The fact that he knew this would work actually speaks badly of Robin more so than it speaks well of Barney. Wanting what you can't have is the key step to not being happy.
@@anakinskywalker958 I mean I'd say the same goes for most guys as well. It's ingrained in men from a young age to think that when a woman says she's not interested that it means she is, because women are taught from a young age that if we show intrest immediately then we're "too easy". Men tend to also be taught that, if she is interested, she'll act like she's not and so if she acts like she is interested immediately then she must be "easy" or "a slut". Obviously this does not go for every person's upbringing but from a general standpoint, it is something we are all taught. To want what you can't have and to act like you don't want what you do.
Funny how relatable barney's speech is. I'm going through exactly what he is going through in this scene and it is just so comforting knowing that you can make it "okay" in the end.
It's not normal and it isn't a good thing to do to yourself to pretend to be OK just to think it's OK.When it's over it's it's like losing someone. The hardest part is detaching.
I hope you understand that being next to your ex is physically and mentally not good for you. Scientifically proven, not some bs a UA-cam comment is throwing at you. Google it. It isn’t healthy or good for you. It doesn’t matter if it affects you now or later. Best of luck though friend. No witty comeback or snarky remark- truly wish you well
@@muscularfish4531 you don’t date at work homie 😂😂😂 Another common L. No excuses. Don’t do it. It’s where you will draw out the worst of each other- and by your comment… we’ll it seems I’m right lol
I did this and it actually worked for me. I told her I was done, I’m not feeling the same way about you anymore and she started flirting with me again 😅
@@ddwow566 this is true but when u level up your mind body n spirit n fix the internal issue of yourself your light n joy with yourself will shine threw even towards your ex n they’ll miss you more than you know grass ain’t greener on the other side 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sexy Beast only to women who always wants what they can't get but i think she still needs to be attracted to you in some way.. or else she wouldn't care
This scene was beautiful & sad at the same time. It showed character growth for him and it also showed her what she missed out on. Men reach a breaking point too in life when they just don’t have anything left to give. I had a woman I really liked for years and we had the same friend group. For years she was hot & cold towards me. But when I finally just moved on from her and got into a relationship she thought I was the best thing walking,flirting with me and couldn’t stop being nice. I was just at a point where nothing she could possibly do that ever made me feel the same way about her again. Now she has 3 kids,2 BD’s and just doesn’t look the same. I’m still nice to her & a friend to her but I will always friendzone her forever.
Notice how he kept it short and clean, didn't make a big scene, he said it all confidently as if he knew what he finally wanted 😉 then she gave a giggle and started to play with her hair.
After the never-ending second, I'm glad Barney did this. I know Barney knows Robin will go after what she can't have with a vengeance but Robin needed to make it clear to herself that she wanted Barney. After letting him down so severely with Nora and Kevin, where Barney was forced to own up to his mistake, lost Nora in the process and then had to watch Robin stay with Kevin to the point he proposed to her? I think Robin needed to go through this to truly know what Barney meant to her.
@@ayshkantmahapatra5188what happened next is she became the one trying to get him, and they ended up with each other until they parted their ways at the end. Simply say, they being with each other does not have a happy ending.
@@matthiasjilimin700 It Really Works If You Are In The Same Situation Just Like Barney & Robin Were, But Also Remember The Fact Sooner Or Later Both Gonna Realise That You Will Fall Out Of Feelings For Each Other & Will Part Ways No Matter How You Try To Save Things.
Only if she is into you and really enjoy your company but she has conflict with her emotions and intentions with you, pal. If she is not into you and she has a clear head and that is no more feelings other than friendship, trust me pal will never work. She will walk away like she never knew you and wont bother at all
I remember the exact moment I came to the same conclusion. I didn’t tell her like in this clip, nothing dramatic. But I pulled away for a bit. And to this day, that girl and I are still friends. Will she always have a part of my heart? I can’t lie, yes she will. But when you are able to rationally accept this in your mind, then you can move on. It’s not easy tho
absolutely. Only works if the woman has slight interest in you or you both have some history and they are not sure about how they feel. If you fo it to a woman who has absolutely no attraction towards you in the 1st place, it's more of a relief lol
@@dancingspeed But Still Sooner or Later They Will Fall Out Of Feelings For Each Other Again When They Realise That It Was Nothing More Than A Desire To Want What We Not Able To Get.
