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I agree with you 100%. I love a masculine man but one who can show his feelings and is kind. I am with one of those men. He makes me feel so protective, and I feel safe with him
I was sitting next to my guy at church the other Sunday and noticing his hands and arms. I've seen them many times before of course, but for some odd reason I was just taking special notice of them at this moment and just seeing the muscles, and ruggedness and hair and strength brought to my mind how masculine he actually is and I suddenly felt so safe and protected. I can't explain it the way I felt it but I felt so much love for him at that moment.
Why masculine men love feminine women. They want a woman who is super dynamic. Smart. Fun. Independent. Sexy. Capable. 1. Her feminine draws out your masculine. 2. He feels needed and has a purpose. 3. She brings him into his peace. 4. Life becomes richer. More dynamic. 5. Feminine women help provide intuitive guidance. What I like about my masculine man is his confidence and self assuredness without being arrogant. His strength to make me safe when I'm vulnerable.
I love watching my boyfriend tackle a challenge, or solve a problem. He does it with such vigor and it seems to bring the best out in him. He especially likes to use this energy in combination with his hero instinct and he is happy to impress me with his efforts. I find this so endearing in a romantic way because it makes me feel cared for and protected, plus it fosters respect from me towards him and his abilities. He gets to experience purpose and a sense of accomplishment which makes him feel good about being a masculine man.
I admire the confidence, assertiveness and directness that often comes with masculine energy. I often feel cared for and thought of with masculine energy. I appreciate the strength that can come with masculine energy and the ability to just get things done - as long as it's necessary the task, easy, hard, gross, it gets done. Thank you for this video, it blew my mind and put a lot of things in my life into perspective I'd been missing. 💜
We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes―understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”
Such good, deep, well-rounded advice, Matt. Your wife is lucky to have you! I love feeling safe and protected in my guys arms. I have suffered a ton of emotional abuse for many years in the past but the man who is in my life right now makes me feel like I truly count as a woman. He is very masculine and then in turn, brings out my femininity!! Keep up giving out such wonderful advice. You truly are a blessing to all of us. ❤️
I am sort of new to figuring out the dynamics between men and women. For a long time, I attracted the toxic masculinity types, where I felt very very overwhelmed and vulnerable by their assertiveness. And so I just shied away from that entirely. But I am learning that masculine men who are confident and grounded in their masculinity make me feel safe and protected. And that in turn gives me the confidence to be more fully me, more fully feminine. Your videos have really helped me a LOT, Mat. I can't even begin to explain how much.
I love masculine energy when it makes me feel protected not just physically but mentally and spiritually. When a man says “hey, we got this and I’ll make certain I’ll help us see it through.”
My man and I took a tango dancing class when we first started dating, and it was so enjoyable to dance with him leading. That's something I appreciate about masculine energy: the willingness to lead and make decisions. Overtime, I've learned I can trust him to make thoughtful decisions because he has shown that he has my best interest at heart. - Addy
Agree with you. We just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary and we continue to grow because our energies balance each other. When problems arise we talk about them from our different points of view and find a solution we are both happy with. The reason our marriage works is that we are willing to listen to each other and make joint decisions affecting our lives. We love our home life and both love our jobs, we are never trying to get one up on each other. It's all about being a team to make the dream work. I was brought up by a great single father because my mum died when I was 2. My dad took his role very seriously and there were no women coming in and out of our lives. My husband is very masculine and because of my upbringing, I can be at times too but because we both want the same things we make it work and we are very happy.
Thank you, Mat! What I love about masculine energy is how it is able to move the mountains, how it brings that feeling of drive and how fierce it might be.
When there is that balance in a relationship...in my case, marriage, it's an amazing relationship, seemingly effortless in that regard. If that balance is not there (I have lived that in past relationships, too.), the imbalance has caused me to feel unsupported, unsafe, not protected and an overall uneasy feeling. Thank God for my incredible husband and my marriage that has that good balance, as you have described in those five points. It's enjoyable bringing feminine aspects and seeing how that complements my husband's masculine aspects. ❤ Thanks, Mat!
