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  • @TonyM1961
    @TonyM1961 Рік тому +397

    I remember how Chrysalis Records didn't want this song on the album, but she basically told them either it's on the album or you don't get an album. The fact that every penny (she's taking a loss on it) that she has earned from this song has been donated to battered children only makes me respect her more than ever

    • @UniquelyKien
      @UniquelyKien 11 місяців тому +14

      Yes!! Gotta love her!! I’m glad my mom introduced me to her! Shes truly amazing!❤️

    • @jmcquown
      @jmcquown 10 місяців тому +11

      Seriously, it was a song about child abuse and child sexual abuse. Not exactly designed to be a money maker but I appreciate her strong feelings and recording the song.

    • @rubygirl214
      @rubygirl214 7 місяців тому +7

      My friend was her personal assistant for years and she and Neil are wonderful people.

    • @art23428
      @art23428 6 місяців тому

      ​@@rubygirl214please don't lie for attention shows how pathetic you are for human attention get a life

    • @wendymacraild5204
      @wendymacraild5204 3 місяці тому +7

      @@jmcquown Pat's husband who is her guitar player wrote this about child abuse and how child abuse was getting worse. Pat's record label told her they were not going to put this on her album. Pat demanded it was on the album or she would not release album. And....Pat & her husband used the money this song made to start a child foundation for abused children and all their royalties for this song go to the foundation.

  • @tinahairston6383
    @tinahairston6383 Рік тому +442

    Neil is such an underrated guitarist and I was so glad that Pat didn't accept her Hall of Fame induction until they included him because she and her husband are and have always been a powerhouse team plain and simple and she was not going to let his contribution go unrecognized as it should be....LOVE HER!

    • @sunnystormy4973
      @sunnystormy4973 Рік тому +5

      -underrated is so overused !-

    • @johncampbell756
      @johncampbell756 Рік тому +13

      ​@sunnystormy4973 No one talk about him unless they are talking about her music. That is the correct time to use underrated.

    • @billydworrell8259
      @billydworrell8259 Рік тому +14

      He is an incredible guitarist and totally flies under the radar of the general public. The combination of Pat's powerful vocals and his guitar work is pure musical magic.

    • @rbb9753
      @rbb9753 Рік тому +7

      Check out his playing on the Kenny Loggins/Steve Perry song “Don’t Fight It”

    • @GCOE63
      @GCOE63 Рік тому +7

      Myron Grumbaucher (sp?) is a great great drummer! I was so pleased to see him play at the hall of fame ceremony!

  • @Gidono
    @Gidono Рік тому +68

    You don't understand how important this song was. Child abuse was not something that was talked about back then, it was swept under the rug. This song with Pat's fame brought forth the conversation into the public limelight.

  • @thisiknowwithjohnfield5067
    @thisiknowwithjohnfield5067 Рік тому +30

    Pat Benatar. RAW and brutally honest!

  • @donjackson5522
    @donjackson5522 Рік тому +280

    Pat Benatar has always been a champion for women and for children. Bringing subjects out in the light that weren’t talked about back then. You should watch the live performance for this not only because Neil shreds, and the drummer is so fun to watch, but to see the passion Pat puts in her singing.

    • @vicprovost2561
      @vicprovost2561 Рік тому +7

      New Haven 1983, utter brilliance!

    • @sunnystormy4973
      @sunnystormy4973 Рік тому +1

      -awesome !-

    • @billclisham8668
      @billclisham8668 Рік тому +2

      I was very disappointed when she decided to no longer perform "Hit me with your best shot" live any more.

  • @tinahairston6383
    @tinahairston6383 Рік тому +316

    Pat Benatar is just FANTABULOUS!!! Definitely one of her best. After reading a series of articles on child abuse in The New York Times, she was shocked to learn such things happen and wanted to write about it.

    • @sunnystormy4973
      @sunnystormy4973 Рік тому

      -#cheers-- thought they already-
      -uploaded this one !-

    • @boblozaintherealworld3577
      @boblozaintherealworld3577 Рік тому +6

      And let's not forget. She was a BABE with with amazing chops and passion. (one of my rare suggestions for you kids is the CMT video of Benatar and Martina McBride performing live together from about 12 years ago. UH-mazing)

    • @leemiracle6840
      @leemiracle6840 Рік тому +3

      Yes, that was amazing.

