HOW TO DEAL WITH TODDLER TANTRUMS
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1. Make sure that you're calm and regulated. Step away if you need to.
2. Get low slow and quiet as you try to make a connection with your child. (Give them space if they need it and offer them a pillow to hit if they're getting physical),
3. Empathize with your child and help them feel understood by talking about what you've seen and heard of them.
4. Try to get close to your child and offer them a hug
5. Once your child has calmed down (and not before) you can begin to tell them the story of what happened.
6. If you need to talk about consequences of the tantrum, you can do this now that they've calmed down.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I hate tantrum.
For those of you watching this as parents of toddlers (no time for chit-chat), the useful video starts at 2:50
Thank you.
Thank you
Get that woman a coffee!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
😂😂
im somewhat ashamed of watching these bc of my hispanic heritage. it’s always been known that we get hit and get yelled at (which is necessary if needed) but i want to learn different ways of dealing with my daughter when she’s having them
Bless you your amazing 🤍🕊️🌷
GIRL BREAK THE GENERATIONAL CURSE! Im hispanic as well and our culture is so TOXIC in parenting! Let's be the change! It comes so hard for us because we are used to a different style!
@@LAYDEEYASMIN girl yes! i’m doing the best i can 😮💨
@@bluuprojectbaby9389 I'm black. African specifically. I've been witness to parents slapping their toddlers whenever they get tantrums. My parents decided to get a child in their late 40s and believe me when I say, I am not supportive for how they deal with my brother when he gets tantrums. They don't slap him, but they raise their voices at him. I'm watching this so that I can learn to deal with his tantrums too.
@@lastseenontuesday6040 yess my parents did that with my siblings and I and now that i have my own daughter i’m doing my best to help her with her tantrums ❤️🩹
This seems like a lot of words to say to a toddler. There’s a lot of detailed explaining that I’m confused on how much my toddler understands verbally. Also mine has tantrums in the car I can’t pull over and have this long conversation
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I’m doing my best not to spank my son. Sometimes I think it’s the best solution since I was spanked and was raised like that, but I don’t wanna do that to my son. I realized my son was having a tantrum because he had a incoming rash on his stomach and on his butt. I felt terrible for yelling at him. It’s something I’m learning as a new father and trying to give him every attention and love he needs
All you need to do is do your best and not physicly abuse your son. We all learn and this videos first part is really important: They arent doing it bc they want to be mean they do it bc their brains cant do anything else. Its difficult, i know. When my daughter screams and lays on the floor it makes me want to turn to the methods that my parents used.. But i know better! It has gotten better! Slowly shes starting to reconise her own emotions and shat causes them and has started to calm herself down before the big tantrum. We will get through this!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Well now I dont feel so alone and over stressed . This is a very challenging phase in toddlers and parenting ,it takes a toll on us as parents. What works on one child does not necessarily also work for another, I think as parents we need to keep an open mind and try new strategies. Try try try.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
My son is almost 15 months and I've never seen these type of tantrums ever, it's exhausting & overwhelming!
I’m there with you . It’s mentally exhausting . My son is about to be 2 . 😩
I thought it was just me my son is 11 months
My daughter is about to turn 3 but it's killing me .l even sometimes think its just this generation 🤣🤣
@@marymann6407 exactly & he's getting worse! Smh
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Thank you so much for this information!!!! My son is 3 and a half and OMG it is so frustrating how he is behaving. This was very informative!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Thank you for a practical way to deal with these insane tantrums. Three and a half is rocking my world. It's so hard!!
You are welcome. I hope it helps. It's such a hard time but as long as you can keep your cool it will pass eventually, I promise!
I would like to see a video of you modeling this please. Thank you!
I agree I have a 3 1/2 year old also.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Thank you for the video. I work as a occupational therapist with kids and often enough i see parents who dont know how to help their kids. Now i myself understand the situation better and can help others ❤❤
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Less talk more real life action. This is easier said than done. Bring on a child and show how you work through things
Most of this does not seem realistic when a child is having a tantrum.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Yes I tried it and it didn't work. I'd like to see how this actually works in action
I have a 2 year old and he often gets overwhelmed when its time to transition from playing with his toys to something that I want him to do.
Doing anything outside when he gets upset calms him down like a charm.
If that fails, drinking milk or water or even a snack calms him before the big tantrum.
Hope this helps other new moms! Sure wish there was a step by step for new moms like me 😅
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Why would a loving mom or dad EVER give their kid pus and blo*d filled milk?
What kind of snacks are you giving? Hopefully nongmo organic food... no poison for the kiddos, right?