I love feeling like a man is looking out for me, kind gestures that makes me feel a little taken care of, protected and safe. Their strength and ability to get things done. There’s nothing like that feeling of a man brining out my femininity.. and expressing it thru affection playfulness & enjoying the moments together. Also, what each energy brings to the table to make life (as you say) that much richer and beautiful.
Thank you for all of your video content! I am a newer subscriber, and am very glad I discovered your UA-cam videos. Excellent points made and so clearly presented in every video! ❤Thanks, Mat. Have a great weekend with your lovely wife. 😁❤️
To me, the masculine qualities I value are assertiveness, decisiveness and the ability to be masterful. Passive aggressive behaviour in a man feels unsafe as he has not yet learned how to assert himself. I cannot surrender and feel safe in the presence of a man who is too acquiescent and passive and then fires off and goes off the deep end at other times. To me, they both indicate weakness which completely destroys attraction.
For so long i got stuck in my masculine energy because the guy i was with would not take charge so i had to do it myself to lead the relationship forward...which in the end didn't work anyway... Now i'm trying to lay back in my feminine energy and let the guy i'm currently seeing take more charge..i just hope i don't come across as uncertain or indecisive in the process because this energy is newer to me 😅
My daughter brought this up to me coz she came across an article. I realize tat I move in my masculine energy more than I would like to coz I've always felt I've had to take care of myself. I have experienced feeling cared for and not having to worry wen I have bn around certain men n realized that my feminine energy was out to play...n I loved tat. I would like to be n tat energy more but these talks make me feel like something is wrong with me n I'm not feminine enough and needing to play tricks to get wat I desire.
Praying trick is not being masculine, it's just our aspect as humans (act of survival) being feminine is natural for woman "wanting to be cared for, giving good morals and ethics for her offspring, feminine woman are close to nature and spirituality. They're blessings to their spouse and make a great wife.
I use to say something and I’m going to repeat it again A happy marriage will make your life beautiful forever Love is beautiful I hope we all find the right person
I LOVE when guys take the lead. Even if its as simple as them knowing all the facts about my dog so when someone asks about it, they can list it all out, and I just sit there and smile :). I like when guys are able to guide me in games they play. They use their head and guide me where I need to go, and I enjoy the game in my body, not really thinking about whats in my head. I love that masculine energy also brings out my feminine. I feel able to be in my body. It's really such an amazing relationship :)
I agree with what Mat says in this video, but as a lifelong tomboy and one who has never been very trusting of others (as far as relationships), it is hard for me to drop my guard and let my feminine side show.
That "I'm a leader and doer" without heavyhandedness masculinity. Trust story. I was parked next to a semi-truck and I popped my hood to check my fluids before getting on the road. The truck driver came to my aid, but I said, "nah, I'm good. Thanks for offering." Got back in the car and was like to myself, you're supposed to accept help unless you feel uncomfortable! Anyway,I raised my kids alone (my choice), so I was always used to being the thinker and leader. That was then. Now, I would prefer not to do the heavy lifting. It's taking some practice, but I'm past the middle mark of relinquishing control even though I know I can do the littlest things for myself. Thanks for your content, Mat! 😊
I was speaking to a male acquaintance about this recently about how we women generally prefer men who are anchored in their masculine energy. His reaction was very sarcastic and bitter and he said “That’s toxic.” After that, he completely shut down. Unfortunately, so many males have been conditioned by society to be so fearful of their masculinity. Thankfully, there are some males out there reclaiming their healthy masculine energy and I’m trying to become more of my feminine self!
The media is against the traditional way of life that's why they always demonize both genders and make use fight against each other. Great to see they're people like you who still believe in traditional way of life
I’ve been single so long and handling everything in my life that I’m not sure how to practically do this. I need more real life examples of actions to take to exude feminine energy.
I totally understand, I am single, before my mother passed, I was part of a team that made family decisions, but she passed and have been my father’s caregiver for the last 20 years. Over the years with health decline, he changed from being my dad, my protector, the decision maker, to being a patient that could no longer make the decisions. I have been forced to take on the “masculine role”, to be the doer, the fixer, making all the decisions, doing all the jobs around the house traditionally done by a man. I like being able to do things for myself but after 20 years I just want to relinquish the control to someone else, to have someone care for me, to make the decisions. I fear that at my age I have been trained to be masculine and I don’t even know how to be feminine.
