I love how the female medic says that people need to be guided out of these hard times… it makes perfect sense because so many people assume that everyone can do it themselves
IKR. So many are expected to do by themselves. Little to no help by another. People. At least where I am are naturally defensive. More so to men. Who refuse to do any mental doctor help. Men who have higher suicide rate compared to women. Other big problems. Not supportive to LGBT+, fear & distrust to doctors, mental doctors. Costs to them are high & people don't or can't pay for it. That be to America's bad health system.
Sadly I think a lot of what we are seeing is a result of 12 years of Conservative rule (albeit the first 5 were a coalition with the Lib Dems). But in terms of actually doing something to help someone else who may be in need this country has been getting steadily worse. Even more so since Johnson was elected. The woman paramedic is so right, we should all stop thinking solely about ourselves and just try and be kinder, more considerate and much less ignorant.
She also said everyone ignores their own responsibility for things being bad and getting worse, don’t forget that part. And that’s true but people also sometimes need help to stop causing the bad, but they have to want to, can’t be forced into it...
My heart broke for that kid when he said his stepmum died. At first glance, people might have seen "some stupid, drunk kid" but emotional pain is still pain. I'm so glad that paramedic was so kind and understanding.
The way I immediately started crying when the first young man admitted that he wished he’d died with his step mother. Grief and survivors guilt are painful monsters that we as young adults are ill prepared to endure. I hope he has gotten whatever help he needed and that he’s doing well now. Depending on when this was filmed he’s likely my age or a bit younger and my heart just absolutely breaks for him. I truly hope he’s in a better place
*“We are living in dark times at the moment, the problems are getting bigger and bigger, not being dealt with because everyone wants to turn a blind eye and say it’s got nothing to do with me. But from the dark times that people are going through, there is a way out of it, there is light at the end of the tunnel, things can get better, but they need to be guided out of these dark places first”* she’s so wise, so right, I like her.
@@resnonverba137because if you actually watched the video he said his step mom died in a car accident and he said that he should be dead with her basically.
@@tamia- If you could recognise a rhetorical comment when you read one you wouldn't need to write such a silly comment. I watched the upload and if the idiot wants to drink himself to death then let him. He needs to grow up.
My heart goes out to the first lad. I understand the depression and the need to just disappear. I’ve been struggling with suicidal thoughts for years and it’s been pretty bad lately. I pray he’s able to seek the proper help he deserves and I hope he starts taking his meds. Poor bloke..
I know where the young lad is coming from. I was in a similar way (but not quite as bad, but still in a terrible place) in December when one of my best mates passed away suddenly on Christmas Eve and I found out on Christmas Day, he was only 30😣 I just felt numb with disbelief for about 2 months afterwards. I avoided drinking at all because I didn't want it to make me feel any worse than I was.
yeah it's hard losing someone :// not a human but i lost my dog who had been with me for 14 years -- i couldn't go home cuz of COVID restrictions so she passed without me being there. The feelings do come in waves. Sometimes i'm good and can talk about the happy memories i shared with her, sometimes I cry and grieve all over again. The important bit is to not only be kind to ourselves but to take steps to honour their memories
Oh that young man made me tear up when he said he should be dead. I had to pause it. When I was young I tried committing suicide after my bf killed himself. I was depressed since I was very young n that just set me off. Things do get better though. It took a very long time and I needed alot of therapy for multiple things but I'm 30 now and doing pretty great.
The nose one, at some point you need a mirror. I’ve done myself a mischief a few times & thought “ahhhh it’s fine” 1st one I remember was in primary school where I collided with a lass who wore glasses. I thought oh aye, bit sore by my right eye but it’s fine let’s keep going. It was only when the dinner ladies & then the school nurse started freaking I was a bit like…huh? Then they showed me in the mirror cause I was kicking off they wanted to phone my mam & have me sent to the hospital. Legit had ripped the skin on the outside of my eye open. Even after it all got sorted it really didn’t hurt at all, but seeing it I was like “OMG, FIX IT!! DO WHAT EVER BUT JUST FIX IT!!”
I opened the door of the cab when I was really drunk once. Asked the cabbie if there was room for a pizza and a carton of beer. When he said "sure is" I puked pepperoni with mozzarella and lager all over the back seat.
