I hope you all receive the things I share in the neighborly spirit in which I'm sharing them. I do not view myself as an expert on any topic, nor do I feel that others should think or do things exactly as we do. We are each on our own journey doing as we feel God wants us to do and that might look very different from one family to the next. If you disagree with our methods, I trust that you will do what you think is right for your family without feeling the need to speak unkindly to us about our choices. Following are the times at which I answer each question as well as links for things I discuss in this video. Do you do any knitting, crocheting or loom knitting? 1:36 What skirts do you wear and how do you stay warm wearing skirts in winter? 1:59 www.denimskirts.com Why did you start UA-cam; did you have a plan/intentions? 4:57 Do you have any favorite UA-camrs to watch/recommend? 9:25 AFarmhouseFull: ua-cam.com/channels/xNKZ_TF8dwx-EGt8PplQMA.html Ana White: ua-cam.com/channels/8oVoLGDj2spRfZfxgf54tw.html Claire at Cookie Crumb Fun: ua-cam.com/channels/MgSFK6Zi2JhFM7ONBhP_zA.html Jamerrill’s Large Family Table: ua-cam.com/channels/gBwzRfT-AhKvDpaM4R-XIg.html Judah Mills: ua-cam.com/channels/68NIa-YGxjVGSsBooFcxTw.html Just Sew Trish: ua-cam.com/channels/MpDNtYhxuxeP5ERg7t-_bA.html Laura Shanley: ua-cam.com/channels/MqtxTYKQPFrFbYJZtUw9mA.html Marie Forleo: ua-cam.com/channels/uoxrRDDgk3UUnxR4tlkJYQ.html MrDonPreston: ua-cam.com/channels/CMCzZrSxKb9GRwWFW3i0kA.html Parsnips and Parsimony: ua-cam.com/channels/OezF3hgN12i-Zi18u9XdXQ.html There’s No Place Like Home: ua-cam.com/channels/ipU1LxRVB4fF7xgbtYuKFQ.html Tom Mills: ua-cam.com/channels/UHkEsVnzzun0UfHTyF_LaQ.html If you weren’t a mom/UA-camr, what career would you have chosen? 11:27 Have you had any formal art training? 15:03 Drawing with Children: www.amazon.com/Drawing-Children-Creative-Method-Beginners/dp/0874778271/ How do you keep from getting overwhelmed; how do you do it all? 15:53 Why do you wear matching clothes? 28:18 Matching Clothes Video: ua-cam.com/video/n52r0taoRIY/v-deo.html Do your kids fight or get jealous? 28:28 How do you handle it when the kids fight and argue? 28:49 How do you deal with hormonal boys? 33:09 Do your kids have friends; how often do they see them? 34:20 Why do you homeschool? 36:11 Do you have to have certification to homeschool? 38:45 How do homeschoolers get into college? 39:40 Do homeschoolers buy their own curriculum & supplies? 40:10 Do you keep your own school records? 42:23 Do homeschoolers have to pass a state test to move on to the next grade? 43:23 What do the kids want to be when they grow up? 44:01 Do any of your kids sit and whine about their schoolwork... for an entire day? 45:36 Are you going to remodel the girls' room? 47:47 Will you add on to your house? 48:31 When do you start Christmas shopping? How many gifts do the kids get; are they separate or joint gifts? 50:17 Do you want to move to a larger house? 51:34 Can you share your fudge recipe? 53:08 Fudge Recipe: allrecipes.com/recipe/20298/homemade-yummy-fudge/ Do you still use your card-file menu planning system? 53:20 How many days a week do you do laundry? 53:33 How do you wash bras/delicates in your laundry system? 54:10 How does your family make a living? 54:30 Why don't you monetize your UA-cam channel? 56:24 What do you do when you can't pay off your credit card at the end of the month? 1:01:42 What religion are you? 1:03:01 How do you tithe since you home church? 1:03:31 Can you talk about your audio Bible? Also, what version is it? Why don't you like KJV? 1:05:21 Why do you celebrate Halloween? 1:08:10 Tom’s Halloween Video: ua-cam.com/video/wpqNhyAyWn0/v-deo.html How do you make the hawthorn berry heart syrup? 1:12:48 Heart Syrup Video: ua-cam.com/video/IEOTiZSOR6k/v-deo.html Hawthorn Heart Syrup Blog Post (Slightly different from Dr. Christopher's method): www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=13&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwibnvOg4ObXAhWnxYMKHWEWBdkQFghgMAw&url=https%3A%2F%2Fjoybileefarm.com%2Fhawthorn-syrup-heart-tonic%2F&usg=AOvVaw0kH8nLC7MDR4eP-wXlKXJg My Tincture video: ua-cam.com/video/XRwXduXPlmQ/v-deo.html Do you have a cold remedy? 1:13:45 Thyme: www.mountainroseherbs.com/products/thyme/profile Umckaloabo: www.mountainroseherbs.com/products/umckaloabo-root/profile What do you do about dental & optometry care? Do you do teeth cleanings? 1:16:01 Charcoal Powder: www.amazon.com/Activated-Charcoal-Rejuvenates-Detoxifies-Digestion/dp/B01AMBLL5Y/ Dental Herb Books: Dental Herbalism: www.amazon.com/Dental-Herbalism-Natural-Therapies-Mouth/dp/1620551950/ Cure Tooth Decay: www.amazon.com/Cure-Tooth-Decay-Cavities-Nutrition/dp/1434810607/ (There are many, many more books on this topic.) Home Hearing Test: www.amazon.com/Etymotic-Research-ER120-HHT-Home-Hearing/dp/B00IYTDDZI/ Do you vaccinate your children? 1:20:29 What are your thoughts on mental illness? 1:21:12
Andrea Mills we have recently grown to a family of 10 thru FosterCare and I found this so encouraging as I sometimes wonder how we will make this work. I'm choosing to trust Christ and I know He will provide
Me too Joan, I'm just heart broken and still feel shell shocked. It's so comforting to still be able to see Andrea at her best, sharing her wisdom with such a big, loving heart. The World was a better place for her presence in it. Through these videos her testimony and much needed positive influence will continue indefinitely, that's such a legacy.
Me too. Just so heartbreaking. So wonderful her kids will be able to look back on these, and know how much she did for her family and how much she loved them all.
I always learn so much! A dear friend took her life in Feb of this year as her life had apparently become unbearable to her. She had bipolar. Never having lived with a mental illness I have zero clue what it's like. Over time i tried to be helpful to my friend. It cane to seem, to me, that she prefereed to wallow (using Andrea's word) in her irrational thoughts. For years I could share what the Bible says when her thoughts diverged from it, or point out facts in her life when the thoughts were in the face of reality, and it helped. Her husband told me she was so positive after time with me. In the last year or so she became quiet and it was hard to have a conversation with her. They had moved out of state 11 years ago and we had talked almost daily until she got quiet. I assumed she was busy and distracted as they were running a business. As usual Andrea's thoughtful answer regarding mental illness was sweet and loving and helpful. 🙂
I am 21, i have no kids and no plans to have children in the near future, i am not religious and dont necessarily agree with all of your beliefs... yet i LOVE your videos and i respect the way you live your life and raise your children, and I just get the feeling that you truly respect the way others live their lives too, no matter how different your own beliefs are. Thank you for all that you do Andrea and the hard work that goes into this channel!
