STORYTIME : My blesser experience ! Doing Anything For The Soft Life | South African Youtuber

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @jaiyaalexandra144
    @jaiyaalexandra144 2 роки тому +169

    There is nothing wrong with drinking wine from Woolies, Spier is like R60, there is nothing wrong with wearing clothes from Legit or the Fix. We just need to be content with what we have and learn to hustle for our own.

    • @liehash
      @liehash 2 роки тому +7

      Or just go on over to the discount stores for a Zara & Polo fit. Stay in your lane and sleep peacefully at night.

    • @ZNMelowLeloNeka
      @ZNMelowLeloNeka 2 роки тому +8

      nazo izingubo ze The Fix is softlife for some of us

    • @nizarr21
      @nizarr21 Рік тому +1

      ​@@ZNMelowLeloNeka girl, prices in The Fix (specifically in Zambia) are not affordable for the average Zambian, softlife for sure!

  • @leratoramz6515
    @leratoramz6515 3 роки тому +29

    That videographer guy was your guardian angel.

  • @orchid2407
    @orchid2407 3 роки тому +186

    "You obviously love me if you are sending me money" is not true. These men are giving women their spare change, it might be a lot for you but remember it is his spare change not proof of love or committment.

  • @naledimodise7175
    @naledimodise7175 3 роки тому +381

    This is very insightful. Work hard for the life that you want, nothing comes easy. Soft life seems glamorous but at what cost?!

  • @lithembat1324
    @lithembat1324 3 роки тому +99

    I love how chilled you are, the sarcasm in your voice nje

  • @asiphentuli184
    @asiphentuli184 3 роки тому +136

    A man with money gives you everything but YOU pay for it . So glad you ladies were able to escape.

  • @bridelamb2000
    @bridelamb2000 2 роки тому +16

    "Sizalwa abafundisi thina guys" I felt this!!!
    Praise be unto Jesus, He prevailed that day.

  • @vaarbz6764
    @vaarbz6764 3 роки тому +66

    This is probably the first time I listened to a story time from start to finish. I love your personality.

  • @msflowie_
    @msflowie_ 3 роки тому +88

    Thank you for informing the girls out there. It's really hard to work and build your life by yourself but eventually you reap the benefits, I hope a lot of young women get to see this. God was protecting you.

  • @freshangel1
    @freshangel1 3 роки тому +55

    Thank you for the insight- the selling you part really broke my heart what in the world : the entitlement of it all.
    A blesser is a softer version of a human trafficker !!!!!

  • @chosenqueen5109
    @chosenqueen5109 3 роки тому +64

    You girls were divinely protected 😲💚

  • @JessicaBusii
    @JessicaBusii 3 роки тому +85

    I hope this video goes viral. Many girls need to hear this!!

  • @sanmak3283
    @sanmak3283 3 роки тому +52

    I hope you bought the videographer a big Thank You gift. He was your guardian angel or sent by your ancestors, whichever you believe 😊. Great story, great lesson for all.

    • @tatendamusiiwa2843
      @tatendamusiiwa2843 3 роки тому +4

      Totally agree. He really pulled through like a real brother. Look for him and thank him. I hope so many young girls can watch this and listen. May you be blessed with your heart's desires you look like you can conquer the world. Beauty and a whole powerful brain.

  • @PortiaRufu
    @PortiaRufu 3 роки тому +84

    UA-cam recommended this video and I don’t regret clicking
    😂😂😂😂😂haaaa no ways, please i laughed so much on this video. The way you telling the story, love it

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  3 роки тому +2

      😂😂 Thank you mama❤️

    • @anathi_m21
      @anathi_m21 3 роки тому +1

      Same... I'm literally on the floor😂😂😂🤣🤣😭😂😂😭😭💔💔

  • @leandraK
    @leandraK 3 роки тому +74

    Listening to this I am so thankful of the friends I have. As childish as they are, they are extremely wise. I have had blessors offer and vele sometimes soft life is so tempting but they always advise against even though they are also tempted by the idea of it.

    • @jaiyaalexandra144
      @jaiyaalexandra144 2 роки тому +5

      I've never even been tempted, no amount of money is, worth my self -worth and trust me I'm easy on the eye. I was just raised to be content with what I have and to pray for more.

