Right!! Also, no man with any ounce of self worth would happily sit in court watching this play out - do you have no shame at all!! Good luck to the woman that let him impregnate her 🤢
Exactly, but her son is her own male that loves her so she can't risk losing it. She is that typical older single woman that uses her son as a surrogate husband.
Honestly I think the mother is where he gets his entitlement, her attitude towards her ex husband despite it being explained to her by JJ why he doesn't owe any money says it all
100%. And look at the son just sitting there like he doesn't care about mom and dad arguing, he's just waiting for them to get done so he can go back to freeloading off of her
If he blocked her before sending the text , it would have said “this text can’t be sent because the contact is blocked “ but obviously it went through, so if she is the one who blocked him obviously she won’t get the text.
@@themirrorsofmymind She also said it is common for him to have financial issues. This is just the latest chapter in a long book. I don't know what he and his dad argued about but I am guessing it had to do with ongoing bailouts and dad got worn out.
OMG that poor man, I'm glad for him that he got out when he did, and that he's able to wash his hands of those people, rather than letting them drag him down, regardless of being family or not.
You’d think being blocked by someone who is supposed to send you money would be a sign the deal was off. This took a whole week to play out, and I’m sure she tried to contact him several (dozen) times.
The real problem is parents and grandparents helping a grown ass man and his family to pay his rent. He needs to plan better. Ugh! Why is the MIL contacting the ex telling him what him and his mother need to do. THE NERVE!!!!
2:44 -that wonderful moment where we get to somehow go back in time and see what it looked like when a HUGE weight was lifted from the defendants back. The passive aggressive staring and contempt... what a relief to get out of that.
She’s glaring at JJ just like she glared at the defendant and she rolled her eyes. Her tactics don’t work on him anymore, and they definitely don’t work on JJ!
@@JMelissaMc Probably because he has his own bills to pay and to be concerned for his own situation when he get's old and needs it cover his own medical bills and living expenses. Who is going to be there to help HIM? This son who can't even get a car without a cosigner???
@@JMelissaMcthat’s not the fathers problem. Also he said he’s was done with the situation which means he was already helping out and they were taking advantage.
Women hate it when you block them while they want to argue. She can still get his messages even if he blocks her though. She just can't nah him in response.
The only way she would not have received his text if if SHE blocked HIM, not the other way around. And if she did block him, then that indicates she knew they had a fallout.
Two things can be true. She's absolutely not lying when she says he blocked her. But prior to being blocked she can't deny they had that exchange about finances
@@joanajoseph5313 She didn't claim she couldn't respond but that she never got it, After reading other comments it seems not every phone is the same when blocking.
Quick point- if you block someone you can still text or call that person (unless they have also blocked you, of course). It’s a nice little loophole. If you yourself are not blocked, you can do whatever you want.❤
She had 6 days from the 12th to the 18th to ask her ex-husband "Where's the money?" I would not have paid my son's debt until the money from the ex-husband showed up. She gave him a bad check which means that even she did not shell out any money.
I knew when I saw her eyes that she was going to be one of those people. Also, you would think if the father was going to help him with rent, the son wouldn't start a fight with the father. The ex-mother-in-law has some nerve to call him.
If she wasn't notified(that the Defendant was "out"), wasn't she curious why the Defendant all of a sudden blocked her?!? Her attitude is so harsh and controlling. It's clear the Defendant had good reason to divorce her. Her gasps and the way she stares down the Defendant is very telling of the kind of person she is.
The wife reminded me of someone, then I remembered seeing a pack of wild dingos on Animal Planet with the same expressions as the wife. Same disposition too.
Her attitude is awful. I also got embarrassed for the son... having a wife and a baby on the way and still begginng others for rent? And let the mom sue the dad, like paying his rent is their responsibility and he just bailed. Wow
I mean she’s also not wrong. If you block someone from messaging you, she wouldn’t get the message. He can literally still have her blocked and send a message to her but it won’t get to her so i think this was a misjudgment.