Anything you can do to show her you have moved on works, anything. So the ultimate strategy is to simply move on. Go for other girls, have fun. In the end, even if she doesnt come back to you, which is very rare case, you still win cuz you will already have other options.
I'm done. You don't have to worry anymore. I'm done trying to get you I can't do it anymore. I'm sorry its taken me this long to figure it out. But I promise I'm done making a fool of myself Its okay Its okay I wanted to be okay.
This says a lot about Robin and how she never moved past this unhealthy desire. She could always have Ted so she didn't want him and ended up marrying Barney. Finally, when Ted moved on with his life and was in a healthy relationship wtih Tracy, Robin wanted him. Robin is sus for causing the death if Tracy if you ask me.
Because I was once in a similar situation and had to let go off a really long, deep and unreciprocated crush. I teared up when he said this exact words; "It's okay, I want it to be okay" this were my exact feelings back then.😖 Anyways it was really worth it cause i meant every word i said to her, and it helped me move on quickly, and although she felt bad about the whole thing, like robin in the video, we later agreed to be friends. All and all, this was highly relatable, it got me emotional!
Just told the girl Ive been in love with for 5 years that I’m done. She still means everything to me but I’m done making a fool of myself. It was nice while it lasted
Only if she is into you and really enjoy your company but she has conflict with her emotions and intentions with you, pal. If she is not into you and she has a clear head and that is no more feeling other than friendship, trust me pal will never work. She will walk away like she never knew you and wont bother at all
Preach there aren't some prize to be won there conditioned to think there all that but when a guy doesn't care or get doe eyes at an highly attractive women they like the guy they want what they can't have why u think they like nonchalant guys 😂 my gf hates Robin so much and we have watched it all the way threw together 3 times in total I've watched it all the way threw 11 times 😂
"Let me just say this, I'm done. I'm done trying to get you, you don't have to worry anymore. I'm sorry it's taken me this long to figure it out, but I promise.. I'm done making a fool of myself. I want to be okay." - Barney Stinson
Did anyone tell that song at the end of this scene, it was the Barney&Robin's song from "the power of the Ring" épisode... What would I do without you = )
I have a crush,havent liked anyone like i do her,i really enjoy being around her but im scared to be hurt cause i've already been hurt i dont know if i can go through this again,im thinking about doing what barney did,i dont want to hurt anymore
I've never watched this show, but this clip just pooped up after my ex broke up with me and I've been trying it all to make it work again...Idk how the universe works like this, but if this is a sign, it sure is a heavy one.
It's a perfect ending... Most of you won't understand but it shows that life isn't perfect... The reality has been shown through reel life of Ted mosby and the group... U can't call a show non-legendary(i miss barney) just because u don't like the way it ends
Wish he rekindled things with Nora and Ted’s wife stayed in the picture. The protagonists of sitcoms are always pretty unlikeable people (how else would you have drama?) but there is always one that just takes the cake and in this show it was Robin.
Guys, lemme told you, this is working 100%. Only if the woman truly likes you. But like every women, she is kind lost, like its isnt the good time, i dont know.. im confused, stuffs like that. The " Im done " from Barney is working guys... Try it, and u ll see
For some reason, women don't see the value of men until they give up on them. Then after the guy stops caring...NOW she wants to try to win him back and put in effort.
If George of the jungle, displayed his amazing acting skills and won an Oscar. I think someone should give pratrick Harris a hot to get his Oscar. Based on this scene . I love it
Nobody can pull of barney's role the way neil pulled it off.
vidit shirke true🤘
And than think about that he is gay and had to make out with 100 girls
guess we'll never know
challenge accepted.
