Relationships & the Meaning of Life | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2019
  • Relationships contribute to life's meaningfulness in many different ways. In this extensive talk, Salman Asif Siddiqui discusses aspects of human connections. What does it mean to be respectful, and is respect the same thing as love? Which relationship should be considered the most important? And how are relationships changing in modern times? This video provides answers to many such questions.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 112

  • @badarhussain5120
    @badarhussain5120 4 роки тому +18

    Realistic discussion. Difference between respect and love is a v sensitive issue. Guidance you r giving is so precious and most required JazakAllah wisdom is a rizq. And you are a rich person

  • @kishwersadaqat2054
    @kishwersadaqat2054 3 роки тому +2

    Maa sha Allah very impressive talk, mai aksar aap ki ye talk sunti hon ,thori sad ho jati hon
    Hum tu family me mil jhul kr rahe hn
    Dua hai k hamari aulaad bhi rishton ko pehchane Ameen😢

  • @Faiqas_editss
    @Faiqas_editss 4 роки тому +10

    Plz discuss some saas, bahu and nand topic. Advices to bahu specially. Becoz in this society only bahu have to compromise.

  • @umma.abdullah.nadeem
    @umma.abdullah.nadeem 4 роки тому +2

    سر آپکا ایک ایک لفظ دل میں اترتا ہے۔ آپکی ایک ایک بات بلکل صحیح۔
    اللہ تعالی نے آپکو بہت حکمت سے نوازا
    اللہ تعالی آپ سے راضی ہوجائیں

  • @F-Khan491
    @F-Khan491 4 роки тому +12

    I am working in Saudi, my family is in Pak.
    This lecture brought tears in my eyes:(

    • @sidrakhalid6121
      @sidrakhalid6121 6 місяців тому +1

      May Allah reunite you with your family amen

  • @fareehan1
    @fareehan1 3 роки тому +2

    Dear Respected Ustadh Salman the Companion you are talking about who didn't left the city at the time of plague was ابو عبیدہ بن جراح
    Jazakallahkhair for sharing his story

  • @WasimSiddiqui
    @WasimSiddiqui 4 роки тому +5

    Respecting others is really a difficult task.

  • @mohammadghafoor6002
    @mohammadghafoor6002 3 роки тому +2

    Asalamualikum Salam bhai, you have inspired me to maximum deep level of my heart, I have bee student of life learning since 20 years, I have never come across legend like you, you are the most inspiring figure in whole world, I am very much thankful for your time and effort you have dedicated to Muslim ummah also all religions and also for all humanity, thanks again, I love your all lectures, love you Salman bhai

  • @xan1592
    @xan1592 4 роки тому +5

    Really sir I m so thankful to u jazakullah I have changed my self upto 50 percent with my kids and my imaan .I watched Ur half of Ur vedios I think but really impressive and any one who have that wish he or she can be.

  • @umma.abdullah.nadeem
    @umma.abdullah.nadeem 4 роки тому +1

    ہم نے جن جن لوگوں کا حق ادا نہیں کیا ، اور وہ دنیا سے چلے گئے ان سے تو معافی کا راستہ بھی نہیں۔ اللہ تعالی انکی مغفرت فرمادیں آمین اور ہمیں معاف فرمادیں

  • @nusrathsaida950
    @nusrathsaida950 4 роки тому +7

    Asssalaamualikum sir it’s a life changing lecture need of the day. Should be a part of curriculum in college

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  4 роки тому +3

      JazakAllah khair for your appreciation. Do help us spread the message by sharing these videos with your family and friends.

  • @SAJJADALI-dy5qv
    @SAJJADALI-dy5qv 4 роки тому +2

    kamal hu gaya sr.
    JAZAKALLAH
    Buhat zarorat he muashre ko es bat ka ahsas dilane ki.

  • @kishwersadaqat2054
    @kishwersadaqat2054 3 роки тому +1

    Allah sab klye aasaani farmaen Aameen 💕
    Jazakallah khair.

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 4 роки тому +3

    comfort matters more than relationships now a days

  • @sanaalam3574
    @sanaalam3574 4 роки тому +1

    Jazak Allah

  • @kidsfun368
    @kidsfun368 4 роки тому +2

    Boht zabrdst guftgu ki jazaak Allah

  • @desicookingforbeginners8055
    @desicookingforbeginners8055 3 роки тому +1

    Masha Allah
    May we all can build relationships with our family

  • @hiranavaid2006
    @hiranavaid2006 4 роки тому +1

    Absolutely right yahan families main mostly yehi hota hai ... Zbrdust

  • @waheedakarim4559
    @waheedakarim4559 4 роки тому +2

    Very beneficial talk jazakallah khairan.