Everything that she alarms she did, renter’s app, even sending a text to a blocked number, she would be able to prove. Her son is hiding something from her, or she realizes right before court that all of her evidence is unfounded…
When you block someone can you still send a text, they don't get it, but it shows on your phone as sent? Legit question. Never had to block anyone before.
Depending on the phone, either the phone will not let you send a text to a blocked number, or it will go through but he cannot receive a response. Either way, a red flag or block sign will show up either at the top or on the side of the text. If she blocked him, she can't receive a response.
Poor little baby...hurt at work...Dang. I had a triple bypass and was back at work in the ER (RN).in 6 weeks. My insurance covered 80%. I paid the 20 % by working overtime. I had no help from anyone but myself!!!
And what are you doing for your parents to insure they are not financially compromised in their old age? If they are assisting you, then you will obviously not have the resources to assist them in any meaningful way.
@@antonjoseph789 I's certainly not something I would go to court for either, but grown children in their thirties should have their own finances in order, not sapping off of what their parents will need for their retirement. This son can't even get a car without a cosigner which means he has mismanaged his credit. His father has already helped him with that and paid $7000 toward the cost of the car. Now the son has a child on the way when he and his wife cannot even support themselves. The best way he could "be there" for his parents is to manage himself instead of remaining dependant, so his parents can manage for their own future, because it is unlikely he will ever be able to help them financially if they need it.
She’s mad at the wrong man… her son is the one to be mad at 🙄
Right!! Also, no man with any ounce of self worth would happily sit in court watching this play out - do you have no shame at all!! Good luck to the woman that let him impregnate her 🤢
💯
Exactly like he grown ma'am
Exactly, but her son is her own male that loves her so she can't risk losing it. She is that typical older single woman that uses her son as a surrogate husband.
Honestly I think the mother is where he gets his entitlement, her attitude towards her ex husband despite it being explained to her by JJ why he doesn't owe any money says it all
I love how he pointed pay attention
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
he's flashing back to why he left her ass in the first place... 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Classic move 😂
I nearly died 😂😂😂😂😂😂lol 😂😂
She stared him down. That was a tactic she used when they were married. Good for you, sir, for releasing those shackles!
I love that he didn’t give her the satisfaction of looking back at her. He has gotten away from this crazy woman’s control.
@@jworth7203priceless…. Lol😂😂😂😂😂
Yeap.
😂😂
Right!! I am so happy for him. I could only imagine how horrible she was to him and now he is free from that misery.
I can plainly see why they are divorced.
I was thinking the same thing
The ex & her mom are hot messes.
I was just about to say the same thing! She's insufferable
Yep
Divorcing her was probably one of the happiest days of the defendant's life.
😂😂
lol. He was probably doing cartwheels.
The Mom's side of the family seems to be enablers.
And Dad is like i'm not dealing with this anymore.
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Yup!! 💯
sometimes he runs marathons.
100%. And look at the son just sitting there like he doesn't care about mom and dad arguing, he's just waiting for them to get done so he can go back to freeloading off of her
@@tate6809 Seen that too many times.
My Man, would get the, You Gonna Learn Today attitude from me. PERMANENTLY.
🤣😂
Exactly. Thats why the 34 year old son can't get a loan. Enabler.
She has crazy eyes
Lead poisoning.
😂😂
And crazy facial expressions and mouth movements
I wrote the same comment. 😂
Always tilting to the side.
Grown man sitting there with mommy and grandma. Grow up!
If he blocked you, we call that a clue. A hint. One that everyone should have gotten.
😂😂😂😂🎯
but what can it MEAN?!
@@TheRaziel08 she’s a NUT.
Her staring dead eyes at her husband: 👀
Her husband: 👩⚖️👈🏻👈🏻
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
mom and grandma gonna be supporting this man and his kids forever
Good on dad for no longer enabling his son (who has a baby of his own on the way).
The way she was looking at him 👀😳
😂😂😂😂 & then he was like listen to her
She looked like yzma!!!
