hoping to have a companion one day when your chosen like me you really don't have many friends at all sometimes you don't even have one friend that's only thing I'm talking about having a friend that you both have divine missions in life but I am not anxious new and desperate but I do deeply desire to have that type of companionship

  • @erkencis8167
    @erkencis8167 3 роки тому

    Dandapani ji I want to know that vibhuthi which u hv applied on ur forehead, wt it does.. Is there any benefit of it.. I mu just curious to know about it.. Peace 😇

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    You know I'm just talkin I'm just wondering did she have to go through for you to at least give her a conversation you probably instantly trusted her even though her heart was not sincere I don't think you made her wait a year before you even said hi

  • @aprilthomas1489
    @aprilthomas1489 4 роки тому

    But does that advice for loneliness apply to people who have no one literally no one? Isn't it unhealthy to be completely alone all the time without love without any form of companionship? Isn't it a dangerous life to have no help? Isn't it on a fulfilling to not have a way to express yourself with other people in some way? Or to be able to affect other people's lives in a positive way?

  • @LaurenMontgomery-o8v
    @LaurenMontgomery-o8v 8 місяців тому

    So, what's your advice for when others identify you as someone who uplifts others and starts taking advantage of your uplifting efforts for their own selfish gains?

  • @eM-ze5cz
    @eM-ze5cz 6 років тому +6

    Thank you 🙏🏽✨

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    I'm very okay being by myself wouldn't mind having a compatible partner

  • @ravzp9440
    @ravzp9440 4 роки тому

    A brother from another mother 💫 🌟 ⭐️ I wonder what’s your life path ... Are you a life path 7 ? I am 😊

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    If I don't hear anything from you this soon I will will know that some other situation has you preoccupied at this time and I will can come to understand that without even getting upset with you people don't know what they want if you love them too much they say stop if you don't love them they say you not loving them enough

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    Just because two people get to know one another don't mean they going to become fatal I know I'm intelligent I really don't know about you personally

  • @di.vineapple
    @di.vineapple 6 років тому

    Hi , Should we continue to do our day-jobs 9-5 or quit??? Thanks in advance.

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    I wonder did you take your last girlfriend through the School of Hard Knocks did it take you forever 2 to speak with her or show her a little concerned

  • @naresh4cools
    @naresh4cools 3 роки тому

    The solution to loneliness is easier said than done for an average person. It would've been great if you could dwell more into this what kind of practice and tools that can help someone

  • @dKytch
    @dKytch 4 роки тому

    You are from which denomination of the sanatan dharma ?Who is your Guru?I want the information about you to accept you as a bonafide monk.

  • @hsuanyunchang1871
    @hsuanyunchang1871 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing. Living on my own spine. Everything happened in life is a bonus.

  • @olgajacks
    @olgajacks 4 роки тому

    How can I stop my mind to jump to one thing to the other and keeping me out of consecration I really need a way of dealing with monkey mind please help me 🙏

  • @thetruevine6937
    @thetruevine6937 5 років тому +1

    Great video

  • @kimsherlock8969
    @kimsherlock8969 4 роки тому

    What becoming of a Butterfly? I have been on a huge journey of not knowing anything.

  • @anooptiwari3562
    @anooptiwari3562 2 роки тому

    Dear Sir
    I have to ask one question. Please share the process to ask question . Humble request

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    If you don't hear from me from time to time it's not that I don't want you to men with you it's just it's becoming more and more but there's no progress being made as I see it it's

  • @pooja05rejoice
    @pooja05rejoice 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for this Swamiji ..

  • @SC-vb2ui
    @SC-vb2ui 6 років тому +8

    It call self loVe,Selfworth🙏🏼

  • @jbullets2175
    @jbullets2175 6 років тому +1

    Thank you. ❤

  • @contessaannavonfunk6166
    @contessaannavonfunk6166 6 років тому +2

    Greeeeaaaat!!! :) ;) :-*

  • @ParveenPunia-lq8gw
    @ParveenPunia-lq8gw 6 років тому +1

    Your every word is precious sir. Thank you 🙏

  • @autimecerhone3677
    @autimecerhone3677 3 роки тому

    I hope you don't thank am depress about something I may be a disappointed but not depress

  • @pamf.3290
    @pamf.3290 6 років тому

    Dear Dadapani. I haved lived an increasingly, very isolated life over the last 7 years. After a life filled with people in my work as a nurse I had friendship, laughter, tears, but most of all the huge reward of helping others in need. When my career ended due to increasing physical invalidity, I found all of these integral components, which gave me pleasure and also a sense of control over my life, gradually disappeared. This has left me , with my increasing illness, incapacity, loneliness and crippling anxiety. I try to discipline myself to meditate daily. However, I am disorganised, slow and depressed etc..... Used to be very OCD and content with my ability to achieve alot, be very organized as so on. Now I live in a state of fear would be a good word for it. I no longer know why i still exist. I would prefer it to be finished. Of that, i have no fear. How do i move forward?? I think about the release of dying everyday. With thanks. Pam from Australia. 🙃💖

  • @ruberrobo
    @ruberrobo 6 років тому

    Amazing content! But you should consider buying a lapel microphone to avoid the background noise. 70% of the people that come to watch your video is for the things you say so your audio game should be on point! Thank you for advices.

  • @SingMyWay-h3o
    @SingMyWay-h3o 4 роки тому

    What's in your face! it's look different than common divine powders, it's so intensive ,Looks like toothpaste or white cement. Kindly reveal the secret sir. 😊