Andrea you are missed ❤re-watching some of these videos is like visiting an old friend for me - I know that’s the sentiment you wanted your channel to spread. Love that you brought 8 children into the world who will undoubtedly spread some Of your generous spirit around - be well Mills family! ❤
I am new to the channel because of Andrea's passing. So many have spoke highly of her. I now know how they feel. She was an amazing woman which God used to bless others, including me. I will watch more to glean the wisdom she was used to share. Thanking God for pointing me in this direction. Praying for the family at this time of great loss. much love and prayers..............Patti
RIP Sweet Andrea, What a Treasure you Are to the World And GOD. I shall continue to pray for your Family through this difficult time. My mother has passed also.
I'm so sad over Andrea's death, but watching her videos I haven't seen and rewatching others brings me joy over what a wonderful sweet woman she was. This is certain a wonderful video for her family! Love to them all during this difficult time! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
May God Bless Andrea. Her life was cut too short and watching this video there were so many things she wanted to do. A very wise woman. Her words make so much sense and are comforting. I hope her daughters especially watch this video. Praying for all her children, Tom and family. (Can't help but cry while watching this) ❤❤❤❤
I’ve been watching you all since I was about 20, and I’ve never interacted, just enjoyed the content. I’ve made a lot of mental notes over the years of how I want to parent and the person I want to be, all stemming from Andrea. I’m 25 now and feeling a little lost in life, but listening to Andrea talk about priorities and not letting others’ priorities affect your own is really impactful. Just want everyone in the family to know that she is still making a difference with her thoughts and ideas, many years later ❤
I’ve been rewatching all of Andrea’s videos because I’m not ready to say goodbye yet. I always have had a special place in my heart for Andrea and her channel and always said she was one of my favorite youtubers if not my favorite UA-camr. I would love to say I thought of her as a friend. Today in this video I know God was speaking to me through this. The whole beginning part of this video- even though I have watched this video before just spoke to me in so many ways with so many things I am going through right now and the part where you talk about what you would’ve wanted 15 years ago is basically where I am now and God knew I needed this right now. Andrea has taught me so much before and even now that you are gone you are still teaching me and God is still using you and I know you will continue to teach. I am so glad God had you have make all these videos and even though I am heartbroken for your family and heartbroken myself that your not here, I rejoice knowing you are in heaven. I am so glad that you were here when you were and you gave us your wisdom and your friendship. Thank you Jesus for Andrea’s life and thank you Lord for all she has done and will continue to do. ❤️
You are one of the most genuine people I have ever "met". I love the confidence you have in yourself. It is so easy to get swayed by what others think of us, kudos to you for keeping true to yourself and what YOU believe.
I always come to watch Andrea and her videos whenever I’m needing a loving and familiar voice. She’s been the reason I’ve gotten through many rough nights. Thank you Andrea, for the help you continue to give. 💝
It's 3 AM and here I am watching this video. It's exactly what I needed. Oh, how I miss you, Ms. Andrea, and your wisdom. I'm so thankful for this video and your honesty and the difference you've made in so many lives.
Just an observation, I grew up sharing a bedroom with 4 sisters, my brothers were 3 to a bedroom. We had a small living room and a large kitchen. Oh and 1 bath with a claw foot tub. No shower. We grew up happy and to this day return to that house for family get togethers! Living close can make happy healthy families! Perhaps living in large homes and never having to deal with getting along is part of our societal problems today....
On the topic of mental health, I thought of something I'd like to add. In 1 Kings 19, the prophet Elijah had just escaped from having a "showdown" with the prophets of Baal. He was under so much distress that he prayed that God would kill him. God didn't chastise him for a lack of faith. (Clearly Elijah had plenty of faith; he'd just called down fire from Heaven!) Instead, God sent an angel to bring Elijah bread and water. The angel told Elijah the journey had been too much for him and that he had to get up and nourish himself. Once Elijah ate and drank, his strength returned and he was able to keep going.
Thank you for mentioning that. I actually think a lot about that story when I'm having bad times and it does have a really powerful message. I hope others will be able to take encouragement from it as well. Thank you also for your very thoughtful comments on mental illness in general. I agree with much of what you said and disagree on a couple of small points, but most of all I sincerely appreciate the time and thought you put into sharing your opinions on the subject. As I so often say, I'd dearly love the opportunity to have an actual conversation with you about this (but of course this isn't the place for it). I love the way you think about things and listening to you always inspires and encourages me. Thank you so much for everything. You are the coolest. :-)
Andrea Mills thank you. These words give me great comfort in my personal situation. My fear is leaving my children behind,(because of my terminal cancer).Hearing that you were able to carry on after your mother’s passing , and still have happiness in your life. Allows me to believe that when it is my time to leave them, they’ll find solace from angels that walk among us. Your suggestion of walking through the scenario at its worst, is something I’m going sit down and speak with my two children about. Although they tend to want to avoid the topic of death, and the fact that I’m dying. I think that if I make it a habit of continually bringing up the topic. Even though they’re scared or uncomfortable , perhaps it’ll make the real event just a bit easier! I’ve been struggling with what the best way to deal with this is. Your words have really helped thank you. Your friend, Jennifer
I can see how that would be unclear given only the brief recounting here. There's a fair bit of evidence in the Bible that Elijah often dealt with emotional distress and sadness, partly just because it was his nature and partly because he had a lot of enemies trying to harm him. On this occasion, he was distressed because (1) he had been through a string of other difficult situations leading up to this, (2) the spiritual battle against the pagan prophets took a lot out of Elijah, and (3) the queen (who hated him vehemently) had just sent a message saying that she was determined to kill him within 24 hours. So Elijah gave up. He literally said to God (basically), "That's it. I'm done. I'm begging you, just kill me now." But God knew that Elijah still had a lot of strength left in him. He was just exhausted and worn down and needed to be, as Andrea so aptly put it, replenished. So God made him eat and drink and rest, and then he powerfully reminded Elijah that his strength ultimately came from him, and after that Elijah was able to carry on and do what needed to be done. God knew that, before Elijah could even listen effectively, he needed rest and nourishment to allow his body to keep up with what his spirit needed to accomplish. The same is true for all of us. God created our bodies to be efficient containers for our spirits while we're here on earth, but he designed them to be fueled by good food and good rest, and it's up to us to make those things happen. It's a huge part of staying physically AND emotionally healthy.
As someone struggling a lot with anxiety at the moment, I really appreciate what you say about mental health and I feel it to be true for me. Thank you for your perspective.
Can I just say that you are one of the most knowledgeable people I know! I found your ideas on mental health so interesting and a lot of what you suggested was very similar to cognitive behavioral thearapy (CBT) and retraining your mind how to better cope with specific stressors or challenges. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and helpful advice.
Hey Andrea! I never comment on videos, but I just think you ought to know that I absolutely love your sweet personality. You are such a blessing and encouragement to me. Thank you for taking the time to make videos like this, they are perfect to listen to while I do work around the house. Please keep up the good work and thank you so much for all that you do! :)
These videos mean so much more now than they did years ago!! Even if i don't agree with some of the things she did I'm just in awe of her kindness, intelligence, thoughtfulness, openness and most important how she lived wanting to help but being proud & unapologetic for her life choices. I miss you Andrea❤
Andrea, I love how respectful you are to everyone. While there are a couple of things I don't personally agree with, I feel we could easily agree to disagree. I agree that Mental Illnesses are NOT from a lack of faith. There is a reason people have to deal with it, there is a lesson from it. Heavenly Father has a plan for it. Thank you so much for all you do!!
