The Truth About Being Unequally Yoked with Erica Hubbard | Dear Future Wifey Podcast S7, E705
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- When oxen are unequally yoked, they cannot perform the task set before them. Instead of working together, they are at odds with one another. 2 Corinthians 6:14 speaks of the importance of being with spiritually like-minded mates. Erica Hubbard was married for many years and shares her experiences with being “Unequally Yoked.”
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Who ran to read the comments after a few minutes of listening and then felt some relief when you found out you were not alone? 🤦🏽♀️
Umm me!
Yea…. I’m absolutely confused. I started listening on the podcast…. But had to run to UA-cam to see if I was the only who realized she was saying a lot without saying anything!! Whew!
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I'm not sure what I am listening to at this point who is she
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20 minutes in and I'm scratching my head. She's talking a lot, without saying anything.
Thought it was just me 🥴
So it's not just me
I read the comments before getting started. Then was thinking: aww, people being hard on her. Now I’m 16 minutes in… 🤔😯
Erica got Latteras working OVERTIME
Okay I'm not trippin. Wth is happening. My attention has definitely gone.
@@Kedia12I’m trying to persevere because I enjoy DFW. Whew!
I feel like I’m unequally yoked with this episode 🥴struggling to get through it for the love of Latteras 💜
Lol. It felt like at times Latteras was talking to a child about a real adult topic and spent most of the interview having to pull teeth as a result.
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This episode is a great example of how answering with only spiritual cliches can be empty and sometimes seem so unclear and like people can't explain what they say they believe or what nonbelievers can believe in. This was valuable. Many Christians have no clue how they look and think they've said a lot and they audience they spoke to walked away thinking the words were scripted yet empty.
You're so right. I have to check myself
Yep, extremely common responses that are unclear and lack openness and understanding.
That’s a Word!!!! This interview was embarrassing, to be a grown woman without clear thought, not knowing how to explain yourself, I’m 36 mins in and I just want it to be over already.
You said that well!!!!! ❤
I agree 💯% This podcast was painful. So much religious jargon. Used clearly to deflect and put up a wall around her heart so no one could see what’s going on within it. #wasteoftime
God used this episode to give us a VISUAL of what unequally yoked looks like. This is what it looks like when one person is open and vulnerable vs one being very guarded. That tension that’s present in the interview is exactly what it’s like when you’re with someone you’re not godly compatible with. Laterras said this was one of the most challenging interviews he’s ever done. And that’s how your marriage will be….challenging. Laterras represents the spouse that keeps trying to get the other one to become vulnerable with them. Erica represents that spouse that fights against being vulnerable. Watch the interview from that standpoint. Like the interview is an actual demonstration of being unequally yoked. God is awesome!!!!! Your marriage will not benefit anyone if your potential partner cannot be vulnerable and transparent.
I had the same takeaway
Wow. What an insight. This is truth if you look at it from this perspective.
WOW! This is a great perspective… I would not have looked at it from this perspective… Thanks for this perspective… 💯💯💯👍🏾
This wasn’t a display of being guarded, she was purposely being deceitful. No way, she seen the show and thought she should come on and then ‘Act’ like she didn’t know she needed to be open on such a vulnerable show
@@OhhYouu..MICHELLE Seems like she just wanted to promote her "eBook"
This episode was very draining. Thank you Laterras for keeping it together! You’re awesome!
Thank God for spiritual maturity
@@vernessaking3950That's it. Spiritual maturity is what was lacking here. That and her being extremely guarded. This wasn't a fit for her - she wasn't ready.
I’m 34 minutes in and came to the comments to see if it gets better before I subject myself to the remainder of the video. 😳
I had such high hopes for it based on the title.
Yes is patience 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Exactly!!! Beating around the bush!! People need to know exactly what she talking about she act like she scared to talk!! So how you doing spiritual warfare 🤦🏾♀️ if you can't even talk about it?!?!
Bless her heart. I was listening to the Podcast and had to come to UA-cam to make sure I wasn’t tripping. She’s so guarded and not ready to be completely open about the tough relationship conversations. This was tough to listen to because I heard nothing about Love (Agape Love) but I pray for her healing and understanding. Let Him Use You
I was driving and listening the podcast once I got home I had to check UA-cam to see if this was real. Maybe she didn't want her ex spouse to look bad but this was like pulling teeth. She's not ready to share her testimony
I literally came to UA-cam for the same reason 😂 I just had to make sure I wasn’t trippin
Omg me toooo it was very difficult to understand
Wow😮 exhausting
Podcast listener, I thought it was one of his first interviews because I figured that there was no way this was current.
Kudos to you Laterras for continuing this interview & not quitting ..this definitely speaks to your professionalism….my godddd 😩
Seriously because I would have stopped mid interview like CUT THE CAMERAS! lol I don't have that level of patience.
Yesssss he is so dope because Chile…
I didn’t learn anything from this but patience for others. She caused chaos in my spirit watching this.
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Exactly
I felt the same... She was just draining....
I should have ready the comments here before I listened on Spotify !
Her rhetoric bothered me because our Lord is not a God of confusion, yet for someone who has the spiritual gift of a direct connection to the Holy Spirit… as we all have the same access…all Erica did throughout the whole episode was confuse the audience and Ladarius. Even if she wasn’t ready to be vulnerable about her journey, she could have made sense of the little information she saw willing to share.