  • @fundiswajuqu1177
    @fundiswajuqu1177 3 роки тому +51

    Human trafficking sekuyinto of the past😂😂😂your sarcasm is on another level and I love how you don't sugarcoat anything. You have gained a new subbie

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  3 роки тому +2

      Of the past 💔😂, thank you ❤️😍

  • @carolgreenfield5251
    @carolgreenfield5251 3 роки тому +63

    Remember to run ur numbers for your retirement now to know how much u need to set aside now until then. Don't get used to a life u cant sustain when ur strongest assets are gone.♡

  • @zhouadwina918
    @zhouadwina918 3 роки тому +25

    blesser blessee relationships have nothing to do with love its all about what each can get from the other its about control and lust

  • @bayandazondi3145
    @bayandazondi3145 3 роки тому +45

    keep the story times coming. loved this

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 3 роки тому +35

    Such videos should be promoted to warn others. I keep warning young girls about the darker world.

  • @FebineAwuor
    @FebineAwuor 3 роки тому +76

    I'm glad I learned something from this. Nothing always come for free and never to trust anyone.

  • @CindyBabalwa_
    @CindyBabalwa_ 2 роки тому +6

    That first line "Kuyafana you are sinner, you've got a child you might as well do it" 😂😂🤣🤣 Indeed I am

  • @nokwandadlamini3534
    @nokwandadlamini3534 3 роки тому +62

    I love your honesty and i definitely enjoyed the way you told the story, you're funny

  • @Zeeiconoclastic
    @Zeeiconoclastic 3 роки тому +44

    Yeah I am glad I saw this video. Social media really gives us just a glimpse of things and we don't even know the full story. Thank for sharing your story.

  • @robbylebotha
    @robbylebotha 2 роки тому +11

    Men are simple,"If I pay for it, I own it and I can do what I want with it". A guy that can bless you is not a problem, if he can afford to bless you then he can teach how or plug you on how you can make money too, if he doesn't even try to do that then you're in for trouble. It feels nice to know you can help your girl financially but it feels even better to help her make her own money too.

  • @gudanimashamba2642
    @gudanimashamba2642 2 роки тому +2

    "you are a sinner, you even have child" rent free🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂gurll I enjoyed

  • @User326-y3q
    @User326-y3q 3 роки тому +26

    Yhooo you have made my day😂😂 Your personality is everything!!!!

  • @dinisibiya7493
    @dinisibiya7493 3 роки тому +19

    Thanks dear, hopefully our younger sisters are learning...You escaped through the grace, 1 grace.

  • @pearlnkuna4318
    @pearlnkuna4318 3 роки тому +33

    You are so soft and sooo calming😍Love you, loved the story time❤️

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you mama❤️, I love you more 🥺😍

  • @mosimatjale6756
    @mosimatjale6756 3 роки тому +7

    we need a part 2 please
    you such a great storyteller

  • @JessicaBusii
    @JessicaBusii 3 роки тому +18

    Wow. To be honest at first I was a bit judgey wudgey but then I totally understood your why at the time. Just so glad you ladies got out safe!!!!

  • @siphiwembambo3842
    @siphiwembambo3842 3 роки тому +16

    Love you Sbusie and I love how you add isiZulu in the mix. Ngaze ngakuthanda!!

  • @dimakhoele6058
    @dimakhoele6058 3 роки тому +55

    Women must work hard, imagine all these for a cellphone, a dress, food...bathong. these are basics u can do from your own salary mos. Contract phone costs around 200 per month. Being lazy is a challenge 😴. Work women , even if its cleaning and domestic work.

  • @leemnisi3421
    @leemnisi3421 3 роки тому +9

    How did u guys even escape? U went to the toilet and then? Was it at a garage or what? Did they see u walking out of the toilet? Did u run or requested an Uber? Didn't they try to hurt u while escaping? Full details pls

  • @okuhledinga6011
    @okuhledinga6011 3 роки тому +17

    Enjoyed this video. Wish I knew how to do makeup because yours looks amazing. I don't even know the different brushes. Your story telling is amazing. Please make more videos

  • @Mntungwa77
    @Mntungwa77 2 роки тому +38

    You girls are brave! I can’t imagine myself just following someone I do not know!!!! Glad you managed to escape!!! By the way, you look great with makeup….but you actually look better without it

  • @philistasmakhanya8162
    @philistasmakhanya8162 3 роки тому +14

    Your makeup look low-key gave Mihlali Ndamase😍🔥 umuhle mama🥺

    • @helvitangi8199
      @helvitangi8199 3 роки тому +3

      I thought I was the only one who saw it.

