@@WinterBlanco it’s not about liking you, i personally like you but i think you’re really hardheaded as a person and don’t take personal criticism well like at all. i get we’re just “your fans” but like be fr it was wrong and weird for you to randomly attack chy and call her toxic when the conversation could’ve just started and ended at we think differently and want different things in life. cause chy isn’t toxic at all she has boundaries. you just want something different out of relationship than genuine love and connection cause that doesn’t come at any price.
Winter does have BPD and I’m sure chy is aware. I wish they would talk about how they maintain the friendship around it, especially from Chy’s perspective. Chy is way better than me, cus no..😂
Winter and the “Can I talk? Can I finish”, while proceeding to over talk Chy right after is crazy! She’s been cutting Chy off since episode 1. Chy is not insecure, she has boundaries.
no seriously!! she stay cutting her off even when they have special guests wiintr STAY cutting the guests off😂since day 1. i love her don’t get me wrong but she gotta chill
they both do it my godddd y’all are entirely too sensitive.. y’all act like Chy is not a GROWN woman with a voice.. if she had a problem with winter or the things she said she wouldn’t be around her and sure as fuck wouldn’t have a podcast with her. Chy got a couple good ones in on winter this episode and vise versa… please stop🤣
Chy is 100% right and far from insecure or controlling. A mature healed person who doesn’t feel the need to have any attachments to their exes doesn’t need to have all that in their phone, it’s called moving on wether you’re in a relationship or not. Saying that you need those things in your phone for receipts is just childish lol.
@@liar9256 we live in an era of revenge porn. Clout chasing etc. any receipts I have is just in case a mf wants to expose something intimate or personal. I will be guarded and getting my bag in any case lol
@@jenney923she will be fine , they have been friends for a while and they get each other. Maybe Winter was having an off day. Real friends bicker time to time.
Wintrr has never had true love because when you are in love you don’t even WANT anyone else in your phone and vise versa you don’t want any ex pics in your man phone . It’s not toxic it’s respect
She def has a different outlook on love because of her past which I can say the same for myself. Like I have been a serial dater since I was 16 and that has led me to go thru it!! Like actually focus on urself bae. Winter ily I hope you organically find a peaceful true love🥹🥹
love winter been a fan since bgc, Chy on the other hand is NOT WRONG. I love Chy and her modest way of thinking… Girl’s these days think too much is okay..
Chy, you have so much self control, awareness, and security. Very far from insecure. I give you major props. I see you. Every episode I notice you showing self control. You are hella mature 🫶🏽✨
Thank you for pointing that out, I hope Winter can put herself in Chys perspective because that “here’s my thing, can I talk?” While Chy is mid sentence is crazy
And it’s aging her so bad she’s looking like she was born in the 80s. I love chy down but the hair and outfit choice is not it for her 😭 it’s making her look so old
and she also feels the need to keep “receipts” and have a “one up” on men she’s dated because she’s rarely dated anyone who made her feel secure and at peace. there would be no receipts to keep if you didn’t feel like you can’t trust the men you entertain and sleep with.
Winter baby, love you girl but you are a little more delulu than you think. To say you have less toxic ways than chy is delulu in its self. Sis, you just questioned if you should give 26 yo bae, that ghosted you another chance. And you also gave coprate job bae another chance after he displayed so many red flags. So saying chy has more toxic ways of thinking than you …. Wrap it up, mama!
attacking someone’s personality to justify your own ideologies is insane. how is it insecure to not want a man to have his exes in his phone? and then you proved her point by saying you’ve had s3* with your boy best friends….
Pot meet kettle 🙄. Toxic is Toxic wth is Winter talking abt ? How many definitions are there ? I like Winter but she seems 2b lowkey hating bc she didn’t get the invite from Cardi, js. 😂
Wintrrr girl you need to take some time off dating and just pour into yourself differently .. it’s just not your time 😭 these stories stress me out everytime cause im sorry WHAAAAAT?!?! Can’t put a price on respect
winter i love you but...the ex photo thing is wack it's disrespectful nobody cares about "reciepts" i think your reflecting your toxic shit onto Chy and saying everything shes doing is toxic...
Chy I don’t think you have any toxic insecurity. I think it’s normal for healthy relationships not to have pics of their ex’s in their phone, the past is the past start new and clean leave the exes behind no purpose to have pics of them in their phone.
I don’t know why this isn’t talked about more but Winter stay clowning on Chy about her looks. I know they’re obviously joking with each other but it’s damn near every episode. it just reminds me of previous “friends” that would do the same thing in front of people for a laugh.
and always saying something about her being tall. i understand what you mean 100% it's something you peep when you went thru it. chy always calls her pretty and compliments her body.
Yesss I peeped this. Like let her be and work on security within yourself to not have to say a comment about her every episode. I get it’s friendship that are like that but get a grip 😭
I love winter but I peeped it too. Chy is always complimenting her and winter can never do the same. Also always takes chys stories and says “THAT HAPPENED TO ME ONE TIME” then chy can’t even continue.