  • @ainysaeed938
    @ainysaeed938 Рік тому

    jazakAllah for such a meaningful discussion

  • @nassimahmad
    @nassimahmad 3 роки тому +2

    Your talks are amazingly insightful!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👍😊

  • @juveriaaleem5398
    @juveriaaleem5398 3 роки тому

    Ma sha allah... great people great talk

  • @mrwahabuddin4181
    @mrwahabuddin4181 3 роки тому +1

    JazakAllah

  • @binterabnawaz9421
    @binterabnawaz9421 3 роки тому

    Jazak Allah sir Jazak Allah....its really worth watching...IN SHAA Allah I'll follow and also share with others

  • @NaqashTV
    @NaqashTV 4 роки тому

    Jazak Allah Khear Sir. Masha Allah bohat hi Zabardast batin bati hain aap ne. Insha Allah main in batun par zarur amal karun ga. Allah Tala aap ko slamat rakhey Aameen.

  • @asifmahmood5039
    @asifmahmood5039 4 роки тому

    Great speaker.... What a way of teaching.... Salaam hay app koo

  • @miantamoor5972
    @miantamoor5972 4 роки тому

    Jazak allah

  • @Home.lifestylewithJazz
    @Home.lifestylewithJazz 4 роки тому

    So much respect for you

  • @ammarabatool9910
    @ammarabatool9910 4 роки тому +2

    Jazak-Allah sir this lecture is need of the hour. If it's possible kindly give detailed lectures on the kind of things husband and wife or just one of them can do to get out of a mutually-verbally-abusive-relationship you often talk about.. how can we avoid being hurt by others and also avoid hurting others.

  • @whateverWM
    @whateverWM 2 роки тому

    Very profound insight on self centered thinking and decisions.

  • @HaroonKhan-hz7ig
    @HaroonKhan-hz7ig 4 роки тому +2

    Jazakallah khair from India

  • @sz4653
    @sz4653 4 роки тому

    Excellent detailed analysis.
    Very well said that Men never know how to RESPECT women.

  • @dr.s4187
    @dr.s4187 4 роки тому +1

    37:54 Watching this today when we're in the middle of Corona crisis.

  • @farheenhaque11
    @farheenhaque11 4 роки тому

    ERDC ki yaad taza ho gayee aisa mahsoos hoa k aap ki class main mojood hon

  • @multitasker7524
    @multitasker7524 3 роки тому +1

    I learn this video realy how love and respectgive to others

  • @shazaibaahmedahmed3620
    @shazaibaahmedahmed3620 4 роки тому

    Buht and alla. Slam h. App k waldeen ko. Masha allah

  • @naturerelaxation44
    @naturerelaxation44 4 роки тому

    Very Realistic lecture, weldone sir..

  • @atikanaqvi3210
    @atikanaqvi3210 4 роки тому

    Very informative, superb 👍

  • @RajaRaja-nf3my
    @RajaRaja-nf3my 4 роки тому +1

    Very impressive

  • @nadiarehan528
    @nadiarehan528 Рік тому

    Bohat khobsorat

  • @ummafif5870
    @ummafif5870 3 роки тому +1

    بہت ہی بہترین

  • @meresheherkamausam7821
    @meresheherkamausam7821 3 роки тому

    V imprsv lecture 😢

  • @flfl-qg8mn
    @flfl-qg8mn 4 роки тому +1

    Great

  • @arslanfaiz1942
    @arslanfaiz1942 4 роки тому

    ماشاءاللّه

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 4 роки тому +1

    زبردست

  • @khunaisshah8657
    @khunaisshah8657 4 роки тому

    Allah ap k elim m brkt ata frmaen aamen

  • @faisalazad1127
    @faisalazad1127 4 роки тому +1

    SubhanAllah

  • @umaimaazmat5217
    @umaimaazmat5217 4 роки тому

    Allah AP ko jazaye khair de.ameen

  • @sadafbutt1600
    @sadafbutt1600 4 роки тому +1

    Taaluq do tarfa hota hy. Aik tarfa talluq insan kitni daer nibhaaye.