I told my fiancé who is coming to town again because he works out of town. So I’ve had a desk that’s been sitting for two years that needs to be put together. And I asked if he help me put it together. So when he ended up having to leave the states for a few weeks on the job. I asked if you want me just to go ahead and put the desk together. Or try to. He said no baby let’s leave it and do it together. It sounds like a fun project. So I’ve decided to be independent and I left the desk alone, so pulling up the linoleum in the dining room, stepped on a nail and ended up aren’t entering my foot. I sent him a picture of the linoleum instead of only got part of it up, but I stopped when I stepped on a nail. He said baby leave it I will do the dining room I like doing things for you. Because you can fill up my honeydew list anytime you want. I was like oh baby that’s so sweet of you. I’ve always needed somebody here and never had anyone, so you’re great that you want to help me and all my little honeydew list. And boosted him and made him feel very happy. I give gratitude to him all the time also for every little thing he does whether it’s he help me out on an idea or he told me some advice and I did it and it worked. I always complement him and how much he helps me. I think my biggest compliment that I give him that is very 100% honest. She brings out the best in me and not only does he do that but he makes me want to be better person for him. He loves that complement. He says that that makes him feel good that I want to better myself for him. And that I want to do it for myself too.
It makes me happy when masculine energy provides technical and practical help. Like repairing my bike or fix things in the house. Or being in charge of a train , ship or airplane 🔨⚓🔮
i think my intuition is broken. I thought i was being careful to avoid the bad but i guess the male energy that raised me gave me the wrong impression\example & is what tends to come my way & i'm drawn to. I'm so low right ATM.
I feel most comfortable and more relaxed being in my feminine energy. I prefer to wear dresses, because I feel more feminine in a dress. It just feels comfortable and more natural to me. I feel feminine in pants as well, my femininity doesn't just disappear, I just feel more at home in my femininity. As a rule, I'm usually more on my feminine side. Almost all men are masculine at base line, that's just a given, but for me, the attractiveness of a man's masculinity as becoming and being an attraction and noticing the alluring aspect of it usually takes place after some other things have taken place first. When a woman's respect for a man gradually turns to admiration, then it is that the possibility is there for attraction to ignite, unless the man is absolutely drop dead gorgeous to begin with, but an average looking guy can become extremely attractive once the respect and admiration in her heart and mind has come into being. The man I thought was just an average looking guy, and would never in a million years think I would have a romantic interest in, gradually becomes more physically attractive and the thought will, at some point, pass through my mind if I could see him as a possible romantic interest, which can really take a woman by surprise!! Having said that, not just any man who a woman may come to respect and admire will have this effect. There are few things more attractive to a woman than a man's masculine mannerisms, a man who is comfortable and confident in his masculinity. An "alpha male." when there is an attraction for him. There is something about this kind of masculinity that causes a woman feel her own femininity. This is just the attraction, love however, that can result from this first step of attraction is another matter altogether! It takes time to know the person you are attracted to, and visa versa. for love to develop. But to answer your question, a man's masculinity becomes noticed and attractive to a woman (usually) when she has an interest in a SPECIFIC man, otherwise she can be in a room full of men and their masculinity, but it has no effect on her. There is no reaction or attraction. Have a good day. 😄
I have yet to come across a man who makes me feel safe & protected. I'm an empath, so we all know what that attracts. I'm exhausted and I don't put myself out there anymore. Dating has drastically changed thanks to the internet. I'm just not into the headgames. I'm too old for that crap so I'd rather stay single & happy & content. ❤
My dating experience at 66 has been quite different. I met many men in person. I met my guy while I was out doing something I truly enjoy. He enjoys it too (which is why he was there) and most of our dates have been doing this activity (dancing). The internet had nothing to do with it except helping me to find events. I hope you meet someone while you are doing something fun for you.
But what is feminine? 🙈 looks and behaviour ? What about independence and having goals? How to still be feminine? How to give a man the feeling that I need him?
