This was so well said thank you for this. I'm currently going through a miscarriage and it was my first pregnancy. Everything you said was said so beautifully
I just found out I’m pregnant on the 13th this month. My mom had 2 miscarriages (her first pregnancy, and last) and I’m so scared the same thing will happen to me. It’s my first pregnancy and all I’ve wanted my whole life is to have a baby. Please pray for me 🙏🏻 and all the expectant moms in the comments or just looking at the comments, I’m praying for you, and sending good vibes ❤️❤️
I had a miscarriage early June of 2019 with my first pregnancy. I was 9 weeks but baby was measuring at 5 weeks. It was an eye opening experience. I never knew all that happens when going threw a miscarriage. It's so hard. Now I'm 7 weeks pregnant had some spotting and it scared me so bad. But everything looks good so far. It truly opened my heart even wider for all with a loss of a baby.
Congratulations on your pregnancy!! I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine how nerve wrecking it can be at times, but I hope that you are able to enjoy this pregnancy and trust that all will be just fine. Sending you lots of love! Xx
Thank you for this video and for sharing your stories. I'm 6 weeks and I have spotting and cramping. I had these symptoms a year and half ago I think I was 8 weeks when I miscarried. It's just horrible the doubt and the waiting.
Have you had any cramping with the spotting? I have ovarian cysts that have been causing pain for the last 9 months including 7 weeks of my pregnancy. I'm so scared. I've tried to contact my obgyn since my 1st prenatal appointment isn't til Nov. 7th but they haven't gotten back to me.
@@srowley6974 how are you doing? I am 8 weeks 2 days. Started spotting 4 days ago on Tuesday then bad cramps the next day with light to moderate bleeding. My doctor referred me for HCG bloodwork. I did the bloodwork yesterdsy and have to do another HCG test Monday to compare the levels. In the meantime i have my 8 week ultrasound today and so worried for bad news 😰
@Sarah P I ended up miscarrying, unfortunately. I was 8 weeks along. I started bleeding after a few days of spotting. Cramping became more severe as well.
I went through 3 miscarriages before having by first born child. I learned that it doesn’t matter how many times you go through it, each one is as hard as the first. It’s a kind of pain that I don’t think anyone should ever have to experience but so many couples do and it’s not talked about. We also need to talk about how scary pregnancy can be after you’ve had a miscarriage. My son I had after 3 miscarriages was born healthy but during my pregnancy I lived in constant fear of losing him. I’m now 36 weeks pregnant, and I thought after having a successful birth that I would no longer fear miscarriage, but even with this pregnancy that was always my biggest fear. My heart breaks for anyone who has experienced a loss of a child, but we are not me big tribe who needs to stick together, support one another, and not let anyone feel they are alone
YES!!!! I couldn't agree more with you, Rebekah! Thank you for mentioning this. I am SO sorry that you had to experience this at all, but three times is something I honestly can't imagine. I can only imagine the anxiety with subsequent pregnancies. I want to honor your strength and courage! Congratulations on your newest addition! I am sending you so much love and light, mama. You've got this! Xx
I'm currently pregnant after miscaring last year, and what you wrote touch me to the core. I cant wait until the end of june until my first obgyn visit.... It doesnt help that a part from being tired I dont feel 7 weeks pregnant.... The anxiety of this pregnancy is killing me. It a hard one to go after miscaring ! My heart to all of you mama's going through this!!
I miscarried on November 1st. I was supposed to be 9 weeks, but the baby stopped developing at 5.6 weeks. The pain was so severe that I ended up in the emergency room. I’m still healing emotionally. It’s been difficult. Some days are better than others just like you mentioned. It comes in waves. Thank you for this video. 💕
My wife and I going through this right now. 8 weeks, day after doc appointment she "thinks" she miscarried. Won't know for sure for another week. But I think she is pretty positive she did.
i just miscarriage my 7 weeks and six days..its been so difficult to accept as i was watching with you right now.i realized everything happens for a reason.Thank you very much for this vlog.
Sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage as well. Working in the field of gynecology, it is unfortunately a common experience for many women. I applaud you for your bravery discussing the matter, as oftentimes many women feel alone. Fortunately, for my family, we are parents to our adorable 1 year old son; as we consider growing our family however, the fear of a loss creeps back in, but we will hold the faith. Great discussion!
Thank you so much for this comment! So very common, and it would be hard to witness it on the regular as I'm sure you do in your field of work. So sorry for your loss as well! Congrats on your sweet boy!! That is such a fun age! Big hugs!
Currently going through a miscarriage without bleeding. My third pregnancy and they all end this way! I’m trying so hard no to lose hope of having a beautiful healthy baby but with my endometriosis it’s just so hard to see the bright side. I’m currently at the stage where I hate my body and I hate that it can’t do what it’s supposed to as a women I feel less like a women.
So I know this is perhaps crazy to say. But I also didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms. Even tho this is my first! My mom always immediately started vomiting when she was pregnant with me and my brother. The only time she didn’t is when she missed her period after we both were born. She didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms either but was tested positive for pregnancy. She went in and it was a blood clot but her body mistook it for pregnancy. I’ve told the doctors this. They say it’s an healthy pregnancy. I can’t help but feel something is awfully wrong. I keep telling them these period like cramps, but more intense on my left, isn’t normal! But I feel like the doctors don’t take me seriously. I also told them I much rather abort before the baby has a soul or a heartbeat if it will have any complications. I call it my gut instinct but I genuinely feel I miscarried. I have no idea what to do since I already went for scans twice. Today will be my third but at this point I’m over the vague answers. I’m at 6 weeks myself now so I definitely want to abort now and not any later since I know it will be harder and I just can’t see the embryo. It will break me. Even after knowing exactly what I want and need I just don’t feel like the doctors are taking me seriously and hearing me out. All they said is I have a normal cyst and my hcg level went up…. One week ago it was 811 and now almost 2368 or something…. PS: I’m not vomiting. No morning sickness. Used to have extremely sensitive breasts but even that’s normal now. Only have intense belly cramps and nipples hurting from time to time. Other than that I have ZERO pregnancy symptoms. PPS: So glad to hear your story. It put things more into perspective for me and gave me hope. The health system here is getting worse and I genuinely don’t understand the doctors. I’m tired of vague answers and I’ll continue to listen to my intuition and whatever is best. Rn I’m the person in charge and it’s my pregnancy. No one else’s. I’m done playing this waiting game for the doctors. Enough is enough and I need to put my mental and physical health first.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so sorry for your loss❤️🤗! I feel your grief. We had our son on July 10, 2014 and followed by 3 miscarriages from 6-12 weeks and each one was extremely painful to handle. It was extremely lonely place to be💔. But I’m happy to say we now have a healthy and happy 15 months old baby girl❤️❤️! Sending you love😘
Congratulations on your baby girl! That is very exciting! I am so so sorry to hear of your losses. My heart aches tremendously for you thinking about repeating that loss and pain. It's truly incredible how much strength we possess. Lots of love to you!
Thank you for sharing. I hope you feel better. 🙏I too experience a miscarriage at 6 to 7 wks. This was going to be my 4th baby. I have 3 small kids all under 5 yrs old. Like you mentioned it was hard to grieve over my loss because I have more kids.
I am so sorry for your loss! Wow! I can only image how busy you are. Hats off to you for rocking it, mama! I am sending you healing energy and lots of love. You're not alone! Xx
Thank you for this! I am going through a miscarriage right now. I went to the ED yesterday and I was told I had complete spontaneous miscarriage. It is my first pregnancy, I was 6 weeks pregnant. My husband and I got married October 18th. We were so happy, so excited. I tested positive not even a week ago. I am trying my best to be positive, there are so many questions, so many doubts. Please pray for me 🙏🏼 The emotional and physical pain is consuming me.
sending you so much love. my husband and i lost our baby 2 days ago & its a pain that i could have never been prepared for. we were 7 weeks and just got married 12/21. i pray for your healing 💗
My girlfriend 8 months pregnant 🤰🏽 the baby due in late April. I have wished for this my entire life and don’t know what I would do if we lost Kamryn. I’m praying for you boo.
Thank you for this video....I misscarriage 3 times at 5 weeks and 7 weeks. Last misscarriage, I spend one night at the hospital because the bleeding was not stopping. And yes it was painful physically and emotional. Prayers for all the women who had gone thru this.
This is the video I needed as I process my miscarriage. Thank you for sharing. The physical pain was shocking trying to get through the week and all my appointments.
I just left the doctor yesterday for my first ultrasound at 8 weeks, 3 days. The screen was black, nothing was there. I am so hurt. I'm going for a second option tomorrow at a different midwifery. My original told me to come back in 11 days and then we will go from there if I don't start bleeding. This is extremely hurtful, but God will heal all my wounds even this one.