  • @fahadmehmood1610
    @fahadmehmood1610 4 роки тому

    Very nice G

  • @sairaumer946
    @sairaumer946 4 роки тому +5

    Wo sahabi Hazrat Abu Ubaida Bin Jarah the,

  • @beginnercare7286
    @beginnercare7286 Рік тому

    Full video please

  • @tahirhassnain820
    @tahirhassnain820 4 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mindsciences4346
    @mindsciences4346 4 роки тому +1

    بہت بہترین لیکچر ہے سر 👍👍👍
    ایک سوال ہے سر پلیز جواب ضرور دیں .
    سائیکلوجی تو یہہی کہہ رہی ہے کہ پہلے خود کو دیکھو .نہیں کہنا ضروعی ہے یہ اٹرونگ پرسنالیٹی کے لئیے ضروری ہے .ہر وق اگر لوگوں کے مسائل حل کرنے میں لگے رہو تو اپنے لئیے ٹائم نہیں ملتا؟

    • @Muazzam_Usman
      @Muazzam_Usman 3 роки тому

      جی اپنے آپکو فٹ رکھتے ہوئے دوسروں کے کام آئیں

  • @sundusshahid3485
    @sundusshahid3485 4 роки тому

    Aoa
    Kya baat keh di aap ne about respect
    I think the same
    I say the same to my husband
    Bhalay ap mukhe chand zaruri ashyaa k siwa kuch na dain
    Magar izzat dain
    Kindly tell ...how to develop that bonding with ur spouse which gives the feeling of fulfillment 😥
    I REALLY need this.

  • @murthuzahussain3101
    @murthuzahussain3101 11 місяців тому

    There is a long & complex chain of reasons driving it & then there's one such incident that causes a spark - Imagine if there's a mountain of dynamites here. And I use a small matchstick to blow up the entire mountain, the following blast would not because of my matchstick, there was a mountain of dynamite there, that's why it happened.

  • @ahmadhassan7370
    @ahmadhassan7370 Рік тому

    🔗Individualism/Collectiveness
    📌Order of Relationships
    ✨️Divorce-->My Freedom/Responsibility(قربانی)
    ❌️میری/تمھاری ✔️ہماری
    👥️️ضرورت؛خواہش
    💫محبت؛عزت:شعوری کوشش
    ❌️بے تکلفی:محبت کی شادی

  • @sumaiyakhan9368
    @sumaiyakhan9368 3 роки тому

    He was speaking about epidemic like plague ,he didn't know at that time that Corona pandemic is going to happen after 7months of this talk

  • @sarmadali1751
    @sarmadali1751 4 роки тому

    Sir how to treat other pr video bnao

  • @samreenlifecoach
    @samreenlifecoach 3 роки тому

    Sir beautiful talking, but i got one concern, if if parent not accepting there doughter in law, even they know there son happy with his wife, in thst case sone has to leave his wif just for there parents happness, or what son has to do in that case, please answer

  • @JannatJannat56
    @JannatJannat56 4 роки тому

    Please aur examples se samjhaye ke bachcho ki respect kaise kare .

  • @AyeshaKhan-rj2zl
    @AyeshaKhan-rj2zl 4 роки тому +1

    Plz english mai bhi substitutes mai kiya kre

  • @ahsanali-bh3fq
    @ahsanali-bh3fq 4 роки тому

    hi

  • @binishhussain_soundachievers
    @binishhussain_soundachievers 3 роки тому +1

    This is where the west is right now. And yes our muashra is headed the same way. People want to be detached and completely cut off form people. No one included in life.

  • @anumobaid1289
    @anumobaid1289 3 роки тому

    Please do talk on verbal abuse.

  • @tasneemfatima6790
    @tasneemfatima6790 4 роки тому

    Matti ki mohabbat main hum a shifts Sharon nay ..............wo Qarz utarey hain jo waking bhi nahi they

  • @fatimanoor9687
    @fatimanoor9687 4 роки тому +11

    Qasim ali shah say kahin ziyada intellectual aur decent personality ❤

    • @manneed2
      @manneed2 4 роки тому +7

      جب سے میں نے آصف صاحب کو سننا شروع کیا ہے قاسم علی شاہ کو سنے کا دل ہی نہیں چاہتا

    • @suchmuch4025
      @suchmuch4025 4 роки тому +6

      Why to compare!!! Allah SWT has bestowed everyone with different set of skills and intellect.

    • @shazaibaahmedahmed3620
      @shazaibaahmedahmed3620 4 роки тому

      Don't worry about compet to each other.

    • @nassimahmad
      @nassimahmad 3 роки тому +5

      Both are good! No need to compare. They both have their own very good style!

  • @sajjad.hussain.
    @sajjad.hussain. 3 роки тому

    main Pakistan main nahi hu Pak main mere bhai hain woh walidain to dekhte hain main walidain ko kharche ke lihaaz se support karta hu is maamle main kia yeh durust hain dusra yahan main apni biwi ke walidain ko ziadatar dawat deta hu un ko khana serve karta hu jab kabhi un ko help darkaar ho to hazir rehta hu par apne waalidain se door hu ;(

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 4 роки тому +1

    Relationships are only of needs. in western societies needs are easily to cover up, that's y no relationships there.
    it's cruel reality

  • @irfanrashid2114
    @irfanrashid2114 4 роки тому +2

    ERDC please also do a talk on capitalism.

