I'm so glad i'm not the only one who believes the husband comes before the kids and God before the Husband. The kids will leave and it's going to be just you and the spouse.
@@divinechosenlife If I remember correctly my pastor said if the man says it's ok then go ahead. He is the "head" after all. They're are some things I have to remember to do for my husband first. I'm learning as well. 😊
Wonderful video! My husband and I just celebrated 30 years of marriage. Happy Anniversary Ashley!! May God bless you and your husband with many wonderful years of love and commitment!❤️
Ashley did a great job of speaking upon the importance of working together. A marriage is a union, a bond. Unfortunately men do not perceive marriage as women do. Men see marriage as having a woman in the house to take care of them and the house. Women see marriage as having a protector, lover, investor. It's not the same reality and this is why many marriages fail.
This was such a good video. I am not married or am I talking to anyone but I will share it with married friends and friends working towards marriage. I love your look today! God bless!
Wishing you two a Happy Belated Anniversary🎉🎉 & many more.. Preparing to be married: 7 yrs together 8/24/19 (almost forgot🤦). Thank you for this advice (do not sweat the small stuff, needed to hear this). Actually all 5 I welcome & receive these tips. Thank you..
I'm still struggling with number 2 😅 but now that I've overcome postpartum anxiety things will change. I couldn't go anywhere without my son and always felt like something really bad will happen to him or me.
A single male friend of mine and I were discussing gender/marital roles. He believes that his wife should pay 50% of the household bills and take care of 75% of the duties at home including children related duties. I don't think this is fair. What are your thoughts?
Let's be clear marriage will never be 50/50 . Now in regards to the bills a woman should pay the smaller bills. The man is to be respected, so he should pay the rent. If he is a Father, he should be able to change Pampers and boil water, lol. When the mother is sick, the father should not be afraid, he should be able to step up and get the job done.
Don't let this "man" fool you, it's quite obvious that this is an unfair deal. He just choses to act stupid and not see the obvious cuz he's selfish (and hence immature). Just ask him if he'd be willing to start a business with a business partner that expects him to carry 50% of the investment and operational costs but wants him to work on their business for free 75% of the time meanwhile his partner would only work for free 25% of the time. Let's see how quick that will make him smartening up where he'll "suddenly" see the unfairness! lol
Wow! "When you're married, you create your own story... Your relationship is up to you." So powerful!
I'm so glad i'm not the only one who believes the husband comes before the kids and God before the Husband. The kids will leave and it's going to be just you and the spouse.
I agree on this as well ...but I wonder what should you do in a situation like this when the spouse thinks the kids come first?
@@divinechosenlife If I remember correctly my pastor said if the man says it's ok then go ahead. He is the "head" after all. They're are some things I have to remember to do for my husband first. I'm learning as well. 😊
I was thinking if it's the man that feels like the kids come first
@@divinechosenlife Ok. Well yes I would think that changes the situation.
This was a great video! I’m getting married in 4 months and I will definitely keep these in mind 👏🏾
God has been talking to me about marriage all day. I met a guy, but I'm waiting for a yes or no from God.
Elegant Anne take your time and work on any insecurities you have. BUT, Take the risk thoroughly.
Wonderful video!
My husband and I just celebrated 30 years of marriage.
Happy Anniversary Ashley!! May God bless you and your husband with many wonderful years of love and commitment!❤️
What I first observed is that this video is literally 8:02, that’s awesome!! God bless you both and Happy 5 years of marriage.
I’m not married yet, but this is great advice 💜
Ashley did a great job of speaking upon the importance of working together. A marriage is a union, a bond. Unfortunately men do not perceive marriage as women do. Men see marriage as having a woman in the house to take care of them and the house. Women see marriage as having a protector, lover, investor. It's not the same reality and this is why many marriages fail.
Can you do a video on breaking generational curses and discernment on what you need to cover in prayer?
Don't sweat the small stuff.. I really needed to be reminded of that. Thank you
This was such a good video. I am not married or am I talking to anyone but I will share it with married friends and friends working towards marriage. I love your look today! God bless!
Ashley you look Gorgeous and your skin is flawless and happy Anniversary to you both.
I love that making goals together each year. I'm definitely implementing this to my marriage 🤗. Thanks for sharing!!
Me too
Wishing you two a Happy Belated Anniversary🎉🎉 & many more.. Preparing to be married: 7 yrs together 8/24/19 (almost forgot🤦). Thank you for this advice (do not sweat the small stuff, needed to hear this). Actually all 5 I welcome & receive these tips. Thank you..
Hi great, points. Thank you for the teaching. It is also inspiring. 😃.
You are very wise. Stay blessed🙌🏾
This was very helpful Ashley! I appreciate you for making these videos💖💗💕💓
It would be great to hear more on the last point you made 😊
I really appreciate this video Ashley. I’m engaged and this is so insightful. Thanks sis 💕💚💕
God bless you sis! ❤
Ashley thank you for your wise words. You fully explored the idea of marriage and why it is important to have goals and to work together as one!.
I just learn something new for me as a wife and mommy thank you😃
This was amazing Ashley!!!
Great video. Happy Anniversary. Has 8:02 been out for 5 years?
I'm still struggling with number 2 😅 but now that I've overcome postpartum anxiety things will change. I couldn't go anywhere without my son and always felt like something really bad will happen to him or me.
Great video.
Love this Ashley!
A single male friend of mine and I were discussing gender/marital roles. He believes that his wife should pay 50% of the household bills and take care of 75% of the duties at home including children related duties. I don't think this is fair. What are your thoughts?
Let's be clear marriage will never be 50/50 . Now in regards to the bills a woman should pay the smaller bills. The man is to be respected, so he should pay the rent. If he is a Father, he should be able to change Pampers and boil water, lol. When the mother is sick, the father should not be afraid, he should be able to step up and get the job done.
Don't let this "man" fool you, it's quite obvious that this is an unfair deal. He just choses to act stupid and not see the obvious cuz he's selfish (and hence immature). Just ask him if he'd be willing to start a business with a business partner that expects him to carry 50% of the investment and operational costs but wants him to work on their business for free 75% of the time meanwhile his partner would only work for free 25% of the time. Let's see how quick that will make him smartening up where he'll "suddenly" see the unfairness! lol
That man taking drugs
Bernadette Jackson good thing he’s your friend and not your husband
Thank you so much
Please help in pointing out the small stuff, otherwise i love this video 😊😊😊 thanks Ashley ♥️♥️
Happy Anniversary
You forgot to mention YOU are top priority before husband and kids
Is the program only for women who are married?
Love that top.!
Wow..the high earning housewife is expensive when converted to my currency. :(
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