You don’t want such Husband | ft. Abbas Ashraf Awan | Podcastic # 51 | Umar Saleem

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  • A Mama's Chipku Boy sitting with me in this podcastic and discussing the complexities of mother-son relationships in a fun way. Girls if you see this behaviour in boys, take it as a red flag 🤭
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    A Toxic Mama’s Boy | Podcastic # 51 | Umar Saleem

КОМЕНТАРІ • 292

  • @MrsAdeel24
    @MrsAdeel24 Місяць тому +14

    It has been 18th year of my marriage. I never went to my maika on any choti bari eid and in Ramzan,
    Kion k Mama ko daikhna hai, mama kay maikay ore susral ki dawatain kerni hain, Aftariyan kerni hain.

  • @tahrimaali8794
    @tahrimaali8794 Місяць тому +46

    There is no substitute for Mama ... but Wife also has a very important role as well ... The man can't be fulfilled without his Mama but at same time, the man is incomplete without his wife !!! All men should maintain a balance life 😊❤

  • @user-ii9dt3bt6k
    @user-ii9dt3bt6k Місяць тому +18

    What an intelligent way to represent the problem almost every family. One of the most common and biggest reason of divorce nowadays. I hope we change our minds and trends.

  • @human9940
    @human9940 Місяць тому +12

    Boys should understand wo apki mama hain larki ki mama nahi shes not obliged to do her work or obey her

  • @husnainsabir3592
    @husnainsabir3592 Місяць тому +78

    Acha ha muja boht bara sbq mila Ma b asa hi hn or ma b AJ tk apni wife k Sath same yahi Kuch krta aya hn. Allah muja hadayat da.

    • @nosheesayal9370
      @nosheesayal9370 Місяць тому +12

      U have time
      U can improve urself.

    • @Alonzooooooooooooo
      @Alonzooooooooooooo Місяць тому +1

      Hy aap ki wife kaise seh rahi hy 😢

    • @iqra__995
      @iqra__995 Місяць тому +2

      I feel bad for your wife, May Allah guide you

    • @maryumarshed9081
      @maryumarshed9081 Місяць тому +2

      Allah apko hidayat dy ta k ap apni wife ki badduaon sy bch sakain 😅

  • @zeeshaniqbal6827
    @zeeshaniqbal6827 Місяць тому +14

    Our beautiful Religion Islam sets the limits and boundaries for all the relationships. If we follow that we will not have problems in Shaa Allah!

  • @salmanameen7657
    @salmanameen7657 Місяць тому +9

    please arrange the next podcast " Toxic husband wife relation" with two guests (Male , Female)

  • @DesiInNorway
    @DesiInNorway Місяць тому +7

    Before watching this video, i never realised i am living with a mama’s boy. 100% authentic to what happening in my life. 😏😏😏🙂‍↕️

  • @Unkown2U
    @Unkown2U Місяць тому +68

    These types of families still exist. Nice topic to bring up bro. Moms should leave their son's family lives to them. And sisters should also stay away from brothers' lives.

    • @hamdanbinfarhan4762
      @hamdanbinfarhan4762 Місяць тому +8

      And what about those girls who always stays in their parents every 2nd day....
      Parents should leave their girls as well...
      Har bat apni maa say share karti Hain wo nhi nazar Ata ? 😅😅
      Think positive get positive

    • @art_unlocked
      @art_unlocked Місяць тому +4

      This should be applicable to wife's brothers as well. Isn't it?

    • @Unkown2U
      @Unkown2U Місяць тому

      @@hamdanbinfarhan4762 I agree with you here.

