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Discovering Orgasm & Finding other men attractive after marriage. How to deal with Male Attraction.
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Abeg the fondness you both exit actually mad me join this group. Please don't stop. Instead of it looking recorded its like someone severely place while you both were gisting😅
Someone gets it 😍😍
Your discussion on finding other men/women attractive after marriage is an interesting one, however there are grey areas that needed to have been clarified.
Nelo's statement lack acknowledgment of the consequences of emotional infidelity be it man or woman. While it's natural to experience attraction, actively pursuing or fostering those feelings while committed to someone else can betray trust and undermine the foundation of a relationship. It's essential to recognise the impact of one's actions on their partner and the relationship's integrity.
While Dr. Ella's point highlights the value and desirability of a married woman, it's crucial to consider the motivations of men who express admiration for married and pregnant women. These men may appear as though they genuinely appreciate their qualities, but they are only interested in satisfying their own sexual desires/fantasies, using flattery and false promises to manipulate their trust. Do you really think a man in his right senses would take a “a pregnant married woman” home to show off to his family or friends? It's essential for married men and women to be discerning and prioritise their commitment to their spouse above fleeting attention or validation from others.
Thank you so much. You just brought this thought out of me. No normal man would ever desire to marry a pregnant married women. He only wants to satisfy himself and dump her afterwards.
Best comment on this topic so far. INTENTIONS OF THE TOASTER IS WHAT SHOULD BE CONSIDERED. Gullible women cheat or even leave their marriage because of flattery gifts and words from a womanizer only to find out later that the womanizer doesn't even value her the way her husband did.
Temporary, dangerous, exciting, daring, it thrills ladies. Safety and certainty simply melts women.
The more I know about the psychology of women the more I lose my affection, desire for them.
you said it all ...wow wow wow
wow. finally, a sensible comment here. I`m not sure you are a Nigerian woman. No, they don't reason this deep. these women don't know that men can sleep with mad, dirty women. In fact, it happens every day. what is the motive of such men? That's what's important. It's this mindset of theirs that is making them baby mamas every minute of the day. they see the thirstiness of men as a measure of their attractiveness. very shallow set of people.
Veronica's daughter is very intelligent.... Good conversation
@@WinnieOkafor-tb4wn aunty be calming down ooo
I love this interview ❤❤
Veronica's daughter has reached here!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love this woman...beauty, brains and humor!
I love her already😂
@@fideliamarcelMe TWO😊😊
These 2 make marriage sound easy cos they married good partners,may we all meet the right person who would make us enjoy marriage.
Not because they married the right men, but because they brought them from left to right, so it means building your home will make it beautiful because there is no perfect marriage anywhere, try to understand one another and make it work so the bible says, a wise woman keeps her home the foolish one takes it out for destruction, God Almighty bless you.
They actually said they didn't marry men with FULL OPTIONS. Meaning g there is a compromise, their husbands are not perfect
Compatible partners, not necessarily good. Two thieves can make peaceful partners
I enjoyed the guest experience and points more than the host. The conservation would have been more educative, if the host had allowed the guest to flow out marital experiential nuggets rather than interjecting and changing the direction of the conversation
Very well said
U are very right
Well funny how the men will think that.
But that's how women talk... And believe me they were hearing each other even while they were talking at the same time.
If you follow closely, they had a great flow
The host was confusing me abeg. It could hv been better we hear one person at a time joor. Great conversation tho
I love it so much when women are so real about marriage, Marriage is a beautiful thing but has its ups and downs. Thanks so much Dr Ella and Nelo, it was such a fun video to watch.
I have so much to comment, it may turn into a mini book if I say all I want to say.
Weldone Nelo on this topic, I loved all the conversations had. You see this 'ode' thing, you are only comfortable with calling your husband names because it's something you did in your family before you got married. Imagine you came from a family (like mine) where you and your siblings are so closely knit, but you were taught not to 'verbally abuse' each other, even as a joke, you would have felt differently about 'playful name calling'.
