Why Do People Love Toxic Relationships?

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2024

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  • @Gunnatello
    @Gunnatello 4 місяці тому +302

    Can’t cape for Diddy now fellas

    • @jgard1168
      @jgard1168 4 місяці тому +26

      Hate to be that person but they were the only ones to say “ if he did it “

    • @allhailzamasu69
      @allhailzamasu69 4 місяці тому +2

      I just cape for a blk woman in the hood

    • @HRFI4444
      @HRFI4444 4 місяці тому +35

      Donkey of the Year should go to all of them!!!

    • @thomasbaltimore53
      @thomasbaltimore53 4 місяці тому

      @@jgard1168😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS
      @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS 4 місяці тому +2

      Yall heard this song? By me? #johnnyx100

  • @maniac50ae14
    @maniac50ae14 4 місяці тому +89

    Everyone is entitled to one maybe two toxic relationships. But after that, it just means you're a toxic person

    • @eyeamphree3337
      @eyeamphree3337 4 місяці тому +1

      Yea like you can maybe be a hacker who harassed people in 2010 but to still be doing it in 2024 just mean you're a terrible person & toxic too. You're SO right

    • @maniac50ae14
      @maniac50ae14 4 місяці тому

      @@eyeamphree3337 uh, are you saying i harassed you previously😮?

    • @deangeloparker2974
      @deangeloparker2974 4 місяці тому

      Yeah we want know 2 what did maniac do lol

    • @cw1345
      @cw1345 4 місяці тому +1

      Radio station that loves to spread toxic news asks why black people love toxic relationships 🤔.

    • @ThatCreoleMan
      @ThatCreoleMan 4 місяці тому

      That was a 14, year old

  • @joemoneymondays
    @joemoneymondays 4 місяці тому +51

    Unhealed or Emotionally Immature people like toxic relationships. I'm standing on this

  • @TheSupermum100
    @TheSupermum100 4 місяці тому +27

    Waiting for you guy's to speak on the Diddy and Cassie video 👀

  • @AllureKeys
    @AllureKeys 4 місяці тому +18

    Donell mocking that lady voice ☠️💀🤣

  • @nicoleleckner7902
    @nicoleleckner7902 4 місяці тому +27

    I don't think people love toxic relationships, they are just mirroring what they grew up with. I think a toxic relationship is more like a trauma bond.

    • @kimjoan212
      @kimjoan212 4 місяці тому +2

      Well said👏🏾👏🏾

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS 4 місяці тому

      UMMMM BRUUUHHHH AYO Sean 'Diddy' Combs On Video Assaulting Cassie Ventura - ua-cam.com/video/SUykkAUHi08/v-deo.html

    • @TheRedScareIsAlive
      @TheRedScareIsAlive 4 місяці тому +1

      Many people didn't grow up in toxic environments... and are still toxic. Some people grow up with married parents... but can't keep a relationship. Some people are drug addicts... but grew up with sober parents

    • @nicoleleckner7902
      @nicoleleckner7902 4 місяці тому +2

      @@TheRedScareIsAlive Just cuz the parents are married doesn't mean it wasn't toxic

  • @Dayday_1996
    @Dayday_1996 4 місяці тому +20

    Dont go ignoring this Diddy tape

  • @willemdee
    @willemdee 4 місяці тому +17

    Donkey of the Year better go to Sean Combs.

  • @Troycc14
    @Troycc14 4 місяці тому +42

    What yall gone say about diddy now, we want to hear it ?!?

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS 4 місяці тому

      UMMMM BRUUUHHHH AYO Sean 'Diddy' Combs On Video Assaulting Cassie Ventura - ua-cam.com/video/SUykkAUHi08/v-deo.html

    • @ryanedmonds8235
      @ryanedmonds8235 4 місяці тому +1

      Why you on Diddy 🥜’s

  • @Bright_Eyedea
    @Bright_Eyedea 4 місяці тому +4

    This generation is lost.
    It’s nothing attractive about toxic relationships smfh and the one lady talking about she’s 34, that’s so embarrassing

  • @THOU713
    @THOU713 4 місяці тому +62

    Drop right after Diddy video drop is crazy timing

  • @MJFlairs
    @MJFlairs 4 місяці тому +16

    Some are comfortable in their misery and don't wanna put in the work to get up out of it. Some are too stubborn and prideful to admit they chose wrong, they're more concerned about their image than their well-being. And some are ignorant to the fact it's toxic, because they're so numb from experiencing and seeing it since a child.