She wasn’t ready for this interview. Period! I pray she finds vulnerability in her spiritual walk. It’s all about God getting the glory! Don’t hold back when God could be positioning you to set someone free.
Amen! 🙏
Yes! Amen!
This!!!
I agree with you. I don't think she understood what was expected of her. She is not ready to be vulnerable to the world about her story.
She didn’t have the tools to articulately expose herself without the fear of what she’s going to say .
Honey , when he said "you like to talk around in circles" I love this podcast, its super real❤ He said Father God
Yes she was definitely getting on his nerves. Bless her heart
Yes
Whew I was like just end the podcast now she playin too much LOL.
27:14 That is exactly when I decided to scroll down to the comments 😂 it's crazy how many people in the world are just like her
😂 my sentiments exactly. But then I started thinking maybe she intentionally doesn't want to get too deep for fear of not working in hollyweird anymore! (We are living in the times where mentioning our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ, is becoming an issue as scripture said it would) 🤷🏽♀️
Many of us watched the podcast and sensed areas where the Lord can minister to Erica's needs. She is no different from the rest of us in needing ministry from Him - let's raise a prayer for her!
God, as You continue to bless Erica Hubbard's life and career, please fill in any gaps in her understanding of the things of God; please give her clarity on Your definition of what it would look like for her to be equally yoked with a partner; please strengthen her ability to plainly articulate how and why she walks and believes as she does; and please heal any emotional injuries inside her. In Christ's name I pray.
AMEN
❤ amen ❤
AMEN!!!
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen ❤
This is a perfect example of not being ready to share your story/journey and that's ok..give her some time and when she's ready her story will be a blessing to many.
This.
I agree or maybe she has not learned the lesson.
This interview was the true meaning of having hard conversations because this interview was hard for her to have.
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Bahaha
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I agree.
Okay 15 minutes in and I was wondering the same thing.
I don’t think she was really ready for the yellow couch! Thanks for showing us what that looks like! You always get blessed watching Dear Future Wifey! God use’s everything! 🙏🏽
God uses everything 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Right!!!! Im 15 mins in and dont know anything about her. Half the time I cant understand her and btw dont hide your faith under a bush, come out and he proud to believe in Jesus, what doors close because of that was never yours. And better will open. God put you in Hollywood if thats where youre meant to be for a reason.
I though the same thing. She wasn’t ready. I wonder if he second guessed if he should have brought her on.
I, too struggled with this episode. I could not watch it all at once as it definitely was testing my patience. Kudos to Laterras for his perseverance in trying to get clear, concise answers. Prayers for Erica and her children as she continues to heal from her life situations. Bless you Latteras and continued success on your podcast and your quest for your future wifey.
One thing that this interview showed me is that people can see you. Even if we think we can put up a facade and hide parts of ourselves, it’s not hard to pick up on someone not being genuine or truthful with who or where they are. It’s very visible when someone is misaligned.
This interview has made me reflect on how I come across and that I need to make sure that I’m in alignment with who I say I am and who I truly am.
Thanks Laterras. There is value in still sharing this episode even though it didn’t go the way you intended it to go.
Yessss
Absolutely....there is still an opportunity to reflect and become more self aware. This episode was a struggle.
Indeed.
It was a very difficult interview.
Beautifully written 👏👏
She kept saying “oh we getting deep” and proceeded to pull us back to the shore every chance she got. It felt like Laterras was struggling to pull information from her for most of the podcast, so this was difficult to get through.
She did her testimony a disservice by being wildly evasive and cooky.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 this is the comment
I was thinking the same thing! If she wasn’t ready to wholeheartedly discuss the ins and outs of her experience then she should’ve waited for a year or 10 to come on the show 😳 we’re used to open flowin’n real talk on this podcast 🙃
Yes I glad I wasn't the only one
😂 she do too much watching from uk
I'm 25 minutes in and was wondering if the entire interview was going to be her being evasive. Thanks for the confirmation. I won't spend my time watching the rest.
This episode showed me how beautiful it is to be vulnerable. I need to start being vulnerable because she just couldn’t bring herself to be vulnerable and that’s me sometimes…
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I have patients that speak in what we call word salad. That’s what this interview reminded me of. Nothing she said went together coherently. This is why it’s important to read the word of God for yourself!
I've watched almost every episode. This is the first time I've struggled through it. "Oh you're getting deep." That's what he does! I literally yelled at the screen like I was in a movie theater.
I thought it was me…I almost cut it off a few times.
The problem I had with is that “she” sought Latereas out to be on the show, it wasn’t the other way around. If you’ve watched any episodes she would know that is the requirement, to be LIT. You can’t brow beat someone speaking in tongues but never talk to them in native language. Very disappointed in this episode.
Me too!
Lol she definitely said a whole bunch without saying anything at all. I was like pleaseeee just answer a question 😂
@@ivywilson3384 I DID turn it off. I had to regroup to complete it. I was irritated the whole time. 😂
This is the stuff that confuses non Christian people. A good foundation is so important, especially when trying to explain what the Bible is all about. I’ve watched many people take spiritual gifts way out of context and sidestep basic practical conversations about everyday life.
This was my main concern
I agree. I never heard once any mention of the Fruits of the Holy Spirit only gifts.