    • @shawnk7832
      @shawnk7832 Рік тому +1

      I wanted to comment about my Step Dad being abused my his mother. She would smack him so hard that he would fly across the room at 6 years old... he brought that to me as well, but in a lesser way... now, my Step Dad is a best friend. He's 72. I'm 49. The thing is that maybe this kind is changing. We have to be careful of the discipline... because it hurts children much, but to have no discipline, hurts everyone as well. There is a common theme with Gen X type, me... and Boomers, my parents, and kids born after me, like You, Rob Squad.... that if kids don't get hit, they don't learn.

    • @shawnk7832
      @shawnk7832 Рік тому +1

      So this is very difficult. I didn't make kids. Never hit a kid. It's a very difficult thing, and maybe I would be better making a child. Maybe I still could.

  • @robertg7396
    @robertg7396 Рік тому +347

    Growing up in a very abusive home, at the very time this song came out, it was an anthem. For me personally, it brought me some comfort, too. It made me realize that I wasn't alone in what I was feeling or going through. So, in a strange way, I've always been grateful for this song. It gave me the courage to say "enough," and I ran away from home when I was 15 and never looked back. 😇

    • @DorkThink
      @DorkThink Рік тому +25

      Me, too, friend. And I made it as a successful adult with cptsd. Love to you. 🕯️

    • @sharilynbratton6476
      @sharilynbratton6476 Рік тому +42

      I was molested by my first stepdad ( I had 3 in all) from ages 6-14 and though I was college age when this came out, it brought me catharsis and I used to dance crazily around my bedroom getting all my rage feelings out to this song. Pat was good therapy for me!

    • @normabreazile5500
      @normabreazile5500 Рік тому +11

      You aren’t, sweetheart! As, a mother, my heart breaks for any child being hurt. Please God help our dear friend! 🙏❤️

    • @tommack9395
      @tommack9395 Рік тому +12

      Neil Giraldo, where this song comes from... he does not talk about it but was physically abused by his mother. he's been a child's advocate since 1996?

    • @grumpygeezer
      @grumpygeezer Рік тому +2

  • @kaydee63
    @kaydee63 Рік тому +87

    "And you shouldn't have to pay for your love with your bones and your flesh" this single line gets me EVERY single time I hear it. It's SO sad that there are millions of children who have gone through some form of child abuse in their lives

    • @art23428
      @art23428 6 місяців тому

      Aint that deep sad you get soft over a song

    • @kaydee63
      @kaydee63 6 місяців тому +1

      @@art23428 It's the lyrics that make me "soft", as someone who was abused as a child, this song hits pretty fucking deep.

  • @geoffthomas3238
    @geoffthomas3238 Рік тому +121

    Thanks Amber and Jay for getting past the title and reacting to this classic. Few artists then or now have the guts to put out such a statement of a song. But this song sent some shockwaves back when released. Even into the 80s child abuse was one of those thing that was just not talked about. If it went on in your family you didn’t want others to know about it. It’s not that people were cool with child abuse but like teen pregnancy and mental illness you just didn’t bring this stuff up in public especially if your family was involved. This song helped bring this disgraceful epidemic out of the shadows and into the spotlight. Too many kids were told to “tell grandma you fell off the swing.” Always enjoy good music with you all and this is good music with an important message then as now. Keep up the great work guys!

    • @sunnystormy4973
      @sunnystormy4973 Рік тому

      -absolutely !-

    • @malalaz66
      @malalaz66 Рік тому +7

      This was a big deal. It’s not like Concrete Angel. It is rough and in your face and you can hear her her fury about the subject. This song came out in the 80’s when people didn’t talk about this. Great song

    • @Reclining_Spuds
      @Reclining_Spuds Рік тому

      Proudly your 100th like. ✌️

    • @sunnystormy4973
      @sunnystormy4973 Рік тому +1

      @@Reclining_Spuds -#cheers-- !-

  • @toddmichelfelder3417
    @toddmichelfelder3417 Рік тому +85

    Incredible song and took incredible guts to puts this out!! Strong message and strong performance!!!

    • @jeffreyletourneau299
      @jeffreyletourneau299 Рік тому

      OK love the song, but it didn't take guts to put this song out. Unless they were scared of the pro child abuse coalition.

  • @mirandawyatt77
    @mirandawyatt77 Рік тому +15

    This song reminds me of a quote that goes something like “good art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable”. This is probably one of the saddest, most uncomfortable songs I’ve ever listened to, but good on Pat Benatar for speaking up about child abuse.

    • @vancepeck7888
      @vancepeck7888 Місяць тому +2

      I've never heard that saying but I will remember it. It explains so many things I've noticed and experienced over the years.
      Thank you!!