You needing a man in your life is feminine in itself. Being around you, having a partner in your life who you can call a friend and a lover. What he doesnt want is someone who leans on people. Co dependent. Hope this helps 💗
I feel like Mat has given us pretty good answers to that in this video and others. Feminine energy is about being receptive. It comes down to the biology of men being the givers and women being the receivers. You can still be independent and chase your own goals, while allowing a man to open a car door for you or plan a date or give you gifts, to take care of you in little ways that have nothing to do with your big life goals. Feminism taught us that allowing men to be chivalrous was bad and I think that when we are in non-romantic situations with men (eg the classroom or the boardroom) then it's okay to let your masculine energy really shine and expect that the men there treat you as they would treat other men; and that everyone in the room are just PEOPLE. But when it comes to romance and relationships, we need to use our energy differently in order for masculine and feminine to work together and complement each other.
I agree, I feel like Mat gives a lot of good answers to this in the video. For me feminine energy is soft, receptive, present, curious, open, caring. It doesn't mean I don't say "no," it's how I say it and when I say it. Feminine energy is powerful and subtle. So what brings out your feminine energy? What brings out your softness, your curiosity, your creativity and creative expression? For some women it's beautiful makeup or cute accessories. For me it's more about wearing beautiful clothes and moving in a soft, flowy way, especially when there's music on. So the actions or stuff aren't what make us feminine in my experience. For me I had to hear what "feminine energy" was, then look and find where and how I could bring that out more in the world for myself authentically. I learned wearing beautiful clothes supported my feminine in being more present. That's part of my formula. And then I'm just naturally being me who happens to be more feminine, but the impact I have on others, just being myself, is huge. Much bigger than I could have imagined. And it's surprisingly not limited to romantic interactions. For example not only do I give men the space to be more in the moment and feel needed, but I've noticed I give women around me permission to be more in their feminine too. It's really surprising and incredible. I hope that's helpful. 💜
@jackiandre4894 , great comment. I would only add that even in business space you can still be feminine combining it with your strengths and expertise. This actually helps to be successful as men don't usually complete with feminine women but support them.
@@jackiandre4894 I don't know if words can suffice to tell you just how helpful your comment is. I definitely lean into my masculine energy generally, but dating a good guy helped steer me toward embracing reception. Unfortunately he broke up with me, and one of the things he said was that he thought we were too similar to balance each other out. Whoops.
am a very beautiful woman still single at the age of 34 I'm looking for a true loving relationship that will last forever I wish I can find one it's so boring to be single
One can be feminine, and still be a strong independent woman. I have spoken to numerous men that think I am feminine but appreciate the fact that I pay my way on dates, or at least offer. Why do women still expect men to pay when we all work for a living and are on budgets.
I think the best would be when I eventually feel the feeling of being looked after by a man. Him making sure I'm ok - being his priority...What a beautiful delicious image...
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A man who will look out for my safety, who is willing to communicate. A man who is honest
I am from St George Utah USA , I also need a serious lady who is ready for a serious relationship
Hello Tracy you right I think that is our duty as a man but is unfortunate that I don't have one to look for her safety
It makes me feel safe and protected.I like it when he's in charge!
Me too. Where are these men? 😂
I agree with you 100%. I love a masculine man but one who can show his feelings and is kind. I am with one of those men. He makes me feel so protective, and I feel safe with him
When you look into my eyes, you will find me there. But when you look into my heart, you will find yourself. Are you single with now kids?
I was sitting next to my guy at church the other Sunday and noticing his hands and arms. I've seen them many times before of course, but for some odd reason I was just taking special notice of them at this moment and just seeing the muscles, and ruggedness and hair and strength brought to my mind how masculine he actually is and I suddenly felt so safe and protected. I can't explain it the way I felt it but I felt so much love for him at that moment.
Hello dear 👋
I like the fact that
=Men more direct when they talking .
= Easy going .
= Very SIMPLE and not that complicated creatures .
Why masculine men love feminine women. They want a woman who is super dynamic. Smart. Fun. Independent. Sexy. Capable.
1. Her feminine draws out your masculine.
2. He feels needed and has a purpose.
3. She brings him into his peace.
4. Life becomes richer. More dynamic.
5. Feminine women help provide intuitive guidance.
What I like about my masculine man is his confidence and self assuredness without being arrogant. His strength to make me safe when I'm vulnerable.
I feel safe and protected.