  • @MrYS-eo5zw
    @MrYS-eo5zw 4 місяці тому +51

    Diddy done done

  • @deucedaprodeuca
    @deucedaprodeuca 4 місяці тому +5

    For anyone saying Cassie stayed in a toxic relationship, she literally physically tried to leave him and even went to another State. Diddy has people all over and he was able to find her. He physically forced her back and made threats to her if she gave him any problems. She has seen what he's capable of, so she took him seriously.

  • @kimmiet1980
    @kimmiet1980 4 місяці тому +20

    The people calling in are all slow asl. 😂

    • @awhizkid4653
      @awhizkid4653 4 місяці тому +4

      Exactly! I don’t like drama & why would anyone.

  • @540Baby
    @540Baby 4 місяці тому +34

    FBI released that Diddy footage directly after King Combs made fun of them for missing wrong house Karma is a mf!!

    • @sharonjo7630
      @sharonjo7630 4 місяці тому +6

      Damn...didn't think about it like that.

    • @nicknick5968
      @nicknick5968 4 місяці тому +3

      It sho is! 😂

    • @DaRealJA
      @DaRealJA 4 місяці тому +4

      Self proclaimed “king” needs to sit down

  • @tupapa7230
    @tupapa7230 4 місяці тому +7

    Waiting for the Sean Combs donkey of the day.🕵🕵🕵🕵🕵

  • @diordevon
    @diordevon 4 місяці тому +2

    Even that "Hotel" need to be sued for keeping the footage that long.

  • @jayswizzy7510
    @jayswizzy7510 4 місяці тому +28

    DIDDY DID IT

  • @ericturner7849
    @ericturner7849 4 місяці тому +13

    Diddy going to jail like, forever.

  • @kimmiet1980
    @kimmiet1980 4 місяці тому +11

    Ole girl from Florida definitely needs to grow up. 🙄

  • @carolrobinson4788
    @carolrobinson4788 4 місяці тому +6

    The title of this video alone is Victim Blaming! The breakfast club is going down in flames

  • @oasisfullfilled7617
    @oasisfullfilled7617 4 місяці тому +5

    People have unheal trauma. I try to stay away from people like that. Its sad. They are happy being negative.

  • @lornacarrington8081
    @lornacarrington8081 4 місяці тому +12

    I love when Darnell is there omg 😂😂😂😂he makes me 😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sonyap8253
    @sonyap8253 4 місяці тому +5

    Folk that grow up in chaos define that as "normal". When you get stressed, your brain secretes the hormone cortisol. It has an endorphic connection and can become somewhat addictive. Heavy stress (and in turn heavy cortisol) causes permenamt structural changes to the brain. Stresses like abuse, poverty, absent parents etc. The state of being stressed becomes home base, nostalgic even. When these people grow up they seek out their comfort zone, and in turn often self sabatoge things that don't feel like that (even feel bored when at peace). From a psychological explaining...

  • @mea174
    @mea174 4 місяці тому +8

    Soooo …. What do you guys have to say on diddy now!?

  • @JHNNtube
    @JHNNtube 4 місяці тому +18

    im crying laughing at 9:06 donnel rawlings is crazy 🤣

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS 4 місяці тому

      UMMMM BRUUUHHHH AYO Sean 'Diddy' Combs On Video Assaulting Cassie Ventura - ua-cam.com/video/SUykkAUHi08/v-deo.html

    • @Mesh642003
      @Mesh642003 4 місяці тому

      C.

  • @kazmir_
    @kazmir_ 4 місяці тому +17

    Trauma response, some people just cant help it from past relationships, even there parents played a part, validation, etc.. to much work I just want PEACE.

    • @trvrboggs
      @trvrboggs 4 місяці тому

      Their parents* 🧠

    • @kazmir_
      @kazmir_ 4 місяці тому

      @@trvrboggs ok?

    • @trvrboggs
      @trvrboggs 4 місяці тому

      @@kazmir_ I know it’s 2024 but grammar still matters. Peace..

    • @kazmir_
      @kazmir_ 4 місяці тому

      It has nothing to do with the basis of what was said.. go learn to code or something bud instead of watching comic videos and correcting grammar.

  • @QuEsT_X
    @QuEsT_X 4 місяці тому +5

    Boy if y’all don’t cover Diddy at length tomorrow!!!!

  • @lateshashampree
    @lateshashampree 4 місяці тому +5

    😂😂😂😂 this shit was too funny I need to see the caller's face

  • @BRNDNH95
    @BRNDNH95 4 місяці тому +9

    Take diddy picture off y'all wall

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS 4 місяці тому

      UMMMM BRUUUHHHH AYO Sean 'Diddy' Combs On Video Assaulting Cassie Ventura - ua-cam.com/video/SUykkAUHi08/v-deo.html

  • @Zetho
    @Zetho 4 місяці тому +2

    These ppl calling in bragging about liking toxicity in their relationships are deep fried

  • @chalwe4086
    @chalwe4086 4 місяці тому +9

    "Jesus ain't come back in the slavery days, he ain't coming back" that's a mf bar!

