Glennon Doyle | How To Find Yourself
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- Опубліковано 5 тра 2020
- The legendary author of Love Warrior explores the themes of her latest book, Untamed -- the joy and peace we discover when we stop striving to meet the expectations of the world, and start trusting the voice deep within us.
There is a voice of longing inside each woman. We strive to be good: good partners, daughters, mothers, employees, and friends. We hope all this striving will make us feel alive. Instead, it leaves us feeling weary, stuck, and overwhelmed. We look at our lives and wonder: Wasn't it all supposed to be more beautiful than this?
In a free livestream, Glennon Doyle joined Hannah MacInnes at the How To Academy to show us that another way is possible. The #1 New York Times bestselling author and humanitarian NGO founder is an inspiration to millions across the globe -- but for many years, she, like the rest of the us, denied her own discontent. In this talk, she’ll tell the story of how she quit living up to the world’s expectations of her and learn to be free.
In this talks she urges each of us to begin to trust ourselves enough to set boundaries, make peace with our bodies, honour our anger and heartbreak, and unleash our truest, wildest instincts.. It’s time to quit pleasing -- and start living.
Glennon and her books and her talks have helped me save myself and my son. I was finally able to leave an abusive 12-year-long marriage and I am happier than ever. It was hard, but her love and truths showed me the path and gave me the courage to take it. I am forever grateful!
Great interview! “ I will lose as many people as it takes in order to never lose myself again.” Brilliant
Lori Holand agree, that is a powerful statement. I love it.
Beautiful!!!
Who is the you, you don’t think people will like?
Reading Untamed changed my life. Not that it hadn't been a long time coming, but Glennon and her story rekindled my longing and gave me the courage to change and take action in situations where I had given away my power due to family and social conditioning. I have been sober for almost 4 years, and as my recovery community (not a 12-step program) often says, "We can do hard things." I can't emphasize enough how sitting with our feelings, letting them wash THROUGH us, and working out our hopes and fears in writing can create amazing discoveries about ourselves. Epiphanies that lead to real and meaningful changes that bring us back to ourselves and set us back down on the paths where we were meant to be; paths where we find our joy and our true voices. Thank you, Glennon, for (metaphorically) saving my life.
So what did you change?
"Its best to be yourself and let the world catch up"
Wow, its really time for a revolution.
What an inspiration, thank you x
“When we model martyrdom for our children, we are sentencing them to martyrdom.”
Wow. So true.
“Love does not require us to disappear - it requires the lover and beloved to fully emerge.” WOW. YES.
Oh my goodness I just want to quote all the quotes - “Women are so good at deciding that inner conflict costs less than outer conflict. But when we do that, there’s still a price to pay - which is that we slowly die inside.”
“I can love, or I can control. I can’t do both because love requires trust. And you only control things you don’t trust.”
“Red flag that you are starting to abandon yourself: when you find yourself explaining and justifying.”
“The best way to honor my parents is to trust the woman they raised.”
And the best: “I will lose as many people as it takes to never have to lose myself again.”
Yet if a man leaves his wife and kids for another woman he's seen as a monster?
Someone told me once that sadness, joy, loss, pain, excitement.....ALL OF THAT IS THE BLOOD AND GUTS OF LIFE! Without it, life wouldn't be worth the living." I've ALWAYS remembered that. It's so true.
I heard about this Book. I feel excited
I will never abandon myself.
Untamed...book...is excellent! Thank you, Glennon. You are awesome
so many wonderful concepts and I actually grew up with a wonderful upbringing by my wonderful, free-spirited woman, who allowed us, seven kids, to live and be who we want to be, loved so unconditionally, and she always doubted social norms. My life even though it has still unfolded as yours did. I have tried to raise my three boys in the same manner and I hope they feel as free as I did to be who they want to be.
Oh, how I wish I had your Mom. And how I wish that I had been better at being free myself so that I could model that for my own children. I have done it to the best of my ability and did a better job I think than the average American family but still, it's hard to read this and think of the opportunities I missed by giving my power away and playing small.
I will never be alone with myself.
TQ So Much Glennon for articulating descriptively concisely all of my forty yrs of readings all over genres Save so much time and effort to ur followers 👑🧚💋
Awesome interview! Glennon is Truth and Love!
Absolutely wonderful, thank you
OMG she's awesome!!
Stumbling upon this and brought to absolute tears at how much of this resonates with me. Thanks for sharing. I definitely need to read more of her work.