    • @ItsTynoe
      @ItsTynoe 3 роки тому +1

      Right!!

    • @shyleensibanda4235
      @shyleensibanda4235 3 роки тому +1

      I clicked to the video thinking its mihlali but ended up watching the whole video and l enjoyed

    • @philistasmakhanya8162
      @philistasmakhanya8162 3 роки тому

      @@shyleensibanda4235 that's how I also became a subscriber lol

  • @La_Mbingo
    @La_Mbingo 3 роки тому +20

    Thank you for opening up to us about something this scary. Thank God you guys were saved.
    Unomoya o phansi, ngithanda indlela okhuluma ngayo.

  • @natasha.n
    @natasha.n 3 роки тому +5

    i missed some parts because i’m not zulu but this was genuinely worth it. its insightful

    • @Itsamoovee
      @Itsamoovee 3 роки тому

      You didn’t miss much she just repeated what she said in English in Zulu

  • @karenmwengwe5052
    @karenmwengwe5052 3 роки тому +3

    Jhoo. What a narrow escape. Soft life 🙌🏾

  • @yonelamguca230
    @yonelamguca230 2 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed both the story and watching the make up

  • @xolilehlomphosegokgo2224
    @xolilehlomphosegokgo2224 3 роки тому +10

    A re i snatched my blesser from my friend 🤣

  • @kimberlybangira8304
    @kimberlybangira8304 2 роки тому +3

    you always have to carry money with you... we call it “che rough” or money just incase they do you rough... thx for the story

  • @elizabethsilas3191
    @elizabethsilas3191 3 роки тому +96

    Not to sound rude but we don’t all understand your language and it makes it hard for us to keep up. Not only SouthAfricans are watching 💕

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  3 роки тому +41

      Sorry mama ❤️😩. I should accommodate all of you. Next time i will speak in English

    • @reginahmwepwe5904
      @reginahmwepwe5904 3 роки тому +15

      @@SbusiePhoswa please add subtitles

    • @marthaniitembu1077
      @marthaniitembu1077 3 роки тому +6

      I almost said the same thing.

    • @taniachara77
      @taniachara77 3 роки тому +69

      I think maybe subtitles. She has a right to speak her own language and cater to those who understand. She’s not English. Her language matters as well. People don’t say that when watching French videos, so let’s respect African languages as well.

    • @Teekay_Twala
      @Teekay_Twala 3 роки тому +10

      @@SbusiePhoswa Simnandi is’zulu, kuncono ama subtitles.

  • @BABALWAGUDLA
    @BABALWAGUDLA 2 роки тому +1

    The sarcasm is what gets me 😄..

  • @zamamjilo2838
    @zamamjilo2838 3 роки тому +7

    You are gorgeous and hilarious,siyabonga sisi for sharing your story definitely going to help many girls ngoba siyazithanda izinto

  • @titileboea6518
    @titileboea6518 3 роки тому +56

    Not you referring to them as “ o D’banj” 😭😭😂😂😂😂. Love how the look turned out and I absolutely enjoyed the story❤️

  • @katlegomaserumule9076
    @katlegomaserumule9076 2 роки тому

    My new favorite UA-camr 😍

  • @michelleb9598
    @michelleb9598 3 роки тому +16

    Sorry for the nonsense I’ve been leaving in your comment section. This story is great xoxo 💋

  • @ZEROO333
    @ZEROO333 2 роки тому

    Hehehehe I like the nonses part of the song in the car 😂😂😂 the world will be crazy liking the song😂😂😂

  • @justineiyambo5197
    @justineiyambo5197 3 роки тому +25

    Hi there. Absolutely loved your story time . I’m from Nambia so I missed the parts you spoke in your language but other than that I really liked it

    • @campusdiary_ro9328
      @campusdiary_ro9328 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah, me too, I’m Ghanaian. I think subtitles of translation would have been good. I’m a UA-camr too. You can subscribe

  • @sbahlembuthu8271
    @sbahlembuthu8271 3 роки тому +13

    It’s the “Uwumnini mandla wonke yena manje”😂😂💀 for me
    Yoh I’ve been laughing 💀 when you said “leziya ngoma nje zazibheda 💀 ngang’qala ukuzwa iyngoma eybheda kanje😂😂”