    • @Unkown2U
      @Unkown2U Місяць тому +1

      @@art_unlocked Agree

  • @faryalfarooq8500
    @faryalfarooq8500 Місяць тому +13

    Ma sha Allah u r highlighting very crucial hidden problems of our society in a funny way .. jazak Allahu khairan kasira 😊

  • @zaararahim6258
    @zaararahim6258 Місяць тому +131

    Mama's Boy ❌ Mama's Toy✅

    • @MaazQasim67
      @MaazQasim67 Місяць тому +5

      Right 😂

    • @cntoniumxyz8867
      @cntoniumxyz8867 Місяць тому +2

      Exactly

    • @redcherry419
      @redcherry419 Місяць тому

      boytoy

    • @amirdawar623
      @amirdawar623 18 днів тому

      Agarr apka bhia apki mama ka na mane per ? Apka kiya reaction hoga?

    • @redcherry419
      @redcherry419 16 днів тому +1

      @@amirdawar623 baat manna alag baat h lkin Kisi ka hak chenna alag baat h... Aur apni mama ko ye me nai krne dungi

  • @human9940
    @human9940 Місяць тому +9

    These mothers are in love with their sons as their own husbands are emotionally unavailable

  • @Tahasarwar65
    @Tahasarwar65 Місяць тому +9

    Balance wala point zabrdast umer bhai. Zbrdst hogya

  • @ua8448
    @ua8448 Місяць тому +4

    Great topic, great video, great points!!!

  • @iqraAdnan8322
    @iqraAdnan8322 Місяць тому +17

    your last message is very good, everything needs balance.... in everything and in every relation.
    hr rishtay ka apna Maqam hai.
    ALLAH PAK sbko smj boj atta kry. chahy wo Larki hy ya larka..

    • @nosheesayal9370
      @nosheesayal9370 Місяць тому

      Allah K orders Ko manein ge tu hu Balance ker payen ge.

    • @amirdawar623
      @amirdawar623 27 днів тому

      Jab apka bhia apki mama ki mane yu kahte hu ka mare bhia acha hai our agar shuhor mane tu per randhi ki tarah bolte hu

    • @nosheesayal9370
      @nosheesayal9370 18 днів тому

      @@amirdawar623 U r showing K ap Kia qasm Ki family se hu. Aur Apki aurten Kia hain.

    • @amirdawar623
      @amirdawar623 18 днів тому

      @@nosheesayal9370 tu sahi tu kah raha. Hu zara socho gussa maii aka bola hai ajkal ka larkiyo ka dimage karab howa hai

  • @fatimahaleema419
    @fatimahaleema419 Місяць тому +5

    Yea podcast tou sunnay Mai itna mushkil hai😢. Hayeeee

  • @aimanrani7278
    @aimanrani7278 Місяць тому +7

    Parents ka kam hai k bachon ko independent kerrain lekin Pakistan mein mostly unko dependant rakha jata. Chalis saal k kakay banay hotay. Mama's boys na bhi hon toe woh apni wives pr dependant hotay. Unka bus nahe chlta k diaper pehen lain aur biwi se change kerwaein.
    Shukkr hai k humari family mein aesa nahe hai. Lekin aik bar IOK se guests ay toe woh apni typical teachings lay ay sath. Guests se toe berdasht kea menay. Meray bhaion nay mazaq mein lia aur enjoy kea woh time phir shukkr sub thk ho gya. Apna kam krna sunnat hai.

  • @noorhuda9931
    @noorhuda9931 Місяць тому +5

    This mama boy is so toxic that he is giving me anxiety and turning it off cuz I am going to have a panic attack if I listen to this more.

  • @asharc6145
    @asharc6145 Місяць тому +2

    Excellent topic, as usual.

  • @sanaaslam4262
    @sanaaslam4262 Місяць тому +9

    Absolutely right i had the same situation

  • @mohdaizaam9058
    @mohdaizaam9058 Місяць тому +26

    Ek pareshaan Medical Student par bhi video banaye zara
    Anayah ji ke saath

  • @lazy7443
    @lazy7443 Місяць тому +10

    The most toxic Mama's toys 😂

  • @FatimaNasir01
    @FatimaNasir01 Місяць тому

    So happy that you try to discuss such topics in fun way, the things we really need to work on as a nation.