Thank you for this video. It's a very important topic. I had a miscarriage at 26 weeks. It was truly painful. But life goes on, and now, a year later, I am pregnant again
Oh mama!!! My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry!! :( I am so thrilled that you are pregnant with your rainbow baby. You are a testament to just how resilient we are! So much love to you!!
Thank you so much for this video. My husband and I are waiting for my natural miscarriage to start. I am so sorry for your loss. And I am so thankful for women like you who share their stories for other women fo grow from. Thank you.
I'm so sorry you and yours had to go through this. :( I was unable to get pregnant with my ex husband and thought i would never have any kids. I met my current husband and we immediately got pregnant, but i lost the baby around 7 weeks. I was heartbroken but honestly hopeful too. I had gotten pregnant!! So after the suggested wait time we tried again and immediately got pregnant with our rainbow baby! I was terrified of losing her the whole time. She is a okay! We waited a year and started trying for a second and I have never gotten pregnant since. I am/was devastated! I didn't even know secondary infertility was a thing. I hit 40 last year and decided I should give up, my husband has been done wanting to try for years anyway. I still cry regularly over having only one. I know I am blessed but I can't shake the disappointment and pain. Heads up Mama's.
I feel you. going trough the same thing. Have one kid (3yo) with IVF after 5 years of infertility, now was trying for a 2nd one and having a miscarriage this week. I'm 40, not sure I wana try again. I feel like giving it up might be an informed/sound decision, but definitely an imposed one. It's more of a reaction decision to my reality than what I really want. It's hard. Even though we are happy, it's just not what I had pictured in my mind of ''my family'' .....
I am currently miscarrying… so happy I came across this video. This is the hardest thing I think I ever had to do.. thank you so much for this video during this time ❤️
So sorry to hear. I have had two, it’s so horrible. My heart goes out to you. Have had a baby girl since those 2. Healing waters over you❤️I was scared when I found out about this baby girl but God kept me believing
We are going through our first miscarriage, I'm around 8ish weeks. Still blessed to have had 2 healthy pregnancies and 2 beautiful children from them. Thank you for talking about this.
I’m going through a miscarriage I’m pretty sure I missed my period on 12 of august and started bleeding on 7th of sept with a bit of clotting and blood then as day passed full blown bleeding and little clotting and non stop bleeding and now extreme cramping on left side compared to the other bad cramps..
I was pregnant but I just lost my baby yesterday 💔 at 1 month 2 weeks and 2 days, my heart is shattered into pieces thinking I wouldn't even be able to hold my baby and see my baby grow 😢 To anyone reading this, please pray for my baby, she/he is my little angel now watching over me. Coping with miscarriage is really hard, tears everytime I wake up and in any time of the day, walang pinipiling oras. I love you so much my little angel, I was supposed to name her/him Arabella Jade / Kalix JD. Now I feel like I lost my purpose again, it's so hard to take care of myself knowing my baby isn't here anymore inside of me, but i'm trying so hard to not neglect myself. I was upset and in so much pain, i'm hurting too much to the point where I question God why? Why would he give me something that he would just take away? I talked to my friends and told me to never question his will but for now i'm in the verge of my sadness. Everything happens for a reason? Why would this need to happen? 💔 Right now I don't understand and I still can't accept the fact. Please pray for my baby in heaven now 😢
Oh honey I am so sorry. Everything you are feeling is completely normal - questions and all. Thank you for being open to share your heart. Sending you prayers and love.
Going through an active miscarriage rn. The baby stopped developing at 6 weeks and I'm 10 weeks along. This is such a hard journey. I don't know what I'd do without my husband's support. Thank you for this video and insight. ❤️
Omg! I went to my first appointment yesterday 11/10/2022 and this is exactly what the doctor said I was measuring 6wks but I should be 10 weeks 😢…At first I didn’t cry until later on after receiving so much love, warm words of encouragement to help me move forward, and support from friends and family. I got so overwhelmed with emotions thinking back on the miscarriage I had in January 2017, however I was blessed to get pregnant again October of the same year with my son Legend who I had a 26 wks 8 days on May 4, 2018 but he’s doing and thriving each day! Now this pregnancy which was not planned at all took me by surprise but I was ready to go through with it and live on my baby next year but unfortunately yesterday changed all that so now I’m anticipating to bleed out the tissues any day now…I’m so sad but I know I’m not alone. I’m glad I watched this video and read this comment !
Thank you for this video. It’s been a week since I miscarried. Like you said there are days were you feel like you’re fine but suddenly hits you like it just happened.
Went in for my 8.5 week scan & baby only measured 6.5 weeks with no heartbeat. We were devastated 💔! So hard to be surprised like that. I had been having very light spotting and cramping for a week but nothing serious. Spotting has continued on and off and still haven’t bled a week later! So waiting on treatment options at my return appointment. This is my first MC after a chemical pregnancy. So heartbreaking! I get pregnant easily but keep having issues so I’m seeking fertility guidance now!
i found out i was pregnant in may and i lost our baby in june on fathers day…..my husband is devestaded … i am too and more traumatized im trying to cope
Thanks for the video love, lam 8 weeks pregnant, l did my first unsound a few days ago and my Doctor say that there's no heart rate, the baby stop growing which is a sign of miscarriage.l feel 😔 sad, lam scared l don't know what will be next step.
My wife have been having series of miscarriages for a year and 8 months but using HCB drugs for fertility put an end to it, January 11th, 2021 we had our first baby, thanks to our doctor.
I am 7 weeks. I don't know if I am having a miscarriage or not at this moment. I just am extremely tired, spotting tiny blood and mucus. I just saw my OB Monday and heard the little babies heartbeat. I have prayed every breath that I am not and this baby is okay . This can't be happening again!! I am so bitter and broken.
we are 22 weeks and baby girl and I are doing great! I feel her move almost everyday. However, I did bleed for the first 11weeks and no one could tell me why. I pray that this sweet baby makes it to this side of Earth!! Thank y'all for checking in!
@@junebug2024 you’ve come so far, so she will definitely make it. Maybe you had subchorionic hemorrhage. Im eight weeks ahead of you and im pretty sure you cant wait to hold her in your arms next year!
Currently going through a medical management after scans confirmed loss after 13 weeks gestation. This is my 3rd miscarriage and absolutely devastated. Taken misoprostol and extreme agony with cramping. Its just awful.
Thank you. I just went through it. It started 5 days ago and I’m still bleeding but the first two days every time I would look in the toilet and I would see clots I felt so sad 😞 this is heartbreaking for my husband and I. We had been trying for almost two years.
Knowing that you are going to miscarry because of spotting or something else is also heartbreaking but when you don't know and assume everything is fine is more heartbreaking I had two miscarriages 10 weeks no heartbeat and growth, was experiencing spotting but other one was 17 weeks that was a silent miscarriage without any symptoms or bleeding
@@bakertiana yes it is I lost one February this current year .. I am now pregnant again but was diagnosed with possible miscarriage last night Im not having any cramps or heavy bleeding But had pink spotting.. I pray baby is doing good and doctor misdiagnosed me
@@bellgomez5634 you can always shoot me a message if you need to talk as I’m going through it right now. It’s the hardest thing I have ever been through.
Going through this right now at 5 weeks 5 days. (began yesterday, when I woke up at 3am to find myself bleeding and rushed to my OB's for a scan, which confirmed it) I don't know who to talk to because my husband's hurting too, and it was too early for my family or friends to know, and I know of zero other friends who've been through this...I'm trying to put on a brave face at work today but keep having to duck into the restroom to sob privately. I'm absolutely heartbroken. However, hearing someone talk about this is a huge help.
This sounds exactly what I am going through right now. Found out unexpectedly we were expecting. Just accepted a new nursing job and was applying to go back for my RN. Thought it was just another blessing to be added to all of the great things that were happening in my life. Thank you for posting this and sharing. I really needed to see this! I am just trying to give myself space as I have a nine year old and 15 month old.
I am going through this now, at 8 weeks 2days, my mind was tired of the stress of miscarriage that it happened. The stress building up was of those who I wanted to share this experience of bringing another life into our world. I have not told the father yet, because it is so hard. To express any of this to him as he is an addict and mentally can become unwell.
Thank you for this video! Just had my first miscarriage and my story was very similar to yours. It was my second pregnancy and a surprise too. I appreciate you putting this out there.
I just miscarriage my 8 weeks pregnancy that's why I've been looking a video or similar story like mine to understand and to feel that I am not alone in this situation it is very hard for me to accept because this is my first baby but I know that God has a reason why this happened to me... And after my recovery life must go on and back to normal.
