Girl …. 16:29 I’m crying…. I have not heard one thing that was wrong…. I have been STUGGLING so bad with wanting to be me unapologetically and really speak out on my mental health and how it affects me but at the same time I want to fit in and not look even more mental .. ugh caring what people think, people pleasing…. I was crying this boring morning feeling so overwhelmed and depressed because no matter how bad I try or how many videos I make , I never upload…. Why am I waiting for permission or validation …. I never really believed in this stuff but you have me in tears…….. I needed this…. I just hope I can start to put action behind it
Wow - I found this at just the right time. Have been deep diving to understand this placement in my chart for the longest and you saying "how to break free from what other people think" resonates!! It's in Libra so it is a challenge!
Super relatable. It’s nice to hear but also hard to hear. I so much want to have deep fulfilling connections and have a large group of friends but at the same time I feel super uncomfortable and insecure talking to most people. I struggle really hard to enjoy being in groups as much as i idealistically want to be in them. This has made me feel like something must be extremely wrong with me so it’s nice to hear there’s a reason for this
Hey I could recommend something for this, like a little psychology trick, before you talk to anyone, (especially someone new) assume that, they already know you, and especially if you would like to talk to them and be friends, assume that, they would like to be your friend first, and they have a positive impression of you, and visualize them telling you, “I always always wanted to be friends with you. “ I think assuming that within, could help you be more yourself around people and keep the conversation going, Bc, for the most of The time what makes us feel insecure or uncomfortable around other people is that we unconsciously assume that they don’t like us, or that we would bore them, so, why not assume the opposite and empower ourselves? I mean it worked for me!
That was a really diffrent and accurate take! Do you also think that, as a result of personal transformations, outgrowing most of the friend groups throughout life, as if the friends are the reflection of the transformation in an individuals life who has pluto in the 11th house? personally speaking as a scorpio with this placement, after a while i want to disconnect with my current friends and connect with new ones that im more aligned with based on the version of me that im becoming? as if old friends keep me stuck from expending because im changing( or evolving) so much.
simply putten, maybe a pluto in 10th house person changes careers or jobs everytime they go through a transformatitive time in their lives and while becoming different versions of themselves, where the pluto in 11th house person gets their friend groups go under transformation everytime they transform as a person?
I struggle to be around others, unless they are involved in culture, arts, or something out of the box. It makes me extremely uncomfortable and irritated being around conventional people or groups. I just feel everyone is brainwashed and I feel always too seen in those groups. Like a pink elephant in a living room. Everyone puts their eyes on me and it makes me so so uncomfortable! I hate it! Also.. in groups that I’ve been.. I’ve been for a while, got some specific friends from those groups and then felt I had to separate from the rest. I hate group dynamics, gossip, or seeing the inner workings of the group.. like who plays which role in it. Maybe it’s my own limitation there.. I just see too much. I’m a female and I feel more comfortable around male groups. True about ending being in plutonic and platonic relationships with male friends in groups. Many people i I introduced them and then I was left out of the group while they remained friends!😅 I prefer one-one relationships , feel more comfortable. But I crave a small nice group of smart, creative and powerful ( in a good way ) group . Also as a kid I remember taking a note note book and walk around in my school asking people who wanted to be part of my club! 😂 no idea what was the club about.. but I would tell other kids they would have privileges being part of my club. I was 6, 7 ys old . Lol
Girl …. 16:29 I’m crying…. I have not heard one thing that was wrong…. I have been STUGGLING so bad with wanting to be me unapologetically and really speak out on my mental health and how it affects me but at the same time I want to fit in and not look even more mental .. ugh caring what people think, people pleasing…. I was crying this boring morning feeling so overwhelmed and depressed because no matter how bad I try or how many videos I make , I never upload…. Why am I waiting for permission or validation …. I never really believed in this stuff but you have me in tears…….. I needed this…. I just hope I can start to put action behind it
I've been trying to find info on Pluto in 11th all over and this is the first time it's really clicked. Thank you so much for making this video!
You are an ANGEL. This resolved what years of therapy couldn't
Comments like this are my favorite!