The fact that you two can maintain a healthy friendship but yet have varying perspectives when it comes to relationships & other topics is beautiful. I love that you both stand on your perspectives and aren’t so focused on who’s right or wrong. It makes for really good conversations. I truly enjoyed this episode.
Its crazy how a man sending her money is all it takes for Winter to want to date or sleep with a guy. Im the complete opposite, a guy offering money is huge turn off because no rational sane guy does that. Thats a control tactic men use to have a more transactional relationship rather than an emotional one. They know they can treat you however because you’re thirsty for money. I had a guy tell me I could use his black card on our first date and the only thing I could think was that he was an insecure loser. Like who he is as a person isnt enough so he needs to offer money to keep me interested. I never spoke to him again.
Getting validation from men offering stacks is crazy, if that's all they're good for but there's no substance in the relationship whats the point 👀 especially if you type of bih to complain you want a family.
No I’m with chy winter you’re crazy. My man is not having photos of his ex in his phone, it’s respect. it’s not toxic. Winter you can’t tell chy she’s toxic for not wanting photos in her mans phone, when you’re ok with your man getting a handjob that is really inviting toxic weird energy in it. Winter you’re having double standards here. Winter if you have your views with men having girl best friends and etc. that’s my preference too I’m not ok with that.
Winter you should really try being GENUINELY single, like focus on yourself and take a break from interacting with men. Every story ends the same with them giving you money but not respecting you....at this point is the money worth being disrespected?
Idk getting 4 bands from a man that just wants to speak you and you don’t really have to put any effort feels really good. If you can relate you can relate but if you can’t then you can’t 😭 obviously don’t deal with it long term but short term? It’s alright actually lol
@@jenney923 girl men should provide imo. She’s having her way trust me. Men aren’t afraid to ask us for our bodies, As a woman we can ask for our needs to be met by money. I
Chy, can you touch more on the importance of you doing volunteer work and give us advice as to why and persuade others to volunteer in their community. Love always watching you both 🫶🏽
Reminds me of my old relationship with my cousin I cut her tf off because she really was like winter always complaining would cancel on me cause her eyebrows didn’t look good and would love to call me out but could never take it when I’d dish it. What’s really toxic is this friendship 🤷♀️
I was thinking that too, like with the whole trip on her birthday week . Wanted to end their WHOLE friendship instead of just talking to her about it at first . They are two completely different people , they just like to drink together and Chy seems comforting for winter , I like winter but I feel like she’s the type to always says she’s right about a situation .
Chy was raised by a black woman with morals. Winter from what shes said she never really had her mom and her mom white, they have different upbringings for sure. not my place but winter should try focusing on other things besides money, she only cares about money.
I love how you guys can debate and it’s still funny! I love hearing you guys different perspectives that’s why you guys make such a great podcast and relationship! Yin and Yang ❤
Chy is definitely not toxic. She has boundaries. That comes with self respect, self love and principles. I agree with her views 1000%, but we also both come from 2 parent households. There’s nothing wrong with Winters point of view either, it just comes with upbringing, values and principles.
Growing up in a two parent household especially with both biological parents definitely plays a huge role on how you carry your future relationships I agree with you 10000% because I grew up in a two parent household with both of my parents and I have the same mindset as Chy as far as relationships
here’s winter showing how good of a friend she is 😂😂... she wants chy to agree with her when she’s wrong and turns mean asf when chy doesn’t agree… like what
37:22 period Chy!!! Let her know you’re not done talking yet! Winter thinks that if she repeats herself enough she’ll get Chy to stop sharing her point.. it is SO rude and been happening since the very first episode. Imagine trying to get a point across and you got someone barking next to you so you can stop talking like girl stfu and wait lmao
@@angelxo510 lol no youre just a hater. why watch a women u been mad at since "first episode" FAN ENERGY. wrote a whole paragraph about her🤣🤣😭😂 they talk to each other just fine.
You two are genuinely real friends. You guys are able to talk and have disagreements without taking it too far. I love yalls pod and it lowkey has gotten me through a lot. I just wish winter could be less self centered. Shes been this way since bgc & I would like to see her grow more.
Did anyone see Chy’s story when she just started chopping her hair with the damn kitchen scissors??🤣 Lmaoooo my jaw dropped cause that was so impulsive but it’s cute I think she should get a curly cut & then start growing it out would be SO cute in a little cute curly fro 🫶🏾
Nah winter love you girl but it’s called respect and boundaries. Maybe keep the photos in your iCloud or something if you need it for “receipts” but to have it in your phone is a big no for me.