I just found out I’m pregnant on the 13th this month. My mom had 2 miscarriages (her first pregnancy, and last) and I’m so scared the same thing will happen to me. It’s my first pregnancy and all I’ve wanted my whole life is to have a baby. Please pray for me 🙏🏻 and I hope all the expectant moms in the comments or just looking at the comments, I’m praying for you, and sending good vibes ❤️❤️
I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant. This is my first. Last year I experienced a miscarriage and I can definitely relate with the pain of seeing all of what your body created coming out. That loss and pain was indescribable. Thank you for this video. Sharing definitely helps other people who have gone through this or are going through this feel not so alone. ❤
❤ agreed. So sorry for your loss as well. I too have experienced 2 miscarriages. The first one was three years ago and the second one was seven weeks ago. It's tough indeed. Wishing you a successful pregnancy. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
As I cry when I write this, I believe I am only 4 weeks and started having pink spotting today. Throughout the day it increased to actual blood. I haven't had cramps or stomach aches but went to see my doctor. I had intercourse yesterday and they said that could be the reason but I'm going to get blood drawn tomorrow. I truly feel I have lost my second baby. My heart is shattering. The other day, I broke down due to family issue I had and I feel that could have led me to this 💔
I am supoosed to be 8 weeks today but my baby still the heartbeat not clear ant it's not growing base on my OB it's not normal anymore. It's been 3 weeks and every week I'd been through ultrasound. It's so frustrating and it feell so bad. Don't know what to do. OB said need to come back by next week to check again.
I went to the ER last night I spotted light pink Wednesday then yesterday Sunday I spotted again I was told it’s a possible miscarriage.. I have an appointment tomorrow to check up Im so scared because I had a miscarriage February of this year .. Praying for a miracle
I too am preying for a miracle..I had a miscarriage in may with twins the due date was December11,2020 😭😭 which is this Friday coming up .. after that miscarriage I got my first cycle in September and found out I’m pregnant.. I went to the hospital on Saturday night due to spotting and they said it’s a threatened miscarriage.. it’s been 3 days and the bleeding got heavier ..I have an appointment in 2 days but I know I’m definitely miscarrying 😭 idk how to feel this week is just too much for me .. I’m currently miscarrying and my due date for my last miscarriage is in 3 days 💔😪
@@heavenlydivine8965 Im sorry for what you’re going through.. I’m also hoping for a miracle I pray in the name of Jesus that both you and I carry a healthy full term baby And for him to protect our wombs
@@heavenlydivine8965 Im sorry for what you’re going through.. I’m also hoping for a miracle I pray in the name of Jesus that both you and I carry a healthy full term baby And for him to protect our wombs
I’ve never had a miscarriage. I’m 6 weeks and 4 days. And this dark discharge has started and I’m terrified. I never experienced this with any other pregnancy
Thank you so much for this I needed to hear every single thing you said and it all makes sense.. I just had a miscarriage last week i was 7 weeks nd we are very sad and depressed that this has happened.. praying for our rainbow baby soon 💕
I wish I was as strong as you🕊, My doctor hasn’t confirmed it yet but looking at a ultrasound and seeing nothing at 10wks 4days is confirmation to me. Just a day of finding out and waiting for blood work results i think my doctor is trying to shine positive light but is not being honest. I appreciate you pointing out to check in with each other because my man seem super strong through this and i haven’t asked him how he feels because he appears much stronger than me. i’m going to check in with him anyway, Thank you for being so strong and positive and sharing your experience
I’m going through miscarriages right now at 12 weeks. The baby stop growing at almost 10 weeks. This is my 6 pregnancy. I was shock that its happened to me for the first time ever. All my other pregnancy was healthy and normal. I’m experiencing the lost of my child for the first time after I saw the heart beat for the time. The second time was a shock. I feel like crying but hold it back.
7wks and just started bleeding yesterday and just currently went through this this in February at 13wks was scheduled for my first ob/gyn appointment on Monday... I'm sad hurt so many emotions I'm still in disbelief...I can't believe this is happening to me💔 I really thought I was blessed with pregnancy that happened right after a miscarriage but I guess he has other plans for me💔 but when, I suffered enough....I send prayers and condolences to all of us....and hopefully soon I'll have my rainbow baby 😥
Thank you for sharing! I am so sorry for your loss. It must have not been easy for you to share and I appreciate it. I have so many friends who sadly have experienced miscarriages. I have tried to provide my support as much as I could to them, however I believe it is a very personal journey. I hope anyone who is going through this at the moment finds piece at heart one day or another. You are not alone! Please always ask for help if you need it. Thank you again for your story. xx
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I think I had a chemical pregnancy:( and now I feel lyk I’m not normal like something wrong with me like why I’m not carrying my baby properly definitely looking for answers
Thanks for sharing and sorry for your loss I found out on September 11 that I was pregnant and I was shocked because we were not trying but we were so excited and was on and off spotting but I read that sometimes you could have spotting so I was keeping an eye on it and it wasn't a lot only a little bit but not every day thats why I was concerned and scared but was hoping that baby was healthy unfortunately on September 20 I went and used the restroom and started bleeding I was terrified I just couldn't believe it I went to the ER and they told me that sometimes bleeding can happened they told me to keep an eye and put a pad they took bloodwork to check my hcg levels it was 340 and I was supposed to be 6 weeks and they told me I was 5 weeks and they send me home but had to go to the doctors office on Tuesday I continue to bleed so I knew I was losing my baby but was hoping everything was fine on Tuesday morning like at 4 am I was having cramps really bad ones and I went to the bathroom and passed tissue the doctor said it was most likely the placenta and I was passing small and big clots I went that morning and my levels had dropped to 120 I bleed for 8 days at first it was heavy with intense cramps like I was having contractions and every time I saw blood my heart will hurt more and more I still can bot believe what happens seems surreal my daughter was so excited to be a big sister she would kiss my belly and since I found out I was having conversations with my baby I had a feeling it was a boy and I name him Angel 👼🏻 I miss him so much some days are ok and others are not at all I don't like to cry in front of my daughter I keep it to myself but when Im alone I just can not help but cry and cry its just so overwhelming all of the emotions everywhere ....... I know I would never forget my Angel I just hope with time it gets a little better just wanted to share my experience and Ive noticed it helps me a lot to talk about its just better to write it down because when I speak out loud it hurts a lot more I knew I wanted another baby but I didn't know how much I wanted to until all my hopes got up and I pictured my life with this little person and then to have all of that taken from you its just so much
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This was by far the most helpful video I’ve seen and I really needed this. I had a miscarriage last Tuesday at almost 6 weeks. I started to bleed and knew it was over. We did ivf for this so it hurts even more that it didn’t work. Thankfully we have more embryos, but I will never forget this experience. I hope I’m able to live with it as time passes.
I just found out yesterday that I lost my baby, there was not baby in my yolk sac. I also did an ivf so it was so devastating. I still 2 more but it hurts and gives me so Much fear for next pregnancy.
@@AlexandraVincent it is 😢 and now I need to wait to miscarriage naturally ( my decision) or do a procedure. I just want to be a mom 😢 praying for God to give me strength.
I feel you, and I totally understand, I just had a miscarriage not long ago and it's my first pregnancy.I'm feeling so sad right now .Im praying for a fullterm healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.
(First time EVER getting pregnant)I turned 24 Nov. 16 which is the day I usually start my period & nothing dec. 3 comes recently took a pregnancy test ofc the next day I start spotting went to the clinic & they tell me it's too early to tell what's going on it's been 5 days & still spotting nothing heavy but my next appointment is on the 19 & I just pray everything turns out okay 🙏
Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm currently going through a miscarriage. I found out I was pregnant and 6 days later it was confirmed that I was miscarrying. I wasn't planning this pregnancy but it was wanted so I'm grieving.
im 6 weeks and 3 days today.2 days before i had ultrasound and i saw my little baby but my hcg levels were low. i am so much nervous because last time when i was preg in feb but my hcg levels were low and i lost that baby now since morning im having spotting and now im having severe cramping and backache i know that i will not be able to make through it.i dont want to lose my baby again and go through same pain.i want someone to talk to and i hv'nt told my family members and i dont want to share my feeling to my husband.he is hiding from me n im from him... 😭😭
Your aura is so bright and beautiful! Thank you for sharing your experience, I know this helps me and plenty of other women going through this journey. Peace and blessing love ❤️
Thank you for this mama thank you I’m currently experiencing my second mc and it’s nice to watch this bc nobody else I know can talk about this with me not even family.