I don't know maybe Jim Parsons can the guy played Sheldon Cooper
Step 4: Robin goes nuts.
Hahaha
❤️❤️
I think in not the only one doing this xd
The fact that he knew this would work actually speaks badly of Robin more so than it speaks well of Barney. Wanting what you can't have is the key step to not being happy.
Agreed.
Woman 101 They always want the very thing that they know they can't have.
@@anakinskywalker958 I mean I'd say the same goes for most guys as well.
It's ingrained in men from a young age to think that when a woman says she's not interested that it means she is, because women are taught from a young age that if we show intrest immediately then we're "too easy". Men tend to also be taught that, if she is interested, she'll act like she's not and so if she acts like she is interested immediately then she must be "easy" or "a slut".
Obviously this does not go for every person's upbringing but from a general standpoint, it is something we are all taught. To want what you can't have and to act like you don't want what you do.
The entire plan Says a lot about barney he’s controlling manipulative etc 😂
@@kamilpaul7430 please
Reverse psychology 101
He’s such a genius
Hard to get 101
Invented by Bugs Bunny.
Power of ''NO"
She closed the door but he locked it.
Nah that’s crazy work
It was all part of the play
That was a badass move
Kshitij Rathod kind of!! but we couldn't stop watch😢😢
but ultimately robin ruins it all by being robin.
It is! I'm going to try this very move
I have tried this move and it actually worked
@@uyangabattulga9653 couldn't get you
Funny how relatable barney's speech is. I'm going through exactly what he is going through in this scene and it is just so comforting knowing that you can make it "okay" in the end.
Going through it currently lol. Except, being friends w/her is to hard 💀💀💀 I see her everyday at work LMAO
It's not normal and it isn't a good thing to do to yourself to pretend to be OK just to think it's OK.When it's over it's it's like losing someone. The hardest part is detaching.
I hope you understand that being next to your ex is physically and mentally not good for you. Scientifically proven, not some bs a UA-cam comment is throwing at you. Google it. It isn’t healthy or good for you. It doesn’t matter if it affects you now or later. Best of luck though friend. No witty comeback or snarky remark- truly wish you well
@@muscularfish4531 you don’t date at work homie 😂😂😂
Another common L. No excuses. Don’t do it. It’s where you will draw out the worst of each other- and by your comment… we’ll it seems I’m right lol
How are you now?
Even knowing what his plan was. This speech is everything to me. It’s how I feel. I am telling them I’m done.
How did it work out for you?
so what happend please share with us
I did this and it actually worked for me.
I told her I was done, I’m not feeling the same way about you anymore and she started flirting with me again 😅
Same with me, man. Hard to let her go. Very hard when she has been my entire world for the last six months.
@@elsidhalili2643 bro please give me the exact line by line message. I need it.
It's weird to watch this knowing it's a part of Barney's big plan.
Whats the big plan?
@@hafizzahari0411 have u watched the show?
@@hafizzahari0411 The Robin
@@jee4927 which show is it?
@@NishaSingh-ep4jy "How I met your mother" or something like that
you never know how much you love something... until you lose it.
Facts
That’s y u should just leave n they’ll come to you
@@isacasencio5680 but they left smh
@@ddwow566 this is true but when u level up your mind body n spirit n fix the internal issue of yourself your light n joy with yourself will shine threw even towards your ex n they’ll miss you more than you know grass ain’t greener on the other side 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@isacasencio5680 Thank you! Hes over me and I just want to move on but I appreciate it!
And that's how you get her hooked
the great part is that this actually works in real life
Sexy Beast only to women who always wants what they can't get but i think she still needs to be attracted to you in some way.. or else she wouldn't care
It also only works short-term I think? Just for a hookup/ getting laid. This isn't a healthy way to pursue real love. It's just playing (mind)games.
@@KodokuSamaa I think that's what Barney was ultimetly going for...
A good reminder of how to move on with your life.