  • @aroojafzal8860
    @aroojafzal8860 Місяць тому +6

    Bilkul Sachi baaty haai ....... 😢😢😢

  • @johnsnow1985
    @johnsnow1985 Місяць тому +3

    I think he is best example for childs

  • @Online_work_pakistan
    @Online_work_pakistan Місяць тому +4

    Why they r presenting my husband.. privacy??

  • @Alihassanmadnisultaniofficial
    @Alihassanmadnisultaniofficial 25 днів тому

    Umar bhai ... Kamal ka topic.... Behtrren. Allah pak apko kamyab frmay aameen.

  • @currentscenario6596
    @currentscenario6596 Місяць тому

    yar Umar bae perfect, 😂 my kabhe comment nahi karta par apki kae vedios majboor kardyte hyn sarahny pr. jeety rahyn keep it up, bohot agy jayngy ap. 🤞🏻🎉

  • @HabibaAfzal-ed5ph
    @HabibaAfzal-ed5ph Місяць тому +24

    Esa mard ki shadi ni krni cahiya 😢

    • @HabibaAfzal-ed5ph
      @HabibaAfzal-ed5ph Місяць тому +4

      Orat ki zindgi kharab 😢

    • @hamdanbinfarhan4762
      @hamdanbinfarhan4762 Місяць тому +2

      Apny bety ki bhi mat Karna ager wo b tumhy har bat btaye to ok....
      Or jab bhooti umer main ponch jao to phir pari rehna Kisi old home main kyun Kay G M kisi mama boy ki shadi nhi Hony dena chahti .... Or wo kya hai Jo Larkiyan apny maa k sath Sara Sara din susral ki baten share karti Hain galat mashwra leti Hain usky Bary m kya khyal hai

    • @Online_work_pakistan
      @Online_work_pakistan Місяць тому +5

      Mere husband aise hi hain . Unki maa ki permission se sans leti hon

    • @Online_work_pakistan
      @Online_work_pakistan Місяць тому +4

      Me 5 saal se maikay nahi gye saas ki waja se

    • @Storytimeurduandhindi
      @Storytimeurduandhindi Місяць тому

      ​@@Online_work_pakistansorry to hear that.Get financially strong.

  • @Islamicshorts0498
    @Islamicshorts0498 Місяць тому +2

    Sahi word rakha hai toxic Mama's boy iski batain sun k hi gusah anay lag gaya hai😅

  • @yasasultan7221
    @yasasultan7221 Місяць тому +2

    Your way of giving positive messages to society is admirable!🎉
    I request you to make a video about Man/Boys who criticize women for makeup....I know such families where girls are not even allowed to use any sort of cosmetics, we boys also sometimes laugh at girls wearing makeup but i think it's not good to point out the personal necessities of any gender as evils....Additionally i've been a medical student & i know that the hormonal changes in both genders specifically in women, cause their skin to be dull or acne prone.....Then what's wrong if they wear makeup to look a bit good??????
    & Our religion Islam also doesn't prevent from makeup....Allah has clearly mentioned in Quran to have a look good before going for pray, & some other Hadith also refer to the same topic....but the only thing is that don't show it off....Then what's wrong in wearing makeup in indoor ceremonies/ at home.
    I'm unable to convince my friends in casual way but they like your podcasts, i guess it would helpful if you choose this topic..

  • @MahmoodAzam99
    @MahmoodAzam99 Місяць тому +1

    Such a nice actor and great person i ever met in my life keep going 💕 @Abbas Ashraf

  • @aimanrani7278
    @aimanrani7278 Місяць тому +3

    Front seat pe ye unspoken rule nahe hota k jo age mein bara ho woh bethay ga? Meray kheyal se aesa sahi rehta hai. Lekin jub aesa na ho toe issue nahe banana chaheay jahan jgga millay baith jana chaheay unless k meri terhan travel sickness ho toe side seat pr sirf ussi ka haq hota 😅

  • @u2azim480
    @u2azim480 Місяць тому +1

    Good work Umer Saleem!