I don’t think regulation with food is a nice foundation, very easy to resort to and have a messed up relationship, sometimes the need it and the tantrum was about being hungry or whatever but not all the time probably
😩 it so emotional exhausting.
I agree I've cried my eyes out because I'm like what am I doing wrong
@@vanessa386 same situation right now
Totally. I’m about to lose my mind, so is my husband.
Thanks for sharing and know exactly how you feel about these issues. Felt the same way too. However, I found that after working with 1000’s of kids in a Martial Arts Licensed Daycare Center. We are all winning lotto tickets that showed up here in physical form and picked our trusted advisors (parents) to show us how the world works, not to be imprinted on how they want us to be. But to activate, train and develop our “I AM a Genius” Code (Thumb Print) with all missing life skills before leaving the nest so we can share our gifts with the world and live a successful life.
Thank you for doing your part the best you can on this parenting journey.
Here’s to your parenting success,
Cheers!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
love every words you explained. I just got some clever clues from you kind and loving advice.
My daughter is really entering this…
And I never know what’s wrong 😑 and I’m so triggered by it. I feel like I need a whole class in how to calm myself down when she starts
Did u ever find a way to calm yourself asking for myself I'm going through the same thing
@@cassiengoddard4510 I don’t have a super sophisticated process and it can depend on the day but yeah… I pretty much think about how I feel when I’m crying about something important to me so I can relate to her and tap into some compassion first. Then I try to breathe with her, tap my chest and say we’re gonna breathe and count to 10. If she can’t focus and breathe (she usually doesnt) I ask her to please tell me or show me what she wants because I can’t understand her when she’s crying. If all of that doesn’t work, I just sit there and wait until she’s done, and tell her I’m here for her. Sometimes she’ll hug me after. Sometimes she’ll tell me to go away. It’s a lot.
Same here
Thats what I'm trying to train myself too. I can't stay calm everytime when she starts crying out of nowhere 😔 Trying to be calm most of the time, but not happening everytime. It is sometimes so stressful to have a toddler and being a pregnant. But this tips helped me a lot to keep in mind
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
My 18 mo old throws the wildest tantrums and isn’t even 2 yet Lord help us!
SAME LOL. Same age and we started throwing horrifically huge tantrums a few days ago. 😱 Full out shrieking, biting, hitting etc. Haha.
My 18 month old grandson does the same
17 month old grandson... Same way
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Same
I'm a 3rd time mum and still learning ... every child is different my last is the most challenging bit thank you for this. literally just did it and he calmed down straight away.. so writing this as I have just tried it ❤
As a baby I barely ever cried and never had a tantrum but sheesh these babies are different🤣
Yeah right! 😂 And you remember everything that you did from the day you were born? 😂😀
Nice tips, but for a single mom with no, you can't walk away and leave a toddler unattended! Hard to do.
Easier said than done
Yes, but we all learn, make mistakes and grow! Its hard but you can get it done and become quite a master at it
What about trying to redirect their attention? Like my 1 yr old had a meltdown after she tried putting a rock in her mouth and I took it away. The only thing that seemed to get her to calm down was my husband redirecting her attention by running around with her, which made her laugh. Is this approach ok to stop a tantrum?
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Don't have a kid and also not pregnant, but I'm here because I am actually curious. I would probably panic especially during grocery store shopping😂
😂 dr visits are the worst because it be so quiet there and everyone just be looking lol Awkward
Lol my stepmother being blond and caucasion would just walk away at the store 😅I would left my siblings when I was a teen as we all looked similar . it was embarrassing that people stared . But they all grew to to be amazing humans .🤩
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Really really great stuff Aideen. Your insights and suggestions are so empowering for parents and also help them build positive relationships with their kids to boot.
Thanks Heather!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Is this a man thing or am I the only one who feels like I'm not going to be doing this???? Real question
It’s not a man thing, it’s a hard path vs easy path thing. It’s your choice
Thank you for the suggeestions. But how do you deal with a 37 years old "toddler" throwing tentrums, falling on the floor and screaming like a little one? My daughter-in-law is like that.
In the exact same way
Lol
You don't deal with that at all. Adults are not children. It is also not your child to worry about. You just remove yourself from the situation. If your son chose that woman, that is his wish and he will deal with it himself. It's not your place to even talk about it, it's their relationship and their family.
"A completely disregulated and emotionally overloaded animal"
With my godson I just leave the room and let him cry it out, I check on him every one minute. I don’t know why he gets aggressive at times but I tell him “Stop you know better” he looks at me mad and starts to throw his head into something and at that point I just look at him like you’re hurting yourself he actually realizes it and simmers down. Being quiet and letting him go through it seems to be the best option for me
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
This is excellent advise and strategies I use with my childcare kids
Thank you so much! Such a big help.. my son was 2 yrs old and having all this issues
What do I do when my toddler screams over me during my attempts at all these steps ? I try to wait and give space but sometimes that results in him hurting himself. Also the last step sometimes triggers him back into the tantrum
this is very helpful 💙💙
Kid's are today nothing makes them happy because they have everything!