Miscarriage is a sign of hope a sign that you can get pregnant. The real pain and struggle is never ever having a positive pregnancy test no matter what u do and seeing the pain in your partner’s eyes as he tells you it’s ok I will always love u 😘 am sorry for all of you that miscarried but it’s hope for u cause now u know it can happen I’ve never been pregnant and I may never ever get my miracle but am praying for you guys cause it can actually happen for u 🙏
I don’t know if I’m going through a miscarriage. Last night when I went to the bathroom and I wiped and it was like a water color light pink. And it went away with two wipes. I checked the toilet and there was a discharge. I’ve been going crazy but today I’m going to call my OB. I’m 6weeks pregnant.
Just experienced my 3rd loss in a 4 month period, after our first miscarriage we learnt how common miscarriages are and a pregnancy test doesn't mean it's a viable pregnancy. I had a loss at 8 weeks, 4w3d and 5 weeks. Every medical profesional I've had undermines miscarriage and doesn't treat it as a loss. Me and my husband have had a range of insensitive comments and found that even family and friends lack empathy I live in NZ and pregnancy loss is still a taboo and misunderstood subject here.
I’m so very sorry to read this. My heart breaks for you and your husband and the losses you’ve lived through. I am sending you both so much love and I wish you peace in your healing journey. 🤍
I'm so sorry . It's the propaganda to legitimize abortion. They tell us it isn't a baby, it's not alive it's not a human. Then women bear the Brunt of providers under mining what we know is life. It's terrible the comments we hear.
love the take aways. Unfortunately I did not get the opportunity to grieve properly with my ex-spouse and I want to say that was part of the downfall of our marriage but as life goes I have started seeing other things as well well. This was just kind of a symptom and it sucks because you didn't have time to heal what was really broken on top of this type of loss which was four times for us. so yeah thanks for sharing it did bring back some memories thoughts and sadness for me because I didn't have that opportunity to get deeper with my now ex-spouse. but yeah the the miscarriage topic is very taboo and I did kind of feel like I was in a world where people were like get over it try again just try again and that was the hardest part because trying AGAIN brought stress and more stress and another loss and another loss so that's my story. Prayerfully You are having more good days than sad days now.
I'm currently experiencing my first pregnancy and miscarriage at the same time. I didn't have much emotions until it was confirmed. I'm an emotional wreck. God continue to help all.of us who has experienced this.
Am here to thank God for using Dr Efe to help me, I was married for over 6years without kids. and he gave me herb medical and now I'm a mother of two kids,if you are trying to conceive message him on WhatsApp below👇👇👇
..thank you for sharing this, and thank you for being brave to share. The doctor did NOT tell me what I was experiencing during my miscarriage. I have had to search the internet to try and understand what I am experiencing, and then I found you.... your experience mirrors mine so much. So sorry for your loss.
So I know this is perhaps crazy to say. But I also didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms. Even tho this is my first! My mom always immediately started vomiting when she was pregnant with me and my brother. The only time she didn’t is when she missed her period after we both were born. She didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms either but was tested positive for pregnancy. She went in and it was a blood clot but her body mistook it for pregnancy. I’ve told the doctors this. They say it’s an healthy pregnancy. I can’t help but feel something is awfully wrong. I keep telling them these period like cramps, but more intense on my left, isn’t normal! But I feel like the doctors don’t take me seriously. I also told them I much rather abort before the baby has a soul or a heartbeat if it will have any complications. I call it my gut instinct but I genuinely feel I miscarried. I have no idea what to do since I already went for scans twice. Today will be my third but at this point I’m over the vague answers. I’m at 6 weeks myself now so I definitely want to abort now and not any later since I know it will be harder and I just can’t see the embryo. It will break me. Even after knowing exactly what I want and need I just don’t feel like the doctors are taking me seriously and hearing me out. All they said is I have a normal cyst and my hcg level went up…. One week ago it was 811 and now almost 2368 or something…. PS: I’m not vomiting. No morning sickness. Used to have extremely sensitive breasts but even that’s normal now. Only have intense belly cramps and nipples hurting from time to time. Other than that I have ZERO pregnancy symptoms. PPS: So glad to hear your story. It put things more into perspective for me and gave me hope. The health system here is getting worse and I genuinely don’t understand the doctors. I’m tired of vague answers and I’ll continue to listen to my intuition and whatever is best. Rn I’m the person in charge and it’s my pregnancy. No one else’s. I’m done playing this waiting game for the doctors. Enough is enough and I need to put my mental and physical health first.
February 5th (a day before my birthday) I woke up with cramping that felt like I was about to get my period. The cramping isn’t bad but sometimes it’s like a shock pain. I went to the dr for a check up and was told I’m pregnant. Now, I’m still having some cramps and lower back pain. The back pain kinda feels like how your back hurts after getting off work. I’ve also just seen some pinkish discharge and my nipples aren’t as sore as they were before I found out.
Nekole you’re so beautiful! Thank you for the advice and tips. I am sorry for your loss. I have had two myself one being an ectopic. You are right it’s beneficial to both people in the relationship to check up on eachother!
This was so well said thank you for this. I'm currently going through a miscarriage and it was my first pregnancy. Everything you said was said so beautifully
I just found out I’m pregnant on the 13th this month.
My mom had 2 miscarriages (her first pregnancy, and last) and I’m so scared the same thing will happen to me. It’s my first pregnancy and all I’ve wanted my whole life is to have a baby.
Please pray for me 🙏🏻 and all the expectant moms in the comments or just looking at the comments, I’m praying for you, and sending good vibes ❤️❤️
Thank you so much I’m scared toooo❤️❤️
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I had a miscarriage early June of 2019 with my first pregnancy. I was 9 weeks but baby was measuring at 5 weeks. It was an eye opening experience. I never knew all that happens when going threw a miscarriage. It's so hard. Now I'm 7 weeks pregnant had some spotting and it scared me so bad. But everything looks good so far. It truly opened my heart even wider for all with a loss of a baby.
Congratulations on your pregnancy!! I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine how nerve wrecking it can be at times, but I hope that you are able to enjoy this pregnancy and trust that all will be just fine. Sending you lots of love! Xx
Thank you for this video and for sharing your stories. I'm 6 weeks and I have spotting and cramping. I had these symptoms a year and half ago I think I was 8 weeks when I miscarried. It's just horrible the doubt and the waiting.
Have you had any cramping with the spotting? I have ovarian cysts that have been causing pain for the last 9 months including 7 weeks of my pregnancy. I'm so scared. I've tried to contact my obgyn since my 1st prenatal appointment isn't til Nov. 7th but they haven't gotten back to me.
@@srowley6974 how are you doing? I am 8 weeks 2 days. Started spotting 4 days ago on Tuesday then bad cramps the next day with light to moderate bleeding. My doctor referred me for HCG bloodwork. I did the bloodwork yesterdsy and have to do another HCG test Monday to compare the levels. In the meantime i have my 8 week ultrasound today and so worried for bad news 😰
@Sarah P I ended up miscarrying, unfortunately. I was 8 weeks along. I started bleeding after a few days of spotting. Cramping became more severe as well.
I went through 3 miscarriages before having by first born child. I learned that it doesn’t matter how many times you go through it, each one is as hard as the first. It’s a kind of pain that I don’t think anyone should ever have to experience but so many couples do and it’s not talked about. We also need to talk about how scary pregnancy can be after you’ve had a miscarriage. My son I had after 3 miscarriages was born healthy but during my pregnancy I lived in constant fear of losing him. I’m now 36 weeks pregnant, and I thought after having a successful birth that I would no longer fear miscarriage, but even with this pregnancy that was always my biggest fear. My heart breaks for anyone who has experienced a loss of a child, but we are not me big tribe who needs to stick together, support one another, and not let anyone feel they are alone
YES!!!! I couldn't agree more with you, Rebekah! Thank you for mentioning this. I am SO sorry that you had to experience this at all, but three times is something I honestly can't imagine. I can only imagine the anxiety with subsequent pregnancies. I want to honor your strength and courage! Congratulations on your newest addition! I am sending you so much love and light, mama. You've got this! Xx
You are lucky . I am pregnant through ivf and they say ur baby have not heart beat
And I am not financially stable to go for another ivf. And my Doctor says that u can't get pregnant naturally
I'm currently pregnant after miscaring last year, and what you wrote touch me to the core. I cant wait until the end of june until my first obgyn visit.... It doesnt help that a part from being tired I dont feel 7 weeks pregnant.... The anxiety of this pregnancy is killing me. It a hard one to go after miscaring ! My heart to all of you mama's going through this!!