2:49 Abusive much. She's actually trying to bully him in front of JJ and millions of watchers. Imagine what she's like in private, yikes
If he blocked her before sending the text , it would have said “this text can’t be sent because the contact is blocked “ but obviously it went through, so if she is the one who blocked him obviously she won’t get the text.
EXACTLY 💯
Nope not iPhone to iPhone. You only get a green bubble if someone blocked you
Some phones don't show anything
Text just looks like it went through
@@irideaunicorn1620 honestly idk about that but she lost the case anyway 😂😂
Ryan needs to learn to support himself and not bailing him out is a step towards that. Parents do not owe their adult children help.
His mother did say he got hurt at work and was on disability for some time...
@@themirrorsofmymind She also said it is common for him to have financial issues. This is just the latest chapter in a long book. I don't know what he and his dad argued about but I am guessing it had to do with ongoing bailouts and dad got worn out.
@@themirrorsofmymindam I'm sure he got disability checks. He should have paid them back.
The only help they owe their kids is a kick in the butt to get them to grow up and help themselves
Or at least not have an argument with his dad who is going to pay toward his bills to help him out. That screams of an entitled mindset.
"listen to her" dwl ..... what was she looking at him for???lmaoooo
Intimidation. 😂
Shame him , she’s probably been dragging this poor sap in and out of court since the day they we’re divorced and their son was a child !
He's lucky to be free of her 😂😂😂
All of them
OMG that poor man, I'm glad for him that he got out when he did, and that he's able to wash his hands of those people, rather than letting them drag him down, regardless of being family or not.
He said listen to her!!😂😂😂
Lmbo
3:54 who else agrees with me that she wanted to smack him with the paper!?!🙋🏻♂️.. he’s so lucky he got away from that…
You’d think being blocked by someone who is supposed to send you money would be a sign the deal was off. This took a whole week to play out, and I’m sure she tried to contact him several (dozen) times.
Exactly 💯 she's not stupid and I'm more than certain they were BOTH arguing about it.
Dad is smart, Ryan is obviously not that disabled his back is definitely working 😂
She acts & looks like she abuses pain meds
I take zero meds so I'm curious what are the signs that you noticed ? Thanks.
This!!!!! Definitely on something
U mean meth? Lmao
The real problem is parents and grandparents helping a grown ass man and his family to pay his rent. He needs to plan better. Ugh! Why is the MIL contacting the ex telling him what him and his mother need to do. THE NERVE!!!!
2:44 -that wonderful moment where we get to somehow go back in time and see what it looked like when a HUGE weight was lifted from the defendants back. The passive aggressive staring and contempt... what a relief to get out of that.
She’s glaring at JJ just like she glared at the defendant and she rolled her eyes. Her tactics don’t work on him anymore, and they definitely don’t work on JJ!
Entitlement is so ugly. They want to force Dad to pay for his adult son's rent.
Is there a reason why he can't?
@@JMelissaMc He needs to get a darn job and pay his own rent.........
@@JMelissaMc Probably because he has his own bills to pay and to be concerned for his own situation when he get's old and needs it cover his own medical bills and living expenses. Who is going to be there to help HIM? This son who can't even get a car without a cosigner???
@@nisinisi4627 Wow! You clowns obviously did not watch the show! The son is on disability and his wife is preggers. They are in a bad situation.
@@JMelissaMcthat’s not the fathers problem. Also he said he’s was done with the situation which means he was already helping out and they were taking advantage.
The defendant pointing to JJ for the plaintiff to pay attention 😅😅
Why she acting oblivious and giving crazy eyes
This plaintiff is absolutely insane
1:47 Byrd I’m not touching 😂her and these phones. 😂
But why did she refuse to touch the plaintiffs phone?
@@nora4981 she don’t know to use them / she be tryin to scroll up and then press something else 😂
He can still send the message even if he blocks you lol, he just won't receive your nonsense 😂
Plaintiff: "I know what will convince Judge Judy! I will expand my mouth to maximum width with every word. Just like Peter Gabriel advised."