Then don't give them everything.
Everyone should watch this, thank you for such a good video. Love.
Damned if you do damned if you don’t with my little diva
I feel your pain mine too, I thought I was patient… now i don’t know
How do you talk and say these long sentences to a 2 year old when you go over it afterwards? Or is that for an older child??
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
Can tantrums be early signs of autism?..I have 14m son and he easily get frustrated about small things that don't go his way.
Did tou have him checked out? I heard high functioning kids could be difficult to deal with
My godson has autism and throws petty fits 😂 what i do is leave the room for a bit and let him cry til he stops and cocomelon works too
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
Thank you so much. This was very informative.
Thank you. It was really helpful!
Hi. I am from kerala. My 3 year old baby was very emotional. I can't manage it and my relatives are punish and blame for his tantrums. This situation is very irritating me and my husband. Can you help to overcome it
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
If they get triangles and they throw a fit I’d take a bite out of the sandwich and tell them to eat their food or someone else will.
We’ve got 4 kids and my goal is to prepare them for adult life.
Dad's rock. We need you to show tough love sometimes to balance the woman's overindulgence. We can't help overindulging...Something about birthing ties us to our children.
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
You can't hang over your child waiting for a fit to happen!
what do i do if he is so shrill and loud he hits me kicks me and calls me stupid
What if they have little or no language, 2 years and 3 months
I was wondering the same thing
Very helpful 👍
Thank you!
My daughter throws one when I tell her no she kicks screams , flip over things I get so frustrated she only 2 🥹
Dont say no,dont,stop. Rather say what is expected and coregulate
I tried it and it didn't work . My son is 14 months old and can't communicate yet so it's hard to reason with him
What if head banging?
I need help. My sister-in-law has a daughter she's almost three and she just cries all the time. She can understand already for her age. She knows if something irritates her she will cry the hell out and I'm done. Not my child not my responsibility and obligation. But I'm so fed up of hearing her cry it's exhausting me and it keeps me from getting a good sleep. I already talked to my husband to talk to his sister about this because I really can't. We are all for child development but what about my mental health? This is affecting me already.
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
Am just over this life am done am tired am done with this life am done completely and wanna die seriously and just praying for it ! My child doesnt sleep when asked to sleep and all tht i say she doesnt listen much she is completely an irritating stuff for me and when she runs behing her dad tht is the worst moment ! I never knew life is soo tough with kids once wished to have kids i know think what did i ask for ! I hardly get time to sit with my husband 😂and good tht i have i never have this habbit
Don't give up!
My almost 4 year old grandson when he's having tantrums would say to his mother "I want to kill you " what's that all about? It breaks my heart 😢she's really good at handling herself and him..I don't hear what she'll say to him when he sees that cuz I run away with the 2 year old when older brother is about to throw a fit
Most likely the mom said it to the child before, it could have been even said as a joke to another adult: "When he is throwing tantrums, I feel like I want to k*ll that child". Children don't understand jokes and they don't understand sarcasm, they will take everything literally and then repeat it back to adults in a different situation.
How do you speak to them if they're screaming so loud nobody can hear anything?
Thanks for the question. Tbh, if a child is screaming so loudly that they can't hear you, then they are unlikely to be in a condition to understand what you are saying. The best thing to do is to make sure that you are calm and regulated (modelling deep breathing can help you both), sit with them (if you can) and offer comforting gestures or sounds (think low, slow and quiet) until they have started to calm down, then you can start to use words to connect with them. Leave all the more demanding talking stuff until they are fully calm and back in their thinking mind.
How can an 18 month old understand a conversation
They actually smart enough to understand. Yes you need just to tell them more than once, but they do get it.
Everything is cause and effect. So just pay attention to your response to their behaviour. Change the effect to the cause 😜
@@kennyputri3202 yes indeed.
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
Oh its a life saver
I feel so out of place here as I'm a man and also not a dad but an uncle who due to certain painful circonstances had my niece grow up in my arms.
She is a lovely 3 and half years old but is hyperactive. And it's so hard to make her follow rules or maybe I'm not good at it...
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
My two year old has one of the wildest tantrums. He sometimes wakes up from sleeping with a tantrum like as if he didn't rest well enough it becomes an issue because he has no way to communicate on what's bothering him and it puts me on emotional distress.