  • @smartuqba9012
    @smartuqba9012 Місяць тому +1

    Best child ❤️❤️ proud of you 👍🏻

  • @aroojafzal8860
    @aroojafzal8860 Місяць тому +5

    Dil ko choo gaaie SB baatyy

    • @hamdanbinfarhan4762
      @hamdanbinfarhan4762 Місяць тому

      Dill ko wo kyun nhi choota jab apna beta kehy GA give me space or koi puchny wala hoga tab kehna dill KO Choo gya sab Kuch 😂

  • @javeriaakhan
    @javeriaakhan Місяць тому

    Wow amazed ❤

  • @fatimatirmizi9516
    @fatimatirmizi9516 Місяць тому +9

    Aise mamma 's boy ko shadi nahi karni chaiye . 😂😅

  • @MahmoodAzam99
    @MahmoodAzam99 Місяць тому +2

    Wow Abbas Ashraf such a great actor ❤❤

  • @MahmoodAzam3054-
    @MahmoodAzam3054- Місяць тому

    @Abbas Ashraf good actor and great person ❤❤❤ love this guy on tv keep growing 💗

  • @za4347
    @za4347 Місяць тому +3

    A Gud topic

  • @wilddreams6301
    @wilddreams6301 14 днів тому

    Biggest life lesson: always try to be moderate, don't go towards extremes!
    Also have empathy❤

  • @Randomly-111
    @Randomly-111 Місяць тому +3

    We need to balance ⚖️ each relationship

  • @MahmoodAzam99
    @MahmoodAzam99 Місяць тому +1

    Aane wale dino mein boht uper jao ge Ameen ❤❤

  • @faisalkhan1026
    @faisalkhan1026 Місяць тому +1

    Umar bhai k expressions, priceless !

  • @bigboxfilms.3292
    @bigboxfilms.3292 Місяць тому +2

    I was absolutely like this character mama's boy... I was near to destroy my life... But thank god... I changed myself..

  • @faizaghafoor3064
    @faizaghafoor3064 Місяць тому +1

    mujay to buhat pasand aaya hai,

  • @MuhammadAsif-eh7mo
    @MuhammadAsif-eh7mo Місяць тому +1

    Aslamo Alaikum Both of you and Love you Both so Beautiful Message for Everyone ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MahmoodAzam-wk5sd
    @MahmoodAzam-wk5sd Місяць тому +3

    Such a great good looking handsome guy i ever seen 😍😍

  • @ahmadhussain970
    @ahmadhussain970 Місяць тому +1

    Bht he zbardast😂

  • @uzairwrites
    @uzairwrites Місяць тому

    Well explained

  • @aimanrani7278
    @aimanrani7278 Місяць тому +2

    I agree k mid point hona chaheay. Mayanaravi ikhteyar krni chaheay.

  • @ToseefAnjum-fh8qm
    @ToseefAnjum-fh8qm Місяць тому +3

    Yeh toh same mera husband ki story kahi usna e toh ni written ki😂😂😂😂

  • @mariaabbs312
    @mariaabbs312 Місяць тому +2

    Hahaha haven't seen anything this accurate 😂😂😂

  • @AbdUllah-et9wg
    @AbdUllah-et9wg Місяць тому +1

    ہمیں ضرورت ہے اپنے ذہن کو تبدیل کرنے کی اور دین اسلام پر صحیح معنوں میں عمل کرنے کی ۔

  • @saadi05
    @saadi05 Місяць тому +11

    Yeh tou mama sir pe chari hwi hain😂

  • @umairinayat4746
    @umairinayat4746 Місяць тому

    Best Podcaster Umar Saleem

  • @saadilyas6952
    @saadilyas6952 Місяць тому

    First viewer. Kindly Reply Umar Bhai

  • @selfcentered6330
    @selfcentered6330 Місяць тому +1

    Hahaha yrrr yeh itna zyada frustrating q tha 😮‍💨I'm already hating this mindset

  • @Raffy379
    @Raffy379 Місяць тому

    Amazing

  • @IamSoangelic
    @IamSoangelic Місяць тому

    Good 😂😂 shadi karne se pehle Maine ye podcast dekh liya 😂

  • @habibabashir4935
    @habibabashir4935 9 днів тому

    Well raised issue likn is tarah ke mama’s boy ka masla ya ha inki mama ko apnehusband se kabhi koi support nahi mili tu un mama’s ne apne baito se sari support expect karni start kardi since mama’s boy jawan hoye.
    Mere husband bhi Mama’s boy ha deep down he knows ke kuch baaten galat ha likn kahte nahi cz unko lagta ke unki mama ne phle hi buhat dukhd hain apne husband se… just communicational gap