Isn't Chy the one in the long term relationship??? So clearly she is doing something right cause Winter can not keep a man to save her life, no shade 😂😂😂
No fr and the worst part is she’s gonna see these comments and over explain herself and not take any accountability or admit she’s wrong she wants her friend to look bad u can tell it reminds me of my ex best friend that prayed on my down fall and we were friends for 8 years we were like sisters and she started getting jealous as hell of me and trying to belittle me all the time randomly idk it’s weird imo. Not what friends do.
Wintrr has never experienced true love and it shows. The way she repeated “getting a hand job🫴🤌” like that was some normal stuff was a real glimpse into how messed up her mind is. Also, who needs receipts from old relationships? If you’ve moved on , and you’re now in a loving and happy relationship, why do you you need old footage of you and your ex🤔? that’s weird. I wonder if she’d be comfortable with her man jacking off to him and his ex old videos too.. Wintr has some severe issues and it shows. On the last episode where Chys other bff was on, Wintr was SEETHING for the first few minutes and it was very clear that It took her a minute to get comfortable with the other girl being a good friend of Chy and being on the pod with them. Wintrr probably does love Chy but she can’t hide her disdain for Chy and the only reason for it is because Chy is very naturally gorgeous inside and out and Chy doesn’t need to try hard at all. She tries to keep Chy down in the most subtle ways possible so that it isn’t to obvious but it shows.
Chy is very old school/traditional which I can appreciate bc most women end goal is to be in a traditional relationship/marriage. So go aheaddd Chy. Continue to carry yourself the way you do. Wintr seems to be more open w her views. Which I also can appreciate bc my best friend is the same way & she balances me out in certain views. If y’all like it , I love it. Been subscribed to y’all since day 1 🎀
Why is winter constantly picking on Chy and tearing her down.. literally throughout the entire video…. Chy has boundaries that look different then winters that doesn’t make her toxic
Lmao im with Chy on this one 😂. I also agree with Winter in saying that you can’t come into someone’s life and tell them who they can and can’t be friends with. And having photos/connections with exes in your phone is crazy when tryna be in a relationship. They are boundaries not toxic. Y’all’s boundaries are just different
Chy having boundaries doesn’t make her toxic. It’s toxic to even want/feel the need to keep pictures of your exes for “receipts”. Winter hasn’t had a real relationship and just treats men like banks and Chy is clearly a lover girl so she shouldn’t be telling Chy how to feel. Also crashing out on Chy because of her relationship boundaries is crazy
I think its just about having respect for your partners , yes winter is right it doesnt take away the fact that they were once your partner in your life but that doesnt mean its your LIFE partner therefore keeping pictures of those moments are absolutely a part of reminiscing those moments which is a red flag . Also you can trust your partner but not trust other people around them . Boundaries are not insecurities
It’s diabolical that winter was trying to gaslight chy about the exes and pictures convo. Like girl, having pics of your exes for “receipts” and being friends with people you were intimate with etc, while you’re in a healthy and loving relationship IS toxic. Chy having boundaries around that is healthy, shows self respect, and growth.
Please winter don’t accept someone getting a hand j*b while yall together that’s cheating :( someone pleasing your man is cheating 😢don’t settle mama that’s beyond the boundaries
Two different people, two different personalities, and two different perspectives on things….
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I don’t think anyone is wrong but it’s not toxic to want your partner to delete pictures with their ex. I think it depends on your partners boundaries, it’s a respect thing . It wouldn’t make your man insecure if he wanted you to delete it .34:06
Chy you are not toxic. You are more traditional and more securely structured in a relationship. I’ve been in a relationship for years & would not be cool with my man having a girl bff. I don’t have a male bff either. & the ones i did have i distanced myself with. Just out of pure respect for my partner
If you don’t like me don’t watch my show. It’s that simple. In a second yall going to be watching the inside of your eyelids 🫶🏼
@@WinterBlanco it’s not about liking you, i personally like you but i think you’re really hardheaded as a person and don’t take personal criticism well like at all. i get we’re just “your fans” but like be fr it was wrong and weird for you to randomly attack chy and call her toxic when the conversation could’ve just started and ended at we think differently and want different things in life. cause chy isn’t toxic at all she has boundaries. you just want something different out of relationship than genuine love and connection cause that doesn’t come at any price.
It’s not YOUR show. We love Chy too!
@@madalynnrodriguez6459 WELL SAID 👏🏽👏🏽
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@@madalynnrodriguez6459 AGREED. She gets so mad whenever anyone criticizes her thinking no one “likes her” i wonder how her live show gonna go ..
Chy is not toxic … she is a wife
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TUHH!!!!
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Agreed.
Chy is old school and traditional & Winter is more open minded & modern that’s why their outlooks are different.
Perfectly said!
Perfectly said. It has to do a lot with how they were raised as well.
This!
I love it . I feel like it gives us different views.
So open minded to where her brain fell out. It’s not good to be that open minded
i dont think chys toxic- she has boundaries and respects herself and how her partner values her. she wants her partner all about HER and thats okay. 🙂
that’s not reality tho
exactly, she has boundaries that she has set in place for her relationship.
