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  • @unclericky5850
    @unclericky5850 4 місяці тому +110

    NEVER move into a woman’s house, the first time she gets mad at you, she gonna son you and let you know “THIS MY HOUSE!”…..almost like they can’t wait to remind you lol!

    • @SharkOrDie
      @SharkOrDie 4 місяці тому +9

      By then, I would have had stacked so much money up I would be happy to bounce! -Ginger Bread Man

    • @cjjohnson3827
      @cjjohnson3827 4 місяці тому +10

      My father gave me that lesson a long time go back in the 90s when I was a teenager. Never let a woman have leverage over you. I’m 41 now and I still live by that.

    • @oloatis2182
      @oloatis2182 4 місяці тому +3

      @@SharkOrDieOr just don’t move in at all, and stack your money without needing help from a woman

    • @juliansearcie1758
      @juliansearcie1758 4 місяці тому

      ​@@oloatis2182💪💪💪💪💪🎯

    • @rayonhughes6696
      @rayonhughes6696 4 місяці тому

      You are 100% right my friend.

  • @sonnyqsoul
    @sonnyqsoul 4 місяці тому +22

    Made that mistake twice. Was always supposed to only be for a few months while I was moving into a new city until I could get my own place. Neither time lasted even a month. Wouldn't do it again. Would rather pay for an AirBnB, hotel, or sleep in my car.

  • @UncleBubba86
    @UncleBubba86 4 місяці тому +15

    This is the reason I bought my own house. They will take as much as possible and kick you to the street and you will have to start over. Get your own.

  • @despicablep7218
    @despicablep7218 4 місяці тому +15

    I lived with a woman for about 3 years and never held a key for her place. At the same time I had an apartment that I was paying rent for that she didn’t get a key for. I never paid any bills at her place and she never did at mine. We had a great relationship and we’re still good friends but I always kept me a trump card just in case she told me to leave. As a former scout I was prepared

  • @noirking6138
    @noirking6138 4 місяці тому +11

    I made that mistake ONE TIME, when I originally moved to LA. We were dating months before I moved for school and work. One day we got into it and you guessed it, get out. In addition, I found out she was playing the mistress to the same pookie that cheated on her, he was in a new relationship. After I got on my feet and really started living in LA, I found out the pookie only kept her on a leash, because I was with her. She's still single, lonely and texting me YEARS later. The shits comical to me. I learned that very hard, important life lesson. Stay focused. 💪🏾

  • @jai-one2691
    @jai-one2691 4 місяці тому +9

    Before you even think about moving in a woman, don't even let a woman know where you live. How many times have you heard about a woman knocking at your door, 3 o'clock in the morning. Waking everyone on the block. Veting a woman properly takes months. And she won't be her true self until she's comfortable, and she thinks she's in control.

  • @Voltron21
    @Voltron21 4 місяці тому +12

    Ngl I've never even considered moving into any space with a Chica.

  • @AJRAOfficial
    @AJRAOfficial 4 місяці тому +14

    I did early 20s and got kicked out

  • @shadex3736
    @shadex3736 3 місяці тому +2

    A man that moves into a woman's house is practically homeless even though he pays the bills

  • @olatundeaboaba
    @olatundeaboaba 3 місяці тому +2

    When she came over to my place I treated her like a Queen and gave her all she wanted.
    She said she wanted to get her own place so I paid half of her rent and helped her move in. I told her I was coming over and would be staying for a week. She said no problem.
    When I did come over, I provided for most of the things we needed for cooking, and still spent money to make us comfortable, pulling my own weight. Before the end of the week she was already giving me signs that she was getting tired of me being around.

  • @maloishwilson
    @maloishwilson 4 місяці тому +6

    Take it from an old man, never move in with a woman, even if you're homeless.

  • @Chioma618
    @Chioma618 4 місяці тому +6

    My husband and I lived at my place for all of 1 month before we moved into our home together. The only reason for that was because his lease ended before mine.

    • @duncanmugambi6213
      @duncanmugambi6213 4 місяці тому

      So you are admitting that women are horrible people when they have leverage over a man?

  • @lunytoons3666
    @lunytoons3666 4 місяці тому +48

    The person who own that home has ALL THE LEVERAGE.

  • @jesquibel6969
    @jesquibel6969 4 місяці тому +7

    Ive done that. Took an L.

  • @esthera92
    @esthera92 4 місяці тому +2

    I say both men and women shouldn’t move in with each other until marriage or maybe after engagement.