Just loved this conversation...the beauty of life is in its fragility
Brilliant. Thanks so much
Loved this talk so much. Can’t wait to buy the book
I've just finished reading it. It's worth 100 times the price! ❤️🙏🏼
It’s so hard to be a human when you are a woman,especially when you are a left-over woman in China.
What is a left-over woman?
I’m so sorry. Can you move?? If it’s possible - I would recommend that. China does not seem to honor and cherish women.
@@whizz8871 watch the documentary on youtube. X
Fabulous interview, thank you.
Brilliant interview!
Sensational interview
Fantastic interview. Thank you 🙏
Thanks!
Broken marriage with a great man !!! Oh my! That's incredibly hard to set yourself free from that kind of relationship ... We SUPPOSED to be grateful!
This was great! Thanks for sharing it
Thanks!
So Good! We can be individuals and belong! When we stand up, we can connect with others standing up and that is a wonderful FREE belonging!!!
Yes, I am freaking angry ... let's be angry, wonderfully angry ... and get shit done.
You are beautiful! You are small, but there is nothing wrong, you look very healthy.
precious talk, thanks a million! very inspiring Glennon
Thanks!
It just may all about lifting off our upbringing belief systems and starting again fresh as an adult with all the wrong lessons and modelling of your upbringing that did not model LOVE, Leave it behind, and find your true happiness. Love your voice overs, please give me some hints on progression in this as I am just starting out Glennon and respect you and your helpful start out ideas very much. Would to know how you would deal with your 1st alcoholic disposition of falling over and smashing your teeth through your lip?
I want to know if these are Glennon Doyle’s words or life theory.
Maybe Eve wasn’t meant to be our warning, maybe she was meant to be our model. Own your wanting. Eat the apple. My inner desires are telling me what my purpose is. My need for satisfaction is my spiritual guide.
What should we do when we don't want to be so public but do have lots to share?
When you find out, tell us all! James on begood2000 has one method.
@@sage9836 One idea is a blog.
Made me slowly die inside....
Help yourself to finding Your Self. I'm stubborn . Get lost.
Turn on location services
Sin is no longer what’s wrong with the world instead it’s unrealized ambitions and male toxicity?
Many woman have left traditional adulterous, painful marriages and flipped gay. Does that mean they’re gay or broken, angry and hate all men as a result?
Trying to figure out what all the commotion is about. Person feels oppressed by compulsion to assimilate. Person realizes assimilation is a choice. Person chooses to exercise right to self-determination. Person is happy. Aren't we just describing normal adulthood?
Yes but most people don't realise all these things or realise it very late in life
Doyle would play NPR to her daughter's in utero?! Wow! And who says the patriarchy is dead?
Mum say a women have to get married,it doesn't resound to me, married and work and take care of kids just seem so tired , I would rather suffer working while spending my free time in natural parks, reading and music, when men are interested in you he will flirt and before you knew it he is gone , only those that matter will stay with you thick and thin , these kind of men is not worth being sad for
Does God have the authority to tell you that your heart is mistaken?
Is God able to tell you you’re mistaken even about your own satisfaction in life, to tell you that your wrong, even the perceptions of your own life? Does God have that place?
Doesn’t this look more about loving yourself than God, breaking the first commandment and quite possibly all of them.
Jeremiah 23:26
How long shall this be in the heart of the prophets that prophesy lies? yea, they are prophets of the deceit of their own heart;
We don't get to chose a religion. We are given a religion. We are not expected to not join a religion. We are expected to believe in deities. We are not expected to find science to be enough. Crystals, angels. I hope a time comes when children will be allowed to grow up and make rational decisions.
But some of us don’t have our health, and that’s not in our control.
God, get on with it
Anger 'signal'... to supplant 'my Spidy senses are tingling' (AKA untamed intuition).. Wait--does that mean spiderman was really... Spiderwoman?!
So, does she worry about trying to please Abby?
Narcissist disappears up her own fundament ...
Hold on she meets Abby and decides to leave her husband... cheater.
Not to point fingers but it’s her husband the one who cheated originally
Hahahhahahahahhahahahha
Another man who feels butt hurt that a woman found another woman after her scroat of a husband cheated on her. Compulsary heterosexuality people!! ❤❤
@@clairejohnson7809 Hardly, its clear women don't build they move in. Women, children, and dogs are the only thing loved unconditionally, Men are only loved per they provide something
The opposite. Her husband had several women, as you very well know. His infidelity caused the divorce. Yes, he was a cheater and a liar but they're very good friends now and that's what matters.
its Boring. It can bore to death.
Ru saying book boring?
@@sallyrile7601 yes
Go read twilight