    • @essen23
      @essen23 4 місяці тому

      Christ been around, the whole time eniugh of the media conglomerate just been insinuating/suggesting things that aren't and lying for entertainment, not anybody including Christ doesn't have time to make sense of nonsense tho

  • @THAFLIGHT
    @THAFLIGHT 4 місяці тому +17

    WE RIDE TOGETHER, WE DIE TOGETHER, BAD BOYS FOR LIFE, NO DIDDY🤨🤔🧐🗣🤝🏿💯😂🤣

  • @dustinnunes
    @dustinnunes 4 місяці тому +8

    Breakfast club BETTER talk about that diddy vid that dropped

  • @tobiasedwards2643
    @tobiasedwards2643 4 місяці тому +2

    Eli definitely is 12 at the most no way a 24 year old would sound like that

  • @k.lorraine
    @k.lorraine 4 місяці тому +2

    They love toxic because they are toxic themselves and enjoy wickedness.

  • @KamD-th3wq
    @KamD-th3wq 4 місяці тому +4

    I wonder what Envy and Char gonna say about the video. What excuse are they going to use now.

  • @NYRyder1983
    @NYRyder1983 3 місяці тому +1

    I am loving peace a whole lot more. Y'all can have those toxic relationships.

  • @yaboi9191
    @yaboi9191 4 місяці тому +4

    Yooo donnel had me rolling when he did the smoker voice

  • @kdndahouse3405
    @kdndahouse3405 4 місяці тому +1

    People don’t like toxic relationships usually they’re just unhealed

  • @rogueonevo
    @rogueonevo 4 місяці тому +5

    Can we talk about yall ex boss Diddy now.... no more capping Breakfast Club.... all that "i don't like seeing ppl brought down" shi* can go out the window now fellas.... stop with the bullsh*t and speak on it....

  • @huggy68
    @huggy68 4 місяці тому +2

    I find it really interesting how a lot of the major black platforms aren't covering the diddy situation.

  • @ebfisher4942
    @ebfisher4942 4 місяці тому +4

    Why are yall not talking about that cnn video of diddy dragging Cassie by her hair and kicking her multiple times and throwing glass vases at her

    • @bmanbusee3812
      @bmanbusee3812 4 місяці тому +2

      It just came out. Give em time by tomorrow..😂

    • @ebfisher4942
      @ebfisher4942 4 місяці тому +4

      @@bmanbusee3812 you right lol I will give them time!!! I was just so disturbed by that… she was running like Tina

  • @swaggyd9416
    @swaggyd9416 4 місяці тому +9

    Y’all can’t save Diddy now

  • @blessedme5518
    @blessedme5518 4 місяці тому +4

    Now what yall got to say about the Diddler???? Stop puckering ya lips and SPEAK ON THAT VIDEO EVIDENCCCCEEEEE!!!!

  • @ojdajuiceman6139
    @ojdajuiceman6139 4 місяці тому +7

    Crazy Title after Diddy video dropped 😂

  • @tobiasedwards2643
    @tobiasedwards2643 4 місяці тому +2

    Look at CTG’s reaction when that 34 year old girl said she was from Florida😭😭😭😭

  • @klondontv
    @klondontv 4 місяці тому

    The fact that you know its a toxic relationship and you stay and contribute to it means you're definitely a BIG problem

  • @TheChante18
    @TheChante18 4 місяці тому +54

    The 34 year old woman explained exactly what a toxic person is…..she enjoys the drama and the rollercoaster emotions of the relationship but eventually that shit will drain you mentally and emotionally to the point only thing left to cater to is the physical part of the relationship….it will be more lows than highs in a relationship like that…not all relationships are toxic but seem like the callers who “love” it are not looking for longevity or marriage nothing healthy but they are looking for relationships they feel like they have control or a hold over the other person In an unhealthy way ……

  • @kaytsippy1981
    @kaytsippy1981 4 місяці тому

    It is unhealed trauma. If you grew up in Toxicity, it feels familiar and like home. It is not a moral failing. It is a product of trauma.