I've finally finished watching this Q & A... took me 3 sessions. ha ha. I can't even express how much wisdom I receive through Andrea. We are not homeschooling anymore, but when we did, I would find people's assumptions and thoughts against it so so frustrating. Although i decided to homeschool solely because I felt lead by the Lord to do so, Andrea's explanation really does resinate with me so strongly.. the whole family dynamic... educate my children etc etc. So much else within this vlog is going to be helpful to others for who knows how many years to come... Such a legacy she has left... it's truly amazing.
Can make something like a morning routine or evening routine. For me it would be really interesting how it is with 10 people home schooled in the small house.
She was a beautiful woman, inside and out! I absolutely love watching her videos. We had 9 children ourselves, from ages 15 to an infant, 5 boys and 4 girls. They are now ages 53 to 38. I would have loved to have seen her videos then! My heart breaks for this family. They seem to be coming along, though. But it cannot be easy for any of them.
"it doesnt matter if their life is interesting or not its just comforting to spend time with them" thats exactly how i feel watching yalls vlogs. im not in the best place in my life right now and when you upload a new video it always makes me happy.
What a precious young lady to have left this world so soon. I didn't know you personally but you are missed by many and loved by more. Rest in peace sweet angel.
Andrea was such a lovely person. Even though I don't agree with all of her ways/ideas, I totally see what an amazing mother she was and a truly good and kindhearted person.
It is so enjoyable watching You, Tom and your sweet children. I raised 5 children myself as I lost my husband to Cancer at a young age. I have to say that I love how you are able to give individual attention to your children. I know how hard it is when you have many children close together as I also did. I wish I had your videos to watch and learn from when I was younger. Have a wonderful Christmas and I look forward to watching the video how Tom wraps your gift!
I enjoy going back and rewatching Andrea’s videos. I still have a hard time with her not being here on Earth. She loved you and your family so much. Hugs from Texas.
Gosh, I can't help but wonder why such a phenomenal woman was taken so soon... Bless your beautiful heart Andrea may you watch over and guide your precious family, you were a special and honorable woman ♡♡♡
I have been watching these old videos all day. I hate that I didn't find her channel before she died. But I'm so thankful for these videos. The more I watch her, the more wisdom I gain. She was just such a beautiful woman. I keep tearing up listening to her, but she just speaks so beautifully and just makes you feel so much better. Her legacy lives on, and I'm still praying hard for Tom and her children. I know they are such a beautiful family and I pray God gives them the strength to get through. Lots of hugs to you guys, Tom. I wish we lived closer. My kids have wanted to reach out this past week so many times. My little ones wanted me to tell you, they are so sorry and they pray for you all every night! 💕💕🙏 - Raylynn
I have said it before but I just love your family,, I love how you stay true to your convictions with no apologies,, amazing how some do think that everyone has to live their life according the way they think one should.. this world is beautiful because we all are so unique and have our own thoughts and ways of dong things,, thank you so much for sharing your family with us,, and I agree with another poster,, you are absolutely glowing.
I've learned so much about homeschooling, organization and herbal remedies from you that I now implement into my life. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge!😊
I loved this video!! You are a great Mom and have a beautiful family. I really agree with your perspective about arguing and people being too assertive with their opinion. We are only responsible for ourselves and how we react. I think you have so much wisdom to share with other Christian women!
Andrea you are such a blessing to this world. Love your family, do not worry about doing so many videos , we know all you do, that is why we are always amazed, if you where doing everything that everyone done nobody would be interested , I love watching your channel as it is how life should be. You help everybody whether you know it or not.❤️🙏🏽🙏
I am sure we disagree on a great many topics (I’m agnostic and a licensed public school teacher for starters lol), but I’ve never understood the harping on of people who hold different views (or are just judgmental). Take what serves you and leave the rest, it’s not hard! Your organization and recipe videos are right up my alley (we’re loving the revolving menu!) I am sorry you have faced unkindness from a small group. Know that you are supported and appreciated by many, even those who do not live/believe the same as you do.
All I can say is thank you for being who you are and the example you have set for me. I have used so many of your practical homemaking skills and tools in my own home and jt just made such a difference. You are truly being used by the Lord and I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again if you haven’t touched anybody else’s heart and life you’ve touched mine tremendously!💕💕💕💕💕
You are wise beyond your years. I often have a different point of view than you but you make me think. Thank you for that. I truly consider you a friend thousands of miles away. Sending love to you and your family!
I'm only 25 minutes into the video, but I just wanted to say, Andrea, that you have so much wisdom- thank you for sharing it! I especially like what you are saying is that no matter where you work, everyone is going to have bad days, and it's not a direct reflection of YOU. I really need to remember that!
I love you Andrea , I will dearly miss all your advice and views on this crazy life 💕❤️ you were one of the best . Your children and husband are so lucky to have had you. You have taught me so much about motherhood and life.
"How do you handle your kids fighting" - Andrea, you make me feel so normal, lol. And here I thought I was "ruining" my kids by telling them to stop acting like a jerk and to move along. I love how real you are :D
I am so thankful you have started your channel! I feel if we lived closer we would be great friends! Even though we our views don’t always match up, your willingness to “teach” me a different way of looking at something without pressure is refreshing! Though our core values are very similar. I’m just again thankful for you putting in your free time to run and post great content.
I love your channel. It is refreshing to see large family homeschoolers. You are always and encouragement to me. We are pregnant with baby number 7 ages 13-1. I have learned a lot from you. Thanks for all your hard work.
The very thing she said that she would like to be a life coach. She was and continues being by these videos that she has shared. Love this video - the advice of little steps also you can't do it all. Didn't find this channel until after her death. Would have loved to have known her. But I think it's in God's timing coming accross this channel when I did. Season in my life. Still praying for the family.
I've just come out of hospital after a total knee replacement, and am feeling so overwhelmed, and watching you video has been so helpful thank you so much. I'm just taking it one step at a time. My visit with you today has been amazing. God bless you and your family love poppy xxxx
48:32 Tom, Andrea mentioned in the video about adding onto the house. Have you considered walling in the front porch? There is already a roof and it wouldn't cost too much to add walls and it would add extend the living room. I'm sure you could get volunteers to help you with the construction.
Great video. It took me three days of watching a few minutes here and there to get through it...but I didn't want to miss any of it! I really appreciate you sharing your well articulated thoughts. I am often asked similar questions so it was helpful to hear your answers! Getting wisdom from other large family moms is the very reason I came to UA-cam in the first place
So wish I could have gotten to meet Andrea. I would have really enjoyed talking with her more about all this. You are doing a great job Tom caring for the kids!- Sara Athey
Missing you and your videos 😔. You were so kind and helpful to so many of us, this world lost one of the sweetest, most honorable, informative person there is. RIP Andrea
I wear knee length skirts year around in Alberta, Canada and people look at me funny but I find that I am warmer with my skirt and nylons than I am when I wear jeans. I prefer to wear skirts and for the 30 seconds a day that I am outside it really doesn't hurt me. I keep blankets and such in my car in case I am in an accident but that should be standard no matter what a person wears.
I randomly stumbled upon your channel and have learned quite a bit from you! Thank you for sharing your family. I skipped around during this Q&A video, and while I don't share your beliefs on a variety of topics, I appreciate your honesty. I particularly appreciated your reasoning for not monetizing your channel. That's very admirable of you! But, I am sure if you choose to monetize your channel at some point, your viewers would be very accepting of that choice.