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  4 роки тому +3

      You can listen to the following talks which touch upon the topic of capitalism:
      Illusion of Progress:
      ua-cam.com/video/6KjQTTaHVQo/v-deo.html
      Influence of Market Forces on Muslim Societies:
      Session 1 - ua-cam.com/video/fLuoCdGYVgI/v-deo.html
      Session 2 - ua-cam.com/video/ydBJWAP4AQg/v-deo.html
      Session 3 - ua-cam.com/video/9MHRiF1zM0M/v-deo.html

    • @theAnonymous20027
      @theAnonymous20027 6 місяців тому

      Shukriya

  • @sadiaw.9945
    @sadiaw.9945 4 роки тому +1

    I have a question which is unclear in the mind.
    Parents are most important, then does it mean that most of the time is spend with them rather than the wife and kids?
    How is it possible, because in religion it is preferable to buy separate house for wife.
    Also if parents are most important then is this also for the girl? That for a girl her parents are more important than the husband?

    • @lovefordeen.
      @lovefordeen. 2 роки тому

      Gher alag lene ka maqsad ye nahi k aap apne parents ko bhool jae . Aap un k pass behte un k pass jae un se bat kare un ki zaroriat ka khayal rakhe .kabhi ager unhe bht zarooret he bemar hain tu aap un ki khidmet karne k lie unhe aap sath rakhaie .

    • @mzkhan93
      @mzkhan93 Рік тому

      Islam does not endorse a joint family system. That actually came from the Hindus. After marriage the order of relationship change. First comes wife then parents and for women first comes husband then her parents.

  • @shazaibaahmedahmed3620
    @shazaibaahmedahmed3620 4 роки тому

    Allah ham sab ko hidayt ata farmay. Ameeeen

  • @amnakhan6705
    @amnakhan6705 4 роки тому

    .

  • @tasneemfatima6790
    @tasneemfatima6790 4 роки тому +2

    Jo Pakistan say jo baher rehtey hain wo Kia Kia ker rahey hain apney rishteydaroon Kay liyee app ko andaza nahin Pakistan main rehtey wala bechara mehangai ki waja say kuch nahi kr pata baher wala beta hi sab krta hai apni zaroriat ko dabs kr ..............

    • @xan1592
      @xan1592 4 роки тому

      Allah didn't say u go and migrate for Ur relatives give them sadqa or money if u go only for that so first go thru quran tafseer first and then haqooqal aibaad that what is the expectations of Islam being a Muslim

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 4 роки тому

    parents b ajkal kafi materialistic hein.

  • @invisionisb8871
    @invisionisb8871 3 роки тому

    camera movement annoying

  • @humaafandi8894
    @humaafandi8894 4 роки тому +2

    Sorry sir, but some fathers take so much care of others that their own children suffer. This is directly against Islamic values. First time I disagree with you. Also your thoughts about the west is very misplaced. The society is so wellestablished that the individual father does not need to feed an entire willage aur time se pehle Allah ko pyaare ho jaata hain ya. Father ko kiyon bahir jana parta hai. Inhi rishtedar on ka pait bharne ke liye. Please don't mix relation with money, because humari society is based on the mixture already. West ki wajha se nahi

  • @Khannajmah
    @Khannajmah 4 місяці тому

    Koi podcast walidain ki aulad ko neglect kr k pury muhly ki khbar rkhna ??????

  • @Khannajmah
    @Khannajmah 4 місяці тому

    Bakion ka khyal rakh k apni haq talfi krwai or apny ulad ko abiise karwaya .. m so sorry apki bate baki thek ha lekin ye lecture toxic ni ona chae

  • @farzanamalik9117
    @farzanamalik9117 4 роки тому

    بچوں خصوصا لڑکوں کو لیڈرشپ کی تربیت نہیں دی جاتی جس کی وجہ سے وہ رشتوں کو ٹھیک مقام نہیں رکھ پاتا

  • @vallabhanakat4775
    @vallabhanakat4775 2 роки тому

    He predicted covid-19

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 4 роки тому

    hijrat b tou prophets ne ki the. taaluqaat ajkal paisay se bantay Hein. that's y

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 4 роки тому +1

    o bhai divorce rate Apni marzi ki qurbaani nai bul k SaaS ki interfarance se toot raha hy. lol

  • @mrs.fahimmahmood3669
    @mrs.fahimmahmood3669 3 роки тому

    Sub bakwas reality nahi hae in batoon main

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 4 роки тому +1

    زبردست

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 4 роки тому +1

    زبردست

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 4 роки тому +1

    زبردست