I am fairly new to your community. I love your elevated casual style. One thing I have to say is that YOU don't need a man to validate YOU. Alot of men and women jump back into relationships without having healed. It's nice that you have a new boyfriend-- but I implore YOU to take YOUR time. I say this because I am in my early 60's residing in NYC and the struggle is real. But when a Woman really knows her WORTH. She will take the time to Focus on herself and not be distracted by any outside influences. Please focus on Yourself, Your Career and YOUR Channel. Most importantly if YOU Believe in God-- put HIM First and all other things will align in due season. May God keep YOU and Watch over you ALWAYS.
You are brave, as many just don't want to accept the past is over. I have so many friends that had to begin again (including me), and its pretty normal. The first relationship is usally that. The happiness comes in this chapter of your life. Most people are not religious but I remember a girl from Mexico i met partying in Las Vegas said, 33 is the most important year (year that Jesus died), it defines a person's purpose and life if they pay attention to this year and are brave. Whether true or not, I embraced it and it was. Everything has gotten better and better and I take my dreams and goals seriously. Life is just beginning!
Thessely, Thanks for your vulnerability. The end of a relationship can be so difficult, especially a long term one. Sending you love and encouragement. I’m excited to see all the amazing things the future has in store for you.
Cheers to new beginnings! I thought something was off but would never presume to ask. You don't owe anyone anything but the way you've done it here is as expected with class and grace. You will thrive in your new environment and if he is worthy your new relationship as well. Keep your head up!
I just went through the same exact process at 37; broke up after 12 yrs about a year ago. Just know that it does get better and you will be that much stronger, just give yourself grace for everything that you’ve been through.
I think those who follow you knew something was going on but I believe in giving grace and space. Having a vlog and making what most of us have as private public for all to see takes a lot. I happy you’re happy and finding your way.
I follow you from almost the beginning, I was feeling something was going on recently but I couldn't imagine that! We are on the same boat girl! I'll turn 35 this month and I'm starting over too. The two previous years have been struggling for me, professionally and sentimentally, and now I give myself a few months to move on. You're damn right, the environment you live in is really important for your evolution and if you're not feeling well in it, just leave. As for you, I don't know where this new beginning will take me but I have faith! Let's embrace this new adventure! You're precious
Sending love and prayers!❤ I also had to start over after 7+ years and married for almost 3. I had no idea what the future held for me. It didn't feel like anything good could stem from that. Not only did I grow and reconnect with myself. I attracted the man that I didn't even know I needed. His love felt like a new experience. I asked myself, "What did I have before?" Lol...I didn't love myself enough to understand that what I had wasn't true love. Safe to say, all that is ancient history now. I'm currently happily married with 2 beautiful kids ❤. It's your time! You are a gem✨️
omg sis, what a beautiful message. Got me a bit teary, not gonna lie. I'm so happy this is your story and the first part is so relatable to mine. Wishing you and me only but the best. ♥️
@ThesselyJuliet Thank you! I am excited for the best ahead. Trust the process, not easy, but worth every tear. I'll be looking forward to seeing you evolve sis.
I applaud you for choosing you. I’m 46 and I’m also about to start over after 12 yrs of marriage and being together over 20yrs. I’m not happy and I know I want more. Better days to come just continue to pray. 100k 👋🏽
Oh sis... this breaks my heart but I'm also very happy for you that you've found the peace of mind to keep moving forward despite the discomfort and change. Best with everything ❣
Thessely, You are truly special in this space. I fell in love with your style and grace and have taken many style tips from you. I wish you the very best! I look forward to your continued success in any venture of your choosing.
I know it took a lot to share your personal story with us. I wish you all the best! Please know you will be fine! I will continue to support your channel and wish you nothing but success and happiness.
Baby girl, No one can take your shine we all go through these seasons, keep up the good work and energy!! New beginnings are scary are but worth celebrating, I'm so excited for you and wishing you countless blessings!! As for the Q&A lol I feel like your body guard 😆 🤣 you've covered enough, no need to revisit the past,exclude talking about him youve done the healing its no longer fresh,let's talk the good and the future only! Sending you big hugs from London!