I have been watching some of Andrea video's just can't take in that she is gone! What a Beautiful Wonderful Amazing Lady she will always be remembered !!! My prayers are with you Tom and the family! Gods Blessings!! Hugs To You All...
I think I've said something to this effect before but as someone who deals with chronic illness I love your family and your content. It makes me feel a bit like I have a more manageable life because I can go on trips with you and your kids places or just hang out on a normal school day and laugh at the antics. I'm not a religious person, and I'm not at all into gardens or anything but I literally watch every video regardless of subject matter because you, Tom, and your gorgeous children inject so much light and life into what can be a lot to deal with sometimes and you guys feel like very good friends of mine at this point (I think roughly a year and a half on for me watching?) . Thank you for this channel Andrea, and if you'd pass that on to Tom, and Judah for their channels too I'd appreciate it.
The first time I remember you commenting was way back on our fall clothes haul video last year; you laughed about what it must've been like for Solomon having his brothers share opinions on what underwear he should keep. I was so surprised to have you comment as you - being a single, childless man - were so far from the type of person I thought would be watching our videos. I truly appreciate all that you add to our little corner of UA-cam; we always refer to you as the guy with the sideways face . :) Tom also sends his thanks for your friendship.
Andrea Mills I think it is partially that I grew up in a bigish family, and much like Asher like kids a lot but I was always the youngest in my family that spent much time around me til I got a lot older and started having nieces and nephews to see, and I've always been rather domestic so your organization videos and things are fun for me. Either way you and your family are something I'm intensely grateful for. :)
I love Ana White! I've been watching them since the beginning of the construction of their home....they're an AWESOME family and incredibly knowledgeable. Most important they are such a loving family. And she's pregnant again! I bet you two will have your babies very close to each other!
I am so sorry for the loss of your Andrea and baby boy it is so sad ,I have been watching your videos she was an amazing person ,mother. and wife she really has set you up for everyday things that you will be doing she will guide you through everything Tom prayers for you and your children❤❤❤
I so love watching your videos. I think people dont understand what strong values are as much anymore. I am sorry that people give you a hard time. They just dont get it. I do love the time and info you share. Thank you!
So relatable about what you'd be if you weren't a mom. All I've ever wanted to be was a mom. I'm loving life as a SAHM to a 4 month old and I'm excited for more children.
what you were saying about acknowledging how you feel when you are having a bad day stood out to me. thats exactly the personal tools that i have been learning from my councilling :) you speak the truth! x
Thank you for doing this channel, your videos are so friendly and I feel that we are friends, so I guess I should be more friendly too and comment more often! These Q&A videos are the best because I always learn so much from your wisdom! I could go on and on about this one, but I don't have that much time right now.... I do want to say that we are one of the school at home families you mentioned, and our experience has been nothing like what you described (thankfully). We live in Wisconsin and use the Virtual Ed program offered by our local public school. The school provides a laptop and buys our curriculum, but I get to pick it out and set our schedule and teach it. We do have a teacher who keeps in touch with us, but it's very minimal. The kids also get to attend classes as we choose... my older one goes to band now and the other may choose to go next year. This is something I could not provide for her, so I've always felt that it was the BEST of both worlds. I'm sure other families have had different experiences, but I wanted you (and others) to know that our experience was much better than what you'd described here. Those who are thinking about schooling at home through their school district should talk to families in their area to see what it's like where they are. If they don't know anyone, ask the local librarians for a contact recommendation. One more thing, about Halloween I like to say, it's the most neighborly thing that happens all year... at no other time are you expected or invited to go to people's houses, knock on their door and be given candy. Big blessings to all the Mills!
I have never really thought of homeschool the way that you have explained it, but you have really gave me some interesting points that I have even thought of! I went to private school all of my life, and I often times would call my teacher, mom just on accident! I think that is because you spend more time at school with your teacher than at home with your mom and family. But thank you for all of your amazing insight, you are amazing!
Hi Andrea, Thank you, thank you, thank you ! You are such a blessing to me. I enjoyed every minute of this Q & A especially the discussion on mental illness. I suffer from anxiety and depression and I am learning how important it is to change your attitude(or thought processes) to open new pathways to positive thought. It's funny because every time you say "I don't know if any of this is making any sense", because it's at those times, in my opinion you are making perfect sense. I like too how you acknowledge the boys puberty caused angst and you explain to them that they need to rest and that those feelings won't last forever. My Aunt Esther you to have a saying that I quote to myself quite often. It's 'this too shall pass". So thanks again dear Andrea for all these friendship talks, I really enjoy them. P.S. I wish I would have known about the progesterone creme 30 years ago, maybe we'd have gotten pregnant and had children. Which we wanted so desperately. So please continue to spread the message. Maybe it will save other women the heartbreak of not having children.May God bless you all.
Thank you for your kind answer about mental health. I am faithful to our God and also have treatment resistant depression and a severe anxiety disorder. Both run in our family. I am blessed to have a wonderful doctor and therapist who stress mind and body care. I also thank God for the wisdom he gave to my doctor.
I hope you all receive the things I share in the neighborly spirit in which I'm sharing them. I do not view myself as an expert on any topic, nor do I feel that others should think or do things exactly as we do. We are each on our own journey doing as we feel God wants us to do and that might look very different from one family to the next. If you disagree with our methods, I trust that you will do what you think is right for your family without feeling the need to speak unkindly to us about our choices. Following are the times at which I answer each question as well as links for things I discuss in this video.