@NubiaFaith It’s a reality for me and many of those that I know.
@@NubiaFaith_maybe not for you ??? 😕
@@NubiaFaith_I mean if you’re in a relationship it should just be about that one person and vice versa so technically it is reality
i love chy for always standing her ground bc winter b trippin
“Winter b trippin” is so real😭😭😭
Winter does have BPD and I’m sure chy is aware.
I wish they would talk about how they maintain the friendship around it, especially from Chy’s perspective.
Chy is way better than me, cus no..😂
Winter and the “Can I talk? Can I finish”, while proceeding to over talk Chy right after is crazy! She’s been cutting Chy off since episode 1. Chy is not insecure, she has boundaries.
no seriously!! she stay cutting her off even when they have special guests wiintr STAY cutting the guests off😂since day 1. i love her don’t get me wrong but she gotta chill
Lol right I hate when people do that to me. Like girl she was the one talking first. You will have your turn when she’s done 😂
They both talk over each other all the time Come on now
Why is winter constantly clowning on Chy when Chy is always uplifting winter… it’s literally every episode
We love you Chy never change❤
they both do it my godddd y’all are entirely too sensitive.. y’all act like Chy is not a GROWN woman with a voice.. if she had a problem with winter or the things she said she wouldn’t be around her and sure as fuck wouldn’t have a podcast with her. Chy got a couple good ones in on winter this episode and vise versa… please stop🤣
@@yvngjointanyway that’s MY opinion, winter is always talking down on Chy while Chy is just uplifting
@@yvngjointthis
Chy is 100% right and far from insecure or controlling. A mature healed person who doesn’t feel the need to have any attachments to their exes doesn’t need to have all that in their phone, it’s called moving on wether you’re in a relationship or not. Saying that you need those things in your phone for receipts is just childish lol.
Okay I still keep some receipts but I have a designated folder for that I’m not reminiscing lol
@@HeavenBoozereceipts for what??? Move on.. to prove to people you fw that person once upon a time? Who cares lol
@@liar9256 Exactly. Some people will never know peace because they’re too busy seeking validation from others.
@@liar9256 we live in an era of revenge porn. Clout chasing etc. any receipts I have is just in case a mf wants to expose something intimate or personal. I will be guarded and getting my bag in any case lol
Winter just started attacking Chy out of nowhere, loud and wrong 😂
Chy is going to not last there
@@jenney923she will be fine , they have been friends for a while and they get each other. Maybe Winter was having an off day. Real friends bicker time to time.
Facts 😂😂😂😂 she got so hostile
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Loud and wrong
Wintrr has never had true love because when you are in love you don’t even WANT anyone else in your phone and vise versa you don’t want any ex pics in your man phone . It’s not toxic it’s respect
Vice versa *
She def has a different outlook on love because of her past which I can say the same for myself. Like I have been a serial dater since I was 16 and that has led me to go thru it!! Like actually focus on urself bae. Winter ily I hope you organically find a peaceful true love🥹🥹
love winter been a fan since bgc, Chy on the other hand is NOT WRONG. I love Chy and her modest way of thinking… Girl’s these days think too much is okay..
@@Richellediamond but girls like Chy are the ones who let men manipulate and waste their time for years with no ring. The Winters get married.
Chy, you have so much self control, awareness, and security. Very far from insecure. I give you major props. I see you. Every episode I notice you showing self control. You are hella mature 🫶🏽✨
If chy would’ve called Winter out like that Winter would’ve been ready to fight, cry and storm off
Exactly. Chy is hella mature. Truly a grown ssa woman ✨
100%
Thank you for pointing that out, I hope Winter can put herself in Chys perspective because that “here’s my thing, can I talk?” While Chy is mid sentence is crazy
I understand where Chy is coming from. I don’t think she’s necessarily toxic, just very strong boundaries.
Chy giving 80's workout baddie 😂
We love you Chy❤
I love her outfit this episode !
And it’s aging her so bad she’s looking like she was born in the 80s. I love chy down but the hair and outfit choice is not it for her 😭 it’s making her look so old
Yes I just said that ❤ so cute
@@MarieB114 & she’s still killing it 😍😍🔥
“Can I talk???” when Chy was literally in the middle of a sentence is crazy 😂😂
Chy saying “some people would say that’s being a pick me” and then drinking her drink has me crying 🤣🤣🤣
Chy telling winter “ok that’s your homie we get it “ 😂😂 no foreal WE get it !!
Bro literally 😂like such a pick meeee
When she said “ I wasn’t finished “! I was like 😮😅
Winter accepts anything cause she been through everything with these men that she just decided to accept anything.
Exavtly
The thing is…. Winter really DONT be accepting ANYTHING AT ALL. She is judge Judy to the BS. lol
She doesn’t accept anything though, the way that man moved was on him.