I’m rooting for you! Great things are coming your way. I can only imagine what breaking up a 12 year relationship feels like when you also lost your father. But, God will guide you through the dark and bless you immensely.
I'm so sorry to hear about the break up, but I'm thankful there's no animosity between you two. I'll be praying for God to guide you on the right path during this new chapter of your life. I will be here supporting, loving and praying for you as always💙🙏🏾🤗. Love you to bits Sis. Take care, God bless, and are you willing to share details of your new man in the Q&A video or it's too soon🙈😉.
@ThesselyJuliet I'm going to do a channel for men similar to yours. The difference is I'm going to be more fragrance/cologne forward and then pairing certain fragrances to outfits for certain occasions...
Thessely! Thanks for sharing such personal information! This too shall pass!🙏🏾 As I’m writing this I am also realizing that you are now past 100K subscribers! Congratulations Sis!🎉🎉🎉 The Best is Yet to Come!
I truly felt it was something, energy wise. You're a happy person in general. I just thought you were working super hard and wasn't getting enough sleep. We are here for you and you're about to hit 100k. Thanks for opening up and keep the videos coming❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi Thessely, continue to move onwards and forward in life and love! Where focus goes, energy flows! ☺️Only share what you want to about your new relationship and stay true to yourself and your feelings as you continue to heal and reflect. You are beautiful and your father’s spirit lives on and through you, you got this🤗 🤎🙏🏾
Despite what you’re going through, you look and sound amazing 🤩. It’s a total 180 from last year. As usual I am routing for you and everything will turn out beautifully. Keep God first and blessings are going to pour into your life.🙏🏾❤
Best wishes to you as you move on. :Lots of painful events but also many positives. You've sought therapy, started a spiritual journey, found a new job, and a new relationship. Take care dear young lady.
Cheers to new beginnings ,Thessely. Excited to see what this year has for year! Wishing you blessings and prosperity! This too shall pass and good things are coming! Thanks for sharing.
The end of a long term relationship is always difficult. It’s a process to heal and make sense of it all but you will come out on the other side better than before. Don’t lose faith and keep praying.
Thessely, healing is very important. I remember when you went to Texas with your Mom. I figured something was way off. I am praying you receive healing overflow for all of your losses so that pain doesn’t go with you. May the Lord bless you and keep you, may He shine His face upon you and give Peace, His Shalom. Be blessed and be that blessing to us. ❤
Thank you for this very intimate conversation, which u chose to share with us. Looks like you’ve been through the hardest part and you are still standing! Beautifully at that! 😊 wishing you a very happy new beginning, you deserve it!
Congratulations. Never should we diminish how someone else feels about where there are, but with that let me say you are still so young. Closer to your twenties than your forties, starting over is really just starting a new. 💗
Sending you so much love, Light and hugs. Your daring to be vulnerable and sharing this chapter of your story is so inspiring. To new beginnings, to growth, to coming back to yourself ❤️.
💙🌸you are in the Netherlands. I greet you from Belgium. I really like your work on this channel, your style is great and I hope you'll continue despite the change. You can be proud of everything you've accomplished. I encourage you without knowing you. 🌸💙
excited for your journey and to see where you go from here. Sorry to hear that you had to go through all of that but happy to see that you made it through it and got your happiness back 💜💜.
Hi Thessely - I’m so glad to hear you’re doing well and embarking on a new season in your life. You truly deserve ALL the goodness and great things life has to offer. ❤❤
Hey sis! Thank you for sharing this with us (even though you didn’t have to). Me and the rest of us are just so proud of how far you’ve come. These changes are big and I’m sure it’s been a rollercoaster both mentally and physically. But with this new chapter, things will most definitely be better. We love you and will always be there to support you. Looking forward to your next chapter❤️❤️❤️🫂
I think you can share what you want to share. Congrats on the new relationship. Starting overs are not easy however nothing is if you don't put effort in it. What would you do different this time around in your relationship
I’m so sorry to hear about this life change / breakup thess . I thought the low energy was due to your papa only because losing family members takes the wind out of a person for a LONG LONG TIME . We love you and Stan with you ❤❤❤ Many many blessings to you and your channel !