  • @jamesziegler2748
    @jamesziegler2748 4 місяці тому +1

    Entertainment and love can both b in one relationship but dont fool yourself into thanking you in love just because you’re entertained

  • @getithowyoulive2.
    @getithowyoulive2. 4 місяці тому +1

    Shampoo talking facts 😂😂😂

  • @CuriositySavedTheCat
    @CuriositySavedTheCat 4 місяці тому +1

    I pray to God with all of my strength i never meet another woman that desires to be in a toxic relationship 🙏

  • @kristinagonzalez5988
    @kristinagonzalez5988 4 місяці тому +4

    Charlamange probably gathering a response explaining why he gave support to Diddy like some mf weirdo😒

  • @m_-ph4bt
    @m_-ph4bt 4 місяці тому +10

    LETS TALK ABOUT DIDDY

  • @ramonafortson
    @ramonafortson 4 місяці тому

    Donnell a fool he said just stay out the man phone 😂😂😂

  • @jamielleanderson33
    @jamielleanderson33 4 місяці тому +3

    Been Buried My Toxic Relationships No Hard Feelings Or Grudges ❤️😎

  • @TheKnowledgeIsOutThere
    @TheKnowledgeIsOutThere 4 місяці тому +4

    This is weird timing to discuss this topic given the recent Diddy hotel video released by CNN today. All of our worst speculation was confirmed today.

  • @anthonydhatton
    @anthonydhatton 4 місяці тому +1

    😂 Donnell makes this a cold new Breakfast Club crew

  • @deeransom
    @deeransom 4 місяці тому +2

    Jess looks so pretty with no makeup

  • @megatron4136
    @megatron4136 4 місяці тому +1

    Mental health is a serious issue within our nation

  • @Thatboy1x
    @Thatboy1x 3 місяці тому

    “Jesus didn’t come back for the slaves so why would he come back now”😵 has got to be the craziest statement I’ve heard all week lmfaoo😂bruh😂

  • @driafibromyalgiafighter9342
    @driafibromyalgiafighter9342 4 місяці тому +1

    I've never been toxic. Never saw a reason to. You're going to be way more hurt that you did me wrong than I will be that YOU did ME wrong. Deal with your Demons 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @wildhaert
    @wildhaert 4 місяці тому +4

    Let's see what y'all puppets gonna report on Monday 😐🤔

  • @SB_thatsme
    @SB_thatsme 4 місяці тому

    When you grow up in a childhood built of chaos and abuse without doing the work to repair it in adulthood, toxicity feels comforting.

  • @Imalilteapot97
    @Imalilteapot97 4 місяці тому +2

    I think this was in poor taste especially when the video dropped the same day? It's giving subtle victim blaming

  • @nak-sukow2441
    @nak-sukow2441 4 місяці тому +2

    Breakfast club. Come out and plaayy

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS 4 місяці тому

      UMMMM BRUUUHHHH AYO Sean 'Diddy' Combs On Video Assaulting Cassie Ventura - ua-cam.com/video/SUykkAUHi08/v-deo.html

  • @havikthe96vet14
    @havikthe96vet14 4 місяці тому +1

    So Stephen a. smith the only one that’s gone speak on The Diddler

  • @frederickifill3107
    @frederickifill3107 4 місяці тому +1

    Can’t wait for Monday when they talk about diddy

  • @dinkyboss
    @dinkyboss 4 місяці тому +11

    Jess is mad toxic and currently can’t stop lying to save her life. Jess the call is coming from in the house 😂

    • @maniac50ae14
      @maniac50ae14 4 місяці тому

      Yeah, i like jess! She would be a koo homegirl, but the way she moves in her relationships are wild

  • @shestayready
    @shestayready 4 місяці тому +2

    My mama - toxic af... 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS 4 місяці тому

      UMMM AYO Sean 'Diddy' Combs On Video Assaulting Cassie Ventura - ua-cam.com/video/SUykkAUHi08/v-deo.html

  • @LilHondaCivic808
    @LilHondaCivic808 4 місяці тому +6

    Metal illness and desperation

    • @saftheartist6137
      @saftheartist6137 4 місяці тому +2

      Plus BOREDOM

    • @LilHondaCivic808
      @LilHondaCivic808 4 місяці тому

      @@saftheartist6137 for women yeah but a lot of black men like kel really just want one woman and for it to work.