No you accept anything. You aren’t being offered not even a dollar so stop
and she also feels the need to keep “receipts” and have a “one up” on men she’s dated because she’s rarely dated anyone who made her feel secure and at peace. there would be no receipts to keep if you didn’t feel like you can’t trust the men you entertain and sleep with.
Winter baby, love you girl but you are a little more delulu than you think. To say you have less toxic ways than chy is delulu in its self.
Sis, you just questioned if you should give 26 yo bae, that ghosted you another chance. And you also gave coprate job bae another chance after he displayed so many red flags. So saying chy has more toxic ways of thinking than you …. Wrap it up, mama!
clock ittt🤣🤣 now we know why she’s still single at her grown age
@@natalyavargas1373 not too much on my girl. 👋🏾
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Very delusional
attacking someone’s personality to justify your own ideologies is insane. how is it insecure to not want a man to have his exes in his phone? and then you proved her point by saying you’ve had s3* with your boy best friends….
*and that’s exactly what she doesn’t want for her own relationships
oof clock it
Wynter is TRULY bugging by calling Chy toxic. Ts was hilarious.
Pot meet kettle 🙄. Toxic is Toxic wth is Winter talking abt ? How many definitions are there ? I like Winter but she seems 2b lowkey hating bc she didn’t get the invite from Cardi, js. 😂
chy you are not insecure, you have STANDARDS. winter be talking like a pick me. but y’all dope 😂
Wintrrr girl you need to take some time off dating and just pour into yourself differently .. it’s just not your time 😭 these stories stress me out everytime cause im sorry WHAAAAAT?!?! Can’t put a price on respect
Exactly
Perfectly said
She respectfully got paid thousands of dollars 🤪
@@amandaamaya1443Whats that matter when you are constantly complaining you want a family husband and kids, money only makes you happy for so long.
Dang y’all gonna be the reason she don’t say anything anymore lol
winter i love you but...the ex photo thing is wack it's disrespectful nobody cares about "reciepts" i think your reflecting your toxic shit onto Chy and saying everything shes doing is toxic...
Right
forreal!
u dont live a lifestyle like her so obviously you wouldnt relate. 😂
true
She’s the insecure one imo
Chy I don’t think you have any toxic insecurity. I think it’s normal for healthy relationships not to have pics of their ex’s in their phone, the past is the past start new and clean leave the exes behind no purpose to have pics of them in their phone.
fr gurl i was once just buying a new phone cause i wanted to delete him soo bad 😂😂
I don’t know why this isn’t talked about more but Winter stay clowning on Chy about her looks. I know they’re obviously joking with each other but it’s damn near every episode. it just reminds me of previous “friends” that would do the same thing in front of people for a laugh.
and always saying something about her being tall. i understand what you mean 100% it's something you peep when you went thru it. chy always calls her pretty and compliments her body.
Yesss I peeped this. Like let her be and work on security within yourself to not have to say a comment about her every episode. I get it’s friendship that are like that but get a grip 😭
I love winter but I peeped it too. Chy is always complimenting her and winter can never do the same. Also always takes chys stories and says “THAT HAPPENED TO ME ONE TIME” then chy can’t even continue.
Bro their literally brothers they do the same thing to eachother lol
@@krystallombardi8904brothers lmfao
The fact that you two can maintain a healthy friendship but yet have varying perspectives when it comes to relationships & other topics is beautiful. I love that you both stand on your perspectives and aren’t so focused on who’s right or wrong. It makes for really good conversations. I truly enjoyed this episode.
Winter stop accepting bread crumbs from these men. Stand up like Chy!!! 😂
U ask for money and u say you're rich all the time so it's weird.they loose respect real quick
Its crazy how a man sending her money is all it takes for Winter to want to date or sleep with a guy. Im the complete opposite, a guy offering money is huge turn off because no rational sane guy does that. Thats a control tactic men use to have a more transactional relationship rather than an emotional one. They know they can treat you however because you’re thirsty for money. I had a guy tell me I could use his black card on our first date and the only thing I could think was that he was an insecure loser. Like who he is as a person isnt enough so he needs to offer money to keep me interested. I never spoke to him again.
Getting validation from men offering stacks is crazy, if that's all they're good for but there's no substance in the relationship whats the point 👀 especially if you type of bih to complain you want a family.
No I’m with chy winter you’re crazy. My man is not having photos of his ex in his phone, it’s respect. it’s not toxic. Winter you can’t tell chy she’s toxic for not wanting photos in her mans phone, when you’re ok with your man getting a handjob that is really inviting toxic weird energy in it. Winter you’re having double standards here. Winter if you have your views with men having girl best friends and etc. that’s my preference too I’m not ok with that.
Winter you should really try being GENUINELY single, like focus on yourself and take a break from interacting with men. Every story ends the same with them giving you money but not respecting you....at this point is the money worth being disrespected?