I’ve been watching your content for a while and it has taught me so much! I’m in a similar stage as you my dad passed in Sept of 24 and I also ended a long term relationship. Your strength and courage are so inspiring!
So sorry to hear this! Cheering for you and glad things are going well- I’ll definitely miss your background; low-key hoping you get to take it with you. 💜
Thanks for your vulnerability. As someone living in the Netherlands since 2022 and I can say the housing situation in the Netherlands is wild!! Congratulations on your new relationship and self discovery is the best kind of journey you will ever embark on.
Thank you for sharing this very private and emotional news. It is never easy to be faced with major life changes and having our security torn away. My marriage is ended after 27 years and I realized that I came out stronger than ever. Here’s to new challenges and beginnings ❤
I am fairly new to your community. I love your elevated casual style. One thing I have to say is that YOU don't need a man to validate YOU. Alot of men and women jump back into relationships without having healed. It's nice that you have a new boyfriend-- but I implore YOU to take YOUR time. I say this because I am in my early 60's residing in NYC and the struggle is real. But when a Woman really knows her WORTH. She will take the time to Focus on herself and not be distracted by any outside influences. Please focus on Yourself, Your Career and YOUR Channel. Most importantly if YOU Believe in God-- put HIM First and all other things will align in due season. May God keep YOU and Watch over you ALWAYS.
I needed to hear this ❤
This message was also for me. Thank you ❤️
Sis, I applaud your bravery through all the changes in your life. Keep on prioritising your happiness. ALMOST 100K ! KEEP ON SUBSCRIBING EVERYONE ! ♡
I will sis! Thank you for your support beautiful!
You are brave, as many just don't want to accept the past is over. I have so many friends that had to begin again (including me), and its pretty normal. The first relationship is usally that. The happiness comes in this chapter of your life. Most people are not religious but I remember a girl from Mexico i met partying in Las Vegas said, 33 is the most important year (year that Jesus died), it defines a person's purpose and life if they pay attention to this year and are brave. Whether true or not, I embraced it and it was. Everything has gotten better and better and I take my dreams and goals seriously. Life is just beginning!
Thessely,
Thanks for your vulnerability. The end of a relationship can be so difficult, especially a long term one. Sending you love and encouragement. I’m excited to see all the amazing things the future has in store for you.
Cheers to new beginnings! I thought something was off but would never presume to ask. You don't owe anyone anything but the way you've done it here is as expected with class and grace. You will thrive in your new environment and if he is worthy your new relationship as well. Keep your head up!
amen sis! that's exactly right! thank you so much for your kind words ;)
I just went through the same exact process at 37; broke up after 12 yrs about a year ago. Just know that it does get better and you will be that much stronger, just give yourself grace for everything that you’ve been through.
When one door closes, another one opens. You have such a bright and happy future ahead of you. All is and will be well.
I think those who follow you knew something was going on but I believe in giving grace and space. Having a vlog and making what most of us have as private public for all to see takes a lot. I happy you’re happy and finding your way.
awww thanks love. so sweet ♥️
We’re excited for what the future holds for you and will be here to support you.😊
thank you sis. I appreciate it!
I follow you from almost the beginning, I was feeling something was going on recently but I couldn't imagine that! We are on the same boat girl! I'll turn 35 this month and I'm starting over too. The two previous years have been struggling for me, professionally and sentimentally, and now I give myself a few months to move on. You're damn right, the environment you live in is really important for your evolution and if you're not feeling well in it, just leave. As for you, I don't know where this new beginning will take me but I have faith! Let's embrace this new adventure! You're precious
Awww thank you girl! It's only up from here for the both of us. I believe it!