I miscarried on November 1st. I was supposed to be 9 weeks, but the baby stopped developing at 5.6 weeks. The pain was so severe that I ended up in the emergency room. I’m still healing emotionally. It’s been difficult. Some days are better than others just like you mentioned. It comes in waves. Thank you for this video. 💕
I am so sorry for your loss! I am sending you so much love! Thank you for sharing with us. Xx
Same here I was nine weeks the pain was so ugh
It’s been 23 years and 13 years for my angel babies. Thank you for being open and honest about this difficult experience 🙏🙏
Sending you SO much love, mama! Thank you for sharing. XX
I'm so sorry for your loss 😭
I wanna cry every time I think about my miscarriage 🥺😔 I was 4 weeks and 6 days. I found out I was pregnant 2 days before I miscarried 😔
So sorry💔💔
Whether its light bleeding or heavy bleeding... pls help me...
Sorry for your loss 😔
Omg me too sis! Literally found out two days before I miscarried yesterday . And was 4.5 weeks as well 🤍. The pain is unreal. Sending you hugs.
My wife and I going through this right now. 8 weeks, day after doc appointment she "thinks" she miscarried. Won't know for sure for another week. But I think she is pretty positive she did.
I am going through a miscarriage right now. Totally devastated . Thankful for my husband who has been so supportive ❤️
@Priscilla Brink ❤️
Same To Me. We Will All Get Through This
Did you begun to have cramps and lower back pain before the bleeding?
@@lindseygore4588 Yes I was cramping and had lower back pain
@@marrow57 when did bleeding begin?
You show such honor to your child by telling his/her brief story. Their life, albeit a short one, has been a blessing to many people ❤
i just miscarriage my 7 weeks and six days..its been so difficult to accept as i was watching with you right now.i realized everything happens for a reason.Thank you very much for this vlog.
Why did you lead to miscarriage?
Sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage as well. Working in the field of gynecology, it is unfortunately a common experience for many women. I applaud you for your bravery discussing the matter, as oftentimes many women feel alone.
Fortunately, for my family, we are parents to our adorable 1 year old son; as we consider growing our family however, the fear of a loss creeps back in, but we will hold the faith. Great discussion!
Thank you so much for this comment! So very common, and it would be hard to witness it on the regular as I'm sure you do in your field of work. So sorry for your loss as well! Congrats on your sweet boy!! That is such a fun age! Big hugs!
Currently going through a miscarriage without bleeding. My third pregnancy and they all end this way! I’m trying so hard no to lose hope of having a beautiful healthy baby but with my endometriosis it’s just so hard to see the bright side. I’m currently at the stage where I hate my body and I hate that it can’t do what it’s supposed to as a women I feel less like a women.
Sending you love ❤ your time will come Inshaallah
So I know this is perhaps crazy to say. But I also didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms. Even tho this is my first! My mom always immediately started vomiting when she was pregnant with me and my brother. The only time she didn’t is when she missed her period after we both were born. She didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms either but was tested positive for pregnancy. She went in and it was a blood clot but her body mistook it for pregnancy. I’ve told the doctors this. They say it’s an healthy pregnancy. I can’t help but feel something is awfully wrong. I keep telling them these period like cramps, but more intense on my left, isn’t normal! But I feel like the doctors don’t take me seriously. I also told them I much rather abort before the baby has a soul or a heartbeat if it will have any complications. I call it my gut instinct but I genuinely feel I miscarried. I have no idea what to do since I already went for scans twice. Today will be my third but at this point I’m over the vague answers. I’m at 6 weeks myself now so I definitely want to abort now and not any later since I know it will be harder and I just can’t see the embryo. It will break me. Even after knowing exactly what I want and need I just don’t feel like the doctors are taking me seriously and hearing me out. All they said is I have a normal cyst and my hcg level went up…. One week ago it was 811 and now almost 2368 or something….
PS: I’m not vomiting. No morning sickness. Used to have extremely sensitive breasts but even that’s normal now. Only have intense belly cramps and nipples hurting from time to time. Other than that I have ZERO pregnancy symptoms.
PPS: So glad to hear your story. It put things more into perspective for me and gave me hope. The health system here is getting worse and I genuinely don’t understand the doctors. I’m tired of vague answers and I’ll continue to listen to my intuition and whatever is best. Rn I’m the person in charge and it’s my pregnancy. No one else’s. I’m done playing this waiting game for the doctors. Enough is enough and I need to put my mental and physical health first.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so sorry for your loss❤️🤗! I feel your grief. We had our son on July 10, 2014 and followed by 3 miscarriages from 6-12 weeks and each one was extremely painful to handle. It was extremely lonely place to be💔. But I’m happy to say we now have a healthy and happy 15 months old baby girl❤️❤️! Sending you love😘
Congratulations on your baby girl! That is very exciting! I am so so sorry to hear of your losses. My heart aches tremendously for you thinking about repeating that loss and pain. It's truly incredible how much strength we possess. Lots of love to you!
Thank you for sharing. I hope you feel better. 🙏I too experience a miscarriage at 6 to 7 wks. This was going to be my 4th baby. I have 3 small kids all under 5 yrs old. Like you mentioned it was hard to grieve over my loss because I have more kids.
I am so sorry for your loss! Wow! I can only image how busy you are. Hats off to you for rocking it, mama! I am sending you healing energy and lots of love. You're not alone! Xx
Thank you for this! I am going through a miscarriage right now. I went to the ED yesterday and I was told I had complete spontaneous miscarriage. It is my first pregnancy, I was 6 weeks pregnant. My husband and I got married October 18th. We were so happy, so excited. I tested positive not even a week ago. I am trying my best to be positive, there are so many questions, so many doubts. Please pray for me 🙏🏼 The emotional and physical pain is consuming me.
Im so sorry! I’m sending you so much love and I hope you give yourself grace as you navigate the grief. Wishing you peace🤍🤍🙏🏾
So sorry to hear 😢
This happened to me too… I’m sorry you had to went through this
sending you so much love. my husband and i lost our baby 2 days ago & its a pain that i could have never been prepared for. we were 7 weeks and just got married 12/21. i pray for your healing 💗
My girlfriend 8 months pregnant 🤰🏽 the baby due in late April. I have wished for this my entire life and don’t know what I would do if we lost Kamryn. I’m praying for you boo.
Thank you for this video....I misscarriage 3 times at 5 weeks and 7 weeks. Last misscarriage, I spend one night at the hospital because the bleeding was not stopping. And yes it was painful physically and emotional. Prayers for all the women who had gone thru this.
Sending you all of the love, mama! Your strength and resilience is beautiful!! Big hugs to you! Xx
This is the video I needed as I process my miscarriage. Thank you for sharing. The physical pain was shocking trying to get through the week and all my appointments.
I just left the doctor yesterday for my first ultrasound at 8 weeks, 3 days. The screen was black, nothing was there. I am so hurt. I'm going for a second option tomorrow at a different midwifery. My original told me to come back in 11 days and then we will go from there if I don't start bleeding. This is extremely hurtful, but God will heal all my wounds even this one.
Currently miscarrying at 9 weeks (baby heart stopped at 7 weeks) videos like this are so helpful thank you for sharing x
Thank you for this video. It's a very important topic. I had a miscarriage at 26 weeks. It was truly painful. But life goes on, and now, a year later, I am pregnant again
Oh mama!!! My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry!! :(
I am so thrilled that you are pregnant with your rainbow baby. You are a testament to just how resilient we are! So much love to you!!
How did this happened at 26 weeks thats a long time
Thank you so much for this video. My husband and I are waiting for my natural miscarriage to start. I am so sorry for your loss. And I am so thankful for women like you who share their stories for other women fo grow from. Thank you.
I'm so sorry you and yours had to go through this. :( I was unable to get pregnant with my ex husband and thought i would never have any kids. I met my current husband and we immediately got pregnant, but i lost the baby around 7 weeks. I was heartbroken but honestly hopeful too. I had gotten pregnant!! So after the suggested wait time we tried again and immediately got pregnant with our rainbow baby! I was terrified of losing her the whole time. She is a okay! We waited a year and started trying for a second and I have never gotten pregnant since. I am/was devastated! I didn't even know secondary infertility was a thing. I hit 40 last year and decided I should give up, my husband has been done wanting to try for years anyway. I still cry regularly over having only one. I know I am blessed but I can't shake the disappointment and pain. Heads up Mama's.
I feel you. going trough the same thing. Have one kid (3yo) with IVF after 5 years of infertility, now was trying for a 2nd one and having a miscarriage this week. I'm 40, not sure I wana try again. I feel like giving it up might be an informed/sound decision, but definitely an imposed one. It's more of a reaction decision to my reality than what I really want. It's hard. Even though we are happy, it's just not what I had pictured in my mind of ''my family'' .....
@@valduguay5773 hugs to you! It's so hard!