It actually works when you say you will walk away and really mean it. 💪
Well played Barnacles, well played
Subham Das Gupta you mean swarly
Contrary to popular belief the Barnacle always knows what he’s doing
That part when he says "because it really will be good to see you" always gets me...wow
I actually did this play after somebody advised me and it worked. We were a terrible couple and karma sure got me back but yup, this works.
Bornonthecusp hahaha
The same thing happen to Barney.
what you did? i dont get it
@@aparatmetong8645 told someone I was no longer an option so they'd want me.
@@bornonthecusp19 i didnt watch the entire of this episode lol, its all about mind tricking or something? you said that then she think about you?
This works EVERY TIME
it does though when you say you will walk away and really mean it
60% of the time
83% of the time
He always gets the yes
Didn't work for me
Randomly came on my feed. I did this same speech and meant it. Thank you for helping me get over that person and move on and be happy again 💙
Same for me ….
This scene was beautiful & sad at the same time. It showed character growth for him and it also showed her what she missed out on. Men reach a breaking point too in life when they just don’t have anything left to give. I had a woman I really liked for years and we had the same friend group. For years she was hot & cold towards me. But when I finally just moved on from her and got into a relationship she thought I was the best thing walking,flirting with me and couldn’t stop being nice. I was just at a point where nothing she could possibly do that ever made me feel the same way about her again. Now she has 3 kids,2 BD’s and just doesn’t look the same. I’m still nice to her & a friend to her but I will always friendzone her forever.
the way to a women's heart
andrew sutherland Reverse psychology.
Notice how he kept it short and clean, didn't make a big scene, he said it all confidently as if he knew what he finally wanted 😉 then she gave a giggle and started to play with her hair.
After the never-ending second, I'm glad Barney did this. I know Barney knows Robin will go after what she can't have with a vengeance but Robin needed to make it clear to herself that she wanted Barney. After letting him down so severely with Nora and Kevin, where Barney was forced to own up to his mistake, lost Nora in the process and then had to watch Robin stay with Kevin to the point he proposed to her? I think Robin needed to go through this to truly know what Barney meant to her.
0:25 We can see the panic in Robin's face 🤣
She be like: please don't stop
Can you please tell what happened next, how to manipulation goes on... I am at this stage of manipulation but I am still in season 5
@@ayshkantmahapatra5188what happened next is she became the one trying to get him, and they ended up with each other until they parted their ways at the end. Simply say, they being with each other does not have a happy ending.
“because it really will be good to see you” instantly sobbing 😭😭😭
Just the same words which I want to say to my crush...pretty accurate to my feeling
SN editz. You’ll be better off without that kind of distraction
Agreed man, don't keep yourself locked in the Oneitis club.
same, i broke up with my girlfriend today and i would like to say this but she probably can't understand it
“because it really will be good to see you”
Himym really taught us one thing, a relationship built on lies, cheat does not last long.
This works In real life, I can confirm
Hellstorm 6 please confirm
@@madara992 a year later and I can confirm it works
@@mryugiplaysiosgames5224 Do elaborate
All of these work
@@matthiasjilimin700 It Really Works If You Are In The Same Situation Just Like Barney & Robin Were, But Also Remember The Fact Sooner Or Later Both Gonna Realise That You Will Fall Out Of Feelings For Each Other & Will Part Ways No Matter How You Try To Save Things.
lmaoo this actually works, you can literally use this word for word
even the part with the redhead and the color of her nipples??
*especially* the part with the redhead and the color of her nipples
Expect the patrice part
What happened next can you please tell... I am at this stage of manipulating a girl but I am still in season 5.
Only if she is into you and really enjoy your company but she has conflict with her emotions and intentions with you, pal. If she is not into you and she has a clear head and that is no more feelings other than friendship, trust me pal will never work. She will walk away like she never knew you and wont bother at all
I said *BANG BANG BANGITY BANG I SAID A BANG BANG BANGITY BANG*
Bang bang i said a bang bangity bang
This is not just a show it's an emotion...
