That was brutal but the truth usually is. Me and my twin flame are in hell after the truth about three episodes of serial cheating came out after 10 years. She's ISFP and I'm INFJ. I'm sure you can imagine how that's been! I thought I had an above average level of understanding when we met but since then in my extensive alone time I leveled up to 6.5. When I heard what she had done I told her this is going to get me to 7. The truth came out while she was doing the level test 6 weeks ago! She had finally decided to develop the undeveloped parts of herself. We're married. No children. Heaps of love though. She's extremely committed to becoming a healthy ISFP, and me a healthy INFJ. I could have used my pain to end our marriage but I believe love is always the answer so we decided to carry on with bleeding wounds that we'll heal together. We'll be in therapy and do a heap of work at home. My question is this. In your opinion, is it possible for us to become healthy while pursuing it together and go on to have a fulfilling relationship? I tried to keep it short and low on detail.
If you’re both committed to healing and growing together then yes, but if not one will just be stuck. There needs to be a lot of intention and having support and guidance.
@@nancycooperThanks for replying so quickly. We're both very committed and intent on being happy and healthy together so it's great to see we can achieve I if we work hard enough for it. Thanks again.
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That was brutal but the truth usually is. Me and my twin flame are in hell after the truth about three episodes of serial cheating came out after 10 years. She's ISFP and I'm INFJ. I'm sure you can imagine how that's been! I thought I had an above average level of understanding when we met but since then in my extensive alone time I leveled up to 6.5. When I heard what she had done I told her this is going to get me to 7. The truth came out while she was doing the level test 6 weeks ago! She had finally decided to develop the undeveloped parts of herself. We're married. No children. Heaps of love though. She's extremely committed to becoming a healthy ISFP, and me a healthy INFJ. I could have used my pain to end our marriage but I believe love is always the answer so we decided to carry on with bleeding wounds that we'll heal together. We'll be in therapy and do a heap of work at home. My question is this. In your opinion, is it possible for us to become healthy while pursuing it together and go on to have a fulfilling relationship? I tried to keep it short and low on detail.
If you’re both committed to healing and growing together then yes, but if not one will just be stuck. There needs to be a lot of intention and having support and guidance.
@@nancycooperThanks for replying so quickly. We're both very committed and intent on being happy and healthy together so it's great to see we can achieve I if we work hard enough for it. Thanks again.