Idk getting 4 bands from a man that just wants to speak you and you don’t really have to put any effort feels really good. If you can relate you can relate but if you can’t then you can’t 😭 obviously don’t deal with it long term but short term? It’s alright actually lol
I think its weird how shes always ask8ng men for money asking men for rent and thwy go away so faat aftwr that smh
@@jenney923 girl men should provide imo. She’s having her way trust me. Men aren’t afraid to ask us for our bodies, As a woman we can ask for our needs to be met by money. I
@@jenney923it is kinda weird that she does ask men for money if she’s well off on her own.
YES. Very immature mindset to think a few bands should disregard everything these little boys do
I have to agree with chy on the no girl best friends or pictures of exes… Call it what you want, no man will be okay with their girl doing that
FACTS ☝🏽
exactly. like if the roles were reversed let’s be real the man would NOT approve so why is it okay for her to do it?
Chy, can you touch more on the importance of you doing volunteer work and give us advice as to why and persuade others to volunteer in their community. Love always watching you both 🫶🏽
THE BANGS LOOK AMAZING! CHY U ARE SERVING MODEL - AMERICAN APPAREL - 80S - PRINCESS - ICON
Yessss
But let chy up and leave winter at a theatre there would be no podcast LOL
😂😂fr
Mannnnn WHAT! It would be winter bday trip part 2 🙄
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Right!!!!
LITERALLY
Winter just gives high maintenance friend always complaining if it’s not something she wants to do…. Idk how her and chy are real life friends
CHY IS GOING TO GWT SICK OF IT. REAL SOON
Reminds me of my old relationship with my cousin I cut her tf off because she really was like winter always complaining would cancel on me cause her eyebrows didn’t look good and would love to call me out but could never take it when I’d dish it. What’s really toxic is this friendship 🤷♀️
@@jenney923clock it….chy seems so humble and well grounded and wiintr jus gives stick up boujee girl SINCE bgc.
I was thinking that too, like with the whole trip on her birthday week . Wanted to end their WHOLE friendship instead of just talking to her about it at first . They are two completely different people , they just like to drink together and Chy seems comforting for winter , I like winter but I feel like she’s the type to always says she’s right about a situation .
Chy was raised by a black woman with morals. Winter from what shes said she never really had her mom and her mom white, they have different upbringings for sure. not my place but winter should try focusing on other things besides money, she only cares about money.
i love that winter tells her dating stories, yall gotta stop judging her for being real and not acting like shit is all peachy
Literally
Me tooo
I love how you guys can debate and it’s still funny! I love hearing you guys different perspectives that’s why you guys make such a great podcast and relationship! Yin and Yang ❤
i don’t believe chy is toxic, she just has strong boundaries and that’s ok. what works for one person and their relationship may not work for others.
Winter your telling someone who’s been in a years long relationship that she toxic 😂 while your struggling to even get a first date
We know people that have been in relationships for yearrss and it’s toxic babe. Just say you don’t agree 😂
@@NubiaFaith_right, we don’t know the dynamic of her relationship to think it’s perfect compared to being single. 😂
Facts omg
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I love winter but just leaving your friends at the movies is messed up not everything revolves around you. Idc I would be pissed
Well luckily we not friends 🫶🏼
aw
@@WinterBlanco😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
@@WinterBlancogirl
IF ITS DONW TO HER SHE GETS DRAMATIC
When winter said, “Are you dumb ? Here’s my zelle.” I felt that one 😭😭
Ain’t no one sending you 10k. Ms Shirley
@@Exoticalsspace Girl get tf off my post hating. Nobody is sending YOU that Lmao
@@Exoticalsspace💀💀💀
Chy is the least toxic person I’ve seen😭she’s sensible , loyal , and a true girlfriend it’s giving jealous at this point cuz what
yea winter was projecting real bad
Chy is definitely not toxic. She has boundaries. That comes with self respect, self love and principles. I agree with her views 1000%, but we also both come from 2 parent households. There’s nothing wrong with Winters point of view either, it just comes with upbringing, values and principles.
Growing up in a two parent household especially with both biological parents definitely plays a huge role on how you carry your future relationships I agree with you 10000% because I grew up in a two parent household with both of my parents and I have the same mindset as Chy as far as relationships
Chy, pls don’t stop being you! ❤
Chy is not toxic at all, Chy just has boundaries which is valid!!!
Wait but every time she says I’ll insert a clip theirs never a clip…. Am I missing something?