There's been the odd time when I've gotten myself hammered, yes. I am British, after all. But thankfully I've never had to go to hospital due to my drinking.
The ambulancd parsmedic said immediatly as they got call i bet his drung man paramedic said i hope hes not covered in vomit then trying to be nice they wernt telling gran about their attitude to him at first maybe she paramedic refrrts ger attitude know she realises his drinking was a sucide attempt poor poor lad
@@KatZwe The thing I don't understand is you could potentially save a person if you just drive them to the hospital and not wait for the ambulance to come all the way and then go all the way back
@@JamesJones77980 Aah! Yes sir maybe that's for the best because it has most of the things that are needed to stabilize someone who's in a critical condition
Right, about a year ago I was driving past an old woman when she fell over on the the foot path, she got back up but I stopped and asked if she was okay she said she was in pain. I was 5 minute drive from hospital. I called 999 and the ambulance came. She has snapped her pelvis and if I had taken her by car i could've killed her due to the injury. That's why you call an ambulance because you just don't know what is happening and professional need to be the ones to make sure everything is okay.
0:53 - "..unconscious in the back of a cab" "*(smacks lips)* .. Probably drunk" And her look as well .. that had to be at least a 3,0 on the Richter Scale :)
Him saying "sorry" illustrates that he knows he was a massive idiot there, like millions of others who regularly get drunk. His circumstances are sad, but in general, I think people who get so drunk they need hospital care should be made to pay for any help they need. It's a stupid choice. It's not an accident to go out on a Friday night and get smashed to the point where you can hurt yourself and others.
He was on antidepressants, that make people much more drunk than they usually would be, and he recently started them, probably didnt realise how messed up you can get by mixing them, so it could have been an accident.
@@2eleven48 The NHS isn't there to act as parents for idiots. They need to help people in genuine need and not waste so much time with irresponsible fools.
@@resnonverba137 ....I'm not sure you've grasped the innate meaning and purpose of the NHS. It is required to administer whatever assistance it can provide to any call-out. The service cannot apply ethics about who is needy or who is not, including wastrels. That is not its mission.
"Thank you for not letting me die." To be fair, though, that's (sort of) their job. They get paid (by His Majesty's Government) to (at least try to) avoid letting people die.
As a mother, I am so glad that cab driver did the decent thing and called an ambulance.
I love how the female medic says that people need to be guided out of these hard times… it makes perfect sense because so many people assume that everyone can do it themselves
IKR. So many are expected to do by themselves. Little to no help by another. People. At least where I am are naturally defensive. More so to men. Who refuse to do any mental doctor help. Men who have higher suicide rate compared to women. Other big problems. Not supportive to LGBT+, fear & distrust to doctors, mental doctors. Costs to them are high & people don't or can't pay for it. That be to America's bad health system.
Sadly I think a lot of what we are seeing is a result of 12 years of Conservative rule (albeit the first 5 were a coalition with the Lib Dems).
But in terms of actually doing something to help someone else who may be in need this country has been getting steadily worse. Even more so since Johnson was elected.
The woman paramedic is so right, we should all stop thinking solely about ourselves and just try and be kinder, more considerate and much less ignorant.
She also said everyone ignores their own responsibility for things being bad and getting worse, don’t forget that part. And that’s true but people also sometimes need help to stop causing the bad, but they have to want to, can’t be forced into it...
OMG so right
Bless his Nan and him for saying sorry 😢 we’ve all been there.
My heart broke for that kid when he said his stepmum died. At first glance, people might have seen "some stupid, drunk kid" but emotional pain is still pain. I'm so glad that paramedic was so kind and understanding.
😢 hope his doing well after 🙏❤️
I wish I could give him a hug. You could tell how much pain he is in. I hope he’s doing better now
He is doing well I’m his cousin I’m the little girl in the back ground
@@kaylawson7878 I'm so glad to hear he's doing better.