  • @nokuthulambonani1284
    @nokuthulambonani1284 3 роки тому +7

    May we please get a part 2 of the escape. 🤣😭

  • @theesandiselebuthelezi1381
    @theesandiselebuthelezi1381 2 роки тому

    Haweeemahhh😭😭😭😭 I am so happy you are safe 🥺♥️

    • @theesandiselebuthelezi1381
      @theesandiselebuthelezi1381 2 роки тому

      But I love how arlerting this is for the girls tight there 🥺 thank you so much sbusie

  • @lesedilucymotloung
    @lesedilucymotloung 3 роки тому +15

    You are so beautiful, your story time is so interesting. I can just imagine if the videographer didn't recognize you 🙀 mathata

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  3 роки тому +2

      Imagine 😭, the trauma !!
      Thank you mama ❤️

  • @willbullock
    @willbullock 2 роки тому +3

    Hello Sbusie 👋 your video looks very informative, but indeed you are so beautiful without any makeup 💄 😊 Abundant Blessings 🙌

  • @trueprincess
    @trueprincess 2 роки тому

    Wow ayi emhlabeni kunzima guys!! 😩😩😩 loved this storytime

  • @sanelefavorkukulela8007
    @sanelefavorkukulela8007 3 роки тому +7

    'guys thina sizalwa abafundisi' 😩😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😩

  • @ChroniclesOfANamibianGirlChild
    @ChroniclesOfANamibianGirlChild 3 роки тому +15

    Subtitles please, watching from Namibia…
    This was very insightful.

  • @beinspired813
    @beinspired813 3 роки тому +20

    I wish you spoke more English this story is amazing but am missing some parts😭 love from kenya

    • @whitneymisati3929
      @whitneymisati3929 3 роки тому +1

      HAHA we must be seeenn!!! hahaha her story is amaizing KE we representing

  • @veeberry6720
    @veeberry6720 2 роки тому +5

    Sending love from Kenya,loved your story sis

  • @leratonkhethoa7369
    @leratonkhethoa7369 2 роки тому +1

    We need a continuation of how you actually excaped from the bathroom till you got home

  • @mushimbwakafuta4083
    @mushimbwakafuta4083 3 роки тому +9

    I wonder why its even called a soft life, is it because it looks good on the outside or what?

    • @thandosdance1504
      @thandosdance1504 2 роки тому

      I agree with u coz there's nothing soft about it. It's more of s*x slavery which is worse than hard labour.

  • @Lesegohhh
    @Lesegohhh 3 роки тому +3

    Livers ain’t the same , I felt that 😆

  • @yolisajobela7029
    @yolisajobela7029 2 роки тому

    I'm literally binge-watching your channel 🤣🤣

  • @hannyjaffer4968
    @hannyjaffer4968 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your story n It may change someone out their

  • @bafedilemotshome7524
    @bafedilemotshome7524 2 роки тому +1

    Wow glad you are safe.thanks for teaching young woman.

  • @ayandamgiba3912
    @ayandamgiba3912 3 роки тому +16

    I've learnt a lot from this storytime. Thank you sis 😍

  • @PreciousKhuduge
    @PreciousKhuduge 11 місяців тому

    I enjoyed and learn from this a lot of ladies are missing god know what has happened to them

  • @jaiyaalexandra144
    @jaiyaalexandra144 2 роки тому +3

    How old were you when you had your daughter? I'm asking because I used to be a real risk-taker but after having my baby I won't put my life in danger because my child needs me.

  • @noxolosibenya5054
    @noxolosibenya5054 2 роки тому +1

    "Ngabe umhlaba ayahlanya mawungathanda ingoma enje" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you killed me

  • @angelalerato_m
    @angelalerato_m 2 роки тому

    Yoh I’m so glad you guys managed to escape.

  • @conversationswithzandymfek2720
    @conversationswithzandymfek2720 3 роки тому +3

    Umuhle without make up anyway- just a natural dark beauty

  • @selaelosetsiba5
    @selaelosetsiba5 3 роки тому +1

    Hey where did you buy your gown ?