@@Twin1y Exactly! It is sad that in 2023, simple conversations are elusive for some people.
Christian here. I’m confused
I typically don't comment good or bad but I must say I applaud👏 Laterras for his resilience in getting through this interview. This was like nails on a chalk board. I held on to see if I was going to be able to get anything of substance from this and unfortunately I was not. Ms. Hubbard was NOT transparent, authentic, honest, real, relatable, forthcoming or genuine. I have no idea why she wanted to even come on.
I like Erica and truly respect her. I believe that God makes no mistakes and that he intentionally arranged for her to be a guest on the podcast. There was a huge takeaway that I got from this episode. Just because you may be ready to have tough or deep conversations, does not mean that everyone else is. We have to give people grace, comfort and respect and to let them know that it is okay. I truly believe that this was a huge step for her in her growth journey and God willing, if it's His will, that she will be back at the end of this season, or next season and she is going to be truly convicted to share her story effortlessly! Thank you Laterras for patience and understanding because at anytime, I just knew the cameras were going to cut off and come back on with you reading your letter!🤣🤣🙌🙌🥰🥰
I agree.
This could have gone unaired. I saw unequally yoked and was excited and then she proceeded to not talk to the audience, us, and just talk to Laterras. She doesn’t know where she’s at or why she’s there.
Yes....ths chile need delliverance....I see a lot of covered pain....grl stop 🙏
Me too
When Laterras said she was the most challenging guest he ever had, he wasn’t lying. This was the most confusing interview. I love the podcast, but I can’t finish this episode. I was trying, but I can’t 😮
I couldn't either😮
Same this episode wasn’t it I’m sorry
Straight facts
Me either! 20 minutes in and came straight to the comments to see if I was the only one. Whew hard pass!
OMG....I'M DYING trying to get through this interview!!! I have NEVER seen anything like this. God Bless all yawl for enduring this. Whew lawd GOD Jesus on the mountain. I just can't.
Lol, ditto 😂
He simply said "you like to talk in circles"!
Period!!
Watching this at work and trying not to laugh too loud!!!!! I was saying poor Laterras, he gonna need some Tylenol when this interview was over!
Erica was being a bit difficult but she had me cracking up.
I needed a Tylenol, too!
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From the moment she put the gum in her bra, the interview went left. 😂 I wholeheartedly pray that she finds balance.
NOW I know! 😅
Oh my, not the gum in her bra! Cos you're really saying the interview went left b4 it even started!! That took me out!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Witchcraft. The mere fact she did that. Thats' a belief a learnt belief. Normal folks would have asked for a tissue. There is a spirit controlling this body. Watch the body language, the rerouting of answers, the laughing, the fidgeting..
@@chidinmaadaeze8189 Truth be told, that was the precursor.
Yes!! I was like what?😂 this is going to be interesting.
The level of professionalism displayed by the host is unmatched, because a lot of people would not have aired this. But it shows different levels in maturity in Christ and why discipleship is so important because when we open our mouths as a representation of our savior we should make sense 😇❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ best podcast hands down
Hats off Laterrias, you get the award for patience and being able to RE-DIRECT those who've gotten off track in these interviews. Secondly, she should have done her homework regarding the DFW podcast. We are the L.I.T. society, tramsparency is one of our core values. She seemed guarded and not ready to truly discuss HER life. Lastly, I'm dealing with something similar and was really anticipating an OPEN, HONEST conversation. Unfortunately, I didn't get it😢💜
Same! Im literally at a crossroads about this very topic
Quit judging. Your profession probably is not highly affected by your image.... it's clear that she is mature in operating in her spirituality. Whoever has been around so many people, "especially in the entertainment industry," whom arw very surface and will call you crazy.
She will watch this and see how she needs to be free to BE......
@@nicolesmith3348Ma’am no one judged her. She’s not spiritually mature. She just repeats scripture & spiritual protocol. She placed herself on a pedestal to be so spiritually in tune. She didn’t answer any of Laterrus questions precisely or concisely. She wasted time. She’s not articulate, not everyone has a testimony to share. She didn’t discuss anything past, present or future
@@nicolesmith3348she failed to do research on the podcast and what it is about. Because it was very hard to watch. What was the message exactly?
I met her in 2020 and she has a powerful testimony. I truly hope one day she feels empowered to share. Revelations 12:11
Well I wish she should have shared it here but this one left me confused of her intentional purpose being interviewed
Erica Hubbard has a lot of wisdom. I believe she’s still trying to process her divorce. Divorce is traumatizing. I’m not sure if she is ready to be vulnerable at this time. Perhaps vulnerability is not something she wants to embrace at all ( even her reaction to how LW's once expressed motion shows this) believe she genuinely wants to give us a message without giving us too much of a window into her personal life. Hence, this may not have been the best “ couch” for her. I’m thinking a show like “ Better Together “ would be more fitting. I love this Podcast and what it’s doing for us … I thank Erica Hubbard for her teachings.
Honestly I agree with this. Like when he kept asking when was your divorce .. and she kept going back and forth between 2018 and 2019 ( not saying that’s so important but I figured she was trying to keep somethings Lowkey ). Understandable
I saw a comment about this being hard to watch and her being evasive and I just wondered if it was just me but I got confirmation that my feelings were valid, this is the only episode that I can’t watch till the end😩
Yes, very hard to follow. I don't think I can finish it.