  • @BillGraper
    @BillGraper Рік тому +4

    I've been waiting for this one. You wanna hear Pat Benatar ROCK? This is the one!

  • @SugahShy
    @SugahShy Рік тому +3

    Maaaan! The first time I heard this song, I had to pick up my jaw, rewind the tape and listen to it again, just to see if I heard it right. It really hits the topic head-on.

  • @ChristopherWilliams-v9r
    @ChristopherWilliams-v9r Рік тому +44

    This was a controversial song and video at the time. Benatar brought a ton of attention to this issue. Powerful song.

    • @dennisjacks7923
      @dennisjacks7923 Рік тому +7

      The song was never released as a single, it's an album cut. There is no video for the song, MTV debut in November 1981, the album Crimes of Passion was released in August 1980.

  • @TonyPucci11
    @TonyPucci11 Рік тому +72

    You made me cry seeing the pain on your face as you were “forced” to listen to this song. And a powerful song it is. Another song, same topic, from someone who really needs to be represented on Female Friday is 10,000 Maniacs and their song “What’s the Matter Here?” The singer is Natalie Merchant, and they’ve had (and then her as a solo artist) a number of big songs/hits. I hope you can check them out!

    • @scottNNJ
      @scottNNJ Рік тому +2

      Yes. I wanted to tell Amber that she doesn’t have to try to dance for the camera… if what you’re feeling is entirely about the lyrics, then let your body language reflect that emotional gut-punch. It’s what the rest of us are feeling too.

    • @ChrisSmith-jj3es
      @ChrisSmith-jj3es Рік тому +3

      I just saw your comment right after I posted the same suggestion…. Hope they check it out.

    • @KennyRansom-l5k
      @KennyRansom-l5k Рік тому +4

      Suzanne Vega's "Luka" also does a nice job of tackling the subject . 😔

    • @TonyPucci11
      @TonyPucci11 Рік тому

      @@ChrisSmith-jj3es I hope so too!

  • @joiedevivre2005
    @joiedevivre2005 Рік тому +5

    From the first note, Pat Benatar lets you know that she will not allow the listener to look the other way on this. It's a hard song to listen to, but like y'all said, it's a necessary one. The lyrics were used often in child abuse & DV awareness campaigns in the 1980's & 90's. And can we just take a moment to appreciate how Jay kept glancing over at Amber to make sure she was okay while listening to this song?

  • @wiltchamberlainisthegoat13
    @wiltchamberlainisthegoat13 Рік тому +66

    I’m so happy you guys reacted to this. This song by the great Pat Benatar is extraordinarily powerful in its message to protect kids from any kind of abuse. Some kids very sadly and unfortunately exist in a living hell often at the hands of their own parents. This song definitely brings attention to this urgent message to protect children from abuse of any and every kind.

  • @cinavs21
    @cinavs21 Рік тому +36

    Can never go wrong with Pat Benatar. One of the best ever.

  • @carolmartin4413
    @carolmartin4413 Рік тому +54

    Two of my favorite artists..Pat and Neil. They are so good in person. They wrote this song to bring attention to child abuse.

  • @wild62meg47
    @wild62meg47 Рік тому +8

    For survivors of serious child abuse, this song was so validating. Pat Benetar is one of a few women who made it as real undisputed rockers. Rock has been very male-dominaated. PB kicks it!

  • @mt0115
    @mt0115 Рік тому +3

    Pat Benetar, such a strong and great artist. 😎🍺

  • @margaretdonohue2387
    @margaretdonohue2387 Рік тому +49

    This song came out at a time when people didn’t talk about child abuse. It was a well know secret.

    • @carlgibbons5777
      @carlgibbons5777 Рік тому +2

      Just like people didn't talk about racist Police brutality back in the day.

    • @k9spjack
      @k9spjack Рік тому

      ​@@carlgibbons5777They didn't talk about it because there wasn't cell phone cameras, body cameras and video surveillance cameras everywhere like there is now. Which is why I think that every elected politician should have to wear a body camera when they're working. Because the policies and laws that they enact affect all of us!

