🔴What Drives a Narcissist to Leave Their New Supply and Come Back to You | Narcissism | NPD

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  • @NarcPedia
    @NarcPedia  День тому +2

    🔴When The Narcissist Isn’t Hoovering Due To Shame! They Hate Shame!👇🏼
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  • @miminini9857
    @miminini9857 День тому +3

    Spot on ! He hoovered from an unknown number two months ago, i took the call as it was an unkmown number... " i said "hello" and it was him. He said " i need your help " , i cut the line without saying a word ! Grey rock & no contact are the keys ! Do not show any emotions to them ! Don't talk to Satan ! Silence is gold !

  • @jyotsnagupta23
    @jyotsnagupta23 3 години тому

    So true.....each word is so full of connection

  • @justafishguy0076
    @justafishguy0076 День тому +15

    She wants to come back to me after calling the police and trying to get me arrested for no reason ? Also everything you say in these videos have blown my mind it’s all been spot on. I’ve been single for 6 months now and I’m still emotionally and mentally screwed up from her

    • @deniselanham2463
      @deniselanham2463 День тому +4

      Fish Guy: After a year out of the toxic relationship it almost seems like things are back to normal.

    • @Stoic_Cyclops_SuperEmpath
      @Stoic_Cyclops_SuperEmpath День тому +4

      Fish Guy- I'm going through the exact same thing brother, only she didn't call the cops on me yet but she threatened to... she has more red flags than a Chinese parade!

    • @nivramsleumas7411
      @nivramsleumas7411 День тому +3

      Glad I have healed from mine. She will never have a next chance in this lifetime with me. I have absolutely no feelings towards her. I feels so free and happy from the trauma bond.

    • @djsnit
      @djsnit День тому +1

      Same. She got a TRO for me saying karma is going to get her.

    • @Tye-g9s
      @Tye-g9s День тому +1

      Hey fam definitely devil's word em up on the level I'm going threw it now been together since 20 years old I'm 54 now she is a str8 jezzabell spell she having sex with under age boys and girls,even allowed 20 year old pimp her and and help him get cars and trucks for his girlfriend and sleepin with both of them they tried to run her over with a car she calling me film her while they doing it I said that dude had a his friends do it she said that's the dude u laying down and u allowed him to pimp u,she got quite I laughed at her because she thinks she so slick she a slime ball demon narrissit witch craft they in to she is also STDs brought back, demonic possession trampoline narrissit witch craft works but she getting broke going into her 401k bought and she helping them get a car and I bought one for us and they plots with them to have care tow so I'ma catch up with with wit em gaining on em
      .and she work for Feds and that dude do too been with her since 20 years old and she kept it a secret.

  • @TheNarcissistMirror
    @TheNarcissistMirror День тому +2

    I've been a psychotherapist for 20 years. I find Dr.R to be one of the most superior practical therapists.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  16 годин тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s great to hear from someone with your experience, and I appreciate your endorsement of Dr. R. Their insights can make a significant difference in understanding and healing from narcissistic relationships.

  • @seameology
    @seameology День тому +2

    Yup. The first nex and I were high school sweethearts. I stayed for five years. He said I ruined his life by getting pregnant. So, I left. He was single for fifteen years and had about a million women. Then he got what he always wanted. A skinny blonde that makes a lot of money. They're still together after a couple of decades. But, all that glitters is not gold.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  14 годин тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your story. It’s powerful to hear how you took control of your life and moved on from that relationship. You're right. What seems perfect on the surface often hides deeper issues. Your strength and insight are inspiring!

  • @aprilbalingit7426
    @aprilbalingit7426 День тому +4

    You were right imagine from 2009 till 2019 then on off till 2024 of October only Oct I learned that my ex is Narcissist I was married 1990 I think Narcissist too oh I’m still here ohh I’m really tough . Thank you so much

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  День тому

      It sounds like you've been on quite a journey, and it's amazing that you've gained this insight about your experiences! Recognizing the patterns is a huge step toward healing. Your strength is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @empreenergy3376
    @empreenergy3376 День тому +5

    I was a new supply and I know I was a way better quality partner than what he had...but he had to go back because I would not put up with his shit. He was losing with me so please go back to your enabler!😂

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  День тому

      It sounds like you made the right choice for yourself by standing your ground! Recognizing your worth and not tolerating unhealthy behavior is so important. Keep embracing your strength, and thank you for sharing your experience! 😂