Big Time?
😏
@@themirrorsofmymind 🎵I'm going to watch it growing🎵
🎶 I wanna be... You're Sledge Hammer🎵.
@@themirrorsofmymind "So much larger than life..."
If her mouth got any wider she would be a canyon 😂😂
2:59 LMFAO! dont look at him for help YOU ARE SUING HIM!
The son is such a dead beat. Why should his elderly parents and grandmother pay his rent??
His parents are not elderly
the son is a grown man, get another job, get a second job, get a third job
Wow, that dirty look towards her former husband contains many subtext LOL. She has great potential to become a wonderful actress!
If he blocks her... she still gets the text .... She's full of crap ! No wonder they are divorced...
Mother has been enabling her dead beat son and he's finally had enough. The ex wife is definitely a piece of work lmao
To the son, aren’t you embarrassed?
The son should be taken into account, he managed to get his wife pregnant, seems like he needs to work! I don’t blame dad for saying, No!
One month's rent? Then what happens?
Welfare
If he blocked you the iPhone messages would be green… they are all blue 😂 “are you going to tell her you blocked me” lady please 😂😂😂
I see why they got divorce. She’s a handful😅😅😅
Women hate it when you block them while they want to argue.
She can still get his messages even if he blocks her though. She just can't nah him in response.
The only way she would not have received his text if if SHE blocked HIM, not the other way around. And if she did block him, then that indicates she knew they had a fallout.
sounds like fb drama
What kind of fool has an argumentive conversation with their dad who they are expecting to pay their bills?
The son is old enough and is sure as hell big enough to pay his own rent!
He blocked her
yes ...
Two things can be true. She's absolutely not lying when she says he blocked her. But prior to being blocked she can't deny they had that exchange about finances
@@RayMon504 Except the txt msg wouldn't have gone thru.
@@MarinaLarocheif I block someone I can still text them but they can’t text me. So he could still text her but she wouldn’t have been able to respond
@@joanajoseph5313 She didn't claim she couldn't respond but that she never got it, After reading other comments it seems not every phone is the same when blocking.
The sister at @1:43 is already over this lady LOL.
Quick point- if you block someone you can still text or call that person (unless they have also blocked you, of course). It’s a nice little loophole. If you yourself are not blocked, you can do whatever you want.❤
She had 6 days from the 12th to the 18th to ask her ex-husband "Where's the money?" I would not have paid my son's debt until the money from the ex-husband showed up. She gave him a bad check which means that even she did not shell out any money.
why is she suing him instead of making her old ass son pay her back? lol
big ass abby sitting next to his mom and grandma lol
The facial expression at 2:07
Plaintiff: Fuck she actually reads the details, there goes my case.
🤣
I knew when I saw her eyes that she was going to be one of those people. Also, you would think if the father was going to help him with rent, the son wouldn't start a fight with the father. The ex-mother-in-law has some nerve to call him.
Why isn't the baby mama paying the rent?
Good job DAD!!!! KEEP A GRAVE DISTANCE.....divorce was the best option i see.
If she wasn't notified(that the Defendant was "out"), wasn't she curious why the Defendant all of a sudden blocked her?!? Her attitude is so harsh and controlling. It's clear the Defendant had good reason to divorce her. Her gasps and the way she stares down the Defendant is very telling of the kind of person she is.
Well, she's showing us every reason for the justification of their divorce. He's clearly better off without those clowns.
He'll still be hoping his children takes care of him in old age.
They do not like each other. I know that feeling. lol
0:45 all three on the plaintiff's side has that OH S*HT look
The wife reminded me of someone, then I remembered seeing a pack of wild dingos on Animal Planet with the same expressions as the wife. Same disposition too.
She's suing him and wants him to tell on himself 😂😂 I'd laugh too
Their son is pathetic…..