  • @richardhenderson9767
    @richardhenderson9767 Рік тому +16

    Please react to Promises In the Dark, and Fire and Ice by Pat Benetar

  • @socalpaul487
    @socalpaul487 2 місяці тому +6

    "The song was inspired by a New York Times article about the growth in child abuse throughout the country. "I remember the overwhelming sadness and anger I felt that day," Benatar recalled. "Our bass player, Roger Capps, was also really moved by the article, and we immediately started writing lyrics. We showed them to Neil (Giraldo), and he thought they were very powerful and he began working on the chord changes and the rhythm of the song. He tried to capture the anguish and pain of a small child being hurt by someone they loved and trusted. I think he did it beautifully.""
    "Benatar said "Hell Is For Children" drew a strong reaction from fans and inspired she and Giraldo to set up a children's protection foundation that is funded by the song's publishing royalties. She still calls the song "my proudest achievement. It was created with a pure heart out of love and compassion for life's dearest beings, children…I play it every performance as a gesture of faith and solidarity.""

  • @stevegoebel5362
    @stevegoebel5362 Рік тому +8

    I have to admit that at 66 years old i have a tear in my eyes and a broken heart. Amber, your reaction is what i wish the adults in my childhood had. It still hurts. Thank you for the hope.

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 Рік тому +6

    Powerful song about a really dark subject

  • @greg2976
    @greg2976 Рік тому +30

    the "Promises In The Dark" Official video IS THE BEST of hers! Period!!!!

    • @subwaygoddess1
      @subwaygoddess1 Рік тому +3

      @greg2976, Promises In the Dark is my favorite!! ✌️🎶

    • @donnakubiski5572
      @donnakubiski5572 Рік тому +3

      I have been asking for "Promises In The Dark" forever. Needs to be their next reaction. And I agree the video is great.

    • @greg2976
      @greg2976 Рік тому +1

      @@subwaygoddess1 👍👍💯💯

    • @greg2976
      @greg2976 Рік тому +1

      @@donnakubiski5572 👍👍💯💯 YES!!!!!

    • @mickroser5106
      @mickroser5106 Рік тому

      100% luv ya

  • @bradleycrawford9837
    @bradleycrawford9837 Рік тому +79

    Those of us old enough to remember when this came out are still stunned anyone could have thought Pat was a child abuser 😮 but sadly there were. This is one of the most powerful ANTI CHILD ABUSE anthems ever written.

    • @brettkenschaft4239
      @brettkenschaft4239 Рік тому +14

      I remember that. Obviously those people were just going off of the song title and never really paid attention to the lyrics.

    • @pjg58x
      @pjg58x Рік тому +10

      There were groups that wanted this song banned, They obviously didn’t pay attention to the lyrics.

    • @jamescurfman3284
      @jamescurfman3284 Рік тому +5

      There was a certain church-going jerk who snapped my 'Best Of' CD in half when they saw that song title. They never replaced my CD even after I explained what the song was about. I guess I should have pressed charges. Some idiots will JUMP before they even know what they are jumping about.

    • @Patryn71
      @Patryn71 Рік тому +2

      Reminds me very much of the reaction to so much metal music I loved growing up. People just looked at the titles and judged the music. If people would take the time to actually learn what so many of these songs were about they'd realize how strong of a message so much music has.
      I've always loved Pat Benatar and always will.

    • @tomfoley6718
      @tomfoley6718 Рік тому +3

      I remember that as well it was so in your face because I think Pat wanted the message to be known that child abuse does exist and that kids should not have to go through it the fact that any parent could abuse their child for any reason is just so appalling and sadistic

  • @bradleycrawford9837
    @bradleycrawford9837 Рік тому +12

    Aerosmith's "Janie's Got a Gun" is another powerful anthem about this hard subject. 🙏

  • @davidnicholas6257
    @davidnicholas6257 Рік тому +4

    Next up for Pat Benatar is "Promises in the Dark" please.

  • @surlechapeau
    @surlechapeau Рік тому +48

    Jay & Amber, you'll love her "Hit Me with Your Best Shot" and "You Better Run" !!!
    edit - Pat Benatar started writing the song after reading a series of articles on child abuse in The New York Times. She was shocked to learn such things happen and wanted to write about it. I know you were crying on the inside Amber hearing those lyrics.

    • @oldeskoolnana7543
      @oldeskoolnana7543 Рік тому +3

      I just bust out crying with all the horrible stories these days. This song is the truth. Children are the future. 🙏🕊✌🌻🌻

  • @mommasoto
    @mommasoto Рік тому +2

    This song was one of their first songs that sold me on them. The message she was trying to send about abuse was controversial but needed to be said. Love these guys. And her stellar vocals are always spot on

  • @firefighterchick
    @firefighterchick Рік тому +14

    She was one of the first artists that address the issue of child abuse.
    She said as long as it's happening she will continue to sing this song.
    She read an article in the New York Times about the rise of child abuse cases.
    That's why she and the others created the song.

