ALL of these signs were present at various times in my marriage of over 27 years. The signs that stick out the most now that we have been divorced a couple years are the projection, accusations, picking fights, and talking about the women he worked with. It wouldn’t surprise me if there were also men. I’m grateful to be out of that situation and hope I’m able to see those signs in the future. No more limerence for me! 🎉🎉🎉
Absolutely all of this is true! There's another sign that is almost the death blow! It's something that if it happens, it's usually the point of no return and if you had any thoughts about salvaging the relationship, you might as well forget it! It's when he starts avoiding being intimate with you or refuses to touch you at all! Most of the time if you've seen this after all of those other signs that Anwar talks about, then it's most likely because he has transferred most of his emotional connectivity to someone else to the point where he's treating you like you're the mistress and she's the wife! If that's the situation, you might as well get a head start and start thinking in detail about how to disentangle your life from his girl 'cuz it's a WRAP!
All this is so true! He’s been Speaking Spanish for the last six months and when I met him, I couldn’t get him to eat a taco lol I’m pretty sure he’s eating “tacos” every night but. But the guilt Has him giving me money. So it’s OK since I started rotation dating he just holds a different position now
0:23 I already knew that I'm suprised the papers are saying on 27% when life and history has taught me anything but if anything I would say the men that don't are in the minority not the majority.
Yes. In that order. The withdrawal is either him anticipating it or the beginning. The clinginess is the guilt after he has started. You may also just get the 2 extremes in the same day depending on when you catch him.
If you think your man is cheating he is definitely cheating
Oh well, I'll stay single. Dating is too exhausting
ALL of these signs were present at various times in my marriage of over 27 years. The signs that stick out the most now that we have been divorced a couple years are the projection, accusations, picking fights, and talking about the women he worked with. It wouldn’t surprise me if there were also men.
I’m grateful to be out of that situation and hope I’m able to see those signs in the future. No more limerence for me! 🎉🎉🎉
I don’t understand why men can’t just break up with us if they want to be with someone else so bad smh
@datingcoachanwar Can you answer that?
Bc their worst nightmare is to be “ho”less
Absolutely all of this is true! There's another sign that is almost the death blow! It's something that if it happens, it's usually the point of no return and if you had any thoughts about salvaging the relationship, you might as well forget it! It's when he starts avoiding being intimate with you or refuses to touch you at all! Most of the time if you've seen this after all of those other signs that Anwar talks about, then it's most likely because he has transferred most of his emotional connectivity to someone else to the point where he's treating you like you're the mistress and she's the wife! If that's the situation, you might as well get a head start and start thinking in detail about how to disentangle your life from his girl 'cuz it's a WRAP!
Hispanic men’s are the first on the list 😂 black second
💀💀😅🤣
@@tinyking11 They not lying...👀🤭
@laurynegreen9368 When you're just trying to do laundry and there's one giggling to his mistress on the phone...
Bruh, I was like the math aint mathing cause Ive seen some stuff irl
@@ShadesOfIvory I believe her, I’ve heard stories about them lol
Girl
All of this has happened 😣 I'm so glad I'm through it 😢
Wash the sins away😅😅😅 you can't lol
Is it even worth it to get married.
Imagine going through all this mess and he broke too
@@bbydoll1222 I'm glad we live in an era where you can ruin his life and leave. We should take full advantage of that.
Yeah. Slowly siphon his money into a different account. Then when you had enough leave divorce sue move on.
@@Poodle_Gun Ruining his life ain't worth it just leave revenge is messy and will come back for you.
@carolinpurayidom4570 that is the biggest lie I've ever heard
I can confirm alllllll the points you mentioned!! Literally every single one of them I’ve witnessed first hand (unfortunately).
When he does all of this 😂 I’m legit trying to get awayyyy
All this is so true! He’s been Speaking Spanish for the last six months and when I met him, I couldn’t get him to eat a taco lol I’m pretty sure he’s eating “tacos” every night but. But the guilt Has him giving me money. So it’s OK since I started rotation dating he just holds a different position now
Omg..the excessive cleaning🎯
Anwar, I am not black and I love your advice. Thank you.
Me too!
Isn't he just the best?
@@ndumi-light I respect this man a lot.
Not my ex, who I found out was cheating but he never acknowledged it, doing ALL of these things. Poor 20s me didn’t know any better.
0:23 I already knew that I'm suprised the papers are saying on 27% when life and history has taught me anything but if anything I would say the men that don't are in the minority not the majority.
Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes
Triple them. Only one guy I've ever dated did not cheat.
@SelenaSecretShow Where did you meet him? Or was it a freak accident? 😅
And did it work out?
My FYP is off because I am not seeing anyone! But it reaffirmed my ex wa cheating. That is why he has been donzo for years 🎉
So, they withdraw from you and become clingy when they cheat? Wtf...
Yes. In that order. The withdrawal is either him anticipating it or the beginning. The clinginess is the guilt after he has started. You may also just get the 2 extremes in the same day depending on when you catch him.
But you're right
These are really good