I love watching my boyfriend tackle a challenge, or solve a problem. He does it with such vigor and it seems to bring the best out in him. He especially likes to use this energy in combination with his hero instinct and he is happy to impress me with his efforts. I find this so endearing in a romantic way because it makes me feel cared for and protected, plus it fosters respect from me towards him and his abilities. He gets to experience purpose and a sense of accomplishment which makes him feel good about being a masculine man.
I admire the confidence, assertiveness and directness that often comes with masculine energy. I often feel cared for and thought of with masculine energy. I appreciate the strength that can come with masculine energy and the ability to just get things done - as long as it's necessary the task, easy, hard, gross, it gets done. Thank you for this video, it blew my mind and put a lot of things in my life into perspective I'd been missing. 💜
We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes―understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”
That's the traditional way of life.
Masculine energy makes me feel safe and protected.
Yeah your correct
That's right
You are right that is very important in any relationship ❤
Such good, deep, well-rounded advice, Matt. Your wife is lucky to have you! I love feeling safe and protected in my guys arms. I have suffered a ton of emotional abuse for many years in the past but the man who is in my life right now makes me feel like I truly count as a woman. He is very masculine and then in turn, brings out my femininity!!
Keep up giving out such wonderful advice. You truly are a blessing to all of us. ❤️
Hello Joan how are you well is a duty of a man to look after his woman
I love a man who is confident in himself, takes charge and protects me.
I am what people say is a nurturer.
I am sort of new to figuring out the dynamics between men and women. For a long time, I attracted the toxic masculinity types, where I felt very very overwhelmed and vulnerable by their assertiveness. And so I just shied away from that entirely. But I am learning that masculine men who are confident and grounded in their masculinity make me feel safe and protected. And that in turn gives me the confidence to be more fully me, more fully feminine. Your videos have really helped me a LOT, Mat. I can't even begin to explain how much.
I love them to be kind, open minded, respectful, masculine energy
Yeah I also do love them alot
Yes, you are 100% correct
Really?
Im in my feminine, i love a man who makes women feel safe, that is related to his confidence 🌟
Need a feminine partner, cause feminine woman are close to nature and spirituality. They're blessings to their spouse and make a great wife.
The man who is bold enough to use his gentleness to speak out my weakness and be vulnerable to share his weakness/ pain in life with me
I love masculine energy when it makes me feel protected not just physically but mentally and spiritually. When a man says “hey, we got this and I’ll make certain I’ll help us see it through.”
My man and I took a tango dancing class when we first started dating, and it was so enjoyable to dance with him leading. That's something I appreciate about masculine energy: the willingness to lead and make decisions. Overtime, I've learned I can trust him to make thoughtful decisions because he has shown that he has my best interest at heart. - Addy
Agree with you. We just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary and we continue to grow because our energies balance each other. When problems arise we talk about them from our different points of view and find a solution we are both happy with. The reason our marriage works is that we are willing to listen to each other and make joint decisions affecting our lives. We love our home life and both love our jobs, we are never trying to get one up on each other. It's all about being a team to make the dream work. I was brought up by a great single father because my mum died when I was 2. My dad took his role very seriously and there were no women coming in and out of our lives. My husband is very masculine and because of my upbringing, I can be at times too but because we both want the same things we make it work and we are very happy.
The story about your sister was interesting. Since you mastered her techniques, will you please teach us how to get dates?😅
Thank you, Mat!
What I love about masculine energy is how it is able to move the mountains, how it brings that feeling of drive and how fierce it might be.
Great talk
When there is that balance in a relationship...in my case, marriage, it's an amazing relationship, seemingly effortless in that regard. If that balance is not there (I have lived that in past relationships, too.), the imbalance has caused me to feel unsupported, unsafe, not protected and an overall uneasy feeling. Thank God for my incredible husband and my marriage that has that good balance, as you have described in those five points. It's enjoyable bringing feminine aspects and seeing how that complements my husband's masculine aspects. ❤ Thanks, Mat!
Hello dear 👋
Wow nice world from a precious queen 👑
I love feeling like a man is looking out for me, kind gestures that makes me feel a little taken care of, protected and safe. Their strength and ability to get things done. There’s nothing like that feeling of a man brining out my femininity.. and expressing it thru affection playfulness & enjoying the moments together. Also, what each energy brings to the table to make life (as you say) that much richer and beautiful.