It took me 7 years to conceive my 4 year old daughter then I had two miscarriages now I'm currently 36 weeks with my rainbow 🌈 baby boy xx
Congratulations!!!!! 🤍🤍🤍
I am currently miscarrying… so happy I came across this video. This is the hardest thing I think I ever had to do.. thank you so much for this video during this time ❤️
My heart breaks for you. Sending you all the love and light during this difficult season 🙏🏾🤍
So sorry to hear. I have had two, it’s so horrible. My heart goes out to you. Have had a baby girl since those 2. Healing waters over you❤️I was scared when I found out about this baby girl but God kept me believing
We are going through our first miscarriage, I'm around 8ish weeks. Still blessed to have had 2 healthy pregnancies and 2 beautiful children from them. Thank you for talking about this.
I’m so so sorry to hear this! I’m sending you so much love and healing energy. 🙏🏾🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I’m going through a miscarriage I’m pretty sure I missed my period on 12 of august and started bleeding on 7th of sept with a bit of clotting and blood then as day passed full blown bleeding and little clotting and non stop bleeding and now extreme cramping on left side compared to the other bad cramps..
I was pregnant but I just lost my baby yesterday 💔 at 1 month 2 weeks and 2 days, my heart is shattered into pieces thinking I wouldn't even be able to hold my baby and see my baby grow 😢 To anyone reading this, please pray for my baby, she/he is my little angel now watching over me. Coping with miscarriage is really hard, tears everytime I wake up and in any time of the day, walang pinipiling oras. I love you so much my little angel, I was supposed to name her/him Arabella Jade / Kalix JD. Now I feel like I lost my purpose again, it's so hard to take care of myself knowing my baby isn't here anymore inside of me, but i'm trying so hard to not neglect myself. I was upset and in so much pain, i'm hurting too much to the point where I question God why? Why would he give me something that he would just take away? I talked to my friends and told me to never question his will but for now i'm in the verge of my sadness. Everything happens for a reason? Why would this need to happen? 💔 Right now I don't understand and I still can't accept the fact. Please pray for my baby in heaven now 😢
Oh honey I am so sorry. Everything you are feeling is completely normal - questions and all. Thank you for being open to share your heart. Sending you prayers and love.
Going through an active miscarriage rn. The baby stopped developing at 6 weeks and I'm 10 weeks along. This is such a hard journey. I don't know what I'd do without my husband's support. Thank you for this video and insight. ❤️
Sending you all the love! You are never alone, and thank goodness for strong support 🤍🤍🤍🙏🏾
@@nekoleamber Thank you so much ❤️
Omg! I went to my first appointment yesterday 11/10/2022 and this is exactly what the doctor said I was measuring 6wks but I should be 10 weeks 😢…At first I didn’t cry until later on after receiving so much love, warm words of encouragement to help me move forward, and support from friends and family. I got so overwhelmed with emotions thinking back on the miscarriage I had in January 2017, however I was blessed to get pregnant again October of the same year with my son Legend who I had a 26 wks 8 days on May 4, 2018 but he’s doing and thriving each day! Now this pregnancy which was not planned at all took me by surprise but I was ready to go through with it and live on my baby next year but unfortunately yesterday changed all that so now I’m anticipating to bleed out the tissues any day now…I’m so sad but I know I’m not alone. I’m glad I watched this video and read this comment !
I jus lost my triplets at 9weeks today,they were measuring 6weeks😭😭😭😭😭😭😭can’t wait for my rainbow babies 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’m so so sorry to hear this! Wrapping you in love and light 🤍🙏🏾
Thank you for this video. It’s been a week since I miscarried. Like you said there are days were you feel like you’re fine but suddenly hits you like it just happened.
You are SO BEAUTIFUL💖
Went in for my 8.5 week scan & baby only measured 6.5 weeks with no heartbeat. We were devastated 💔! So hard to be surprised like that. I had been having very light spotting and cramping for a week but nothing serious. Spotting has continued on and off and still haven’t bled a week later! So waiting on treatment options at my return appointment. This is my first MC after a chemical pregnancy. So heartbreaking! I get pregnant easily but keep having issues so I’m seeking fertility guidance now!
i found out i was pregnant in may and i lost our baby in june on fathers day…..my husband is devestaded … i am too and more traumatized im trying to cope
Thanks for the video love, lam 8 weeks pregnant, l did my first unsound a few days ago and my Doctor say that there's no heart rate, the baby stop growing which is a sign of miscarriage.l feel 😔 sad, lam scared l don't know what will be next step.
My wife have been having series of miscarriages for a year and 8 months but using HCB drugs for fertility put an end to it, January 11th, 2021 we had our first baby, thanks to our doctor.
I am 7 weeks. I don't know if I am having a miscarriage or not at this moment. I just am extremely tired, spotting tiny blood and mucus. I just saw my OB Monday and heard the little babies heartbeat. I have prayed every breath that I am not and this baby is okay . This can't be happening again!! I am so bitter and broken.
How are you doing now are you ok 💕 I will say a prayer for you
How are you? ❤️
Hoping that all is going well with you and your baby
we are 22 weeks and baby girl and I are doing great! I feel her move almost everyday. However, I did bleed for the first 11weeks and no one could tell me why. I pray that this sweet baby makes it to this side of Earth!! Thank y'all for checking in!
@@junebug2024 you’ve come so far, so she will definitely make it. Maybe you had subchorionic hemorrhage. Im eight weeks ahead of you and im pretty sure you cant wait to hold her in your arms next year!
Currently going through a medical management after scans confirmed loss after 13 weeks gestation. This is my 3rd miscarriage and absolutely devastated. Taken misoprostol and extreme agony with cramping. Its just awful.
I’m so so sorry to read this. I’m sending you all my love and wishing you peace during this time of grief 🤍🙏🏾
I’m going through one right now. It’s so hard. Thank you for this video.
Sending you so much love! xx
Thank you. I just went through it. It started 5 days ago and I’m still bleeding but the first two days every time I would look in the toilet and I would see clots I felt so sad 😞 this is heartbreaking for my husband and I. We had been trying for almost two years.
I feel u girl,your comment made me sad
Going through the same thing right now💔 we will get through it❤️
I m on same boat from last 5 days now😭
Oh no, I am going through the same right now as what you been through.
Knowing that you are going to miscarry because of spotting or something else is also heartbreaking but when you don't know and assume everything is fine is more heartbreaking
I had two miscarriages 10 weeks no heartbeat and growth, was experiencing spotting but other one was 17 weeks that was a silent miscarriage without any symptoms or bleeding
Currently miscarrying @ 6 weeks 2 days :(
What were your symptoms
It’s the worst pain physically and emotionally 🖤
@@bellgomez5634 my hcg levels dropped & then the cramping & bleeding started. It’s such a traumatic experience & so heartbreaking. 💔
@@bakertiana yes it is I lost one February this current year .. I am now pregnant again but was diagnosed with possible miscarriage last night
Im not having any cramps or heavy bleeding
But had pink spotting.. I pray baby is doing good and doctor misdiagnosed me
@@bellgomez5634 you can always shoot me a message if you need to talk as I’m going through it right now. It’s the hardest thing I have ever been through.
@@bakertiana thanks 🙏.. Im also keeping you in my prayers ..
Going through this right now at 5 weeks 5 days. (began yesterday, when I woke up at 3am to find myself bleeding and rushed to my OB's for a scan, which confirmed it) I don't know who to talk to because my husband's hurting too, and it was too early for my family or friends to know, and I know of zero other friends who've been through this...I'm trying to put on a brave face at work today but keep having to duck into the restroom to sob privately. I'm absolutely heartbroken. However, hearing someone talk about this is a huge help.
This sounds exactly what I am going through right now. Found out unexpectedly we were expecting. Just accepted a new nursing job and was applying to go back for my RN. Thought it was just another blessing to be added to all of the great things that were happening in my life. Thank you for posting this and sharing. I really needed to see this! I am just trying to give myself space as I have a nine year old and 15 month old.
Im with you too right now going through this exact thing without knowinghow if its going to end, hope your doing ok.
I am going through this now, at 8 weeks 2days, my mind was tired of the stress of miscarriage that it happened.
The stress building up was of those who I wanted to share this experience of bringing another life into our world.
I have not told the father yet, because it is so hard.
To express any of this to him as he is an addict and mentally can become unwell.
Thank you for this video! Just had my first miscarriage and my story was very similar to yours. It was my second pregnancy and a surprise too. I appreciate you putting this out there.
I’m going through a pregnancy loss right now. You’re not alone. Praying for you 🙏🏼
I had one at 8-10 weeks you aren’t alone ❤️
I just miscarriage my 8 weeks pregnancy that's why I've been looking a video or similar story like mine to understand and to feel that I am not alone in this situation it is very hard for me to accept because this is my first baby but I know that God has a reason why this happened to me... And after my recovery life must go on and back to normal.