I am married, and my husband and I play a little too much, but name calling is not an option. We never even had to talk about that, I guess we were both raised the same way. I think it's a case of ' to each his own'. But personally, I cringe whenever I hear people joking insult each other, especially the deep insults, as a joke.
So are our kids supposed to hear this and think it's okay?
U said my mind xoxo. Dont institutionalize bad habits.....SIMPLE!!
There is no self-respect or respect for others when you 'jokingly ' insult them. I don't know how using uncouth language can be sexy or affectionate.
An intelligent conversation from 2 beautiful women. Keep inspring.
Two very wise women.
Your openness will help even people in old marriages
Quite interesting but both of them don't give each other the chance to be properly heard. They are both talking at the same time
I thought I was the only one who noticed and was annoyed by it.
The host should have allowed her guest to talk more
@@patienceigbojianya7695 i doubt if the host has experience in marriage but the guest was very on point
Thats always Nelo for you. She never gives her guests time to speak.
Nelo and the YEAST Factor. Always making people better than she met them. This was a great conversation and she has a wonderful personality
It’s how real Dr. Ella is for me.she’s dishing it out undiluted.
She just gained a new follower.😊
Quite interesting and educative episode.
I'm so blown away with this conversation. Dr Ella, you joke way too much on Facebook that makes some of us think you're average but mehn, see diction and effortless flow of articulation. You're good mehn. Kudos to Aunty Nelo. You're both beautiful.
This has got to be one of the best videos I've seen on your Channel Nelo. So much to learn and it's a delight to see that Dr Ella's energy is even more authentic and stronger than in writings on Instagram.
And she like gist ehnnnn... No wonder her writings are always long on IG 😅
Love you both
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@@VeronicasDaughteri love u already, thanks for keeping it real.@nelo best conversation ever
Very insightful topic. It would be helpful if everyone could take turns speaking without interrupting each other during the conversation.
Duly noted
Nelo interjected more.
For the first time I saw two women discussing very reasonable and balancing the points without letting their emotions run riots. Congratulations
Sincerely, same thing crossed my mind. Such a wonderful balanced conversation. Their sincerity is Top Notch.
This is one of your best sit-down sessions, Nelo. I love the vibes with Nwa Vero
I love this combo. Dr Ella is a huge vibe. Thank you Nelo.
These are the conversations those getting into marriage should know
Including those in a relationship
At least the part of not avoiding important conversations or addressing issues because you do not want to upset your partner
Quarrel if you must, talk things out and reconcile immediately
This is my first time watching, great conversation. But for me Nelo was a bit too annoying. She kept interrupting, I could hardly hear with both of them speaking over each other, the host should be quiet and let the guess get their point across. Nelo needs to learn how to interject and when to, otherwise from that I enjoyed the content 💯🙏🏾
Good energy from our sisters. Wedding easy, marriage hard, chose well o. Everybody get spec and everybody dey spec-able lol. Everything starts from the beginning, chose who you marry well and the marriage no go be jamb question.
Ella and Nelo 😅
mad combination
This was really a delight to watch. It felt like the conversation shouldn't end❤. I can only imagine how interesting (Dr. Chioma) Veronica's daughter's triple B show will be this coming Saturday😊😊. Nelo, you're a good host❤. I enjoyed watching
Dr ella looks like blessing CEO but how she speaks and the knowledge filled talks distinguishes her ❤
She doesn't look close to Blessing CEO abeg, this one is a class above her. Matured minds, they spoke and gave a vital relationship and marital advice from the female perspective intelligently without tirades of insults and slurs against Men, which sets them apart from a Blessing CEO. No disrespect though. Big ups 👍
I enjoyed this video so much I didn’t want it to end ❤❤❤
I love the last part you said, this is very funny, am a Niqabite and I was pregnant then waiting for my sister at the bus stop at night, one guy came to approach me asking different questions, I snubbed him and he left before I looked up another one parked his car in front of me, I was like what is really going on? Can't they see that am pregnant and I also cover my face. Men are something else seriously
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Not all men act that way, when I see ring or noticed that you are married, I won't even go further
When a woman is pregnant, she glows.