He also gets very emotional with his desires making him bipolar especially since he has the least amount of patience.
Same here hayssst
Usually if my kiddo is crying after a nap thats his way of telling me he needs more sleep.
Now if this is a morning where we need to go at a certain time, rocking him and giving him his water bottle might work. But usually i just have to accept the attitude he gives 🥲🥲🥲
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
My 16mo daughter has mini tantrums and throws herself around into the couch haha😂 its actually really cute and funny the way she does it (i never let her see me smiling or chuckling about it) .. But its still a tantrum and i just squat down on the floor and she eventually runs to me and throws her arms around my neck, i give her lots of kisses and it ends pretty quickly, as for now at this age.
Let them tantrum themselves to sleep.....
People need to go to a dog training class... 😊
I’m nut so I search for this...
I've always learned that people who appear to be a "perfect" parent are the exact opposite .... you sound like u trying to be a friend instead of a parent
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
Why do 10 year old have tantrums
I had a kid who would GO OFF sometimes in uncontrollable Rage!! I found that a large container of ICE WATER 💧 would cool him right off!!
(raised 4 boys, 3 girls) (then 3 grandkids for FIVE years) Those 3 are back with Mom now, doing nicely. Cheers 🥰
Hahaha, ice water! 😄😅
...
Really? 🤔
Hi, but how do you use the tank?
You dunked him in ice water? Did you pour it over his head? Did you throw it at his body? How old is he now? Is he a good human now?
@@torreycat7716 Thx for your concern. All of my children are very accomplished in their fields and love God and Jesus Christ. Peace
Horrible lol. Imagine that whenever u had emotions someone poured water on you. Ice water doesn’t teach self regulation. It doesn’t teach them to distinguish their emotions. It shows that their dad is lazy and doesn’t wanna do the work with the child and help them through it
Ok
08:08
How the Dads feeling on here?
Really lost because my dad used to whoop the ever loving mess out of me. Different times.
My parents are shit at discipline they're mexican so their way of discipline was shouting their fucking lungs out or beating. They stopped disciplining the younger kids and now they are out of control I am combing home to see my family for a month and I am trying to finds ways on how to help them, because i feel like my mom gave up on raising them. I feel that she thinks that taking care off kids is just cleaning after them and feeding them but that's not it. They need to be thought rights and wrongs and teach them sympathy. And also not be such slobs. I feel like I'm stuck because I don't know what to do.
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
I lost control and yelled at my daughter (3 yo). I feel disgusted by myself.. I will do better. I just feel like crap and can’t sleep..
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
Please HELP 22 month old, crying crazy violent and has disturbed sleep at bedtime, plus bath time after 10 minutes he freaks out to get out of tub, my son itches alot do you think its worms yes he itches in genital area, neck alot, his chest and kidney area. What tests need to be performed to make sure its not worms. My son will be 2 years old in 2 months, he wakes up crying violently and he loses his breathe its ok violent of crying and its scary please help.
Take him to the doctor dumbass you don't need to be a genius to figure that out.
Take him to doctor to get checked!
How is he?
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
God... children are so not worth it..
he is too loud i cant reason with him
Spankings need to be legal. Kids need discipline same as adults. But because they are provided for there are no consequences that will instill good behavior. One good spanking will curb 90 percent of future misbehavior. There were no school shooters in the days of spankings I can verify that.
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
dont take any shit for one
Maybe this is how one should handle Putin?
My daughter is 5 and still dealing with tantrums :-(. Trying to find a play therapist to help us get through her feelings.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
They’re never terrible twos , it’s the adults that need support. They are just two
Being a mom to a toolder is a lot to deal with
Wonderful insight. Thank you so much for you videos and knowledge!
My 18 month old is easily stimulated and is now being physically abusive to others
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
Nope none of this has worked. My grandson has horrible tantrums and hits and throws things. I’ve got bruises and scratches
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Your welcome.
Thank you so much!!!
@@VangKevinCatfish your welcome :)
The first part is also important in understanding whats physically happening with them!
Thanks!
Is it normal that most of non breastfed kids got these tantrums? Coz my two kids who are breastfed and born normal delivery doesnt have tantrums at all only my one child who's bottle fed 😔 so maybe it is true that breastmilk is the best.
Hearing you speak while seeing your mouth closed because the video is not in sync is incredibly annoying.
It's funny, in a grim sort of way, that nowadays, we seem to have a need of so called experts, on UA-cam telling us how to handle our children. In earlier times, not so long ago, grandfathers, fathers and mothers with the presence of uncles, aunts, neighbours and friends, communicated their experiences, helping each other. Besides, relatives and neighbours used to take care of difficult moments when parents were losing it with their toddler, almost. It's actually the parents' state of emotional balance that is at the core of handling their kid's tantrums, using common sense and patience. Mindfulness as well.