Look at those big hands..hard not to look at them. He talks with his hands. And there so big! Good thing to have as a man. This is a compliment 🎉
I love big hands too 😊
Biologically, it's the nose that's the real tell. You're welcome.
So useful video .. thank you
Yeah really useful
Thank you for all of your video content! I am a newer subscriber, and am very glad I discovered your UA-cam videos. Excellent points made and so clearly presented in every video! ❤Thanks, Mat. Have a great weekend with your lovely wife. 😁❤️
I promise your really going to enjoy he content
I am from st George Utah, I need a woman who is ready for a serious relationship with me
You really looking good
He spoke well
You welcome awesome woman stay tune to hear more.❤
To me, the masculine qualities I value are assertiveness, decisiveness and the ability to be masterful.
Passive aggressive behaviour in a man feels unsafe as he has not yet learned how to assert himself. I cannot surrender and feel safe in the presence of a man who is too acquiescent and passive and then fires off and goes off the deep end at other times. To me, they both indicate weakness which completely destroys attraction.
For so long i got stuck in my masculine energy because the guy i was with would not take charge so i had to do it myself to lead the relationship forward...which in the end didn't work anyway...
Now i'm trying to lay back in my feminine energy and let the guy i'm currently seeing take more charge..i just hope i don't come across as uncertain or indecisive in the process because this energy is newer to me 😅
Love is beautiful on it own
I pray we all find the right person
I feel protected and provided for, far beyond financially, too.
My daughter brought this up to me coz she came across an article. I realize tat I move in my masculine energy more than I would like to coz I've always felt I've had to take care of myself. I have experienced feeling cared for and not having to worry wen I have bn around certain men n realized that my feminine energy was out to play...n I loved tat. I would like to be n tat energy more but these talks make me feel like something is wrong with me n I'm not feminine enough and needing to play tricks to get wat I desire.
Praying trick is not being masculine, it's just our aspect as humans (act of survival) being feminine is natural for woman "wanting to be cared for, giving good morals and ethics for her offspring, feminine woman are close to nature and spirituality. They're blessings to their spouse and make a great wife.
I use to say something and I’m going to repeat it again
A happy marriage will make your life beautiful forever
Love is beautiful
I hope we all find the right person
I LOVE when guys take the lead. Even if its as simple as them knowing all the facts about my dog so when someone asks about it, they can list it all out, and I just sit there and smile :). I like when guys are able to guide me in games they play. They use their head and guide me where I need to go, and I enjoy the game in my body, not really thinking about whats in my head. I love that masculine energy also brings out my feminine. I feel able to be in my body. It's really such an amazing relationship :)
Hello pretty
I agree with what Mat says in this video, but as a lifelong tomboy and one who has never been very trusting of others (as far as relationships), it is hard for me to drop my guard and let my feminine side show.
I know your pain. I wonder if my tomboy tendencies cost me a boyfriend.
You are right you make a good point here! ❤
I enjoy so much your videos Mat! I learn so much and my relationship with my husband gets better and better❤
Spot on
That "I'm a leader and doer" without heavyhandedness masculinity.
Trust story. I was parked next to a semi-truck and I popped my hood to check my fluids before getting on the road. The truck driver came to my aid, but I said, "nah, I'm good. Thanks for offering." Got back in the car and was like to myself, you're supposed to accept help unless you feel uncomfortable!
Anyway,I raised my kids alone (my choice), so I was always used to being the thinker and leader. That was then. Now, I would prefer not to do the heavy lifting.
It's taking some practice, but I'm past the middle mark of relinquishing control even though I know I can do the littlest things for myself. Thanks for your content, Mat! 😊
Masculine: provide, preside, protect
Thank you for this advice ❤
Very important. It's good for the masculine energy to take charge almost all the time.
I was speaking to a male acquaintance about this recently about how we women generally prefer men who are anchored in their masculine energy. His reaction was very sarcastic and bitter and he said “That’s toxic.” After that, he completely shut down.
Unfortunately, so many males have been conditioned by society to be so fearful of their masculinity. Thankfully, there are some males out there reclaiming their healthy masculine energy and I’m trying to become more of my feminine self!