@@rainstormwind yes at early stage
I glow all thru my pregnancy journey.
This is a very organic conversation. Many commenters here are saying they shouldn’t interject while the other is talking. That’s a funny thing to say. The interjections are a very natural part of our Igbo/Nigerian conversational style. We interject and even cut each other off while they’re still talking. It’s just a natural thing. Viewers should enjoy the conversation and ignore the conversational mannerisms.
You ladies are intelligent; NO SEPARATE ROOMS ….my wife maintains that ALWAYS 😍
Good show/discussion. The host is not allowing guest to talk.., shw doesn't allow her to finish her points before interrupting..Dr is Dr sha, she has it..
This combo, gist go hot. 2 ladies that are so expressive with words. Let me pause and get a cup of tea cos this gist must flow well😂😂. I am coming
I am back. It was a beautiful 34mins. I am happy to be in this circle, I love this we need more of this inner dialogue.....❤❤❤❤
Dr Ella a.k.a Veronica’s daughter 👏🏽❤️❤️❤️, always a delight reading her IG write up .
A worthwhile video surely ❤❤❤👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽.
My woman Veronica's daughter is here.
Marriage conversations like this...Ehhh ❤ i love Insightful Topics Like this
Who else missed Loudly Woman???😢😊
This was a really nice conversation.
Thank you ladies, sorry Dr Ella and Billionaire Nelo😃😃❤️
Whoever told you that married women are not flirted is not true. As a married woman your ability to resist poaching men makes you a wife. Never assume that men do not suspect wives but the onerous lie with the married woman to maintain your fidelity.That's the meaning of being a wife, opening your legs because of attraction with other men.
I love your blend between your "you not cheating because you are a Christian first" and the satisfaction you find in your husband. A God fearing woman is a man's first most admired gift.
That part "my spiritual values" got me.. thank you Ella.. I thank God you are guided with these spiritual values..
I can’t look down at you while looking up to you 😂😂, Nelo felt the stray bullet 🙃
😂😂😂😂😂I have never heard anyone say they preferred a short man. I think it's the animal instinct in us. The taller and bigger, the more protective they seem 😂
@@anonnona6433 yeah same way we as men don’t naturally liked fat women like her.
There will be one or two issues in marriage sometimes, you have to make up your mind and make your decision.
Face your problem or issue, fix it and don't compound it by finding alternative
God bless this women
She is your guest. Let her do more of the talking, okay? Though, you did, but a lot of interruption.
Too annoying...
It was a conversation rather than an interview
The guest had a lot to say, she kept interjecting. Really annoying.
Host please learn the art of interviewing such a loaded person, she had alot to give but you interrupted her every time, ask questions and give her time to explore and answer satisfactorily.
Who's the guest? Who is the host? Please help me.
Never saw the idea of one bedroom this appealing.
Nice conversation 🤠
Marriage is friendship, if there's no friendship between you and your partner, just know is not marriage.
True
You better add it’s a friendship with contracts…. Obligations, rights and responsibilities unlike just friends.
The way I love this fine lady NELO eeh. I love you sha❤. You're beautiful🎉❤
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I already liked even though I haven't watched ❤😂
The real mvp
It is really nice for me to see another side of Veronica daughter apart from the usual I see of her on Instagram and Facebook. Of course both are similar but I've not seen her speak for long. I really enjoyed the conversation and would love to see more of her.
Collab I didn't see coming but love it ❤❤❤ two out spoken strong women 🎉🎉🎉
More views with this duo YOU GUYS ARE SOOOOO FUN and I love the way you educate us and being OPEN with things that happen in marriage 🎉🎉🎉😊😊ur chemistry as hosts is FIRE
@Veronica's daughter, the moment I saw you, I remembered you instantly. Right from Facebook I knew you are intelligent. Confirm beauty with brain. Well-done mama 👏.
This conversation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!! The lady is fire 🔥 she said “Growth is happening” 😂 thank you ladies ❤
Dr Ella 😅😅😅... Honestly, this happens to me. I still mention my name Robina, forgetting the "Dr Robina..