That's how he got Robin because Robin's insane
I remember the exact moment I came to the same conclusion. I didn’t tell her like in this clip, nothing dramatic. But I pulled away for a bit. And to this day, that girl and I are still friends. Will she always have a part of my heart? I can’t lie, yes she will. But when you are able to rationally accept this in your mind, then you can move on. It’s not easy tho
I think this only works on girls with confusing personality like robin's, or you know... messed up.
Agreed, I don't think I would buy this.
Yes it work with people who have confused feelings or are attached to u but don't wanna make move
absolutely. Only works if the woman has slight interest in you or you both have some history and they are not sure about how they feel. If you fo it to a woman who has absolutely no attraction towards you in the 1st place, it's more of a relief lol
@@dancingspeed But Still Sooner or Later They Will Fall Out Of Feelings For Each Other Again When They Realise That It Was Nothing More Than A Desire To Want What We Not Able To Get.
Anything you can do to show her you have moved on works, anything. So the ultimate strategy is to simply move on. Go for other girls, have fun. In the end, even if she doesnt come back to you, which is very rare case, you still win cuz you will already have other options.
Do they come back most of the time?
I'm done.
You don't have to worry anymore.
I'm done trying to get you
I can't do it anymore.
I'm sorry its taken me this long to figure it out. But I promise I'm done making a fool of myself
Its okay
Its okay
I wanted to be okay.
Watching this scene just made me realise the girl i want will never be mine.
same bro
i guess robin was not done yet
Walk away, even if she's a friend. Sometimes it hurts but your you and your strong be strong
I think it’s time for me to binge watch HIMYM again
This says a lot about Robin and how she never moved past this unhealthy desire.
She could always have Ted so she didn't want him and ended up marrying Barney.
Finally, when Ted moved on with his life and was in a healthy relationship wtih Tracy, Robin wanted him.
Robin is sus for causing the death if Tracy if you ask me.
Because I was once in a similar situation and had to let go off a really long, deep and unreciprocated crush. I teared up when he said this exact words; "It's okay, I want it to be okay" this were my exact feelings back then.😖
Anyways it was really worth it cause i meant every word i said to her, and it helped me move on quickly, and although she felt bad about the whole thing, like robin in the video, we later agreed to be friends.
All and all, this was highly relatable, it got me emotional!
The last play you'll ever run
Needed this.
Moral: manipulation can get you the girl but sooner or later you and her will realise that you don't belong together 🤣
Words of wisdom ⭐
After Barney said I'm done he should have smiled and walked out the door.
Just told the girl Ive been in love with for 5 years that I’m done. She still means everything to me but I’m done making a fool of myself. It was nice while it lasted
Great one dude, hope you’re doing great
@@dotproduct335 nope lol. It SUUUUUCKS
And suddenly the window was closed.
This tactic works so well it blows my mind 😂😂😂
Only on women with daddy issues or abandonment issues if there not tapped in the head it won't work
What is the next manipulation steps.. Please tell. I need the manipulation tips now but I am in season 5
Only if she is into you and really enjoy your company but she has conflict with her emotions and intentions with you, pal. If she is not into you and she has a clear head and that is no more feeling other than friendship, trust me pal will never work. She will walk away like she never knew you and wont bother at all
Watched this 100000000 times knowing I gave the same speech, hurts to give up on someone, but in the end it’s comforting to know it’s the right move.
Even though this was all part of a plan, in all honesty Barney did have every right to be done with Robin
the ha at the end gets me everytime
That's when she knew she screwed up
Good work barney!!!!
Robin : Huh.
“Badass” I love the way Neil said this line
1:29 what women will probably never feel in 2024 (realizing men don’t want them anymore)
Preach there aren't some prize to be won there conditioned to think there all that but when a guy doesn't care or get doe eyes at an highly attractive women they like the guy they want what they can't have why u think they like nonchalant guys 😂 my gf hates Robin so much and we have watched it all the way threw together 3 times in total I've watched it all the way threw 11 times 😂
so men are gay?