Sending love and prayers!❤
I also had to start over after 7+ years and married for almost 3. I had no idea what the future held for me. It didn't feel like anything good could stem from that. Not only did I grow and reconnect with myself. I attracted the man that I didn't even know I needed. His love felt like a new experience. I asked myself, "What did I have before?" Lol...I didn't love myself enough to understand that what I had wasn't true love. Safe to say, all that is ancient history now. I'm currently happily married with 2 beautiful kids ❤. It's your time! You are a gem✨️
omg sis, what a beautiful message. Got me a bit teary, not gonna lie. I'm so happy this is your story and the first part is so relatable to mine. Wishing you and me only but the best. ♥️
@ThesselyJuliet Thank you! I am excited for the best ahead. Trust the process, not easy, but worth every tear. I'll be looking forward to seeing you evolve sis.
I applaud you for choosing you. I’m 46 and I’m also about to start over after 12 yrs of marriage and being together over 20yrs. I’m not happy and I know I want more. Better days to come just continue to pray. 100k 👋🏽
Oh sis... this breaks my heart but I'm also very happy for you that you've found the peace of mind to keep moving forward despite the discomfort and change. Best with everything ❣
in the new chapter of your life put all your trust in GOD he will never forsake you or leave .. stay strong sister
Thessely, You are truly special in this space. I fell in love with your style and grace and have taken many style tips from you. I wish you the very best! I look forward to your continued success in any venture of your choosing.
Time will heal all wounds. Give yourself grace.
Here is a big hug 🤗 🤗🥰
Thanks for sharing…definitely praying for you for peace emotionally with how you are transitioning. God got you and we love you!
Thank you beautiful! So kind.
Here’s to new beginnings 🎉. . The best is yet to come
I know it took a lot to share your personal story with us. I wish you all the best! Please know you will be fine! I will continue to support your channel and wish you nothing but success and happiness.
Baby girl,
No one can take your shine we all go through these seasons, keep up the good work and energy!!
New beginnings are scary are but worth celebrating, I'm so excited for you and wishing you countless blessings!!
As for the Q&A lol I feel like your body guard 😆 🤣 you've covered enough, no need to revisit the past,exclude talking about him youve done the healing its no longer fresh,let's talk the good and the future only!
Sending you big hugs from London!
Youv'e got this Thessely.....it is ok to move at your own pace. When you get something permanent hope you can share snippets of any decorating
Thank you for sharing this part of your life. May the new start bring you more joy and success!
Amen. Thank you so much love!
I’m so sorry love. You will be okay because you’re a superstar!!!!❤
Hang in there Thessely! All the best moving forward.
Thank you lovely!
To new beginnings ❤❤❤❤. We love you...
Thank you sis. Love you too
regular viewer here: i wish you all the best and im sending you alot of positive energy. youve got this!
Thank you beautiful ♥️
Keeping you in my prayers. It’s not easy but it’s worth it.
Sending well wishes all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦, looking forward to watching the new chapter unfold 🎉❤
Thank you sis. I appreciate the love so much!
I’m rooting for you! Great things are coming your way. I can only imagine what breaking up a 12 year relationship feels like when you also lost your father. But, God will guide you through the dark and bless you immensely.
God always give us what we need - sometimes not we want! Hugs from Brazil ❤
I'm so sorry to hear about the break up, but I'm thankful there's no animosity between you two.
I'll be praying for God to guide you on the right path during this new chapter of your life. I will be here supporting, loving and praying for you as always💙🙏🏾🤗.
Love you to bits Sis. Take care, God bless, and are you willing to share details of your new man in the Q&A video or it's too soon🙈😉.
You will get to the other side. Give yourself grace and heal. Lol❤
Everything happens for a reason. The best is yet to come! 💫
That's right! I believe it!
The best is yet to come!!
Amen! I believe it
@ThesselyJuliet I'm going to do a channel for men similar to yours. The difference is I'm going to be more fragrance/cologne forward and then pairing certain fragrances to outfits for certain occasions...
Thessely! Thanks for sharing such personal information! This too shall pass!🙏🏾
As I’m writing this I am also realizing that you are now past 100K subscribers! Congratulations Sis!🎉🎉🎉 The Best is Yet to Come!
Thank you so much sis! So kind of you 💜
As you know doors close and new doors open. It might be a sensitive time but this video comes at a pinnacle time! Congrats on this 100k milestone!