Our very own Veronica's daughter.. I love the collaboration ❤❤
This video was interesting!! I just wish Dr Ella didn’t interrupt Nelo as much
“Clap for yourselves because you are developing backbones”.
The issue is not about you as a woman having choices as men but the genuineness of those you have decided to leave your husband and made choice to follow.
But very lovely discussion as a single man, I have learnt a lot from these true wives of their husbands.
Oooh my good interesting but Nelo pontificates a lot
Nelo, you talk too much. You interrupted your guest severally and she ended up not explaining her points well
Nello always allow your guest to flow. you interrupt at will. lets watch and hear the guest, she speaks so well and people will learn to gain alot but pls learn to allow her flow
Amazing section, well done ladies. Nelo you really just have to be patient when someone is talking, other than interrupting your colleague, i beg. Thank you.🙏
This collab is fire 🔥 thank you for this video Nelo❤❤❤
I luv this video. you guys are so real and this is educative
Thank you for this video. I'm a guy and I learnt a lot from it. This is power packed!!! I'm so sharing this.
This is the realest I have seen married women show. I appreciate all the discussion. I can't even imagine how true what you ladies are saying. Newer generation couples need to understand a lot of things. I have been with my beautiful wife for 12 years and it's been just amazing cos she's my best friend
I cannot be looking down at you when i should be looking up to you 😂
That line is a bomb.
Very engaging and relatable! "Where was this one when I was single"? 😂😂😂
Abi?
Wow, I'm so happy she resides in Port Harcourt, pls I will like to meet her one on one. More grace momma ❤️
This is very informative. I can relate with every bit of it as a married man. Married women should have the mindset the Guest speaker has concerning marriage. Weldone for this interview, i give you a Thumbs up.
But why are women easily moved to guys that are not their husband because of just one thing their husband dont have, even though they know in-depth that it could lead to something else with the new guy. The bad part is that they won't know how to contain when they are with their husband, it starts showing in their character and there the issue start because the man will always noticed almost immediately.
For a man, even though he has a crush on or affair with a lady not his wife, the moment he is with her, the respect sets in and deal with her as his wife and never change xter. Men are able to balance and make sure the wife is number 1 and ensure it stays that way. So women dont start it oooooooooooooooo.
Two clinically on fire women. So much energy and wisdom, they couldn't let each other breathe)))
This is really an insightful video. Veronica’s daughter is so intelligent and I enjoyed listening to her ❤️❤️
Very impactful. I like her already. Thank you Nelo❤🎉🎉🎉
This video was amazing, thank you for sharing
We need a Part 2 UA-cam video addressing the topic maybe even a podcast version.
However, it will require more comprehensive planning from you guys.
To enhance the structure, perhaps you could organise it into three main points, each with three subheadings, while maintaining focus on the core theme.
In exploring this topic, it would be valuable to examine it from physical, emotional, and psychological perspectives.
Additionally, you could delve into how trauma and addiction play a role in cheating
It’s very nice to see women speak so fondly of their marriages
I thought am the only one who likes a man fully dressed thank you for this 😂
The aspect of using insulting words jokingly is not for everyone. I don't do that with anyone including fellow men. Why not use commendations instead of insults jokingly? Well, compatibility is the real deal.
No. Let your yes be yes, your no no, even in jokes. I can't call someone olodo or ashawo or ole or anumpama or ewu as a joke. Please, it's not right
I follow Veronica’s daughter and i know she is a great conversationalist and loaded with wisdom !! I enjoyed this video 🥰🥰
Seeing veronica’s daughter I’m happy ❤❤❤❤
Beautiful discussion. I can totally relate to almost everything mentioned
Veronicadaughter so sincere everytn u said is on point, funny women dont talk abt this
Great personalities (Nelo et Dr Ella), great conversation and great counseling to the people young and adults. Programs like this proves that the social media is still not a devastating platform to the black culture. These women dissected majority of the marital issues and at same time profer solutions in just under 30mins, i hope the late 90's and millennial folks noted all these positive viberations from these great Ladies. Bismillah.