My nephew has this placement, and he is running in the French Olympics, starting this month.
Thank you 😊
Wow - I found this at just the right time. Have been deep diving to understand this placement in my chart for the longest and you saying "how to break free from what other people think" resonates!! It's in Libra so it is a challenge!
LOVE how you simplified and delivered this information. Highly relatable. Thanks 🙏🏽❤️🫂
Super relatable. It’s nice to hear but also hard to hear. I so much want to have deep fulfilling connections and have a large group of friends but at the same time I feel super uncomfortable and insecure talking to most people. I struggle really hard to enjoy being in groups as much as i idealistically want to be in them. This has made me feel like something must be extremely wrong with me so it’s nice to hear there’s a reason for this
Hey I could recommend something for this, like a little psychology trick, before you talk to anyone, (especially someone new) assume that, they already know you, and especially if you would like to talk to them and be friends, assume that, they would like to be your friend first, and they have a positive impression of you, and visualize them telling you, “I always always wanted to be friends with you. “ I think assuming that within, could help you be more yourself around people and keep the conversation going, Bc, for the most of The time what makes us feel insecure or uncomfortable around other people is that we unconsciously assume that they don’t like us, or that we would bore them, so, why not assume the opposite and empower ourselves? I mean it worked for me!
Alright!!! 🙏🏾 This the one I’ve been waiting for 😋😩😂
What a beautiful interpretation! Thank you! Well done!
My favorite video on pluto in 11th! Thank you❤
Thanx, I have Pluto in the 11th house about 5 degrees away from Uranus in the 11th house
That was a really diffrent and accurate take! Do you also think that, as a result of personal transformations, outgrowing most of the friend groups throughout life, as if the friends are the reflection of the transformation in an individuals life who has pluto in the 11th house? personally speaking as a scorpio with this placement, after a while i want to disconnect with my current friends and connect with new ones that im more aligned with based on the version of me that im becoming? as if old friends keep me stuck from expending because im changing( or evolving) so much.
simply putten, maybe a pluto in 10th house person changes careers or jobs everytime they go through a transformatitive time in their lives and while becoming different versions of themselves, where the pluto in 11th house person gets their friend groups go under transformation everytime they transform as a person?
Cary
Scorp sun also with this placement
I too keep transforming and leave with love and on and on
Think you are definitely onto something!!
Thank you so much, this really hit home.
Thank You! Nicely done! This is very helpful.
This was amazing,you have brought me so much understanding of myself!!! Thank you I’m happy I found you!!
Welcome to the channel!
thank you! I like the way you present and giving history keep making videos ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much! 🙏🏻
I struggle to be around others, unless they are involved in culture, arts, or something out of the box.
It makes me extremely uncomfortable and irritated being around conventional people or groups. I just feel everyone is brainwashed and I feel always too seen in those groups. Like a pink elephant in a living room. Everyone puts their eyes on me and it makes me so so uncomfortable! I hate it!
Also.. in groups that I’ve been.. I’ve been for a while, got some specific friends from those groups and then felt I had to separate from the rest.
I hate group dynamics, gossip, or seeing the inner workings of the group.. like who plays which role in it. Maybe it’s my own limitation there.. I just see too much. I’m a female and I feel more comfortable around male groups.
True about ending being in plutonic and platonic relationships with male friends in groups. Many people i I introduced them and then I was left out of the group while they remained friends!😅
I prefer one-one relationships , feel more comfortable. But I crave a small nice group of smart, creative and powerful ( in a good way ) group .
Also as a kid I remember taking a note note book and walk around in my school asking people who wanted to be part of my club! 😂 no idea what was the club about.. but I would tell other kids they would have privileges being part of my club. I was 6, 7 ys old . Lol
''unless they are involved in culture, arts, or something out of the box'' maybe thats the key
So funny about the kid club , I used to do the same at that age ! 🤣
16:25 LITERALLY just 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks for following the right sequence. Actually, I am eating pomegranate while listening to this video
LOLOL not too many of those seeds!
Thank you 💖
Thankyou so much!
You're welcome!