The media is against the traditional way of life that's why they always demonize both genders and make use fight against each other. Great to see they're people like you who still believe in traditional way of life
What I love is the joy you bring to life :)
I’ve been single so long and handling everything in my life that I’m not sure how to practically do this. I need more real life examples of actions to take to exude feminine energy.
I totally understand, I am single, before my mother passed, I was part of a team that made family decisions, but she passed and have been my father’s caregiver for the last 20 years. Over the years with health decline, he changed from being my dad, my protector, the decision maker, to being a patient that could no longer make the decisions. I have been forced to take on the “masculine role”, to be the doer, the fixer, making all the decisions, doing all the jobs around the house traditionally done by a man. I like being able to do things for myself but after 20 years I just want to relinquish the control to someone else, to have someone care for me, to make the decisions. I fear that at my age I have been trained to be masculine and I don’t even know how to be feminine.
I told my fiancé who is coming to town again because he works out of town. So I’ve had a desk that’s been sitting for two years that needs to be put together. And I asked if he help me put it together. So when he ended up having to leave the states for a few weeks on the job. I asked if you want me just to go ahead and put the desk together. Or try to. He said no baby let’s leave it and do it together. It sounds like a fun project. So I’ve decided to be independent and I left the desk alone, so pulling up the linoleum in the dining room, stepped on a nail and ended up aren’t entering my foot. I sent him a picture of the linoleum instead of only got part of it up, but I stopped when I stepped on a nail. He said baby leave it I will do the dining room I like doing things for you. Because you can fill up my honeydew list anytime you want. I was like oh baby that’s so sweet of you. I’ve always needed somebody here and never had anyone, so you’re great that you want to help me and all my little honeydew list. And boosted him and made him feel very happy. I give gratitude to him all the time also for every little thing he does whether it’s he help me out on an idea or he told me some advice and I did it and it worked. I always complement him and how much he helps me. I think my biggest compliment that I give him that is very 100% honest. She brings out the best in me and not only does he do that but he makes me want to be better person for him. He loves that complement. He says that that makes him feel good that I want to better myself for him. And that I want to do it for myself too.
How about the other way around? What do a soft, shy, feminine men like in a woman
It makes me happy when masculine energy provides technical and practical help. Like repairing my bike or fix things in the house. Or being in charge of a train , ship or airplane 🔨⚓🔮
i think my intuition is broken. I thought i was being careful to avoid the bad but i guess the male energy that raised me gave me the wrong impression\example & is what tends to come my way & i'm drawn to. I'm so low right ATM.
What if it is the other way? Does a shy and introvert man, like a bit masculine and protecting women?
I feel most comfortable and more relaxed being in my feminine energy. I prefer to wear dresses, because I feel more feminine in a dress. It just feels comfortable and more natural to me. I feel feminine in pants as well, my femininity doesn't just disappear, I just feel more at home in my femininity. As a rule, I'm usually more on my feminine side. Almost all men are masculine at base line, that's just a given, but for me, the attractiveness of a man's masculinity as becoming and being an attraction and noticing the alluring aspect of it usually takes place after some other things have taken place first. When a woman's respect for a man gradually turns to admiration, then it is that the possibility is there for attraction to ignite, unless the man is absolutely drop dead gorgeous to begin with, but an average looking guy can become extremely attractive once the respect and admiration in her heart and mind has come into being. The man I thought was just an average looking guy, and would never in a million years think I would have a romantic interest in, gradually becomes more physically attractive and the thought will, at some point, pass through my mind if I could see him as a possible romantic interest, which can really take a woman by surprise!! Having said that, not just any man who a woman may come to respect and admire will have this effect.