  • @nokuphumelelemsweli603
    @nokuphumelelemsweli603 2 роки тому +33

    Dear Sbusie, I stumbled on your sott life/blesservideo. Though I don't use make up I was impressed by your skill in the application and that has broaden my passion in helping those who have interest in exploring in their beauty.
    Your story time is educational, enlightening and supportive to people's every day life experiences-as a people we sometimes find ourselves facing with challenging incidents that we don't know how we can tackle the situation swiftly without causing alarm to the pepertraitor or raising eyebrows of those around. You have the beauty and grey matter, continue to arm and encourage those who find your subject matter useful. Thank you
    From Penny Msweli

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 роки тому +7

      Oh My God 🤭🤭
      Thank you so much 🥺❤️

  • @nokukhanyasangweni5246
    @nokukhanyasangweni5246 3 роки тому +7

    Please list the products that you used to achieve this look. Please and Thank you 🙂

  • @samukelodlamini7086
    @samukelodlamini7086 Рік тому

    Odibanji😂😂😂😂 Wena kahle kahle uyiSurviver wena because wow... Mpilon lobuyphila

  • @Sportlight_
    @Sportlight_ 3 роки тому +8

    Who came here from Naledi's Channel? Tap in

  • @esonasiphomgcwaba5700
    @esonasiphomgcwaba5700 3 роки тому +3

    😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"lezangoma leziya zazibheda"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @araesmelisa2819
    @araesmelisa2819 3 роки тому +40

    You have great content but you take long to get to the point....😩

    • @NonhlanhlaLima
      @NonhlanhlaLima Рік тому +2

      That's very true..I even skip some of her video 😢

  • @miss_justice
    @miss_justice 3 роки тому +2

    Yani siza ivideographer 😭😭 thank you for sharing 🤎🤎.

  • @revolutionforexmentorship1605
    @revolutionforexmentorship1605 3 роки тому +5

    I’m from Lesotho but I heard everything you said, thanks

  • @thandekilegumede8293
    @thandekilegumede8293 2 роки тому +1

    I died when you said, “ le ayisoze yazwiwa abantu”😂😂😂😂😅🤣

  • @wenzilemayisa5186
    @wenzilemayisa5186 2 роки тому

    Thank you for being a sister for real.

  • @tukienyundu9345
    @tukienyundu9345 2 роки тому +1

    Please add subtitles...couldn't understand some things but totally got your story.
    Thank you for sharing.😊

  • @mmeliskosana3050
    @mmeliskosana3050 3 роки тому +2

    "guys, thina sizalwa habafundisi" 😂😂😂😂

  • @zubenathimvovo8087
    @zubenathimvovo8087 2 роки тому

    At least the videographer warned you😮oh my word. Yoh

  • @sthembisoterry2211
    @sthembisoterry2211 2 роки тому

    Perfect 👌🏽 what shade /product is your foundation and number?

  • @marthaniitembu1077
    @marthaniitembu1077 3 роки тому +3

    I didn't get the part how it all ended. Language barrier 🤔🤔

  • @Ilubalyachalo
    @Ilubalyachalo 2 роки тому

    Hhay bo as uhwaya ikhanda ngeBrush it sounds like plastic rubbing against the brush.

  • @philslively
    @philslively 2 роки тому

    😅😅😅 "umnini mandla wonke" I love you!!!

  • @mbalenhlendimande6176
    @mbalenhlendimande6176 2 роки тому +1

    oD'banj laba😭😂😂😂😂🤣

  • @CANDIEELU
    @CANDIEELU 3 роки тому +13

    Greetings 🇯🇲 loved the lessons

  • @akhonamkunyana5672
    @akhonamkunyana5672 3 роки тому +1

    Lmao its the part yengoma ebhedayo for me 😂😂😂😂😂 you're funny 🤣🤣

  • @Miss_Nontoe
    @Miss_Nontoe Рік тому

    😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂Sbucie u are so funny i cant 😅😂

  • @pearlem3421
    @pearlem3421 3 роки тому +4

    hey, thank you so much for sharing your story.
    PS. I really loved your concealer, do you mind sharing which concealer you used?

  • @mapulemampuru6584
    @mapulemampuru6584 2 роки тому

    Okay but HOW did you guys exactly escape? I was eager for that part.

  • @katlegopapudi
    @katlegopapudi 3 роки тому +10

    Omg I missed your videos so much, I kept checking your channel for new videos everyday 😂❤️

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  3 роки тому

      😭❤️ I appreciate you mama ❤️😍

  • @phakahmazibuko7968
    @phakahmazibuko7968 3 роки тому +1

    “Ngiyingane kaMfundisi” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 I couldn’t believe you said that 😂😂😂

  • @feziwesodwele1907
    @feziwesodwele1907 3 роки тому

    Girl you the vibe as for “sizalwa ngabafundisi 💀💀💀umuhle always value your self