He should have her drink brought to the table, pay the tab, walk out and never look back.
Man i love this serie
What is the name of this series
@@ourkhurram it’s called “how i met your mother”
"Let me just say this, I'm done. I'm done trying to get you, you don't have to worry anymore. I'm sorry it's taken me this long to figure it out, but I promise.. I'm done making a fool of myself. I want to be okay." - Barney Stinson
If there's one thing women want, it's what they can't have
Did anyone tell that song at the end of this scene, it was the Barney&Robin's song from "the power of the Ring" épisode... What would I do without you = )
Barney and Robin made so much more sense than Ted and Robin!! Change my mind, I dare you
Yeah true. Also they wasted a whole season on their relationship
@@divyamgoyal7995 they also wasted our time by making us watch it
How the hell did Barney and Robin make sense. Their relationship made no sense at all. The show even pointed it out
After this take some time.....and you will be fine........
Next time Barney will use the DENNIS method. Gets them everytime
Guys keep it a secret otherwise they will know even before you try to pull it..
I have a crush,havent liked anyone like i do her,i really enjoy being around her but im scared to be hurt cause i've already been hurt i dont know if i can go through this again,im thinking about doing what barney did,i dont want to hurt anymore
I've never watched this show, but this clip just pooped up after my ex broke up with me and I've been trying it all to make it work again...Idk how the universe works like this, but if this is a sign, it sure is a heavy one.
i hate this show so much no wait just the ending
MystiCalBEING89 true they maked full season of Robin and Barney wedding.
next episode they divorce😠😠😠
Loved it myself :)
MMA is in my Blood
Mah man, if I wanted reality, I would have continued living my life and not bothered watching fake shows.
xD
oh common mah man, personally I usually want good endings just to be optimistic ya know what I mean?
What you prefer bro?
It's a perfect ending... Most of you won't understand but it shows that life isn't perfect... The reality has been shown through reel life of Ted mosby and the group... U can't call a show non-legendary(i miss barney) just because u don't like the way it ends
N he's his own wing man😎
Wish he rekindled things with Nora and Ted’s wife stayed in the picture. The protagonists of sitcoms are always pretty unlikeable people (how else would you have drama?) but there is always one that just takes the cake and in this show it was Robin.
Going to tell some girls today I am done making a fool of myself.
This totally works
.... I feel this, so much.
It was the part of the plan... But barney really mean it
I absolutely hate how well this works.
Rtz BabyRage
Kappa pride feed mid
"It's okay, I want it to be okay."
Ive tried the same with the Girl that i love since were Kids.
It worked ! ❤😂thanks barney 😂😂
Apparently I will never be done making a fool of myself.
To BadKid, this is BadKid.
Badass.
And that’s what’s hard to do is say I’m done
It felt real to me even though it was fake
I use this scene today to express me.
The Robin in motion
Guys, lemme told you, this is working 100%. Only if the woman truly likes you. But like every women, she is kind lost, like its isnt the good time, i dont know.. im confused, stuffs like that. The " Im done " from Barney is working guys... Try it, and u ll see
For some reason, women don't see the value of men until they give up on them. Then after the guy stops caring...NOW she wants to try to win him back and put in effort.
That "Huh?" 😊😅🎉
Anxious / Avoidant. Push Pull.
I was alone for so long..i finally found my one and lost her .... i still try and it hurts
Man I feel this
If George of the jungle, displayed his amazing acting skills and won an Oscar. I think someone should give pratrick Harris a hot to get his Oscar. Based on this scene . I love it
In the end
Robin being Robin
She's just about ego
Reverse psychology at its finest 😂👏🏼
I'd love to have the courage to say something like this...
Maturing is realizing Robin ain’t shit 😂😂
For real this move works great with awkward situation
Gonna give this talk…. Without the grand plan he had
He did not say awesome but badass. The writing of this show was on point.
Am done making a fool of myself.its okay I want it to be okay
And just like that she fell back into his trap