Me too I just lost a baby at six weeks it's painful 😭
Me nd my husband we were so happy it was a first baby first year of marriage
I just found out I’m pregnant on the 13th this month.
My mom had 2 miscarriages (her first pregnancy, and last) and I’m so scared the same thing will happen to me. It’s my first pregnancy and all I’ve wanted my whole life is to have a baby.
Please pray for me 🙏🏻 and I hope all the expectant moms in the comments or just looking at the comments, I’m praying for you, and sending good vibes ❤️❤️
Me too but believe Allah always protect you n baby may Allah bless you pregnant sis don't worry too much xx
I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant. This is my first. Last year I experienced a miscarriage and I can definitely relate with the pain of seeing all of what your body created coming out. That loss and pain was indescribable. Thank you for this video. Sharing definitely helps other people who have gone through this or are going through this feel not so alone. ❤
❤ agreed. So sorry for your loss as well. I too have experienced 2 miscarriages. The first one was three years ago and the second one was seven weeks ago. It's tough indeed.
Wishing you a successful pregnancy. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
As I cry when I write this, I believe I am only 4 weeks and started having pink spotting today. Throughout the day it increased to actual blood. I haven't had cramps or stomach aches but went to see my doctor. I had intercourse yesterday and they said that could be the reason but I'm going to get blood drawn tomorrow. I truly feel I have lost my second baby. My heart is shattering. The other day, I broke down due to family issue I had and I feel that could have led me to this 💔
So sorry for your loss
I am supoosed to be 8 weeks today but my baby still the heartbeat not clear ant it's not growing base on my OB it's not normal anymore. It's been 3 weeks and every week I'd been through ultrasound. It's so frustrating and it feell so bad. Don't know what to do. OB said need to come back by next week to check again.
I went to the ER last night I spotted light pink Wednesday then yesterday Sunday I spotted again I was told it’s a possible miscarriage.. I have an appointment tomorrow to check up
Im so scared because I had a miscarriage February of this year .. Praying for a miracle
I too am preying for a miracle..I had a miscarriage in may with twins the due date was December11,2020 😭😭 which is this Friday coming up .. after that miscarriage I got my first cycle in September and found out I’m pregnant.. I went to the hospital on Saturday night due to spotting and they said it’s a threatened miscarriage.. it’s been 3 days and the bleeding got heavier ..I have an appointment in 2 days but I know I’m definitely miscarrying 😭 idk how to feel this week is just too much for me .. I’m currently miscarrying and my due date for my last miscarriage is in 3 days 💔😪
@@heavenlydivine8965 Im sorry for what you’re going through.. I’m also hoping for a miracle
I pray in the name of Jesus that both you and I carry a healthy full term baby
And for him to protect our wombs
@@heavenlydivine8965 Im sorry for what you’re going through.. I’m also hoping for a miracle
I pray in the name of Jesus that both you and I carry a healthy full term baby
And for him to protect our wombs
I’ve never had a miscarriage. I’m 6 weeks and 4 days. And this dark discharge has started and I’m terrified. I never experienced this with any other pregnancy
@@joselyn4789 go get checked.. I pray everything is ok with your baby .. Are you cramping?fevers vomiting or any other pain besides the blood ?
Thank you so much for this I needed to hear every single thing you said and it all makes sense.. I just had a miscarriage last week i was 7 weeks nd we are very sad and depressed that this has happened.. praying for our rainbow baby soon 💕
Sending you so much love, healing and peace 🤍🤍🤍
I think I miscarried this morning. I’m so sad.
I wish I was as strong as you🕊, My doctor hasn’t confirmed it yet but looking at a ultrasound and seeing nothing at 10wks 4days is confirmation to me. Just a day of finding out and waiting for blood work results i think my doctor is trying to shine positive light but is not being honest. I appreciate you pointing out to check in with each other because my man seem super strong through this and i haven’t asked him how he feels because he appears much stronger than me. i’m going to check in with him anyway, Thank you for being so strong and positive and sharing your experience
I am 7 weeks and miscarrying right now. Thank you for your video ❤️
Last night i had extremly bleeding and pain i was 7 weeks and 5 days pregnant..i fell very sad😢😔 and heartbroken💔
I'm so sorry!!
I’m going through miscarriages right now at 12 weeks. The baby stop growing at almost 10 weeks. This is my 6 pregnancy. I was shock that its happened to me for the first time ever. All my other pregnancy was healthy and normal. I’m experiencing the lost of my child for the first time after I saw the heart beat for the time. The second time was a shock. I feel like crying but hold it back.
I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you so much love 🤍
7wks and just started bleeding yesterday and just currently went through this this in February at 13wks was scheduled for my first ob/gyn appointment on Monday... I'm sad hurt so many emotions I'm still in disbelief...I can't believe this is happening to me💔 I really thought I was blessed with pregnancy that happened right after a miscarriage but I guess he has other plans for me💔 but when, I suffered enough....I send prayers and condolences to all of us....and hopefully soon I'll have my rainbow baby 😥
Thank you for this video.. I am just going thru this and it’s giving me strength and understanding that I am not the only one . Thank you again
You are so welcome. I'm sorry you are going through this right now :(.
Thank you for making this video. It helped me to not feel alone and gave me comfort in such a devastating time. God bless you for this. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing! I am so sorry for your loss. It must have not been easy for you to share and I appreciate it. I have so many friends who sadly have experienced miscarriages. I have tried to provide my support as much as I could to them, however I believe it is a very personal journey. I hope anyone who is going through this at the moment finds piece at heart one day or another. You are not alone! Please always ask for help if you need it. Thank you again for your story. xx
Thank you so much! It is beautiful that you have showed up to support those you love in these times. Thank you for sharing! Xx
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I think I had a chemical pregnancy:( and now I feel lyk I’m not normal like something wrong with me like why I’m not carrying my baby properly definitely looking for answers
Thanks for sharing and sorry for your loss I found out on September 11 that I was pregnant and I was shocked because we were not trying but we were so excited and was on and off spotting but I read that sometimes you could have spotting so I was keeping an eye on it and it wasn't a lot only a little bit but not every day thats why I was concerned and scared but was hoping that baby was healthy unfortunately on September 20 I went and used the restroom and started bleeding I was terrified I just couldn't believe it I went to the ER and they told me that sometimes bleeding can happened they told me to keep an eye and put a pad they took bloodwork to check my hcg levels it was 340 and I was supposed to be 6 weeks and they told me I was 5 weeks and they send me home but had to go to the doctors office on Tuesday I continue to bleed so I knew I was losing my baby but was hoping everything was fine on Tuesday morning like at 4 am I was having cramps really bad ones and I went to the bathroom and passed tissue the doctor said it was most likely the placenta and I was passing small and big clots I went that morning and my levels had dropped to 120 I bleed for 8 days at first it was heavy with intense cramps like I was having contractions and every time I saw blood my heart will hurt more and more I still can bot believe what happens seems surreal my daughter was so excited to be a big sister she would kiss my belly and since I found out I was having conversations with my baby I had a feeling it was a boy and I name him Angel 👼🏻 I miss him so much some days are ok and others are not at all I don't like to cry in front of my daughter I keep it to myself but when Im alone I just can not help but cry and cry its just so overwhelming all of the emotions everywhere ....... I know I would never forget my Angel I just hope with time it gets a little better just wanted to share my experience and Ive noticed it helps me a lot to talk about its just better to write it down because when I speak out loud it hurts a lot more I knew I wanted another baby but I didn't know how much I wanted to until all my hopes got up and I pictured my life with this little person and then to have all of that taken from you its just so much
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This was by far the most helpful video I’ve seen and I really needed this. I had a miscarriage last Tuesday at almost 6 weeks. I started to bleed and knew it was over. We did ivf for this so it hurts even more that it didn’t work. Thankfully we have more embryos, but I will never forget this experience. I hope I’m able to live with it as time passes.
I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏾 I’m sending you so much love and grace as you process, grieve, and heal. Know that you’re not alone. Big hugs 🤍🤍🤍
I just found out yesterday that I lost my baby, there was not baby in my yolk sac.
I also did an ivf so it was so devastating. I still 2 more but it hurts and gives me so
Much fear for next pregnancy.
@@Eli-bz4vv I’m so sorry 😞 nobody should have to go thru this… it’s so heartbreaking
@@AlexandraVincent it is 😢 and now I need to wait to miscarriage naturally ( my decision) or do a procedure. I just want to be a mom 😢 praying for God to give me strength.
I also lost my baby in 2 months pregnancy it’s my first pregnancy
😢after 7 years of marrigae
I am 5 weeks pregnant and have mild cramping but no bleeding. I am very nervous please help what should I do ? I am freaking out
I'm going through this now and my early signs were obvious too but I was in denial until I saw my first ultrasound
Thanks for sharing
i just found out i’m pregnant last night and am terrified that this will happen to me. thank you for sharing your story!
congrats! how’s everything?