Deadass lmaoo
Same
Chy= Traditional woman
Wintrr = Modern
Idk about modern maybe crazy
@@Babykayy12DEAD
Modern? No. Delusional? Yea
Winter that man is married with kids 😂😂 he couldn’t sneak out that night 😭😭😭 wifey was trippen
Got to be
here’s winter showing how good of a friend she is 😂😂... she wants chy to agree with her when she’s wrong and turns mean asf when chy doesn’t agree… like what
@@Eli-yp9rs that’s that only child behavior 😬
37:22 period Chy!!! Let her know you’re not done talking yet! Winter thinks that if she repeats herself enough she’ll get Chy to stop sharing her point.. it is SO rude and been happening since the very first episode. Imagine trying to get a point across and you got someone barking next to you so you can stop talking like girl stfu and wait lmao
then why u keep watching & putting money in winter pockets? 😂😂😂😂 u embarrassing af
@@victoriae700… get your slow ass on I can enjoy this podcast and point out when winter is being rude LMFAO. You’ll be ok I promise
@@victoriae700LMFAOO I can enjoy the podcast while also pointing out the truth boo. She interrupts Chy allll the time idc. Hope this helps❤️
@@angelxo510 lol no youre just a hater. why watch a women u been mad at since "first episode" FAN ENERGY. wrote a whole paragraph about her🤣🤣😭😂 they talk to each other just fine.
@@victoriae700 mmmkay well ima keep sharing my opinions idgaf what you keep calling me 😂 you’ll live I promise!
Chys take was not toxic/insecure. The past is the past. Yes, they represent memories in your life but no need to keep EVERY single picture
Chy isn’t toxic at all she just not goin for the bs! Aquarius shit ✌🏼✌🏼 stand on it boo!!!
You two are genuinely real friends. You guys are able to talk and have disagreements without taking it too far. I love yalls pod and it lowkey has gotten me through a lot. I just wish winter could be less self centered. Shes been this way since bgc & I would like to see her grow more.
Chy : What’s my favorite genre
Winter : Lesbian
😭😭🤣🤣
“You look like the Lorax” is crazy 😂
Did anyone see Chy’s story when she just started chopping her hair with the damn kitchen scissors??🤣 Lmaoooo my jaw dropped cause that was so impulsive but it’s cute I think she should get a curly cut & then start growing it out would be SO cute in a little cute curly fro 🫶🏾
i thought it was a wig at first until she flipped her hair back. 😂😂 i said i know she just didn’t cut her hair like that
“ok that’s your homie” has me hollering 😂😂😭 45:41
I came on here to say that 😂 Wiinter was doing way too much on DDG d!cc 🤣
Nah winter love you girl but it’s called respect and boundaries. Maybe keep the photos in your iCloud or something if you need it for “receipts” but to have it in your phone is a big no for me.
Isn't Chy the one in the long term relationship??? So clearly she is doing something right cause Winter can not keep a man to save her life, no shade 😂😂😂
Just bc a woman is with a man for years doesn’t mean anything. Especially when it’s in and off.
Please demonstrate how to keep a good amazing man. 😂
Barely they’ve broken up hella… looks toxic , but long term? Sure
@@twright93right! they act like people can’t be toxic just because they in a rs.
it’s winter gaslighting chy on what’s toxic and what’s not , and everything winter is okay with is actually insane 😐
wiintrr you better not give that man another chance 😒😂 never let somebody play in your face twice!
Winter is DELUSIONAL saying chy is toxic 😂 winter is the definition of toxic hints to why she can never stay in a relationship longer then 6 months….
No fr and the worst part is she’s gonna see these comments and over explain herself and not take any accountability or admit she’s wrong she wants her friend to look bad u can tell it reminds me of my ex best friend that prayed on my down fall and we were friends for 8 years we were like sisters and she started getting jealous as hell of me and trying to belittle me all the time randomly idk it’s weird imo. Not what friends do.
Bloop!!
Wintrr has never experienced true love and it shows. The way she repeated “getting a hand job🫴🤌” like that was some normal stuff was a real glimpse into how messed up her mind is.
Also, who needs receipts from old relationships? If you’ve moved on , and you’re now in a loving and happy relationship, why do you you need old footage of you and your ex🤔? that’s weird. I wonder if she’d be comfortable with her man jacking off to him and his ex old videos too..
Wintr has some severe issues and it shows.
On the last episode where Chys other bff was on, Wintr was SEETHING for the first few minutes and it was very clear that It took her a minute to get comfortable with the other girl being a good friend of Chy and being on the pod with them.
Wintrr probably does love Chy but she can’t hide her disdain for Chy and the only reason for it is because Chy is very naturally gorgeous inside and out and Chy doesn’t need to try hard at all. She tries to keep Chy down in the most subtle ways possible so that it isn’t to obvious but it shows.
worded excellent!
Interesting perspectives
This a blunt & some liquor is the PERFECT way to wait out this hurricane 😭
LMAOO SAME IN ORLANOO smoking rn
Me watching this with my freshly dyed half blonde bangs as y’all call it ghetto LMAOOOO😢
It’s not ghettooooo I think ts so cute and unique
Their friendship is hilarious. The end has me screaming. Is this play about us 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"HEY YALL"😂 not even 2 seconds in and chy is killing me ahah😂😂
This convo reminded me of a friend I no longer have because this was super triggering
Chileeeee If winter think Chy more toxic, she tripping 😂😂😂
Baby you don’t know Chy like I do lmao
@@WinterBlanco😭😭😭
@winterblanco I mean says the one that digged in a trash can to see what a man was up to ? Hmm
@@KikiKuaw😂😂😂😂
@@KikiKuawand i would do the same no man about to play with me !!!