Thanks for your comment Devon. I agree, parenting these days is different for many people than is was in generations past. It can be very lonely, exhausing and overwhelming if you don't have the benefit of an extended family or community to support you. I think it's great that people have a range of options for seeking support and finding new ways of handling situations when they feel that they aren't parenting they way that they would like to, or when they feel they want to do things differently from how they were raised. Parenting is hard work! I do not profess to be an expert, but I do like to share what I've learned from my studies and experience, in the hope that it can help others.
@@PlayfulPathways Please, you don't have to defend yourself and your work. My comment isn't directed at you, it's the phenomenon of this present time, that internet creates more than ever a tendency to grasp for solutions, answers, and advice from the outside in, while the inside is the DIY reservoir for self-reliance, and authentic personal solutions. Besides, it breeds resilience and confidence, in an inner foundation, an embodiment.
Nowadays, parents' confidence is paper-thin, easy to tear apart by a comment or opinion that is different than their own. Thinking for oneself is out of fashion often. I'm an experienced nanny, and I've observed this trend.
I totally agree with you. As a sahm of a deaf toddler true support systems change everything. And in today's society other adults just stand back and judge your parenting if a child is struggling.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
when your child is way passed 2 and still cant regulate their emotions🥲
Thank you for the info, I do really need this at the moment. My 6 year old son having a tantrum almost everyday especially in the morning . It's really emotional tiring for me.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Your guidance is deeply appreciated. Thank you! God bless you always.
Thanks a ton for helping so many first time moms
This is very helpful for so many reasons. You are brilliant. I wish we were taught this growing up on how to communicate with one another as humans too. I think that would have been a big help.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I'm so happy I learned this before my son was here. He's 18 months now he is learning and tantruming but I feel super great being able to regulate him and teach him deep breaths he tantrums tend to last a minute or two. He seeks for a hug from mama or dada then he's good 👍
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Wait until 3-3.5 years old. That's when sh*t hits the fan! 😂 18 months old tantrums are nothing compared to those
Can I say ,THANKYOU MAAM ❤ for doing a kind of this Video ,
Hi ,I am a first time Mom from Philippines 🇵🇭 and I hardly experiencing this kind of tantrum that my 2 year old Son Going through And Everytime We were dealing this kind ,i feel terrible because it comes one time that i going to spank him and ahouting out to him ,and everytime i've done this to my Son i regret and cry 😭😭😭 Becos Ilove my baby but i dont know myself sometime if this will happen everytime i honestly trying my best not to shout to my baby ,but sometimes i can't say to my self to cool down 😭😭 and this give me sick ,stress and anxiety 😞😭😭😭😭😭
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
My 2 years old 8 month son in his random mood could deliberately not eating or eat less than he should so that my wife would be angry then he proceed to throwing his tantrum crying out loud. Usually after that my wife would give him a hug and sympathy which is my son/s goal all along. So to deal with this? and this is just one of many example
Thanks for your comment. Dealing with toddler tantrums can be very frustrating and exhausing, but it's important to remember that at 2yrs 8months your child does not yet have the ability to manipulate or understand long term consequences/responses. Offering comfort and sympathy to a child who is upset or distressed is the best way to get them back to a regulated state and help them learn to understand and cope with their feelings. You don't have to change your limit, rule or expectation, and in fact it doesn't help your child learn to cope with disappointment/ frustration if you change the boundary because they are struggling to accept it. You can maintain the expectation AND offer them comfort - this is the way to support children to learn to self-regulate.
Thank you
Thank you for this! 🖤
My daughter just started school and every night before bed she freaks out and wants to go to her grandma's house she does this every 20 mins. I hate feeling like the bad guy when i yell at her because she's only 4 but I don't know how else to handle it. I let her cry and tell her no you cant go to grandma's house and stay you have school now and she cries and cries until she's gonna throw up. It makes me and her mother feel horrible and it feels like she doesn't even wanna be around us and views us as bad guys because we won't give her every thing she wants . It's stressful it's it's the point where it's abserious attachment issue that needs to be addressed
This is abuse.
@@salandersalgado4038 haha you don't know jack shit. Mind your business.
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions
What about when they pick up a bad behavior? Such as playful biting or spraying spit, even after you've told them not to...and they do it immediately afterwards and follow it up with a giggle?
Pay attention to your reaction when they do that. Sometime they do certain behaviour looking for attention, doesn’t matter if it’s a good or bad reaction.
There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions