Real Relationship Questions Everyone Asks | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

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  • @chisalamulenga294
    @chisalamulenga294 Рік тому +63

    This couple is God's gift to married couples....I pray God gives me the wifely wisdom Pastoral Mildred has .
    God bless you Ma'am

  • @simonnelu107
    @simonnelu107 Рік тому +61

    My friends and I were so blessed to attend this conference and we're still single. God bless pastor K and Mildred for pouring into marriages and singles ❤❤

  • @lindaechem2789
    @lindaechem2789 Рік тому +12

    Pastor M you are wisdom personified

  • @robinshellie6989
    @robinshellie6989 Рік тому +10

    I just happen to run up on this video and enjoyed it very much. I love the fact that they are answering the questions with wisdom and according to the word of God. I completely agree with both of their answers. I believe If single and married people would take heed to their advice they would have a successful married life. Kudos to the Okonkwos!! Can’t find teaching/counseling sessions like that. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤

  • @funlola
    @funlola Рік тому +26

    Pastor K & Pastor M NEVER disappoint. God bless you both👌👌👌👌👌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @dassyconcept9536
    @dassyconcept9536 Рік тому +4

    My marriage must be sweet how will I have this two beautiful soul and miss the thing called marriage o wrong. Much love ❤️

  • @MrsGiant
    @MrsGiant Рік тому +12

    Pst M said collect the nagging and the gift😅😅😅, abi make person no loose in both ways
    Thanks for always blessing us from your wealth of knowledge. God shall continually bless you both for us

  • @estherikpeme9078
    @estherikpeme9078 10 місяців тому +1

    I like how it always comes back to prayer and the word with Pastor M.

  • @annysolomon7370
    @annysolomon7370 Рік тому +13

    Pastor M, the way you answered that question of divorce, flesh and blood didn't reveal it to you Ma. So much Wisdom ❤❤, God continue to bless and give you more and more Wisdom 🙏
    Thank you Pastor K, Pastor M is definitely your Product, you both of you are doing absolutely awesome

  • @TrishEden4
    @TrishEden4 Рік тому +4

    You guys are true examples of the faith. You show the simplicity of the Christian walk. My Pastor Mildred, my pastor crush😊 ! May you never fall from the faith. You are changing lives, you have no idea. We love you 😘

  • @anshumansharma3073
    @anshumansharma3073 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Pastor K and Pastor M
    Always Hitting On Point
    God bless you two 🙏

  • @preciousoguntunde5597
    @preciousoguntunde5597 Рік тому +9

    I was really blessed especially the mother in law part

  • @hairstylenelsonuche950
    @hairstylenelsonuche950 Рік тому +7

    Pst. K n M are blessings to mankind. Thank u 4 answering dis call n welldone. Ur teachings bless me alot n they relax my nerves

  • @ngenweicolette3530
    @ngenweicolette3530 Рік тому +10

    I love this Power couple, Pastor K and Pastor M. Thank you both.

  • @sandrasamuel9286
    @sandrasamuel9286 Рік тому +5

    I love you so much Pastor Mildred, you so real, honest, simple, beautiful, and wise. God bless you always 🙏 ❤️

  • @MsLemonpielover
    @MsLemonpielover Рік тому +4

    Honestly, this was just incredible ! I actually dont have the words to describe the level of wisdom

  • @alidadouanla8689
    @alidadouanla8689 Місяць тому

    Waooooo...this couple is a real blessing for us 🙏. Pastor Mildred gave us a real masterclass on marital affairs and infidelity recovery. Thanks a lot

  • @aoeaster
    @aoeaster Рік тому +5

    I thank God for Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred. This is really deep and helpful info here!

  • @rotiflex
    @rotiflex Рік тому +5

    Words can't express how happy I am watching this video, your videos and messages, I seem to "stumble" on them at the right time!!! God bless you and continue to take you higher!

  • @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525
    @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525 Рік тому +7

    God bless you pastor M.🙏 I love how you just say things just how it is.

  • @oluwaseunjayeola9275
    @oluwaseunjayeola9275 Рік тому +5

    God bless, and protect your home pastor K and Pastor M.

  • @loischoji2031
    @loischoji2031 Рік тому +2

    Thank you pm for the session. Just reminds me of one of my pastors who made a vow that the day he finds himself on top of a woman may he die on her.

  • @Mrs.Hk2701
    @Mrs.Hk2701 Місяць тому

    PK & PM are such a blessings .. Thanks for all you do.

  • @angelaizegbune8189
    @angelaizegbune8189 Рік тому

    Pastor Mildred and pastor Funke are simply God's gift to womanhood

  • @odebeatugrace7681
    @odebeatugrace7681 Рік тому +3

    I am really blessed with the teaching. Thank you Pastor k & pastor M.❤❤

  • @siphathiswendlovu
    @siphathiswendlovu Рік тому

    Thank you beautiful couple for allowing God to use you to impart positively to people's lives all over the world.May His blessings continue to follow you and overtake you.

  • @aderonkesamuel6319
    @aderonkesamuel6319 Рік тому +1

    Wow! Thank you so much Pastor K &M.. Thank you for allowing yourself to be used to bless families.
    May the Lord continue to bless you and all that is yours.

  • @Che-ow3ej
    @Che-ow3ej 8 місяців тому

    Thank you pastors for the teaching. GOD keeps blessing your family and ministry forever

  • @Isaiahr7
    @Isaiahr7 26 днів тому

    Powerful couple God Willing I really wish I could just see you both. ❤❤

  • @enumangene6914
    @enumangene6914 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Pastor K and M, I really appreciate you both for this Godly counsel, May God continue to bless and uplift this ministry IJN amen!

  • @I_am_Spiice
    @I_am_Spiice Рік тому

    This message is a blessing, really impactful, practical and honest.....God will continually grant you (mama & papa) strength in this ministry. Thank you ma&sir for this.....from the questions and answers to the word God bless you . I'm indeed blessed, touched and impacted.

  • @janetokeke5604
    @janetokeke5604 Рік тому +1

    Thank you pastor M for your answer concerning motherlaw

  • @mercymfune766
    @mercymfune766 Рік тому +5

    When women are happy😮😊they make everybody happy 🎉😂❤❤❤

  • @bellacynthia8368
    @bellacynthia8368 Рік тому +1

    Thank you pastor M and pastor K❤❤❤

  • @glorygeorge8361
    @glorygeorge8361 Рік тому

    God continue to strengthen you sir and ma that is really marriage no knowledge on what to do thank you guys so so much for this knowledge it will really go a long way to our generation

  • @latonyadampier9449
    @latonyadampier9449 Рік тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @jokeodunaiya2036
    @jokeodunaiya2036 10 місяців тому

    I wish I had this knowledge before

  • @delsiastokes7823
    @delsiastokes7823 Рік тому +2

    Awesome teachings!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @joyfuldaniel8849
    @joyfuldaniel8849 Рік тому

    God bless you Pastors Kingsley and Mildred!

  • @lumbamwansa9485
    @lumbamwansa9485 Рік тому +2

    This is so Insightful...thankyou so much❤

  • @emekaabuah6029
    @emekaabuah6029 Рік тому +2

    "I don't know if you are coming or going "

  • @OkoroNnenna-ef5rc
    @OkoroNnenna-ef5rc Рік тому

    God bless you richly my favorite ❤

  • @chikaokolo4929
    @chikaokolo4929 4 місяці тому

    However, this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.” If you want to get over the hold that lust can have on you, fast and pray.

  • @estherolora8901
    @estherolora8901 Рік тому +1

    Nice Teaching as always Pastor K and M. God bless You!!

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 Рік тому

    👍🥰Yes pastor Kingsley, but men seems to think Its all about having sex, its not what I want a relationship to be.
    Making Love is like the Desert, not the headpoint in a marrige, or what is your opinion about it?🤗💞💞🙏🙏🙏God Bless both of You

  • @tosincrispy2130
    @tosincrispy2130 Рік тому

    WELDONE ma/sir. Great teaching 👍
    All well and perfectly explained.
    But i don't see anything wrong in getting IVF. What about those who are single parents.. either by death or divorce. How about husbands who don't help in raising the children in the right way, leaving the woman doing everything by herself? Aren't they similar? May God help us all.WELDONE ma/sir. Great teaching 👍
    All well and perfectly explained.
    But i don't see anything wrong in getting IVF. What about those who are single parents.. either by death or divorce. How about husbands who don't help in raising the children in the right way, leaving the woman doing everything by herself? Aren't they similar? It's not easy at all for those who can't have babies the normal way.
    May God help us all.

    • @aliciasandy2042
      @aliciasandy2042 Рік тому +3

      I don't think she means anything is wrong with ivf,but the woman is intentionally seeking to be a single parent because she thinks God is taking too long to send her husband. Most persons that are single parents were not by choice. As you said death and divorce etc can lead to that. In that sense she means it's selfish to intentionally want to raise a child by her self because God is taking to long to fulfill her desires.

  • @slimmymo9789
    @slimmymo9789 Рік тому

    I love pastor Kingsley and mildred

  • @mulengachomba
    @mulengachomba Рік тому

    Love love this couple, you are a breath of fresh air

  • @brendaolukilede1055
    @brendaolukilede1055 Рік тому +2

    God bless you both

  • @beeclothings
    @beeclothings Рік тому +1

    Thank You Jesus ❤

  • @Whoisthatgirl2121
    @Whoisthatgirl2121 5 місяців тому

    Be high with the most high

  • @priencesjoy8376
    @priencesjoy8376 Рік тому

    Great job sir/MA , appreciate 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @vjesus4083
    @vjesus4083 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @tariromukaro-jp4ph
    @tariromukaro-jp4ph Рік тому

    Am blessed

  • @chuwanzichristy2518
    @chuwanzichristy2518 Рік тому

    Thank you Pst K and M...

  • @chineduonyesoro3388
    @chineduonyesoro3388 Рік тому +2

    I don't agree with pastor M's view on adoption vs ivf // selfish act. Although that's what she thinks. And it's good she stated it at the beginning.

    • @tomi3283
      @tomi3283 Рік тому +2

      She’s speaking about it in respect to unmarried women, not all women

    • @kaledunni344
      @kaledunni344 Рік тому +2

      The context here is for an unmarried woman. She herself considered IVF in her waiting season as a married woman. She has just asking that you consider the intent and know what exactly to focus on.

    • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
      @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Рік тому

      And her first child is sdopted

  • @ngochiz5407
    @ngochiz5407 Рік тому +1

    God bless you ma and sir much ❤.

  • @gilberttakyi3265
    @gilberttakyi3265 Рік тому

    very honest

  • @pamelakeku7903
    @pamelakeku7903 Рік тому

    So blessed. ❤❤❤

  • @naamorosah
    @naamorosah Рік тому

    God bless you 🙏

  • @isaacjosephs6570
    @isaacjosephs6570 Рік тому +45

    “How do I tell my wife to lose weight without hurting her feelings?” - Ans: Do date nights in the gym 🏋🏾‍♂️🌚🌚🤲🏼. Don’t mention🌚🤣😂😂😂 😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @hairstylenelsonuche950
      @hairstylenelsonuche950 Рік тому +3

      Do road walk together n encourage her.
      Talk about it in a funny manner dats wen she is happy or better still tell sum1 she listens to help u communicate it

    • @isaacjosephs6570
      @isaacjosephs6570 Рік тому

      @@hairstylenelsonuche950 Good idea also 👍🏽😅😅😅

    • @SauLifestyle
      @SauLifestyle 11 місяців тому

      @@hairstylenelsonuche950good one! Walking is underestimated

  • @Aghachiprecious
    @Aghachiprecious Рік тому

    Thank you soo much😍😍😍😍

  • @Soulmateswithl
    @Soulmateswithl Рік тому +2

    I said my own mind with full chest😂😂😂

  • @ethelosamgbi
    @ethelosamgbi Рік тому +3

    There was a question on slido you did not get to answer, "is it okay for single people in a relationship to do everything else except sex?"

    • @heavenlyconsciousness6192
      @heavenlyconsciousness6192 Рік тому +10

      Sexual purity is what God require from us as a Christian, not a celibate,so if no sex in the relationship no need for kissing and touching,because no one can carry a fire in their palm and it won’t burn them

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 Рік тому +3

      @@heavenlyconsciousness6192 well said. Pastor Kingsley also says the same thing

  • @olusolaomole6700
    @olusolaomole6700 Рік тому

    On point ma

  • @fragrancedeparadiso443
    @fragrancedeparadiso443 Рік тому

    Pastor you mentioned that you're not a fan of sex toys. Does this mean if someone else is a fan, then it's okay to use it? Is it a sin to use sex toys or not, whether the user is single or married; is masturbation a sin whether it involves both married and singles?
    Thanks

    • @lumbamwansa9485
      @lumbamwansa9485 Рік тому +2

      Anything that replaces the presence of your spouse is infact called cheating whether they are aware or not.
      Sex toys bring or give pleasure which is infact supposed to be given to or recieved from your spouse. So the sex toy is a 3rd party already that has potential of replacing you.

    • @PATRICKOJAH-hv8wz
      @PATRICKOJAH-hv8wz Рік тому

      His answer made it clear that sex toys are against God's principles!

  • @lush4real
    @lush4real Рік тому

    There are people that have complications like destroyed fallopian tubes and the only way they can get pregnant is through ivf. Eggs are perfect, womb is perfect. Ivf is the only option they have.

    • @tomi3283
      @tomi3283 Рік тому +4

      Pastor M isn’t speaking against IVF, she’s speaking against single unmarried women getting IVF without a father in the picture.

    • @kaledunni344
      @kaledunni344 Рік тому +1

      The context here is for an unmarried woman. She herself considered IVF in her waiting season as a married woman. She has just asking that you consider the intent and know what exactly to focus on.

  • @onyekastanislausokwundu7334

    "It doesn't matter who wins an election..."😜

  • @HAIRmeoutWEIGHmein
    @HAIRmeoutWEIGHmein Рік тому

    Does anyone know what the name of the church is that they had the conference at?

    • @natodun1128
      @natodun1128 Рік тому +1

      It was at RCCG Heaven's Glorious Embassy in Plano, Texas

    • @HAIRmeoutWEIGHmein
      @HAIRmeoutWEIGHmein Рік тому +2

      @Nat Odun Thanks so much! I'm assuming that it's a Nigerian church, and I have a friend who might be interested.

  • @olusolaomole6700
    @olusolaomole6700 Рік тому

    You are right.

  • @marianpokuahdadzie9564
    @marianpokuahdadzie9564 6 місяців тому

    I like Pastor Mildred, she's too forward in a good way

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 Рік тому +1

    Why is sex always the First thing men want from a woman, there are much more than that i'n a good woman, why you I always feel like they are treating me as a prostitute woman, now I never use to be like this online or from the first month, it does not matter how tended I feel for a man, but i'm not going sell my body because he wants to have sex with me, I am worth much more than give him sex if we are not married 🤗👍🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank You pastor Mildred i do apprieate your videos

  • @evekembumbulu1599
    @evekembumbulu1599 Рік тому

    Okay, myself I don't agree at all. Cos when am drunk with alcohol, that's when i really desire to only spend time with God. And etc.

    • @wisedelphine3109
      @wisedelphine3109 22 дні тому

      Your problem is a special kind of deliverance problem

  • @sidneydioru660
    @sidneydioru660 Рік тому +3

    Pastor K & Pastor M, I have always been a very hard follower of you and I stand strong with you always but concerning the matter of the wife going out and the husband saying no or not allowing her go out, I kindly ask to disagree with you in the following ma and sir:
    In Genesis when the Snake came to the woman, the woman didn't consider letting Adam know and here we are today. I seriously believe it is not a matter of being conservative but that yes, the woman has the right to go anyway but who is held responsible when something happens to the lady? Who will be blame as the husband is responsible in caring and looking out for the lady in all things. What if the husband has a leading not to refuse allowing the wife to go and even when he try to explain the wife can't get it because there somethings that God would be saying that immediately it cannot be explained and you say the husband should understand.
    Don't you think that in some cases, the husbanding saying no, may just be to protect the wife in a way that is being misunderstood.
    Furthermore, if it was the father of the wife, would she be disobedient to the father? As we know, the husband becomes the father of the father of the wife as well and there are occasion the husband as a father needs to take some decision to protect the wife in ways she would not understand.
    I strongly believe that the husband is not never against the wife in anyway, and whatever decision and choices the husband make or take would be in the best interest of the wife and not against her.
    It is never in every case that a husband has an evil intention towards a wife going out.

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 Рік тому +27

      The husband needs to explain these things to his wife so she is satisfied. He can't just tell her not to go out, he is not her father, that idea is not biblical, and she is an adult. Communication is key. Many women only have a problem with submission because they don't believe or their husbands have not shown them that their decision is for their wife's good. Women submit everywhere. If you can convince a woman to marry you, you should be able to convince her not command her about other things.

    • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
      @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Рік тому +2

      You have spoken as a good person. Fact is that most men don't say don't go out from a good place. The ave traditional man does it for control ,not because he loves his wife

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 Рік тому

    🔥🔥❤️

  • @oluwatobimayowa2235
    @oluwatobimayowa2235 Рік тому

    ❤❤

  • @stormship1647
    @stormship1647 11 місяців тому

    God Bless ‘em..virtue is leaving them ..they look a bit tired ..

  • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
    @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Рік тому +1

    Bringing a child into this world because you want someone to look after you in old age is SELFISH
    Whether single or married
    Thinking your child don't need a Daddy in his life is arrogance
    We need to understand we are not to conform to this world of thinking. Marriage is good, being a parent is good ,but this is NOT the whole duty of man.
    Society says you are incomplete without them but God did not say so.
    While doing IVF to get a child as a single person is more noble than fornicating, God would judge our motives.

  • @tzoneo8029
    @tzoneo8029 Рік тому

    Really? The world revolves around who?