    • @tinaureta9891
      @tinaureta9891 37 хвилин тому

      That’s Not nice….. your cruel, You DO NOT KNOW the Crap and evil practices of the NARC that dominates the poor mind of Primary supply Wives (or husbands) ITS BRAINWASHING… It’s excruciatingly confusing

  • @marcuswhitman2657
    @marcuswhitman2657 День тому +2

    Right on, brother. My malignant narcissist ex-wife told me I was a loser and delete all her contact info; I have been in total no contact for ten years-not one word. A backfire? She continued her hypergamous path and re-married 3 years after our divorce. Women without children have so many more options than the discarded men…

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  День тому +1

      It sounds like you've made a strong choice by maintaining no contact for your own well-being. It’s tough to deal with those hurtful comments, but focusing on your own path and healing is what truly matters. Thank you for sharing your experience. Wishing you continued strength and growth!

    • @tinaureta9891
      @tinaureta9891 19 хвилин тому

      Enlightening your Life w/ Joy Eternal w/ Jesus. Set your Focus on High…. “All Good Things come to those who Love the Lord”
      Whether I ever get married again or NOT…. I must be at peace with myself, My Jesus who loves me so much, and my friends and family. Live Life my friend

  • @seameology
    @seameology День тому +2

    Second nex is dying. I agreed to talk to him on the phone after two decades. He did apologize for some things, he apologized for some things I never even knew about. And, denied others. It wasn't worth it. I'll never do it again. It did nothing for me. Total waste of my time.
    Don't do it. They're rather pathetic and you can see how their minds have deteriorated. Oh. And I saw a photo of him. I'm actually a bit older than him but he looked decades older than me. A walking corpse. He could be an extra in a zombie movie and not need any makeup.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  30 хвилин тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s powerful to recognize that reconnecting doesn’t always bring the closure we hope for. It sounds like you’ve gained a lot of clarity and strength from this situation. Stay strong and keep focusing on your own well-being!

  • @christianaomosigho580
    @christianaomosigho580 16 годин тому

    What if you were the new supply and had no idea a narcissist existed.

  • @MegaRockstar48
    @MegaRockstar48 День тому +4

    I disagree and I’d like you to do a topic on the difference between a male and a female narcissist. The reason being is a female narcissist (especially one who is attractive) has way more options (available supply) than a male narcissist. So this is one of the reasons why my ex will never try and hoover me as she has a long list of potential suitors. The other reason is I exposed her and called her out on her actions so returning to me means feelings of guilt and shame which is her kryponite.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  День тому +2

      Thank you for your insightful perspective! The dynamics between male and female narcissists can indeed vary significantly, and your experience highlights some important points. I appreciate your suggestion for a future topic, as exploring these differences could provide valuable insights for many.

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 3 години тому

      @MegaRockstar48 Female narcissist do not have more options, they are just more evil and deceptive. Think Jezebel.
      Both male and female are horrible regardless

  • @yvonnepettersson2481
    @yvonnepettersson2481 День тому +2

    ❤❤❤

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  21 годину тому

      Thank you for the love! I appreciate your support and am glad to have you here. ❤❤❤

  • @Stoic_Cyclops_SuperEmpath
    @Stoic_Cyclops_SuperEmpath День тому +1

    Did you make up the terminology for Golden X? I tried Googling it and it doesn't give me a definition for Golden X syndrome in narcissism? I was interested in further detail and clarification please, if possible? Or were you just trying to say someone like me is special to the narcissist so they always will compare their future partners, but they won't measure up?! Praise the Lord! ❤

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  22 години тому

      Great question! "Golden ex" refers to the idea of being the idealized partner or the one the narcissist holds in high regard, often leading to comparisons with future partners. It's not a widely recognized term, but I use it to highlight that special status and the impact it can have.

  • @StevieHoneycutt-v6j
    @StevieHoneycutt-v6j 17 годин тому

    Im trying to say away she doesn't care don't bother her any ill say away longer

  • @StevieHoneycutt-v6j
    @StevieHoneycutt-v6j 17 годин тому

    She not coming back she said she hates me said I'm weird these videos don't help really

    • @tinaureta9891
      @tinaureta9891 35 хвилин тому +1

      Give your heart to the King of the Universe; King Jesus…. Focus on Him and His Love and Guidance. He’s leading us to better ourselves for the purpose of HIM, going to heaven with HIM