Why You Can’t Force Healing or Awakening | Kavi Jezzie Hockaday
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
- This reflection emphasizes that healing and awakening cannot be forced. True release from past grievances requires honesty, willingness, and persistence, rather than mental or emotional force.
The "hooks" of past grievances-whether from family, relationships, or life events-create a prison within us, dictating how we live. The process of letting go involves deep self-inquiry, devotion, and a natural willingness to untether from the past. When the time and vibration are right, and through sustained inner work, the energetic hold of these "hooks" naturally dissolves.
Freedom emerges when the past no longer has traction, leaving life more peaceful, joyful, and filled with equanimity.
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Lord I've been carrying this around for 5 bloody years. Something clicked listening to this and I can truly look this full in the face now and begin to release it and live my life fully.
Thank you so so much 💗
Excellent, glad it resonated. x
Thanks for sharing, Kavi.
I agree; forcing is futile. I remind myself every morning and throughout the day, to meet everything that arises in an atmosphere of gently kindness. No forcing, no manipulating, but rather using discomfort as an opportunity -- yet again -- for active kindness. This way, even the "disagreeable" -- becomes a sacred teacher.
That's exactly it. Active kindness to experience.Thanks James x
So timely…relevant, honest…clarity…”let it be…let it go…” Who unhooks? Not the little “me”…” “It” unhooks…Force is anathema to Grace…Thank you, dear Kavi
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Yes I call the hook, the juice. The juice can be any story that gives us some energetic charge that strengthens the self. The juiciest juices are being a victim or having guilt, shame, anger and unworthiness. Hard to let them go because they are intoxicating in their drama and dis ease. At the root of all of these juices is fear. Fear of letting the juice go exist because who would we be without that juicey story? Once this question is seen and answered, chunks of the illusion of separation begin to fall away. Thanks for a great video❤
Good words. 'Intoxicating in their drama.' I like that. x
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Thank you for sharing, Kavi. Have a beautiful day. ❤️
Thank you that was very helpful. I find myself going between two extremes of trusting the natural unfoldment but than moments later profound helplessness/despair. Bouncing between these two states is very exhausting.
Yes me to. I fly high feeling the oneness, then come crashing down big time. I think I've sat with my big demons, but something seems to keep wanting my attention. As Kavi says, time to get really honest.
You can 100% force awakening.
Sit alone with zero distractions. Basic food and water nothing else.
If you do this long enough you will break your mind that’s dependent on sense pleasures which is the source of suffering.
That's just a glimpse through the veil, and through deprivation. Useful but not abiding.
@ you can’t awaken while engaging in the very thing that keeps you deluded.
Sense pleasures keep you deluded.
@ Yes but you still have to return to the world with your awakening, and that abiding cannot be forced.
@ says who?
Who is forcing you from your hermitage?
@@Same-l3d Cool..Good luck with that!