  • @brad6576
    @brad6576 Рік тому +7

    I just saw Pat Benatar in concert 12 days ago in Vancouver. She rocked and looked beautiful!

  • @DorkThink
    @DorkThink Рік тому +11

    Used to sit in the desert with my little boom box and scream my lungs out along with Pat Benetar! ✨

  • @DarrenCarnes-yj4vb
    @DarrenCarnes-yj4vb Рік тому +6

    Promises in the dark, and fire and ice. Those are my two favorites I think you would like them.

  • @chriso6719
    @chriso6719 Рік тому +14

    You're right ,It was anger, and shock, and disbelief. She started writing the song after reading articles on child abuse in the NY Times. From her 2nd studio album, Crimes of Passion, which came out in 1980.

  • @wpl8275
    @wpl8275 Рік тому +2

    In an interview with Portfolio Weekly, Benatar explained: "I was living in New York when we wrote it and the New York Times did a series of articles about child abuse in America. I came from a really small town on Long Island and I had no idea that this existed, not in the little gingerbread place I came from. I was stunned. It affected me so much. I was moved by the articles. Whenever that would happen I would write. I said to Neil, 'I want you to do something to the music that it sounds like pain. I want the intense pain that's happening to these children in the notes,' and so he did and it turned out just great. It became an anthem. I always wonder if other people have lofty intentions. I didn't.
    We started a foundation for abused children. Then we had all these grownups writing letters saying no one had addressed this in this way before and that it was so great having someone in rock-n-roll doing this. It turned into this other thing that I don't think any of us foresaw. The anguish is there. Every time I sing it I really remember the afternoon when we talked about it."

  • @sandratibbetts5424
    @sandratibbetts5424 Рік тому +17

    I freaking LOVE this song, it's one of her best.

  • @subwaygoddess1
    @subwaygoddess1 Рік тому +36

    I'm happy you gave this song a chance, and your reaction. Nowadays, more children open up about being abused than when this song came out. Those were different times. Many of us in an older generation have way too much identification with the lyrics. Thank you for this song. My favorite is "Promises In the Dark," but I'm not sure if you reacted to that one yet. You'll love it!

  • @RicoCosta317
    @RicoCosta317 Рік тому +6

    That scream could be heard on other planets. Always gives me chills. Such a powerful song, with great lyrics and one the great guitar solos ever by her long-time husband, Neil Giraldo. A certified banger and one of my favorite songs of all time.

  • @joem3099
    @joem3099 Рік тому +2

    I have heard this song hundreds of times but the look on Ambers face brought a tear to my eyes for the first time listening to it

  • @randybliss6480
    @randybliss6480 4 місяці тому +1

    I watched this again. And if you ever got Pat & Neil on with your new series, I definitely wouldn't be able to click that fast enough!!! (Especially if you did this song, perhaps as one of their performances!)

  • @sisterdebmac
    @sisterdebmac Рік тому +3

    YES Amber!! Neil's guitar is just as full of rage as Pat's vocal. Brilliant song. So glad you did this one.

  • @danielb2993
    @danielb2993 Рік тому +1

    "Promises In the Dark" and "Little Paradise" are also great ones from her and the band.

  • @lisalovemc717
    @lisalovemc717 Рік тому +14

    This is an amazing song but it's a really tough tough song lyrically and makes me feel guilty rocking out to it. BUT she wrote this to bring child abuse to the forefront because it wasn't talked about back then like it is now.

  • @rff2552
    @rff2552 Рік тому +3

    One of my favorite Benatar songs. I'm in tears listening to this song, as usual.

  • @LarryFleetwood8675
    @LarryFleetwood8675 Рік тому +1

    This song was featured in a central montage sequence in the underrated 1985 TV movie Children of the Night, starring Kathleen Quinlan and Mario Van Peebles.

  • @kdm71291
    @kdm71291 Рік тому +3

    The look on Amber's face was exactly as I suspected.
    Musically, it's a fantastic song.....but the subject matter is heavy and serious....you want to rock, but at the same time you feel the weight of what Patricia is purveying....and husband Neil emoting through his guitar! In the end, you're rocking, feeling and cheering them for bringing attention to the subject...in their own incredible way!

  • @StarQueenEstrella
    @StarQueenEstrella Рік тому +15

    Maybe it’s because I have a nephew and niece now but this song just hits differently for me now. I can’t imagine someone doing those things to them, let alone any other little kid in the world.

  • @breese4425
    @breese4425 Рік тому +5

    So glad you got to this one, finally,’ her vocals just add to the drama of the song

  • @theresatrapp4532
    @theresatrapp4532 Рік тому +9

    FINALLY!!! Quite possibly the most powerful her voice has ever been. And its normally pretty damn powerful!

  • @stevehatton-bw3bo
    @stevehatton-bw3bo Рік тому +3

    Reminiscent of “Concrete Angel” by Martina McBride; the message that is; this is a rockin version! She did a CMT Crossroads show with Martina; worth checking out!

  • @bradjbourgeois73
    @bradjbourgeois73 Рік тому +2

    My nanny loved Pat Benatar. She died in 2018! Great memories of my childhood. RIP Nanny, love and miss you! Wendy Simon Louque 1953 - 2018.

  • @markzalubas5793
    @markzalubas5793 Рік тому +8

    So much respect for the folks who sing songs on behalf of other people: Pat Benatar, Soul Asylum, Susanne Vega, Natalie Merchant, Concrete Blonde, and many others. When you have a platform, use it for good. Rob Squad Reactions uses their platform for good. Thanks so much.

  • @rickg3359
    @rickg3359 Рік тому +5

    Now yer cookin
    It really is a powerful song. Hits harder today than when I first heard it eons ago

  • @markvader8083
    @markvader8083 Рік тому +4

    Total respect for Pat/Neil to make a song like this to bring awareness about child abuse. She even donated the money from this single record to help child abuse victims. I went to see them in concert 3 times in the 1980's & had a blast!. They should have been inducted into the Rock-n-Roll Hall of Fame years ago & not just last year(2022).

  • @PFreet
    @PFreet Рік тому +3

    Pat's husband, Neil, on the guitar obviously felt the same way as she did singing...his angry solo was always spot on for this one.

  • @kelleychilton2524
    @kelleychilton2524 11 місяців тому +1

    I was in college at the time this song was released and it was somewhat controversial back then. A number of religious organizations attempted to get the song banned from the radio. Back in those days no one was talking about child abuse, it was more or less kept in the closet. This song really exposed the problem and made it impossible to ignore.

  • @cdfdesantis699
    @cdfdesantis699 Рік тому +10

    It's hard to hear, but I've always respected artists who use their platform to address such issues as this. Thanks for your reaction.

    • @dougman23
      @dougman23 Рік тому

      Yes...I hate when people say musicians should stick to music. Modern popular music has always been on the barricades, shouting at wrongs. It is absolutely everyone's place with a platform to speak up

    • @cdfdesantis699
      @cdfdesantis699 Рік тому

      @@dougman23 I agree, friend. Recall all the protest songs during the 1960's. Thanks for your reply.

  • @steadfastneasy26
    @steadfastneasy26 Рік тому +2

    @Rob Squad Reactions
    I'm 61 years old and this song still makes me cry.

  • @sedatedape315
    @sedatedape315 Рік тому +6

    The idea of child abuse was always known....but rarely spoken of. Once Pat released this song everyone was talking about. And that was a good thing. The more light you shine on evil the fewer places it can hide.
    A short time after this song came out, and the talk was everywhere, I noticed more interest in stopping it and helping those kid being abused. I like to think that Pat Benatar helped many children with her song. Sometimes we have to know bad exists before we can fix it.

  • @hbguy29
    @hbguy29 Рік тому +1

    “Precious Time” by Pat will SLAY you!!

  • @KevinPerry-xv2eh
    @KevinPerry-xv2eh Рік тому +3

    My favorite Pat Benatar song. Also a topic that needs to be discussed

  • @lrsrosebud
    @lrsrosebud Рік тому +2

    I remember when this came out, so powerful!

  • @yvonnem2613
    @yvonnem2613 Рік тому +4

    My all time favorite by Pat Benatar is Promises in the Dark.

  • @bonnielemenager4030
    @bonnielemenager4030 Рік тому +9

    This was hands-down the finest reaction I have ever seen you both do. The raw emotion on both of your faces was just extraordinary, and I am so glad I witnessed it this evening. As a mother of four and now grandmother of five boys, I can tell you, Amber, that what you said about grown-ups telling children to keep a secret from other adults is very bad and no good can or will ever come of it. Hold each other and your children tight.

  • @petersalerno4298
    @petersalerno4298 Рік тому +2

    Saw her in the 70s and what an entertainer.