I truly felt it was something, energy wise. You're a happy person in general. I just thought you were working super hard and wasn't getting enough sleep. We are here for you and you're about to hit 100k. Thanks for opening up and keep the videos coming❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi Thessely, continue to move onwards and forward in life and love! Where focus goes, energy flows! ☺️Only share what you want to about your new relationship and stay true to yourself and your feelings as you continue to heal and reflect. You are beautiful and your father’s spirit lives on and through you, you got this🤗 🤎🙏🏾
Despite what you’re going through, you look and sound amazing 🤩. It’s a total 180 from last year. As usual I am routing for you and everything will turn out beautifully. Keep God first and blessings are going to pour into your life.🙏🏾❤
good luck on this new journey I know that you will be guided mercifully and you will move with grace as you usually do
Best wishes to you as you move on. :Lots of painful events but also many positives. You've sought therapy, started a spiritual journey, found a new job, and a new relationship. Take care dear young lady.
Wishing you the best during this transition ! I’m sure that all these changes can be overwhelming but God is with you every step of the way 🙏🏽
Cheers to new beginnings ,Thessely. Excited to see what this year has for year! Wishing you blessings and prosperity! This too shall pass and good things are coming! Thanks for sharing.
The end of a long term relationship is always difficult. It’s a process to heal and make sense of it all but you will come out on the other side better than before. Don’t lose faith and keep praying.
Sorry to hear about your dad, and the break up. Hopefully this year 2025 , will be full of goodness for you.
Thank you for sharing. Love of self is unmeasurable and provides strength to being. Wishing you all of the best on the next chapter.
Thessely, healing is very important. I remember when you went to Texas with your Mom. I figured something was way off. I am praying you receive healing overflow for all of your losses so that pain doesn’t go with you. May the Lord bless you and keep you, may He shine His face upon you and give Peace, His Shalom. Be blessed and be that blessing to us. ❤
Wishing you well in this new season, may it be beautiful!
Thank you for this very intimate conversation, which u chose to share with us. Looks like you’ve been through the hardest part and you are still standing! Beautifully at that! 😊 wishing you a very happy new beginning, you deserve it!
Thank you so much! Yeah, it's only up from here!
I wish you all the best that life has to offer.
This is the beginning of your new chapter! It’s not always easy but you will get through. Sending hugs and prayers. ❤
We love you! Best wishes to you on the next chapter of your life ❤
Thank you so much!!
Sending you much love and thank you for being bold enough to share your story and journey with us. Blessings and keep on shining like a diamond..❤
Congratulations. Never should we diminish how someone else feels about where there are, but with that let me say you are still so young. Closer to your twenties than your forties, starting over is really just starting a new. 💗
Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability.. 💯 relatable! 🥂 cheers to your new journey! 💞
All the best for 2025! You’ve got this 😊
Sending you so much love, Light and hugs. Your daring to be vulnerable and sharing this chapter of your story is so inspiring. To new beginnings, to growth, to coming back to yourself ❤️.
💙🌸you are in the Netherlands. I greet you from Belgium. I really like your work on this channel, your style is great and I hope you'll continue despite the change. You can be proud of everything you've accomplished. I encourage you without knowing you. 🌸💙
Lots of blessings in your new journey
excited for your journey and to see where you go from here. Sorry to hear that you had to go through all of that but happy to see that you made it through it and got your happiness back 💜💜.
Thank you so much!! It's only up from here!
I’m sorry Thessely😢, you will get through this ❤ I applaud you for being so vulnerable 👏🏽
You do you !!! So proud of you making the move for you. Look forward to more Fashion Videos.. ❤
Hi Thessely - I’m so glad to hear you’re doing well and embarking on a new season in your life. You truly deserve ALL the goodness and great things life has to offer. ❤❤
Cheers to new beginnings. Many great wishes for your new season❤
Congratulations ma'am 🎉
Hey sis! Thank you for sharing this with us (even though you didn’t have to). Me and the rest of us are just so proud of how far you’ve come. These changes are big and I’m sure it’s been a rollercoaster both mentally and physically. But with this new chapter, things will most definitely be better. We love you and will always be there to support you. Looking forward to your next chapter❤️❤️❤️🫂
awwww sis so sweet! I know you've been rocking with me for a minute so I truly appreciate this message ♥️
I've had a few people in my life go through EMDR. It's been life changing for them. I hope you have peace and happiness in your future.