  • @josesoto7480
    @josesoto7480 4 місяці тому +5

    When a woman tells you to leave, just say thank you ✌️

  • @ronnrogers9459
    @ronnrogers9459 4 місяці тому +3

    I agree 100% never under no circumstance do you move in with a woman because she's going to throw her weight around and she's going to say if you don't like it you can leave or put you out men is vitally important that you have your own place it may not be as good as hers but it doesn't matter have your own place

  • @lunytoons3666
    @lunytoons3666 4 місяці тому +13

    Alright say she owns her own house & you own your own house WHY THE FUCK would you both move out to BUY ANOTHER HOUSE ?! Unless you make great money and can 1000% afford that house on your own. NEVER EVER put her name on the DEED to the house. Because she starts trying to shit test you, disrespect you or any number of things YOU CAN REMINDER HER THIS IS MY HOUSE !

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs 4 місяці тому

      Some woman tried to make a argument that both of you get a third house to move in and rent both your houses out, the dumbest piece of advice I’ve ever heard of. That chick sounded like a feminist and as usual like most women today, feel to need to have equal power over everything

    • @b14m23
      @b14m23 4 місяці тому +1

      Dude that was the point of the video. Even if you both own houses already never ever move into anything she owns or rents. Also never put any woman's name on anything with you unless she is your wife. You can rent out you home and move up but do it on you own unless you are married.

    • @Tony-lm5zs
      @Tony-lm5zs 4 місяці тому +1

      @@b14m23 stop crying

    • @RobChurch-s6s
      @RobChurch-s6s 4 місяці тому

      Actually, she can move in with you and she can rent her house out. Just don't move into her house.

    • @djangomarine6658
      @djangomarine6658 4 місяці тому

      Bruh, play chess. Don't move in together unless you're married. If you do get married, buy a new affordable house and rent out both of the previous houses. It'll cut your new mortgage in half. Get a prenup making sure separate property stays separate, and if things go wrong, you've still got the passive income or a place to move back in to. You're hacking your mortgage and hacking a possible divorce, while accumulating the appreciation and equity of 3 properties. Don't be the 50 year old guy sleeping in his truck if she acts up.

  • @kingba111
    @kingba111 4 місяці тому +12

    Never do it

  • @brianmcpherson2951
    @brianmcpherson2951 4 місяці тому +2

    I never moved into any woman's house. From the moment a man does,he has no say so. I've seen,dudes get pimped in the worse way. Especially,"parolees".

  • @rldlnl
    @rldlnl 4 місяці тому +3

    She slept on it and remembered how much the single life cost her. 😂😂
    I moved in with my gf, maintained my own separate spot during that time. I gave it up when I started building. We moved into the new house as man and wife. 27years together.

  • @rayonhughes6696
    @rayonhughes6696 4 місяці тому +3

    I agree with the guy in this video. I did that dumb crap of moving in with a woman and I will never do that again, never. They can't wait to say, "get out of my house." They're pretty much salivating and foaming at the mouth to have the opportunity to say this. They think they can run you and whatever you do, you have to ask her. Don't do it fellas, it's basically giving her the opportunity to disrespect you, and believe me, she will do it.

  • @JIMBO8472
    @JIMBO8472 4 місяці тому +3

    Cohabitation in 2024 is a bad idea

  • @Mitalayeka
    @Mitalayeka 4 місяці тому +1

    I learnt from watching others over the yrs and i swore never to do that, as a man never let it come to this, unless your name is on the lease or something similar to that.

  • @Bsharpnotflat
    @Bsharpnotflat 4 місяці тому +1

    A mans duty is to work, provide and protect. The bare minimum for a man is to have his own place.

  • @Wgz945
    @Wgz945 4 місяці тому

    I learned this early in college, after that never ever again I’d rather sleep in my car before i make that mistake again

  • @former-paconstablewiggs354
    @former-paconstablewiggs354 4 місяці тому +2

    I 100% agree with these Fellas!!!! Talking from personal experience... Fellas, slow it down, stay with family if you could, or get a room if need be... But do not let a Woman get that upper hand on you, to disrespect you!!! Take heed...🤷🏾

  • @jaxandrews4840
    @jaxandrews4840 4 місяці тому

    I ve and will never put myself in that type of situation

  • @nadinejordan7317
    @nadinejordan7317 3 місяці тому +1

    I "asked" by a man to move out his house. Lesson learned. Never happened again.

  • @marckristian81
    @marckristian81 4 місяці тому +1

    You move in, start splitting bills and next thing you know you've thrown off your whole trajectory.