  • @jps536
    @jps536 Рік тому +5

    It was a controversy when this song came out because of the title. People thought she was supporting abuse because they didn't really listen to the lyrics, plus the title "Hell is for Children" was the headline of a news article that Pat Benatar read that talked about child abuse and it was the motivation for the song. Thank you VH1 behind the music!

  • @larrydavis3270
    @larrydavis3270 Рік тому +2

    Back when this song came out, child abuse was not talked about on radio, and other media. After this song came out, this changed a lot! Pat wasn't afraid to speak her mind through her music. Such a heart wrenching, powerful song.

  • @HeavyMetalBluegrass
    @HeavyMetalBluegrass Рік тому +2

    I've heard this song a dozen times and this is the first time I've really listened to the lyrics. Thanks for reacting.

  • @cathyortiz1280
    @cathyortiz1280 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! My fav Pat Benatar. All the $ raised goes to help abused children. "Promises In the Dark" next.

  • @Jar.in.a.Bottle
    @Jar.in.a.Bottle Рік тому +2

    It wouldn't be full throttle Pat Benatar if she didn't tell it to you straight to your face without easing off for a second.
    Thanks for reacting to this masterpiece of music and writing with the intended message heard loud and clear!

  • @carltonbakerii8274
    @carltonbakerii8274 Рік тому +2

    This song always give me chills and some tears. Pat and Neil weren't holding back in addressing this topic. This is the thing about music: it can be express so many emotions and shed light on subjects that are often swept under the rug. Amber is right: it's important to have songs such as this.

  • @markastoforoff7838
    @markastoforoff7838 Рік тому +12

    As a song this is just a great song, for it's message it's very powerful.

  • @fhare666
    @fhare666 Рік тому +2

    Neil Giraldo man (Pats husband) , one of my all time favorite rock guitar players, laying it down. Great song!

  • @brucemerryman7365
    @brucemerryman7365 Рік тому +5

    Her and husband are amazing!!!

  • @aktammi
    @aktammi 7 місяців тому +4

    I remember how controversial this song was when it came out when I was a kid. She said the quiet part out loud, but it really started calling attention to child abuse in the early 1980s.

  • @MWPoss
    @MWPoss Рік тому +4

    Definitely a strange experience as a watcher of reaction videos, to see amber bouncing to the rock beat in her chair, and then her face is filled with pain and hurt and sorrow! Such an incredible contrast of physical emotion, with the rock bounce on the one hand, and the contorted face of pain on the other! Wow, 😮😢

  • @randybliss6480
    @randybliss6480 Рік тому +1

    The first time I heard this song (when I bought the album in 1980!), it became my new favorite, topping Fleetwood Mac's "Dreams". Finally, a song that described my childhood. I've cried every time I've heard it (and I've heard it a lot)!!! I do know that Pat has played the song at every concert, only missing one time. I don't know how many concerts that is in over 40 years, but it could be thousands of times. I got to see her do it once in the late 80's (though I didn't figure it out due to a keyboard intro until Neil hit those first guitar notes).
    Thank you for finally getting to my favorite song!!! I couldn't hit play fast enough!!! And thank you Jay for waiting on the pause until after the scream section!
    And also, thank you for sharing about teaching your kids "No secrets"! That is smart!!! Great job!!!

    • @randybliss6480
      @randybliss6480 Рік тому

      I should have mentioned that I was 19 when I first heard it. Staying alive until then is a story all on its own.

  • @larrysaenz8964
    @larrysaenz8964 Рік тому +2

    I was listening to her today she's amazing and awesome pat 🥊 rocks🎉❤😅

  • @davidgraylord5977
    @davidgraylord5977 Рік тому +1

    This song is Legendary. She was one of the first to address this in public. Before it was something everyone knew about. You just didn't talk about it. In almost all of her music can feel the strength she has.

  • @bloppysloppy4057
    @bloppysloppy4057 Рік тому +1

    I suffered some physical abuse growing up but I suffered tons of mental abuse everyday for many years growing up from my stepfather, teachers and other kids. It's something I fight every day of my life to overcome the low self-esteem, self-doubt and feelings of unworthiness. My heart goes out to abused children.

  • @wordgiesworld5483
    @wordgiesworld5483 Рік тому +8

    I’m a huge fan of Pink, Lzzy Hale, Amy Lee….but Patricia will ALWAYS be be my favorite female artist.