Do you do any knitting, crocheting or loom knitting? 1:36
What skirts do you wear and how do you stay warm wearing skirts in winter? 1:59
www.denimskirts.com
Why did you start UA-cam; did you have a plan/intentions? 4:57
Do you have any favorite UA-camrs to watch/recommend? 9:25
AFarmhouseFull: ua-cam.com/channels/xNKZ_TF8dwx-EGt8PplQMA.html
Ana White: ua-cam.com/channels/8oVoLGDj2spRfZfxgf54tw.html
Claire at Cookie Crumb Fun: ua-cam.com/channels/MgSFK6Zi2JhFM7ONBhP_zA.html
Jamerrill’s Large Family Table: ua-cam.com/channels/gBwzRfT-AhKvDpaM4R-XIg.html
Judah Mills: ua-cam.com/channels/68NIa-YGxjVGSsBooFcxTw.html
Just Sew Trish: ua-cam.com/channels/MpDNtYhxuxeP5ERg7t-_bA.html
Laura Shanley: ua-cam.com/channels/MqtxTYKQPFrFbYJZtUw9mA.html
Marie Forleo: ua-cam.com/channels/uoxrRDDgk3UUnxR4tlkJYQ.html
MrDonPreston: ua-cam.com/channels/CMCzZrSxKb9GRwWFW3i0kA.html
Parsnips and Parsimony: ua-cam.com/channels/OezF3hgN12i-Zi18u9XdXQ.html
There’s No Place Like Home: ua-cam.com/channels/ipU1LxRVB4fF7xgbtYuKFQ.html
Tom Mills: ua-cam.com/channels/UHkEsVnzzun0UfHTyF_LaQ.html
If you weren’t a mom/UA-camr, what career would you have chosen? 11:27
Have you had any formal art training? 15:03
Drawing with Children: www.amazon.com/Drawing-Children-Creative-Method-Beginners/dp/0874778271/
How do you keep from getting overwhelmed; how do you do it all? 15:53
Why do you wear matching clothes? 28:18
Matching Clothes Video: ua-cam.com/video/n52r0taoRIY/v-deo.html
Do your kids fight or get jealous? 28:28
How do you handle it when the kids fight and argue? 28:49
How do you deal with hormonal boys? 33:09
Do your kids have friends; how often do they see them? 34:20
Why do you homeschool? 36:11
Do you have to have certification to homeschool? 38:45
How do homeschoolers get into college? 39:40
Do homeschoolers buy their own curriculum & supplies? 40:10
Do you keep your own school records? 42:23
Do homeschoolers have to pass a state test to move on to the next grade? 43:23
What do the kids want to be when they grow up? 44:01
Do any of your kids sit and whine about their schoolwork... for an entire day? 45:36
Are you going to remodel the girls' room? 47:47
Will you add on to your house? 48:31
When do you start Christmas shopping? How many gifts do the kids get; are they separate or joint gifts? 50:17
Do you want to move to a larger house? 51:34
Can you share your fudge recipe? 53:08
Fudge Recipe: allrecipes.com/recipe/20298/homemade-yummy-fudge/
Do you still use your card-file menu planning system? 53:20
How many days a week do you do laundry? 53:33
How do you wash bras/delicates in your laundry system? 54:10
How does your family make a living? 54:30
Why don't you monetize your UA-cam channel? 56:24
What do you do when you can't pay off your credit card at the end of the month? 1:01:42
What religion are you? 1:03:01
How do you tithe since you home church? 1:03:31
Can you talk about your audio Bible? Also, what version is it? Why don't you like KJV? 1:05:21
Why do you celebrate Halloween? 1:08:10
Tom’s Halloween Video: ua-cam.com/video/wpqNhyAyWn0/v-deo.html
How do you make the hawthorn berry heart syrup? 1:12:48
Heart Syrup Video: ua-cam.com/video/IEOTiZSOR6k/v-deo.html
Hawthorn Heart Syrup Blog Post (Slightly different from Dr. Christopher's method): www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=13&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwibnvOg4ObXAhWnxYMKHWEWBdkQFghgMAw&url=https%3A%2F%2Fjoybileefarm.com%2Fhawthorn-syrup-heart-tonic%2F&usg=AOvVaw0kH8nLC7MDR4eP-wXlKXJg
My Tincture video: ua-cam.com/video/XRwXduXPlmQ/v-deo.html
Do you have a cold remedy? 1:13:45
Thyme: www.mountainroseherbs.com/products/thyme/profile
Umckaloabo: www.mountainroseherbs.com/products/umckaloabo-root/profile
What do you do about dental & optometry care? Do you do teeth cleanings? 1:16:01
Charcoal Powder: www.amazon.com/Activated-Charcoal-Rejuvenates-Detoxifies-Digestion/dp/B01AMBLL5Y/
Dental Herb Books:
Dental Herbalism: www.amazon.com/Dental-Herbalism-Natural-Therapies-Mouth/dp/1620551950/
Cure Tooth Decay: www.amazon.com/Cure-Tooth-Decay-Cavities-Nutrition/dp/1434810607/
(There are many, many more books on this topic.)
Home Hearing Test: www.amazon.com/Etymotic-Research-ER120-HHT-Home-Hearing/dp/B00IYTDDZI/
Do you vaccinate your children? 1:20:29
What are your thoughts on mental illness? 1:21:12
Andrea Mills Im glad you started it I have 6kids it helps
Andrea Mills
Andrea Mills we have recently grown to a family of 10 thru FosterCare and I found this so encouraging as I sometimes wonder how we will make this work. I'm choosing to trust Christ and I know He will provide
What did she say about mammograms?
@@YlvaBjarnsonA mammogram would not have found the type of cancer Andrea had.....
Watching older videos of Andrea because I am still in disbelief that she passed. Rest in Peace sweet Andrea.
Me too Joan, I'm just heart broken and still feel shell shocked. It's so comforting to still be able to see Andrea at her best, sharing her wisdom with such a big, loving heart. The World was a better place for her presence in it. Through these videos her testimony and much needed positive influence will continue indefinitely, that's such a legacy.
Me too. Just so heartbreaking. So wonderful her kids will be able to look back on these, and know how much she did for her family and how much she loved them all.
I always learn so much! A dear friend took her life in Feb of this year as her life had apparently become unbearable to her. She had bipolar. Never having lived with a mental illness I have zero clue what it's like. Over time i tried to be helpful to my friend. It cane to seem, to me, that she prefereed to wallow (using Andrea's word) in her irrational thoughts. For years I could share what the Bible says when her thoughts diverged from it, or point out facts in her life when the thoughts were in the face of reality, and it helped. Her husband told me she was so positive after time with me. In the last year or so she became quiet and it was hard to have a conversation with her. They had moved out of state 11 years ago and we had talked almost daily until she got quiet. I assumed she was busy and distracted as they were running a business. As usual Andrea's thoughtful answer regarding mental illness was sweet and loving and helpful. 🙂
Me too.
I just learned of her through other vloggers after her diagnosis, I so wish I had heard of her years ago. Praying for her sweet family
I am 21, i have no kids and no plans to have children in the near future, i am not religious and dont necessarily agree with all of your beliefs... yet i LOVE your videos and i respect the way you live your life and raise your children, and I just get the feeling that you truly respect the way others live their lives too, no matter how different your own beliefs are. Thank you for all that you do Andrea and the hard work that goes into this channel!
That's the epitome of being open minded and embracing of diversity. Good for you!
Andrea you are missed ❤re-watching some of these videos is like visiting an old friend for me - I know that’s the sentiment you wanted your channel to spread. Love that you brought 8 children into the world who will undoubtedly spread some Of your generous spirit around - be well Mills family! ❤
I am new to the channel because of Andrea's passing. So many have spoke highly of her. I now know how they feel. She was an amazing woman which God used to bless others, including me. I will watch more to glean the wisdom she was used to share. Thanking God for pointing me in this direction. Praying for the family at this time of great loss. much love and prayers..............Patti
Same here! You said it so well. 💓
Yes, same here. Totally agree with you
Southern Blessed Homestead, same here; she was a blessing and continues to be so. Rest In Peace sweet Andrea. Prayers to the Mills family.
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RIP Sweet Andrea, What a Treasure you Are to the World And GOD. I shall continue to pray for your Family through this difficult time. My mother has passed also.
I'm so sad over Andrea's death, but watching her videos I haven't seen and rewatching others brings me joy over what a wonderful sweet woman she was. This is certain a wonderful video for her family! Love to them all during this difficult time! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Andrea, a great Q & A . You are the only person on UA-cam who can hold my attention for an hour and 37 minutes!
May God Bless Andrea. Her life was cut too short and watching this video there were so many things she wanted to do. A very wise woman. Her words make so much sense and are comforting. I hope her daughters especially watch this video. Praying for all her children, Tom and family. (Can't help but cry while watching this) ❤❤❤❤
I’ve been watching you all since I was about 20, and I’ve never interacted, just enjoyed the content. I’ve made a lot of mental notes over the years of how I want to parent and the person I want to be, all stemming from Andrea. I’m 25 now and feeling a little lost in life, but listening to Andrea talk about priorities and not letting others’ priorities affect your own is really impactful. Just want everyone in the family to know that she is still making a difference with her thoughts and ideas, many years later ❤
I am binge watching Andrea’s videos. I wish I would have known her. She seems like an amazing woman and highly intelligent!!!!