  • @donaldmcgee6334
    @donaldmcgee6334 4 місяці тому

    Never let a woman maintain you

  • @Ghostpill1711
    @Ghostpill1711 4 місяці тому

    Marc Cuban been speaking facts for days 👏🏿👏🏿

  • @Dr_Evil_Genius
    @Dr_Evil_Genius 4 місяці тому +1

    This whole narrative is missing two key elements:
    1. Why would you date a woman whose approach to conflict is “get out”? She showed you that nasty character trait before that happened. Why did you choose her?
    2. The guy is talking about a man that eats all the snacks and doesn’t contribute to the household. I refuse to believe that’s anything more than a stereotype built on a false narrative.

  • @1987cotten
    @1987cotten 4 місяці тому

    Stay woke, fellas! Stay woke!

  • @seankoolkat2881
    @seankoolkat2881 4 місяці тому

    These are definitely facts

  • @willieyoung6023
    @willieyoung6023 4 місяці тому

    Pure facts.

  • @704dragon
    @704dragon 4 місяці тому

    NEVER !! That's a hard hell no !!

  • @terryturner259
    @terryturner259 4 місяці тому

    They are both right you never move out your apartment let her move in with you yes there are always great stories for good relationships but more bad than good. I learned this when I was in the military I never moved in with a woman at all because I love having my piece and respect and I don’t have no drama set rules and boundaries and there will never be any issues my bros

  • @maisaimara8325
    @maisaimara8325 4 місяці тому +2

    DONT EVER DO IT FELLAS .. SLEEP ON PPL COUCH UNTIL U GET UR MONEY UP!!! 💥💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @hdcvo2570
    @hdcvo2570 4 місяці тому +3

    If you move into her place, you leave when I’d doesn’t work out. If she moves into your house you still have to either you have to evict her or you move out. You cannot win Gents

  • @Scaoticvlogs886
    @Scaoticvlogs886 2 місяці тому

    Bro my girlfriend meet me in my house and convinced me to move out of my house to leave with her,we had a baby girl three years later bro,she locks me out of home and I became homeless,I was depressed and on the streets for weeks,I would come back and try get into the house and sleep,bro she called in the police to escort me more than three times,to the point bro she made up stories that I was abusive and threaning,I contributed for the rent and food for three years ...... Brother do not move into the house with a woman ..you are not on the lease....

    • @BMSreacts
      @BMSreacts  2 місяці тому

      Sorry to hear that fam...Hopefully you were able to bounce back.

  • @iluvdissheet
    @iluvdissheet 4 місяці тому +1

    I was dating a guy a who asked to stay with me temp. He never moved in but would stay for 3-5 days at a time for about 2 months.
    I told him he couldn't stay over anymore bc i found him texting other women on my computer (he forgot to sign out). I felt it was disrespectful and i didnt ask him to pay...just take out the trash or wash dishes 🤦🏾‍♀️
    Looking back...i dont like how i handled it....we were dating but i was exclusive 🤷🏾‍♀️.
    He made me realize, i wasnt upholding my standards. I actually thanked him for the lesson bc we now have the relationship we both want with each other.
    He obviously didnt expect me to see it but it told him....im not that chick. We became friends and didnt get serious until years later.
    I cant call you a friend until i know how you react to pressure or conflict. But i guess this comes with age with us 👩🏾

  • @NigerianBaller
    @NigerianBaller 4 місяці тому

    I can ageee with the majority of these comments saying never move in with a woman. It didn't happen to me personally, but I know someone who it did happen to. And even though both of their names were on the lease, she was paying the rent. And one day, she refused to pay it, I have no idea why, and they almost got evicted. And later, she ended up filing a restraining order on him, and he had to spend the night at me and my dad's house. Needless to say he ended up divorcing her and never looked back. Point being, never, ever ever ever move into a woman's house. It doesn't matter if you're paying 100% of everything, if the house isn't under your name. It doesn't matter. She can kick you out anytime she feels like it. If you're down bad, find another male roommate to live with until you get back on your feet. Get your shit together, get your money up, so she can move in with you, so you have the leverage. I have to agree with Fresh and Fit that women are terrible people when they have leverage. Women aren't built to lead. And by you moving in with a woman, you put her in her masculine and put her in the leadership position which she is unqualified for. NEVER MOVE IN WITH A WOMAN. ITS A DISASTER WAITING TO HAPPEN.

