There is nothing wrong with drinking wine from Woolies, Spier is like R60, there is nothing wrong with wearing clothes from Legit or the Fix. We just need to be content with what we have and learn to hustle for our own.
"You obviously love me if you are sending me money" is not true. These men are giving women their spare change, it might be a lot for you but remember it is his spare change not proof of love or committment.
Thank you for informing the girls out there. It's really hard to work and build your life by yourself but eventually you reap the benefits, I hope a lot of young women get to see this. God was protecting you.
Thank you for the insight- the selling you part really broke my heart what in the world : the entitlement of it all. A blesser is a softer version of a human trafficker !!!!!
I hope you bought the videographer a big Thank You gift. He was your guardian angel or sent by your ancestors, whichever you believe 😊. Great story, great lesson for all.
Totally agree. He really pulled through like a real brother. Look for him and thank him. I hope so many young girls can watch this and listen. May you be blessed with your heart's desires you look like you can conquer the world. Beauty and a whole powerful brain.
UA-cam recommended this video and I don’t regret clicking 😂😂😂😂😂haaaa no ways, please i laughed so much on this video. The way you telling the story, love it
Listening to this I am so thankful of the friends I have. As childish as they are, they are extremely wise. I have had blessors offer and vele sometimes soft life is so tempting but they always advise against even though they are also tempted by the idea of it.
I've never even been tempted, no amount of money is, worth my self -worth and trust me I'm easy on the eye. I was just raised to be content with what I have and to pray for more.
Remember to run ur numbers for your retirement now to know how much u need to set aside now until then. Don't get used to a life u cant sustain when ur strongest assets are gone.♡
Yeah I am glad I saw this video. Social media really gives us just a glimpse of things and we don't even know the full story. Thank for sharing your story.
Men are simple,"If I pay for it, I own it and I can do what I want with it". A guy that can bless you is not a problem, if he can afford to bless you then he can teach how or plug you on how you can make money too, if he doesn't even try to do that then you're in for trouble. It feels nice to know you can help your girl financially but it feels even better to help her make her own money too.
Women must work hard, imagine all these for a cellphone, a dress, food...bathong. these are basics u can do from your own salary mos. Contract phone costs around 200 per month. Being lazy is a challenge 😴. Work women , even if its cleaning and domestic work.
How did u guys even escape? U went to the toilet and then? Was it at a garage or what? Did they see u walking out of the toilet? Did u run or requested an Uber? Didn't they try to hurt u while escaping? Full details pls
Enjoyed this video. Wish I knew how to do makeup because yours looks amazing. I don't even know the different brushes. Your story telling is amazing. Please make more videos
You girls are brave! I can’t imagine myself just following someone I do not know!!!! Glad you managed to escape!!! By the way, you look great with makeup….but you actually look better without it
I think maybe subtitles. She has a right to speak her own language and cater to those who understand. She’s not English. Her language matters as well. People don’t say that when watching French videos, so let’s respect African languages as well.
It’s the “Uwumnini mandla wonke yena manje”😂😂💀 for me Yoh I’ve been laughing 💀 when you said “leziya ngoma nje zazibheda 💀 ngang’qala ukuzwa iyngoma eybheda kanje😂😂”
How old were you when you had your daughter? I'm asking because I used to be a real risk-taker but after having my baby I won't put my life in danger because my child needs me.
Dear Sbusie, I stumbled on your sott life/blesservideo. Though I don't use make up I was impressed by your skill in the application and that has broaden my passion in helping those who have interest in exploring in their beauty. Your story time is educational, enlightening and supportive to people's every day life experiences-as a people we sometimes find ourselves facing with challenging incidents that we don't know how we can tackle the situation swiftly without causing alarm to the pepertraitor or raising eyebrows of those around. You have the beauty and grey matter, continue to arm and encourage those who find your subject matter useful. Thank you From Penny Msweli
There is nothing wrong with drinking wine from Woolies, Spier is like R60, there is nothing wrong with wearing clothes from Legit or the Fix. We just need to be content with what we have and learn to hustle for our own.