I’d block them all too haha
The plaintiff has them “I’m getting tired of them broken promithes promithes” teeth. 😂😂😂
If he blocked, he likely doesn't want to give you money either
Her attitude is awful. I also got embarrassed for the son... having a wife and a baby on the way and still begginng others for rent? And let the mom sue the dad, like paying his rent is their responsibility and he just bailed. Wow
Im going to go ahead and say that mom's family is entirely enabling and dad's family is making his adult son be an adult.
OMG!! He felt her eyes piercing his soul! LMAO
the son is a bum. i would be ashamed to be there
"I'm not touching it. Byrd, I'm not touching it". 😂
So much attitude from a grown woman. It's so unattractive. Kudos to the guy for getting himself out of this marriage.
I mean she’s also not wrong. If you block someone from messaging you, she wouldn’t get the message. He can literally still have her blocked and send a message to her but it won’t get to her so i think this was a misjudgment.
Ryan is balding…. He’s old enough to have his sht together
Bringing the dad into court to pay his sons rent? The son should be paying her back for that. Such a crappy son to create this b.s.
Even if the father didn't want to pay, shouldnt the son be suing him?
This adult child ! What a big baby.
I wish I had parents that could help me pay my full rent when I'm in a bind like that.
Everything that she alarms she did, renter’s app, even sending a text to a blocked number, she would be able to prove. Her son is hiding something from her, or she realizes right before court that all of her evidence is unfounded…
When you block someone can you still send a text, they don't get it, but it shows on your phone as sent? Legit question. Never had to block anyone before.
so I tested it and blocked my husband and he still got the text but I couldnt receive his response. so im wondering if they blocked him...
Depending on the phone, either the phone will not let you send a text to a blocked number, or it will go through but he cannot receive a response. Either way, a red flag or block sign will show up either at the top or on the side of the text.
If she blocked him, she can't receive a response.
@@ginacook1208 thank you! I was so curious!
@@xoxjanjounxox That's in line with other commenters here.
Poor little baby...hurt at work...Dang. I had a triple bypass and was back at work in the ER (RN).in 6 weeks. My insurance covered 80%. I paid the 20 % by working overtime. I had no help from anyone but myself!!!
Now Aunt JJ.. im gon need you to adapt to these new phones now. Lol
I actually believe he did block her
Yes, you can text and call people you've blocked from your phone. Unless those contacts have also blocked your number in retaliation! Sep 28, 2023
i understand now why he got divorce her, who whould not ?
The plaintiff's facial movement seems strange to me
Like a grouper...
Mom has crazy eyes.
Even when someone blocked your number. You can still receive the blockers text messages. It’s only the blocker that will not receive their message
He is living his best life away from her - he's so happy to be free! 😂
you know that man (defendant) is thrilled being out of that marriage
Judge Judy was in the judge's box and the defendant's stand 😂
The defendant redeemed himself by divorcing the plaintiff 20 years ago! Good job, sir! 😂
Ma'am if HE blocked YOU, that wouldn't prevent YOU from receiving a text from HIM
Judge Mathis would have dismissed her case for rolling her eyes.
My birthday!!! Of course it bounced!!!
My parents must really love me. No way they will not assist and worst yet go to court about it on international TV.
And what are you doing for your parents to insure they are not financially compromised in their old age? If they are assisting you, then you will obviously not have the resources to assist them in any meaningful way.
@@brt5273 It goes both ways. If they need help I will and if I do they will also. Family is there to help each other not go on national tv and sue.
@@antonjoseph789 I's certainly not something I would go to court for either, but grown children in their thirties should have their own finances in order, not sapping off of what their parents will need for their retirement. This son can't even get a car without a cosigner which means he has mismanaged his credit. His father has already helped him with that and paid $7000 toward the cost of the car. Now the son has a child on the way when he and his wife cannot even support themselves. The best way he could "be there" for his parents is to manage himself instead of remaining dependant, so his parents can manage for their own future, because it is unlikely he will ever be able to help them financially if they need it.
Broke family. Son is a grown man, but if you as a parent can't afford to make that payment, don't write empty checks.
How is she still that pissed off after 20 years?