You are a wise woman but I feel that your real gifting is your ability to communicate that wisdom in a way that is very comfortable for the hearer.
I totally agree 👍
I’ve been rewatching all of Andrea’s videos because I’m not ready to say goodbye yet. I always have had a special place in my heart for Andrea and her channel and always said she was one of my favorite youtubers if not my favorite UA-camr. I would love to say I thought of her as a friend. Today in this video I know God was speaking to me through this. The whole beginning part of this video- even though I have watched this video before just spoke to me in so many ways with so many things I am going through right now and the part where you talk about what you would’ve wanted 15 years ago is basically where I am now and God knew I needed this right now. Andrea has taught me so much before and even now that you are gone you are still teaching me and God is still using you and I know you will continue to teach. I am so glad God had you have make all these videos and even though I am heartbroken for your family and heartbroken myself that your not here, I rejoice knowing you are in heaven. I am so glad that you were here when you were and you gave us your wisdom and your friendship. Thank you Jesus for Andrea’s life and thank you Lord for all she has done and will continue to do. ❤️
You are one of the most genuine people I have ever "met". I love the confidence you have in yourself. It is so easy to get swayed by what others think of us, kudos to you for keeping true to yourself and what YOU believe.
I always come to watch Andrea and her videos whenever I’m needing a loving and familiar voice. She’s been the reason I’ve gotten through many rough nights. Thank you Andrea, for the help you continue to give. 💝
So thankful Tom is leaving these up. What a treasure.❤
It's 3 AM and here I am watching this video. It's exactly what I needed. Oh, how I miss you, Ms. Andrea, and your wisdom. I'm so thankful for this video and your honesty and the difference you've made in so many lives.
Just an observation, I grew up sharing a bedroom with 4 sisters, my brothers were 3 to a bedroom. We had a small living room and a large kitchen. Oh and 1 bath with a claw foot tub. No shower. We grew up happy and to this day return to that house for family get togethers! Living close can make happy healthy families! Perhaps living in large homes and never having to deal with getting along is part of our societal problems today....
It's always been comforting to watch your videos.
Still teaching... What a testimony! RIP
On the topic of mental health, I thought of something I'd like to add. In 1 Kings 19, the prophet Elijah had just escaped from having a "showdown" with the prophets of Baal. He was under so much distress that he prayed that God would kill him. God didn't chastise him for a lack of faith. (Clearly Elijah had plenty of faith; he'd just called down fire from Heaven!) Instead, God sent an angel to bring Elijah bread and water. The angel told Elijah the journey had been too much for him and that he had to get up and nourish himself. Once Elijah ate and drank, his strength returned and he was able to keep going.
Thank you for mentioning that. I actually think a lot about that story when I'm having bad times and it does have a really powerful message. I hope others will be able to take encouragement from it as well.
Thank you also for your very thoughtful comments on mental illness in general. I agree with much of what you said and disagree on a couple of small points, but most of all I sincerely appreciate the time and thought you put into sharing your opinions on the subject. As I so often say, I'd dearly love the opportunity to have an actual conversation with you about this (but of course this isn't the place for it). I love the way you think about things and listening to you always inspires and encourages me. Thank you so much for everything. You are the coolest. :-)
Andrea Mills love this.
Andrea Mills thank you. These words give me great comfort in my personal situation. My fear is leaving my children behind,(because of my terminal cancer).Hearing that you were able to carry on after your mother’s passing , and still have happiness in your life. Allows me to believe that when it is my time to leave them, they’ll find solace from angels that walk among us. Your suggestion of walking through the scenario at its worst, is something I’m going sit down and speak with my two children about. Although they tend to want to avoid the topic of death, and the fact that I’m dying. I think that if I make it a habit of continually bringing up the topic. Even though they’re scared or uncomfortable , perhaps it’ll make the real event just a bit easier! I’ve been struggling with what the best way to deal with this is. Your words have really helped thank you.
Your friend,
Jennifer
how is this story about mental health?
I can see how that would be unclear given only the brief recounting here. There's a fair bit of evidence in the Bible that Elijah often dealt with emotional distress and sadness, partly just because it was his nature and partly because he had a lot of enemies trying to harm him. On this occasion, he was distressed because (1) he had been through a string of other difficult situations leading up to this, (2) the spiritual battle against the pagan prophets took a lot out of Elijah, and (3) the queen (who hated him vehemently) had just sent a message saying that she was determined to kill him within 24 hours.
So Elijah gave up. He literally said to God (basically), "That's it. I'm done. I'm begging you, just kill me now." But God knew that Elijah still had a lot of strength left in him. He was just exhausted and worn down and needed to be, as Andrea so aptly put it, replenished. So God made him eat and drink and rest, and then he powerfully reminded Elijah that his strength ultimately came from him, and after that Elijah was able to carry on and do what needed to be done.
God knew that, before Elijah could even listen effectively, he needed rest and nourishment to allow his body to keep up with what his spirit needed to accomplish. The same is true for all of us. God created our bodies to be efficient containers for our spirits while we're here on earth, but he designed them to be fueled by good food and good rest, and it's up to us to make those things happen. It's a huge part of staying physically AND emotionally healthy.
As someone struggling a lot with anxiety at the moment, I really appreciate what you say about mental health and I feel it to be true for me. Thank you for your perspective.
Can I just say that you are one of the most knowledgeable people I know! I found your ideas on mental health so interesting and a lot of what you suggested was very similar to cognitive behavioral thearapy (CBT) and retraining your mind how to better cope with specific stressors or challenges. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and helpful advice.
the way she saw things is so different and always made you think.. She is surly missed!!
So much wisdom. Forever thankful for Andrea making these videos.
Hey Andrea! I never comment on videos, but I just think you ought to know that I absolutely love your sweet personality. You are such a blessing and encouragement to me. Thank you for taking the time to make videos like this, they are perfect to listen to while I do work around the house. Please keep up the good work and thank you so much for all that you do! :)
These videos mean so much more now than they did years ago!! Even if i don't agree with some of the things she did I'm just in awe of her kindness, intelligence, thoughtfulness, openness and most important how she lived wanting to help but being proud & unapologetic for her life choices. I miss you Andrea❤
I enjoyed spending time with you today too. If more people felt like you do, the world would be a better place to live in. Thank you. :) Carla
You are wise beyond your years and I love listening to you talk! Thank you so much for sharing your time.
Andrea, I love how respectful you are to everyone. While there are a couple of things I don't personally agree with, I feel we could easily agree to disagree. I agree that Mental Illnesses are NOT from a lack of faith. There is a reason people have to deal with it, there is a lesson from it. Heavenly Father has a plan for it. Thank you so much for all you do!!
This woman was born to be a wife and mother. She surely did a wonderful job at both. What a sweet soul.
Gosh I miss you. What a contribution you made for so many people on UA-cam.
I've finally finished watching this Q & A... took me 3 sessions. ha ha. I can't even express how much wisdom I receive through Andrea. We are not homeschooling anymore, but when we did, I would find people's assumptions and thoughts against it so so frustrating. Although i decided to homeschool solely because I felt lead by the Lord to do so, Andrea's explanation really does resinate with me so strongly.. the whole family dynamic... educate my children etc etc. So much else within this vlog is going to be helpful to others for who knows how many years to come... Such a legacy she has left... it's truly amazing.