So I've heard! Thanks sis!
Here's to new beginnings, and I wish you all the best for the future x
Happy for you and your fresh start in life . Always love yourself first. Best wishes!
You are at a great age and wisdom to make all your goals come true. I wish you continued success and thanks for sharing your story.
This is true! Thank you for these words of encouragement ♥️
I think you can share what you want to share. Congrats on the new relationship. Starting overs are not easy however nothing is if you don't put effort in it. What would you do different this time around in your relationship
Absolutely sis. Great question! I will answer this in next week's Q&A ;)
@ThesselyJuliet yes
Oh, Thessely. Haven't watched you consistently in a bit, but thank you for your vulnerability here. May you be well.
Thank you love
"This is a fresh start, not the end. Better things are coming."
"You're stronger than you think, and this will only make you wiser."
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I’m so sorry to hear about this life change / breakup thess . I thought the low energy was due to your papa only because losing family members takes the wind out of a person for a LONG LONG TIME . We love you and Stan with you ❤❤❤
Many many blessings to you and your channel !
I’m glad you’re in a better place now! 🌸 I hope things continue to keep going well with your new relationship and new place. 🤍🧿
I’ve been watching your content for a while and it has taught me so much! I’m in a similar stage as you my dad passed in Sept of 24 and I also ended a long term relationship. Your strength and courage are so inspiring!
Thank you love! I'm sending you so much healing energy!
God got you!! He hears your prayers. Keep being yourself and everything will be alright.
I’m so proud of you,you keep me going I’m going through the same situation like you but remember God will always be with you we love you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Cheers to New Beginnings and thanks for being so open and honest
So sorry to hear this! Cheering for you and glad things are going well- I’ll definitely miss your background; low-key hoping you get to take it with you. 💜
You are beautiful inside and out. ❤you’re doing the right thing 😊
thank you mama 💜
Much love and prayers to you. ❤
Thank you sis!
Hi Juliet everything is going to be ok🙏. I do believe you should take things slowly though, relationship wise. Continue to love and work on yourself❤
Congratulations on your new home ❤️ and so glad you're happy and doing what's best for you!
Thanks for your vulnerability. As someone living in the Netherlands since 2022 and I can say the housing situation in the Netherlands is wild!! Congratulations on your new relationship and self discovery is the best kind of journey you will ever embark on.
Cheers to that! I'm definitely re-discovering myself which is a beautiful thing!
Excited for your new chapter. Blessings always upon you.
Thank you lovely!
💖 happy for the new chapter you're starting
We are here to support you and your content! I wish you the very best in the future❤❤❤
Sending you love and virtual hugs. May this new beginning bring peace and joy!❤
Thank you love!
New Subscriber here. Cheers to new beginnings, I pray that this new chapter unlocks many more blessings. 💞
Welcome aboard! Thank you for your message. So sweet!
Sending you much love Thessely💗✨
Thank you so much love!
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Best wishes on your new journey ❤️
Thank you for sharing this very private and emotional news. It is never easy to be faced with major life changes and having our security torn away. My marriage is ended after 27 years and I realized that I came out stronger than ever. Here’s to new challenges and beginnings ❤
Thank you sis! So sweet. Sending you healing energy ♥️
All the best and take care!!
Wishing you nothing but the best and all the happiness in the world...cheers to new beginnings 🎉 and hugs from Budapest 🥰
Thank you so much!! I love the support!
There is so much more on the other side of what we don’t know ☺
im excited for your future💗
Stay strong.❤❤
You're a beautiful, brave, intelligent, strong, inspirational young lady, and you've got this girl! ❤️ 🥂
And most importantly, LOVED by us. 🫶🏿
We support you- thank you for being so transparent- I’m looking forward to your future 🤍
I appreciate that! Thank you so much
You got this! ❤ stay strong
thank you mama