  • @Taikhm
    @Taikhm Місяць тому +7

    Maa ki baat mano to mama's boy! And biwi ki baat mano to biwi k thalay laga hua! People will always give u tags which ever suits their interests in their particular situation!

    • @birdie466
      @birdie466 Місяць тому +4

      People talk true, but banda Jo bhe decision le akal ke saath thande damagh se and keep balance in relationships.
      Mother ki aik place hote hai, YOU CAN'T DISRESPECT HER! Bus understanding and communication se relationships chalain

    • @cntoniumxyz8867
      @cntoniumxyz8867 Місяць тому

      Han bilkul
      Laken banday ko chahiyai kai
      درميانی راہ ) ikhtayar karay

  • @farahabdullah8782
    @farahabdullah8782 Місяць тому +2

    7:41 7,8,9 betiyon k baad bhi family complete nhi hoti

  • @iqra__995
    @iqra__995 Місяць тому +8

    Alhamdulilah, Allah saved me from mama's boy recently

    • @kamranX2
      @kamranX2 Місяць тому +2

      Allah apk bety ko bhi ap jesi BV de, jo yehi kahy. 😊

  • @shariqgamer
    @shariqgamer Місяць тому +5

    bahi burgers people per podcastic banei

  • @hinakhan3176
    @hinakhan3176 Місяць тому

    Apko mama's girl par bhi video banani chahiye. Ye bhi focus karne layak serious topic hai

  • @mimma904
    @mimma904 Місяць тому

    i stumbled on this, its too funny

  • @relaxedlife7707
    @relaxedlife7707 Місяць тому +1

    First time I favor the guest

  • @abeerazahid357
    @abeerazahid357 Місяць тому

    Very true

  • @abc-vg5zc
    @abc-vg5zc Місяць тому +1

    Fed up from Mama 's boy 😂😂

  • @jamalasghar2368
    @jamalasghar2368 3 дні тому

    الحمدالله... I have moderate husband who love me and advise me to respect his family but no one even his mother not allowed yo disrespect me.

  • @CHAtif-id8jr
    @CHAtif-id8jr Місяць тому +1

    i am your biggest fan

  • @amenaha689
    @amenaha689 Місяць тому +1

    Front seat pe bithana to shayad ghalat nahi hoga.. although my MIL will give way for me to sit in the front seat, I'll gladly leave it for her. She's our elder and that's what suits her more. 😊

  • @mahrukhwaseem343
    @mahrukhwaseem343 Місяць тому

    Good content

  • @azlanshah4627
    @azlanshah4627 Місяць тому +1

    My husband is just like this boy so me and my kids r suffering

  • @cctv970
    @cctv970 Місяць тому

    Hoor sana salmon.......

  • @nadeemahmed1694
    @nadeemahmed1694 Місяць тому

    Nice

  • @filmexplain2642
    @filmexplain2642 Місяць тому

    umar bhai achnk sy o bus bol kr dara he dia itny aram sy podcast dahk rha ta haha

  • @Make-it-Easy.
    @Make-it-Easy. Місяць тому

    Also make video about zoro ke zulamm ( wife ke gulaam sohar )

  • @worldmuslimchannel
    @worldmuslimchannel Місяць тому

    Bohot bura hua 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @ManoBili2312
    @ManoBili2312 Місяць тому

    True

  • @user-qv2tc6sy4b
    @user-qv2tc6sy4b Місяць тому +1

    Sahi urdu hai k faisle nahi ker pate hain nahi le pate galat hai

  • @AnnieTalha-lp4vc
    @AnnieTalha-lp4vc Місяць тому

    Very true😂😂

  • @FunAlltime247
    @FunAlltime247 Місяць тому +1

    Your wife will only be with you in your good times but your mother will be with you no matter the conditions. So decision is your's.