  • @elpatron7219
    @elpatron7219 4 місяці тому

    Man dem teaching common sense lmao joke thing

  • @joeblack6886
    @joeblack6886 4 місяці тому

    Facts

  • @Johnnie2g
    @Johnnie2g 4 місяці тому +2

    Ill do one even better fellas DONT LIVE WITH A WOMEN A PERIOD!
    Regardless if you moved in with her or vice versa she will still Disrespect you in. You notice the men who have they own place and women there's the women maintains the respect longer? The sex life last longer? Familiarity breeds content

    • @ronnrogers9459
      @ronnrogers9459 4 місяці тому +1

      Right exactly if you're not married to her have a separate place of living y'all can still have a good relationship living in two different places two different homes

  • @legacyns1
    @legacyns1 4 місяці тому

    Women: Get out of my house... *next day* .. I didn't mean it, you can come back
    Also Women: Why can't I be the leader?

  • @JackTheStrippa
    @JackTheStrippa 4 місяці тому

    I don't understand this at all.. are the guys moving in from the street? lol I'm moving out next year because my girls just got a place while i'm building my business.
    I can literally just go home to my families house.
    she knows if I feel uncomfortable one bit I'm out
    there is no second chance no emasculating and she need me to help her with the bills
    all this with a plan on buying our home in my name and the apartment being rented out.
    I get the advice but it should be more like
    "don't move in with a woman if you don't have an alternative back up"

  • @T.Harry79
    @T.Harry79 4 місяці тому +28

    Never experienced that. I refuse to relinquish my leverage.

  • @FessanPanafric
    @FessanPanafric 4 місяці тому +29

    At 23 i moved in the woman’s apartment, the abuse and disrespect were so much, I dreaded coming « home ». I was in school and worked full time to pay half the rent and all of the other bills; and enough food for her two children. I ended up leaving for good. 🤔 She was 10 years older than me. Needless to say I was naive and she manipulated me from day 1. She tried hard to cut me off from friends and family , that’s when I had to FIGHT BACK. She got evicted shortly after I was gone. I thank God for taking me out of that situation 🙏🏾🤔

    • @juliansearcie1758
      @juliansearcie1758 4 місяці тому +6

      Don't do that shite again man

    • @brianmcpherson2951
      @brianmcpherson2951 4 місяці тому

      "God",had nothing to do with that. You was "god",of your own situation. Alot of dudes never learn.

    • @Martin199320
      @Martin199320 3 місяці тому

      @@brianmcpherson2951 shut up, you sound like a punk

    • @joee3_919
      @joee3_919 2 місяці тому

      @@juliansearcie1758🤷🏽‍♂️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ogburich43
    @ogburich43 4 місяці тому +9

    This man is right. I have been preaching this same thing to my son for years!! If your name is not on the lease, it's best you don't live there!! Men, always have your name on the lease. No excuses or exceptions.

  • @TheMSS1977
    @TheMSS1977 4 місяці тому +13

    I did.
    Downhill I went.

  • @Dansenpai8
    @Dansenpai8 4 місяці тому +8

    If she blows back what I told her in confidence in my face. The relationship ends there I’m breaking up with her and I’m leaving

    • @JamaicanToast
      @JamaicanToast 4 місяці тому

      But you're still in her house

    • @Dansenpai8
      @Dansenpai8 4 місяці тому

      @@JamaicanToast I don't care I have my own place so I'd only be over there to spend time with her so it's fine lol

  • @sontaylor1371
    @sontaylor1371 4 місяці тому +1

    If you were raised in a home with a single mom you definitely learned early, so don’t be dumb 😂

  • @lt6986
    @lt6986 4 місяці тому +4

    If a woman does that then she's not really feeling you

  • @michaeldelyjah5696
    @michaeldelyjah5696 4 місяці тому +1

    In no State in the U.S. can she just "kick you out the house". She has to go through the EXACT same process as a landlord. And for all of the imbeciles (and I know you're out there) who will come up with crazy abuse scenarios, the fact is, even if you live in totally different cities, if she accuses you of abuse there is an excellent chance that you're going to be in jail so long that you'll lose YOUR house/apt. EVEN IF YOU'VE NEVER LIVED WITH HER. So, made up scenarios aren't really the point.

  • @cuchanu
    @cuchanu 3 місяці тому

    I have seen this countless times with some of my friends. Every time they get in an argument the woman kicks them out. I would rather live in my car than go back to a woman
    Who cares so little about me that she will make me homeless when she's mad at me.

  • @tam6011
    @tam6011 4 місяці тому +1

    People shouldn’t move in no one’s house get a new spot together.

  • @Jaikenz37
    @Jaikenz37 4 місяці тому

    When man moves in his gf's house there will always be that chance she kicks him out. If the role is reverse the chances is decrease significantly unless she cheats on him. A man will not simply kick a woman out with out a warning.