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getting girls is very tough if you’re no longer in highschool, college, or lack a decent social circle who can hook you up with girls. yes u can try approaching at bars (good luck there), streets, malls, parks, cafes but good luck again bc most women aren’t approachable and the interaction doesn’t feel free flowing.
Join any class you are slightly interested in. You will learn something and meet new people. Not that hard, just look it up in your area. Could be language class, cooking, whatever
To tie in what he said on approaching with something similar, I remember a college professor I had would say, on trial and error, how he and his coaching staff would approach over 100 recruiting prospects throughout the off season, and this was for a D-2 basketball program. He'd get turned down a LOT, but he could always fill his quota. Sometimes it takes a lot of failure to see results, but you've gotta keep trying. The more you hear "no," the less it stings.
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. It pisses me off when people always say that there's never too late or whenever people say that love is ageless or there's no age cap on love or dating and relationships, sometimes I thought about breaking up with my current girlfriend and just stay single forever since I didn't grow up having a normal youth in terms of a dating life. So despite having a girlfriend I still feel like an incel. I get even more mad and enraged and pissed off whenever people and society think we guys or we men have the better end of the stick, think we have it better than women when it comes to dating and relationships and attracting somebody.
I had 4 matches recently none have sent me 1 message in response to my 1 message opener , most of the ladies want validation/instagram followers(they all swiped right on me first)
I can't believe I am one of those guys that just can never get laid or lucky in a relationship, like thats crazy, most people think I am a cool person, but western women now days are too self-entitled, not humbled, narcisistic, and just suck.
I live in a small city of about 15,000 people where there are both high populations of immigrants and temporary foreign workers. Therefore, I find it difficult to meet women.
At 50 it's almost impossible to meet anyone when your busy with work and life. Seems like women don't care about older men unless they are wealthy and high status
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getting girls is very tough if you’re no longer in highschool, college, or lack a decent social circle who can hook you up with girls.
yes u can try approaching at bars (good luck there), streets, malls, parks, cafes but good luck again bc most women aren’t approachable and the interaction doesn’t feel free flowing.
Join any class you are slightly interested in. You will learn something and meet new people. Not that hard, just look it up in your area. Could be language class, cooking, whatever
@@fatihonder1424 likely will be filled with women over the age of 30. but not a bad idea nonetheless
The other issue is women in public are so zoned into their phones making them unapproachable
@@bigal98761 yea and most don’t even give off an approachable vibe. Seem way too
uptight
@@ajw_3153 trying to get a girls attention when she's glued into her phone is near impossible
To tie in what he said on approaching with something similar, I remember a college professor I had would say, on trial and error, how he and his coaching staff would approach over 100 recruiting prospects throughout the off season, and this was for a D-2 basketball program. He'd get turned down a LOT, but he could always fill his quota. Sometimes it takes a lot of failure to see results, but you've gotta keep trying. The more you hear "no," the less it stings.
You quoted Einstein when you talk about insanity. Well done, man 💪
I can't swipe more than 5 minutes a day. After about 2 minutes I am out of profiles shown to me (living in a city with 2mio people).
yeah i have gone through everyone lol not many worth swiping right on honestly in this day and age
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
It pisses me off when people always say that there's never too late or whenever people say that love is ageless or there's no age cap on love or dating and relationships, sometimes I thought about breaking up with my current girlfriend and just stay single forever since I didn't grow up having a normal youth in terms of a dating life.
So despite having a girlfriend I still feel like an incel.
I get even more mad and enraged and pissed off whenever people and society think we guys or we men have the better end of the stick, think we have it better than women when it comes to dating and relationships and attracting somebody.
Teenage love is something pure and innocent that not many would have experienced.
Not many people worth swiping right on or approaching to me .. most of them are ugly in this day and age through their own actions
The few matches I do get bail on the conversation after 1-2 messages, so I'm not sure what to do...
I had 4 matches recently none have sent me 1 message in response to my 1 message opener , most of the ladies want validation/instagram followers(they all swiped right on me first)
Fuck em on to the next they probably just wanted attention and validation and when you give it to them they just go ghost
Online dating ruined real life relationships!
I can't believe I am one of those guys that just can never get laid or lucky in a relationship, like thats crazy, most people think I am a cool person, but western women now days are too self-entitled, not humbled, narcisistic, and just suck.
I live in a small city of about 15,000 people where there are both high populations of immigrants and temporary foreign workers. Therefore, I find it difficult to meet women.
Join a club, yoga class, dance class in the town(except gym). You'd meet more people out there
What’s wrong with immigrants
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To many rules, I’ll die alone
It's a craps shoot. Just because you may get a girlfriend, or wife, now, that is NO guarantee you won't be alone, anyway, later.
At 50 it's almost impossible to meet anyone when your busy with work and life. Seems like women don't care about older men unless they are wealthy and high status
Maybe take some time off, or do cold approach after work.
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