Or just go on over to the discount stores for a Zara & Polo fit. Stay in your lane and sleep peacefully at night.
nazo izingubo ze The Fix is softlife for some of us
@@ZNMelowLeloNeka girl, prices in The Fix (specifically in Zambia) are not affordable for the average Zambian, softlife for sure!
That videographer guy was your guardian angel.
"You obviously love me if you are sending me money" is not true. These men are giving women their spare change, it might be a lot for you but remember it is his spare change not proof of love or committment.
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This is very insightful. Work hard for the life that you want, nothing comes easy. Soft life seems glamorous but at what cost?!
Well said there Mrs Modise
I love how chilled you are, the sarcasm in your voice nje
Thank you mama 😅❤️
A man with money gives you everything but YOU pay for it . So glad you ladies were able to escape.
"Sizalwa abafundisi thina guys" I felt this!!!
Praise be unto Jesus, He prevailed that day.
The mfundisi prayers will be answered
This is probably the first time I listened to a story time from start to finish. I love your personality.
Thank you for informing the girls out there. It's really hard to work and build your life by yourself but eventually you reap the benefits, I hope a lot of young women get to see this. God was protecting you.
Thank you for the insight- the selling you part really broke my heart what in the world : the entitlement of it all.
A blesser is a softer version of a human trafficker !!!!!
You girls were divinely protected 😲💚
I hope this video goes viral. Many girls need to hear this!!
I hope you bought the videographer a big Thank You gift. He was your guardian angel or sent by your ancestors, whichever you believe 😊. Great story, great lesson for all.
Totally agree. He really pulled through like a real brother. Look for him and thank him. I hope so many young girls can watch this and listen. May you be blessed with your heart's desires you look like you can conquer the world. Beauty and a whole powerful brain.
UA-cam recommended this video and I don’t regret clicking
😂😂😂😂😂haaaa no ways, please i laughed so much on this video. The way you telling the story, love it
😂😂 Thank you mama❤️
Same... I'm literally on the floor😂😂😂🤣🤣😭😂😂😭😭💔💔
Listening to this I am so thankful of the friends I have. As childish as they are, they are extremely wise. I have had blessors offer and vele sometimes soft life is so tempting but they always advise against even though they are also tempted by the idea of it.
I've never even been tempted, no amount of money is, worth my self -worth and trust me I'm easy on the eye. I was just raised to be content with what I have and to pray for more.
Human trafficking sekuyinto of the past😂😂😂your sarcasm is on another level and I love how you don't sugarcoat anything. You have gained a new subbie
Of the past 💔😂, thank you ❤️😍
Remember to run ur numbers for your retirement now to know how much u need to set aside now until then. Don't get used to a life u cant sustain when ur strongest assets are gone.♡
blesser blessee relationships have nothing to do with love its all about what each can get from the other its about control and lust
keep the story times coming. loved this
Such videos should be promoted to warn others. I keep warning young girls about the darker world.
I'm glad I learned something from this. Nothing always come for free and never to trust anyone.
That first line "Kuyafana you are sinner, you've got a child you might as well do it" 😂😂🤣🤣 Indeed I am
I love your honesty and i definitely enjoyed the way you told the story, you're funny
Thank you mama ❤️😭
Yeah I am glad I saw this video. Social media really gives us just a glimpse of things and we don't even know the full story. Thank for sharing your story.
Men are simple,"If I pay for it, I own it and I can do what I want with it". A guy that can bless you is not a problem, if he can afford to bless you then he can teach how or plug you on how you can make money too, if he doesn't even try to do that then you're in for trouble. It feels nice to know you can help your girl financially but it feels even better to help her make her own money too.
"you are a sinner, you even have child" rent free🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂gurll I enjoyed
Yhooo you have made my day😂😂 Your personality is everything!!!!
Thank you mama ❤️😂
Thanks dear, hopefully our younger sisters are learning...You escaped through the grace, 1 grace.