  • @ashlinsnober9533
    @ashlinsnober9533 Місяць тому

    My dad is like this and i have seen a live demonstration of rules

  • @ilyasmuhammad5231
    @ilyasmuhammad5231 Місяць тому +1

    indeed, it was toxic

  • @anislamicupdates
    @anislamicupdates Місяць тому

    Story of every household 😂

  • @abeerazahid357
    @abeerazahid357 Місяць тому

    30 years 40 years k bachy pae jaty hn hmare Eastern culture mn... Islam baad mn eastern culture phly rkhty hn log!
    Or jis ny next generation ki tarbiyat krni h usko depression anxiety dty rhty or mental health ka bera garq kr dty .. isi liye is culture se bht bary bary admi peda hna khawab hi h

  • @mysteriousmind2823
    @mysteriousmind2823 Місяць тому +1

    har ghar mein 1 asa hota he

  • @ua8448
    @ua8448 Місяць тому +6

    Phir mumma say hi shadi q nahi karlaytay? Haram ha? Tou kia baqi sb wo zulm karna Haram nahi?? Ooh yeh zulm karna tou faiday mai araha ha na tou haram ko bhi halal hi bolein gay kuch haram log

    • @Storytimeurduandhindi
      @Storytimeurduandhindi Місяць тому

      Wo extra marital affair hoti hai

    • @ua8448
      @ua8448 Місяць тому +3

      @@Storytimeurduandhindi or bivi ko maid bana k rakhna halal hota ha? Insan nh paltu janwar samajna halal hota ha? Apni maa k sath apny baap ko wohi sab krnydo jo apni bivi k sath krtay ho tou manun. Beshak, zalim zulm ki takleef na history m kbi samja na hi aj k so called modern zamanay mai.

    • @farahabdullah8782
      @farahabdullah8782 Місяць тому

      Aeson KO br**** Ka rasta dikhana chaheye biwi nhi aurten boht mil jati hn

    • @Storytimeurduandhindi
      @Storytimeurduandhindi Місяць тому +1

      I mean to say his mother is like extra marital affair because he is so involved in the marriage.Try to undersatnd before speaking.

    • @ua8448
      @ua8448 Місяць тому

      @@Storytimeurduandhindi i apologize and i agree. However, please write full sentences to avoid misunderstandings because your reply on my comment .. I couldnt have guessed you said in that sense😅 my apologies

  • @muhammadmuazzambaig7158
    @muhammadmuazzambaig7158 Місяць тому

    😂 nice

  • @furqanaltaf8570
    @furqanaltaf8570 Місяць тому

    a good advice to all unmarried girls shadi k bad larkay ki ma say bna k rkho dil say na bhi sahe Zindagi asan hojaye gi!

  • @meenu-zc4kq
    @meenu-zc4kq Місяць тому

    ❤❤

  • @womensparlour7634
    @womensparlour7634 Місяць тому

    ❤Umar bhai 😅👍🇮🇳

  • @ar.m.usmanazam7039
    @ar.m.usmanazam7039 Місяць тому

    Please make video on Corporate Employee, Receptionist, and desi working abroad

  • @fahadaftab5497
    @fahadaftab5497 Місяць тому

    Make video on Mama's Girl, jo Mayiky sy training or planning kar k ati haen or susral mae fasad karti haen

  • @toobach5712
    @toobach5712 Місяць тому

    kash mera husband b ye dekh sky ...100% unki representation h

  • @dildilpakistan5041
    @dildilpakistan5041 Місяць тому

    ❤😂

  • @bebo2721
    @bebo2721 Місяць тому

    LMAOOO I'm dead😂😅😅