  • @egleonel
    @egleonel 4 місяці тому +4

    we need Donnell permanently 😂

    • @kelsblair5963
      @kelsblair5963 4 місяці тому

      No we don’t. He not funny. They barely laugh at him

  • @keyshajones1866
    @keyshajones1866 4 місяці тому +1

    I think some people stay in a toxic relationship. Because they hoping thing will change it they could change that person, but you can not change anything or anyone if not willing to change. Then again it might be you that change because that other person so evil and negative some of their ways will rub off on you

  • @jeffreyabbey9592
    @jeffreyabbey9592 4 місяці тому +1

    Cause they are toxic within themselves to enjoy or be attracted to that type of energy and stress
    Enjoy yourself

  • @MentionThegod
    @MentionThegod 4 місяці тому +3

    Funny how y’all ain’t report nothing on Diddy beating cassie in the hotel. Y’all been real quiet. Quick to give anybody donkey of the day. Y’all falling of anyways

    • @Gaesbyer
      @Gaesbyer 4 місяці тому

      Sell outs especially dj scammer

  • @valerie4912
    @valerie4912 4 місяці тому

    Some thrive off of it because it’s familiar.
    Some feel that something must be wrong with the person who treats you with love and respect.

  • @eanlynum9366
    @eanlynum9366 4 місяці тому +1

    Jess was probably as toxic as they come and now she is just trying to repress it. It’s in there!

  • @mizzpro617
    @mizzpro617 4 місяці тому +3

    I bet they’ll never cover the diddy video. Watch!

  • @laureladams875
    @laureladams875 4 місяці тому +2

    No clips on Diddy, huh?

  • @CreepingDeathaAH
    @CreepingDeathaAH 4 місяці тому +1

    Because certain people don’t like to be ‘bored’

  • @JS-he9qo
    @JS-he9qo 4 місяці тому

    Some people just like to fight wonder for loved. Smooth honest love is just corny and to boring for some people

  • @deem132
    @deem132 4 місяці тому +2

    this what y’all want to talk about instead of addressing y’all bestie Sean Diddy Combs? ok.

  • @julieterrell1973
    @julieterrell1973 4 місяці тому +1

    Shewww, im SO GLAD Im not miserable anymore! It can be a fantastic life and happy! Toxic was fun under age 50 tho!😅

  • @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS
    @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm trying to go to that book signing foreal 💯 foreal. Breakfast Club needs to hear JX100 .

  • @keithelliott2328
    @keithelliott2328 4 місяці тому +2

    Damn 24 and only been with 3 women, lil boy ain't experienced nothing

  • @Nomatterwhateveryonefamily
    @Nomatterwhateveryonefamily 4 місяці тому

    Candace Owens is literally a gift from the creator shes last of a dying breed a true QUEEN asking a question like that is like asking someone where they going and they say to a funeral the there response is did they die everyone needs to listen to Candace Owens and really listen and not just hear hear her ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @divinesunshine1881
    @divinesunshine1881 4 місяці тому

    Because some people only thrive in drama, chaos and confusion.

  • @TheWolfeDen
    @TheWolfeDen 4 місяці тому

    People learn to love in the ways that feel familiar.

  • @cinconizar7725
    @cinconizar7725 4 місяці тому

    PEACE ☮️ is a BEAUTIFULLLLLLL THING.

  • @ginagarcia1722
    @ginagarcia1722 4 місяці тому

    I'm not sure if people 'Love' to be in toxic relationships. We're drawn to what we were shown growing up. My parents argued often, although I know that their relationship was very unhealthy, it was 'normal' for me. Breaking that cycle has been a challenge. Learning from those past relationships, moving forward in life is the goal.

  • @dopesoul7179
    @dopesoul7179 4 місяці тому

    Because toxic is comfortable and familiar to folk. They will be willing to sit in it.

  • @ElleJae-b9q
    @ElleJae-b9q 4 місяці тому

    Why hasn’t anything been discussed about Harrison Butkurt

  • @NandoBCB
    @NandoBCB 4 місяці тому +1

    10:09 shampoo! 😂😂😂

  • @devontolly1596
    @devontolly1596 4 місяці тому

    Anybody whos 8 year old son is there therapist is not worth listening to. Maybe next time

  • @Casper092
    @Casper092 4 місяці тому

    I don't think people necessarily love toxic relationships its just that these types of relationships engage your feelings strongly and its hard to walk away from something you are heavily emotionally invested in.

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS 4 місяці тому

      UMMMM BRUUUHHHH AYO Sean 'Diddy' Combs On Video Assaulting Cassie Ventura - ua-cam.com/video/SUykkAUHi08/v-deo.html

  • @Megatronmarc
    @Megatronmarc 4 місяці тому

    Because that’s what they show on tv and in the media

  • @KP43-08
    @KP43-08 3 місяці тому +1

    4:26 bro was like 12😂

  • @AwesomeBlackDude
    @AwesomeBlackDude 4 місяці тому +2

    The same reason why people vote against their own interests.
    Quote by ~ Jill Stein