  • @alanbrown3963
    @alanbrown3963 Рік тому +6

    The point of music is to move people emotionally and to take action to correct injustice in the world around them. Pat had that in mind when she wrote this song. The song was criticized in it's day for using the word Hell in a song about children, but Pat stuck to her guns that this was a message that needed to be delivered. As always, she was tough, tender and assertive in expressing what she believed was right.

  • @jimtatro6550
    @jimtatro6550 Рік тому +2

    This is my favorite Pat Benetar song by far, hard subject material.

  • @jamesmorrison7692
    @jamesmorrison7692 Рік тому +4

    A masterpiece from Pat and Neil. You have to remember, this song came out in 1980, and subject matter like this was never discussed. Some radio stations would not play it because it was controversial. Pat always sings it with passion, and it’s easily one of her best

  • @MrDoneboy
    @MrDoneboy Рік тому +2

    This song has always been hard for me to listen to, because I grew up with an alcoholic, abusive father. Too many of the words, bring a lot of things back, that I want to forget!

  • @trishgift7959
    @trishgift7959 Рік тому +4

    I was a teenager when this song came out. I cried every time I heard it. Finally had to skip over it when playing the album. Brought me to tears hearing it here.

  • @dunringill1747
    @dunringill1747 Рік тому +18

    So glad you guys reacted to this one and its deep heartfelt message. My next Pat Benatar request would be for the rocker "Promises In The Dark". Go for the official video first.

  • @gurulimbo
    @gurulimbo Рік тому +3

    Teenage mantra. This one hit hard.

  • @ThorneJr
    @ThorneJr Рік тому +1

    I was 16 in 1980 and it was the "year of children" or something like that. They had a huge concert with a lot of different bands. Pat Benatar and her band donated all future profit from this song to fight child abuse and victims. I survived it.

  • @TJ-pc5mq
    @TJ-pc5mq Рік тому +3

    My first concert ever was Pat. She does a Beatles cover of "Helter Skelter."

  • @djplong
    @djplong Рік тому +2

    You know, I thought I'd dealt with this. I'm 60 years old. When this song came out, it hit home - but, at the time, I didn't think it applied to me. Years later, a support group for abuse survivors reached out to me because of some stuff I'd written and invited me to join them. My initial reaction was "Oh, I wasn't abused - certainly not like other kids... I mean, sure, I had (x) done to me and there was all the (y) going on but there really wasn't that much (z). Sure, I didn't like it when (a) and I wish I didn't have to put up with so much (b) - but other kids had it worse - they had a lot more (c) than I had..." ...and for the first time in my life, I had, almost accidentally, started to write down in one place all of the things that were done to me... ...and I just stared at all those things - all bundled together at once - and then realized there was more that I hadn't written. That's what it took for me to realize what had happened to me.
    Yesterday, I saw that you'd reacted to this song. I knew that it hit me in a particular way when it came out in my 20s. So I watched your video to see another one of your reactions...
    I fell to pieces. I started hyperventilating. I started panicking. I started feeling dizzy and suddenly started crying... I've heard this song a thousand times and always reflected on it and the more unpleasant times in my youth... Seeing the look on your faces as you understood the lyrics... Something reached deep down inside me and tore me apart.... I'm fine now but it tells me that even 40-50 years on, there can still be hidden damage...

  • @LearnToRefine
    @LearnToRefine Рік тому +4

    She brought a ton of attention to child abuse and the hell-on-earth that too many children go through. Very few people would openly talk about it back then. Some people protested the song because they didn't actually LISTEN to it.

  • @Shellgrit
    @Shellgrit Рік тому +4

    "Hit me with your best shot" is one of her best songs

  • @1960rlv
    @1960rlv Рік тому +2

    This song hit different because it forced people to start a conversation about this awful fact of life. It made awareness of the problem a shared experience. We need more of this type of music because I honestly believe music can move a culture.

  • @Chefcorky
    @Chefcorky Рік тому +2

    You need more Pat B in your life. She made such an impact on rock as a woman in the 1980's. This song was somewhat controversial but once you listen to the lyrics, it works. And it addresses the suffering children can experience in abusive situations.

  • @magneto7930
    @magneto7930 Рік тому +2

    Every once in awhile you will find songs out there with a slightly deceptive title. That's why the lyrics to this song are so important. Thanks for giving it a chance, it's one of Pat's rocking best!

  • @donnadubyak6504
    @donnadubyak6504 Рік тому +13

    This hits home, my dad was physically abusive. My mom got rid of him when I was 9. Spoke to him once more when I was 35.