Chy is very old school/traditional which I can appreciate bc most women end goal is to be in a traditional relationship/marriage. So go aheaddd Chy. Continue to carry yourself the way you do. Wintr seems to be more open w her views. Which I also can appreciate bc my best friend is the same way & she balances me out in certain views. If y’all like it , I love it. Been subscribed to y’all since day 1 🎀
Why is winter constantly picking on Chy and tearing her down.. literally throughout the entire video….
Chy has boundaries that look different then winters that doesn’t make her toxic
Lmao im with Chy on this one 😂. I also agree with Winter in saying that you can’t come into someone’s life and tell them who they can and can’t be friends with. And having photos/connections with exes in your phone is crazy when tryna be in a relationship. They are boundaries not toxic. Y’all’s boundaries are just different
Chy having boundaries doesn’t make her toxic. It’s toxic to even want/feel the need to keep pictures of your exes for “receipts”. Winter hasn’t had a real relationship and just treats men like banks and Chy is clearly a lover girl so she shouldn’t be telling Chy how to feel. Also crashing out on Chy because of her relationship boundaries is crazy
Got my blunt rolled & ready to laugh 🫶🏽
I literally set up my rig and shit ready for some dabs lol cheers gorgeous 🫶🏻
Same girl on my lawn chair listening to this goofball and sassy queen
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no pics of exes sorry :(( DELETE lmao
RIGHT! deleting ts as soon after i block his ahh😭😭🩷
I think its just about having respect for your partners , yes winter is right it doesnt take away the fact that they were once your partner in your life but that doesnt mean its your LIFE partner therefore keeping pictures of those moments are absolutely a part of reminiscing those moments which is a red flag . Also you can trust your partner but not trust other people around them . Boundaries are not insecurities
I wish I had an older sister/friend like chy! Chy please stay how you are. Before you even said anything I could tell you’re a woman of God
I’m ngl they had a argument yes but y’all made it look & seem deeper than it really was 😭
Wintrr is looking for love in all the wrong places
I felt so awkward when yall was talking about insecurity I feel like yall was arguing in front of us 😂😭
Me too I was side eyeing myself in the mirror
Chy was clocking tea when she said another one 😂😂😂
Wiinter has “pick me” ways honestly . She’s given pick me a few times
Chy easily proved her point @36:55… 😂 no further discussion needed after that
right 😂
It’s diabolical that winter was trying to gaslight chy about the exes and pictures convo. Like girl, having pics of your exes for “receipts” and being friends with people you were intimate with etc, while you’re in a healthy and loving relationship IS toxic. Chy having boundaries around that is healthy, shows self respect, and growth.
This episode helped me through my menstrual cycle depression I was feeling today!!!!
Same
Please winter don’t accept someone getting a hand j*b while yall together that’s cheating
:( someone pleasing your man is cheating 😢don’t settle mama that’s beyond the boundaries
Two different people, two different personalities, and two different perspectives on things….
I don’t think anyone is wrong but it’s not toxic to want your partner to delete pictures with their ex. I think it depends on your partners boundaries, it’s a respect thing . It wouldn’t make your man insecure if he wanted you to delete it .34:06
When you exit out of the video you were watching because your fave podcast just dropped a new episode. Lol ❤️
Same!
CHY YOU ARE NOT TOXIC!!!!!!! YOU ARE CLASSY AND LOYAL!!!!!! MORE WOMEN ARE LIKE YOU TRUST ME!!!!!!!!!!!
Love this podcast so much, love winter and chy but damn winter let chy breathe 😂 I ain't ever seen a friend try fight her friend so much
Chy you are not toxic. You are more traditional and more securely structured in a relationship. I’ve been in a relationship for years & would not be cool with my man having a girl bff. I don’t have a male bff either. & the ones i did have i distanced myself with. Just out of pure respect for my partner
I’m cracking up when Winter was like “stop you about to do too much” when Chy started adjusting herself to do something funny 😂
Chy is a wifey at heart that’s why she thinks the way she does❤️
Winter acting like a pick me when ddg is being called out like girl stfu..I called him when I was drunk😣face ahhh ur a pick meeee omfg
Winter is SOOO dam funny! I almost died when she started reading the advice LMAO!
Winter is me with doing whatever I want and dealing with it later 😂 Also, love that chy be OUTSIDE traveling… GOALS!!
chy is giving mermaid man this episode in the best way
Chy: Traditional and conservative
Winter: Open minded and liberal no one is toxic just different views 😂❤ love the podi!