There are few things more attractive to a woman than a man's masculine mannerisms, a man who is comfortable and confident in his masculinity. An "alpha male." when there is an attraction for him. There is something about this kind of masculinity that causes a woman feel her own femininity. This is just the attraction, love however, that can result from this first step of attraction is another matter altogether! It takes time to know the person you are attracted to, and visa versa. for love to develop. But to answer your question, a man's masculinity becomes noticed and attractive to a woman (usually) when she has an interest in a SPECIFIC man, otherwise she can be in a room full of men and their masculinity, but it has no effect on her. There is no reaction or attraction. Have a good day. 😄
I have yet to come across a man who makes me feel safe & protected. I'm an empath, so we all know what that attracts. I'm exhausted and I don't put myself out there anymore. Dating has drastically changed thanks to the internet. I'm just not into the headgames. I'm too old for that crap so I'd rather stay single & happy & content. ❤
My dating experience at 66 has been quite different. I met many men in person. I met my guy while I was out doing something I truly enjoy. He enjoys it too (which is why he was there) and most of our dates have been doing this activity (dancing). The internet had nothing to do with it except helping me to find events. I hope you meet someone while you are doing something fun for you.
I understand so much more about men now thanks to you.
But what is feminine? 🙈 looks and behaviour ? What about independence and having goals? How to still be feminine? How to give a man the feeling that I need him?
You needing a man in your life is feminine in itself. Being around you, having a partner in your life who you can call a friend and a lover.
What he doesnt want is someone who leans on people. Co dependent. Hope this helps 💗
I feel like Mat has given us pretty good answers to that in this video and others. Feminine energy is about being receptive. It comes down to the biology of men being the givers and women being the receivers. You can still be independent and chase your own goals, while allowing a man to open a car door for you or plan a date or give you gifts, to take care of you in little ways that have nothing to do with your big life goals. Feminism taught us that allowing men to be chivalrous was bad and I think that when we are in non-romantic situations with men (eg the classroom or the boardroom) then it's okay to let your masculine energy really shine and expect that the men there treat you as they would treat other men; and that everyone in the room are just PEOPLE. But when it comes to romance and relationships, we need to use our energy differently in order for masculine and feminine to work together and complement each other.
I agree, I feel like Mat gives a lot of good answers to this in the video. For me feminine energy is soft, receptive, present, curious, open, caring. It doesn't mean I don't say "no," it's how I say it and when I say it. Feminine energy is powerful and subtle.
So what brings out your feminine energy? What brings out your softness, your curiosity, your creativity and creative expression? For some women it's beautiful makeup or cute accessories. For me it's more about wearing beautiful clothes and moving in a soft, flowy way, especially when there's music on. So the actions or stuff aren't what make us feminine in my experience.
For me I had to hear what "feminine energy" was, then look and find where and how I could bring that out more in the world for myself authentically. I learned wearing beautiful clothes supported my feminine in being more present. That's part of my formula. And then I'm just naturally being me who happens to be more feminine, but the impact I have on others, just being myself, is huge. Much bigger than I could have imagined. And it's surprisingly not limited to romantic interactions. For example not only do I give men the space to be more in the moment and feel needed, but I've noticed I give women around me permission to be more in their feminine too. It's really surprising and incredible.
I hope that's helpful. 💜
@jackiandre4894 , great comment. I would only add that even in business space you can still be feminine combining it with your strengths and expertise. This actually helps to be successful as men don't usually complete with feminine women but support them.
@@jackiandre4894 I don't know if words can suffice to tell you just how helpful your comment is. I definitely lean into my masculine energy generally, but dating a good guy helped steer me toward embracing reception. Unfortunately he broke up with me, and one of the things he said was that he thought we were too similar to balance each other out. Whoops.
I have an amazing guy who isn't trust worthy and very childish but very masculine and supportive. How can I get him to commit
If he’s childish and not trustworthy you don’t have an amazing guy. Why do you want to commit to that?
I admire constancy and immutability.
am a very beautiful woman still single at the age of 34 I'm looking for a true loving relationship that will last forever I wish I can find one it's so boring to be single
One can be feminine, and still be a strong independent woman. I have spoken to numerous men that think I am feminine but appreciate the fact that I pay my way on dates, or at least offer. Why do women still expect men to pay when we all work for a living and are on budgets.
I think the best would be when I eventually feel the feeling of being looked after by a man. Him making sure I'm ok - being his priority...What a beautiful delicious image...
A guy likes to eat or drink something when talking with me over the phone. Quite often. Does it hit the 3rd point? 😂
Yh for me I like to be the man
whats a feminine woman?
Well that was depressing to watch. Looks like I have zero feminine energy lol