Nice conversation…. By Buh @nelo, when you have guests , allow them talk and express themselves….I know you have so much to say Buh allow them… Weldone
This talk was so necessary ❤❤
Am greatful for this God Almighty bless you both, much love from Belgium thanks.🙏
I absolutely loved this video and I am just discovering Dr Ella and will follow her everywhere. I absolutely loved listening to her.
This was really entertaining, plus Veronica's daughter didn't sound like an upcoming youtuber one bit! She actually made some very strong, valid, and relatable points!
Well done, Nelo!!!❤
I love this discussion. I love your channel. This subject captured my interest.
Your guest is soso excellent.
But the only problem is your too much interjection that keeps deviating her from the points she's making.
You have my hundreds likes anyway!!! ❤
Nelo your complexion is soooo good ❤. Enjoyed this conversation as well. We love Dr Ella ❤
This is a million dollar discussion. Very apt, very honest talk for couples to learn from especially intending couples. Well-done Dr Ella
A woman that is not submitted to God will never submit to a man.
Correct
Woman only submits if she trusts your leadership
A man who dosent know God can never Love a woman as Christ loved the church.
Why should you submit to a man who does not love you? The bible did not demand that.
You do realise we as woman will surrender 100 % to Christ who would die for us. But you risk your future and life if you submit to a man who does not love you.
@@RA-ms3je why do you love a woman who doesent submit to you?...submision and love are values taugh to us since our childhood and after you are born again you live with them in your celibacy before you commit!
@@RA-ms3je I understand you perfectly but we're talking about marriage already and he can because of your prayers and love of God come to the knowledge of Christ! You're not there to change him but to mirror or reflect his real identity to him. For example if he doesn't love you as Christ loves the Church, you keep telling him to his face that he is a lover as Christ loves, don't stop speaking to his life until he comes to the unity of faith. Bless you Sister!
You can read: 1 Corin 7:12-16
12 Now, I will speak to the rest of you, though I do not have a direct command from the Lord. If a fellow believer[c] has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to continue living with him, he must not leave her. 13 And if a believing woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to continue living with her, she must not leave him. 14 For the believing wife brings holiness to her marriage, and the believing husband[d] brings holiness to his marriage. Otherwise, your children would not be holy, but now they are holy. 15 (But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife[e] is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you[f] to live in peace.) 16 Don’t you wives realize that your husbands might be saved because of you? And don’t you husbands realize that your wives might be saved because of you?
Marriage is not just about friendship or sex; couples have to plan the future. So a couple having financial meetings to plan the future is very important. So dont criticise couples that have financial meetings.
Evil world. With this secret exposed, please men, any time your spouse says she going somewhere, call her every 10 minutes on video call to know where he or she is. To the faithful spouse, keep the good work you are doing, God bless you.
Dr Ella said, “We talk about this so that the younger generation can know they’re not alone…” and that’s the absolute truth!
Happy I saw this at this time, thank you for sharing 🙌🏼
Omgggg i love herrrr!!! E for ENERGY 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Relationship is work... You must do the work.. Love the conversation... You can't get all you want in a marriage mate.. At least 70%/80%
I don't know why i was taking so much time to start this video, from the 1st 5mins i couldn't stop myself from smiling and it just reminded me of my 1st year of marraige me being pregnant and shocked about being toasted😂😂.
The video i never knew i needed, I really learnt a lot from the conversion😊😍
Dr Ella is a whole vibe on Facebook eh😂
I always love reading her post ❤
Beautiful conversation very impactful. God will keep your Home till the end in Jesus Name.
There was no need of bringing a guest oo...the host has the questions and answers already😢..
I really wanted to enjoy this discussion
Seriously I'm very impressed with dis, keep de good work going ❤
I am glad I dropped by...thanks for this Ma'am Nelo. Notification bell turned on!
Friendship is very important in marriage even though I’m not married but I know.
32 minutes packed with so much information
Oh my God…I learnt a whole lot.
Very interesting conversation,Thank you Veronica's daughter and Nelo.