It was by grace ❤️
You are so soft and sooo calming😍Love you, loved the story time❤️
Thank you mama❤️, I love you more 🥺😍
we need a part 2 please
you such a great storyteller
Wow. To be honest at first I was a bit judgey wudgey but then I totally understood your why at the time. Just so glad you ladies got out safe!!!!
Love you Sbusie and I love how you add isiZulu in the mix. Ngaze ngakuthanda!!
Women must work hard, imagine all these for a cellphone, a dress, food...bathong. these are basics u can do from your own salary mos. Contract phone costs around 200 per month. Being lazy is a challenge 😴. Work women , even if its cleaning and domestic work.
How did u guys even escape? U went to the toilet and then? Was it at a garage or what? Did they see u walking out of the toilet? Did u run or requested an Uber? Didn't they try to hurt u while escaping? Full details pls
Enjoyed this video. Wish I knew how to do makeup because yours looks amazing. I don't even know the different brushes. Your story telling is amazing. Please make more videos
You girls are brave! I can’t imagine myself just following someone I do not know!!!! Glad you managed to escape!!! By the way, you look great with makeup….but you actually look better without it
Your makeup look low-key gave Mihlali Ndamase😍🔥 umuhle mama🥺
I thought I was the only one who saw it.
Right!!
I clicked to the video thinking its mihlali but ended up watching the whole video and l enjoyed
@@shyleensibanda4235 that's how I also became a subscriber lol
Thank you for opening up to us about something this scary. Thank God you guys were saved.
Unomoya o phansi, ngithanda indlela okhuluma ngayo.
i missed some parts because i’m not zulu but this was genuinely worth it. its insightful
You didn’t miss much she just repeated what she said in English in Zulu
Jhoo. What a narrow escape. Soft life 🙌🏾
I enjoyed both the story and watching the make up
A re i snatched my blesser from my friend 🤣
you always have to carry money with you... we call it “che rough” or money just incase they do you rough... thx for the story
Not to sound rude but we don’t all understand your language and it makes it hard for us to keep up. Not only SouthAfricans are watching 💕
Sorry mama ❤️😩. I should accommodate all of you. Next time i will speak in English
@@SbusiePhoswa please add subtitles
I almost said the same thing.
I think maybe subtitles. She has a right to speak her own language and cater to those who understand. She’s not English. Her language matters as well. People don’t say that when watching French videos, so let’s respect African languages as well.
@@SbusiePhoswa Simnandi is’zulu, kuncono ama subtitles.
The sarcasm is what gets me 😄..
You are gorgeous and hilarious,siyabonga sisi for sharing your story definitely going to help many girls ngoba siyazithanda izinto
Not you referring to them as “ o D’banj” 😭😭😂😂😂😂. Love how the look turned out and I absolutely enjoyed the story❤️
😂 Thank you mama ❤️🥺
😂😂😂😂🙆♀️
My new favorite UA-camr 😍
Sorry for the nonsense I’ve been leaving in your comment section. This story is great xoxo 💋
Hehehehe I like the nonses part of the song in the car 😂😂😂 the world will be crazy liking the song😂😂😂
Hi there. Absolutely loved your story time . I’m from Nambia so I missed the parts you spoke in your language but other than that I really liked it
Yeah, me too, I’m Ghanaian. I think subtitles of translation would have been good. I’m a UA-camr too. You can subscribe
It’s the “Uwumnini mandla wonke yena manje”😂😂💀 for me
Yoh I’ve been laughing 💀 when you said “leziya ngoma nje zazibheda 💀 ngang’qala ukuzwa iyngoma eybheda kanje😂😂”
May we please get a part 2 of the escape. 🤣😭
Haweeemahhh😭😭😭😭 I am so happy you are safe 🥺♥️
But I love how arlerting this is for the girls tight there 🥺 thank you so much sbusie
You are so beautiful, your story time is so interesting. I can just imagine if the videographer didn't recognize you 🙀 mathata
Imagine 😭, the trauma !!