@@kaylawson7878❤❤❤ Thanks to you for to give update!
paramedics deserve the world
The way I immediately started crying when the first young man admitted that he wished he’d died with his step mother. Grief and survivors guilt are painful monsters that we as young adults are ill prepared to endure. I hope he has gotten whatever help he needed and that he’s doing well now. Depending on when this was filmed he’s likely my age or a bit younger and my heart just absolutely breaks for him. I truly hope he’s in a better place
At least he was smart enough to take an Uber and not drive
True
*“We are living in dark times at the moment, the problems are getting bigger and bigger, not being dealt with because everyone wants to turn a blind eye and say it’s got nothing to do with me. But from the dark times that people are going through, there is a way out of it, there is light at the end of the tunnel, things can get better, but they need to be guided out of these dark places first”*
she’s so wise, so right, I like her.
That second guy is what I really fear the first guy may become without help :/ I fell down that path while grieving.
Sorry to hear. Hope you are doing better now.
What a sweet boy 😢 I hope he is in a better state of mind now
I am crying for the first young man.
He’d just over done it. I’m sure with his Nan he’ll be fine
Why?
@@resnonverba137because if you actually watched the video he said his step mom died in a car accident and he said that he should be dead with her basically.
@@tamia- If you could recognise a rhetorical comment when you read one you wouldn't need to write such a silly comment. I watched the upload and if the idiot wants to drink himself to death then let him. He needs to grow up.
@@tamia- Look up the word, 'rhetorical'.
My heart goes out to the first lad. I understand the depression and the need to just disappear. I’ve been struggling with suicidal thoughts for years and it’s been pretty bad lately. I pray he’s able to seek the proper help he deserves and I hope he starts taking his meds. Poor bloke..
Stay strong mate, there is always light at the end of the tunnel! ♥
I hope you're doing ok mate I know what it's like to really struggle
I know where the young lad is coming from. I was in a similar way (but not quite as bad, but still in a terrible place) in December when one of my best mates passed away suddenly on Christmas Eve and I found out on Christmas Day, he was only 30😣 I just felt numb with disbelief for about 2 months afterwards. I avoided drinking at all because I didn't want it to make me feel any worse than I was.
yeah it's hard losing someone :// not a human but i lost my dog who had been with me for 14 years -- i couldn't go home cuz of COVID restrictions so she passed without me being there. The feelings do come in waves. Sometimes i'm good and can talk about the happy memories i shared with her, sometimes I cry and grieve all over again. The important bit is to not only be kind to ourselves but to take steps to honour their memories
Hope the lad gets the help 🙏
Poor unfortunate very young man. I hope he's pulled through this patch and that he's okay these days.
Oh that young man made me tear up when he said he should be dead. I had to pause it. When I was young I tried committing suicide after my bf killed himself. I was depressed since I was very young n that just set me off. Things do get better though. It took a very long time and I needed alot of therapy for multiple things but I'm 30 now and doing pretty great.
Im sorry about your boyfriend glad you doing well love tc
I can understand how he feels
Is everything ok? Quite a personal question but just want to help out if needed.
So many of us do as well Denise, please talk to someone, please.
@@thehomelander2183 your a bit of an angel. Blessing
@@thehomelander2183 I've been suffering from depression for a while. SA's government health services can't cope with all the patients.
@@denisepetch6459 fr it can take months to be seen by a psychologist.
God bless you and protect you xx
It broke my heart how he said he should be dead😢
Poor boy.
This is just wholesome
The nose one, at some point you need a mirror. I’ve done myself a mischief a few times & thought “ahhhh it’s fine” 1st one I remember was in primary school where I collided with a lass who wore glasses. I thought oh aye, bit sore by my right eye but it’s fine let’s keep going. It was only when the dinner ladies & then the school nurse started freaking I was a bit like…huh? Then they showed me in the mirror cause I was kicking off they wanted to phone my mam & have me sent to the hospital. Legit had ripped the skin on the outside of my eye open. Even after it all got sorted it really didn’t hurt at all, but seeing it I was like “OMG, FIX IT!! DO WHAT EVER BUT JUST FIX IT!!”
Amazing and wow
Nooo....not the Alexander McQueen's!
Well that first one took a turn.
crisis of dispair rearing its head, poor lad.
Ohh this one is hard hes just 18. Hope he is well now
Hmm, the paramedics just had a bowl to puke in, not the bag? Oy. Anyway, the paramedics are quite beautiful in character.
much respect for the female medic... only problem is that males never get the attention before it's to late.....