Thank you i thought i was tripping
I could not watch to the end either.
Im at 22 minutes in and im leaving it here. Very boring.
Yea, I cut it short.
I was born to a mother who practiced witch craft and a father who only went to church because he was made to. However, by the time I came along they had found Christ and served him wholeheartedly. Just long enough for my siblings and I to know Christ before my parents decided that they no longer needed Him.
My parents have both lived extremely afflicted lives. Particularly my mother.
My mother has always spoke in tongues and if I’m being honest it sounds like she’s conjuring up something dark. What comes out of her is no gift from God. I have seen some things in my 30 something years in experiencing my parents.
I know all too well about spiritual warfare and demonic influence.
My mom was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and schizophrenia among other things, as well as one of my little sisters who was literally pulled from the river (alive thank God!!!) today.
My little sister in fact reminds me of the demon possessed person who was chained up in the grave yard in the Bible who was possessed with legion and when removed the demons went into the pigs and drowned them.
That’s been my life.
I say all of that to say:
I don’t want anybody who isn’t grounded in Christ yet to watch today’s episode and believe that you have to speak in tongues or that it is some kind of requirement for God. That is a lie from the pits of hell. You do not.
Having a personal relationship with Christ breaks down exactly what He expects from you individually. In your alone time with God He will tell you. That’s why it is so vital that you get to know God for yourself.
Guys we have to seriously pray for this woman. God isn’t the author of confusion and when we are scattered in our thinking or kinda all over the place that typically indicates the absence of God and/or the presence of an ungodly thing.
I’m not saying that she is evil or doesn’t mean well or doesn’t have a relationship with Christ. However, it is extremely obvious that sis maybe going through some things. She seems to be in a spiritual battle of tug of war between the flesh and the spirit man yet she seems to be wanting to educate other people without yet doing the work within herself first.
As a body of Christ we are all messed up in one way or another and that’s exactly why we need God and each other. She referenced her mom a lot but her mom isn’t the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. We can get plenty of advice from other humans that doesn’t directly come from God Himself.
This episode wasn’t about being unequally yoked. I have to believe that God wanted this woman on this podcast to show us what spiritual warfare looks like in the flesh and to show us how it doesn’t discriminate. As this is a beautiful divorced woman, with 4 kids, who acts.
I know there was someone watching who is in the same boat as her that maybe finally got the courage today to try God because now they see how they’ve been really looking in front of people.
God wastes NOTHING!!!! He can and will use it all. 💯
Laterras,
New levels, new devils, I love you so much and I’m so proud of how you conducted this interview.
Make sure that you are getting your mental health and God breaks in between doing these because you know the devil is big mad.
S/N: The Bible Teachers who have/are really blessing my life are as follows:
Myles Munroe
Joyce Meyers
Dharius Daniels
Tony Evans
Howard John Wesley
Trust God and do good, even when you don’t understand 💚🙏🏽
THIS!!!!!
GIRL!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💯💯💯💯
It's layers of stuff... shucks. When you get delivered, the enemy wants to retake legal grounds. Some of us need both deliverance and mental health help. Renewing our minds and be grounded in the word of God. The devil always mirrors and perverts what God made, one of them is religion. I hope she gets further deliverance, and there are demonic principalities you can't cast out for people. They have to make that decision themselves. For those needing resources look up restored to freedom by Nelson Schuman.
Amen, Amen, AMEN 🙏🏾 ❤️ 🙌🏾🙏🏾😁!!!
@@abbasjoy4785 I strongly agree with everything that you said. LAYERS. She wasn’t ready. Discernment and vulnerability are key components too. Also thanks for name dropping the resource. I’ll check it out. As someone dealing with it and seeing it first hand, there are no days off for me. I’m expecting miracles within my family and myself as so much has taken a toll, on not just me, but my siblings as well. I remember begging God for my mom’s deliverance and even questioning Him out of frustration. When He revealed to me that He can and wants to deliver her but she refuses Him I was so shocked. When I questioned her about it she didn’t even deny it.
My little sisters situation is different as what she’s battling was passed down generationally. She loves God so much but she has to be in a position to surrender. God knows that she was innocent in all this and I’ve turned it over to Him. I’m believing for her deliverance and even if He doesn’t bring her out I still trust Him. 💯
Those principalities, and powers, rulers of darkness and spiritual wickedness in heavenly places aka demons are very real. We can’t see them in this realm but they attack us. God teaches us how to fight, as a spiritual battle can’t be won in the flesh.
Exhausted at 25 mins but pushing through because of the comments. Props to Laterras for persevering because this was a VERY challenging conversation and interview.
This is the perfect example of what unequal yoke in a relationship looks like. Its exhausting......
I must say this, I respect the fact that she was willing to continue this interview in spite of her feeling uncomfortable. It takes a lot of courage to go on an interview that anyone in the world could watch. Thank you both
thank you Father God for allowing the conversation to continue to the end🙏🏼 thank you Jesus🙌🏻
Your response shows grace and love. God bless you for that.
Did he say she reached out to him?
@@Godslight1970s Amen, we all need God's grace and mercy
She ASKED to be on the show. How is she uncomfortable?