I feel you, and I totally understand, I just had a miscarriage not long ago and it's my first pregnancy.I'm feeling so sad right now .Im praying for a fullterm healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.
(First time EVER getting pregnant)I turned 24 Nov. 16 which is the day I usually start my period & nothing dec. 3 comes recently took a pregnancy test ofc the next day I start spotting went to the clinic & they tell me it's too early to tell what's going on it's been 5 days & still spotting nothing heavy but my next appointment is on the 19 & I just pray everything turns out okay 🙏
Hope your doing fine, what was the update?
Does all miscarriages have bleeding!? Less or more!? Can you please confirm
positive 3 weeks pregnant and last night I started bleed so heavy I am lost scared and so sad. I don’t know what to do?
You’re so beautiful! Thank you for sharing
Im a first time mom and im worried lol can you miscarriage even without blood?
Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm currently going through a miscarriage. I found out I was pregnant and 6 days later it was confirmed that I was miscarrying. I wasn't planning this pregnancy but it was wanted so I'm grieving.
You are so well spoken on this topic and I really appreciate you sharing your knowledge and experience as it helped me a lot! Thank you 😊
im 6 weeks and 3 days today.2 days before i had ultrasound and i saw my little baby but my hcg levels were low. i am so much nervous because last time when i was preg in feb but my hcg levels were low and i lost that baby now since morning im having spotting and now im having severe cramping and backache i know that i will not be able to make through it.i dont want to lose my baby again and go through same pain.i want someone to talk to and i hv'nt told my family members and i dont want to share my feeling to my husband.he is hiding from me n im from him...
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Any updates ? How are you doing
@@bellgomez5634 i miscarried at 7 weeks
@@zainabanam5567 Im extremely sorry . I had a miscarriage February this year and I know the pain ..
I'm so sorry for your loss
Your aura is so bright and beautiful! Thank you for sharing your experience, I know this helps me and plenty of other women going through this journey. Peace and blessing love ❤️
Thank you for this beautiful comment! I appreciate you! 🫶🏾
I imagine abortion would damage a couple’s emotions more
Thank you for this mama thank you I’m currently experiencing my second mc and it’s nice to watch this bc nobody else I know can talk about this with me not even family.
I’m going through a missed miscarriage right now! 🙏🏼♥️
So sorry! Sending you love and hugs!
Thank you!!!
Can you please tell me what were the symptoms of missed miscarriage in ur case
Miscarriage is a sign of hope a sign that you can get pregnant. The real pain and struggle is never ever having a positive pregnancy test no matter what u do and seeing the pain in your partner’s eyes as he tells you it’s ok I will always love u 😘 am sorry for all of you that miscarried but it’s hope for u cause now u know it can happen I’ve never been pregnant and I may never ever get my miracle but am praying for you guys cause it can actually happen for u 🙏
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Thank you so much for your transparency. This video has given me so much consolation
I don’t know if I’m going through a miscarriage. Last night when I went to the bathroom and I wiped and it was like a water color light pink. And it went away with two wipes. I checked the toilet and there was a discharge. I’ve been going crazy but today I’m going to call my OB. I’m 6weeks pregnant.
hi. may i ask what happened? i’m experiencing the same thing rn
I have the same thing!!! Did you find out anything?
Hey girl same. Sometimes too. But I’ve heard it’s just light normal bleeding
I haven't had kids yet. But I'm glad you are talking about this. Education about miscarriage should be destigmatized.
Just experienced my 3rd loss in a 4 month period, after our first miscarriage we learnt how common miscarriages are and a pregnancy test doesn't mean it's a viable pregnancy. I had a loss at 8 weeks, 4w3d and 5 weeks. Every medical profesional I've had undermines miscarriage and doesn't treat it as a loss.
Me and my husband have had a range of insensitive comments and found that even family and friends lack empathy I live in NZ and pregnancy loss is still a taboo and misunderstood subject here.
I’m so very sorry to read this. My heart breaks for you and your husband and the losses you’ve lived through. I am sending you both so much love and I wish you peace in your healing journey. 🤍
I'm so sorry . It's the propaganda to legitimize abortion. They tell us it isn't a baby, it's not alive it's not a human. Then women bear the Brunt of providers under mining what we know is life. It's terrible the comments we hear.
Thank you so much for this video❤️ I’m currently miscarrying at 7 weeks and it hasn’t been easy 😔🤍
I also just miscarried now at 7 weeks. Heartbreaking.. but i know that God is in control and He is holding our little baby in His side right now.❤️
@@arameadezalaingo5353 I’m so sorry for your loss 😔 we’ll get through this ❤️ and our baby angel will always be in our heart 👼🏻🤍🤍
love the take aways. Unfortunately I did not get the opportunity to grieve properly with my ex-spouse and I want to say that was part of the downfall of our marriage but as life goes I have started seeing other things as well well. This was just kind of a symptom and it sucks because you didn't have time to heal what was really broken on top of this type of loss which was four times for us. so yeah thanks for sharing it did bring back some memories thoughts and sadness for me because I didn't have that opportunity to get deeper with my now ex-spouse. but yeah the the miscarriage topic is very taboo and I did kind of feel like I was in a world where people were like get over it try again just try again and that was the hardest part because trying AGAIN brought stress and more stress and another loss and another loss so that's my story.
Prayerfully You are having more good days than sad days now.
I can only imagine how difficult that would be. I am sending you so much love! I admire your strength. Xx
@@nekoleamber Thank you❤
I'm currently experiencing my first pregnancy and miscarriage at the same time. I didn't have much emotions until it was confirmed. I'm an emotional wreck. God continue to help all.of us who has experienced this.
I am SO sorry to hear this! I am sending you so much love. 🤍
How long did it take u to get hgc to below 5 I was 7 weeks 1 day and my hgc is still really high 😭
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..thank you for sharing this, and thank you for being brave to share. The doctor did NOT tell me what I was experiencing during my miscarriage. I have had to search the internet to try and understand what I am experiencing, and then I found you.... your experience mirrors mine so much. So sorry for your loss.
Thank you for this 🤍
So I know this is perhaps crazy to say. But I also didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms. Even tho this is my first! My mom always immediately started vomiting when she was pregnant with me and my brother. The only time she didn’t is when she missed her period after we both were born. She didn’t have any pregnancy symptoms either but was tested positive for pregnancy. She went in and it was a blood clot but her body mistook it for pregnancy. I’ve told the doctors this. They say it’s an healthy pregnancy. I can’t help but feel something is awfully wrong. I keep telling them these period like cramps, but more intense on my left, isn’t normal! But I feel like the doctors don’t take me seriously. I also told them I much rather abort before the baby has a soul or a heartbeat if it will have any complications. I call it my gut instinct but I genuinely feel I miscarried. I have no idea what to do since I already went for scans twice. Today will be my third but at this point I’m over the vague answers. I’m at 6 weeks myself now so I definitely want to abort now and not any later since I know it will be harder and I just can’t see the embryo. It will break me. Even after knowing exactly what I want and need I just don’t feel like the doctors are taking me seriously and hearing me out. All they said is I have a normal cyst and my hcg level went up…. One week ago it was 811 and now almost 2368 or something….
PS: I’m not vomiting. No morning sickness. Used to have extremely sensitive breasts but even that’s normal now. Only have intense belly cramps and nipples hurting from time to time. Other than that I have ZERO pregnancy symptoms.
PPS: So glad to hear your story. It put things more into perspective for me and gave me hope. The health system here is getting worse and I genuinely don’t understand the doctors. I’m tired of vague answers and I’ll continue to listen to my intuition and whatever is best. Rn I’m the person in charge and it’s my pregnancy. No one else’s. I’m done playing this waiting game for the doctors. Enough is enough and I need to put my mental and physical health first.
I’m going through a miscarriage right now I’m completely devastated
February 5th (a day before my birthday) I woke up with cramping that felt like I was about to get my period. The cramping isn’t bad but sometimes it’s like a shock pain. I went to the dr for a check up and was told I’m pregnant. Now, I’m still having some cramps and lower back pain. The back pain kinda feels like how your back hurts after getting off work. I’ve also just seen some pinkish discharge and my nipples aren’t as sore as they were before I found out.
This is what happening with me. Cramping, pink discharge. What happen with you.
Thank you for this. ❤️
You have the most beautiful soul. Thank you. X
Going though one today 😢
Nekole you’re so beautiful! Thank you for the advice and tips. I am sorry for your loss. I have had two myself one being an ectopic. You are right it’s beneficial to both people in the relationship to check up on eachother!