Thank you mama ❤️
Hello Sbusie 👋 your video looks very informative, but indeed you are so beautiful without any makeup 💄 😊 Abundant Blessings 🙌
Wow ayi emhlabeni kunzima guys!! 😩😩😩 loved this storytime
'guys thina sizalwa abafundisi' 😩😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😩
Subtitles please, watching from Namibia…
This was very insightful.
I wish you spoke more English this story is amazing but am missing some parts😭 love from kenya
HAHA we must be seeenn!!! hahaha her story is amaizing KE we representing
Sending love from Kenya,loved your story sis
We need a continuation of how you actually excaped from the bathroom till you got home
I wonder why its even called a soft life, is it because it looks good on the outside or what?
I agree with u coz there's nothing soft about it. It's more of s*x slavery which is worse than hard labour.
Livers ain’t the same , I felt that 😆
I'm literally binge-watching your channel 🤣🤣
Thank you for sharing your story n It may change someone out their
Wow glad you are safe.thanks for teaching young woman.
I've learnt a lot from this storytime. Thank you sis 😍
I enjoyed and learn from this a lot of ladies are missing god know what has happened to them
How old were you when you had your daughter? I'm asking because I used to be a real risk-taker but after having my baby I won't put my life in danger because my child needs me.
"Ngabe umhlaba ayahlanya mawungathanda ingoma enje" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you killed me
Yoh I’m so glad you guys managed to escape.
Umuhle without make up anyway- just a natural dark beauty
Hey where did you buy your gown ?
Dear Sbusie, I stumbled on your sott life/blesservideo. Though I don't use make up I was impressed by your skill in the application and that has broaden my passion in helping those who have interest in exploring in their beauty.
Your story time is educational, enlightening and supportive to people's every day life experiences-as a people we sometimes find ourselves facing with challenging incidents that we don't know how we can tackle the situation swiftly without causing alarm to the pepertraitor or raising eyebrows of those around. You have the beauty and grey matter, continue to arm and encourage those who find your subject matter useful. Thank you
From Penny Msweli
Oh My God 🤭🤭
Thank you so much 🥺❤️
Please list the products that you used to achieve this look. Please and Thank you 🙂
Odibanji😂😂😂😂 Wena kahle kahle uyiSurviver wena because wow... Mpilon lobuyphila
Who came here from Naledi's Channel? Tap in
😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"lezangoma leziya zazibheda"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You have great content but you take long to get to the point....😩
That's very true..I even skip some of her video 😢
Yani siza ivideographer 😭😭 thank you for sharing 🤎🤎.
I’m from Lesotho but I heard everything you said, thanks
I died when you said, “ le ayisoze yazwiwa abantu”😂😂😂😂😅🤣
Thank you for being a sister for real.
Please add subtitles...couldn't understand some things but totally got your story.
Thank you for sharing.😊
"guys, thina sizalwa habafundisi" 😂😂😂😂
At least the videographer warned you😮oh my word. Yoh
Perfect 👌🏽 what shade /product is your foundation and number?
I didn't get the part how it all ended. Language barrier 🤔🤔
Hhay bo as uhwaya ikhanda ngeBrush it sounds like plastic rubbing against the brush.
😅😅😅 "umnini mandla wonke" I love you!!!
😂😂
oD'banj laba😭😂😂😂😂🤣
Greetings 🇯🇲 loved the lessons
Lmao its the part yengoma ebhedayo for me 😂😂😂😂😂 you're funny 🤣🤣
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂Sbucie u are so funny i cant 😅😂
hey, thank you so much for sharing your story.
PS. I really loved your concealer, do you mind sharing which concealer you used?
Okay but HOW did you guys exactly escape? I was eager for that part.
Omg I missed your videos so much, I kept checking your channel for new videos everyday 😂❤️
😭❤️ I appreciate you mama ❤️😍
“Ngiyingane kaMfundisi” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 I couldn’t believe you said that 😂😂😂
Girl you the vibe as for “sizalwa ngabafundisi 💀💀💀umuhle always value your self