Can make something like a morning routine or evening routine. For me it would be really interesting how it is with 10 people home schooled in the small house.
I second this!! Please do this Andrea!!
She was a beautiful woman, inside and out! I absolutely love watching her videos. We had 9 children ourselves, from ages 15 to an infant, 5 boys and 4 girls. They are now ages 53 to 38. I would have loved to have seen her videos then! My heart breaks for this family. They seem to be coming along, though. But it cannot be easy for any of them.
Can I just say .... I love you!!!
You have awesome thoughts and awesome things to lend to us - so, so helpful! Thank you !
Prayers for the family .... Thank u for sharing Andrea with the world. Blessings
"it doesnt matter if their life is interesting or not its just comforting to spend time with them" thats exactly how i feel watching yalls vlogs. im not in the best place in my life right now and when you upload a new video it always makes me happy.
video's like this are going to be such a treasure to her children as time goes on without their mama
Andrea, I really enjoyed this. Thank you for being so open and sharing your life with us.
She was adorable. Such a kind loving caring gentle lady. Rest in peace lovely 🙏💜
So nice of you to take so much time with this...sharing how we can skip questions that may not catch our interest.😊
Esther S When UA-camrs take the time to do that, I always feel that it conveys a sense of respect for their viewers time.
What a precious young lady to have left this world so soon. I didn't know you personally but you are missed by many and loved by more. Rest in peace sweet angel.
And I’m so glad you did, you taught me so much and you have no idea what it means❤️❤️
Yay!Andrea! You're the calm in my stormy day. I also see you as the Proverbs woman,tough shoes to fill but,you do it effortlessly!😘😉
Andrea was such a lovely person. Even though I don't agree with all of her ways/ideas, I totally see what an amazing mother she was and a truly good and kindhearted person.
It is so enjoyable watching You, Tom and your sweet children. I raised 5 children myself as I lost my husband to Cancer at a young age. I have to say that I love how you are able to give individual attention to your children. I know how hard it is when you have many children close together as I also did. I wish I had your videos to watch and learn from when I was younger. Have a wonderful Christmas and I look forward to watching the video how Tom wraps your gift!
I enjoy going back and rewatching Andrea’s videos. I still have a hard time with her not being here on Earth. She loved you and your family so much. Hugs from Texas.
Gosh, I can't help but wonder why such a phenomenal woman was taken so soon... Bless your beautiful heart Andrea may you watch over and guide your precious family, you were a special and honorable woman ♡♡♡
I have been watching these old videos all day. I hate that I didn't find her channel before she died. But I'm so thankful for these videos. The more I watch her, the more wisdom I gain. She was just such a beautiful woman. I keep tearing up listening to her, but she just speaks so beautifully and just makes you feel so much better. Her legacy lives on, and I'm still praying hard for Tom and her children. I know they are such a beautiful family and I pray God gives them the strength to get through. Lots of hugs to you guys, Tom. I wish we lived closer. My kids have wanted to reach out this past week so many times. My little ones wanted me to tell you, they are so sorry and they pray for you all every night! 💕💕🙏 - Raylynn
Same, I've been watching her videos and never knew of her before her diagnosis, another vlogger mentioned praying for her and her family
What a wonderful soul ...I could listen to her all day long ...so much knowledge... I learn so much!!
What a big lost for your family.I pray that God give strenght to your kid and Tom
Spending Time with my precious friend, tears one by one dripping down my cheeks.
MaryTheRead I’m getting to know her:) I had only seen her boys room video before she passed, but now I want to watch all of her videos.
Andrea, you are glowing! Pregnancy becomes you AND you are so so beautiful! :)
I have said it before but I just love your family,, I love how you stay true to your convictions with no apologies,, amazing how some do think that everyone has to live their life according the way they think one should.. this world is beautiful because we all are so unique and have our own thoughts and ways of dong things,, thank you so much for sharing your family with us,, and I agree with another poster,, you are absolutely glowing.
I've learned so much about homeschooling, organization and herbal remedies from you that I now implement into my life. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge!😊
She is so refreshing. So sad she passed away. Enjoyed listening, and gained many insights.
I loved this video!! You are a great Mom and have a beautiful family. I really agree with your perspective about arguing and people being too assertive with their opinion. We are only responsible for ourselves and how we react. I think you have so much wisdom to share with other Christian women!
Andrea you are such a blessing to this world. Love your family, do not worry about doing so many videos , we know all you do, that is why we are always amazed, if you where doing everything that everyone done nobody would be interested , I love watching your channel as it is how life should be. You help everybody whether you know it or not.❤️🙏🏽🙏
I am sure we disagree on a great many topics (I’m agnostic and a licensed public school teacher for starters lol), but I’ve never understood the harping on of people who hold different views (or are just judgmental). Take what serves you and leave the rest, it’s not hard! Your organization and recipe videos are right up my alley (we’re loving the revolving menu!) I am sorry you have faced unkindness from a small group. Know that you are supported and appreciated by many, even those who do not live/believe the same as you do.
All I can say is thank you for being who you are and the example you have set for me. I have used so many of your practical homemaking skills and tools in my own home and jt just made such a difference. You are truly being used by the Lord and I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again if you haven’t touched anybody else’s heart and life you’ve touched mine tremendously!💕💕💕💕💕
"God training you to be the person he wants you to be". Andrea said about grief and trials. Thanks, Andrea.
Thank you for sharing your life and family with us! Blessings to you! ❤️
The only reason I want you to monintize is so you can add on your family room.
To pay off his house so that burden will not be there and the children will still be provided for.
You are wise beyond your years. I often have a different point of view than you but you make me think. Thank you for that. I truly consider you a friend thousands of miles away. Sending love to you and your family!
I'm only 25 minutes into the video, but I just wanted to say, Andrea, that you have so much wisdom- thank you for sharing it! I especially like what you are saying is that no matter where you work, everyone is going to have bad days, and it's not a direct reflection of YOU. I really need to remember that!
What a gorgeous human being! R.I.P.
I love you Andrea , I will dearly miss all your advice and views on this crazy life 💕❤️ you were one of the best . Your children and husband are so lucky to have had you. You have taught me so much about motherhood and life.
The answer to How do you keep from getting overwhelmed, is sooooooo good!!!
"How do you handle your kids fighting" - Andrea, you make me feel so normal, lol. And here I thought I was "ruining" my kids by telling them to stop acting like a jerk and to move along. I love how real you are :D
Oh, and thanks for answering my question as well :)
I am so thankful you have started your channel! I feel if we lived closer we would be great friends! Even though we our views don’t always match up, your willingness to “teach” me a different way of looking at something without pressure is refreshing! Though our core values are very similar. I’m just again thankful for you putting in your free time to run and post great content.
I love your channel. It is refreshing to see large family homeschoolers. You are always and encouragement to me. We are pregnant with baby number 7 ages 13-1. I have learned a lot from you. Thanks for all your hard work.
The very thing she said that she would like to be a life coach. She was and continues being by these videos that she has shared. Love this video - the advice of little steps also you can't do it all. Didn't find this channel until after her death. Would have loved to have known her. But I think it's in God's timing coming accross this channel when I did. Season in my life. Still praying for the family.