If he is unconscious why are you talking to him like he is awake mate he can’t hear you 😂
Who put him in a taxi on his own in that state? I doubt he was put in there awake.
At least he wasn’t driving
Sellers of achol have a responsibility too!
I mean haven't we all been drunk and puking our guts up? I just happened to make it home, and he didn't.
No. Never been drunk yet and I am 22. Just dont understand drinking until you cant walk..
Many people have made this mistake but there’re a difference between puking and falling unconscious.
I opened the door of the cab when I was really drunk once. Asked the cabbie if there was room for a pizza and a carton of beer. When he said "sure is" I puked pepperoni with mozzarella and lager all over the back seat.
There's been the odd time when I've gotten myself hammered, yes. I am British, after all. But thankfully I've never had to go to hospital due to my drinking.
Hi hope he's okay
I’m 8 and I had a seizure. But I’m ok I recovered now
I know a lot about being unconsciousness, I have PNES
The ambulancd parsmedic said immediatly as they got call i bet his drung man paramedic said i hope hes not covered in vomit then trying to be nice they wernt telling gran about their attitude to him at first maybe she paramedic refrrts ger attitude know she realises his drinking was a sucide attempt poor poor lad
ughhhhhhh, this poor poor baby child🥺
Hi
Hay quá
Why didn't the cab driver directly take him to the Hospital?
I mean is there any laws that prohibit you from doing that or something of that sort.
you call, because you do not want to be left alone with that problem, and maybe ambulance is closer to you, than you are to the hospital...
@@KatZwe The thing I don't understand is you could potentially save a person if you just drive them to the hospital and not wait for the ambulance to come all the way and then go all the way back
@@FarzanItis ambulance is more often than not the best decision
@@JamesJones77980 Aah! Yes sir maybe that's for the best because it has most of the things that are needed to stabilize someone who's in a critical condition
Right, about a year ago I was driving past an old woman when she fell over on the the foot path, she got back up but I stopped and asked if she was okay she said she was in pain. I was 5 minute drive from hospital.
I called 999 and the ambulance came.
She has snapped her pelvis and if I had taken her by car i could've killed her due to the injury.
That's why you call an ambulance because you just don't know what is happening and professional need to be the ones to make sure everything is okay.
Good work
0:53 - "..unconscious in the back of a cab"
"*(smacks lips)* .. Probably drunk"
And her look as well .. that had to be at least a 3,0 on the Richter Scale :)
It would do my head in spending all that time studying just to deal with pissheads all night. So frustrating
I know his pain I lost my grandad in 2012 I thought st that time there was nothing left to live for I got the help
1990? So this was 10 years ago??
Pretty good cameras for 2012
it sounded like 1999
He was born in 1990, and he (the paramedic said he was 18 years old) so this was filmed in 2018.
People born in 1990 are/will be 32 in 2022. if the lad was 18 at the time of this video then it happened in 2008
@@kimcutts6153 Maths isn't really your strong suit is it?
"The glass must OF just fell on my nose" - Does really not have proofreaders??? Basic grammar?
Him saying "sorry" illustrates that he knows he was a massive idiot there, like millions of others who regularly get drunk. His circumstances are sad, but in general, I think people who get so drunk they need hospital care should be made to pay for any help they need. It's a stupid choice. It's not an accident to go out on a Friday night and get smashed to the point where you can hurt yourself and others.
...'who get so drunk they need hospital care should be made to pay for any help they need.' You're missing the whole point of the NHS.
He was on antidepressants, that make people much more drunk than they usually would be, and he recently started them, probably didnt realise how messed up you can get by mixing them, so it could have been an accident.
@@AkimboOfficial He said he didn't take them. Do watch properly before commenting.
@@2eleven48 The NHS isn't there to act as parents for idiots. They need to help people in genuine need and not waste so much time with irresponsible fools.
@@resnonverba137 ....I'm not sure you've grasped the innate meaning and purpose of the NHS. It is required to administer whatever assistance it can provide to any call-out. The service cannot apply ethics about who is needy or who is not, including wastrels. That is not its mission.
"Thank you for not letting me die."
To be fair, though, that's (sort of) their job. They get paid (by His Majesty's Government) to (at least try to) avoid letting people die.
The first 1 really hits home
He needs a slap.
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