Laterras you did a great job under the circumstances. The vulnerability that we've become accustomed to with past guests was missing with Ms. Hubbard. The saying "don't be so heavenly minded that you are no earthly good" seemed to ring true here. Vulnerability is about telling your story in truth; she worked sooo hard to keep things general and not on focused on her that a lot was lost. Well done Laterras! Thank you for your vulnerability in posting this episode because it was obviously, painfully difficult to get through.
I just said this
all of this sis!
Welp, this episode showed me I still have to work on my patience and attitude. I shouldn't have been so annoyed by this. But Laterras you literally have so much of my respect because of this!
😂 I was thinking the same thing. I have so much work to do on myself. Lord help.
@@B4Real247365 pleaseee God lmaoooo
Me too.. I’m sooo impatient I know that, but I Can’t even finish this… aht aht. I’m not subjecting my spirit to all this babbling she trying to conjure up. All that you know… nope. I don’t we TRYING to find out but she deflecting
Laterras R. I was so happy when you acknowledged how difficult she was being and how she kept going in circles.
Please stay connected with her and make sure she’s ok emotional and mentally. I believe she’s dealing with a lot of insecurities and private pain.
She didn’t listen to communicate. She’s anticipating every question and trying not to put herself out there as she answers. She’s struggling with being transparent and using her spirituality to hide and coming off looking like this.
Who goes on Dear Future Wifey NOT to be transparent?
You can’t communicate with people like this without frustrating them. Lord help her and those in relationships with her.
Lord...you know what wasnt equally yoked?! This conversation. Bless her
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Straight facts
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The host needs an award for even getting through it. You lead well sir !
I agree
💯this is exactly what I was thinking. He even started asking her the same questions in a different way to squeeze an answer from her!
Facts
Too much
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This episode left my head HURTING!!!! I can only imagine how he felt interviewing her. I’m going to to pray for her. I noticed some things.
In order to be vulnerable/ honest with others, you have to be vulnerable/ honest with yourself. I learned this within the past few months. When people would ask me simple questions, I kept talking in circles. Even while self reflecting, I did the same thing to *myself*. Somethings are hard to unpack, but it’s needed in order to truly heal and move on.
Thank you Laterras. We all felt it too!! Woah, she made you work. We appreciate you keeping it together.
Yes! I can't stop laughing.
Chile!
Wheeew..,..imagine being in a relationship with a person with that style of communication……we got work to do
Erica said that she asked to come on the show. Not sure she was ready to keep it LIT. This was tough to listen to unfortunately. But displays a level of vulnerability that so many are not willing yo expose to become victorious over those experiences and traumas that bind us to past hurt. Laterras keep doing what you do, being intentional with your guests. You are bringing heaven to earth with your show.
Sister, I see you and I know you were nervous. Being interviewed about your life before an international audience is mind-blowing...especially about intense, intimate, and personal topics. I hope you read this and stay encouraged, Love. Most here in the comments have not been on the yellow couch of transparency, LOVE, and healing...you are good. In the spotlight or not...we're all trying to learn and grow. You are beautiful and loved... Continue in the way of the Lord. We got you ❤
❤ your comment!🙌🙏💐🦋
#SupportingSistersWithLove
Letarras undercover 😅👋
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She’s an actress. She has been in the spotlight several times for years!
I am with you however the point of the interview is to learn about being unequally yoked……I know less today than I did before about her experience, what to expect, how to deal or any of that. This is not criticism, it’s awareness to transparency. She was not ready to have it.
I LOVE this podcast and look forward to new episodes. It literally took me almost a week to get through this interview. I’d watch a little and have to come back another day. Bless her heart. Laterras showed true patience and I have an even greater level of respect for him. ❤
Omg, this was one of the hardest episodes to get through. I am respectfully exhausted. I can feel your pain Laterras
Yes… at first I thought I was just me and then he said it so I knew something was off with her. This was very hard to sit through as I kept waiting for her to “get serious.” 🥴
Hey Laterras. I know God brings you guests who resonate with your past, present or future. How did Erica relate to your story? Also can you do a part two unequally yoked episode with another guest? I’m sure this episode helped someone. I was looking to get more transparency. I made it through the entire episode and you did an amazing job.
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Please do a part Two with another guest🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes I totally agree. I wanted more transparency but it just wasn’t happening.
I know we all come with a level of expectancy based on what we all are accustom to. I pray we learn to extend grace to each other and be patient rather than being critical. I listen with an open heart to learn through what is being shared. Mr Whitfield, hats off - Your demeanor and professionalism was top rated. Let us Exercise Patience and give room for grace.
Truth 💯
Amen🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼thank you Jesus🙌🏻🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
AMEN
Honey I applaud you cause God still working on me. Nope I don't have the patience for this. Sorry not sorry. Good job Latrius. Cause i would have cut them cameras a long time ago.
I saw myself in her…this is what being unsure of yourself looks like. 😔
A response to LW’s question for the audience:
“Equally yoked”, 1:10:05 for me is a person that desires to walk in; •moral integrity, •spiritual awareness, •believes in and practices prayer, •is intellectually stimulating, •values education, •a life long leaner”, •has a teachable spirit, •an effective communicator, •known by others as being wise, •an individual who enjoys “the performing arts”, •humorous, •kind to others, •respects their family, •a hard worker, •a good tipper,•intentional about maintaining their physical health and fitness, •is emotionally intelligent and self aware, •protects their sexual health by practicing abstinence regularly (not just when it’s convenient), has a true sense of God consciousness and an internal conviction to do what is right.
Bless all of you who made it to the end. Too much back and forth for my patience or lack thereof.
I understand. I am currently watching, and I’m trying to make it to the end.
I made it. I'm tried after thou.
LOL I’m committed and will get to the end HAAAAAA
Lol, 😆 😆 I attempted to turn it off several times but I was rooting for her to answer at least one question with clarity. 🤷♀️
It was a struggle. 28 minutes in I came to the comments to see if I was the only one
I listened to this podcast this morning and came here to see the comments to make sure I wasn’t trippin. Laterras, brother your patience and willingness to fulfill your mission is commendable. Thank you for being dedicated to sharing useful wisdom and information.
That’s exactly why i’m here to I was getting upset. I was is it me or is she going in circles. Did she only see him in one podcast. You can’t answer a question and not explain your answer on a show like this.
same!
Me too lol 😂
Thank you Laterras for what you do! I have watched many of the podcast, but this one, I couldn’t make it through. God bless you all
Thank you Laterras for doing this episode. Many watch your channel, and are very vocal in their feedback but I wonder how many would be up for spilling that which they are still working through!
I am a fervent believer that every situation is a lesson. I salute and respect Erica for bearing her vulnerability, without sharing what she has not yet fully processed and which she clearly feels uncomfortable sharing. I salute her for putting herself and her vulnerability out there. She is clearly trying to protect someone. I respect her for saying she has nothing to say to others about marriage as she is still clearly, trying to process her experience. Laterras this has been a learning experience for you also. Sometimes the lessons we think we will get from a classroom, is not the lesson God intended us to learn.
Erica reminded me that I must afford Grace and exercise patience with others, meeting them where they are at and not projecting my expectations on them. I pray she finds the courage to work through it all and wish her the very best. Every experience shared in these podcasts are a lesson for all of us.
Erica strikes me as a very bright young lady and one who is very mindful about not offending and /or exposing others. She clearly has a gift that she seems to be seeking clarity and approval on how best to manage/utilise it. Erica seems to inject humour to try to combat her nervousness and unease with the questions.
I like how Erica thanks Laterras for articulating what she was not able to. I hope she comes back when she is stronger and clearer in her deliverance.
After reading the comments,I’m Only watching for Latteras! He always comes through 👏🏽
Laterras is the reason why I'm going to continue watching. Laterras definitely practiced the fruitage of the spirit of patience during this interview. God bless him.
@@sfreeman417 he’s something special! Not sure if another interviewer would know how to turn this around.
She's stuck on spiritual warfare, tongues, etc. For some reason she can't talk about being unequally yoked
Same!
Same
This was definitely interesting to watch. Praying for soundness of mind and for her to be able to freely be who God has called her to be in Him and for Him. You can definitely just begin speaking in tongues, especially at Holy Spirit's prompting during certain situations but there are some who use the gift just as a religious tool at their disposal but not for spiritual warfare.
At this particular time. She's a poor communicator. Definitely not ready to be vulnerable.. praying for her 🙏🏾
Very wise response.
The laugh though😢😮😢😮😢😮😢.... scratches head.... is she acting or is she really being real..... i cannot anymore with this
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Am not sure if i can make it to the end of this podcast....this is the first podcast i cant finish..... cha
The uncomfortable laughter she does, the avoidance of direct questions, her surface answers, redirecting everything back to the spirit but couldn’t specify anything….whew, it’s taken me a few days to listen and I still feel the same way.
I felt it when Laterras said I should have done this interview by script! then started the screenplay... 🤣😂😅 She is clearly not ready to share or heal from everything so she was vague and laughed instead of expounding on her own point of view. I felt bad for her. I hope she gets the spiritual & emotional release she needs🙏🏽🙌🏾
Yeah it’s very clear she hasn’t processed her story. She should’ve watched many episodes to understand what the show is actually about. I’m sad cause I was looking forward to learning a whole lot
Let’s be kind to her, because it’s hard to open up and be vulnerable especially on a public platform. She might’ve thought she was ready but when she got there, she realized she wasn’t.
Hopefully we’ll see her return and do this with a more vulnerable spirit.
I agree, I hope for more healing and clarity for her ✨
I was about to sent an unkind comment then I saw this.
It’s one thing to think you can and another to actually do it.
She needs time to fully process and be okay to tell her story, I couldn’t even finish it😢
I hear you but I’m sure that if that was the case that Laterras would have given her opportunity for him not to release it. He’s a kind man and I’m sure he wouldn’t want to embarrass her. She probably said that she was ok with him posting the interview.
OMG! This was difficult. She wasn't ready to be transparent. We aren't use to this type of interview on this podcast. Hope she gets healed for real!
As a host, you’re asking the ideal questions. Her answers are all over the place with a burst of laughter, it’s a STRUGGLE listening to her. I’ll find another episode to watch.
This episode was definitely a display of calm, caring and careful communication by Laterras. This will show all future husbands how it can be done respectfully. God bless you brother my respect 📈.
Honestly there shouldn't be a husband if it takes all of that to have a conversation but I do give kudos to Laterras composure and patience because he was obviously getting frustrated and handled it as well as anyone could.
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you did such a great job on this interview. Such an excellent demonstration of professionalism,l and patience
After watching this and really looking into what we all watched. This is great example of how we want to be open and LIT, but we truly struggle sometimes to effectively communicate. This episode taught me that I need to effectively communicate and not listen to respond, but listen to understand for myself.
It was ahard episode to watch and I could see the frustration...but there is always a lesson in each episode
This episode was painful to watch … 😢 Hopefully there will be another episode in the future where she will stand boldly in her authority in Christ Jesus and educate the people with confidence. Spiritual warfare is real and we are definitely in a battle.
I pray that she comes back for another episode.❤
Exactly! I try not to judge other peoples walk but it seemed like she was either afraid to speak freely or just holding back for some reason. God hasn’t given us a spirit of fear. So we shouldn’t shrink when speaking on what we believe and how we feel. Hopefully she can come back when she’s more comfortable.
Especially puzzling since she’s an actress and used to speaking publicly.
Wow I’m a few minutes in and I said the same thing. I hope she comes back.
I hope she never comes back unless he publicly apologized for his behavior. She is a lovely person though misguided. She deserves better in an interviewer.
I saw so much in this episode. It’s very obvious that she’s under the spirit of religion. And, her mother plays a huge part in it. But, she also said her father is strict. I can tell her parents are still ruling her life. She’s speaking as if she knows they’re watching it. She knows her church community is watching. I don’t think she’s ever even met herself. She only knows herself through religion. She always talks about what your “supposed” to do. She only knows rules. I think she can’t control speaking in tongues because she’s literally under the spirit of religion. Which can show up as mental illness. She’s not even able to speak in first person. She speaks as if she’s giving advice. The spirit of religion will convince you that everyone else’s spirit is what’s wrong. So, you’ll never hold the mirror up to self. She was unable to speak on her divorce because it makes her feel like she failed. She filed for divorce first because she knew her husband thought she was crazy. He never liked the uncontrollable tongues. That is why for her new husband all she knows is she wants him to be ok with that. Because, she’s unable to shut it off. She’s trying to be perfect constantly but it’s only making her unstable. All she knows is religion. That is her only requirement for husband. Is to be religious. And, then she will serve you. Because, she never stops operating out of people pleasing. But, it’s not her fault. Her parents were clearly very strict with her and made her into a people pleaser. She doesn’t know herself. She only knows herself in the eyes of others. She worked very hard for us to not see her. But, we all did. Laterras didn’t let up. I love that he didn’t fake with her just because she’s a celebrity. I think she’s suffering from a mental illness. She’s not wrong to call it spiritual warfare. That’s what it is. I truly believe she may have went through something traumatic. Or, just the judgement from church has been traumatic. That’s why she’s speaks on shame, embarrassment, or rage. I think religion is an escape. She’s not really able to tap into reality right now. She blocks out the deep rejection she feels. Especially from that divorce. She kept saying “you want people to see you married. It looks good.” Unfortunately- her entirely reality is through the eyes of others. She’s not able to say dating has been hard because she is trying to hide that many people see her as crazy. Including her children. She wants someone who is equally as consumed with religion as she is. But, God often sends us the person we NEED. The one who will help ground us. Her partner is probably not as consumed with it as she is. And, she doesn’t even know that she needed that. But, I can tell it was not her who walked away from the marriage. He did. But, she was the famous one so she did it first because she’s not able to face anything that feels like a failure.
This comment is golden. Religion will drive a person crazy. I’m glad I am out of it. God removed me out of a religious church and now I’m a member at a church where everybody acts like normal human beings. I can be myself!
There will be a extensive deliverance process that will have to take place. The part where you said she talk as if she’s knows whose watching hit home. Jesus… I’ll be praying for her to be released from bondage.
This is absolutely what's going on with her. You articulated it very well. I knew it within in a few minutes that it was a religious spirit then saw the mental illness. Her parents caused this and she doesn't know herself. Very true.
You hit the nail on the head. She needs to go to a church that preaches sound doctrine, has the authentic power of God, and receive deliverance. Tongues cannot be taught: it can only be imparted or received. Hoping she finds herself and identity in Christ.
Deep!!!
Umm, do you know her? This is spot on! My goodness. At least we know how to fervently pray for her because I agree with this comment.
Thank for for having Erica Hubbard on the show. God is indeed strategic. I needed yo her speak. When you have a spiritual gift, calling on your life and at times you can feel, judged, left out, you just want to be understood, have someone to relate. I felt her and all her words. Thank you Laterras for the patience and guidance you gave her while she was sharing and thank you Erica from another Ericka for sharing and being open. You helped me. You did the job! Thanks much.
I’m dying at Laterras. “Let’s act like you were married….and I’m the host….” 😂😂😂 Ad I continue to watch this I have to keep commenting.
She just walking around speaking in tongues to everybody is all I learned this entire discussion.
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Yes, she was talking in circles. Nevertheless, I was able to self-reflect and identify areas of growth within me. As women, we typically know more about other people than we do about our own needs, wants, and even our own thoughts. To be honest, I was cringing at first, but then I identified the gift of this episode… turning L’s into W’s
I agree. I felt the same.
Laterras, thank you so much for trying to help us navigate through this episode. This was the most difficult episode, to get through, due to the circles. Grateful God can still reveal things, even in confusion.
Amen
Great Topic! This episode gave me much to reflect
She’s not LIT! Her light is a little dim. This was a difficult interview for Laterras to complete. I got frustrated just listening. He should’ve started speaking in tongues. 😂
I lost interest at very beginning, 😑
God is not done, her journey is not over. She does appears to be a bit uncomfortable with communicating her experiences thoroughly to many, yet her testimony, even if in pieces, is sure to heard, understood, and received by someone. And if one, that one is rewarding enough. Thank you Sir Latteras.
Yes....hiding pain heals noone...u dont have to be deep baby....hurt ppl are watchn....try to save someone with yo testimony.....
Great job of being patient with her, listening and seeking clarity through this intetview.
You did such a good job although she was talking in circles you found a way to make this episode beneficial!! Thank you for showing so much GRACE!!
Why position to be on a podcast when you’re not going to be transparent at all? This is a struggle to listen too.
How can you say that? Have you seen the whole video? It’s just been posted
I was thinking the same thing. This interview was rough when it didn't have to be.
@@thessysasa i finished the audio on Apple Podcast
@@thessysasaIt was already posted on other platforms before UA-cam. I listened to it this morning on Amazon.
Thank you!! I struggled the entire time listening to the podcast and almost didn’t finish it. The talking in circles and acting like she didn’t understand the questions floored me
I feel like this lady still has things to uncover about herself. She is wrestling within herself.
I agree @joyshurn
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@joyshurn3548 Absolutely, this was hard to watch! she's deceitful and has become very good at covering things up, She is NOT open, humble, nor spirit filled. She appears to have just rehearsed/memorized a lot of stuff.
My heart goes out to Erica. Praying for healing
This remind me of when you ask for something because it went well for others but you don’t know what it really took to do it. Or you want to appear as something you’re not or more than what you are. Vulnerability and knowing The Word for yourself is so important that’s where you find true freedom.
From what I see she is finding it hard to be honest, deeply introspect on herself. It’s the only way to get healing.
This is sad😢....some ppl try to be so deep n religious whn yo testimony could save sombdy life....is God really here....idk....but sometimes we need a lil mo deliverance whn u think u free 🙏
This is such an important topic and this is exactly what happens when you are unequally yoked, you feel like you lost your mind or are loosing your mind. As strange as this interview was it has served its purpose. She also said some valuable things and really appreciate them both! 🙏🙏 This interview was right on time for me!
YES and Amen🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Laterras I just love the way you explain spiritual matters that may seem vague, your words break things down so well. I just love how you teach!
I am a super empath, so I felt so humble for this woman🫣
I pray for her soul, her mind and the influences around her.
She never seemed to complete a thought. You definitely kept this conversation on track. Prayers for you sis. 🙏🏾
I always enjoy the podcast, but this one was disappointing. Erica was talking in code and sounded immature when asked to elaborate. She didn't want to share the name of a book??? That moment was so strange. I'm thinking she wanted to be on the show to enlighten people on spiritual warfare, not being unequally yoked. Her ex-husband just wasn't the same type of believer. She basically said you need oil, to lay hands, cast out demons and speak in tongues to be equally yoked.
But Laterras caught all of it and summed it up. He said, 'you like to talk in circles'. I admire his patience...it reminded me how much I need to exercise that fruit of the spirit, because I would've wrapped that interview up a lot sooner than he did.
Whew I just started listening and subscribed after you did the podcast at Concord but Lawd Ham Mercy this one was tough to get through 🤦🏽♀️
Laterras is gifted at interviewing, no matter how difficult this was to watch, and for him to get through, he still handled her with care, and professionally.
I think what was great about this episode was that it showed not everyone is open to having tough conversations…As patient as Laterras was sometimes we have to be patient as well… I’m used to the guest being very vulnerable. This episode showed that vulnerability and transparency are needed if you’re going to get anywhere. The guest and the host showed how important it is to be on one accord because if you’re not things will be all over the place.
Bless her heart. Great job Laterras. This one was difficult.
I truly believe that Miss Hubbard is still processing all the things that she has gone through and we’ve all experience this somewhere within our lives so we have to be patient and keep praying with her🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you Erika for what you were able to share. This episode felt like pulling teeth. I found myself saying, "what is the answer???!!!" I wanted her to flow without restraint.
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That is a awesome prayer “ flow without resistance” you said that so beautifully 🔥🔥🔥🙏❤
Great job Laterras! Grace, patience, and understanding…. 🙏🏾
This episode was indeed different but insightful. You are a true professional and your love for people is evident. She has a story to tell she just isn't ready yet.
Btw, Laterras, I love your explanation on what it means to be “yoked” together in marriage. The word picture was right in point! I think that alone will help many people!
Thank you for your testimony! This entire podcast is helping me get thru since my divorce.
I can’t imagine how she handled conflict in her marriage she seems ungrounded.
Think there might be some MH challenge mixed with hyper charismatic stuff
By overly relying on religion
@@sylviaa5785 like, it seems even somewhat unsober
@@sylviaa5785I had the same thoughts. Something else is going on here.
Something else is definitely going on here. I hope she has genuine love and support around her.