I've just come out of hospital after a total knee replacement, and am feeling so overwhelmed, and watching you video has been so helpful thank you so much. I'm just taking it one step at a time. My visit with you today has been amazing. God bless you and your family love poppy xxxx
I hope you're mending well!
48:32 Tom, Andrea mentioned in the video about adding onto the house. Have you considered walling in the front porch? There is already a roof and it wouldn't cost too much to add walls and it would add extend the living room. I'm sure you could get volunteers to help you with the construction.
Great video. It took me three days of watching a few minutes here and there to get through it...but I didn't want to miss any of it! I really appreciate you sharing your well articulated thoughts. I am often asked similar questions so it was helpful to hear your answers! Getting wisdom from other large family moms is the very reason I came to UA-cam in the first place
So wish I could have gotten to meet Andrea. I would have really enjoyed talking with her more about all this. You are doing a great job Tom caring for the kids!- Sara Athey
Missing you and your videos 😔. You were so kind and helpful to so many of us, this world lost one of the sweetest, most honorable, informative person there is. RIP Andrea
I wear knee length skirts year around in Alberta, Canada and people look at me funny but I find that I am warmer with my skirt and nylons than I am when I wear jeans. I prefer to wear skirts and for the 30 seconds a day that I am outside it really doesn't hurt me. I keep blankets and such in my car in case I am in an accident but that should be standard no matter what a person wears.
I sometimes come back and watch old videos. Andrea you are missed. ❤️
I randomly stumbled upon your channel and have learned quite a bit from you! Thank you for sharing your family. I skipped around during this Q&A video, and while I don't share your beliefs on a variety of topics, I appreciate your honesty. I particularly appreciated your reasoning for not monetizing your channel. That's very admirable of you! But, I am sure if you choose to monetize your channel at some point, your viewers would be very accepting of that choice.
I have been watching some of Andrea video's just can't take in that she is gone! What a Beautiful Wonderful Amazing Lady she will always be remembered !!! My prayers are with you Tom and the family! Gods Blessings!! Hugs To You All...
I always enjoy your videos. Thank you for taking the time to help & encourage others.
I think I've said something to this effect before but as someone who deals with chronic illness I love your family and your content. It makes me feel a bit like I have a more manageable life because I can go on trips with you and your kids places or just hang out on a normal school day and laugh at the antics. I'm not a religious person, and I'm not at all into gardens or anything but I literally watch every video regardless of subject matter because you, Tom, and your gorgeous children inject so much light and life into what can be a lot to deal with sometimes and you guys feel like very good friends of mine at this point (I think roughly a year and a half on for me watching?) . Thank you for this channel Andrea, and if you'd pass that on to Tom, and Judah for their channels too I'd appreciate it.
The first time I remember you commenting was way back on our fall clothes haul video last year; you laughed about what it must've been like for Solomon having his brothers share opinions on what underwear he should keep. I was so surprised to have you comment as you - being a single, childless man - were so far from the type of person I thought would be watching our videos. I truly appreciate all that you add to our little corner of UA-cam; we always refer to you as the guy with the sideways face . :) Tom also sends his thanks for your friendship.
Andrea Mills I think it is partially that I grew up in a bigish family, and much like Asher like kids a lot but I was always the youngest in my family that spent much time around me til I got a lot older and started having nieces and nephews to see, and I've always been rather domestic so your organization videos and things are fun for me. Either way you and your family are something I'm intensely grateful for. :)
She was one of the most amazing women, dedicated wife and mother with so many talents and so organized.
This is good. I do see that the Mills Channel carries such sincere and genuine reality ... not a script... and that draws me.
She had the prettiest big eyes, so pretty, all her children r just beautiful, that little Hanna has her eyes so cute
I love Ana White! I've been watching them since the beginning of the construction of their home....they're an AWESOME family and incredibly knowledgeable. Most important they are such a loving family. And she's pregnant again! I bet you two will have your babies very close to each other!
I am so sorry for the loss of your Andrea and baby boy it is so sad ,I have been watching your videos she was an amazing person ,mother. and wife she really has set you up for everyday things that you will be doing she will guide you through everything Tom prayers for you and your children❤❤❤
What an amazing testimony Andrea has shared with us in this video thank you JESUS! 🙏❤🙂💯
She might not have been able to write her books but she definitely left her work with these videos!
I so love watching your videos. I think people dont understand what strong values are as much anymore. I am sorry that people give you a hard time. They just dont get it. I do love the time and info you share. Thank you!
So relatable about what you'd be if you weren't a mom. All I've ever wanted to be was a mom. I'm loving life as a SAHM to a 4 month old and I'm excited for more children.
I am so sorry to have missed out on knowing Andrea. I love how she says she made her channel to be a friend so sweet and genuine. RIP sweet angel
what you were saying about acknowledging how you feel when you are having a bad day stood out to me. thats exactly the personal tools that i have been learning from my councilling :) you speak the truth! x
Thank you for doing this channel, your videos are so friendly and I feel that we are friends, so I guess I should be more friendly too and comment more often! These Q&A videos are the best because I always learn so much from your wisdom! I could go on and on about this one, but I don't have that much time right now.... I do want to say that we are one of the school at home families you mentioned, and our experience has been nothing like what you described (thankfully). We live in Wisconsin and use the Virtual Ed program offered by our local public school. The school provides a laptop and buys our curriculum, but I get to pick it out and set our schedule and teach it. We do have a teacher who keeps in touch with us, but it's very minimal. The kids also get to attend classes as we choose... my older one goes to band now and the other may choose to go next year. This is something I could not provide for her, so I've always felt that it was the BEST of both worlds. I'm sure other families have had different experiences, but I wanted you (and others) to know that our experience was much better than what you'd described here. Those who are thinking about schooling at home through their school district should talk to families in their area to see what it's like where they are. If they don't know anyone, ask the local librarians for a contact recommendation. One more thing, about Halloween I like to say, it's the most neighborly thing that happens all year... at no other time are you expected or invited to go to people's houses, knock on their door and be given candy. Big blessings to all the Mills!
I have never really thought of homeschool the way that you have explained it, but you have really gave me some interesting points that I have even thought of! I went to private school all of my life, and I often times would call my teacher, mom just on accident! I think that is because you spend more time at school with your teacher than at home with your mom and family. But thank you for all of your amazing insight, you are amazing!
You are a light to the world, Andrea!
Hi Andrea, Thank you, thank you, thank you ! You are such a blessing to me. I enjoyed every minute of this Q & A especially the discussion on mental illness. I suffer from anxiety and depression and I am learning how important it is to change your attitude(or thought processes) to open new pathways to positive thought. It's funny because every time you say "I don't know if any of this is making any sense", because it's at those times, in my opinion you are making perfect sense. I like too how you acknowledge the boys puberty caused angst and you explain to them that they need to rest and that those feelings won't last forever. My Aunt Esther you to have a saying that I quote to myself quite often. It's 'this too shall pass".
So thanks again dear Andrea for all these friendship talks, I really enjoy them.
P.S. I wish I would have known about the progesterone creme 30 years ago, maybe we'd have gotten pregnant and had children. Which we wanted so desperately. So please continue to spread the message. Maybe it will save other women the heartbreak of not having children.May God bless you all.
Thank you for your kind answer about mental health. I am faithful to our God and also have treatment resistant depression and a severe anxiety disorder. Both run in our family. I am blessed to have a wonderful doctor and therapist who stress mind and body care. I also thank God for the wisdom he gave to my doctor.